Mennonite Dating // Our Love Story

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  • čas přidán 19. 09. 2019
  • We are celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary and thought this would be a great time to share with you how the two of us met and how God wrote our Love Story! Get a peek into how Mennonites view dating relationships...
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Komentáře • 718

  • @theMennoniteMom
    @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +43

    How did you meet your significant other?! Would love to hear! I may not be able to reply to all of the stories, but I really enjoy reading your comments!

    • @lindaraterink6451
      @lindaraterink6451 Před 4 lety +8

      I was working in a food truck on a truckers event and this guy came up and casualy ordered the meat sandwich on the menu, and my number. It made me smile. Never had such an unusual order, so I wrote it on the napkin and gave it to him with the sandwich. The rest is history. He still has the napkin too. Later he told me, he knew we were supposed to be together when he saw me. I must admit I can't realy remember when I had the epiphany he was the one. Like you had when a voice said "you are going to marry him". It just felt good from the start.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +4

      what a lovely story! I love it! thanks for sharing!

    • @t.j.sanders4213
      @t.j.sanders4213 Před 4 lety +7

      Oh how your story sounded sooo much like mine! We met when I was 19 at my job. His mom worked there too. We believe marriage is for life also so after me and my husband had dated awhile and he started talking marriage i froze up! I was terrified! I loved him but I just was so scared. I began to ask God over and over And Over🙄 if He wanted me to marry him. God answered me over and over. I made that poor man wait so many years. This man is the love of my life and we have been married 18 years this coming April! I'm so thankful to God for such a Godly man! Hes the best!! He is my soulmate!! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story!!🤗

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +5

      @tammie! Beautiful! Thanks for sharing! God is so patient and so good to us! Happy anniversary!

    • @cecilehoare3053
      @cecilehoare3053 Před 4 lety +4

      A friend of his worked with me at a facility for the mentally disabled. I liked said friend but he didn't like me, in that way so he had a party in between Christmas and New Years and invited a few of his single friends to attend hoping one of them would hit it off with me.That was Dec 27 1984, I chatted all evening with one of the guys ( I grew up with three brothers so chatting with guys is much easier for me) and he asked me if I would like to go to another party on New Years Eve at one of my other co-worker's home, I of course said yes! He left the first week in January to go back to finish college so I wouldn't see him again until mid February after graduation. Three and a half years later we married and this year on Oct 8th we will be celebrating our 31 anniversary! I enjoyed hearing your love story, I hope everything with your health passes so you can do the travelling you'd like to do. May God grant you peace love and friendship through all your days together!

  • @diamondhair11
    @diamondhair11 Před 4 lety +34

    I met my husband when I was 18. I met him April 9, 1981, we got married May 16, 1981...I was still 18 and he was 23. Yes the next month. 1 month and 7 days later and we are now in our 39th year. He and I just knew God had put us together. We also stay married for life, we have never talked about divorce....Not ever. We are so in love and are best friends...God meant him for me and me for him and it will be that way for life. People have asked us how we are so happy, love being married, and how we do it.....I always say Keep God in your life and marriage and it is easy to have a wonderful marriage.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +4

      God bless you! Wow, that was quick! Good for you! Way to commit and never even consider divorce as an option. I also believe that not having that as an option is another rock in a marriage that helps two people be the best they can be together.

    • @rebeccastephens6087
      @rebeccastephens6087 Před 3 lety +2

      We were married exactly 5 months after we met. The Lord led him right to me. It's been 6 years, and I know one day I will saying 39 years just like you. Praise the Lord that you and your husband have eachother! 😍

  • @MeganFoxUnlocked
    @MeganFoxUnlocked Před 4 lety +89

    Ok this video was so fun! I'm so glad you shared your story! It seems like you were both just what each other needed!🧡🧡

  • @grandmashomemade9204
    @grandmashomemade9204 Před 4 lety +23

    Love your story, we also saved sex until marriage and been married for 34 years, we only dated for 4 months. We still hold hands and flirt with each other. God is the center of a happy marriage

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +3

      good for you! Yes, God is the center of a happy marriage! Sounds like you have a happy one! Cheers!

  • @reneedoddrell2158
    @reneedoddrell2158 Před 2 lety +5

    I had the “this will be your husband” as well, after reading redeeming love and then thinking about the guys in our church, and heard God say ‘he’s the one.’ I didn’t even know him at all other than his name. And wow how life changes for you once the Lord tells you something you’ve been waiting for a while. God is so kind.

  • @valeenoi2284
    @valeenoi2284 Před 3 lety +7

    You guys will look back at this video 40 years from now and will say, "life was beautiful".

