Thank You to husband material for sticking to morals and your truth!! Cheating has been so normalize in this society it’s ridiculous. Be honest with yourself. If you in agreement with your spouse to be in a monogamous marriage, stick to it. Having sidechic is a selfish act. If you want to sleep around, don’t marry. If you want to bring bible into this matter, GOD the creator of marriage , created ONE woman for Adam. It’s humans that have strayed away from the original plan.
Husband Material really makes some sense bikonu! People just need to be emotionally intelligent to know that there are some of us humans in conversations, voices get risen or raised, it doesn't mean *d person naa agbero or im dey vex*, naa so some humans just be in driving their points home!
This isn't a topic meant for just one episode and I suggest it shudnt just be about the Nigerian Married men/sidechicks alone, there shud episodes of Nigerian Married Women/SideNiggas too. Cos this thing wey we dey talk about so, what men think they are doing, women do it better and smarter! In future episodes which shud come thru as soon as possible as e dey hot, the ladies/women shud be given more rooms to express themselves too and it would be perfect (in ma opinion), if married ones or once married ones in Nigeria who are willing to participate could be invited and air their opinions and knowledge or wisdoms based on their experiences
Yeah, God created one man and one woman(Eve for Adam) but somehow, someway, our forefathers, from d old testament sef, change am to satisfy their personal interests&selfish needs, and God is a merciful God who tolerated / still tolerates (their &our doings no matter what), hence to make living peaceful for ourselves/one another in any forms of relationships we find ourselves, the need for truthful and effective communication which will then birth individual decision moving forward at any stage of such relationships before e go con turn *entanglement* 🤣
You took the words out of my mouth💯 thank you for this comment. You are obviously emotionally intelligent. And just to add, what we really need to to survive marriage is Emotional intelligence(EQ) because if you have good EQ you will naturally unlearn and relearn healthy relationship habits. God bless everyone trying to be a really good spouse to their partners.
First of all, thank you husband material for being the voice of reason among you all. Mercy played safe and stayed neutral and made her answers personal, that's smart. As for the rest of you that are intentionally dishonest, I hope you can tolerate and understand when you're the one on the receiving end. For starters, the topic is worded wrong, say it as it is, say the truth, cheating is wrong and there's no justification to it. Also because it is what is happening doesn't make or right, doesn't mean you should normalise it and normally should be cajoled or manipulated to endure nonsense. Nobody NEEDS an extramarital affair to work. The girl on camo started well but fell way off later, and if she's really staying with a cheating man for years then it says a lot about her and I'd rather reserve my comment. Relationships are a 2 way street, every party involved must put in effort to make it work, is it easy? No, achievable? Hell yea. For better for worse doesn't strip you of common sense abeg. As for PM I wasn't expecting so much so I'm not angry. HM I just hope your opinion isn't limited to this podcast and you'd actually practice what you preach. Well done all the same, anticipating part 2.
@aseobong there is more to this , let's focus on reality, yes there are morals and there are also reality, also put in consideration that $€x drives are different with different people, it doesn't mean they are 100% correct it just mean that , some people choose to do whatever it takes meaningful to them to keep their marriages
@@TheMezidon2008 there's no way to justify cheating in a relationship, there's nothing meaningful about it. Say something else. Secondly I'm not sure you can handle this advice if you were the one being cheated on. E only sweet to type, not experience
@@aseobongeyo1409 exactly just to add on this : if you need a side chick why not just marry her at first rather than put a woman in stress.. the reality is that men are naturally polygamous in nature (naturally) .. Christianity or other religion that respect one wife and woman is what has made some of us (men) disciplined enough to want to settle on one wife.. the original design from God was one woman and wife Matthew 19:4-6.. ps: shoutout to Husband Material
As a man I hate the fact that we've come to a period in time in today's society where infidelity has become a norm, we have come to justify it with reasons and make it sound like if you're not defiling your marriage you're a fool. What's more bad is interviewing people who aren't married to give opinions on a subject matter based on perception or emotions. We make marriage feel like it's a bondage or we're going to be in some sort of trap by getting married. As much as we all have our flaws individually I still believe in the concept of marriage, loyalty and trust as the bedrock. Pretty Mike may have made some points as to changes in intimacy with spouses overtime. Yes, but cheating or Infidelity doesn't have to lean to the man. Women also go through the same stress if not more especially with childbirth and catering for the home. In conclusion, know who you're marrying, communicate and keep it💯, there are good marriages still flourishing, the internet shouldn't be a bedrock for a good marriage.
