The truth behind how ORTHODOX JEWS Date! OUR STORY
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- čas přidán 7. 08. 2024
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“How Orthodox Hassidic Jews really date!?”
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I have many Jewish friends here in The Netherlands and even though I am agnostic, I have nothing but respect for Judaism and its traditions. As an Iranian, it is worth noting that Iran has a very rich Jewish culture as well. You will find many Iranians both abroad and in Iran who have nothing but respect and love for Israel and Judaism and its traditions. All the best! 🥂
What a handsome man and beautiful woman. Both inside and out. Love your smiles, laughter, and positive outlook on life. Many of your traditions make a lot of sense.
I was blessed to have met my husband when I was 16. The moment I saw him, I knew G-d meant us for each other. We married at 19. We've been married 20 years.
Awww that’s the best ❤️❤️❤️
Hi there ygm. Hi tyrf
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I'm a muslim. I'm curious why you guys can't write the word 'GOD'?
@@wasifkareem6441
My best guess:
Being orthodox is being stringent, so they do their best not to trespass gods law.
One being do not take his name in vain
Thats why they also say Hashem lit. "the name" instead of the "four letters".
Or using q instead of h, saying Eloqim when not praying. The equivalent would be to say Allaq instead of Allah.
“Make sure the person brings out the best in you.” So true. Beautiful.
Exactly it’s a fundamental
I just found your channel, and it’s needed big time. With the ongoing situations around the world it’s nice to see two people so positive…. Shana Tova! Here’s to a sweet and healthy year to come
Thank you!! Amen! Shana Tova to you too!! And may you too have a happy healthy sweet new year! 😊 May you have only positivity and happiness in your life and may the world be filled with only positive and good things for all!
I have to say I can feel the chemistry, commitment and love between you. Love that you are young and a great example for your piers, and younger generations.
I just discovered your channel. As a chabad women it's nice to see relatable content on the internet. Thank you for making these videos.
Thank you! Appreciate it ☺️
Saying this with the utmost respect and no inappropriate intent, but you are both very beautiful people inside and out. Your chemistry is beautiful and I love your devotion to G_d in everything you guys do. (From an outsiders view). Your content is lovely and the world could use more of this wholesome content !!
That’s a beautiful message thank you so much! ❤️ G-D bless you!
why can't you write 'GOD'?
To love and Be loved this is my goal....I can see it in your relationship. Hashem always can make it.on the Torah we can see, G-d did it...Be-Reshit 24. Trust in Hashem my future,
The girl needs modesty training.
Badly.
@wasifkareem6441 The reason we don't write g-d is let's say if its written on a book it might be thrown or erased and it's forbidden
"Well, you wanna marry someone you gotta date them 🤣" you guys are so funny together! That is some wonderful patience. I also just subscribed too.
🙈☺️ Thank g-d, I have a very patient and understanding husband!! ♥️♥️
Thank you for subscribing- looking forward to seeing you around on the comment section!
You are both so loving, sincere, respectful and with great kindness and joy between you!! All of the most important ingredients to make a successful marriage and life together. I so very much believe in your principles and wish young people and the not so young people would take heed and learn before jumping into something with the "let us see where this is going" attitude and the thinking that you learn as you go along. If people are of the same mind from the beginning and the soul plate is the same - it helps so very much.
❤️🙏
Y'all are such a cute couple! Love your vibe. It's so funny how your dating time was spread over so many countries!
Thank you! ☺️ That’s what happens when you both love to travel and are quite international! 😂
Mazal tov! Thanks for being one of the first Orthodox Jewish couples (as far as I know) that have such a cute couple’s CZcams channel like this. 😍💜
Thank you! Yes it’s about time! 😊
The absolute standard for a loving beautiful family who puts The Most High above all and knows how to relate to and respect each other. What a gift ❤ thank you for your channel
You are the very first frum religious couple I have seen who are openly gregarious and loving toward each other. You are extra special
That's very kind, thank you. There are many, just not on CZcams! ;)
I watching your wedding video and I found this video and I'm hooked. Im not Jewish but have a lot of Jewish friends. I was also married to an Israeli. He has passed and I'm stepmom to his son and daughter. You guys are awesome .
You two are absolutely adorable, and your sincere love shines through. XO
I seriously love this channel it's helping me out with my Hishtatfus and is helping me so much in my journey. It shows that there's lovely happy couples out there willing to show their life and spread Chassidus in the most pleasant manners. I wish you both many years of happy marriage, Shalom Bayis, and Nachas from your little cutie pie 😊 and lots of more Gezunte and Chayisdike children!
