6 Social Skills SECRETS that Make You Attractive AF

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  • čas přidán 9. 04. 2023
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  • @howtobeast
    @howtobeast  Před rokem +90

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    • @kingmafia2462
      @kingmafia2462 Před rokem

      Honestly u speak so much facts in your videos bro,keep up that advice to these guys out hr

    • @micoferdinand
      @micoferdinand Před rokem

      more moto and audi type of content beast! yessir

    • @mariomirquis9393
      @mariomirquis9393 Před rokem

      God loves you he sent his one and only son and if we walk in the path Jesus walked in we will enter the kingdom of Heaven’*

    • @parrits
      @parrits Před rokem

      it cost money?

    • @swagkumar5090
      @swagkumar5090 Před rokem

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  • @Maxhindle
    @Maxhindle Před rokem +826

    A year ago I couldn’t talk to women… I got to the point where I just began trying to talk to more women and eventually started approaching women… once I got comfortable with it I stopped searching for someone and that’s when I ended up finding my girlfriend

    • @mattydfor3
      @mattydfor3 Před rokem +48

      Let the girls come to you bro

    • @richardw3347
      @richardw3347 Před rokem +11

      sometimes less is more. like the old adage when you least expect it, things happen.

    • @ashtonsmith9682
      @ashtonsmith9682 Před rokem

      This only works if you are good looking. It’s kind of funny that all of these guys that run these self improvement channels happen to be Chads. You know why? Because when average and ugly guys try this stuff you get sent back to where you came from.

    • @B_Gentle
      @B_Gentle Před rokem +45

      Same, saw a gorgeous a girl walking on the treadmill. I was just like ‘you and me, this Sunday date ? We are together for half a year.
      She later told she was just so shocked and impressed for me having so much balls to just ask directly that she felt she should say yes and at least get to know me a little

    • @Stilo95
      @Stilo95 Před rokem +2

      @@mattydfor3 What if no girls want to come to me?

  • @brotherfromanothermother4383

    1. Solid Foundation
    2. Minimum Effective Dose
    3. The (not) boring Guy
    4. Be the confident Nice guy (and Not needy!)
    5. dont take the passiv role (dont be rude, But state your point calmly)

    • @mariomirquis9393
      @mariomirquis9393 Před rokem +25

      God loves you he sent his one and only son and if we walk in the path Jesus walked in we will enter the kingdom of Heaven’*

    • @Coldcupcake
      @Coldcupcake Před rokem +6

      ​@@mariomirquis9393 how can God have a son 😮

    • @keithwells2552
      @keithwells2552 Před rokem +5

      Because if you are the creator of time, space and matter and can break the law of physics since u created physics. Then you can create matter from nothing to include controlling the elements and their properties etc therefore he can easily create a son from nothing or in a womb embued with his divinity aka traits to not sin.

    • @YoshitoTsukumo
      @YoshitoTsukumo Před rokem +2

      But this is not a Devine thing a God would do, cause a God is unique and nothing is like him in any shape or form so if he has a son he is like is he can have sons like us which makes him not unique which makes him not a God so no god can have a son but won't cause its not divine

    • @DanDascalescu-dandv
      @DanDascalescu-dandv Před rokem +5

      These headings are misleading. Here are better ones, using consecrated terms.
      1. First impression matters: eye contact, posture (not mentioned), speak clearly, be confident, go in for the hug. Later you can be quieter.
      2. Don't linger when you approach, and don't be aggressive. "Minimum effective dose" is a term popularized by Tim Ferriss meaning you should use the minimum dose of an intervention (supplement, exercise etc.) that achieves most of the desired effect (related to the 80/20 rule).
      3. Tell interesting stories (not boring ones): avoid side tangents and irrelevant details; focus on the emotions/feelings; include specific details that can be visualized
      4. Be nice, not an angry asshole. Don't be a doormat, but be friendly and positive.
      5. Don't be passive. Assert the middle line. If someone is aggressive, say "Hey man, you need to take some deep breaths, you need to calm down here, this behavior is out of line".

  • @Back2thebasics24
    @Back2thebasics24 Před rokem +13

    “I waved back “ na Julia u got some explaining to do 😂

  • @paulmensah6780
    @paulmensah6780 Před rokem +103

    I love content like this. The content felt new and refreshing. It had alot of shared, personal experiences that made it feel unique. This is why I have been watching this particular channel for years now and don't plan to stop. I really appreciate the quality and effort put into these videos. Props to David and inputs as usual from Julia.

