Her relative didn't want to attend her "Noisy Malay Wedding"
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- čas přidán 21. 07. 2021
- "I don't want to attend your Malay wedding, because it's too noisy."
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I'm ethnic Chinese and I don't find Malay weddings noisy at all. Ironically the Yum Sengs at the Chinese weddings are noise pollution if you ask me.
Love has no color, no religion, no age and no gender preference. If people you can't see that then let these people be just people AROUND you and not IN your life. Period.
Congratulations you two! Wishing you both many many years of happiness together! ♥️♥️
Chinese wedding no singing no live band. Usually instrumental music background
Tq 4 ur kind words
@@blackrose2429 You're most welcome. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. There's a reason why two people meet in this ocean of madness so enjoy the journey together and let no one else tell you both otherwise. My sincerest best wishes always. Someday you will look back and realize how far you both have gone ahead without looking back at negativity to slow you down. 💪🏻💪🏻
That was just excuse
Weddings are all loud and boisterous...of coz now pandemic times could be different.
I'm a Russian married in Singaporean Malay mix Abab family.Since 1999 I have been living in Singapore, we have 3 beautiful kids.
If a wedding is extremely quiet...then for sure its not a wedding...then most likely its a funeral.
not abt noise, its tactful way to tell her they dont like malay....
Haha
Ahah, its true.
Funeral Wedding.😙
Really bro? My Chinese neighbor funeral always got tong tong chiang till midnight for 7 days straight... Not only be heard by surrounding houses but merely all the neighborhood... Only stop for 5 minutes during azan from the nearest mosque... But we nvr mocking them n irritated... Respect each other is the key...
@@rozidamekda1976 who says so ? u didnt see enough, some funeral got dancing n singing....,
other than their wedding story here, their stall is always packed with customers. Sometimes they sold out and close early.Their food is really excellent.Kudos to this beautiful couple
May i know the address of their stall pls?
They are very much in love… can tell from their eyes and how they held hands…. Awww super sweet!
I followed this beautiful union couple and how much they step in last year in helping by delivering food to the frontliner at hospital because some of us are mentally bias towards this heroes. They step in and past all that. May Allah bless u guys! Be strong and kudos to u guys!!!
I love Malay weddings.... the rendang, gado gado etc... 😋
Kan... Its delicious
And the best part, you can gate crash a malay wedding and still be invited to eat.
Hahahha.
Oh not forgetting...., no amount is too big or too small.
So,,next time u go again..mingle more w them..not just food..don’t stop there..
A better love story than Twilight. Happy for both of you Asri and Denise.
"Regardless of Race, Language or Religion".. its part of our Singaporean Pledge.. dont we EVER forget that. #OneSingapore
something is wrong actually
Many have forgotten.
They worship money and Ang Mo.
I just hope the "silence racism" in Singapore will stop. All of us are just humans. There's nothing wrong being malay, Chinese, Indian, eurasians, etc.
This is what I have always remarked to everyone even to The Royal Singapore-stop saying stuff like "Malay" "Chinese" "Indian"
sad to say stigma, racism and race superiority will never dissapear
@@sfoo4519 i agree with u. But we must also be upfront where the racism comes from, specifically which community is spewing .
People are not dumb. They're observant and they experience it.
Whenever a a racist video/experience is shared, its always pointing to 1 particular community, 90% of the time.
"You cant clean the stain if you dont point out the spot (of the stain)"
But we get that its not ALL of them in that community that are racist. thr are a good amt in that grp that condemns racism too.
@@trafficmonsoonacademy562 agreed.
I do not want to point out that source of the racism from that particular community, because as usual, they will defend themselves(i experienced before)
Singapore these daya is more racist and race superior than ever. by right, one should demonstrate their greatness on how well they treat others around them, and not on frenzied displays of wealth and rank. Belittling others based on their race appears to be discouraged in polite society, but behind doors, it continues.
its neighbour in malaysia meanwhile think Singapore iis very advanced..
Sorry to say in MRT everyday I'm on live sosial media (Most Of My Friend Over Other Country See For Themself) showing how those Yellow looking at minorities and even worse can even stand don't wanna sit beside... So Sorry RACISM Will Never Go Away...
@@inaszeeuncleblack3505 usually its the aunties and a small portion of the young ones right? 🙂
Dear Denise n Masri I would love to attend your wedding had I been your friend n you invited me. Forgive n bless all who has grieved you. Start afresh...n step into new seasons of peace n joy. With all my love Deborah.
My first best friend was a little Malay girl. Her name is Azizah binte Pawanteh. So happy to know both of you..dear Denise n Mazri.
