Rejection 54 - Dance With My Waitress

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  • čas přidán 29. 01. 2013
  • On day 54 of my rejection therapy, I asked my waitress to dance with me in a restaurant.
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Komentáře • 69

  • @I_am_Mac
    @I_am_Mac Před 11 lety +55

    I dont know his wife but she seems like a phenomenal woman and a large part of what drives him towards greatness

  • @saturatedneowax
    @saturatedneowax Před 7 lety +18

    you wouldn't expect this one to be an immediate "yes"

  • @DavidsonHangOfficial
    @DavidsonHangOfficial Před 6 lety +26

    Absolutely loved this one. You made her day :)

  • @JiaJiang
    @JiaJiang  Před 11 lety +14

    This is why I did it in the first place. I am really really bad at dancing and singing. I wanted to challenge myself with my weaknesses. But going forward, I won't dance anymore... it gets old.

  • @HiddenThoracle
    @HiddenThoracle Před 11 lety +21

    This is my favorite one- it's th emost uncomfortable you've been in the entire series so far.

  • @JiaJiang
    @JiaJiang  Před 11 lety +8

    It's not just beginning. It's been that way for 30 years. :) It's part of who I am.

  • @i4ROFL
    @i4ROFL Před 11 lety +4

    I would say the hardest part of asking someone to dance or to a dance is that feeling that you get midway when you're about to say "dance". Your throat swells up, and everything feels much, much hotter. You know your locked in, so I would say the best thing is to just get it out. Tell the person you would like to dance. Sooner and quicker is better than later and longer. Of course, that's just me. Anyway, great video Jia! :)

  • @kristinbrown5610
    @kristinbrown5610 Před rokem +1

    1:00 Are you ok with me doing this?” Jia was waiting for his wife to give him a reason not to go through with this one. 😂 She didn’t save him, she was ready to record, that tickled me and I loved it! These requests are entertaining and I love your upbeatness and positive take on life

  • @StacyAri2
    @StacyAri2 Před 11 lety +1

    OMG, Love it! I smiled through the entire video!

  • @Anthony-cz2fe
    @Anthony-cz2fe Před 6 lety +5

    2 surprising failures that led you to greater victory Jia :-) !

  • @filmedbyjulian
    @filmedbyjulian Před 11 lety +1

    great job! and your new intro and outro is really good! keep up the great work!

  • @primjula
    @primjula Před 11 lety +4

    Thanks for admitting your fear! That is a strength, believe it or not.

  • @NickHermon
    @NickHermon Před 11 lety

    Thanks man. I'll look for that video. 100 days would be tough to come up with that many new stuff

  • @SuperHorseman22
    @SuperHorseman22 Před 11 lety

    nice job Jia by eyes have that tooo. You are being very consitent so thank u

  • @Krakaet
    @Krakaet Před 11 lety

    Beautiful, Jia! You handled it well. I know if I had a wife and she were sitting there watching me - even if she said it was ok as did yours - I would have been so nervous!

  • @floppylee2
    @floppylee2 Před 6 lety

    my mouth just keeps opening wow! Im so pleased :) that just made her night she was so happy awwww

  • @jamesl.rubart8116
    @jamesl.rubart8116 Před 5 lety +1

    Nicely done!!!

  • @africanmindedwoman
    @africanmindedwoman Před 11 lety +1

    Jia, I've noticed that when you ask people things that are seemingly out of the ordinary, for some reason they're more inclined to oblige just for the heck of it.

  • @JiaJiang
    @JiaJiang  Před 11 lety +1

    Good suggestion! I will try it.

  • @nurulhasan3953
    @nurulhasan3953 Před 2 lety

    Cmon Jia Jiang. I am your new fan here from Indonesia. I love watching you doing rejection therapy as it boosts my adrenaline rush. I wonder I can do the same. Best luck to you.

  • @jubimo1
    @jubimo1 Před 11 lety

    Foreigner? wow, who's being rude here....... Keep it up Jia! You're very inspiring and I look forward to your segments every day.

  • @SuperHorseman22
    @SuperHorseman22 Před 11 lety

    I love your crazy dancing

  • @warnexus
    @warnexus Před 11 lety +1

    that's awesome!

  • @sturttv
    @sturttv Před 11 lety

    That was cool that last girl did that. The waitress may have felt like she had to a little because of the tip but that girl didn't need to stop for you. Did you 2 dance for awhile or was that about it?

  • @MrRttrt
    @MrRttrt Před 11 lety

    I can't believe you got a yes. Especially in a parking garage! In those situations women sometimes respond like they just got out of a self-defense class and I just got out of prison!

  • @BookNDagger
    @BookNDagger Před 11 lety +1

    This is the most nervous I have seen him making a request.

  • @zakbdz
    @zakbdz Před 11 lety

    haha this one was really awkward jia! i like it

  • @vincent.b
    @vincent.b Před 11 lety

    You can see her in his first video, she is beautiful.

  • @davidkorn5253
    @davidkorn5253 Před 2 lety

    you're the G

  • @gREEnGObLiNLOVr
    @gREEnGObLiNLOVr Před 10 lety

    Like the green shirt.