  • @Fortnitia
    @Fortnitia Před rokem +79

    - Create a solid foundation and make a strong first impression when meeting someone new.
    - End interactions on a high note to avoid appearing needy or desperate.
    - Practice minimum effective dose by avoiding lingering and being aware of body language signals of discomfort or disinterest.
    - Develop effective storytelling skills by focusing on emotions and avoiding side tangents.
    - Stay open, friendly, and confident in social interactions, avoiding overly aggressive behavior.
    - Cultivate a positive and supportive attitude in social situations.

  • @TheWrestlingUniverse
    @TheWrestlingUniverse Před rokem +8

    One of your best videos in a while my dude. Interesting topics, sweet edits and solid advice Good job Dave!!

  • @Womanpost
    @Womanpost Před rokem +14

    It was a really high quality content, I am happy that you are focusing on content more than making video and transitions- keep it up / the way you communicate and teach is insane. There are some topics you talked about them before years ago. Make some videos out of them again with this kind of quality videos

  • @skam8626
    @skam8626 Před rokem +5

    Great content and editing, thank you David. Love this more casual style

  • @play2win78
    @play2win78 Před rokem +5

    Great tips about keeping the conversation going, strong emotions and details that people can relate to.

  • @rhysmartin1761
    @rhysmartin1761 Před rokem +6

    This is the kind of positive masculinity I love to see coaches sharing with young men. Great video!

  • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274

    Congrats on your marriage 🎊🎉💪🏽💪🏽 your videos helped during the quarantine

  • @axelacex3587
    @axelacex3587 Před rokem +14

    This is all solid advice.. I just hate all the damn games we gotta play to socialize 😮‍💨

  • @curiousconsultant7922
    @curiousconsultant7922 Před rokem +2

    Man I saw your stuff last year and frankly I wasn't ready for em. I felt like you're one of the woowoo feel good snake oil salesmen talking about secret formulas.
    It took a lot of trial and error, a bit of heartbreak too, but right now I'm watching this with a new lease on life and frankly you describe a very good way to do things. Big props to you.
    One thing I might add to this is that all of this advice has one common prérequisit: accepting that in life you are owed absolutely nothing and that you get what you put out into the world. That mindset shift will solidify your frame and make you much less likely to fly off the handle not to mention give you all the confidence in the world to be the nice guy while still coming off as the most dangerous guy in the room. A topic I would love your take on (if not already addressed)

  • @iamaaron____
    @iamaaron____ Před rokem +3

    Max Chewing then How to Beast off to a great start for the day! STAY BEASTLY 💪💯

  • @micoferdinand
    @micoferdinand Před rokem +2

    as years of watching you, Story telling is getting better than ever

  • @steveholden9139
    @steveholden9139 Před 2 měsíci

    Just started binging your content and wow the ‘how to’ on story telling was GOLD! I am the guy that tells the boring version and have always struggled with telling an interesting story so now if I am in a social situation I just don’t bother. Can you please do a full video on story telling……you’ve obviously got a gift.

  • @Tangy_Horizon
    @Tangy_Horizon Před rokem

    Bro, why are you're videos so high quality you're literally the only CZcamsr that makes me out-loud laugh or be like goddamn that was smooth 😂

  • @RavingEcu
    @RavingEcu Před rokem +1

    Julia has definitely step up her game on everything. Good job bro

  • @adikaliekamara4926
    @adikaliekamara4926 Před 9 měsíci +1

    "BE THE NICE GUY" hits different this time

  • @BennyParcher
    @BennyParcher Před rokem +1

    Your videos are much more tolerable without the random vlogs In between. Awesome thanks guys

  • @learnapplyrepeat
    @learnapplyrepeat Před rokem +2

    in a nut shell you got passive assertive and aggressive. being assertive is the middle ground and is key for many things in life not just women

  • @txgdarkapolinar4010
    @txgdarkapolinar4010 Před rokem +6

    I say 3 key tips to master it:
    1. Take the conversation and approach in a politely and respectful way
    2. Have confident body language
    3. Don’t be disrespectful or touchy

  • @christoffer3719
    @christoffer3719 Před rokem

    Nice flow in the video, didnt think about skipping to the tips

  • @danielsoto2667
    @danielsoto2667 Před rokem +1

    man love this keep making these kind of videos. also beard is killing it. also make more stories on what you do when someone else talks to your girlfriend and you are there? do you let it or do you what how is your interation

  • @lawrence5841
    @lawrence5841 Před rokem

    The new video formats are awesome💯

  • @actualKing
    @actualKing Před rokem +3

    It was one of the most useful videos recently. Sure, all of your videos are applicable one way or another, but this one is really what I need right now. Consider to start a diary of your advices))

  • @dimex3362
    @dimex3362 Před rokem

    One of your best ever videos David!