  • @ImCarolB
    @ImCarolB Před 4 lety +11

    I like that you and Nolan traveled before having a child. My husband and I did that for a whole year and my in-laws commented a lot that all that money could go toward a down payment for a house! They later said, as they read our letters home, that we were building memories that would last a lifetime!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +2

      good for you! I'm jealous! That would have been such a great life experience!

  • @pattysherwood7091
    @pattysherwood7091 Před 2 lety +1

    My beloved visited me in a dream this morning and gave me a hug. We wished we could be young again and have another child. I woke up with long forgotten memories of our amazing adventure camping for the summer in the White Mountains of New Hampshire, in 1973, surrounded by the beautiful views, the boulder trails and the Cold River. We were so happy. A few years later we had a precious beloved son who looked just like his dad. He was a great blessing to us both. They both are sleeping with Jesus now and I miss them. Jay passed away in 2013 and our son died of cancer in 2019 at age 41. I look forward to being reunited in heaven. I saw your video pop up and watched it, since it was perfect for my day of remembering. Thank you. You are special people. Sometimes I can’t watch your videos with your son because it reminds me how much I loved my son .

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 2 lety +1

      🥲 what a special dream and i can only imagine the hole in your heart missing them. Praise God we have a future together forever! Sending you hugs! 💓

    • @pattysherwood7091
      @pattysherwood7091 Před 2 lety

      @@theMennoniteMom thank you and I pray all goes well with your new baby

  • @barbarawhite4225
    @barbarawhite4225 Před 4 lety +11

    After a disastrous relationship with my first love in early 20's and a lot of frogs later I decided to stay single and swore never to marry! At 37 someone came into my life and that was it, thankfully, as when he first asked me for my phone number I almost gave him a false one because I was afraid to get involved ever again. Well, 10 months later we were married and I thank God everyday that I gave him the right number. He is my best friend, a good Christian man and an all-around wonderful man. God is good. I love your story!!!!!

  • @narellewooden6364
    @narellewooden6364 Před 4 lety +9

    After 34 years my husband and I still adore each other & it’s clear in your eyes you two share the same blessing ♥️

  • @MaestroAki
    @MaestroAki Před 4 lety +1

    This one had me in a pool of tears! What an amazing love story. The filming, music score, old footage and photos are perfect! Everything Xander is cream on top of the cake!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      aww, thanks! I'm glad you enjoyed our story. (: thanks for watching!

  • @brightpurpleviking
    @brightpurpleviking Před 4 lety +9

    What a beautiful story. I love that! My husband and I were introduced at a fake Bible study that was set up by our moms haha. Problem was that he brought his friend and his friend and I ended up dating for three months. It quickly ended when I found out he had a lot of problems and was a terrible person. So my husband and I were good friends for a year and then dated for three. He was seemingly a strong Christian and so I had all the confirmation I needed. Right after the wedding he changed completely. We had about ten rough years but neither of us believed in divorce. Now we have been married nearly thirty years and it has been tough sometimes, good times here and there, but it has been an act of obedience to stay committed. We love each other, rarely if ever fight, so that is good. But how surprised I was that all the signs were good, all the doors open, all the boxes checked, and plenty of time to truly get to know exactly who he was....and I was still fooled. But God is good, and Jesus is my eternal bridegroom! I’m thankful that my husband is my partner in this life but I have Jesus for eternity ❤️ this life is a breath it is so short. And had my husband been perfect or near perfect I would never have longed for my relationship with Jesus as much as I have. May God continue to bless your marriage!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +3

      Yes, I know things are never guaranteed in this life. I'm so blessed to have the marriage we do. It has it's hard times as well... but I find happiness in it. I'm glad you two stuck it out and were able to make things work! A sign of true character! Thanks for sharing and blessings!

    • @brightpurpleviking
      @brightpurpleviking Před 4 lety +1

      NJ Family yes you are very blessed! God is so good, always. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story. Had my daughter not already gotten married I would have her watch this for good advice! God is the only one who ultimately knows the heart of man. We are called to love our husbands and to love God more than anything or anyone. I’m thankful for grace, for being on this side of that marriage mountain, for understanding how we are all basically broken, for the abundant blessings we all have, and for Jesus most of all ❤️

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      @@brightpurpleviking a beautiful testimony! God bless you!

  • @justamom863
    @justamom863 Před 3 lety +7

    Your film and editing work are so beautiful in the kayaking segment. Amazing job

  • @HEATHERFREE2486
    @HEATHERFREE2486 Před 4 lety +4

    That is NUTS with the roses! That is so amazing and special ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hriiyizhuosiikruna9889
    @hriiyizhuosiikruna9889 Před 4 lety +7

    People who were not into relationship has the most meaningful Love stories!
    And that's true!