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
@@ThatJewishFamily your welcome! And gut vuch
I am not Jewish and I am learning so much and gaining so much more respect. Thank you for posting on CZcams and helping me learn more.
Thank you so much! Really appreciate it ❤️
Blessed. Subscribed and can’t wait for the next video. Truthful and refreshing. 👍
Thank you ♥️
I watched the wedding video and He looked TOTALLY “head over hills”. Very nice and special.
Awww thank G-d we’re both so blessed! ♥️
I recently found your channel - love your story. Your joy is contagious! Shana tova.
Love it!!! Love your story and Happy Sabbath!!!
I just found you guys and subscribed! So fun to watch. Definitely changed my dating game, dating to marry than for fun.
Welcome!! ♥️☺️ Yes it makes the biggest difference!!!
You are such an adorable, loving couple! Your story is so sweet. Wishing you many happy, healthy, and fun years together! Mazel Tov 💖
Found you on Facebook, now binge watching. So educational thank you for the content 🤍
Thank you ☺️ ❤️
I have to say that the Orthodox way of dating is so much healthier, emotionally and spiritually, than secular dating. I’m a BT and already married, but I spent years feeling hurt and rejected by men I dated who had no true investment and commitment to me and to our relationship. Were I to have been able to have children, I would not have wanted to subject them to the ordeal of secular dating. (BTW, you two are adorable!!!)
What is a bt?
@@ameliafroehlich2577 baal tshuvah someone who was jewish but not orthodox but now's ortnodox
@@Hjdgkhddfv Thank you! 🙂
Awww this is so sweet! And so interesting too. I have now subscribed.
Thank you for subscribing! 😎
Your channel has just popped up so I have listened, enjoyed then subscribed when you told me to. You speak at the same rush as my daughter so I can cope but it is tiring!
Look forward to getting to know you better.
Thank you for subscribing! Welcome to the family ♥️ Haha, a good trick is to play it on a slower speed if it’s too fast ;) looking forward to seeing you in the comments of our future videos!
Thanks for the insight and the joy. You are a delight to learn from....:)
Thank you! ☺️
I just saw the interview on Meaningful People, and I noticed that you (both of you) seem to have a fair amount of emotional compatibility. And I also noticed that the way in which you seem happy with each other reminds me of the time couples feel during the שבע ברכות even though you've clearly been married for more than 7 days.
So happy I found your channel! Mazal tov!
Just fell on your videos and you guys are wonderful for sharing your culture and life. Awareness and education is key to human understanding and to recognizing our commonalities as human beings rather than focusing on irrelevant differences. Be blessed always.
I love your story. I have been married for 30 yrs. G_d brought us together in an amazing way. We met in August, were engaged in November and married in June.
We didn't even start courting until after we were engaged. We kept it pure. I was his 1st sweetheart and he was mine.
This was not our idea. It just seemed to happen this way. We're Christians and we decided to trust G_d's leading and guiding. It's been a wild ride, but we wouldn't trade any of it for anything.
May G_d bless you deeply as your love for each other and your family grows.
Beautiful story, G-d bless you as well! 🙏🏼✝️
I just loved your explanation of marriage and dating “simple, traditional and old fashioned & romantic and committed” ❤❤❤❤
Great video and really informative.. watching all the way from Curaçao 🇨🇼 Caribbean
Thank you! That’s Awesome!! One of of places on our bucket list! We’ll get there one day please g-d!
I just subscribed, I love you 2, you both have great chemistry together and you make your videos informative but fun
What a lovely video. You guys are great together. Where was this filmed? It looks beautiful
Thank you for the compliments 😉🙌🏻 Thank G-D we’re blessed!
This was filmed in the porch of the Icebergs club/bar @Bondi Beach
You guys are so cute! Fun video and your vibe and smiles are so happy
Aw thank you! ☺️
Raised how could you not love this man right away or break an engagement to him? He’s so sweet!!!
I know he is the sweetest!!!! ♥️♥️♥️ I just freaked out on my own- making life decisions has never been my friend 😂
She was lucky. I have an orthodox jew Friend who married a guy and she can't meet friends unless he approves.
That’s not because he’s Orthodox, it is because he is controlling and might be using religion to control her!
That has nothing to do with being orthodox and everything to do with him being an idiot or an abusive person. If he followed the Torah he wouldnt be acting that way. Most frum couples interact the way this couple does, albeit in their own ways. Married for 24 beautiful years to the most amazing, supportive husband in the world.
@@ThatJewishFamily Hypergamy floats.
I just discovered your channel, and I just love you guys! You are such a beautiful couple.
Pleasure to meet you and your family. Thank you for your content.