  • @Bryan19777
    @Bryan19777 Před rokem +18

    Thanks for the tips! I will definitely remember them. Ive always been the silent type around guys and girls. Kinda introverted maybe awkward. I still feel a little awkward around guys and girls. Probably not as confident as I could be. Never really had many friends in HS or was the popular kid. Im still learning how to be in th middle. I use to get bullied a lot so my habit is flight.

    • @kennethporst4359
      @kennethporst4359 Před rokem

      Word of advice dude: choose what you want to do and follow through- practice makes perfect

  • @chrisbaybay7326
    @chrisbaybay7326 Před rokem +1

    Amazing content man, you really spoke to me, hope to see more content like this!
    You've come a very long way! Glad to be subscribed

  • @jeanpaul379
    @jeanpaul379 Před rokem

    What a great video, keep it up David.

  • @timleeds4346
    @timleeds4346 Před rokem +40

    This was a great video as a faith based counselor the things you were talking about how guys should act and react was encouraging. I am constantly working with my clients that struggle with the social interaction with guys and girls. Balance is always challenge. You explained it well and I know what you said will be very helpful to many. Wish you both the best.

    • @DanDascalescu-dandv
      @DanDascalescu-dandv Před rokem

      Why do you have to push faith? This video has nothing to do with your imaginary deity.

    • @BigDirtDawg
      @BigDirtDawg Před rokem +5

      @@DanDascalescu-dandv why does it bother you so much?

  • @zachwillason
    @zachwillason Před 11 měsíci

    This is an awesome video man. Makes me excited to get back into watching more from your channel 👌

  • @icefireicefire105
    @icefireicefire105 Před rokem +1

    Beast- SUPER VIDEO!! GREAT INFO ! GREAT MOTIVATION! Period exclamation point

  • @aznddragon
    @aznddragon Před rokem

    Thanks David!

  • @jeffward24
    @jeffward24 Před rokem +3

    Your ability to Level Up to the magnitude that you've accomplished in 7 years is both mind boggling and awe inspiring.
    Have a great day.

  • @YetiLyfChill
    @YetiLyfChill Před rokem

    Loving these sit down videos

  • @haripeso9408
    @haripeso9408 Před rokem

    Solid video and an original one. Thanks

  • @main__damee
    @main__damee Před 9 měsíci +1

    More positive interactions, and the more friends the person would be with.

  • @austincarlson9270
    @austincarlson9270 Před 8 měsíci

    Ngl, this is some of the best shit ive seen on youtube in a minute. This is DENSE with useful information, critiques, and helping tips.
    I mess with this!

  • @joseperez-jf8cc
    @joseperez-jf8cc Před rokem

    Solid advice from the heart💯✊🏼👍🏼

  • @srconrad
    @srconrad Před rokem

    This is the video that got me to subscribe. Great stuff!

  • @jjjunior1179
    @jjjunior1179 Před rokem +3

    Work hard
    Be kind to everyone
    Be no pushover
    And also focus on habits that will improve your mental, physical wellbeing

  • @MYZKGHoly
    @MYZKGHoly Před rokem

    Excellent content & tips! Ty!

  • @siamakalaei1148
    @siamakalaei1148 Před rokem

    Thanks for the tips, Bro. Best wishes. ❤❤❤

  • @John-zn3vf
    @John-zn3vf Před rokem +32

    David can you please do a video on making male friends as you mentioned in the video? What are the stages and what kind of friendship are there? Thanks!!

  • @patrickmotshweni6554
    @patrickmotshweni6554 Před 11 měsíci

    Beast🔥keep up the good work...Solid 💯

  • @cottys
    @cottys Před rokem +3

    Very cool how he uses studies to back things up 💪🏻

  • @marlondolloway2674
    @marlondolloway2674 Před rokem

    great video man

  • @clyondavis9550
    @clyondavis9550 Před rokem

    I really starting to fux with these type of videos fr fr !