  • @asuther5
    @asuther5 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for being so open about your courtship and your "hands-off" policy. This was super informative and interesting!

  • @marlenewawrzyniak5816
    @marlenewawrzyniak5816 Před 3 lety +1

    I so enjoyed your story. How very much I love hearing how couples have kept themselves for marriage and not been pressured by society. May God bless your family richly.

  • @AwkwardPastaSauce
    @AwkwardPastaSauce Před 4 lety +2

    My heart just melted from how sweet that story was! I totally get the anxiety of it all, I’m one of those people who overthink too. Hopefully I won’t stress too much when my time comes for love (crossing my fingers here). Thank you for sharing such a real and wonderful story with us. Happy Anniversary!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +2

      thank you! so you can relate to the over thinking (: well best of wishes when you meet your soulmate! Cheers!

  • @paulamarie43
    @paulamarie43 Před 3 lety +7

    Your story, your love, your example in faith. Made me cry tears of joy. I am a faith filled woman whose husband of 21 years he was abusive starting on the first day of our honeymoon. I knew I made a covenant to the Lord so I stayed for 21 yrs. after too much to even share here it ended. I am 56 and have been alone for 15yrs. I don’t know if God will ever allow or create a new love or marriage for me. I just know watching you two and you both with Zander brings my heart joy. It’s bittersweet but joy nonetheless.
    Thank you for sharing your truth, your faith and your love. You are helping to heal my wounds and God, my father, does His work in me.
    Many blessings to the three of you!!! Paula Marie from Lethbridge Alberta Canada !!! ( wonder where you were in Alberta ?!?!!’)

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 3 lety +5

      I'm so sorry you had to go through this in life. Hugs to you. I'm so blessed to know nothing of abuse. My heart breaks for any woman or child that has been abused.

    • @paulamarie43
      @paulamarie43 Před 3 lety +2

      the Mennonite Mom your story and life are blessing me . Thank you so much.

    • @frahn1702
      @frahn1702 Před 3 lety

      I’m sorry this happened to you. God is merciful and gracious, and does not want us to submit to abuse in marriage. Bless you

  • @churchathome9552
    @churchathome9552 Před 4 lety +8

    God is so good. You two seem perfect with one another, and with Bubba! And Janine your editing skills are superb. You show your heart through your videos.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      thank you for that! I'm glad you enjoy. And yes, we are blessed. God is good!

  • @marilyncausey9348
    @marilyncausey9348 Před 4 lety +3

    So sweet, so pure! I love how the Lord always calmed your fears ❤ We are fortunate that you've always enjoyed documenting life on video. I know it took some effort to fish out all of those clips. I enjoy your sense of humor and style of sharing so much! Loved all the cute clips of trying to tell a story around a toddler!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you! Yes, God is good! Documenting life has been my passion and yes, even now I am so grateful! I have videos from being 14 and living at home on the farm. Not nearly as many as I do now, but it's something! And I'm thankful my best friend was ok with me sharing the clips of her talking. Some of my friends prefer not being on here which is understandable! Glad you enjoyed! thank you and I hope your day is full of sunshine and laughter! IT is beautiful here today!

  • @thesassyraven
    @thesassyraven Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing this story with us! It was such a sweet treat to watch and I wish you both all the Blessings this life can give you.

  • @mlm7598
    @mlm7598 Před 4 lety +6

    I have come back and watched this video about four times in the past year or so, perhaps longer. I love to hear your story and it reminds me of my trepidation about marriage and so on years ago. I love the innocence way of your courtship which makes things so very special and so right. My husband and I were high school sweethearts and married five years after graduation. We are now in our 54th year of marriage!
    Thank you for sharing this.......it is so refreshing to listen to your story!
    Blessings

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      aww, thank you! And 54 years! How lovely! I love hearing of couples that are together for life! God bless!

  • @stillyourb
    @stillyourb Před 4 lety +13

    Yall are so cute....I love that you have so much preyoutube footage! I was so amused at the b-roll and past footage that your man was so smiley and skipping over logs and then it would cut to current and he's so straightfaced just sitting there while you talk! It made me chuckle. I'm always interested to see how God is intertwining lives together for his glory no matter the bumps and bruises along the way. Keep on keeping on sister, you have an eye for videography for sure :)

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +2

      aww thanks! yes, he is actually still very much the same in that aspect... but anytime I ask him to sit with me in front of the camera, he gets all sober. 😂😂 Yes, I'm so glad I started videos when I was young. So many memories on record. God bless you! have a wonderful evening! (or wherever you may be in the world... day?) (:

  • @jacobkeiper1246
    @jacobkeiper1246 Před 3 lety +6

    Lovely to hear how the Lord paired you both together! There's a great deal of blessings when you do it God's way. My husband and I had our first kiss at the altar 8 years ago - it wasn't easy waiting but so worth it.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 3 lety +1

      so worth it! Glad you waited!

