Poison Expert Accused of Fatally Drugging Wife After Failed Open Marriage

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  • čas přidán 17. 05. 2024
  • Betty Jo and Connor Bowman appeared to have the perfect marriage, but beneath the surface were shocking secrets. Connor was allegedly having an affair, betraying his wife Betty Jo. She also discovered he had a significant amount of hidden debt. Learning of these secrets, Betty Jo allegedly decided to file for divorce, leading Connor to allegedly commit the most horrifying crime. The Decoder dissects the murder of Betty Jo Bowman.
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Komentáře • 252

  • @erikr695
    @erikr695 Před 15 dny +372

    A poison specialist in an open marriage with a half million dollar life insurance policy on his wife. What could possibly go wrong?

  • @Strawman333
    @Strawman333 Před 15 dny +240

    I’m so tired of all these psychopaths.

    • @kristyp2585
      @kristyp2585 Před 15 dny +14

      They're getting ideas from eachother, it's happening so often now. 😔

    • @dante6985
      @dante6985 Před 13 dny +3

      just boggles my mind why they think "murder" has a greater likelihood of success than "divorce".
      Like even cases where there *MAY* be reasonable doubt (Ryan / Sarah WIdmer) end up in a guilty verdict anyway.

    • @reahallu
      @reahallu Před 10 dny

      @@kristyp2585 most psychopaths aren’t murderers. it is a mental illness caused by trauma. these people are human beings.

  • @notsorryyouretriggered
    @notsorryyouretriggered Před 15 dny +283

    An open marriage failed? Who wouldve thought!

  • @scottjohnson9619
    @scottjohnson9619 Před 15 dny +126

    Open marriage doesn't work?!? Shocking! Who knew!

  • @HaileyAndTheArt
    @HaileyAndTheArt Před 15 dny +31

    This video sounds like an infomercial.

  • @Heavennearth4246
    @Heavennearth4246 Před 15 dny +112

    What's open marriage? There's no need for marriage if the couple wants it open and when that happens, the marriage opens itself to other issues such as jealousy and greed which often doesn't end well, unfortunately.

    • @3yearsago287
      @3yearsago287 Před 14 dny +20

      Exactly. Cheaters need to be with cheaters and leave the word marriage out.

    • @hettyherz
      @hettyherz Před 14 dny +1

      I am pretty sure this is the case also for co-parenting, when a man in a relationship decides to have a child with another woman (who also may have her own relationship) using either traditional method or a laboratory method, and then those two sign an agreement and then will rise a kid sharing expenses and time, and discussing parenting issues, school choice, leisure choice, etc. I just don't believe this man's partner/girlfriend will be able to deal with this new family that was created after their relationship started, and the man is delusional if he believes it can't affect his relationship.

    • @reahallu
      @reahallu Před 10 dny +1

      not with proper communication.

    • @reahallu
      @reahallu Před 10 dny

      @@3yearsago287 cheating and explicitly stated open relationships are not the same thing

  • @ajstevens1652
    @ajstevens1652 Před 15 dny +29

    Looks like they didn't love each other and were just trying to show a "perfect" life. Also open marriage is disgusting.

  • @HUllmer
    @HUllmer Před 15 dny +39

    This is the worse AI narration yet, why do we need background sounds and music AND a fake voice?

  • @harlequinheart3
    @harlequinheart3 Před 15 dny +67

    Please stop with the AI. I don’t want to watch or listen to inhuman content

    • @donmcron3334
      @donmcron3334 Před 3 dny +1

      Same

    • @neenee666
      @neenee666 Před dnem

      FOR REAL. it’s so unsettling and annoying. the voice is uncanny and the script is lazy/very obviously AI generated.

  • @-greentoad
    @-greentoad Před 15 dny +47

    Sadly this story is ruined by decoder. Just a computer generalized voice. Really Law & crime, this is what its coming to now? What a way to not personalize the story. Not a fan of this at all. Back to the drawing board please. No different than if it was Al. NOT finishing this video

    • @neenee666
      @neenee666 Před dnem

      i’m pretty sure it is AI, including the script writing. very lazy

  • @gagewesterhouse9558
    @gagewesterhouse9558 Před 15 dny +62

    The divorce rate of open marriages is nearly as high as the divorce rate of marriages where infidelity was discovered.

    • @agent087
      @agent087 Před 13 dny +2

      Where could you possibly get that info from

  • @w0rdsBIoom
    @w0rdsBIoom Před 15 dny +27

    The point of marriage is a commitment to be faithful to each other physically and emotionally, to the exclusion of all others. An open marriage is not a marriage. If you want/need other people, why bother getting married? The whole "we won't get emotionally attached to anyone else" never works.

