Complicated girl problems! I have a fear of women. [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.04.09]

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    Hello Counselor EP.359 Youth Special.
    Guests : Tony An, EXID's Hani & Jeonghwa, San E, Han Hyunmin
    Jung Seunghwan
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  • @Joyce-kx4jh
    @Joyce-kx4jh Před 5 lety +7698

    His friends are literally the best, they're so supportive. Where can I find me friends like that?

    • @qai7823
      @qai7823 Před 4 lety +58

      J Bangtan same I literally cried

    • @tannie.i4073
      @tannie.i4073 Před 4 lety +18

      I am here !

    • @jayrabah8064
      @jayrabah8064 Před 4 lety +57

      “They’re as great as they look “ 🤣

    • @gloomysun7831
      @gloomysun7831 Před 4 lety +1

      J Bangtan? Jocye K are you an army before?or still?
      Just asking I'm an ARMY 💜💜💚💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💞💞😍😘

    • @Joyce-kx4jh
      @Joyce-kx4jh Před 4 lety +3

      @@gloomysun7831 I am an army:)

  • @thatcringygirl
    @thatcringygirl Před 5 lety +13883

    *Warning!*
    I founded his ig and he has girlfriend now! Let's wish him and his girlfriend everything best ♥♥♥♥

    • @user-im5ti7of6x
      @user-im5ti7of6x Před 5 lety +331

      @@tongchanthapha9264 seo_hwi_jeong

    • @thatcringygirl
      @thatcringygirl Před 5 lety +471

      Tong Chanthapha Through saying "private" I meaned "personal", sorry if I was misunderstanding 🙏🏻 I just don't think so, that he would like to have a lot of people commenting his ig since he isn't famous theatre singer yet. We just should treat him gently, because he still might be shy in some way 🤗

    • @thatcringygirl
      @thatcringygirl Před 5 lety +37

      Tong Chanthapha thank you for understanding ♥♥♥

    • @caiqi9590
      @caiqi9590 Před 5 lety +259

      I feel thats little bit stranger 😅 i saw it i find the IG before u tell me (search with hangul) thats little bit fishy/strange for me cause in this show his conditions really serious but how he can turn to be romantic guy around 2 months? He even cant face to face with girls but 2 month laters he even can kissing& hug his GF 😅....i wish this show not set up or he's not lie...cause i really love this show & i like his story

    • @socotrocoway
      @socotrocoway Před 5 lety +167

      Honestly, I think all these kind of TV shows are only inspired in real-life situations and then acted. Don't be disappointed, just pretend you believe and let the magic happen haha

  • @jungsheep9860
    @jungsheep9860 Před 5 lety +4652

    he was so polite to the women there even if he was really anxious. like he is so apologetic for what he does, and I hoped maybe the people there shouldn’t have been so hard on him like telling him to “Look at the girl” or “Sit next to the girl” I mean you know he’s scared so why bother lolllllolololl

    • @notfreddie9285
      @notfreddie9285 Před 4 lety +17

      Agreed

    • @kimi8196
      @kimi8196 Před 4 lety +54

      Because he want to be an actor , they need to changed him aigooo

    • @joesama08
      @joesama08 Před 3 lety +51

      force him to sit or look at a girl maybe look cruel. but sometime human need force to change. for they own goodness.
      they force that man to look at hani or sit next to her it's just a one of many treament that used to gain confidence

    • @lunaire9268
      @lunaire9268 Před 3 lety +12

      @@notfreddie9285 same! i don't like the way they were making fun of him the whole time.

    • @lunaire9268
      @lunaire9268 Před 3 lety +2

      @@joesama08 personally for me things like this don't help. forcing is not okay, he should do it when he gained the confidence and decided to do that himself.

  • @louisa1550
    @louisa1550 Před 5 lety +3501

    Lmao they needed Kim Heechul’s expertise for this video dhsjdhjssh

  • @InfinityDancer14
    @InfinityDancer14 Před 6 lety +4763

    “ You are a great person, that’s why you have great friends “
    MAN OF QUOTE

    • @jona-xy8sr
      @jona-xy8sr Před 6 lety

      kihyuns when?

    • @InfinityDancer14
      @InfinityDancer14 Před 6 lety +14

      Sung Min Jin 27:34

    • @jona-xy8sr
      @jona-xy8sr Před 6 lety +2

      kihyuns thank you!

    • @baakojernigan7095
      @baakojernigan7095 Před 6 lety +59

      But not necessarily true. I know plenty of great people who have been deceived by shit friends :(

    • @InfinityDancer14
      @InfinityDancer14 Před 6 lety +11

      Baako Jernigan yeah that’s true :( Don’t understand why some people are just so fake at sometimes 😪

  • @samiraahmed4064
    @samiraahmed4064 Před 5 lety +5814

    Omg his friends are all good looking wtf

    • @paris7465
      @paris7465 Před 5 lety +194

      Samira ahmed fr especially the one in the jean jacket 😂💀

    • @jz_es.469
      @jz_es.469 Před 5 lety +35

      I'M HAPPY FOR HIM~
      *cries*

    • @johnnybrown9120
      @johnnybrown9120 Před 5 lety +23

      that's korea

    • @lalalily4827
      @lalalily4827 Před 5 lety +79

      Thats cos they are all about to become and actors.. btw we have same name Samira😂😁

    • @braylin5003
      @braylin5003 Před 5 lety +18

      Squad goals duh

  • @springlady8337
    @springlady8337 Před 4 lety +3317

    When his friends started singing for him, I cried for about 20 minutes. I had to leave my group of friends because they were quite mean and toxic when put together. I don’t have any friends now. I’m hoping I can make some soon. I can only hope they are as loving and kind as his friends.

    • @Nobody91021
      @Nobody91021 Před 4 lety +151

      I was just reading the comments and came across this and just wanted to say, keep fighting! A single true friend is more important than 20 fake ones.

    • @lang-ed3bk
      @lang-ed3bk Před 4 lety +76

      you did the right thing; i applaud you for making that decision. don't worry, you got rid of the negative and will attract more positive friends.