    • @rebeccastephens6087
      @rebeccastephens6087 Před 3 lety +1

      Oh how true it is! I love how you worded that, "A great deal of blessings when you do it God's way."

  • @grandknit1016
    @grandknit1016 Před 4 lety +14

    Thank you for sharing how God worked in each of your life's and brought you together. What a precious love story! God writes the best love stories! I had just turned 18 when I met my husband. Becoming an "adult" made me ponder the course of my life. I returned to my home church and a few weeks later I met my husband at a surprise birthday party for his sister. Long story short we were married 10 months later and next month it will be 45 years ❤️ I am truly blessed!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      thanks for sharing! 45 years is incredible! Cheers!

  • @cyndifigel4210
    @cyndifigel4210 Před 4 lety +10

    How sweet!! Great videography at the beginning. Love the bloopers too. My husband and I met at church. We practice faith-based marriages where a man prays about who he should marry and then goes to his church elder (the lead minister of the specific church congregation). Then that elder either sends a message to the girl to come in for a visit to get the proposal or sends the proposal to her elder if she’s in a different congregation (same denomination). Sometimes the girl doesn’t get or want the name right away but will pray about whether she’s ready for marriage in the first place. Then she can get the name and pray for a yes or no with or without signs/scripture verses, etc., but ultimately looking for peace about it. Then she gives her answer and if yes, they talk or meet, they announce the engagement over the pulpit on Sunday, and typically get married in about 3-6 months. We don’t advocate divorce either, and our church marriages have a pretty great success rate. Anyway, my husband asked for me, he didn’t know me but had a dream about a girl all in white, and I worked as a nurse and stopped at a New Years gathering after worked and had my all white dress/pantyhose/shoes (the way nurses dressed back in the day), and it was exactly like he had seen me in the dream. I don’t have any spectacular story for my answer other than a yes. We’ve been married 27 years. It’s had its ups and downs, but we have God as the center or top of the triangle, and we are making it! (I didn’t go back and proofread this)

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      Very interesting! Thanks for sharing! You are Holdeman mennonite, aren't you? 😉👍 I have family and friends a part of your church. Cheers!

    • @cyndifigel4210
      @cyndifigel4210 Před 4 lety

      Well, I’m actually Apostolic (Apostolic Christian Church of America). I must say, though, in this day and age of technology, I would say some of the younger generation probably “date” a little more but still go through the “asking” process. My neighbors were what we called “black car” mennonites. Not sure if that’s the Holderman Mennonite or not.

  • @michellezook8295
    @michellezook8295 Před 3 lety +5

    Aww, your story is so sweet! And you two are adorable together! ❤️

  • @paeppchen3970
    @paeppchen3970 Před 24 dny

    What a nice testimony!!! I am the wife from Paeppchen. 1979 I asked the Lord for three signs as well because my then boyfriend has had an alcoholic father and he was almost 4 years younger than I. In His mercy the Lord showed me that he was the right man for me! In the beginning we have had our ups and downs but these confirmations gave me a lot of strength. We are happily married and I am so pleased for His leading!

  • @hildamclawhorm6305
    @hildamclawhorm6305 Před 3 lety +38

    I like what you said about “divorce not an opinion”. A lot of couples divorce because they get up on the wrong side of bed, in my opinion👍

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 3 lety +8

      I agree! It happens too quickly now a days.

    • @eej902
      @eej902 Před 3 lety

      Luckily her husband was raised well. **** Prevention is the best medicine.

    • @india1422
      @india1422 Před rokem +2

      If it’s abusive divorce is absolutely an option

  • @crystalzimmerman6475
    @crystalzimmerman6475 Před 4 lety +4

    Your story is AMAZING!!😍💕 the roses story brought me to tears🌹🌹 praying God is always my your side and may ur love story continue for years to come😍🤗

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      thank you so much, Crystal! Yes, the roses were super special! Straight from God! Blessings to you!

  • @wherestherum7324
    @wherestherum7324 Před 4 lety +1

    This is amazing! Happy Anniversary! Your family is such an inspiration. May God continue to bless Y’all! ❤️

  • @shannonhendrix13
    @shannonhendrix13 Před 4 lety +5

    Made me cry alittle😍 such a beautiful love story. You have amazing videography skills. I just love your channel. Thank you for sharing with us.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      awww 😉 well thank you! And thanks for your support! Love having you here!

