Delete the dating apps!!!! It's not worth it ladies. Live in your purpose. Get out there. Socialize. Be safe. Use your discernment. Your man will come.
"An insecure man is the most dangerous being on earth..." A truth I had to learn the hard way. Please listen to this man. No matter how good/strong the connection may be, none of that will matter if that man is still deeply insecure at the end of the day. Leave these men alone!
Truth my ex was like that he was verbally abusive and had the the tendencies to be physically as well he first came off as the so charming can’t do no wrong so confident that all was mask he was whole new person and very very insecure one too I said the same thing they are the most dangerous men RUN
Found out he was cheating on me. I created a fake account to find out what was going on and boom he was on there. He was secretly on dating apps throughout the relationship. PSA: Dating apps are the breading ground for narcissistic, sociopath, psychopath, sexually sick, cheating, disgusting men. Thank you for bringing awareness.
I'm so glad you found out the truth, but so sorry you had to experience that pain. I had to hire a private investigator to find out my ex husband had been cheating on me for 5 years, and he was someone that I had worked with - not online. The truth sets us free.
I've heard TG preach about this countlessly. Could not be said enough, dating apps is not a useful too. It's flat-out un authentic in my opinion. The world is small enough to find someone to connect with.
I agree. I deleted my profiles 6 months ago and met a guy who lives in my apartment. Never knew he existed. Dating apps use to be great to use, but nowadays way to many imposters. Not worth it. The only way to invest in dating is to pay a matchmaker
Online dating is a Narcissist's playground. I never even knew the word until my ex. And yes, he IS a narcissist. I don't throw the word around carelessly. He likes women alright. Just like he likes men. I now found my passion. I want to help people with this. I left him at a Cleveland Indians game. I got out and I'm staying out. 5 months free. Thank You Jesus!!
I had no idea that I was dealing with a Narcissist. I started googling his behavior and this is how I discovered what evil I was dealing with. He sought me out on Facebook. Be careful what you post. They are preying.
Liked and used women but secretly liked men. Drug addict, thief and just a flat out demon. Met him on a social media site. Never again 3 months No Contact. Relocated to another state.
Dating apps are horrible. There are so many predators,bums, users, man thotzz, narcissists, broken people and felons/criminals on there looking for their next victim. Online isn’t something to take seriously because 98.9% of people on there aren’t looking for something healthy, meaningful and long term.
Men who lack the courage to approach a woman in person or to try and get to know a woman in person. These are usually the same men that end up on online dating websites. Thank you Tony for speaking on the dangers of online dating once again.
Amen! If we can't even trust some of the men we meet in person, why do we even need to waste time with trying to discern if someone is a real person online? Even with people we meet in church, face to face, sometimes they can be deceivers. It's gotten to where we have to run background checks on pretty much everyone these days. Trust has to be earned, over time. Thank you, Mr Gaskins, for your truth!
Agree 100%. I spent all of 2 seconds on a dating app and quickly deleted it and my profile cause I just had no peace. A few months later, I met my current boyfriend and he’s all I’ve prayed for. 🙌🏽
Unfortunately, no we’re not. 🥲 Long story short, he ended things because he realized he had a lot of internal work he needed to do and wasn’t ready for marriage.
This is so true ladies... its very alarming at how often this is happening. Get out and meet people when the Most High says to do so...and with all your getting, get some self defense knowledge as well. Learn how to physically become stronger and be trained to legally handle a piece that fires nice daily.... and twice on Sundays!!!
Thing about it ladies, there are men everywhere! Every man in your city is not taken. I believe that protective custody is real, because it’s no other reason that we are not being seen or approached.
LOL dating sites for lame guys. One thing about Tony is he’s gonna cut to the chase. We all felt this way till we saw a friend “successful” at using apps and thought we would have the same luck...
I could like this 100 times … I keep telling my friends I refuse to get on dating apps… Men are crazy in person I don’t need to open myself to more of that🤷🏾♀️
I deleted my dating apps because of Tony's advice and these news stories. Also I noticed how some of the guys on these sites are more negative towards women. When I would get on the phone with them they seemed like they were not healed from whatever they've gone through and were angry with women. It was surprising to me at first but now I know why. Thanks for the advice Tony. I will be meeting people in real life from now on.
Omg yes thats exactly how I feel, they were so angry and triggered about woman. The first date they looked at me like I did something to them. So weird.
I'm like this, if you're not man enough to step to me as meek and as humble as I am, how will you miraculously be man enough for marriage and take care of me. Huge flag on that play~it doesn't work like that! I'll be meeting my husband in person because he will be at least man enough for me to approve or disapprove of him. Desperation is a trap from hell. Tony you better preach & see yall Sunday 👏🏾 🙌🏿
Last year my female friend met a guy on popular dating app. After three months they were engaged and married after eight -nine months. They are both Christians. They claim that the faith and similar view of life are they common spot. I was and i am still in shock. Because i watch what Tony is saying and i also watched many criminal documentary about this topic. Also, is confusing why this Christian people were on popular dating app to start with. They claim that God connect them and maybe this is the case. But that is exception not the rule. What Tony saying is truth and I belive him. Many frustrated men are hang out online and typically are very toxic or have some issue. A man who is "normal" wont lose his time online because he can approach women everywhere.
