He's the most patriarchal man. I've met world Best king. [Hello Counselor Sub:ENG,THA/2018.07.02]
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Hello Counselor EP.370
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Wait, everyone is talking about how handsome he is. The girl is 37 years old, had 3 pregnancies and she is crazily beautiful looking like she is in her mid 20s. Why everyone talks about how lucky she is. He is by far luckier having her by his side. He isn't respectful at all.
Ackerman exactly. I mean ok we don't know how their relationship is in real life but based on what they say on the show it is so sad to see her struggling for someone that seems to not care at all :/
You mean the people on the show or the people around her?
ikr, she does not deserve this man, he's so disrespectful
OH MY GOD, WHEN I WAS READING THE COMMENTS A FREAKING ADD CAME ON FOR MILK AND THE GIRL SAID "You deserve better!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pause at 20:48 he is ugly
"After you got married there's no need to be nice to her anymore." Seriously? This dude is really something
Jenny Billones You can say that again!
Duh.It'sKay If I am the girl I would divorce him. She doesn't deserve to be treated like that.
Jenny Billones Exactly and the fact that their son calls him a goblin and understands the situation is upsetting.
Yeah he’s a coward for that, knowing god & damn well if he said that while they were dating it would’ve been game over. No one want to be treated that way. He should’ve looked for an old fashioned wife to go along with his patriarchal views.
Ikr it really pissed me off of how he was treating his wife and him saying that women have certain jobs
watched this with my dad and he got so angry at this dude that he had to leave. my parents split all work and he is such a good cook so he came back when this was over, gave me selfmade popcorn and said: if you ever marry a guy or girl like this i will have to kill them behind your back.
just sharing this cause i'm so damn proud of him
Wow. Your Dad is so nice. He cares very much about you.
My husband is a great example of what a real loving husband should be. He has been doing the cooking and cleaning since I gave birth 4 months ago. The only things I do are the laundry, washing a few dishes and our son's bottles, putting groceries away (because bless him he's useless at that) and looking after our son. He also sleeps in the other room which is our kitchen, dining and living ROOM and he sleeps on the floor.
This useless man is not a man at all but a spoilt, rotten brat and his grandmother should have punished him instead of letting him get away with everything the whiny little brat.
@@ShammaAzmi you married right!! people in a marriage should support each other and not serve
@@ShammaAzmi wait.. i didn't feel happy for him at all. I think you should more consider about him sleeping on the floor.
I freaking love your dad 😂
When I heard him describe the 5 virtues of women, it sounds like describing a slave
I actually zoned out listening to the virtues
The fact that he loves his daughter and doesn't want her to be treated the same way but continues to treat his wife like trash baffles me. Like they said, his wife is also someones daughter. I'm so frustrated AH
MHello~ Ikr!!😭😭
It's baffling but it's only because his daughter is actually half of himself. His wife is not his DNA so he won't think of her as well as his own offspring. Its really messed up but a lot of men are like this even if they wont admit it.
this is the mindset that most men have ugh
I haven't been triggered like this since ages ... This guy got me mad for 25min straight
His mentality is truly disgusting.
He literally just looks like any guy you see on the streets, while she looks like a model, gurrrlll, it's time to leave him
Right😫
She is literally a model, on pageant
girl pack your bags with your children its time to be at the Incheon Airport
Melfynaz Zacquelynn
If they really love each other i think it’s fine. It seems like looks only matter to you.
@@badabimbadabum6334 did i say that only looks matter in their relationship
So girls, be careful when a guy is raised by his grandmother, he's gonna be so spoiled.
Salty Egg omg!! This is why I’m scared of getting married
My brother is mainly raised by my grandma and he is spoil af
After reading this i realized that my spoiled ass father was also raised by his grandma.. and she died when he was a teen which later on made him has to go back to his mom’s. And he said he suffered when he was raised by his mom. I think abt it now, and i think that’s bcos his mom didn’t spoil him like his granny.
So i think when he married my mom, he boss her around and acts so demanding bcos he is trying to recreate what his grandma did for him. He literally says that my mom was sent by his grandma to take care of him bcos how similar my mom’s personality is to his grandma...