  • @2410amym
    @2410amym Před 3 lety +1

    You guys are adorable!!! Thanks for sharing your story!! I had a lot of anxiety before getting married too. But, it’s been the best thing ever!! I’m so thankful God helped me to work through all the anxiety and get married. It’s truly a blessing.

  • @marirodri8971
    @marirodri8971 Před 4 lety +2

    I love watching/hearing your love story. It's amazing to hear how much God wants every single one of us to be content and will show us the way our lives should move. No question that God has put you in the youtube life. To be that person who can encourage/remind us what God can do if we put him first! Thank you for an amazing story!!!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      thank you for the encouragement! I do feel a bit vulnerable at times on this platform, but folks like you make it worth it. God bless you!

  • @parkercook5569
    @parkercook5569 Před 4 lety

    so interesting that you've been filming your life for so long! i love this, so sweet!!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +2

      I've been documenting life since I can remember. (: the youtube channel was born out of that, not the other way around. (:

  • @kaitlynnfriesen6934
    @kaitlynnfriesen6934 Před 4 lety +2

    This beautiful love story brought tears to my eyes! Happy Anniversary ❤

  • @blessedmama1604
    @blessedmama1604 Před 4 lety +1

    What a beautiful story. 💞 Also the music in your videos is on point with everything! What talent!🙂

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for the affirmation! I try hard to get music to match and it can be difficult. thanks for the feedback! (:

  • @saskiae200
    @saskiae200 Před 3 lety +6

    I love the fact that even 'just' dating was such a big deal for you two! I am NOT used to that idea at all. Marriage yes, but dating was not a big deal in my surroundings. I don't have a Christian upbringing and got saved around 10 years into our marriage, so that is obviously a big difference. But I don't see this in my Christian surroundings now either. But finding out of this person is going to be your husband for the rest of your life IS actually a big deal. So good to have been more conscious of that :)

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you. In our circles, dating is fine with the intention of marriage, not just to have a weekend date. (: that's why we take it so seriously

  • @librarylady1961
    @librarylady1961 Před 4 lety +3

    Happy Anniversary! Thanks for sharing

  • @sairaroper8944
    @sairaroper8944 Před 4 lety +2

    You two are adorable. I love the strength and compassion you give each other. Love from the UK x

  • @averybell4273
    @averybell4273 Před 4 lety +3

    What a great story! I liked learning about your boundaries and choices in dating and marriage.

  • @dianehayes3314
    @dianehayes3314 Před 4 lety +2

    Happy Anniversary to you both. Love your honesty. My hubby is also an Oregonian. We lived there for 8 years after leaving Fairbanks, Alaska. I am from Michigan and now we live in Massachusetts and Michigan. I meant my husband in Germany at a bbq. We dated for 2 years and now we have been married for 27 years. This was an enjoyable video. Zander is just precious.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      What an interesting story! thanks for sharing! So you were both from the states and met in Germany?!

  • @anitatucker8812
    @anitatucker8812 Před 3 lety +4

    What a wonderful life story. You two were meant for each other. You're such a beautiful woman. Thanks for sharing.

  • @abigailpeter3251
    @abigailpeter3251 Před 4 lety +2

    Happy anniversary, and many more to come! It's such an inspiration to hear your story! God bless you ❤

  • @Karenm1969
    @Karenm1969 Před 4 lety +5

    What a nice story; best wishes for many more years of wedded bliss !

  • @lynettesweigart7890
    @lynettesweigart7890 Před 4 lety +1

    Love your story, love your love for each other, love following along with your life! You made me smile a lot in this video and get goosebumps at the way you prayed and God answered! He’s so good!! ❤️

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      thank you so much! Yes, it gave me goose bumps as well! God is so good!

  • @rhettastephens4604
    @rhettastephens4604 Před 4 lety +1

    Best video ever!!! Thanks for sharing your wonderful love story. Ours is one of beauty from ashes and we are so, so grateful to God.

  • @blessedabundantly9715
    @blessedabundantly9715 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank-you! My husband and I are still in love after 14 years of marriage😊 So I'm not the only Mennonite girl who didn't fall in love head over heels and go through dating madly in love?! didn't expect to find a kindred spirit on CZcams, I wish you didn't live so far away!