Idk if this is 100 percent accurate… Tony has been married for like 20 years so he has no idea (hopefully he doesn’t😒) Anyways, I’ve met nice guys, good decent men on dating websites🤷🏽♀️ Most men that I’ve met are professionals and work a lot and don’t take the time to go out and meet women so online dating is perfect for them
@@APTTMHYforever That sounds like a red flag. No man is so busy that he won't take the time to go out and meet women. Men who are millionaires and billionaires are not on dating apps. How well did you know these men that you met? And did any of it actually lead to marriage?
The absolute truth Tony!!!! About four years ago Ive been done with the dating apps God gave me the strong urge to delete all of them and I never look back I know it was for a reason I’m glad I did.
Thanks for this New Year's Eve video quick chat! I left dating apps alone years ago! Seemed like these men were literally making a career out of being on dating apps! Too many crazy and unhealed men hiding on dating apps! Ladies please use discernment.
Dating apps are a waste of time and sometimes dating in person can be too. When I was dating, I though he was my prince when I first met him but, he quickly became my Frankenstein.
I suffered in silence for years. I accepted the few moments of bliss dispersed in the days/months of tears and emotional abuse. I had build him up so much I was ashamed to admit I got it wrong. Plus I was everyone’s go to person for relationship advice. I was ashamed. I’m still forgiving myself.
Been there, done that 😔 The only thing worse than losing 10 years of my life in the lie is to lose 10 years plus another day. You had to learn lessons, be kind to yourself sis xx
Bahahaha “the man don’t even like the shoes he wearing”🤣🤣🤣 Mann I can’t 🤣🤣. Yea y’all better leave them dating sites alone and Tony show enough telling the truth.. I’ve never messed with them dating sites ever but have a couple of friends who have
I remember being on one and a guy who used to be mean to me in high school messaged me saying he’s a changed man and wants to be friends. I had my police officer friend do a background check on him, and he is a straight up abuser.
One thing ive learned about these dating sites is theyll be on several sites at once as well..i was bored and was on like 2 or 3 at the same time (been divorced 2 years so i was dabbing and being nosey) when i tell you the exact same guys LITERALLY THE EXACT SAME GUYS ! Youd think they remember faces these dudes will holla at you and swear they dont have another page smh i caught several up lying ..ish sad i knew it was time to stop online dating when they didnt even read the bio and ask the exact samething stated already.... i washed my hands on online dating
I agree with everything you say Tony. I tried online dating at one point but upon meeting up with the person, their energy told me to RUN!!!! I got out of there so fast and deleted my account. Scared me to death
You still need to use discernment in general especially with social media. I met a gentleman on facebook. Met in a meet and greet group which had nothing to do with dating. He pursued me. Shortly before we were about to meet 2 months later it was discovered he was still in a relationship. This happened to me this week. Shocked wasn't the word and would have never believed he was being dishonest with me. Sigh. Its a challenge out here. Be careful yall. tony is right!
My cousin met her husband on fb… I’m not on any social media but I was on a dating website and met some great guys… I ended up with someone that I met at a car dealership BUT there’s good and bad everywhere so you’re right, DISCERNMENT!! It may sound weird but I pray that the Holy Spirit reveal the man’s intentions during the first date
He’s 10000% right I use to do a lot of online dating and it’s exactly what he’s saying 👨 that other women don’t want at all then I had a stalker after one date and he’s a dr ladies please be careful
I have had a few and it was on a Christian dating.The men wanted to be on the phone with me all day and if I didn’t answer my phone they would leave silly,crazy and thirsty messages.
Signed up!!! Ladies it's only $25 with 8 sessions included. We can definitely afford that. OK!! Have a beautiful New Years eve. Don't forget to give the Most High praise for what you have. Luv ya'll.
Thank you Tony for calling it as it is and not sugar coating it. The internet is a very cautious place to be and should be dealt accordingly. Manly, it persuades emotionally needy individuals to do things they would not do under normal circumstances. Let's protect ourselves emotionally and physically may God bless you all.
Tony , I came across your channel after breaking up with my now ex partner who kept disrespecting me and cheating verbally on me. I met him on a dating site which I was somehow pushed to try because of a friend although I was truly against it. You are the best out there, gold words! Thank you
A player cousin told me going online to meet women is easy and like taking candy from a baby, he gets money and sex from women on first dates without doing nothing My family and friends are trying to get me to join a dating app and I keep advising them to leave me alone about it cause I'm not going online to meet a man, espaily based on what my cousin told me.
The Lord Blessed me with the funds & I just signed up for the seminar 😝🙏🏾 I feel blessed and I’m so thankful for your teachings💯 I know this is most definitely worth the investment, I’m so excited for the new knowledge ☺️ I call you my uncle 😂 so thank you Uncle Tony, God Bless You & Your Family💕🙏🏾
I’m so tired of finding out that the man is married. I’m actually tired seems they are all married,the lies/manipulation. They are highly successful and appealing then what balances the scale is finding out or getting the he is married confession. I’m literally 😒😒😒
I’m so glad I never used those apps like that. I remember creating an e harmony account as well as a black people meet years ago but I never followed through with it because it was just weird vibes having to answer personal questions like that. Thank you 🙏🏽
I know I must be in protective custody because I go outside and even though I dress more on the sporty side I always get myself dressed up and look nice because that’s just what I like to do for myself. Guys stare at me a lot. They tell me how beautiful I am but a lot of times that’s kinda where it ends. I haven’t had anybody being consistent with me, well except for my ex. And I’m not giving him no play because he tried to replace me not once but TWICE with women on these dating apps and they didn’t work out for him so guess who’s phone he’s blowing up and seeing if it could work? 🙄😒 Of course, now that he realized he had a lot of work to do and the grass wasn’t greener on the other side. Go figure. Anyhow, I have been feeling a bit discouraged in the love department because of all of this but I know whoever God is preparing for me has got to be an amazing person who doesn’t take me for granted like my last one did. I deserve love that is caring and gentle and strong and powerful with someone who communicates, is willing to work together to make each other better and who wants to make me happy so we can build together. I really don’t think I’m asking for much at all honestly and it’s not something that is unrealistic because I’ve seen many real life examples of it. Thanks for this Tony!