Im also scared of meeting a wrong guy bcos of thus
What about Kim taehyung... your right not everyone can be as perfect as him
many male idols being raised by their grandmother and they are not spoiled,kind-hearted and have good personalities and attitudes unlike that guy...it reminds me of kim taehyung,he raised by his grandmother but not even spoiled yet have an angel heart...
so the wife's virtues are:
1. Make my favorite food every day
2. See me off to work
3. Look after the kids so he doesn't have to
4. Do laundry and organize my clothing
5. Take care of me
.... sir you're describing a maid, she is a mother of 3 kids and has a job?? imagine how tired she is
Tbh if this was an american reality show they wouldn't be so civil with him, the hosts would've finished him off and there would be A LOT of screaming
Brocorn Rainbow Power so true
Gina Jahan r u dissing Americans?
Gina Jahan That is not true at all lmao
In my country (Argentina) too...
Brocorn Rainbow Power LMAO I can imagine that! XD
The wife looks more refreshed and nicer than the husband tbh.
Edit: she is MUCH better looking
Yeah i was kind of shocked when they said the husband was handsome... and he acted so mean to her about her appearance when she was so pretty
@@merrittpalmer4349 why are you watching a Korean show, when you clearly are a racist?
Wife: i take care of household chores, cook meals for him, take after of the three kids, do job till 11 pm
Husband: i take out the trash
By that I think he just means he goes out
Let him take out himself too
10:33 Kudos to that man for speaking up for the wife, and asking some serious questions. The other ladies guests on stage didn't seem to take the matter really seriously.
This is because of the harsh atmosphere at the time, where if a woman spoke about women's rights, she was socially dismissed as a 'feminist'. It's not much different now
@@user-cp4nr1uk6etrue, feminism is treated like a huge sin in korea, especially when the one supporting feminism are women.
“I love my daughter very much, but my wife is just my wife.”
..there are so many things wrong with this and nearly everything he is saying women should do.
I think actually he wanted to say, "My wife is my slave."
This man🤬 i can't see that he loves her wife at all! He don't deserve the Beautiful lady at all!
He's really grate that his wife didn't die after she gave birth or else he will be taking of his kids, household chores and then work
@@jhameskerrgrancapal3331 which she is already doing☠️
@@yesplease6399 m
UGH I'M SO ANGRY
1. He's not handsome he loos like a muppet
2. the wife is incredible beautiful and looks STUNNING in the beauty awards
3. Cinic, hypocrite, entitled brat
4. Is it manly for a husband to let his wife do literally everything while he's useless and kind of just a money source.
5. You don't get married to have a slave
6. TRUE, you're not on the same level, she's waaaaay superior
1DPhanicPilot he’s not even the main money source since his wife works as well. I wonder why she hasn’t dumped his ass yet
@@nermine1851 because they got 3 kids 😔😔
Tbh his type of face is the one i hate the most since you can see the selfishness radiating from his face.
Right! You're a grown up adult, be independent.It's not the 50s. Everyone should be able to take care of themselves. But consider how it's still it's totally OK for women to expect men to financially support them even today. Men are expected to pay for dates even if the girl works. Even the court system supports that archaic mindset. By and large, men are still expected to be the 'provider', for women it's optional. Women shouldn't be objectified as 'house maid's and men shouldn't be objectified as 'money sources' either. Bottom line, no one is superior, so that applies both sides. It's not fair to reject traditional gender stereotypes but be ok with it when they benefit women at the expense of men.
in my words.. this guy is a BABI ! p/s..u can google it
He acts like his heart didn't grow into adulthood
This man-child is pathetic, but his wife and children are well-spoken and nice.
When they were strangers, he treats her as a human.
When she became his girlfriend, he still treats her as a human.
They got engaged, still treats her as a human.
Then they got married. Now, he treats her as one of his own property/personal slave.
“Do you love your wife?”
“Sure. That’s why we have kids together”
The amount of times I wished I could’ve jumped through my phone screen like goddamn 😤
this is not what made me the most mad
I actually can understand that because to have children love is needed
no it's not. there are so many loveless relationships out there. i think he just married her because it was expected not because he loves her
wildbeest55 which is kinda fucked up. You can tell she wants that love and connection.
Many of concern in hello counselor is make me feel like this
Girl don't take him to this show, take him to the court house to sign divorce papers lmao get rid of him asap
She cannot afford it. She said so.
i know.