    • @inomkirby
      @inomkirby Před 4 lety +30

      you'll have more positive friends, just like what the video said, you are a great person that's why you have great friends. you'll have amazing friends, count on it!

    • @day6cddiet689
      @day6cddiet689 Před 4 lety +11

      I feel you. I started blocking them out from all of my social medias and it gave me a peace of mind.

    • @icyhoonies
      @icyhoonies Před 4 lety +7

      I hope you'll find some good friends asap if you feel lonely especially during quarantine if you are doing it you can answer under this comment and I'll give you my IG ;)

  • @mchras
    @mchras Před 4 lety +2319

    Imagine having a fear of women and then getting to meet Hani, the queen, on TV

    • @melangedebeaute_7216
      @melangedebeaute_7216 Před 4 lety +48

      mchras and jeonghwa! another absolutely talented queen

    • @PSx1991
      @PSx1991 Před 4 lety +88

      They should have brought hwasa 😀but he would be traumatized 😅

    • @realitycheck1504
      @realitycheck1504 Před 4 lety +59

      kuro mashin imagine him in one room with hwasa, cl, jessi, Hyuna, and hani.

    • @PSx1991
      @PSx1991 Před 4 lety +27

      @@realitycheck1504 please don't kill him :D

    • @realitycheck1504
      @realitycheck1504 Před 4 lety +8

      kuro mashin I mean... if I was in the same room as them I would probably die too😅😅

  • @Sunnybias
    @Sunnybias Před 6 lety +7671

    That entrance was the cutest I’ve ever seen!! Omg he is precious 😂 I hope he overwins his fears and can start to live without anxiety around women ~ fighting!!

    • @iSanrio
      @iSanrio Před 5 lety +6

      Jon1 Yaspapa 2 weeks later and here is the second reply

    • @ralteh3390
      @ralteh3390 Před 4 lety +21

      And is married!!

    • @gelly.bear04
      @gelly.bear04 Před 4 lety +20

      And with kids!!

    • @queenb7209
      @queenb7209 Před 4 lety +1

      Me tki

    • @queenb7209
      @queenb7209 Před 4 lety +1

      @@gelly.bear04 omg really I'm so happy for him♡

  • @jenkinsnotification132
    @jenkinsnotification132 Před 6 lety +2803

    Why all musical students look so handsome?

    • @sabirah99
      @sabirah99 Před 6 lety +18

      101 1007 hahahahahaha ikr!!!!

    • @mimivu5581
      @mimivu5581 Před 6 lety +168

      more handsome than the model students xD

    • @FFarah-td5us
      @FFarah-td5us Před 6 lety +87

      101 1007 I was thinking the same thing. They ALL LOOKED HOT AND FINE 🔥

    • @danielam9776
      @danielam9776 Před 6 lety +26

      I have to disagree hahaha I study music 😂😂
      And... Well.... Nope xd

    • @jenkinsnotification132
      @jenkinsnotification132 Před 6 lety +14

      I think i should change my major to musical hahahaha

  • @thewallflower9867
    @thewallflower9867 Před 4 lety +1810

    Are all student majored in musical studies handsome and pretty? 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @urvijoshi1357
    @urvijoshi1357 Před 2 lety +349

    Him and his whole friends group deserves a kdrama on themselves. 🤌🏻

  • @Sunnybias
    @Sunnybias Před 6 lety +4964

    25:18 when his friends sang to him I cried so hard!!! These are true friends and that was so damn beautiful!!! 😭❤️

    • @atiqahh8049
      @atiqahh8049 Před 6 lety +9

      Sunny.bias same goes to me.

    • @jroyals_
      @jroyals_ Před 6 lety +3

      😭😭❤❤

    • @RaeOfSunshine7
      @RaeOfSunshine7 Před 6 lety

      SAME😭♥️

    • @xarnies8738
      @xarnies8738 Před 5 lety +2

      What song were they singing?

    • @jennawebster4861
      @jennawebster4861 Před 5 lety +28

      That's All I Have (그게 나의 전부란 걸) (Duet with Ock Joohyun) (옥주현) · Hong Kwang Ho(홍광호)

  • @intannurazila2536
    @intannurazila2536 Před 5 lety +3394

    Okay but his male friends are all so so handsome tho 😂😂😂😂

  • @OnlyMusic16
    @OnlyMusic16 Před 5 lety +2423

    As I child I (a girl) was genuinely terrified of boys, avoided them in most daily situations and was petrified if I had to sit by them/work with them in school. This stemmed from my own insecurity and fear that they were judging me or looking at me, when really it was usually just a casual encounter. I assume this is similar to what he's feeling in that he doubts himself and therefore is afraid of girls because they are the main example of who he wants to impress and look good in front of.
    I have faith in him that through life and maturation he may begin to feel better. His self-esteem is definitely a big part of this, and I suspect an anxiety disorder as well. I feel for him, and he's very kind-hearted and adorable in his shyness. With his friends' support, maybe he will improve over time :) He seems like he must be a great person for so many to genuinely want to help him!

    • @tejuoshohephzibah7491
      @tejuoshohephzibah7491 Před 5 lety +52

      I went through the same thing

    • @kiwii2163
      @kiwii2163 Před 5 lety +63

      I’m going through the same thing and I’ve really been working on it lately. He actually has a gf now, I wish I can be like him and overcome my fear.

    • @yyxshy
      @yyxshy Před 4 lety +8

      I'm dealing with this now

    • @alinnedothe792
      @alinnedothe792 Před 4 lety +37

      Me too. I'd start to get anxiety attacks when I'd see a guy walk by, or walks in at a local place where i was... my mother always assums i like them but doesn't understand that i feel this way bc of myself, not bc of the guy. I worry if they'll judge, but i could care less abt the guy. Does that make sense?

    • @catblog_
      @catblog_ Před 4 lety +1

      i felt this

  • @nekopii
    @nekopii Před 5 lety +581

    Not gonna lie, that entrance was cute I can’t even. LMAO

    • @lunaire9268
      @lunaire9268 Před 3 lety +1

      no.

    • @nekopii
      @nekopii Před 3 lety +10

      @@lunaire9268 Don’t be rude. 57 people obviously agrees with me.