Exactly I’m old school. I enjoy meeting men the old fashion way. It’s bad enough you don’t Noe what your getting in person imagine dating behind a computer. dating apps are not for me.
I was just starting to look at some dating apps, THANKYOU Tony for the sharp reminder I needed, you really are a blessing to us sister's who can LISTEN to truth. May your family's 2022 increase in blessings 🙏
@J-Tenn, not the devil😩😂… I had a great experience with online dating!!✨ My advice to anyone who’s skeptical is that you can meet a lunatic cheater narcissistic jerk anywhere, so why rule out online dating??? Be smart, savvy, use discernment and don’t be thirsty or desperate acting or too helpful. Most people get into a bad experience because they weren’t projecting their best self
My spirit felt uneasy talking to most online dudes. I thought it was nerves, but it was more than that. Most moved waaayy too fast..I could sense agenda and game. Holy Spirit convicted me to close my accts. Guess I'll meet the old fashioned way in person.
I am going through a horrible horrible separation and I could use some encouragement from you 💔 I feel so dumb and stupid and broken I don't feel like I am strong enough the pain is overwhelming... I've been with him since I was 16 im 25 now. We have an 8 ye old together it just hurts I just wanna cry all day I'm trying to be strong but it takes all the energy in me to get up.
Oh darling. Take it from a sis who lost 2 years of my life sobbing and not wanting to live anymore, after he left me. You WILL meet the man who will want to stay with you to old age and Thank God for what is happening now. 🙏 Follow Tony's advice, he's NEVER given bad advice yet ( tho it's hard to swallow when we're lonely) and stay on your grind. And remember, you already have a man who loves you forever. You call him son. You got this x
Keep watching Tony’s videos on a loop, repeatedly. I promise 10000000% they will help you once you get engrossed in Tony’s messages . Take time and you will be okay ❤️
Get alone and pray to God to fill your pain with His love. You will get through this, I promise. Cry it out I believe crying releases pain. Write in a daily journal of how you're feeling that day and as time go by, your notes will get brighter. Pray and do a fast. Much love!
I know your heart is broken. I've been there. Just keep listening to Tony's videos and also pastor RC Blakes Utube videos too. Have faith in the Lord. Pray everyday for God to take your pain away. You can survive this. I did
What a lot of people don't know about dating apps is that these people on there are not fully screened when it comes to a criminal background check. These online dating companies aren't held liable if something tragic were to happen to somebody. At the end of the day it's all a money-grab that preys on anti-social and insecure people. Just live your life, create your own joy and happiness, live in your purpose and be happy. Love tends to find us when we least expect it.
Tony I’m listening not even going to rehash my scary experience. But I had to PAY for a hotel for him to get out. It was crazee. This guy had a gun, a big dog, I think a secret drug habit , schizophrenic and probably a down low based on things he left behind. I’m glowing up so I can attract someone in person! I was so shook haven’t dated in 2 years.
There was a Reason I came across this video and I receive what I just heard since I've been single I've met a couple people from online and they were totally different from chatting online and texting then In person they pretended to be a good guys good guys don't judge you based off of an hour of meeting and they definitely don't change their personalities at the drop of a hat so I'm officially done with that online stuff been over it things can probably not work out if you met somebody in person as well but online you really don't know what you're getting until you see it and then even then it's a toss up protect your vibration the one that is ment for you will find you in due time if not be okay with that and just live your life and find beauty in the things you love and cherish it
Off topic but can you talk about “pretty privilege” in today’s society and how it affects a woman’s self-esteem….thanks Tony. I love your videos keep speaking your truth. God bless. 💯💯🙏🏽
I enjoy Tony's moments of laughter from Thanksgiving night (Bet on yourself) until this video. Human behavior can be funny. Guys and their folly - greedy in speculating making money to guys lying about being the man who gets all the gals. 😆
Some of these dating coaches have made a whole business out of showing women how to get on these dating apps and find their husband. But in my short experience it was simply a tool for men to get easy sex. It was so ridiculous I had to bounce.
Remember: anyone you meet on a dating site may still be active there, even if they are in a relationship with you. It's happened to me with all of my long-term (4) relationships from dating sites. They never deleted their account and were active. I will never use a dating site again in my life.