Okay, my bad. Guess I didn't find it funny because she's a real person with a problem she cannot just excape from 😅
They have children tho
so? Millions are divorced and have kids. It would probably be best if they do separate, before their children grow up thinking that these kinds of toxic relationships are normal.
To those people who didn’t vote that this was a concern, you are horrible people
Or it reflects the real society is...
He isn't that good looking.. He looks like any typical Korean middle-aged man. I would divorce him so fast!
she is a 10 for her age and he’s like a 5 or 6... his ego makes no sense
Even if he was, that is not a reason to stay with someone
@divyanshu pandey After watching the video, do you really believe that this man will communicate and compromise? If your partner will not communicate with you, what other option is there? And why do you say "Western women"? I am not from Western culture but I'd also advise her to divorce him.
Its okay if someone is willing to change we can try to endure it and help them change but they already have three kids they have been together for so many years i dont think she didnt try to tell him about how she's hurt by his behaviour. In so many countries where the people try very hard to compromise in their marriage just because of their parents or culture ends up treated like a slave. I have seen so many people like that i think it doesn't matters whatever gender they are if they are not happy even after trying so hard they have the rights to divorce. It's better to live alone rather being in a toxic relationship.
@Divyanshu Pandey lmao look at an indian guy commenting about women's right. 🤣 She can leave anyone she wants and this marriage is abusive, so you can stfu
That face he made over her pictures....what a jerk.
A Vintage Librarian I thought he made :( face because other people would see her beauty
A Vintage Librarian yes honestly what a childish guy...he needs growing up
I think it's really obvious that he just doesn't love his wife. He thinks he's above her and that she's lucky he even gave her the time of day to marry her. Piece of shit
narcissist disorder
Trash
I was genuinely blown away by the wife's looks, for someone who's 37 with three kids she looks absolutely gorgeous!!! Seeing him was such a let down. The female guest's behaviour really disappointed me!
CheekyGal301 so true
@Daniel Jo she was 3rd place in miss universe, wtf standards do you have?
Yea , actually it was .
I think they werent necessarily allured by him its more how the show staff edited it to look like that even tho its known that looks matters a lot in korea
I mean... the 1st time I saw her I taught she looked like Apink's Naeun, she's gorgeous!
She's too pretty for a 37 year old mother of three...absolutely gorgeous
The dude wearing red keeps talking about how his looks can offset his deeds, and honestly it’s just a reflection of the patriarchy in his mind. Looks don’t matter beyond a point.
Divorce him and let him find the five virtues of women that he keeps talking about
the last one was... i.srslyyy want to.kickkk his snootyyy asss😠😤😤😤
Listen to me, woman in that video, you should know self respect. Divorce that man and live happily ever after with your children
But then the cycle continues with him being sweet at first then another woman will fell for him then end up the same.. Its better to change his attitude
I was expecting some confucian rules, but nope he litterly made them up. Wtf
So true
*WTF THE GIRL DESERVES SO MUCH BETTER AND SHE IS SO STRONG 😭😭❤❤❤*
- ruunmina - she smiled through the episode I wud cry even on the first seconds
wtf ikr
It's something that happens over and over again in this world. An amazing woman with great qualities who deserves someone who cherishes her settles for a douchebag like this. He may be good looking but he is the ugliest type of guy out there. Any decent man would kill to have family with someone this caring. She just wants an equal whom she can love and loves her back unconditionally. So many women are ruined because of men like this. What a sad state we live in :( Real men will step up and make their partner feel safe physically and emotionally, not tear them down because of their own issues or insecurities.
I am a guy but I don’t think he is handsome, not even close to “handsome”.
I don’t find him attractive at all she’s the one that’s beyond beautiful tbh
ikr
Agree
Same 😡
@Daniel Jo not asian. Just korean. That girl can be a model in my (asian) country. That guy looks average.
Same
Can i slap him. 🙄 He's treating his wife like a slave. Not as someone he love 😑
You have my permission and blessing.
Ill hold him for you
busker0000 but he is fkn wrong...