Welldone Husband Material for sticking to the truth👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I’m more surprised at the ladies for justifying rubbish… it goes to show how the world and their experiences have damaged them. Nedu is super confused too, didn’t expect something different from PM
A friend that watched this with me said Husband Material was just talking like that because his wife is watching or would watch this, so he was being careful and trying not to say stuff that will lead to further questioning at home. He further said that, if Husband Mterial was single, his stance would falter. Anyhow sha, life is deep. Last last, what if after all is said and done and this world is over and our souls come find out say most of wetin we believe na scam and based of doctrines set by a small but influential group of people to control the masses. Hmmmm!
Husband material, you were truthful and logical in this episode. Thanks for being the voice of reason and not just throwing mud at the wall to see what sticks like most others.
First of all, I wasn't disappointed with Pretty Mike's submissions, he's never been a model. So he was just being true to his weird self and that's fine. Nedu on the other hand disappointed me sha...I used to ascribe some measure of moral rectitude to him. I guess I was wrong. Note, I am not saying that he should be holy or sanctimonious; none of us is. But haba, how do you just expressly pontificate that side chicks/adultery/cheating is essential for successful marriage? Like seriously? You may claim you didn't say so, but that is what your topic suggests. Think about it. It's even funny that the ladies don't see misogyny in all of this. If you guys wanted to strike a balance then you should have simply coined the topic as "Adultery is essential for the success of marriage" or "Adultery solidifies marriage" cos I no think you understand what you guys were defending. I still cut Toun some slacks, she's Muslim so I sort of get her position. But for someone like Nedu to say that it's in the bible and proceeded to give references from Old Testament, I was like, really? Baba please brush up your knowledge of the scriptures. First of all the OT is largely scriptures for the Jews and not exactly for Christians. Yes the Bible contains the OT, so you'll understand the entire history of the salvation of man. The NT is the corpus and guide for Christians. In the NT, the only time Jesus was asked about polygamy, he made it clear that God never wanted it to be that way which was why he created 1 man and 1 woman. That it was out of the stubbornness of their hearts that Moses was forced to make it so. In otherwords poly amorous relationships were not God's plan. Even the Jews that own the OT fully, up to today don't sanction polygamy anymore. As a matter fact Israel has a law against it. And to you, dear Naomi, one of the fallacious logic you put forward on this episode was that "people are still doing it regardless" (paraphrased). In otherwords, that folks are still doing a certain wrong is enough justification for you to support it. Politicians will steal public funds regardless, we may as well keep defending their actions. Bandits will still kill and robbers will still rob we may as well condone them. This ain't logic, it's an attack on logic. Finally, kudos to Husband material. Na man you be. For standing your reasonable ground. In the face of barrage of illogic you stood firm. One of the ladies dropped a cliche, "majority carry the vote" true in democracy, but it does not mean that the majority are correct all of the time. You need not go far to understand this, when we still reside in Buhari's Nigeria. This is exactly why the father of Western philosophy, Socrates hated democracy. Because democracy assumes that the majority have sense...nothing typifies this more than the election of Buhari into office.
Everything you’ve said was my exact thoughts… like how can nedu use God to justify his dirty beliefs? To justify adultery? Saying God said we should do whatever makes us happy? God help us.