Right on, Tony. The only reason I would condone online dating for anyone is if you are in a city where there's ZERO prospectives of finding a godly spouse, so you have to expand. Even in this case, you need to MOVE! Tony has said this. Some of us need to pack our stuff, and move. But, we hold ourselves back because of friends, family, or familiarity. You have to get uncomfortable to grow--this includes getting back with God, deleting those online apps, going out the house, looking presentable, hitting the gym, taking walks, getting some hobbies, and yes, moving. 👏
So when y’all get out the house, where do you go? Asking for myself 😆 cause outside cost me at least $100 a day. And if anybody’s wondering, no Sis…there’s no men at the beauty supply store, tailor shop, eyebrow threading place, nail salon, or wine store. The one at Starbucks is there same time everyday and the few at the apple store can’t focus cause their phone/tv is on life support. Idk maybe mr Starbucks is my guy. I mean he is consistent. A little jittery but so am I. So 🤷🏽♀️😆
Well the key is to not leave your house in search of seeking a man. Tony would call that desperate . Keep doing your thing and improving yourself and if you’re on the right track, you will meet someone organically. It could be ANY way, even at the grocery store.
Dating apps are a feast for men. Ladies, step it up and stop making yourself so available for just anyone. Know your value and don't be afraid of living your life until you find the right man
Not wake up dead lmaoo I hear what u sayin I really do but not gon lie, in the past year I met 2 men in person and they were both the same kinda crazy. Both were professing their love for me and asking to get married and they knew I was supposed to be their wife…. Within the first week! I met one online and he was socially awkward and had his own set of issues but the experiences honestly made me feel it doesnt matter whether n person or online the dating pool is just jacked up in general
Yep 🎁💯🎄 a guy can be who he wants he doesn’t have to pay 💰 to get to know U they will string u along waste ur time nothing serious happens til u meet U can’t marry u can’t build online ever. nice but max max 4 weeks or couple months out of town or state and it costs eventually it costs n will they ???
I JUST PRAY 🙏 FOR ALL WOMEN THAT ARE GOING THROUGH AND BROKEN 💔 RIGHT NOW BEHIND A MAN...INCLUDING MYSELF...." BUT GOD" HAS SENT US HELP.... AND HIS NAME IS "TONY GASKINS JR" ....LISTEN...DO YOUR WORK....AND HEAL....THIS IS WHERE YOU SHOULD BE ✝💕👈
my ex was seriously insecure tried to commit suicide before I met him and when he left for the 4th or 5th time in the 34 year marriage, he threatened suicide again. I was a complete prisoner for 37 years, he never stopped dating. I needed to raise my 3 children. Im free now yay.
I met a Man back in 2020 online and we met in person. Come to find out he was a insecure Narcissists. I met a Man last year in person from work and now we been together for 8 months going on 9 😊 Listen to Tony ladies his right about online dating. There is a lot of Men that put a Mask online. You do not know these Men true colors.
Tony I serve at the church I open the doors and make sure the doors are closed I need to get on there and do the replay after church am I going to be able to go back in there and show me how please
Delete the dating apps!!!! It's not worth it ladies. Live in your purpose. Get out there. Socialize. Be safe. Use your discernment. Your man will come.
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Thank you sis .
Thank you!
Yes sis!! This is true!!
Thanks for the reminder. We're badass women and don't need to rely on online dating sites
"An insecure man is the most dangerous being on earth..."
A truth I had to learn the hard way. Please listen to this man. No matter how good/strong the connection may be, none of that will matter if that man is still deeply insecure at the end of the day.
Leave these men alone!
Tha TRUTH
Truth my ex was like that he was verbally abusive and had the the tendencies to be physically as well he first came off as the so charming can’t do no wrong so confident that all was mask he was whole new person and very very insecure one too I said the same thing they are the most dangerous men RUN
Agreed 👏👏👏👏
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Very very very very DANGEROUS! Probably narcissistic and phycscopath/ sociapath
Found out he was cheating on me. I created a fake account to find out what was going on and boom he was on there. He was secretly on dating apps throughout the relationship. PSA: Dating apps are the breading ground for narcissistic, sociopath, psychopath, sexually sick, cheating, disgusting men. Thank you for bringing awareness.
Same here. Our marriage was a convenience, I nearly vomited when I saw the filth he was writing online. Sooooo many predators there
Whoo sister, preach it. These men can find a different woman to take out EVERY single night of the week and tell different stories to.
I'm so glad you found out the truth, but so sorry you had to experience that pain. I had to hire a private investigator to find out my ex husband had been cheating on me for 5 years, and he was someone that I had worked with - not online. The truth sets us free.
Very true...
Everything you said is the gospel truth!
I've heard TG preach about this countlessly. Could not be said enough, dating apps is not a useful too. It's flat-out un authentic in my opinion. The world is small enough to find someone to connect with.
I agree ! I deleted my dating app 2 years ago, I prefer to feel someone’s energy first. Glad Tony preached on this again because it’s dangerous
I agree!
This is so true 💯🎯
Agree... 🙏
I agree. I deleted my profiles 6 months ago and met a guy who lives in my apartment. Never knew he existed. Dating apps use to be great to use, but nowadays way to many imposters. Not worth it. The only way to invest in dating is to pay a matchmaker
Online dating is a Narcissist's playground. I never even knew the word until my ex. And yes, he IS a narcissist. I don't throw the word around carelessly. He likes women alright. Just like he likes men. I now found my passion. I want to help people with this. I left him at a Cleveland Indians game. I got out and I'm staying out. 5 months free. Thank You Jesus!!
I had no idea that I was dealing with a Narcissist. I started googling his behavior and this is how I discovered what evil I was dealing with. He sought me out on Facebook. Be careful what you post. They are preying.