@busker0000 Nope still slap him or slap her he's still wrong
busker0000 stfu
이걸... 웃는 낯짝으로 말한다는게 진짜 신기하다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 웃는 낯짝에도 침뱉을 수 있겠다는 생각이 드네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
after watching this, it made me more grateful that I married a good husband... my husband is 7 yrs. younger than me. I started to date him because he's good looking & I thought we're of the same age. though he's younger than me, he's responsible and doesn't treat me like i'm lower than him. we already have 3 children and he still always say he loves me with all the wrinkles and stretch marks on my body. we are not a perfect couple, we also argue a lot. but we manage to get through it all because he knows how to listen to my concerns... that husband should learn how to listen to her. she's a very patient wife. he should not push her to the limit. once a wife is push to the limit, nothing can stop her to leave a husband like him..
"I married her so that she can do the chores and I can live comfortably" what did i just heard?
*Edits*
*okay so the "what did I just heard was also in the subtitle lool*
In the trash can he goes
"Hear"
@divyanshu pandey That's not what someone is supposed to marry for 🙄
@divyanshu pandey ok but she has a job too. She is not a slave.
i literally rolled my eyes when they introduced the husband's face lmao wtf ... he looks like any man off the street with the most basic looks ever. literally so disgusted at the female guests' reactions towards him and making him feel and think that he's seriously handsome or something. he is sexist, patriarchal, irresponsible, ignorant, arrogant and self-entitled. this is ridiculous lollllllll
Its probably the korean beauty standards. To them, he is handsome.
They only reacted that way because he's pale, his looks CAN'T be the reason they drooled over him. If he was a 'dark' Korean , they wouldn't bat an eye.
Seriously, Korean beauty standard just weird. They like simetric face, with high nose, a slight wide eyes, not too wide. In another country, this man will not be considered as handsome..he looks pale, with little presence, and poor personality, his face is not stunning at all
I'm happy I wasn't there because if I did,I would have gauge his eyes out and shove them down his throat or I will just threw the thing for voting at his head.
@@sakuyafuyumifuyumi8954 gurl, same. I would've laugh so hard if they mention he's *that* handsome..
that handsome card is being wildly thrown around
I wish that they wouldn't compliment the husband and stuff, calling him "handsome" and make it so that it looked like all the girls around were fawning over him. All they were doing was making his ego become bigger. Why not just skip the complimenting him and get to his actual problems. He wasn't even all that handsome. I don't understand why they had to inflate his ego before telling him the actual truth.
The funny part is that he isn't handsome at all
IKR
Maybe for Korean standards he is, to me he looks like a tall average guy 🤷🏽♀️
That's whar i thought
The wife is more beautiful.. She is out of his league
TO YOU
He is so brutal when he say "I married you to do the chores for me" Man, you're useless!
I don't understand though why she even does it, just sit back and be rebellious, without rebelling I don't think anything will change at all.
USELESS is the word!😑
ikr if i were her would have divorced him already
@@anushka1223 what about the kids
@@christineleen2624 well umm....
He thinks so high of himself.
She's just too in love with the guy.
You really have to check your future partner and discuss extensively regarding family
The future partner will lie and tell you want he thinks you want to hear. Then when you get married they still force you to do what they want. In their thinking, you're not a person with a mind of your own, but an extension of them that they need to control.
It’s ridiculous how even though his grandma always followed whatever the husband asked for, he just assumes that his wife is going to be the same. And to call his daughter is someone he loves but his wife is his wife is seriously upsetting, she’s still human and has feelings too. I really admire her for taking care of 3 kids, going to work, doing housework, taking care of her self minded husband, and taking care of herself as well.
Ahh he doesnt deserve her. Shes really strong. Really really strong. I salute her
Ljnn
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One thing about Korean culture that I detaste the most is that a value of a person is always measured by their looks but not by their deeds
And funnily enough the people defending her also bring up her looks as a reason she shouldn't be with a lesser attractive guy than her. And knowing people will misunderstand, not saying that I dont agree that the woman shouldnt deserves to have someone better, but even people criticizing koreans for thier obsession with looks are unwittingly displaying the same obsession with the way they need to bring up her looks as well.
i agree on this. and they tend to emphasize that women's work is to do household chores. even in dramas they emphasizes that which means it actually speaks on the kind of culture they have/ and good looks is always a plus plus to them. and they have a weird perception of beauty, i means his not that very handsome at all.
That wasn't Korean culture it became the Korean modern culture.
But she's good looking too though, not just him...