It's sad to see that Husband Material is the only voice of reason on this topic. I've got a ton of respect for Nedu, and I think he's a smart man but I also expected him to display better wisdom than the rest but apparently his past marital trauma may have messed up his idea of marriage. It's time for Nigerians to go back to the basics of honoring their vows without looking for how to justify infidelity. Infidelity might cause both spouses to bury their issues bit long term. The marriage will eventually crash. I only listened to two of your episodes and my brain is already drained by the outlandish imaginations of most of you on the pod. I respect your opinions, but unfortunately your opinions are built on sand. Big up Husband Material again ✌🏿
HM has a point , Nedu and the rest has their own point , the only thing that husband material missed is the fact that there is moral and there is reality. Yes in reality it happens even if morals condemns it, so we as human just have to adjust to accommodate it or live in despair
@@TheMezidon2008 what are you even saying,that it's reality does it make it right and we don't have to adjust to accommodate it,if something is not right,till generations to come it is not right and humans should try refrain from it, imagine validating stealing 🤷,just because it's our reality doesn't mean we should adjust or accomodate it,what is wrong is wrong,there is nothing like adjusting to reality that's bullshit
@@TheMezidon2008 how do we adjust to accommodate immortality ? What is wrong is wrong Can we accommodate murder ? People are killing people everywhere and it would always be wrong and punishable.
@@missstanfordwe are talking about relationships, don't deviate from the matter, will u deny the fact that s3x workers are legalize in many countries, u can pay for it and not break the law, but even if u rap3 a s3x worker it's condemnable and punishable , but in summary pre-marital s3x is wrong in context, but most of us if still engage in it
Husband material, I salute you so greatly for taking your stand on what true moral is, ok let's turn the tables around in other parts of the world infidelity is never taking lightly. It is terrible! And for those of you justifying polygamy is because you are not from such family or didn't experience polygamy, it's really troubling. Sidechick can never solidify marriage in any way rather it destroys marriage. That is why communication and been sensitive to your partner is key. Husband material well done.
Husband Material na better person for sticking to what marriage is supposed to be. Decadence in marriage (unless agreed by parties involved in the marriage with reference to open marriages or others) is bad and should be condemned.
I support husband material. Let your partner know who you are before u get into marriage.... If you're the type that can't stick to one woman sexually let her know, if she can scope with it she will. Or if there is a way of amending things without disagreement then it's fine. It's all about understanding.
I would really like to see a married person with experience with this topic invited to this show to discuss it... I agree with Husband material on this topic; to me, having a side chick in your marriage is cheating, which is completely wrong, and it is not the same as an open marriage, which I feel the guest's points are based on because in the case of the side chick, your partner didn't sign up to it no matter the reasons for having one and usually doesn't even know and even if they later find out and choose not to leave later on that doesn't make it right, omo everyone has their deal breaker sha.
The devil is out to destroy homes and families Side chicks have other side guys and those side guys have other side chicks multiple one To make a home work is a lot of hardwork from A and B. The minds of young people is so messed up. Omo God go help us. Na ojukokoro dey do some young men and women.
How about you ask this question to married women who have had to deal with side chics in their marriage. Let’s here what they say and see if they share the views of this panel. Big ups to husband material, I agree with him.
I’m just watching this. Thank you husband material. You’re literally living by your name “husband material “ 😃I hope all men out there have the same thinking as you. ❤
My fav show at the moment !! Some Constructive criticism as a frequent listener, pretty Mike a beg the gums gotta go as I’m sure some people in the audience may find the sounds very distracting / triggering 😅 First world problems yes but I’m sure some people understand what I mean Great episode folks 👌🏾
Husband material I agree with you but the thing is marriage is a decision and should be disciplined through it. Two People solidify marriage, not a third party
one thing you have to know about husband material is that his from nssukaa ,there culture forbids cheating 🥰apart from that he is on point..kudos to him
If having a side-chick is encouraged, it simply means we are supporting Adultry simple! Every marriage has it's ups and downs,if your marriage is facing problems for US practicing christians put it in prayers and look for a way to make it work. Don't pay attention to those who don't uphold morals. Read your bible and practice Godly standards.
Yet pple are bashing her on twitter & IG. Dey jst misconstrued her &jumped to conclusion based on short edited clips by bloggers. I can't understand this shallowness & high affinity to negative narratives & hate agendas by humans these days. Its too bad.