May I ask about your friend Azizah Pawanteh?…does she from SG or living around Johor? My mom is looking for her long lost sister.
So good to hear of yr story. I'm a Malay lady, married to a converted ang mo, living in USA. I'm so blessed to have him in my life. Bless you both for going with yr heart❤
I don't understand why some people are so into the colour of a person. The colour on the skin maybe different, but ultimately they have the same normal blood groups flowing in their bodies. What does it matter what colour a person is as long as they treat everyone well. If someone did you evil deeds, I can understand, but not to accept a person because of his colour, it's wrong!
I Dont know about others I always tanned my body..the darker than better..suits character
Such a beautiful wedding. Bless their amazing wedding!!
Here before this comment blows up.
Mr everywhere.😃
Hi Again 😂
I guess we have many common video suggestion 😂
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Sweet couple. Love from Malaysia.
Wedding parties are always noisy. No matter which part of the world u r from.
the auntie thought that its the funeral ceremony.. all keep queit
@@user-ru5kf7kv3v nehh..i think she doesn't like malay people
@@AkimiSky_Valenski agreed.
We are Singaporean . Regardless race , language and religion. Jia you
Congratulations
Greetings from Aboriginal Australia
We need more Chinese-Malay weddings . This will change our beloved older Singaporeans to embrace diversity more. Good sharing from a happy couple 👍
That’s difficult unless you don’t have to convert. Unless we can go to the same restaurant all the time , so there will always a gap in between.
Yeas.. not diverse, because always forced to converted 😑 so sad..
@@menthe4021 if I’m not wrong, if it’s a man marrying a woman, the woman doesn’t have to convert. But if it’s the other way around, the man has to convert
@@dianaahakim2001 Women don't have to convert, but there will be pressure from the muslim side to convert. Heard countless stories where the muslim parents wanting the non-muslim to convert in order to marry into the family. How I know? My own sister is one example. We don't need more chinese-malay weddings. More people need to be wiser instead of letting their heart rule over their brain.. only to regret later when things don't work out because of religious and cultural differences.
Lovely couple and his family seems wonderful; wishing them many years of love, health and happiness.
Hi Asri and Denise ,
so happy for you guys, i know its tough but you guys really made it in your relationship!
What a great union . We celebrate such unique Singapore.
Denise is such a darling ❤️ sending my prayer to your family 🙏🏼
There are people who can see germs across the sea but cannot see elephant in front of them. They say noises in Malay wedding but never say noises when musical band and 'dung ceng2' played to usher the death.
They refuse to accept another culture I think. Thats stupid considering the country theyre living in right now
Noisy malay wedding...
Meanwhile in Malaysia Wedding
- Malay people karaoke
- Indian bollywood song and dance
- Chinese iconic wedding
- and almost all wedding is noisy.
not abt noise, its tactful way to tell her they dont like malay....
Once in awhile there will be the weird one, whom decidedly feels that he/she understood enough of the other’s race or religion, and conclude that nope, not for me, even to befriend. Don’t need to mind them, for their world will remain small, till the day they leave the world. We Singaporean have the luxury of the company of many races, why not enjoy this precious aspect… look around the globe, how many countries can have this, and in good harmony? We have, and we should put in extra efforts to protect this uniqueness of Singapore.
Malaysia also has what Singapore has, cause Singapore was once part of Malaysia 😅
True, on the once part. Then things changed perhaps. But for me I wouldn’t want to comment on Malaysia side of things because it wouldn’t be fair for me to do so, because I’m not Malaysian to make any statement. As a Singaporean, I can only comment for Singapore, and not fully as well. We still enjoy that uniqueness our Singapore ways. We have a tight brotherhood honed by real tough time spent over the years in the army. Races living in the same places. From the sixties on, harmony has been our pride.
Then again, best not to bring it out of context commenting across borders. Let’s just be proud of the couple. They deserve all the respect from all of us. Cheers
@@vennsim71 totally agree with u. There is no need to always remind is that SG was part of MY. We've moved on & carved a life for ourself.
Well said.
More than anything they both have the hearts of gold . May God bless them and their business.
I have a partner who is chinese and basically my family are actually open minded as my step grandma is chinese and my aunt's husband is sweden . However my partner's side is more conservative..Idk if they can accept me especially I'm the tanned skin and muslim but i hope we can stay together. I'm glad i have a partner who is supportive and love me regardless of my skin tone, religion and race
Is partner means husband?. Have both of you married?.
Its always the chinese isnt it?
@@RH-vd3yu this type of reply shows who is the POS.
Have faith and always stay strong. As long as your partner and yourself have great understanding towards one another you will be just fine and always make sure to never allow others to intrude in your marriage.