    • @lunaire9268
      @lunaire9268 Před 3 lety +2

      @@nekopii what? they mocked him, made him uncomfortable and terrified. it's not funny or "cute".

    • @nekopii
      @nekopii Před 3 lety +5

      @@lunaire9268 Like I said, 57 people agree with me. You obviously see it differently so I’ll respect that. And besides, that comment mainly was at that particular moment of the show without disregard of the main context of the issue. You don’t have to be so stuck up about it and dampen the mood like that. That’s just rude and honestly makes you seem like a prick.

    • @nekopii
      @nekopii Před 3 lety +4

      @@lunaire9268 anyway, seeing that you literally only joined youtube, it’s obvious you’re a troll so I won’t be talking to you any further.

  • @plum7t
    @plum7t Před 6 lety +5519

    Golden friendship.

    • @zloveless
      @zloveless Před 5 lety +54

      Nuha I’m crying right now because you can’t find a lot of people like them these days but I’m really happy , and I really love them # friendshipgoals

  • @trololyn24
    @trololyn24 Před 6 lety +2491

    I cried when his friends are singing for him. It's really a good thing that he has supportive friends whom he can rely. I hope he can confess to the girl he likes and finally overcome his fear to women. Good luck!

    • @loridaniel1718
      @loridaniel1718 Před 6 lety +6

      DentStudent same! 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @luviezen7698
      @luviezen7698 Před 6 lety +16

      same, i cried too 😭💕 they are such a good friends to him 😭💕

    • @preciousdianaia487
      @preciousdianaia487 Před 6 lety +6

      did you know what is the title of the song that they sang?

    • @sayuriyoshino2285
      @sayuriyoshino2285 Před 6 lety +4

      That song had too many emotions in it i really wanna know it's name

    • @m_ay511
      @m_ay511 Před 6 lety +3

      me too

  • @annabellej9429
    @annabellej9429 Před 3 lety +443

    24:13 I love his friends' reactions. You can see they really care about him and seeing him overcome his fear is a big thing

  • @moonchild2762
    @moonchild2762 Před 3 lety +116

    The way his friends look at him in such a loving way while singing those lyrics 😭😭 and then the way he reciprocates it by mouthing the words back to them without breaking eye contact 😭😭 I can’t. Who’s cutting onions?

  • @user-ek7ct5nl5d
    @user-ek7ct5nl5d Před 6 lety +1898

    This is a very serious anxiety issue that he has, i don't like how they're not really taking him seriously​.

    • @edisonyang3658
      @edisonyang3658 Před 5 lety +261

      I think it's the nature of the show to be funny and not too serious. However, I also think it's a flaw of the show because they could possibly get these folks professional help but due to the state of their country, I doubt anyone would actually show up that because they fear how the public will think of them.

    • @swethayenduri9897
      @swethayenduri9897 Před 5 lety +3

      Yr

    • @jotarokuzo
      @jotarokuzo Před 5 lety +82

      I thought I was the only one concerned about that. I have pretty bad social anxiety, so I know what it’s like to do things like get off a train or walk a longer route just because I feel anxious over something. It can be extremely inconvenient and it’s not exactly something that can be fixed with their advice. I wish the best for him.

    • @beepboop4833
      @beepboop4833 Před 5 lety +21

      @@edisonyang3658 I have heard that they actually provide proffesional help.

    • @miffyberryy
      @miffyberryy Před 5 lety +17

      exactly !! instead of making fun of him , they should hire professionals to come out and help him

  • @Cuupi
    @Cuupi Před 6 lety +3536

    A lot of introverts are actually very expressive, but only with their closest families and friends. I think it is kinda frustrating for the non-introverts to see that and they try to change it, but it may make the introverts even more uncomfortable and might shut down. If you want to befriend an introvert, you must be prepared to have only 2-3 other friends in your circle. More than 5 is going to have their personality changed and you might end up having a mute instead.. Also, when extroverts are pulling out funny jokes, don't feel like the introverts hate it. They might very well be the one who loves it the most, but they can't express themselves when it's a big group, so just don't take it too personally.. I don't know, as an introvert, I always have difficulties adapting in a big crowd and have very little to say, not because I don't want to, but my body tells me no. It's not something you can force yourself to change..

    • @honeybutterpotatochips
      @honeybutterpotatochips Před 6 lety +77

      Cuupi true. I was also an introvert esp to random people but now i kinda learn to open up and muster my courage. i met noisy and messy friends that's why HAHAHA

    • @nicolesanjuan6040
      @nicolesanjuan6040 Před 6 lety +82

      That’s me but some people call it social anxiety I’ve had it a while but I’ve been learning to talk to people more

    • @fatimaamellouk1686
      @fatimaamellouk1686 Před 6 lety +60

      The guy showed signs that his willing and so ready to change, He's doing fine with his group of friends since they understand him and love him (and i'm so amazed of how lucky he is to have all of them around him), If his fear toward women changed, his introvented personality won't change at all, he will only get close to the person he loves but at least he will feel comfortable walking in the street and breathing in the subway TT. some introvents don't really find problems talking inside a big group (if you meant expressing their ideas by "talking" cause i'll argee with you if you meant opening up abt personal stuff). The fact is that "introvents don't like to talk much" with ppl they don't have a close relationship with so when you said "Finding difficute to adapt in big crowd" I believe it may be related more to social anxiety not the nature od being an introvent!! ..

    • @JayJay-tp7fr
      @JayJay-tp7fr Před 6 lety +9

      This thread of comments is literally me😧

    • @yraimperial4431
      @yraimperial4431 Před 6 lety +25

      OMG. I FEEL U SO SOOOO MUCH. I have this friend and she told me to communicate more with other people and I was like "don't push me too hard. That's not easy"

  • @xamariathompson2260
    @xamariathompson2260 Před 5 lety +651

    Someone protect him please he’s so adorable 😂💕
    When he acted out that part in the movie... chills literally he looked so different 😧
    Hot shit his voice is amazing to... kill me

    • @xamariathompson2260
      @xamariathompson2260 Před 5 lety +12

      ZadaWho ik I saw it on his Instagram she’s so gorgeous there such a great couple

    • @senanurincekara9442
      @senanurincekara9442 Před 3 lety

      @@xamariathompson2260 waow really ? What is his Instagram ?