Karissa Lim true but its a lot worse in Korea and east Asia, you can literally get denied a job if you’re too ugly...that doesn’t really happen openly at least in the majority of the world...just saying....
pls send him to the therapist, he’s living in the past and it’s irking me
남편 그닥 훈남도 아니구만 초반에
다 수긍하는것처럼 분위기 몰아간것조차 분노스럽다!!!
둘다 일하는데 미쳤네..
The counselors didn't grill this guy enough.
peko peko I think they were too frustrated. When you feel like you’re talking to a wall, sometimes you just want to give up.
Plus they are not professionals: they are comedians, actors and actresses probably the two young men are idols. This is a serious case that need professional help.
peko peko I wish the other MC chanwoo was there cuz he really roasts people good
Honestly if they made him even more embarrassed, imagine what would happen to the wife at home when he has temper issues.
This is actually a really abusive relationship.
Yes.
What do these people see in this man?! He is not good looking, and he landed a literal GODDESS, he should be on his hands and knees thanking God for allowing someone as beautiful as her to bat an eye at him!
My Boyfriend was also raised to be very patriarchal. But he was listening to my concerns and changed his behavior since I wasn't okay with it.
I was raised in a household where both parents did the same amount of work and split chores between them, naturally that's what I wanted in my relationship as well.
We came to an agreement that works with the both of us and makes it easy for us to live together.
Therefore I really hope that those two also found a way of splitting work equally, especially since they have kids.
Does anyone know the adress of the 37 ppl who didn't think it was a concern? I promise i just wanna talk
Na sweety I’m not gonna even sugar coat it I’m ready to kick some ass cuz they’re not in their right minds to believe that this isn’t a concern 😤
Filandra ... so whats the plan I’m in.🗡🗡👽☠️
Filandra ikr
Let's go together
THAT is south korea lol
omg my dads exactly like this. he’s also always making false promises of changing. my mom did the right thing in leaving him
Jessie Sun. Yesh! Good on her.
My dad is the same way towards me and my sister.
haha, sadly my dad is like this too but my mom still hasn't left him. Probably never will.
I guess I was lucky (as were my sisters and my brother), bc my father was very hands-on when it came to raising his children. His problem was that he got married waaaay too many times! **sigh**
My dad almost kill my mom and me. Im happy they divorce but im not hating on him, just cant love him like i supposed to do.
he is just a narcicssist but Korean society is still unaware of the symptomology
Anyone else would have left also she’s stunning and deserves so much better
the saddest part is, men like him aren't a minority :-) this is one of the reasons why I'm hesitant to date and get married in the future, bc sometimes you can't tell till very late
kija same this kind if men r majority of men
same here
Same
Don't be hesitant to date, a good indication of how they will treat you when they get married, is how they treat their mother and also how your prospective father in law treats his wife. We humans are creatures of habit. We will marry people who remind us of either our mother or father since that is what we know.
I live in countryside part in indonesia, and all women are teached to be men's underlings
Just throw the whole husband away
JungKooksMom 😂
Couldn't agree more!😆😂😄
Right
He doesn't love his wife at all, If he did he would fell the same way he feels towards his daughter
Watching this motivates me to become independent and start my own company. And I'm 15.
I wish they had a follow-up episode to see if he tried to change. Honestly, he doesn't deserve her. She is strong, beautiful and patient. I really hope he tried to change because they are a cute family. She deserves better
They had. But they only show if the problem getting solved or at least getting better. So not all the story is followed up.
@@marianaputri2957 where did you see this? I'm really curious!
@@gwendee i forgot, cause they only show the progress before the new episode ._.
Me: Wow 😲 the husband must be really handsome.
*husband face revealed*
Me: 😑😒
Fo' real. Smh
exactly ..... i literally rolled my eyes
agree. the wife much better looking
he's ugly
exactly
Big thumbs up to that only man in the audience that actually felt outrage...
I literally clap my hands when she said that she wants to kill him, I really hope that there wouldn't be anyone like his husband anymore, it's stressful just by listening to it
She is much more prettier and beautiful . And to mention that she is a mother 3 and in her late 30s. I don't even get what so handsome about the face of his
He's not 😡
Situations like this motivates me to buy a house for myself before marriage for the assurance that if ever I confirmed that I had problematic husband, I can go whenever I can. thank you
🔥🔥🔥
I too think the same, but again I'm afraid in future incompetent selfish inlaws will settle down in my house
Exactly what I think
I'm planning the same 😤
Really... never marry unless you have a stable job
The wife doesn't look like a forty year old. I'm sorry you got stuck into this awful marriage you deserve better.