My mum always advise me, make sure you live on your own once you are married. Dont let anyone including blood relative to disrespect your husband and same goes to your husband. My husband is a very traditional yemeni and alhamdulilah his accepted me as his wife but even if they didnt idgaf as i am marrying him and not his family but luckily i dont have to face such things. Even my side of the family are great with my husband. Respect and tolerance must be there. Communicating with your husband often regarding his worries nd thoughts are important too tht way you can help each other to understand better and avoid any silly argument as that often appear in mix marriages so goodluck and hope you will be happy till jannah inshaAllah.
what the auntie thought its like gonna be funeral ceremony where everyone keep quiet one aaa? its cheers moment
Love has no boundaries
i think the trip to Malacca turned things to gold....just like the Olympic gold medal from Philipines.
The man like going to cry through the whole interview
is this the best warwick sg KENNETHMAJOR?
@@DualShamanTFM Yes
He is a sensitive soul.
May God bless this two beautiful souls.
Seriously, I love their Prawn Noodle. I live in the east… there’s once during fasting month, their stall in Toa Payoh was closed haha I travelled all the way to their Jurong East branch to tapau back! Coincidentally, Denise was at the stall, she was very appreciative when I told her that I travelled all the way to the west just to get the Prawn Mee.
I wonder what the auntie feels after seeing this🤷♀️
nothing, that auntie has old school thinking
She cant understand English and only watched channel 8 so yeah, she will missed this. Haha....
From jb may all of u will love happy together till jannah🤲😍
We are all the same black or white u both understand each other than is important god bless both of you
Agree on we are all human beings and our blood are all red colours. However, we were segregated by our own sets of beliefs
Sadly most chinese doesn't think that way
@@qiteindashenggreatsage3621 It has nothing to do with Chinese not thinking that way. In defense of my dear Chinese friends, many of them do not think this way at all. There are however, some individuals, from all walks of life, that tend to discriminate based on racial lines. I'd know. I have been subject to a fair bit of it.
@@seanlingham5254 i stand by my words!!!
@@seanlingham5254 and by the way, i myself is chinese if you think i am being racist here!!!
So beautiful couple .. May you both have everlasting happiness .. 💖
My heart just melted watching this video!! I will be in 100% support of u both!!!!! Please kindly tell me where your shop is?
I’m proud on you. Without u realising actually u have been doing “a business sambil beramal” …. Semoga sentiasa bahagia berumahtangga….Aamin.
Can see that they are so affectionate and loving.
I ve been to Mulu cave in Sarawak a few years back. At the cafe, there were some chinese tourists not sure from where eating while chatting boisterously in Mandarin and all of us including the Mat Sallehs were looking at each other in disbelief just to show how loud chinese can be
you made a point
I suppose every wedding regardless of race and religion is "noisy"....even if there's no music, the chit chat, the gossips, the laughing will do...
You don't want a wedding as silent as a funeral...😁
Her aunt forgot the table-to-table yumseng at Chinese weddings. ✌☺
Very inspiring .... I'm proud of both of you!!!!! It is so heart warming learning about both of you and your story. You made a difference and that must be very fulfilling. I'm really happy for both of you... Can't wait to be able to travel to Singapore and have a taste of your halal prawn me!!! 👍❤️👍
Thumbs up to both of you . 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Looking forward to go to your shop. Pray that you can expand your business and be successful.
We are Singapore! Different cultures mixed together to get the perfect dishes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 even different languages mixed into a sentence that ONLY Singaporeans can relate!
💜❤️💙
May Allah bless both of you with good life & happiness till Jannah.
Sweet, romantic, inspirational. Marvellous!
What a kind human being. Humanity come first. Regarless race. At the end of the day. We all human. Alhamdulilah. May Allah guide them and give them the kindesss heart to be the rightous human being. Aamiin
since when chinese wedding is quiet?
Yam sengggg!!!!!!
not abt noise, its tactful way to tell her they dont like malay....
Thanks for sharing! Better to forgive and forget for good. Nothing to harbour any ills on things that people doesn't accept nor lack understanding.
Both of you have kind hearts and love each other. May your marriage full of joyous and happiness till Jannah. I'm a mixed marriage myself.
Nice to hear from happy couple, Deana's kitchen.... Wish you happy and success....
F&B business is about hard work and effort. Beautiful couple with a decent living. Most importantly, they are loving
Beautiful couple .Your choices are perfect
After listening to yr sweet luv tales i started crying god bless you guys
I love the multi cultural space and background of Singapore. Some of my best friends are indians, Chinese, malays and Eurasians because I used to go to convent school. Now my husband is German. Multi kulti
I think many Chinese don't know how to get along with other races or ethnicities.