    • @jaehyuniversity
      @jaehyuniversity Před 3 lety

      @@xamariathompson2260 can you tell us his ig acc?

    • @cosmixtsu
      @cosmixtsu Před 3 lety

      @@jaehyuniversity seo.hwi.jeong

    • @jaehyuniversity
      @jaehyuniversity Před 3 lety

      @@cosmixtsu thank you so much ♡´・ᴗ・`♡

  • @bffstogether4ever47
    @bffstogether4ever47 Před 5 lety +246

    23:32 "it's not one of those four, right?" 😂😂😂

  • @chawol4640
    @chawol4640 Před 6 lety +2211

    I like how everyone is talking about his kind friends but Im over here cheering on his acting. Like its so good, I wouldn't be surprised if I see him in a movie in a few years

    • @tkennol
      @tkennol Před 6 lety +6

      Cherri do you happen to know where the actor he was reenacting is from like is it from a drama or a show

    • @chawol4640
      @chawol4640 Před 6 lety +10

      If I’m correct it’s from the movie Architecture 101

    • @aaiish9097
      @aaiish9097 Před 6 lety +1

      Cherri thats right

    • @tkennol
      @tkennol Před 6 lety

      Cherri oh okay thank you so much

    • @myathegrandma
      @myathegrandma Před 6 lety +1

      Same

  • @s0phi76
    @s0phi76 Před 6 lety +1014

    He's handsome, tall, sweet, a great actor, and a great singer
    LIKE DAMN WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT IN A MAN

    • @shitdown-kimtaehyung6566
      @shitdown-kimtaehyung6566 Před 6 lety +2

      Jiminimized RIGHT!!😱

    • @meowwe
      @meowwe Před 6 lety +74

      Jiminimized and he is going to be loyal as hell since he can't even talk to women lol

    • @ukari-sama9893
      @ukari-sama9893 Před 6 lety +25

      I Stan him already

    • @bby4990
      @bby4990 Před 6 lety +14

      He reminds me of Jungkook lmao 😂😂😂

    • @user-nb6ys9rb4h
      @user-nb6ys9rb4h Před 6 lety +2

      가브리 엘라 맞아용ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  • @jaxlone997
    @jaxlone997 Před 4 lety +83

    Ain't no Counselor, this episode a legit Drama

  • @neilneil7074
    @neilneil7074 Před 5 lety +247

    This actually made me tear up since I feel the same way. I have a fear of men and most of my friends are women or bi and I can't really act normal in the presence of a man, I'm trying to think better of them now. I hope he's better now.

    • @jekesan4221
      @jekesan4221 Před 4 lety +1

      Lol,why'd you fear male?

    • @blkgirlytb
      @blkgirlytb Před 3 lety +15

      probably trauma

    • @mirroruniverse9331
      @mirroruniverse9331 Před 2 lety +11

      @@jekesan4221
      It's not funny there are many people who fear men

    • @jekesan4221
      @jekesan4221 Před 2 lety

      @@mirroruniverse9331 In my country lol doesn't mean laugh out loud, the closest thing i could think of is it is like lels or something that.

  • @nn05124
    @nn05124 Před 6 lety +1644

    I am envy him for having such good friends.

  • @sweetTRS
    @sweetTRS Před 6 lety +4108

    This shows how people's little remarks said casually or joking can influence in a bad way a person's condition... So people should think before expressing their mind: not everyone will take those words lightly. He's really a sweet guy and has a really beautiful and caring friends beside him 💕 this story was really touching 😭 p.s. i'm also like him,i become self-conscious of my every action and movement. i don't lock eyes with guys and i'm cold towards them so much that they think i probably hate them + i get cold feet whenever i have to do something in public and i can't speak my mind.

    • @bequemm
      @bequemm Před 6 lety +27

      my byul indeed. Small words cab effect stronger than u would think.

    • @MrJuustupea
      @MrJuustupea Před 6 lety +43

      You cannot expect people to be nice to you all the time, there's billions of us... It should be handled and practiced not to take negative comments seriously. Beacuse people won't act differently to you just beacuse you say it, you can't control people.

    • @nigiriii
      @nigiriii Před 6 lety +38

      On the other hand, people can't always be cautious with all they say :( Everyone takes the joke differently. We don't see what's going on in their head :(

    • @kellyaslan3657
      @kellyaslan3657 Před 6 lety +21

      h8pe - hxx not to mention that Koreans have many insecurities and complexes to begin with. I was talking to my 29 year old korean teacher the other day and she was telling me how important texting is and that if her boyfriend didn't reply to her texting in 5 min, she would get very angry and break up with him. Of course I laughed hysterically at this and told her texting is for teenagers.. and only an immature person would do that . she got insulted and gave me this look like "What do you know stupid foreigner?" Hahaha... which of course proved my point that she is immature..
      Society. Culture. Family.. that's why Koreans ,and Japanese, actually have no intrapersonal communication skills and they are awkward.

    • @dannyhustle2599
      @dannyhustle2599 Před 6 lety +10

      That is korean culture they always make joke that can hurt someone feeling.

  • @nurdalyena9061
    @nurdalyena9061 Před 4 lety +55

    Man i cried when his friends sang for him what a beautiful friendship

  • @imyouraveragescreamingpota3254

    Man I wish I was that talented, good looking and lucky to have amazing friends 😭 He’s also lucky to meet the members from EXID. Literally my favorite group

  • @Geonesis315
    @Geonesis315 Před 6 lety +2779

    Man he gotta start slow, Hani is too much even for the average guy lol

    • @KiMuse
      @KiMuse Před 6 lety +170

      Rubix i think he'd be more nervous with a girl he liked lol

    • @butterfliesonmymind705
      @butterfliesonmymind705 Před 6 lety +5

      Rubix Trueee

    • @eli-od2jm
      @eli-od2jm Před 6 lety +210

      I AS A GIRL WOULD BE AS NERVOUS AS HIM

    • @alisacole
      @alisacole Před 6 lety +67

      fr . the other group members can barely handle her lol .