  • @JiaJiang
    @JiaJiang  Před 11 lety

    I did that on day 26. Check it out in my channel. In fact, the professor followed up with me and I will be giving a 45 mins lecture to his students on 2/13.

  • @thoneycutt28
    @thoneycutt28 Před 11 lety

    Another one for you ask if you can take random pictures with peoples family sooooo. Funny

  • @nonamelastname8878
    @nonamelastname8878 Před 7 lety +2

    I wish I came across this concept couple of years ago. Life would have been different.

  • @rashidibragimov3366
    @rashidibragimov3366 Před 5 lety

    So cute

  • @JiaJiang
    @JiaJiang  Před 11 lety

    Not too long. As you can tell, she was in a rush.

  • @JiaJiang
    @JiaJiang  Před 11 lety +6

    Do you consider Andy Grove American? What about Arnold Schwarzenegger? Albert Einstein? And what about your immigrant ancestors? Were they American?

  • @Kash3ify
    @Kash3ify Před 7 lety +1

    Anyone know the song name?

  • @JiaJiang
    @JiaJiang  Před 11 lety

    She doesn't want to be shown.

  • @AnthonyLifts
    @AnthonyLifts Před 11 lety

    Ask someone for a ride back home/or hotel if you are staying at one

  • @zelikris
    @zelikris Před 2 lety

    You are more scared of the possibility that she will say yes

  • @ufgmah
    @ufgmah Před 11 lety +1

    That's true, but since he had his wife there I'm sure they feel a lot safer being approached

  • @FISHNAME1
    @FISHNAME1 Před 11 lety

    I want t visit u I love in Vegas am a big fan

  • @TheXuism
    @TheXuism Před 6 lety

    太棒了 ! 这个会吓的我尿裤子。

  • @idgaf4684
    @idgaf4684 Před 6 lety +1

    This is like playing truth or dare

  • @aznkidkevin7
    @aznkidkevin7 Před 11 lety

    smooth :)

  • @dragonboypayne21
    @dragonboypayne21 Před 6 lety

    gangnam style remix 2018?

  • @Lucas_Simoni
    @Lucas_Simoni Před 2 lety

    Hahah such a good husband, even asked his wife permission hahahah.

  • @NickHermon
    @NickHermon Před 11 lety

    Go to a school and see if you can be a guest teacher

  • @xAA7
    @xAA7 Před 11 lety

    In the beginning it looks like Jia's left eye is smaller than his right.

  • @xAA7
    @xAA7 Před 11 lety

    I would be embarrassed not to ask but to dance in front of people randomly at a restaurant.

  • @chessoo
    @chessoo Před 11 lety +2

    I'm not having a dig at you, but I think if an American with an American accent did this, he would get a different response. People treat foreigners with a little more patience because they figure that the foreigner might not fully understand the customs and manners of the country they are in.

    • @njhd9923
      @njhd9923 Před 3 lety

      Well atleast us foreigners get one benefit for being foreign then. Usually we just get racism and stereotyped

  • @Casino2004
    @Casino2004 Před 11 lety

    While you are in Sin City, stop by Golds Gym and interview a female Bodybuilder!

  • @JustoBlondo
    @JustoBlondo Před 11 lety

    Because he's in Sin City! Duhhhh lol

  • @MsuccessfulM
    @MsuccessfulM Před 11 lety

    Comment

  • @zelikris
    @zelikris Před 2 lety

    At this point, dancing with the waitress is worse than getting rejected

  • @chessoo
    @chessoo Před 11 lety

    Hey I like what you're doing but I think you have an advantage.. Since you're a foreigner, when you make strange requests, people may assume you don't understand American culture, and therefore humour you so as to not be rude and offend you. What do you think about this?

  • @thesiobon
    @thesiobon Před 11 lety

    Why don't you ware a wedding ring?

  • @channikim4749
    @channikim4749 Před 7 lety

    gangnam style? omg kk

  • @brunocesarss
    @brunocesarss Před 11 lety

    8 views

  • @xAA7
    @xAA7 Před 11 lety

    Lol her name is Maria how stereotypical!

  • @JerBearDJ
    @JerBearDJ Před 11 lety

    lol

  • @chessoo
    @chessoo Před 11 lety

    He isnt American and has an obvious accent, how is that rude?

  • @ufgmah
    @ufgmah Před 11 lety

    That was some of the most awkward dancing I've ever seen, but I wish it would have gone a little longer :)

  • @Gutterbreaks
    @Gutterbreaks Před 11 lety +2

    I think the reason you were so uncomfortable for this one is because it's probably the first one where you actually have put yourself on the line for rejection. I don't buy that you wont ask girls on dates because of your wife, I'm sure that's how you rationalise it to yourself but really it's because that would put YOU on the line for rejection, and not a silly request like asking to plant a flower in someone's yard. Regardless, the vids have been entertaining at least...

    • @Grinix0
      @Grinix0 Před 7 lety +1

      not only that but a lot of his requests are towards people who are in the service industries or have jobs where the customer "is always right".

  • @TheEpicSpsc
    @TheEpicSpsc Před 11 lety +1

    Could you stop doing "Dance-Requests" It hurts my eyes seeying your dancemoves.
    kindly regards from a subscriber from Belgium