Hmmmmmm justifying bullshit📌 once I heard PM starting off his conversation with TRAFFIC in regards to excuse for cheating I knew this podcast is going to be silly I didn’t even bother to understand or try to find PM focus or confusion I just sat jeje with my cup of chocolate listening to husband material saying the honest truth and deep down we all know what he said is right Making excuses for men cheating 🙄 with silly stupid useless scenarios kiaaaa we have been really subjected to bullshit in the name of marriage/relationship 🤦♀️
Husband material is the least damaged person in this podcast 🙂 husband material for president ✌️ if u agree drop a comment 😉
Emphasis on damaged and messed up.
It’s not really about damage , it’s about being properly oriented and I feel nedu is trying to keep the conversation going
This is an underrated comment 😂😂
Husband material is soo grounded as a human being. He has a very strong self concept. His wife is very lucky.
Honestly he his
Thank You to husband material for sticking to morals and your truth!! Cheating has been so normalize in this society it’s ridiculous. Be honest with yourself. If you in agreement with your spouse to be in a monogamous marriage, stick to it. Having sidechic is a selfish act.
If you want to sleep around, don’t marry.
If you want to bring bible into this matter, GOD the creator of marriage , created ONE woman for Adam. It’s humans that have strayed away from the original plan.
Husband Material really makes some sense bikonu! People just need to be emotionally intelligent to know that there are some of us humans in conversations, voices get risen or raised, it doesn't mean *d person naa agbero or im dey vex*, naa so some humans just be in driving their points home!
This isn't a topic meant for just one episode and I suggest it shudnt just be about the Nigerian Married men/sidechicks alone, there shud episodes of Nigerian Married Women/SideNiggas too. Cos this thing wey we dey talk about so, what men think they are doing, women do it better and smarter! In future episodes which shud come thru as soon as possible as e dey hot, the ladies/women shud be given more rooms to express themselves too and it would be perfect (in ma opinion), if married ones or once married ones in Nigeria who are willing to participate could be invited and air their opinions and knowledge or wisdoms based on their experiences
Yeah, God created one man and one woman(Eve for Adam) but somehow, someway, our forefathers, from d old testament sef, change am to satisfy their personal interests&selfish needs, and God is a merciful God who tolerated / still tolerates (their &our doings no matter what), hence to make living peaceful for ourselves/one another in any forms of relationships we find ourselves, the need for truthful and effective communication which will then birth individual decision moving forward at any stage of such relationships before e go con turn *entanglement* 🤣
You took the words out of my mouth💯 thank you for this comment. You are obviously emotionally intelligent. And just to add, what we really need to to survive marriage is Emotional intelligence(EQ) because if you have good EQ you will naturally unlearn and relearn healthy relationship habits. God bless everyone trying to be a really good spouse to their partners.
hehe but God himself directed people in the bible to take extra wives.
We need more men like husband material. I like his courage in a world where men mock you for not having a side chic. Na man you be jor!
First of all, thank you husband material for being the voice of reason among you all. Mercy played safe and stayed neutral and made her answers personal, that's smart. As for the rest of you that are intentionally dishonest, I hope you can tolerate and understand when you're the one on the receiving end. For starters, the topic is worded wrong, say it as it is, say the truth, cheating is wrong and there's no justification to it. Also because it is what is happening doesn't make or right, doesn't mean you should normalise it and normally should be cajoled or manipulated to endure nonsense. Nobody NEEDS an extramarital affair to work. The girl on camo started well but fell way off later, and if she's really staying with a cheating man for years then it says a lot about her and I'd rather reserve my comment. Relationships are a 2 way street, every party involved must put in effort to make it work, is it easy? No, achievable? Hell yea. For better for worse doesn't strip you of common sense abeg. As for PM I wasn't expecting so much so I'm not angry. HM I just hope your opinion isn't limited to this podcast and you'd actually practice what you preach. Well done all the same, anticipating part 2.