🙌🏼 Thank you! Will check your channel too, and hopefully get to know you too 😀
Too cute. Many more years of happiness too you both🤗
Australians always have such cute outgoing personalities! 😍 great video 👌
Aw thank you! 😊
Agree
I love this. You don’t have to be uptight to be genuine about your faith. I’ve had a lot of Jewish friends, but none have been Hasidic (so I watch videos to learn about various religions and cultures). I just subscribed to your channel and look forward to watching more of your videos. You two seem both traditional yet contemporary. You guys are cool!
Thank you so much and thank you for becoming part of our family ❤️
Honest and interesting conversation. Kind of reminded me of the beautiful film Fiddler on the roof❤️, with the matchmaker. 😊
Aw thank you! ☺️ Yes there are some similarities! But our life overall is quite different ;)
Such a wise way to approach dating/relationships.
Thanks! it’s ancient wisdom 😉
Y’all are so cute and sweet. It’s adorable the way Dani blushes.
I'm a Christian devoted to following the Lord Jesus, and I find you both a lovely couple and really really enjoyed your video🙏🏼 May G-d bless you both and your families 🙏🏼
You are both very special people who make each other smile so much, You will make a lovely couple and your children will be so adorable.
Thank you! 🥰 And yes please g-d! We have one son and he is adorable already ♥️
Y’all are so fun.. love the videos
Thank you guys. I find your channel very important and informative and of course with a sense of humour. Why important? Because "outsiders" that are nor familiar with Jewish traditions and way of life can learn to understand Judaism and Jews and to build down ressentiments. Movies like Unorthodox are showing a not so friendly picture of orthodoxie and Judaim so in contrast a channel like you has opens the mind for many viewers. I am Jewish but I am not frum. I love our traditions, our culture and our religious belief but i am not frum :-) But I honor and respect my brothers and sisters that live a more Jiddish way of life. Jews are coming in many colors and shapes. However, I enjoy to watch your story and I am sure it can really help to build bridges with other Jews and non-Jews who don´t know the Chassidic enviroment. And you are a beautiful and lovely couple that makes my Jewish heart proud to see. Mazel tov and good succesful life with a lot of love, harmony and understanding. Go guys. 🙂
What a beautiful comment! Thank you 🙏 we know this is important! One of the missions we have we have with this channel it to bring humanity together and depolarize society ❤️
You guys are great!! And i love how your boy gets a shofar for a toy 😅
Thank you! 🤗 Haha yes 😂
You look so happy together, Happy Rosh Hashanah!
Thank g-d we’re very blessed! Shana Tova! Wishing you a beautiful year ahead filled with only revealed good!
Fantastic story. Thank you. Slow down though, I couldn't keep up! You were both very excited and happy! Slowwwwww. Lol. Many congratulations. Xx
I agree. It's difficult to hear what each one is saying.
thank you! 😊 Haha, we'll keep that in mind for next time ;) A good tip for future - you can always watch on slower!
Awesome to see such an open minded Jewish couple. I agree when the husband says "we are all human" in a few of their other videos.
You two are so blessed and beautiful together. G-d bless you.
I Subbed on no#2 on the count down i love you channel all 3 of you are so cute👍👍💐💐💐🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟❤🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Awww awesome! Thank you
Subscribed. Wishing you both all the best x
Thank you 🙏 😉
A great insight into the whole process thank you best of Health and luck
Thanks! And to you too!
Love you guys , you two are perfect together ❤️❤️
I'm a Muslim viewer and I just love your videos !
Thank you so much! Thank you for being part of our family ❤️
Just subscribed and I adore u guys. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Hi guys,
Just found your channel. Loved your wedding. I'm enjoying watching. I'm from Sydney, Australia.
Thank you so much 😊
Will be there soon G-D willing
Jewish by heritage here and Catholic by choice. I love your dynamic together. Blessings to you both 👌
Yeshua is my chosen Messiah.
Hi this is my first time watching. I’m from Northern Ireland UK🇬🇧🇬🇧
Welcome to our family! ♥️
I loved your wedding!!! And, you guys were meant for each other!! Is that a baby I hear? Wow, it is!!! Mazel Tov!!
Thank you!! And yes it is! Blessed with our baby boy too, thank G-d😊
Thank you for this video. This is our first time here & it was nice hearing about your journey. Coming from an "outsider's" perspective I think the dating guidelines of the Orthodox community that you explained here are really excellent. I agree that commitment should precede the giving of one's heart & affection & all that it entails. I think it would prevent a lot of heartache & makes for a healthier dating experience & a healthier marriage. As someone already mentioned, there are so many hard things going on in the world that it is always refreshing & uplifting to see a happy, sincerely joyful couple. And your baby is adorable. Thanks again for sharing.