    • @AlmightyEmoji
      @AlmightyEmoji Před 6 lety +55

      Go big or go home 😂

  • @AyanamiRei5kyu
    @AyanamiRei5kyu Před 6 lety +700

    i think this is one of my favorite stories of this show... cause 99% of the problems there are selfish or horrible people involved... and while his problem connects to horrible people in his past, he and his friends really give me hope in humanity, they all seem so great and i hope he'll overcome his issues one day and finds the love of his life and lives happily ever after, and his friends as well :D

    • @kyh_jhae4191
      @kyh_jhae4191 Před 6 lety +5

      I agree. This one is the best for me.

    • @monochrome9837
      @monochrome9837 Před 6 lety +6

      This one made my heart swell, in all honesty. They were all so sincere.

    • @teleleleleletvxliitay4587
      @teleleleleletvxliitay4587 Před 6 lety

      AyanamiRei5kyu agree

    • @carolnakatsu
      @carolnakatsu Před 6 lety +1

      Yes! This one was the best until now for me, it was so heartwarming to watch!

  • @knakdarmen
    @knakdarmen Před 5 lety +59

    i got so happy by his friends reactions when he asked Hani to the zoo!! They really care about him so much!!

  • @BG-nl5jo
    @BG-nl5jo Před 4 lety +121

    When his friends started singing, I started to cry. Because once again I realized how valuable friendship is

  • @didyouseemyjams
    @didyouseemyjams Před 6 lety +2835

    I have a fear of guys. I know it sounds ridiculous but seriously, I get nervous and panic when I'm near with any guys. I even have problems to communicate with my classmates. There's this guy who sits behind me in the class and he sometimes teases me. You know that kind of tease, when someone calls you and when you turn around to that person, he/she ignores you and calls you again? That what he did to me but I totally ignore him. When I walk anywhere and suddenly found a group of guys, sitting somewhere around the place I need to go, I'll pick another route. Don't care if it's far away as long as I don't bump into them.

    • @fairness_la445
      @fairness_la445 Před 6 lety +175

      Did you see my Jams i feel you too girl

    • @alinafraser8897
      @alinafraser8897 Před 6 lety +273

      Omg I du the same exact thing, I'm literally so scared of guys that I sometimes even have panic attacks and I don't know what to do and I'm extremely self-conscious. I thought I was the only one that felt that way and started to feel like a freak

    • @toledomikeer.4880
      @toledomikeer.4880 Před 6 lety +42

      Did you see my Jams I feel you girl.

    • @absent4505
      @absent4505 Před 6 lety +186

      i'm scared of everyone.

    • @leeathe
      @leeathe Před 6 lety +40

      I FEEL YOU. So. bad.
      There's this time in my class where we had to dance with the opposite genders, I usually wouldn't take my time talking with them no matter how I try to, But I'm doing my best communicating with them because I'm aiming for good grades at school. In the end... I'd say it was a disaster but hey at least the grades were alright xD If it were to be prom (I was in ninth grade and usually here in my country students in ninth, tenth and twelfth grades get to go to prom but oddly enough my school doesn't do proms with ninth graders) HECK I'd probably be absent on that day, Even though it badly affects the GRADES. But since I really don't want bad grades, Then maybe I'll go with a suit and tie because I don't like to wear gowns or dresses or... any girly clothes. I'd always be hoping that I get to have a girl partner or if the amount of students are odd then I'd better be off without a partner at all xD

  • @Sunnybias
    @Sunnybias Před 6 lety +2937

    17:38 He said he wanted to end it all - did he mean suicide!? It looked like they clipped something away. And the guy in the yellow shirt had his head down... woah... I hope he gets help and overcomes his struggles ❤️He is so precious!!

    • @alwaysbwithu
      @alwaysbwithu Před 6 lety +100

      Sunny.bias That is what I am wondering.

    • @Satopi3104
      @Satopi3104 Před 6 lety +432

      Yeah the Korean makes it clear he made a suicide attempt.

    • @menaretrashexceptnamjoon1621
      @menaretrashexceptnamjoon1621 Před 6 lety +36

      He I definitely think so

    • @SongForSouls
      @SongForSouls Před 6 lety +273

      Yes he did attempt suicide and sadly that is very common in Korean youth nowadays.

    • @user-nb6ys9rb4h
      @user-nb6ys9rb4h Před 6 lety +29

      Same I thought the same too when he said that

  • @jujukee
    @jujukee Před 4 lety +153

    20:07 I DIED🤣 But his acting skills are great

  • @josiedoniekkaboncales7925
    @josiedoniekkaboncales7925 Před 4 lety +66

    Is it just me or the guy who laughed at 9:00 is SOO CUTEEE

  • @dellaie3854
    @dellaie3854 Před 6 lety +705

    At least you know he’ll never cheat

    • @Nicki17321
      @Nicki17321 Před 5 lety +2

      Della lol

    • @nadiar.4638
      @nadiar.4638 Před 5 lety +12

      Della he still could....
      Most people cheat when they are not happy with their relationship. And if he got over his fear once (to start the first relationship) he could get over his fear again, if he found someone who made him happier than his current realtionship

    • @drawingsoul2105
      @drawingsoul2105 Před 5 lety

      @Della But are u

    • @draculwarmz96
      @draculwarmz96 Před 5 lety +5

      NadiaR Honestly I never heard a case where a shy guy had cheated.

  • @dianaf2274
    @dianaf2274 Před 6 lety +1375

    what a gold circle you have. you guys deserve each other ; ;

  • @melklee.05
    @melklee.05 Před 3 lety +37

    Watching these old episodes makes me realise that the hosts may not be experts but they always give sincere advice from their own experience which is very difficult to do to strangers.
    I am missing this show.They should continue season 2 soon🖤🖤

  • @barkbark5388
    @barkbark5388 Před 5 lety +119

    7:44 hes so adorbable lmaoo 😂❤

  • @doodlingrobloxian
    @doodlingrobloxian Před 6 lety +2987

    The guy in the black turtleneck is an extremely handsome individual 😍

  • @ArrenHidalgo
    @ArrenHidalgo Před 6 lety +344

    Now those friends are worth fighting for.