@aseobong there is more to this , let's focus on reality, yes there are morals and there are also reality, also put in consideration that $€x drives are different with different people, it doesn't mean they are 100% correct it just mean that , some people choose to do whatever it takes meaningful to them to keep their marriages
@@TheMezidon2008 there's no way to justify cheating in a relationship, there's nothing meaningful about it. Say something else. Secondly I'm not sure you can handle this advice if you were the one being cheated on. E only sweet to type, not experience
@@aseobongeyo1409 yeah, u spoke well, but let's not still deviate from the fact that it does happen
@@TheMezidon2008 nobody is deviating. It happens doesn't mean it should be encouraged, endorsed, supported or normalised. Do you now understand?
@@aseobongeyo1409 exactly just to add on this : if you need a side chick why not just marry her at first rather than put a woman in stress.. the reality is that men are naturally polygamous in nature (naturally) .. Christianity or other religion that respect one wife and woman is what has made some of us (men) disciplined enough to want to settle on one wife.. the original design from God was one woman and wife Matthew 19:4-6..
ps: shoutout to Husband Material
Husband material will surely make heaven! It’s refreshing to know that there are still Nigerian men that think like him
As in!! Love that he stood his ground throughout👌🏽
Funny how none of them realised that your wife can also be someone's side chick aka stress relief android 2.0.. 😂😂
As a man I hate the fact that we've come to a period in time in today's society where infidelity has become a norm, we have come to justify it with reasons and make it sound like if you're not defiling your marriage you're a fool. What's more bad is interviewing people who aren't married to give opinions on a subject matter based on perception or emotions. We make marriage feel like it's a bondage or we're going to be in some sort of trap by getting married. As much as we all have our flaws individually I still believe in the concept of marriage, loyalty and trust as the bedrock. Pretty Mike may have made some points as to changes in intimacy with spouses overtime. Yes, but cheating or Infidelity doesn't have to lean to the man. Women also go through the same stress if not more especially with childbirth and catering for the home. In conclusion, know who you're marrying, communicate and keep it💯, there are good marriages still flourishing, the internet shouldn't be a bedrock for a good marriage.
Thank you so much for this 👍
This is my contention with this episode. Mostly unmarried people arguing sidechics in marriage
You should be on the show. You made better points
@@rachaelwobo6544 you're welcome 🙏🏼
@@stephaniebessam839 exactly and it's bad
Y'all need another episode with a married woman on the panel. Let's hear married women's view
Abi o
Exactly Omaye
Exactly! How do you get a bunch of unmarried people to objectively discuss what they can’t completely understand 🤔
Imagine. Mek married woman come dey talk wetin?
I agree with Husband material, cheating is such a selfish act that has been so normalized.
If you need a side chick to sustain you marriage, you shouldn’t be married. You deserve a wife who has a side guy also.
Is there equality of the sexes? Are men and women equal?
@@chineduobanye6370 Your question is incomplete
Welldone Husband Material for sticking to the truth👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I’m more surprised at the ladies for justifying rubbish… it goes to show how the world and their experiences have damaged them. Nedu is super confused too, didn’t expect something different from PM
Husband material is so on point. I love that he stood his ground
A friend that watched this with me said Husband Material was just talking like that because his wife is watching or would watch this, so he was being careful and trying not to say stuff that will lead to further questioning at home.
He further said that, if Husband Mterial was single, his stance would falter. Anyhow sha, life is deep. Last last, what if after all is said and done and this world is over and our souls come find out say most of wetin we believe na scam and based of doctrines set by a small but influential group of people to control the masses. Hmmmm!
@@primocorleone7024 exactly
That's why he is husband material.
Husband material, you were truthful and logical in this episode. Thanks for being the voice of reason and not just throwing mud at the wall to see what sticks like most others.
Those type can do the worst
First of all, I wasn't disappointed with Pretty Mike's submissions, he's never been a model. So he was just being true to his weird self and that's fine.
Nedu on the other hand disappointed me sha...I used to ascribe some measure of moral rectitude to him. I guess I was wrong. Note, I am not saying that he should be holy or sanctimonious; none of us is. But haba, how do you just expressly pontificate that side chicks/adultery/cheating is essential for successful marriage? Like seriously? You may claim you didn't say so, but that is what your topic suggests. Think about it.