Exactly! Thank you for sharing ☺️
@@ThatJewishFamily 😊
I thought the purpose of dating and why it is so short is because it is meant to be an intellectual connection? As the dating gets longer and longer, the more the emotions become a part of the "connection," which leads to more issues later when those emotions disappear.
Shared values are so important in a relationship!
Loved the video and how u described everything :) but where is the link for the video where u lost weight ? Didnt find it
It’s in the description now!!
Hi Dani, Raizel and Mendel, loved hearing your dating story. Just one thing...how can Raizel be Australian with a British accent? You have to have lived in the UK at some point?
I love your family, you are such a nice couple. All the best for you. ❤
Good insight into your belief.Shalom from a Noahide subscriber in South Africa 🇿🇦
Thank you!❤️ Love it-can't wait to visit!
It sounds like you sped up the footage and it is a bit difficult to listen to. Baruch Hashem, though, that you are a Chassidic Jewish family! Were you able to meet the Rebbe before his passing, if I may ask? I was only 4 and didn't join a Chabad community until almost 8 years ago...
Oh the baby with the Shofar is so cute!
Ohh thank you! We think so too ☺️
thanks so much your videos are amazing god should bless you with all goods !! keep going
Love your videos , thank you 🌸🌸
You have such a beautiful and humble personality (Both of you). What a beautiful couple ❤
Very sweet couple. May you enjoy a lifetime of great health, prosperity & happiness.
Is anyone else’s audio only on the left ear
I just found your channel and you are a beautiful family 💖
Aw thank you! Welcome!
You are a beautiful couple and family! This is an awkward question, but do you have any recommendations for how orthodox converts should go about trying to meet people for marriage?
So many stories are of set ups, but as a convert, you don’t have that many connections to set you up. Any suggestions?
Perhaps my 3 step program can help you!
Step 1: be hot
Step 2: be hot
Step 3: don’t be ugly
Good luck!
Gorgeous family!❤
Thank you ❤️🙏
Such a fun, gorgeous couple ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ♥️
You remind me so much of me and my husband.
Honestly it's the best way to date!!
There are tons of amazing videos.
I did not grow up a religious at all What attracted me to become religious what's this dating system and then I realized it's honestly the best life in every aspect a 3000 Year tradition where women are respected and are considered the highest level of creation.
I am eternally grateful that I found this when I was young
If I may suggest oh, you might want to get a better microphone when you can, my left earbud is having all the fun I can hear you completely fine my right earbud there's barely any sound in it. I just found you guys love the content already.
Thank you!! Looking forward to having you around here on our comments and channel!
I will be :)
Amazing!! 👏👏
Thank you!! ♥️♥️
Sweet couple! Love your humor!
You are my favorite couple. Thank you for sharing
היי, אני מישראל, חרדי, נהניתי לראות את הסרטון, ואחד הקטעים החמודים שבתרגום של יוטיוב לעברית הוא תירגם באחת הפעמים "שדכן" בהברה חסידית לרובה ציד (שטגן).
אחלה סרטון, תהנו, ומזל טוב!
New to your channel love it so far your baby is so bueatful
Welcome! ♥️ Thank you- we think so too! ;) were very blessed thank g-d ☺️
😂😂😂you are hilarious 🤣 thank you for sharing
You guys really really really look good together. 😍
G-d where is my soul mate 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Aw thank you! May you find your soul mate really soon!!! ♥️♥️♥️
Love this video. I'm Jewcurious watching from London UK. Shalom! ✡️🕎
Haha love that term 😄
Glad you enjoyed!
What! Danny is a Scandinavian!! Had no idea! Heja Sverige.. sending shalom from Finland..!
A big thanx again.
I like your channel s lot.
And a question :could you ülease speak a little slower?
I myself speak as fast as you.but in german :)
It's hard for me to understand as fast speaking in foreign language.
Thank you! ♥️ Haha we get that!! We’ll keep it mind ☺️ A good trick if it’s too fast is to watch it on a slighter slower speed!
@@ThatJewishFamily you are right.
And i will keep THAT in mind 😁
@@anjahorn 😊🙌🏻
Amazing story
Thank you! Thank G-d we are very blessed!
I think dating with commitment in mind and not starting the physical part of the relationship right away are good ideas, whether you're secular or religious.
Beutiful story! Hi from Texas USA
Aw thank you! Hey there! Welcome 🤗
You're both adorable!!! ✨💗✨💙✨
Thank you ☺️♥️