Liked and used women but secretly liked men. Drug addict, thief and just a flat out demon. Met him on a social media site. Never again 3 months No Contact. Relocated to another state.
Dating apps are horrible. There are so many predators,bums, users, man thotzz, narcissists, broken people and felons/criminals on there looking for their next victim. Online isn’t something to take seriously because 98.9% of people on there aren’t looking for something healthy, meaningful and long term.
Lot of scammers, financial predators looking for an opportunity 💵💵
They don’t have a chance to ask me because I already beat them to the punch🤑🤑🤑
When Tony says get out the house, I feel attacked, cause one thing about me, Ima stay in my house, so hell nawww 😂
I deleted all my dating apps Tony . No man is worth me losing my life. So sad about the young lady in Connecticut who lost her life .
Cheating men have one thing in common: they are all insecure
Men who lack the courage to approach a woman in person or to try and get to know a woman in person. These are usually the same men that end up on online dating websites. Thank you Tony for speaking on the dangers of online dating once again.
Amen! If we can't even trust some of the men we meet in person, why do we even need to waste time with trying to discern if someone is a real person online? Even with people we meet in church, face to face, sometimes they can be deceivers. It's gotten to where we have to run background checks on pretty much everyone these days. Trust has to be earned, over time.
Thank you, Mr Gaskins, for your truth!
My spirit won’t Allow me to Date online. I don’t feel safe doing this Never ever have. 💯✅🥰🌺
Agree 100%. I spent all of 2 seconds on a dating app and quickly deleted it and my profile cause I just had no peace. A few months later, I met my current boyfriend and he’s all I’ve prayed for. 🙌🏽
Y’all still together?
Update????
Unfortunately, no we’re not. 🥲 Long story short, he ended things because he realized he had a lot of internal work he needed to do and wasn’t ready for marriage.
Still not getting on them dating apps though 😭
@@lovedbyYahuah thank you for updating best of luck to you! 🩷💜
This is so true ladies... its very alarming at how often this is happening. Get out and meet people when the Most High says to do so...and with all your getting, get some self defense knowledge as well. Learn how to physically become stronger and be trained to legally handle a piece that fires nice daily.... and twice on Sundays!!!
How in he world we do that in covid? I haven't met no decent man in person where I'm at. Most men do not approach
Key phrase “when the most High says to do so”…being sensitive to God’s voice and timing is SO important these days
Thing about it ladies, there are men everywhere! Every man in your city is not taken. I believe that protective custody is real, because it’s no other reason that we are not being seen or approached.
I'm approached sometimes in person but they are not my vibe lol
LOL dating sites for lame guys. One thing about Tony is he’s gonna cut to the chase. We all felt this way till we saw a friend “successful” at using apps and thought we would have the same luck...
Never been on a dating app. Divorced in 2020 and with all these weird stories I'm just terrified to date at all.
I could like this 100 times … I keep telling my friends I refuse to get on dating apps…
Men are crazy in person I don’t need to open myself to more of that🤷🏾♀️
I deleted my dating apps because of Tony's advice and these news stories. Also I noticed how some of the guys on these sites are more negative towards women. When I would get on the phone with them they seemed like they were not healed from whatever they've gone through and were angry with women. It was surprising to me at first but now I know why. Thanks for the advice Tony. I will be meeting people in real life from now on.
They are unhealed, hurt, bitter, resentful, unable to connect , yet they expect us to invite them over and want to have sex with them.
Omg yes thats exactly how I feel, they were so angry and triggered about woman. The first date they looked at me like I did something to them. So weird.
I'm like this, if you're not man enough to step to me as meek and as humble as I am, how will you miraculously be man enough for marriage and take care of me. Huge flag on that play~it doesn't work like that! I'll be meeting my husband in person because he will be at least man enough for me to approve or disapprove of him. Desperation is a trap from hell. Tony you better preach & see yall Sunday 👏🏾 🙌🏿
Last year my female friend met a guy on popular dating app. After three months they were engaged and married after eight -nine months. They are both Christians. They claim that the faith and similar view of life are they common spot. I was and i am still in shock. Because i watch what Tony is saying and i also watched many criminal documentary about this topic. Also, is confusing why this Christian people were on popular dating app to start with. They claim that God connect them and maybe this is the case. But that is exception not the rule. What Tony saying is truth and I belive him. Many frustrated men are hang out online and typically are very toxic or have some issue. A man who is "normal" wont lose his time online because he can approach women everywhere.
Idk if this is 100 percent accurate… Tony has been married for like 20 years so he has no idea (hopefully he doesn’t😒) Anyways, I’ve met nice guys, good decent men on dating websites🤷🏽♀️
Most men that I’ve met are professionals and work a lot and don’t take the time to go out and meet women so online dating is perfect for them
Online does work for some. If you look for the horror stories you will find them. If you look for the success stories you’ll find those too
@@APTTMHYforever That sounds like a red flag. No man is so busy that he won't take the time to go out and meet women. Men who are millionaires and billionaires are not on dating apps. How well did you know these men that you met? And did any of it actually lead to marriage?
The wait for the right one is worth it there isn't a need to rush the process.
🎯 That part alot people "looking like" their happy but you see no glow, or affection. Body language tell everything.
The absolute truth Tony!!!! About four years ago Ive been done with the dating apps God gave me the strong urge to delete all of them and I never look back I know it was for a reason I’m glad I did.