It's even funny that the ladies don't see misogyny in all of this. If you guys wanted to strike a balance then you should have simply coined the topic as "Adultery is essential for the success of marriage" or "Adultery solidifies marriage" cos I no think you understand what you guys were defending.
I still cut Toun some slacks, she's Muslim so I sort of get her position. But for someone like Nedu to say that it's in the bible and proceeded to give references from Old Testament, I was like, really?
Baba please brush up your knowledge of the scriptures. First of all the OT is largely scriptures for the Jews and not exactly for Christians. Yes the Bible contains the OT, so you'll understand the entire history of the salvation of man. The NT is the corpus and guide for Christians.
In the NT, the only time Jesus was asked about polygamy, he made it clear that God never wanted it to be that way which was why he created 1 man and 1 woman. That it was out of the stubbornness of their hearts that Moses was forced to make it so. In otherwords poly amorous relationships were not God's plan. Even the Jews that own the OT fully, up to today don't sanction polygamy anymore. As a matter fact Israel has a law against it.
And to you, dear Naomi, one of the fallacious logic you put forward on this episode was that "people are still doing it regardless" (paraphrased). In otherwords, that folks are still doing a certain wrong is enough justification for you to support it. Politicians will steal public funds regardless, we may as well keep defending their actions. Bandits will still kill and robbers will still rob we may as well condone them. This ain't logic, it's an attack on logic.
Finally, kudos to Husband material. Na man you be. For standing your reasonable ground. In the face of barrage of illogic you stood firm. One of the ladies dropped a cliche, "majority carry the vote" true in democracy, but it does not mean that the majority are correct all of the time. You need not go far to understand this, when we still reside in Buhari's Nigeria. This is exactly why the father of Western philosophy, Socrates hated democracy. Because democracy assumes that the majority have sense...nothing typifies this more than the election of Buhari into office.
Guy you dey vex oooo😂
But everything you wrote here is 💯
So trueee❤
Oshey Aristotle!!! Very well analyzed!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
May God bless u
Everything you’ve said was my exact thoughts… like how can nedu use God to justify his dirty beliefs? To justify adultery? Saying God said we should do whatever makes us happy? God help us.
Mercy beauty overloaded her introduction was the bomb ❤️💃🏽💃🏽
It's sad to see that Husband Material is the only voice of reason on this topic. I've got a ton of respect for Nedu, and I think he's a smart man but I also expected him to display better wisdom than the rest but apparently his past marital trauma may have messed up his idea of marriage.
It's time for Nigerians to go back to the basics of honoring their vows without looking for how to justify infidelity. Infidelity might cause both spouses to bury their issues bit long term. The marriage will eventually crash.
I only listened to two of your episodes and my brain is already drained by the outlandish imaginations of most of you on the pod. I respect your opinions, but unfortunately your opinions are built on sand.
Big up Husband Material again ✌🏿
Husband material speaks with so much sense 👏 wise man
I’m trying so hard to understand PrettyMike’s sense of reasoning in this matter, but I just can’t
Seriously
Same here Oooo...To me he ain't really making any point.. The guy na just man Ashawo hahaha
A shallow fellow
Trust me you won't understand till you be in that position....
I think the idea of the podcast was to entertain and not to make sense.
Mercy and husband material... Too much sense 😍😍😍
I want to thank Husband material for sticking to the natural truth .... unlike my boss prettymike and nedu 😂 trying to make excuses
HM has a point , Nedu and the rest has their own point , the only thing that husband material missed is the fact that there is moral and there is reality. Yes in reality it happens even if morals condemns it, so we as human just have to adjust to accommodate it or live in despair
@@TheMezidon2008 what are you even saying,that it's reality does it make it right and we don't have to adjust to accommodate it,if something is not right,till generations to come it is not right and humans should try refrain from it, imagine validating stealing 🤷,just because it's our reality doesn't mean we should adjust or accomodate it,what is wrong is wrong,there is nothing like adjusting to reality that's bullshit
@@TheMezidon2008 how do we adjust to accommodate immortality ? What is wrong is wrong
Can we accommodate murder ?