This show always make me think "Korea is not a place of fairy tails that we all foreigners dream of. We are far better at our own places"
I Just HATE HIM.he is lucky to have a good woman,pls treasure her before she really fed up.
Dreamer Lady
Believe me she will, if it become too much for her...
She said she gave up already . She's now beyond fed up. Like a broken heart than cannot be mended anymore. She's with him for her children. She's a great mother and woman.
Wow ngl I HATE how the MCs handled this. for half of the concern they were literally complimenting him on his looks and making a joke out of the whole situation, and they kept implying that most women would be fine with living with him because he's "good-looking" (???). I know this is a show hosted by comedians and they need to keep it from getting too heavy but I found that REALLY disgusting. And i think they weren't nearly as hard on him as they were on some of the other abusive husbands on this show, probably because he's young and supposedly attractive. I feel so bad for his wife, I hope she finds the courage to stand up for herself but given what she said at the end about him being a sweet husband if he feels like it... she'll probably never leave him. I don't skip these frustrating concerns because I enjoy seeing these dudes being yelled at and given the third degree but this left such a bad taste in my mouth
And when he said that he was "embarrassed" at the end and dongyup said that since he's embarrassed it means that there's a chance to change... like no, he's embarrassed because his wife exposed his disgusting behavior and he'll probably go home and be even worse to her now!! I know that none of these men probably ever change but anyways but still, I need someone to give this woman the number to an abuse hotline or something
Yeah you can tell by the end that he felt fuck all as his wife was breaking down in tears while he's sitting there smiling. Even their kid has better sense than him knowing that what he does is wrong but it is still scary how he's picking up on the things his dad had said.
salma q same it’s unbelievable how looks have to matter at this serious concern.
There's a few reasons other than her self esteem that'll make it so that she probably never leaves him though. In S. Korea the laws on divorce are different - men usually get custody of the kids, so many women are afraid of pursuing a divorce, and if the women do end up getting custody paying child support is optional from their ex, so it would be a single family income with, most likely, no one to be home to watch your kids, or at least be in the same house as them while you're at work. There's also a huge social stigma attached to divorce, and since your family information has to be attached to your resume in most cases, most definitely for well paying jobs, it makes it hard to pass interviews. So, if she loses the job she has now, for whatever reason, she would be job hunting for a while, which will make life a lot harder since she needs to buy groceries, pay the rent, etc etc to take care of her children.
you literally took the words out of my mouth.
I'm addicted to this show I watch 5 episodes every single day
If I could press that button , I would have pressed it like a million times
He doesn't need a wife. He needs a maid 😤
Khairun Ibrahim He doesn’t deserves a psychiatrist, he deserves a slap
no he needs a robot a maid would resign as soon she start working
just divorce him ...this is a toxic relationship
Rouane chaymae it’s difficult in Korea. She’d have to support her three kids and many people lose their jobs and become social outcasts because of divorce, and child support is optional there. She’d be put in a very precarious position. She’d probably lose the support of some friends and family members alike.
they should just go to some serious Nouthetic marriage counseling or just read and live by Ephesians 4 and 5.
My father was worse than this now that I think about it.
He was an alcoholic and didn't even work. He'd verbally abuse my mom almost every single day and sometimes he'd passout on the roadside. My mom had a very low paying job. She single handedly brought up 4 kids. She's the strongest woman i know.
i would literally leave in a second. she's beautiful and hardworking, don't settle for less!
If I was her I would given him divorce papers after and put his ass on child support cause he's never gonna change and that face that he made when everyone was saying that his wife is pretty and he's the only one showing that face of it's ok instead of smiling like a normal husband and saying his wife is the most beautiful and also he's not that handsome she's way more gorgeous
Destiny Lopez child support is optional for the man to pay in Korea. I heard very few men pay it.
divorce is not very common there, and very frowned upon. So both of them will end up being a social outcast "Oh, she is divorced....." and then start to badtalk her and him for it, and child support is optional.
anyone can change. give him a chance once he realizes hes at fault. if after this he doesnt change, she should leave him and then he'll understand how much she actually meant and did.