@@jackjackyphantom8854 honestly depends. Even some minorities cant get along with the majorities. That can be worked on, takes time, but it’ll be worth it. My circle of friends are majority chinese, and Im thankful for them
@@muazhairman5335 Under some videos, u see a lot of hate comments about Chinese from Indians and Malays, and I can understand why -- especially the recent incidents with Beow Tan and one Ngee Ann Poly Lecturer. Conflict between humans of different cultures is nothing new at all, this is just human nature.
“Multi kulti” is a very German saying! 😄
I really support their relationship and marriage! 🤩😍✨ Beautiful!!! 😍✨
inspiring strong and lovely couple❤️
Love, tolerance & understanding conquers all.
Hahahaha too bad if you didn't attended noisy malay wedding.. in here, it's super duper fantastic.. whenever someone get married we all united.. stay till late night, talking, gossip, doing silly stuff, eating, taking picture and sometime we even telling scary story
They're so sweet! From 6 packs to 1 pack lol. May God bless them and guide them through all hardship and ease.
I'm mexican but when i met my husband's family (chinese malaysian) i also felt really left out. Till this day i dont really interact much with his family on boths sides of the family. It's been 6 years and i also have no friends here XD but ooh well...
I'll be your friend! ♥️
@@uminy9939 lol thanks 😁
@@Nekogin-dj4tz im sorry to hear that. I think everyone has their own battles to fight.
You may start by being more curious of them, ask questions to find out their interest, or you can choose being aloof and crawl into a shell...choice is yours
@@SimonK3113 there is a limitation to what I can ask. They have a different culture and are not always so open to talking about everything. Even the younger ones dont talk to me. I tried talking to one and she completely ignored me. So i just gave up...
The prawn Mee is superb.... Gosh I crave of it already❤️
May you guys live happily ever after
Wah need to try the food when back to Singapore... Hopefully one day
Just strive for a better future,you're aloving couple, forget about the negative past, look ahead and smile, count your blessing.
Finally got to try the prawn noodle first time ... Delicious Look forward to trying other noodles!
Sabr sister.... Such beautiful couple.... Sad that auntie relationship was severed... Hope that it can be mended... Life is more beautiful with the ups and downs...
I love Malay Wedding, the energetic feeling and those foods..... yummy.
And I'm proud of them.... Lovely couple... Keep it up ...
love your prawn noodles! 💜💜💜
Kudos to both of you...May both of you be happy till jannah...Sergeant Asri you are the best NCO in 1999..Bravo platoon...Ya sergeant what happen last time can do pull up only 1 arm now your wife 12 pack become 1 whole pack...🤣🤣🤣🤣....Will come down to your shop soon...your recruit signning off.....
MasyaAllah…
Asri & Denise… such a beautiful couple.
May Allah bless u both til Jannah!❤️
Congratulations to both of u. Be patient & enjoy ur life. ....💕💕💕
May Allah bless you with a good health and happiness always…🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍
All The Best To Both Of U....So Sweettttt 😀
Same goes here in Malaysia. Majority is like that. The Malaysian Malays are generally more welcoming than the Chinese.
A matching & lovely couple! Those have cultural shocks of mix marriages are dinosaurs!
Lovely 😍 story. Have a good life together.
Your husband is very handsome.i think yous are a lovely family 💜💜💜💜💜💔💜
Lovely couple's indeed.
beautiful couple, love you guys
Where is the shop located at? What’s the restaurant name on grab app? Chinese food is one of my favourite cuisines.
facebook.com/deannaskitchen/
God bless you both.
Alhamdullillah *
When truth love is concerned..
Nothing to do with colour,race or nationality.
You both are loving and matching couple .
Keep it up !
Im half Chinese and half Malay. Both side very open minded and respect to each other’s. I feel sorry for this couple. I wish her family will be more open minded and welcoming.
Hello bella
H r u
It will be my pleasure to join u
M from India
Rply
Stay safe
Tc and bye
‘Malay people are always very welcoming..’. Thank you very much.💐
Hi where is your restaurant located please 🙂
Love your beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.
Both my parents are 'rojak' too;
Father is japanese/chinese/javanese,
Mother is javanese/malay, i was born & raise in Singapore so i'm true blue Singaporean thats simple❤🇸🇬🥰
I am Eurasian, but mostly Asian.
Beautiful mix
My stepmom was Muslim
But our living life was very harmony and happy.
Please take care of yourself and your husband family.
Love has no restriction or boundaries.
Love you both 🥰
All the best to both of you. 👍
love will never lie.
Great job guys! 🙋♂️💖. MasyaAllah. You do outreach (dakwah) to you community through halal foods & cooked with your love abundance.