People are killing people everywhere and it would always be wrong and punishable.
@@missstanfordwe are talking about relationships, don't deviate from the matter, will u deny the fact that s3x workers are legalize in many countries, u can pay for it and not break the law, but even if u rap3 a s3x worker it's condemnable and punishable , but in summary pre-marital s3x is wrong in context, but most of us if still engage in it
Husband material, I salute you so greatly for taking your stand on what true moral is, ok let's turn the tables around in other parts of the world infidelity is never taking lightly. It is terrible! And for those of you justifying polygamy is because you are not from such family or didn't experience polygamy, it's really troubling. Sidechick can never solidify marriage in any way rather it destroys marriage. That is why communication and been sensitive to your partner is key. Husband material well done.
History maker mercy Eke....love her 🥰
Our generation is really perverted... see the rubbish being normalised 😭.
Lol just no marry for naija.
Seriously pervert
I’m telling you
So mind twisting
Kaiii
Husband Material na better person for sticking to what marriage is supposed to be. Decadence in marriage (unless agreed by parties involved in the marriage with reference to open marriages or others) is bad and should be condemned.
I support husband material. Let your partner know who you are before u get into marriage.... If you're the type that can't stick to one woman sexually let her know, if she can scope with it she will. Or if there is a way of amending things without disagreement then it's fine. It's all about understanding.
What if both of them are virgins before marriage and only discover their sexual appetite and tolerance after marriage
Naomi and husband material speak my mind most times when topics like this are being raised. They really do remain my favorites on this show.👏👏💯
If mercy says she never dated anyone, baby girl never dated...she's so real on love and I pray she find someone who will treasure her.
This discussion needs a woman who is currently married! Side chicks does not solidify any marriage!
I would really like to see a married person with experience with this topic invited to this show to discuss it... I agree with Husband material on this topic; to me, having a side chick in your marriage is cheating, which is completely wrong, and it is not the same as an open marriage, which I feel the guest's points are based on because in the case of the side chick, your partner didn't sign up to it no matter the reasons for having one and usually doesn't even know and even if they later find out and choose not to leave later on that doesn't make it right, omo everyone has their deal breaker sha.
Interesting conversation, love it 🤗 love you Lambo 😍
Honestly husband material deserves all his flowers in this episode for standing his ground
The devil is out to destroy homes and families
Side chicks have other side guys and those side guys have other side chicks multiple one
To make a home work is a lot of hardwork from A and B.
The minds of young people is so messed up.
Omo God go help us.
Na ojukokoro dey do some young men and women.
You guys are great! I enjoy the show every time
Finally my favorite podcast is back… love to see they have their own independent YT channel
shout out to Husband Material - Morals and sticking to the right side
They are all damaged.
Queen of Highlights ❤️
Shout out from Las Vegas! Loved the show!
Marriage isn't meant to be a selfish institution, selfishly giving oneself an excuse to cheat isn't right
I’ve heard from men who are in polygamous homes who say they will never advise anyone to do it
Husband material is on point! Well done for holding your ground!
I like as Mercy Eke dey always look at husband Material 😂😂
Nedu always have Experience on every topic 😂
"That’s reminds me of" everytime
As in I tire
Yass when husband material said having a side chick is selfish is so true 👏👏👏👏
This people are not married so I don’t blame them. Most of them are saying things they won’t accept. Having a side chick shouldn’t be a norm.
After listening to Mercy Eke I just become a FAN. I LOVE YOU MERCY EKE!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯
I am super impressed by this argument and the points raised.
Husband Material for president abeg! He stock for the right thing till the end!
Husband material is indeed the voice of reason.
Hearing some opinions here and all I can say is wow!
I am shocked
@@Ms.Baidoo199 me to o
E dey burst my head.... husband material
I loooovvvve this podcast so much, husband material on point
Husband material making sense all the way ! Can I be on this podcast🤪
I’m sure Mike feels like punching Husband Material 😂
Love this...
How about you ask this question to married women who have had to deal with side chics in their marriage. Let’s here what they say and see if they share the views of this panel. Big ups to husband material, I agree with him.