Thanks for this New Year's Eve video quick chat! I left dating apps alone years ago! Seemed like these men were literally making a career out of being on dating apps! Too many crazy and unhealed men hiding on dating apps! Ladies please use discernment.
Dating apps are a waste of time and sometimes dating in person can be too. When I was dating, I though he was my prince when I first met him but, he quickly became my Frankenstein.
Lol
I suffered in silence for years. I accepted the few moments of bliss dispersed in the days/months of tears and emotional abuse. I had build him up so much I was ashamed to admit I got it wrong. Plus I was everyone’s go to person for relationship advice. I was ashamed. I’m still forgiving myself.
Been there, done that 😔 The only thing worse than losing 10 years of my life in the lie is to lose 10 years plus another day. You had to learn lessons, be kind to yourself sis xx
Bahahaha “the man don’t even like the shoes he wearing”🤣🤣🤣 Mann I can’t 🤣🤣. Yea y’all better leave them dating sites alone and Tony show enough telling the truth.. I’ve never messed with them dating sites ever but have a couple of friends who have
Tony getting fit while feeding us that protein! 🙌🏽
"POINT BLANK PERIOOD", TG. Stay off them dating apps. Ladies, them Lames on the Prowl. Stay safe
I remember being on one and a guy who used to be mean to me in high school messaged me saying he’s a changed man and wants to be friends. I had my police officer friend do a background check on him, and he is a straight up abuser.
One thing ive learned about these dating sites is theyll be on several sites at once as well..i was bored and was on like 2 or 3 at the same time (been divorced 2 years so i was dabbing and being nosey) when i tell you the exact same guys LITERALLY THE EXACT SAME GUYS ! Youd think they remember faces these dudes will holla at you and swear they dont have another page smh i caught several up lying ..ish sad i knew it was time to stop online dating when they didnt even read the bio and ask the exact samething stated already.... i washed my hands on online dating
I agree with everything you say Tony. I tried online dating at one point but upon meeting up with the person, their energy told me to RUN!!!! I got out of there so fast and deleted my account. Scared me to death
What happened lol?
Girl, I’ve also put my self in potentially dangerous situations as a young woman online dating it’s just not worth the hassle. Be safe❤
You still need to use discernment in general especially with social media. I met a gentleman on facebook. Met in a meet and greet group which had nothing to do with dating. He pursued me. Shortly before we were about to meet 2 months later it was discovered he was still in a relationship. This happened to me this week. Shocked wasn't the word and would have never believed he was being dishonest with me. Sigh. Its a challenge out here. Be careful yall. tony is right!
My cousin met her husband on fb… I’m not on any social media but I was on a dating website and met some great guys… I ended up with someone that I met at a car dealership BUT there’s good and bad everywhere so you’re right, DISCERNMENT!! It may sound weird but I pray that the Holy Spirit reveal the man’s intentions during the first date
He’s 10000% right I use to do a lot of online dating and it’s exactly what he’s saying 👨 that other women don’t want at all then I had a stalker after one date and he’s a dr ladies please be careful
Oh my Lord.....what !!!
I hope your ok. That sounds creepy
I have had a few and it was on a Christian dating.The men wanted to be on the phone with me all day and if I didn’t answer my phone they would leave silly,crazy and thirsty messages.
@@1loyaldiva I’m screaming 🤣🤣
Signed up!!! Ladies it's only $25 with 8 sessions included. We can definitely afford that. OK!! Have a beautiful New Years eve. Don't forget to give the Most High praise for what you have. Luv ya'll.
Thank you Tony for calling it as it is and not sugar coating it. The internet is a very cautious place to be and should be dealt accordingly. Manly, it persuades emotionally needy individuals to do things they would not do under normal circumstances. Let's protect ourselves emotionally and physically may God bless you all.
Tony , I came across your channel after breaking up with my now ex partner who kept disrespecting me and cheating verbally on me. I met him on a dating site which I was somehow pushed to try because of a friend although I was truly against it.
You are the best out there, gold words! Thank you
Preach Tony! Thank you for your wisdom.
Tony!! Thank you so much!! You are really getting these videos out!! I appreciate this!!
so thankful for this....just so wonderful.
Can't wait for the seminar. Im ready with my pen and pad💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
A player cousin told me going online to meet women is easy and like taking candy from a baby, he gets money and sex from women on first dates without doing nothing
My family and friends are trying to get me to join a dating app and I keep advising them to leave me alone about it cause I'm not going online to meet a man, espaily based on what my cousin told me.
I LOVED THIS 🤣😂❤️🔥thanks Tony
Amen Mr.Gaskins!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I really never comment, but thank you for giving the world this message! You are dog gone right! God bless you and you family 👪
Am here for it Tony!🙏🏿
Thanks for an important and timely message!
Tony is “Nonstop” Drake with the video drops this week! Yasss!
The Lord Blessed me with the funds & I just signed up for the seminar 😝🙏🏾 I feel blessed and I’m so thankful for your teachings💯 I know this is most definitely worth the investment, I’m so excited for the new knowledge ☺️ I call you my uncle 😂 so thank you Uncle Tony, God Bless You & Your Family💕🙏🏾
Ladies listen to this man! I met my ex-husband online. Notice how I said ex-husband. Do yourself a favor. Save your money and your time.