Namjoon's bbabey no it depends on the judge. The woman actually has to request it in court and show that she is a better parent in korea since they usually give custody to the man so most don’t bring it up for fear of not being able to see their kids.
She’s so much prettier than him lmao
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How is that important?
@@chiaragroh579 everyone always says how lucky she is to have him and are jealous but she is by far the most attractive in that relationship 🤷
I’m Korean. He’s the reason why I’m married to a wonderful white man. I’m not saying all Korean men are this way. But this is something I would not put up with. My husband is the most kind,caring and thoughtful man. My father was the same way. Thank you next
I'm so angry towards him. What kind of husband he is?
And for the wife. Really impressive. Incredible. Salute you sis
That man is an abuser. He keeps belittling her and says she's inferior to him. She should leave him.
He even act like she was ugly when people Saw the photo
@@AyAReI00 He looked so disappointed not a supportive husband at all. Sis needs to run.
The girl is not AT ALL lucky to have the guy as her husband. What fits more is that the guy is MORE lucky to have the girl. She is such a GODDESS! If it were any other woman she would've divorced the husband by now but the woman actually still loves him and came to the program to talk and have an understanding relation with him. Wow! SHE NEEDS AN AWARD BIGGER THAN WHAT SHE GOT IN MRS. UNIVERSE!
As a person who understands people well, this man is not going to change. I seriously suggest the pretty lady to leave him. I'm a bit worried as to how she'll handle all 3 of the kids though...
This guy literally wants a mother not a wife. The '5 virtues' he is talking about are literally the qualities of a mother. What a spoiled and dependent person he is.
This dude ain’t even cute... like not in the slightest. She need to leave his funky ass. Looking like the damn muffin man.😂😂😂😂
Unicorn Rainbows 😂😂😂😂 I'm ded
Unicorn Rainbows LMAO A MUFFIN IM DEAD
OMG you are so right XD
I think he is "average" handsome Korean man. He isn't as stunning as Kpop idols but he's up there in looks when it comes to Korean standards. Most of us are coming from liking Kpop. Your idea of handsome isn't the same as Korea's. The girl could of thought he was drop dead handsome and her American friend could of though he look like a toe on a stick.
he should've hired a maid if he wants someone to take care of the chores for him and if he wants to live comfortably w/o doing anything
I'm sure he wanted a FREE maid that makes money, takes care of his ass and gives him childeren
lilover El what a fcking piece of shit he is
She should return his lazy behind to his parents.
In my country, India,this is a well accepted norm.smh.challenge it and u are called ill mannered and what not.like men can do whatever, but as a woman,u shudnt even say that he did so and so.nope.just zip ur mouth cz ur a woman
Sadia Adil that is so sad tho but i guess it depends on the culture too. in korea, it's not normal right? even the hosts and guests are mad. that's why im so angry at the dude
24:55 I love seeing women comforting and supporting each other.
"There's no need to be nice to her anymore" WAHHHHH HE GOT TO BE KIDDING MEE THEN GO BACK TO THE JOSEON DAY SIRRRR I AM REALLY MAD, THIS GIRL HAVE TO LEAVE HIM
Just divorce him, even for the kids is not healthy to live seeing a father like that. :(
There's no sugar coating it, this relationship is toxic. He expects her to do everything for him as if this is the Joseon era, he constantly puts her down by calling her old, telling her she has wrinkles, and trying to make it seem like he's doing her a favor by being with her. And it's just going to be a sick cycle; the kids are going to grow up thinking that it's normal and acceptable to act this way. If they are going to split, it's honestly better to do it when the kids are still young so that they can adapt. Because even if he can be a good father, it doesn't make up for being a shitty husband.
I agree not everyone is fit for parenthood. It may seem wrong but sometimes its better for kids to be separated from parents who are irresponsible and unkind and not mentally fit. Kids need a peaceful and positive environment to thrive, they are very sensitive.
wonder how they are doing now. Does the program have repeat couples back to check on them how they are doing after appearing??
who ever is in charge of making dictionaries, please put this guys' picture next to the word "garbage"
😠 So you mean to tell me that out of 200 votes, she ONLY received 163? Did the other 37 people go to sleep? I was over here pressing buttons and I wasn't even at the studio. Let's hope this dude learns to APPRECIATE what he has before it is too late!
i do wondering why too, is the remaining 37 persons is like him-_-
I am sure they are men or women who are brainwashed by patriarchal social
Probably the older folks there? This guy is whacked. He thinks he's superior to all women, just because of their gender. To me, that's on the same level as racism (thinking you're better than others because of your race).