I’m just watching this. Thank you husband material. You’re literally living by your name “husband material “ 😃I hope all men out there have the same thinking as you. ❤
Seems like it's only Husband material that still respects the institution of marriage as God meant it to be. The rest na just...
My fav show at the moment !!
Some Constructive criticism as a frequent listener, pretty Mike a beg the gums gotta go as I’m sure some people in the audience may find the sounds very distracting / triggering 😅
First world problems yes but I’m sure some people understand what I mean
Great episode folks 👌🏾
Absolutely rude of him to be doing that
I love this
This program is the best I’ve seen in my entire life in Nigeria 💯
Here for Mercy Eke
I stand with husband material 100%
Husband material I agree with you but the thing is marriage is a decision and should be disciplined through it. Two People solidify marriage, not a third party
Husband material is the only one making sense.
That person chewing in the mic- next time, consider us.
I swear😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chewing gum in the mic like a goat, I had to stop using my earphone
one thing you have to know about husband material is that his from nssukaa ,there culture forbids cheating 🥰apart from that he is on point..kudos to him
🤣lambo...i love this babe
Even sidechicks get married and the cycle continues.
I can't comprehend how pretty mike thinks. I can't just can😂😂😂😂😂
All men are not scum, pretty Mike came from a bad home
Very bad home and brought up by a bad father
I agree with you
Marriage is an institution by God, if you remove God in the equation it will never work. Nowadays people only endure marriage not enjoy
Nowadays?! Since the days of our forefathers,it’s been the case of endurance as our African culture does not support divorce.
God will bless You,God first.
There is no justification for Adultery . Husband material you are on point
So many things going through pretty mike head watching mercy speak
Husband material speaking sense,like I don't get why others are not seeing from his point of view
They are damaged goods!
Mercy say na to snatch the husband...🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nedu - Chairman of "it reminds me of one person"
🤣 I tire o
Very annoying 😂😂, he always has one friend , reference point.
If having a side-chick is encouraged, it simply means we are supporting Adultry simple! Every marriage has it's ups and downs,if your marriage is facing problems for US practicing christians put it in prayers and look for a way to make it work.
Don't pay attention to those who don't uphold morals. Read your bible and practice Godly standards.
I am actually proud of Mercy Eke. I like her mindset.
Yet pple are bashing her on twitter & IG. Dey jst misconstrued her &jumped to conclusion based on short edited clips by bloggers. I can't understand this shallowness & high affinity to negative narratives & hate agendas by humans these days. Its too bad.
PM talking nonsense with confidence
I'm here for mercy eke ❤❤
Husband Material all the way ooo. He stood his ground. Nice and impressive 👍
Husband material all the way abeg ☺️😀
Best episode ever
Pretty is intelligent sha
He was making sense from his angle
I watching you guys to give an answer to this unknown question or a endless subject
Hmmmmmm justifying bullshit📌 once I heard PM starting off his conversation with TRAFFIC in regards to excuse for cheating I knew this podcast is going to be silly I didn’t even bother to understand or try to find PM focus or confusion I just sat jeje with my cup of chocolate listening to husband material saying the honest truth and deep down we all know what he said is right
Making excuses for men cheating 🙄 with silly stupid useless scenarios kiaaaa we have been really subjected to bullshit in the name of marriage/relationship 🤦♀️
Who Dey chop gum Dey disturb my ear drum😅
This is my first time here from ig and I am enjoying this conversation as f
Husband material for president ❤❤
Contentment is Mercy Eke🤣🤣🤣
God bless you for "Husband material" !
This podcast is so funnn
😂😂😂😂 love this episode
Husband material and mercy lamboooo have Sense 😍😍😍🔥🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I feel this is not a topic for one day.
The case study is tricky and needs to immerse people with exposure to the topic to enlighten listeners better.
Madness of our society, una no well. God bless u husband material jare
Mercy Eke is clean 🥰💋
Husband materials God bless u . U are so right.
Husband material speaks sense always!!!!
Husband material thank u so much 🥺u said the truth
Husband material God will bless you and that gift of God that blessed you with as wife.