    • @bellaurbina5225
      @bellaurbina5225 Před 6 lety +12

      I don't know why but when I read that I was singing it as if it was the Mulan song " a girl worth fighting for" 😂

  • @BINI_NenengH
    @BINI_NenengH Před 2 lety +39

    I envy him for having his friends. They are so good that my heart hurts so much (in a good way). I cried when they were singing for him. I wish I have friends like them 😭

  • @heyokay3801
    @heyokay3801 Před 5 lety +19

    Damn the way his friends started to sing and that emotion , sync . Damn how I wish I had friends like them 😭
    I seriously would love to hear them sing for more ❣️

  • @petrkryloff
    @petrkryloff Před 6 lety +577

    the ending is moving af like bruh i wasnt ready and neither was Jeonghwa

  • @lokman8584
    @lokman8584 Před 6 lety +380

    hani is everyone's crush tbh and i teared up when they said his friends saved up for him and when they sang for him; it's so hard to find friends like them in this century

  • @milky-chan1388
    @milky-chan1388 Před 4 lety +425

    I don't like the fact that they laughed at him :((

    • @bansoo3003
      @bansoo3003 Před 4 lety +9

      Same

    • @renjvcn
      @renjvcn Před 3 lety +40

      they always do that and that's what i dislike A LOT even in serious situations they make jokes about it

    • @Real-tx3rn
      @Real-tx3rn Před 3 lety +27

      @@renjvcn it’s a fucking tv show, if he wanted serious help he would get actual help. This is all for content. People like u who complain about this shit but still watch shock me

    • @hameyo9093
      @hameyo9093 Před 3 lety +1

      ikr

    • @Nevadaax.
      @Nevadaax. Před 3 lety +2

      @@Real-tx3rn ok but maybe she didn’t know they were gonna make him feel uncomfortable?

  • @arissamaisarah4333
    @arissamaisarah4333 Před 5 lety +66

    lol his friends reactions after he confessed to hani lmao HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAH

    • @Sportsgirl125
      @Sportsgirl125 Před 5 lety +3

      arissa maisarah Lol Yeah and then he suddenly says: I’m so sorry
      Shin Dongyup: What are you sorry for!?
      😂

  • @positivelyblogs
    @positivelyblogs Před 6 lety +1008

    "We are your family and your siblings. We want to see you eat well. Please accept it."
    Awww i love their friendship. Well I also agree, they really do look like siblings. The guy looks handsome and I hope he'll have great self-esteem like his friends. He doesn't need to force himself to change, and I understand him. He's blessed to have such good friends who understands him. The first time I watched this video, I thought it's hilarious and kinda cute LOL. And he really looks like a real actor. He might become an actor in the future, I can't wait to see him act with girls :D Seo Hwijeong fighting!
    Edit: 24:22 my reaction when he confessed to Hani. I'm slapping the table, i feel bad for the table xD When his friends sang a song, I started crying but i dont wanna cry, potatoes don't cry xD anyways it was so touching ♥

  • @animelover99f
    @animelover99f Před 5 lety +1213

    Ignore me, just wanna make sure I save this 25:18

    • @kitzelbear4443
      @kitzelbear4443 Před 4 lety +11

      Joan Do you know what song it is?

    • @dwidyaputriawaeh7634
      @dwidyaputriawaeh7634 Před 4 lety +1

      @@kitzelbear4443 i was looking for that song too

    • @miizzuu
      @miizzuu Před 4 lety +5

      hey dude kinda sounds like Words of My Heart by Kim Yeon Ji

    • @user-qq4db1wy9y
      @user-qq4db1wy9y Před 4 lety +11

      exid even cried when his friends were singing sincerely with their beautiful voice

    • @constantine166
      @constantine166 Před 3 lety +2

      What song is it unnies and oppas 😅😞

  • @user-fm9eg3cu6e
    @user-fm9eg3cu6e Před 9 měsíci +9

    Guys, I have some good news. it's seems like he asked out his crush and they started dating( they look absolutely adorable) .Woow, I'm so happy for him .
    I saw this info in Ep-400 of Hello counselor (time stamp - 8.18 ,18.02.2019) ,where Eric nam guested. I wanted to share this news with you guy ,for who are interested.

  • @bellakim3766
    @bellakim3766 Před 4 lety +25

    It's funny how I cried the same time Hani and Junghwa did. lol his friends are the dream friends

  • @nine4059
    @nine4059 Před 6 lety +746

    At first i thought it was funny because i thought it was silly that he was scared of women i mean we're just normal people but really This is so sad ! you can tell he has a good heart and that he really tries to communicate with women but its so hard for him and his anxiety really hits him. And he has such amazing friends you can tell their special to him and he feels appreciative to have them. i wish him the best and i do hope he gets over this fear.

    • @fialova4471
      @fialova4471 Před 4 lety +4

      Thanks for understanding...but that you thougt was silly...still thanks..I'm scared of the opposite gender too so...I hope you could be more understanding and less judgy, just my opinion...

    • @Gabrosoft
      @Gabrosoft Před 4 lety +6

      Fialova honestly I feel like I get anxious towards men..not to this extent but I think it’s the result of bullying when u was in middle school

    • @fialova4471
      @fialova4471 Před 4 lety +1

      @@Gabrosoft That was probably hard for you... I'm sorry. I get literally the chills when I see a boy my age, because I got laughed and pointed at by boys and then got social anxiety

  • @rafajar711
    @rafajar711 Před 6 lety +731

    The saddest yet heartwarming story. He's so lucky to have such a super great friends around him. And have a beautiful voices. I've been wondering what's the song title that they sing?

    • @ShadowofAstarael
      @ShadowofAstarael Před 6 lety +4

      Rafa it's called "그게 나의 전부란 걸"

    • @ShadowofAstarael
      @ShadowofAstarael Před 6 lety +3

      if you search it on youtube there's a video by a channel called musicalheaventv

    • @marcia1959
      @marcia1959 Před 6 lety

      Rafa yep

  • @luvkaeya
    @luvkaeya Před 3 lety +10

    when his friends sang to him yall omggg i teared up i wish everyone has such amazing and supportive friends like them

  • @skullrazor
    @skullrazor Před 5 lety +156

    8:54 I don't have the condition, but it would've been the same reaction I would have done. Looking into Hani's eyes for 5 seconds.. that must be hard

  • @dimslim1633
    @dimslim1633 Před 6 lety +667

    His friends are so supportive and it’s so lovely to see them come through for their mate ❤️ not gonna lie teared up too when they sang to him x hwaiting Hwijeong !