  • @autumthacker5688
    @autumthacker5688 Před 4 lety +1

    I love this it is so very sweet! I grew up in church but my husband and I met at a place I worked. We were not right in the Lords eyes at first and I knew it but fought it and we got married anyway but the Lord took my husband to Afghanistan as a soldier and used that to turn our lives around and now we live in Maine and he is a pastor! I wouldn’t trade any of it for the world and I love him so much and he is so good to me! I firmly believe in how God works in our lives and shows you things as he showed you!! Thank you again for your story!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      Thank you for sharing! God has a way of making anything beautiful if we simply allow him! God bless you!

  • @cindymcelroy1653
    @cindymcelroy1653 Před 4 lety +5

    Love your story! Y'all are so sweet together. Thank you for sharing.

  • @gailpeczkis5292
    @gailpeczkis5292 Před 4 lety +6

    Happy Anniversary to you!!! What a wonderful story that only the Lord could write. My husband and I met first on EHarmony and dated for 5 years. We were in our fifties and never had been married. The Lord put us together as well. Too long to tell all, but I knew he was the one when he burst into song when we were hiking on a trail in a forest preserve park. We love nature and the rest is history. We have been married for 9 yrs now. We both thought we would be doomed to be single. Marriage is the best when you have taken the time to know someone and keep the Lord the center of your relationship. God bless you both!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      what a lovely story! thanks for sharing! I'm glad you are enjoying married life!

    • @jillygirl2024
      @jillygirl2024 Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you for your story. 60 & wondering where the right man is for me

  • @tinavaillancourt1165
    @tinavaillancourt1165 Před 3 lety +1

    I love when you and your Husband do videos together. Your channel is definitely my favorite so far. Tina

  • @lw7240
    @lw7240 Před 2 lety +1

    Oh wow, your story of dating and faith with God is so adorable and beautiful. God bless you both xx ❤️

  • @tarahankins5566
    @tarahankins5566 Před 4 lety

    Soooo sweet. Thank you for sharing :) I just love the picture of both Gods faithfulness and pursuit and Nolan’s pursuit of you. So so sweet. 💕 I also love that you have so many video clips!! So fun to document your life this way. I can see your love for each other

  • @darlenethompson9325
    @darlenethompson9325 Před 4 lety

    Just got to watch this tonight. Thank you for sharing! It was beautiful how you met each other. Happy Anniversary!!

  • @huskylovinmom9379
    @huskylovinmom9379 Před 3 lety +2

    I met my husband on the internet, lol. Not a dating site, before those existed. Second marriage for both of us & neither of us were interested in getting married again but God had other ideas. He's the love of my life & such a Godly man. I'm so blessed to have found him & God worked it all out. All I can say is you're never too old for love. Just make sure you put God first in your marriage & live your life for him. I can't imagine my life without him.

  • @mohammadal-jarki4119
    @mohammadal-jarki4119 Před 4 lety +9

    Nothing better than clean
    Inside - god bless your family
    Greetings from kuwait 🇰🇼🇰🇼🇰🇼

  • @championdreamer_5
    @championdreamer_5 Před 4 lety +1

    Aww thanks for sharing! God writes the best love stories ❤️. I met my husband when my family was in South Dakota serving in missions and his youth group came out for a work project. We were married 7 yrs in June 🙂. Happy anniversary to you guys!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +2

      hey that's great! we are at the same stage of married life then!

  • @sairachiodini
    @sairachiodini Před 3 lety +2

    Beautiful opening. Beautiful story. Just found your channel and you’re doing a very good job representing your culture and such. Take care!

  • @jenna08rae
    @jenna08rae Před 3 lety

    I love all your old video clips!! So endearing

  • @indigoblue4791
    @indigoblue4791 Před 4 lety +1

    What a fantastic journey to one another. I understand your nervousness, it's a huge decision and requires deep thought and consideration. Your prayers were answered anytime you asked for direction and you were very specific about what you needed!!😁 You are a beautiful couple and l hope you both continue to be blessed! 💛💛💛
    We had our 25 years together anniversary this year. We haven't had a perfect life, it's been real, with ups and downs, but we've done it all together. I believe our relationship is growing and improving every year. I love to have my husband by my side through life and he's pretty amazing in my eyes!!♥🎊

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      Yes, God was so good answering my prayers... showing the way! Happy 25th anniversary! that's incredible! It is wonderful to do life together with someone !

  • @christinaservin7650
    @christinaservin7650 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing how God wrote your love story! I love how you prayed for 2 dozen roses and God just answered your prayer!
    I met my husband at Bible college and I remember praying so often that I would be sure he was the one for me! And I remember the first time he got me roses, we had just started to say I love you to each other.

  • @sarahwyche4577
    @sarahwyche4577 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm impressed that you have all your old videos organized and would love to know how you organize them!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      thanks! Um, they are a bit of a catastrophe. I organized by seasons of my life. but I'm trying to get better now, organizing by dates. It's a mess, I know!