Tony, you tell like it is and i appreciate you for that. Thank you
I’m so tired of finding out that the man is married. I’m actually tired seems they are all married,the lies/manipulation. They are highly successful and appealing then what balances the scale is finding out or getting the he is married confession. I’m literally 😒😒😒
@@LA-wv7gf It’s quite pathetic
I’m so glad I never used those apps like that. I remember creating an e harmony account as well as a black people meet years ago but I never followed through with it because it was just weird vibes having to answer personal questions like that. Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you, brother Tony.
I know I must be in protective custody because I go outside and even though I dress more on the sporty side I always get myself dressed up and look nice because that’s just what I like to do for myself. Guys stare at me a lot. They tell me how beautiful I am but a lot of times that’s kinda where it ends. I haven’t had anybody being consistent with me, well except for my ex. And I’m not giving him no play because he tried to replace me not once but TWICE with women on these dating apps and they didn’t work out for him so guess who’s phone he’s blowing up and seeing if it could work? 🙄😒 Of course, now that he realized he had a lot of work to do and the grass wasn’t greener on the other side. Go figure. Anyhow, I have been feeling a bit discouraged in the love department because of all of this but I know whoever God is preparing for me has got to be an amazing person who doesn’t take me for granted like my last one did. I deserve love that is caring and gentle and strong and powerful with someone who communicates, is willing to work together to make each other better and who wants to make me happy so we can build together. I really don’t think I’m asking for much at all honestly and it’s not something that is unrealistic because I’ve seen many real life examples of it. Thanks for this Tony!
Exactly I’m old school. I enjoy meeting men the old fashion way. It’s bad enough you don’t Noe what your getting in person imagine dating behind a computer. dating apps are not for me.
I was just starting to look at some dating apps, THANKYOU Tony for the sharp reminder I needed, you really are a blessing to us sister's who can LISTEN to truth. May your family's 2022 increase in blessings 🙏
DONT do it. The devil is tap dancing on your shoulders
@J-Tenn, not the devil😩😂… I had a great experience with online dating!!✨
My advice to anyone who’s skeptical is that you can meet a lunatic cheater narcissistic jerk anywhere, so why rule out online dating???
Be smart, savvy, use discernment and don’t be thirsty or desperate acting or too helpful. Most people get into a bad experience because they weren’t projecting their best self
I had watched a previous video of yours about dating apps. Slept on it and deleted them immediately!
We here you Tony and we are listening!!
That's real now! I agree dating apps is not where it's at!
My spirit felt uneasy talking to most online dudes. I thought it was nerves, but it was more than that. Most moved waaayy too fast..I could sense agenda and game. Holy Spirit convicted me to close my accts. Guess I'll meet the old fashioned way in person.
I am going through a horrible horrible separation and I could use some encouragement from you 💔 I feel so dumb and stupid and broken I don't feel like I am strong enough the pain is overwhelming... I've been with him since I was 16 im 25 now. We have an 8 ye old together it just hurts I just wanna cry all day I'm trying to be strong but it takes all the energy in me to get up.
OMG ....Im so sorry....you gone make it boo 🙏...." your day 70 will not be like your day 7".....keep doing the work.....💕
Oh darling. Take it from a sis who lost 2 years of my life sobbing and not wanting to live anymore, after he left me. You WILL meet the man who will want to stay with you to old age and Thank God for what is happening now. 🙏
Follow Tony's advice, he's NEVER given bad advice yet ( tho it's hard to swallow when we're lonely) and stay on your grind.
And remember, you already have a man who loves you forever. You call him son.
You got this x
Keep watching Tony’s videos on a loop, repeatedly. I promise 10000000% they will help you once you get engrossed in Tony’s messages . Take time and you will be okay ❤️
Get alone and pray to God to fill your pain with His love. You will get through this, I promise. Cry it out I believe crying releases pain. Write in a daily journal of how you're feeling that day and as time go by, your notes will get brighter. Pray and do a fast. Much love!
I know your heart is broken. I've been there. Just keep listening to Tony's videos and also pastor RC Blakes Utube videos too. Have faith in the Lord. Pray everyday for God to take your pain away. You can survive this. I did
He’s right girls
Thankyou Tony😀
What a lot of people don't know about dating apps is that these people on there are not fully screened when it comes to a criminal background check. These online dating companies aren't held liable if something tragic were to happen to somebody. At the end of the day it's all a money-grab that preys on anti-social and insecure people. Just live your life, create your own joy and happiness, live in your purpose and be happy. Love tends to find us when we least expect it.
Tony I’m listening not even going to rehash my scary experience. But I had to PAY for a hotel for him to get out. It was crazee. This guy had a gun, a big dog, I think a secret drug habit , schizophrenic and probably a down low based on things he left behind.
I’m glowing up so I can attract someone in person! I was so shook haven’t dated in 2 years.
What did he leave behind? Inquiring minds want to know!
There was a Reason I came across this video and I receive what I just heard since I've been single I've met a couple people from online and they were totally different from chatting online and texting then In person they pretended to be a good guys good guys don't judge you based off of an hour of meeting and they definitely don't change their personalities at the drop of a hat so I'm officially done with that online stuff been over it things can probably not work out if you met somebody in person as well but online you really don't know what you're getting until you see it and then even then it's a toss up protect your vibration the one that is ment for you will find you in due time if not be okay with that and just live your life and find beauty in the things you love and cherish it
This is for me. 💯
You can’t wake up dead ☠️ but we understand brother Tony! God bless you!🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😎 Stay off those dating apps!