  • @justscratch2842
    @justscratch2842 Před rokem

    Hey man good job on the new grill. I mine completely replaced and my confidence went through the roof 😁

  • @jared1122
    @jared1122 Před rokem +1

    This is some solid advice 👌

  • @GoldenMushroom64
    @GoldenMushroom64 Před rokem +1

    Leaving on a high note is ingenious

  • @Zard1999
    @Zard1999 Před rokem +3

    Love these videos bro

  • @robbydimmitt4462
    @robbydimmitt4462 Před 18 dny

    Love ya bro

  • @Ban00
    @Ban00 Před rokem +8

    I love the story tips. Very precise information and accurate

  • @boxerxx951
    @boxerxx951 Před rokem

    The 2nd story was more detail and make more sence good tips thank you

  • @akshayvishwakarma7016

    David is back with new techniques (video) ❤

  • @Joshs_Journey
    @Joshs_Journey Před rokem +1

    Yoo, great Video!
    Funny seeing you using the Effects by Niklas Christl 🤓

  • @poppiedaboss91
    @poppiedaboss91 Před rokem

    Great video very insightful

  • @AngelGuzman0925
    @AngelGuzman0925 Před rokem +1

    You uploaded almost as the same time as Maxx so watched his video first 😂 stay beastly bro!

  • @t3kker_t
    @t3kker_t Před rokem

    Very cool video thanks man!

  • @aaronrushing3253
    @aaronrushing3253 Před rokem +4

    Good video huge fan of you

  • @farisSTINGrai
    @farisSTINGrai Před rokem +6

    Man, this video is so important. There's so much toxic masculinity being spread into the world now and even I have to admit myself that as a genuinely nice guy I have been trying to do the whole be a dick thing to attract more girls but it's just not who I naturally am and it surprises some people too because I act out of character. A lot of guys are too scared of being too nice because they don't want to get friend zoned and become a simp but you've explained this perfectly about the difference between being a genuinely nice cool dude and not being a doormat. Huge respect to you David for always calling yourself out first by being honest in your videos about your lessons and then teaching them to us. I haven't been watching your videos in a while but I'm glad that this one popped up because it reminded me how valuable they are and how much they help me. Big up!

  • @gustavosplanet1341
    @gustavosplanet1341 Před rokem

    When he said, that’s the warning to the get tf out of there I lost t hahahaha
    I love this. It’s really helping me

  • @Uzi2028
    @Uzi2028 Před rokem

    Great Video brother

  • @The-Benjamin-786
    @The-Benjamin-786 Před 8 měsíci

    Great channel warm good knowledge and advice

  • @superduper4820
    @superduper4820 Před 9 měsíci

    What a great video, heard it while i was playing bloodborne, felt great hearing it

  • @magonus195
    @magonus195 Před 9 měsíci +1

    All extremely stable advice.

  • @LH-rk3xd
    @LH-rk3xd Před rokem +1

    Nice video bro 👍👍👍

  • @oscar.esteves
    @oscar.esteves Před rokem +3

    I'm not a fan of this creator, but i have to admit, this video was full of good advise and vibes.

  • @David_Sixx
    @David_Sixx Před 9 měsíci

    I love your coach mann...

  • @danielsoto2667
    @danielsoto2667 Před rokem

    bro love the background effects haha do it more brooooooooo sickkkkkkk and you do not even have a green screen!!

  • @adamfranco7445
    @adamfranco7445 Před rokem +1

    What’s crazy is like before I even realized what point you were proving during the first story I had already zoned out man 😭

  • @chiomaconstance8848
    @chiomaconstance8848 Před rokem

    Great content

  • @arjannoordermeer9666
    @arjannoordermeer9666 Před rokem

    Don’t say this often but great video! Just watched it for the second time.

  • @nytebladetr
    @nytebladetr Před rokem

    Loved it. Subbed.

  • @GRATEFULLY.MrJones
    @GRATEFULLY.MrJones Před 4 měsíci

    Tip #4 "Be the Nice Guy" is golden. Master this disposition and you've already won!