  • @psychedforlife7176
    @psychedforlife7176 Před 15 dny +45

    This case is sad and interesting but the AI narration and script just makes it unwatchable.

  • @ir8043
    @ir8043 Před 15 dny +36

    So sad that I don’t even want to watch it because of the AI script and narration. Just hire real people. You guys are better than this.

    • @-greentoad
      @-greentoad Před 15 dny +5

      Absolutely. Exactly how I feel!!

  • @lakeraven1
    @lakeraven1 Před 15 dny +18

    AI voice is horrific

  • @Allconsumingfire
    @Allconsumingfire Před 15 dny +70

    Rip to the wife. Horrible to hear that someone who agreed to protect her, killed her.

    • @Herps1
      @Herps1 Před 15 dny +7

      He agreed to share her. I doubt she went for those conventional type of vows. Him protect or her obey.

    • @gagewesterhouse9558
      @gagewesterhouse9558 Před 15 dny +3

      ​@@Herps1 no, these feminist women almost always love the traditional aspects of marriage that benefit women.

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 15 dny

      @@gagewesterhouse9558 You appear to have an issue with equality. How sad for you, and any women unlucky enough to be in your vicinity.

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 15 dny +1

      @@Herps1 Protect is one thing - I mean I would have protected my husband too, but obey... pfft

    • @user-nc8ey7bw5o
      @user-nc8ey7bw5o Před 5 dny

      ​@@It-is-me...Melsie Relax, grandma. No one after what you got.

  • @LisaFerguson-lw8il
    @LisaFerguson-lw8il Před 13 dny +7

    Having an open relationship so soon into their marriage is really strange. Perhaps hubby only married her for what she could provide, financially, after her death.

  • @Melissa-cj2ix
    @Melissa-cj2ix Před 14 dny +11

    Lol I felt bad for hating on this poor new narrator, but then I realized it’s AI. Y’all, please don’t ruin your channel by putting out mass-produced garbage. This sucks.

  • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52

    Tone deaf AI Casey Kasem again. The uplifting music is icing on the cake.

  • @jenb4506
    @jenb4506 Před 15 dny +15

    AI videos now? Y'all have several actual people working there. We've seen them. Not cool.

  • @Dr.Thirteen-bb1ub
    @Dr.Thirteen-bb1ub Před 15 dny +17

    Poison expert+open marriage =
    Everyone lives happily ever after

  • @darladevries7401
    @darladevries7401 Před 15 dny +15

    There is no such thing as an open marriage. That is an oxymoron.

  • @cmorgan7851
    @cmorgan7851 Před 15 dny +10

    Just get a divorce!

  • @monavis2356
    @monavis2356 Před 15 dny +35

    It's mind boggling that those who want to sleep around, get married !! Look up the definition of marriage online at least !! Marriage is not for everyone and not everyone is marriage-material !! Stop trying to " fit-in " to the society norms for the wrong reasons !!

  • @SILENTVIXXSIN
    @SILENTVIXXSIN Před 15 dny +29

    Anyone who over shares on social media especially when it comes to relationships are overcompensating 💅

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Před 15 dny +4

      Ok, but what’s with the thott emoji?

    • @SILENTVIXXSIN
      @SILENTVIXXSIN Před 15 dny

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465 people like you need to stop throwing words around you don’t even understand 🤣 you have bigger problems if that’s what you get from an emoji, I post what I post if you have a problem with that go scratch because idgaf.🤷‍♀️💅💅💅💅💅🥳

    • @SILENTVIXXSIN
      @SILENTVIXXSIN Před 15 dny

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465people like you shouldn’t throw words around you don’t understand 🤣🤣🤣💅💅💅💅💅💅

    • @suburbantrapqueen3244
      @suburbantrapqueen3244 Před 14 dny +1

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465”thott emoji” 😂

    • @SILENTVIXXSIN
      @SILENTVIXXSIN Před 14 dny +1

      @@suburbantrapqueen3244 ironic coming from you 😂

  • @Darkvader401
    @Darkvader401 Před 14 dny +4

    Open marriage is an invitation for trouble. Their dogs will going to miss mommy so much.

  • @madisonkludy8541
    @madisonkludy8541 Před 15 dny +9

    The background music had me thinking this was a happy story

  • @ryro1975
    @ryro1975 Před 15 dny +57

    AI narrated ?

    • @stellai06
      @stellai06 Před 15 dny +9

      Narration sounds 💯 flat.

    • @nirmaleva
      @nirmaleva Před 15 dny +11

      yeah it sounds like it, totally sucks

  • @lindamateri7298
    @lindamateri7298 Před 15 dny +12

    Open marriages never go well, who wants to know the person who you love and married is plunking someone else ,,,

  • @ST-rj8iu
    @ST-rj8iu Před 15 dny +13

    The people in these open marriages are shockingly not how I expected them to appear.