  • @cuttostah
    @cuttostah Před 5 lety +19

    Bro this guy has some serious talents❤ I would be willing to keep him happy without letting him look at me

  • @fionamariano9240
    @fionamariano9240 Před 5 lety +6

    His friends are so kind, generouse, and loyal
    They moved me and made me cry

  • @wednesdayunderwood4488
    @wednesdayunderwood4488 Před 6 lety +386

    I was actually crying. He has some amazing friends that really care for him. It's so sweet.
    (Side note: he and his friends are super attractive)

  • @tinkerbellspixiedust8820
    @tinkerbellspixiedust8820 Před 6 lety +1557

    Plot-twist: _He was acting the whole time_ ...

    • @caiqi9590
      @caiqi9590 Před 5 lety +15

      I'm agree 😅

    • @looleas
      @looleas Před 5 lety +35

      LOL I WOULDNT CARE!!!★★
      GOOD CONTENT!!★★

    • @spongechi22
      @spongechi22 Před 5 lety +13

      Hahahaha i was just thinking this

    • @krystalabellanosa5198
      @krystalabellanosa5198 Před 5 lety +19

      they are now in a relationship with the girl he brought with him..

    • @InGodJihyoWeTrust
      @InGodJihyoWeTrust Před 5 lety +1

      @@krystalabellanosa5198 Really?!

  • @morganlori9743
    @morganlori9743 Před 3 lety +14

    I WAS SO DEAD WHEN HE RAN FROM THAT SLIDE😭😭

  • @Tam-hl8hm
    @Tam-hl8hm Před 5 lety +9

    I would literally pay money to see him and his group of friends have a kdrama PLEASE MAKE IT HAPPEN

  • @skyletta0626
    @skyletta0626 Před 6 lety +919

    Maybe using Hani, one of the most beautiful kpop idols out there was a mistake hahah. I mean, I wouldnt dare to look at her either hahaha

    • @nadinepoculan4846
      @nadinepoculan4846 Před 5 lety +34

      And jeonghwa too

    • @Truecrimeresearcher224
      @Truecrimeresearcher224 Před 5 lety +38

      When she got next to him when he had to look her in the eyes I thought the poor guy would have a heart attack and all she did was smile

    • @Abigdummy4life
      @Abigdummy4life Před 5 lety +17

      Hani makes me giggle like laughing gas X3

    • @zyne5111
      @zyne5111 Před 5 lety +1

      I would pass out.

  • @boo_wl
    @boo_wl Před 6 lety +252

    i think what broke me was him singing along with his friends....they really love each other!!

  • @dontsubscribejustleave9798
    @dontsubscribejustleave9798 Před 4 lety +16

    All the men in the viewers were smiling so muchXD😂❤

  • @gulishenkimemia5353
    @gulishenkimemia5353 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I dont even have one close friend right now, im so lonely and seeing his friends made me pray for even 1 friend like this. Im very happy tho for him having such friends

  • @ChocoChipsFan
    @ChocoChipsFan Před 6 lety +450

    this was the most touching hello counselor concern 😭 i loved it so much

  • @xyz3824
    @xyz3824 Před 6 lety +104

    5 or more years later, i will not be shock if this man is in a popular kdrama

  • @Khritter
    @Khritter Před 4 lety +5

    omg hani and jeonghwa legitimately crying because of his supportive friends, this entire episode is so wholesome, i cant T_T

  • @moonshine_starlight
    @moonshine_starlight Před rokem +2

    Guys I just noticed that the music that starts at 24:16 is the music of the BLACKPINK's 2022 song SHUTDOWN...😅😅😅😅(and this clip is of 2018)
    ..and yeah his friends are really supportive and praiseworthy👏👏...they are literally the best...and my best wishes to hwijeong..I hope he gains confidence and be able to do everything he wants..👍👍

  • @SparklingS
    @SparklingS Před 6 lety +175

    My tears just streaming down when his friends sing for him. He is that precious to them. I hope he can live with no worries in the future.

    • @kimmichelle8557
      @kimmichelle8557 Před 6 lety

      he is lucky to have caring friends such as those guys

  • @luvletter93
    @luvletter93 Před 6 lety +313

    This is definitely an anxiety issue, and I think it's best to take it to someone professional. It's something very hard for typically people to understand, but having to constantly be socially conscious and anxious can be a serious matter imo! I'm glad he has friends who understands him tho :)
    Also, this shows that no matter how young or old we are, one's words can be taken srsly or impact another's life drastically, and we should all be mindful and responsible for what we say.

  • @Japester702
    @Japester702 Před 4 lety +7

    He's brave for admitting these things and he has great friends. It reminded me of how I am, but I'd never go on a show, I'd just really isolate myself. But I have friends that have shown me kindness and I try to remember that.

  • @amaliahusna6637
    @amaliahusna6637 Před 5 lety +11

    His friends have a beautiful heart 💞 and handsomes too of course

  • @lesliemalagon3497
    @lesliemalagon3497 Před 6 lety +104

    The beginning when he slide down he ran for his life 😂😂😂😂 but he’s a good guy and he has great friends that support him and want to see him succeed I think that’s great he well one day be able to see and talk to women

  • @icywhispers1
    @icywhispers1 Před 6 lety +147

    He’s a sensitive young man who is talented and gifted. Be strong, son❤️ You’re a lovely guy👍🏾

  • @breadgenieboi9163
    @breadgenieboi9163 Před 4 lety +6

    THEY DID HIM DIRTY WITH THAT SLIDE PRANK

  • @AnanyaSingh-fl2bn
    @AnanyaSingh-fl2bn Před 5 lety +152

    Omggg the guy laughing at 9:01 is so damn cuteeee! Somebody give me his instaaaa

    • @ayatali7919
      @ayatali7919 Před 4 lety +7

      Hahaha literally I repeated that part twice just to see his face 😂

    • @wehavebiscuits
      @wehavebiscuits Před 4 lety +11

      Too much eye candy in this episode, sensory overload 🤯

    • @nurdamiasyahirah4129
      @nurdamiasyahirah4129 Před 4 lety

      Idk his ig but if I remember correctly he has a gf

  • @DrunkTaehyung
    @DrunkTaehyung Před 6 lety +160

    This is the episode of Hello Counselors that I signed up for.