    • @wychefamily3454
      @wychefamily3454 Před 4 lety

      I started this past summer by downloading thousands of videos from my phone onto a folder on my Seagate. Now I’m trying to rename them by year, month and event, so it roughly looks like 2019 July Eden baseball, or 2018 December Christmas morning, etc. etc. And such a long, tedious process...but fun :)

  • @Kimbah9
    @Kimbah9 Před 4 lety

    This is such a delight. Thank you for sharing your story. God bless you all!

  • @judithnolt4555
    @judithnolt4555 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video 💜 Love the bloopers, and I laughed out loud to myself when you were mad because he didn't propose 😆
    I love your pure courtship,and that's also how ours was. Definitely no regrets! Marriage is so much fun and we've been married for almost 8 years and its still getting better 😉

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      Thank you! I love to hear that, and I agree! It just keeps getting better!

  • @patriciare9437
    @patriciare9437 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing....I didn't save my first kiss until my marriage, but in retrospect, I understand why it's much better to avoid kissing and stuff before you're married because that way you're focused on other important things

  • @franb56
    @franb56 Před 4 lety +5

    I loved this video above all others. Thanks for sharing this beautiful love story of the perfectly matched couple! God had His hand in this one for sure! And.... they're living happily ever after! Love you guys and God bless you both!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      I'm glad you enjoyed! thank you! We have are hard times, but God is good and I'm so happy to face the hard times with my husband!

  • @debbiedeal354
    @debbiedeal354 Před 4 lety

    This is one of my favorite videos of y'all!!! Y'all are so sweet!

  • @bluewillow4985
    @bluewillow4985 Před 3 lety

    You both are such genuine people! Thank you for sharing😉🍁

  • @bevhome7943
    @bevhome7943 Před 4 lety

    I love your story, and I love seeing the love you have for each other. God is so good...He knows just what and who we need in our lives. Congratulations on your anniversary. My husband and I will be celebrating our 30th this October. God put us together.......our whole wedding process was filled with His signs and blessings. I (and I believe you as well) am so blessed with a husband who loves me unconditionally and who loves the Lord. Many blessings to you both, my fellow Pennsylvanians!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      Yes, God is so good! Happy 30th Anniversary! that's amazing! God bless!

  • @2ferTwins
    @2ferTwins Před 2 lety

    It's like a sabbath anniversary. You're blessed!

  • @Sheila-yn6db
    @Sheila-yn6db Před 4 lety +1

    Really enjoyed your story. Always encouraging to hear of others relying on God to help pick their soulmate. Our faith is also similar. Your little boy so reminds me of my boy when he was that age! Now he will be 13 soon. Enjoy him as the years fly by too quickly! I enjoy your channel.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      THanks for being here! Yes, I'm trying to slow the years down, but they keep flying by! Have a great day!

  • @valerierandall3640
    @valerierandall3640 Před 4 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, it was good to get to know you both better. Praying that your health improves soon, Jeannette . And that little Zander, he’s just such a cutie! Happy Belated Anniversary to you both!

  • @sarahboakes4906
    @sarahboakes4906 Před 4 lety +1

    My father always said "God willing". Loved hearing you say that x

  • @Rocky1993ful
    @Rocky1993ful Před 4 lety +2

    My favorite video yet! So funny and sweet. I didn’t know so many things about you guys! Love it!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      well thanks! LOL. I actually thought of you when I posted and I was sure you were going to tease me to no end... not sure why? ha ha.

    • @Rocky1993ful
      @Rocky1993ful Před 4 lety

      @@theMennoniteMom I might still tease you. :D

  • @ericahoelscher3733
    @ericahoelscher3733 Před 4 lety

    Happy Anniversary! Very sweet video, and Nolan was a peach to play along.

  • @marinamayo7994
    @marinamayo7994 Před 8 měsíci

    I love your story and i can tell that God has truly blessed your marriage. May you have many joyful years to come!

  • @OffTheCreamyCrack
    @OffTheCreamyCrack Před 4 lety +1

    Oh my gosh the intro was just beautiful! Oh how I would love to kayak right now on such still waters. 😊

  • @cheriluvsgrr
    @cheriluvsgrr Před 4 lety +2

    What a sweet love story! Many blessings in your years ahead!