  • @officialmichaelhudson
    @officialmichaelhudson Před rokem +22

    Being the “Nice Guy” is probably the most underrated characteristic a man can possess. So many great opportunities arise when you’re genuinely empathetic and kind to others ❤

    • @TheZechariah
      @TheZechariah Před rokem +8

      Not to the modern woman lol

    • @aaronjones5972
      @aaronjones5972 Před rokem +5

      The difference being you can be a nice guy but not a pushover.
      People tend to think women want assholes. That’s not true. They want a nice guy who is confident and assertive, there’s a difference.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 Před rokem +2

      @@aaronjones5972 They want good looking entertaining men who have hilarious personalities, or they are all about the money.. Whether a guy is technically ''nice'' or not, means very little

  • @haloxrey2475
    @haloxrey2475 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow! I should start a Convo or continue it that way

  • @TrvisXXIII
    @TrvisXXIII Před rokem +3

    The funny thing about the storytelling part of the video is that my brain is conditioned to think that nobody cares. Every interaction I’ve ever had it’s always been about the other person and it takes a while before people genuinely become interested to know more about you

  • @dwightjackson1270
    @dwightjackson1270 Před rokem

    Thanks

  • @courtneyzimmerman7658

    Hey how to beast sorry this is very late response but thanks for all of these videos

  • @rzvi.abt.n6034
    @rzvi.abt.n6034 Před rokem +1

    BE QUIET and confident!

  • @fortune_hr
    @fortune_hr Před rokem +2

    The best how to beast video I’ve seen yet and I watch every single video.
    Loved the whole story and b roll and valid key point.
    Keep it up bro ❤

    • @pjscoglio7482
      @pjscoglio7482 Před rokem

      Nah fr honestly tho. The stories and editing were just IT this time

  • @Whatdafuk123
    @Whatdafuk123 Před 11 měsíci

    Big waves in OB broski

    • @Whatdafuk123
      @Whatdafuk123 Před 11 měsíci

      Your boards were too big bro , you need short board to make it out

  • @outhouse.wholesaler
    @outhouse.wholesaler Před 9 měsíci

    Your leaving on a high note tip reminded me of Seinfeld when George did the same thing at his boring meetings at work, when he cracked a good joke that got a lot of laughs, he just got up and left so he could leave on a high.

  • @peterlankton935
    @peterlankton935 Před rokem +3

    Hey Dude, thanks for your videos. You are one of the few guys (both) with actually good tips and insights compared to "sigma grindset to get girls" stuff :D

  • @octaviomartinez3413
    @octaviomartinez3413 Před rokem

    I liked the first version of the surfboard story

  • @t4t3animations8
    @t4t3animations8 Před rokem

    Love it

  • @twalke0555
    @twalke0555 Před rokem +1

    That Last piece of advice was Killer. Soo good, and I never thought of it that way. Also, thanks for the examples: w the aggressive dude, and the paddle advisor dude

  • @Alexis_Silva83
    @Alexis_Silva83 Před rokem +5

    Yo yo what's up big homie? You nailed it about being a machismo. I tend to puff out my chest because I hate feeling vulnerable, but I feel uncomfortable because I know that's not me. I need to be more friendly and humble myself so I can have girls and friends. 😥

  • @pxg3926
    @pxg3926 Před rokem

    lourd mon reuf (heavy my brother)

  • @boyce887
    @boyce887 Před rokem +2

    Point 4, Be a Kind Man. So important

  • @Kickass3131
    @Kickass3131 Před rokem +1

    When you mentioned walking around with a mindset of trying to look tough and intimidating, I personally felt attacked lol

  • @lonewolf_0073
    @lonewolf_0073 Před rokem

    from average Joe to a chad nice bro u earned up hard work pays off

  • @fugu4163
    @fugu4163 Před rokem +2

    Thankyou David you are talking for all of us introverts.
    I am known as that guy that doesnt talk much and seems a little bit cold.
    Somehow it seems like women are attracted to that kind of man.

    • @deszi6936
      @deszi6936 Před rokem +3

      No they’re not lol . Most women will move on after a first date .if your not attractive and your a introvert you better have good
      Communications skills or the girl won’t even bother you giving you a 2nd chance

    • @Alexis_Silva83
      @Alexis_Silva83 Před rokem

      @@deszi6936 Facts

  • @jskiillzent.9985
    @jskiillzent.9985 Před 7 měsíci

    I'm glad you understand me I can be social but im a private type of man

  • @mjjacobs9378
    @mjjacobs9378 Před rokem

    Supp man. I would appretiate is if you would take the time to make a video about social skills for boys in highschool.

  • @jcota38
    @jcota38 Před rokem

    David! What are your thoughts on Love is Blind