  • @ginathecookie
    @ginathecookie Před 4 lety +3

    His voice and his friends' voices were AMAZING. His acting was awesome too.

  • @kzdwt9969
    @kzdwt9969 Před 5 lety +13

    26:09 UP AND DOWN IM DECEASED

  • @chloquettee
    @chloquettee Před 6 lety +1830

    I thought Jungkook was gonna slide down

    • @Zipperfork
      @Zipperfork Před 6 lety +74

      Yoongi INFIRES Everyone Oh my god

    • @chloquettee
      @chloquettee Před 6 lety +43

      Ineedsome JaMS I’m sorry

    • @hoshiihyunjiniee12
      @hoshiihyunjiniee12 Před 6 lety +39

      i thought the same lmao

    • @Zipperfork
      @Zipperfork Před 6 lety +29

      Yoongi INFIRES Everyone no no its fine! 💜 this comment deserves more likes

    • @psychoe9066
      @psychoe9066 Před 6 lety +132

      Jungkook isn't afraid of girls.
      He's afraid to hurt the girl by his crazy fangirls

  • @ash_am4840
    @ash_am4840 Před 6 lety +811

    My friend had a problem like this 😂😂 she would always scream and stuff when guys approached her, she actually had a spas attack when this one dude touched her and she ran away as fast as she could. She’s better now, she’s even dating someone!! I’m so proud of her progress and I’m sure this one dude will get better after time!

    • @-o-itscharli
      @-o-itscharli Před 6 lety +22

      Me tho 😭 I go to a girls school and apart from my family I haven't talked to a boy for years and now I get really nervous around them..

    • @kholidamsolikhah0373
      @kholidamsolikhah0373 Před 6 lety +5

      I have a fear of men/boy except my dad

    • @selat657
      @selat657 Před 6 lety

      I hope he'll get better too, he has such great friends that could help him overcome his concern ^^

    • @khadija.h3823
      @khadija.h3823 Před 6 lety +2

      -o- It'sCharli same it's just weird talking to them because I'm not used to it at all.

    • @-o-itscharli
      @-o-itscharli Před 6 lety +1

      Khadija H Right?? I don't know how to talk to them anymore

  • @justvibing2171
    @justvibing2171 Před 2 lety +16

    25:54 When she started crying I felt that. I really felt that. They are such beautiful friends.
    22:10 😢

  • @jinsdumplingakaprincess9398

    7:45 I cant he's so cute im like that with affection

  • @chanyeolvip7672
    @chanyeolvip7672 Před 6 lety +75

    My God, he is so innocent and adorable 😍, I thought that this kind of guys only existed in animes

  • @nikhichan9221
    @nikhichan9221 Před 6 lety +153

    I envy him so much...his friends circle is gold❤

  • @bluecharcoals478
    @bluecharcoals478 Před 4 lety +148

    24:22 - absolutely what my friends and i did when our friend did something embarassing
    friend 1 : laugh
    friend 2 : _well this aint new_ (just natural)
    friend 3 : cringe
    friend 4 : also laugh but suffer from being a punching bag
    friend 5 : well.. totally me

  • @jennBTS
    @jennBTS Před 4 lety +2

    I started crying when he was singing. his voice is so pure and innocent ❤️😭

  • @dnahubs
    @dnahubs Před 6 lety +93

    He's proof that people should always think before they speak, or at least to keep quiet if they can't say anything nice. You never know what another person is going through, so it certainly doesn't hurt to always make the effort to be nice or at the very least civil to everyone you meet.
    It's good to know that he has real friends who'll stick with him and care about him no matter what. I hope that he can find the courage and strength to move forward a little bit each day towards overcoming his fear so that he can pursue his dreams with confidence. I wish him and his friends happiness and success.

  • @sierra-x
    @sierra-x Před 6 lety +203

    9:44 the guy in the bottom row (3 in from the right) looks so depressed. Everyone around him is laughing and he's having flashbacks or something 😆

  • @heiditu87
    @heiditu87 Před 3 lety +4

    9:46 *THE BOY IN THE MIDDLE OF THE FRONT ROW IS SO CUTE WHAT-*

  • @tc_videos8400
    @tc_videos8400 Před 4 lety +17

    I mean if Hani was that close to me I would of had a heart attack 😭

  • @fangirlingfeels4298
    @fangirlingfeels4298 Před 6 lety +174

    I can honestly relate to him; but rather than being afraid of the opposite sex, I'm afraid of people in general. I am still struggling and this wednesday i have to speak in front of professors for my thesis defense. I had a few panic attacks this week and ended up being physically sick because of it. I hope in the future he and I and all the people like us will be more proud of ourselves and be more confident.

    • @sarangheyojessica
      @sarangheyojessica Před 6 lety +3

      fangirlingfeels same here , i’m so afraid to talk to strangers 😭

    • @nikkimarie6334
      @nikkimarie6334 Před 5 lety +4

      same here, I have extreme social anxiety and it is so hard for me to talk to anyone. :/ I hope it went well for you!

    • @sarangheyojessica
      @sarangheyojessica Před 5 lety +2

      Nikki M let’s work hard together to solve this out 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 cheers

    • @bugaboooo
      @bugaboooo Před 5 lety +2

      Samee I am in my school’s drama team and whenever we need to perform I just have panic attacks before the performance but I’m slowly getting over it now... I’m just scared of people...

    • @soulsoul408
      @soulsoul408 Před 5 lety +1

      Same😭😭

  • @norzarifahdee3883
    @norzarifahdee3883 Před 6 lety +69

    He has such a good circle of friends. I hope their friendship last long.