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 15 dny +2

      I always expect them to be middle-aged and a bit chubby.

  • @laurac9857
    @laurac9857 Před 15 dny +31

    Omg posionong is like literal torture. I cant even imagine the freakiing pain amd discomfort she went thru before death. Holy crap.

  • @susanbuck4897
    @susanbuck4897 Před 15 dny +12

    Ego. Narcissism. Same old story, different day.

  • @slaws2279
    @slaws2279 Před 14 dny +7

    Failed open marriage? Wtf.

  • @Meditations2024
    @Meditations2024 Před 14 dny +5

    I don't understand the dynamics of their marriage at all. Open, and not fiscally tied to one another? Not even kids to tie one to the other?
    Why did they even get married?

  • @Kindred_37
    @Kindred_37 Před 14 dny +6

    I can’t watch this with the AI voice. It’s insufferable

  • @Erica-ob3vr
    @Erica-ob3vr Před 15 dny +47

    The narrator's voice sounds like the voice on the show Cheaters. Imo. It doesn't work as well for serious subject matter, including murder.

    • @psychedforlife7176
      @psychedforlife7176 Před 15 dny +5

      I despise these AI narrations.

    • @caribooskidoo3997
      @caribooskidoo3997 Před 15 dny +3

      Agreed. Not watching because of the voice.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Před 15 dny +4

      Everything about this is inappropriate - the narration, the music - everything.

    • @Dr.Thirteen-bb1ub
      @Dr.Thirteen-bb1ub Před 15 dny +4

      Yeah, I want my gruesome murder stories to be narrated by real people, dammit!

    • @lilg2300
      @lilg2300 Před 15 dny

      yeah, the voice and the way the voice talks is really bad.

  • @user-wg3gy7sy9z
    @user-wg3gy7sy9z Před 15 dny +10

    The poor dog probably thinking get me outta here. Help!

  • @imacarguy4065
    @imacarguy4065 Před 15 dny +7

    People do open marriages either because they can't commit or to "save" their marriage. Just get divorce.
    Dr.K said this to Destiny's wife. Open marriages have a higher chance of failing because you're constantly bringing people into it. But people never learn.

  • @short_fuse1
    @short_fuse1 Před 15 dny +14

    have a clue and lose the AI game show voice

  • @laurac9857
    @laurac9857 Před 15 dny +16

    Wow she was so young. He was evil!!

    • @user-nc8ey7bw5o
      @user-nc8ey7bw5o Před 5 dny

      She wanted it just as bad as him and prob initiated it. Grow up

  • @enginethatcould5257
    @enginethatcould5257 Před 15 dny +19

    Open relationships , divorces 🤮
    Marriage means nothing nowadays

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 15 dny

      Excuse me, my marriage means a lot to me. Marriage is a very personal thing. Just because it means nothing to you does not mean it means nothing to everyone else.
      You should know, some people value their marriage, some treat it like a jaunt to the shops, some are somewhere in the middle, and there are many other degrees on how people view marriage. Trick is to find someone who has similar values and ideas as you do.

    • @enginethatcould5257
      @enginethatcould5257 Před 15 dny

      @It-is-me...Melsie I never said marriage means nothing to me

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 15 dny +1

      @@enginethatcould5257 Perhaps you misspoke in your generalisation when you said "marriage means nothing nowadays".

    • @Fitkid7672
      @Fitkid7672 Před 15 dny +1

      @@enginethatcould5257u kind of did buddy..

    • @ev25zv
      @ev25zv Před 6 dny

      @@Fitkid7672 You guys are tardy. The person was shocked at the number of divorces, infidelity and expressed that by implying that it's so prevalent these days that marriage means nothing because there are more marriages that result in divorce and/or infidelity than couples that take the vow seriously.

  • @moomyung9231
    @moomyung9231 Před 11 dny +2

    Why marry someone if you don't want to commit romantically or financially?

  • @christinaphx
    @christinaphx Před 15 dny +9

    The background music and jovial narration makes this video feel like a sugary sales pitch for travel and work. Weird choice. I almost turned it off. Hmph.

  • @Mothmns
    @Mothmns Před 14 dny +2

    What an awful man to take a life of someone so pure

  • @Avocadomushroom
    @Avocadomushroom Před 14 dny +4

    This is why I’ll stay single for life 🥺💔 so sad

  • @mariamabanora9702
    @mariamabanora9702 Před 15 dny +6

    What is missing among most comments (because they almost all focus just on the open marriage,) is the empathy for the victim RIP Betty! My heart goes out to her family and friends snd her poor dogs as well.