Ahhahhahah you made me laugh smh after such stressing concern .
I think most korean men has problem with the thought of "they'll do everything for their girlfriend but not once they're married"
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I've actually been to South Korea before, and the tourist guide told us that you can date korean men, but never marry them. Because korean men are so lovey dovey and romantic just like most of the korean drama while dating, but they treat you like a maid after marriage. But again, it depends on each personality. I'm not saying that all of them are like that.
As long as your relationship is equal from the beginning it will continue to be like that in marriage. If a man treats you excessively well (more than you give him), it may mean that he is expecting something from you in the future. Think of it as kind of like an emotional investment.
I see that there is this old fashioned gentlemen behavior based on the ideology that women are physically, emotionally and financially weaker than men. So that's why many men (especially from conservative countries) subconsciously exert their superiority on their girlfriends by buying them presents, opening doors for them and always paying for a meal. I strongly urge women to see this as a warning signal; a signal that indicates that these type of men are patriarchal in nature and so to avoid them at all costs. I urge women to not hesitate to pay during dates etc. By doing this you are discouraging this patriarchal mindset and reinforcing that you are equal to him.
Yeah. I love K-Drama and they just romanticized korean men in general. Haha. My friend dated a Korean man and were together for five years. She broke up with him because she couldn’t handle how she was willing to study his culture but he wasn’t willing to do the same for her. He kept saying, “You’re the woman, you’re lucky you have me”. She dumped his ass.
Nah, you're kind of right. A good portion of Korean men are like this. I see a lot in my family and extended family as well. I think as the new generations get married, they're calling out the bullshit on narcissistic and sexist men.
Phillip Kim Thank you! I’m not saying it’s just Korean men. There are so many men out there that are like this! I hope new generations in the future will be able to do ditch this kind of attitude.
so why bother. just date ur same nations lmao
Did he change after this? Is there a website to look them up and see how they are anymor
This makes me so mad. I’m so happy to be born in a country where equality is almost given
Why did they keep saying he's handsome when he's not???
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Korean beauty standard.. He fits right in with the male standard of beauty in korea..
actually? he's ugly
Damn, Korean beauty standards are...weird..
The wife is gorgeous tho, inside n out
to them? only beauty is important
Or maybe you dislike him that's why he looks ugly if he was a nice guy you say he is the most handsome guy in the world ? I mean lets look at rubbish youtube comments. Even when a women has a huge chunk meat stuck out from part of her face. 99% of the comments are still like " wow, I think she looks unique and beautiful " or crap like " you're still pretty
this is actual pure sexism in the year of 2018 lmaoooo oh my god
I relate to this so much because my dad is like this. Although he is slightly better. He does the dishes sometimes but then talks about for the whole day, as if he just saved the world or something.
Yo. If I was in the audience I would’ve leapt out my seat and thrown one. I’m gobsmacked at how composed everyone was. I know this is a talk show but dammmmmm...
6:18 Y'ALL I HAD TO PUT MY GLASSES ON ARE WE LOOKING AT THE SAME MAN??? WHERE IS HE HANDSOME I--
Elisea lmaoooo
Compared to other korean men.. he's quite handsome actually
@@asmaroslan2262 yea....he fits the korean beauty standard for handsome men. but maybe not in other country
They went easy on him because he’s “handsome” smh
Kai Kim I don't get it… is this what most people consider handsome in Korea? I don't find him attractive at all.
Tbh he looks like a loser, Korean standards are as follows: as long as you have a small face, you're handsome. And not even one host commented about how beautiful the wife is
Nah, they were just polite. I have rarely seen people go off in these korean television unlike those in the western ones.
No it's because they are on air.
Would love to know if they ended up divorcing. I wish there was a follow up or where are they now segment, but hello counselor is over so it's too late 😭
That's probably the most toxic man you'd ever encounter. Red flags staring right back at you. Sigh~
Also, funny how he said that his wife is wrinkly, but the wife actually looks so fresh and younger than him. He himself has quite the wrinkly eyes. I'm sorry I shouldn't have mentioned physical things, but he should have been kinder, really.