As far as dating apps, ots a hit or miss thing. At this point I would not reccommend anyone getting on dating apps. I think its Narcissit city.
Whew! Chile no conversation skills, want me to approach them, and here I am making plans for January 2022 SOLO!
So true , stay clear of those dating apps and companies .
Lol the men are lammeeee on dating apps? Omg!
I clicked the video so fast when I saw the title. Tony does not play when he talks about dating apps.
Off topic but can you talk about “pretty privilege” in today’s society and how it affects a woman’s self-esteem….thanks Tony. I love your videos keep speaking your truth. God bless. 💯💯🙏🏽
Looking forward to the Protection Custody video!!
I enjoy Tony's moments of laughter from Thanksgiving night (Bet on yourself) until this video. Human behavior can be funny. Guys and their folly - greedy in speculating making money to guys lying about being the man who gets all the gals. 😆
im never depressed though because I dont go out with any man really..lol I just see all the signs and I dont bother
It’s the title for me 💀 he sounds like somebody daddy. “Them daggum apps you be on!”.
Some of these dating coaches have made a whole business out of showing women how to get on these dating apps and find their husband. But in my short experience it was simply a tool for men to get easy sex. It was so ridiculous I had to bounce.
Remember: anyone you meet on a dating site may still be active there, even if they are in a relationship with you. It's happened to me with all of my long-term (4) relationships from dating sites. They never deleted their account and were active. I will never use a dating site again in my life.
Online does work for some. If you look for the horror stories you will find them. If you look for the success stories you’ll find those too
Always that one comment.
@@j-tenn226 meaning what exactly?
Right on, Tony. The only reason I would condone online dating for anyone is if you are in a city where there's ZERO prospectives of finding a godly spouse, so you have to expand. Even in this case, you need to MOVE! Tony has said this. Some of us need to pack our stuff, and move. But, we hold ourselves back because of friends, family, or familiarity. You have to get uncomfortable to grow--this includes getting back with God, deleting those online apps, going out the house, looking presentable, hitting the gym, taking walks, getting some hobbies, and yes, moving. 👏
I have bought this is my year 2021 but I have not finished that one yet!!! ... but watching all the videos
You're right
Be Blessed
So when y’all get out the house, where do you go? Asking for myself 😆 cause outside cost me at least $100 a day. And if anybody’s wondering, no Sis…there’s no men at the beauty supply store, tailor shop, eyebrow threading place, nail salon, or wine store. The one at Starbucks is there same time everyday and the few at the apple store can’t focus cause their phone/tv is on life support. Idk maybe mr Starbucks is my guy. I mean he is consistent. A little jittery but so am I. So 🤷🏽♀️😆
Well the key is to not leave your house in search of seeking a man. Tony would call that desperate . Keep doing your thing and improving yourself and if you’re on the right track, you will meet someone organically. It could be ANY way, even at the grocery store.
Need to take my own advice
Dating apps are a feast for men. Ladies, step it up and stop making yourself so available for just anyone. Know your value and don't be afraid of living your life until you find the right man
The Bible says believe nothing you hear and half of what you see...
Not wake up dead lmaoo
I hear what u sayin I really do but not gon lie, in the past year I met 2 men in person and they were both the same kinda crazy. Both were professing their love for me and asking to get married and they knew I was supposed to be their wife…. Within the first week! I met one online and he was socially awkward and had his own set of issues but the experiences honestly made me feel it doesnt matter whether n person or online the dating pool is just jacked up in general
Yep 🎁💯🎄 a guy can be who he wants he doesn’t have to pay 💰 to get to know U they will string u along waste ur time nothing serious happens til u meet U can’t marry u can’t build online ever. nice but max max 4 weeks or couple months out of town or state and it costs eventually it costs n will they ???
I JUST PRAY 🙏 FOR ALL WOMEN THAT ARE GOING THROUGH AND BROKEN 💔 RIGHT NOW BEHIND A MAN...INCLUDING MYSELF...." BUT GOD" HAS SENT US HELP.... AND HIS NAME IS "TONY GASKINS JR" ....LISTEN...DO YOUR WORK....AND HEAL....THIS IS WHERE YOU SHOULD BE ✝💕👈
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Hey Cher. ..are u in the zoom....I cannot get back in....my email invite is gone...I paid for this?
@@beefaye6861 I didn't make it today. I had to work. I hope he post it
@@cherh thanks grl....I think he will....I couldn't get back in....lesson learned.....I will write it dwn next time ☺
my ex was seriously insecure tried to commit suicide before I met him and when he left for the 4th or 5th time in the 34 year marriage, he threatened suicide again. I was a complete prisoner for 37 years, he never stopped dating. I needed to raise my 3 children. Im free now yay.
I met a Man back in 2020 online and we met in person. Come to find out he was a insecure Narcissists. I met a Man last year in person from work and now we been together for 8 months going on 9 😊
Listen to Tony ladies his right about online dating. There is a lot of Men that put a Mask online. You do not know these Men true colors.
I agree 100%!
Please awareness
Tony I serve at the church I open the doors and make sure the doors are closed I need to get on there and do the replay after church am I going to be able to go back in there and show me how please
I totally agree
Amen!!
But what if you don’t leave your home a lot? How can you meet someone?