  • @ohannesha
    @ohannesha Před rokem +1

    I am watching this two years later and I am currently going through this same feeling/fears you had of getting married. I too am a loner and I had that same thought as well. I am so amazed at how God brought me to this video at this time. I'm happy everything went well for you and to know I am not the only one who has these feeling about marriage. God bless you're union🙏🏽

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před rokem +2

      Sending hugs! I wish you well! I hope your experience is similar to mine

    • @ohannesha
      @ohannesha Před rokem

      @@theMennoniteMom ❤

  • @joanneobergfell7935
    @joanneobergfell7935 Před 3 lety +3

    Loved your story. Wish I had one like that to tell. Love my husband, but wish I would have waited until he came to know the Lord. We will be married 62 years this year. God bless you and your son.

  • @jenniferyoder6202
    @jenniferyoder6202 Před 4 lety +1

    Happy, happy, anniversary!! I just LOVE you so much!

  • @deenahaines200
    @deenahaines200 Před rokem

    I love how you talk about your off and on struggles with whether Nolan was the right one. I had the same issues when dating my husband, even though God had told me he was the one (like he told you before you ever dated). My parents were divorced and I certainly had fears of commitment. But as soon as we got married it was just so settled in my heart that I never questioned God’s will after that ❤️ I believe the devil just tried to keep me from God’s will! Divorce isn’t an option with us either 🥰
    It’s crazy that you had the same experience! I felt the same way and didn’t want to be doubting ON my wedding day!
    I also have UC so we definitely have things in common ❤️

  • @kimk9552
    @kimk9552 Před 4 lety

    Such a great story! Had a smile on my face the whole time. :) The way I first went out with my husband is with our mutual friend playing a joke on me. While I was at the friend's house visiting, the phone rang and it was another mutual friend pretending that it was my husband asking me out on a date and I said yes that I would go out with him. The next day, my one day husband and I were both at the friend's house and our friend looked over at me and told my husband, by the way you have a date with Kim. I was so embarrassed! My one day husband took pity on me and said sure we could go out that weekend. Long story short, we've been married almost 25 years. We were definitely meant to be together. :)

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety

      that is a halarious story! I love hearing people's stories! thanks for sharing!

  • @ruthbowman3144
    @ruthbowman3144 Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing.
    You are a great couple.
    Happy anniversary 💗

  • @mkaysartfuljourney1239

    What a beautiful journey y'all are living and Zander is a hoot!

  • @darellkrysie6081
    @darellkrysie6081 Před 4 lety

    Love your story! My husband and I travel a lot too! Its amazing to explore and experience new things together!❤️ I appreciate your openness and honesty about God telling you that you would marry him. That happened to me too, it’s incredible that God cares to show us and tell us .

  • @barbarachaplin612
    @barbarachaplin612 Před 4 lety +1

    Hello from Ireland! 👋 I would love to hear more about your trip there in a future video. I was raised quite differently to you but this video was so uplifting to me Jeannine. It was sweet you hear your love story - you and Nolan both seem so wise. I'm also more of an introvert and I totally understand your anxiousness about being around people 24/7, especially in romantic relationships. I'm glad you were able to overcome that fear.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  Před 4 lety +1

      thank you! It would be fun to talk more about our trip! (: I'm glad you enjoyed the video. We must both be introverts! (: Have a lovely day!

  • @angelinecanales7398
    @angelinecanales7398 Před rokem

    U did an awesome job videoing this video!!! I loved it

  • @ramonawhisenant1891
    @ramonawhisenant1891 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful love story!! Thank so much for sharing. God Bless You!

  • @melcojocaru1541
    @melcojocaru1541 Před 4 lety +1

    You guys are so beautiful and funny together! Loved this video. God Bless you guys! 💛

  • @patlehigh9034
    @patlehigh9034 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

  • @nanak8128
    @nanak8128 Před 4 lety +1

    What a fun, quirky, loving couple. Hello from Canada ♡ Thank you for sharing, sending many blessings and hoping your health improves. Hana

  • @margaretbedwell58
    @margaretbedwell58 Před 4 lety +1

    What a wonderful love story....it was beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing. Happy Anniversary and I wish you many many more happy years. Have a Blessed day.

  • @IShallNotBeSilent
    @IShallNotBeSilent Před 4 lety +2

    So beautiful, I cried.

  • @sylviamoses4759
    @sylviamoses4759 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful family !!!
    Thank you for sharing with us. God’s blessings to you all.

  • @lindanave6390
    @lindanave6390 Před 4 lety

    What a sweet story! Thank you for sharing it with us!

  • @rissaramer9952
    @rissaramer9952 Před 4 lety +1

    Loved hearing your story!!❤️

  • @luciasamaras7767
    @luciasamaras7767 Před 3 lety

    Yes, it is amazing how our Heavenly Father always comes through! Congratulations on your God centered family!