  • @missy3591
    @missy3591 Před 15 dny +21

    AM I WATCHING A COMMERCIAL

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 15 dny

      For what, poison? If something was being sold to me I must've missed it.

    • @xapplejax3964
      @xapplejax3964 Před 8 dny

      @@It-is-me...Melsiethey mean because they used AI narration and upbeat music in the background.. it’s sounds like an AI script which is kinda wild… not the kind of videos this channel usually puts out

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 8 dny

      @@xapplejax3964 Oooh, I see. Thank you.

  • @mabellynn4605
    @mabellynn4605 Před 15 dny +10

    What happened to the dogs??😢

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 15 dny +3

      I always worry about the pets too. It was nice to see how lovely a corgi looks with a tail.

  • @ElleTee-78
    @ElleTee-78 Před 14 dny +7

    That sociopath was lucky to have any attractive woman interested in him, let alone a person who seemed as sweet, smart and attractive as Betty. May he rot in jail for the rest of his days.

  • @choppaj247
    @choppaj247 Před 15 dny +24

    Couldnt take the voice im out

  • @lilg2300
    @lilg2300 Před 15 dny +5

    unwatchable video with a strange voice and narration.

  • @Karenanneseven
    @Karenanneseven Před 4 dny

    Always a quality video from The Decoder. Thanks DC 👏👏👏

  • @FrederickTheGrt
    @FrederickTheGrt Před 14 dny +3

    Did he marry his twin sister?

  • @applejuicejunkie316
    @applejuicejunkie316 Před 14 dny +2

    Open marriage 🚩half a million life insurance 🚩poison expert🚩 How did the husband think he'd get away is the only other 🚩

  • @juliekswanson
    @juliekswanson Před 13 dny +2

    The AI voice went in to commercial mode when talking about the Mayo Clinic. It was really weird and felt like a commercial had been snuck into the narrative. 😬

  • @WisteriaHex
    @WisteriaHex Před 12 dny +2

    Why is this narrated like a movie trailer

  • @josephzdyrski
    @josephzdyrski Před 6 dny +1

    I find it funny a poison "expert" had to do so many internet searches to figure out how to poison someone.

  • @whelkpeopleofdoom
    @whelkpeopleofdoom Před 14 dny +3

    Is this narrated by AI? Genuinely curious

    • @xapplejax3964
      @xapplejax3964 Před 8 dny

      i think it’s scripted and narrated by AI

  • @ninabeana97
    @ninabeana97 Před 14 dny +2

    Is the Corgi ok?!!!

  • @ridgeroamer7
    @ridgeroamer7 Před 14 dny +3

    Please don’t use an AI generated voice

  • @georginab1526
    @georginab1526 Před 6 dny

    Great narration! That was absolutely captivating

  • @liz.8312
    @liz.8312 Před 15 dny +3

    All right new wives take notes do not do the open marriage thing, do not do the 3 some thing. It just doesn't work out like HE would like it to!

  • @FrederickTheGrt
    @FrederickTheGrt Před 14 dny +1

    That's normal dog care, you're supposed to brush your dog's teeth every day.

  • @stevenmoirey2j367
    @stevenmoirey2j367 Před 15 dny +4

    Doing this evil thing to that woman

  • @cynthiaq.1010
    @cynthiaq.1010 Před 13 dny +1

    Very sad history for both. They spend years to study and now one is death the other in jail.

  • @Laureee578
    @Laureee578 Před 14 dny +1

    They look so happy in the photos, its so hard to believe 😮

  • @StonedBarbiee
    @StonedBarbiee Před 11 dny +1

    Well there’s the issue. Open marriage. Why bother getting married

  • @IDBTitanosaurus
    @IDBTitanosaurus Před 15 dny +24

    Is Law and Crime using an AI writer and AI voice to tell the story? Cheap...
    ...shame on you Law and Crime.

    • @Future-zx9ts
      @Future-zx9ts Před 15 dny +5

      Read the description box. It’s from a channel called The Decoder.

    • @notsorryyouretriggered
      @notsorryyouretriggered Před 15 dny +2

      Not everything is AI . Just a narrator

    • @doxa5421
      @doxa5421 Před 15 dny +2

      The voice isn't AI. Pau attention before concluding...

    • @ds7590
      @ds7590 Před 15 dny

      Shame on you. Youre missing a lot of brain cells

    • @-greentoad
      @-greentoad Před 15 dny

      ​@@notsorryyouretriggered ummm YES everything is Al now. Even if this isn't. Look around.

  • @famf6234
    @famf6234 Před 11 dny +1

    Open marriage doesn’t work! Don’t marry at all if you want to act single nevertheless! May justice be served! RIP…🙏🙏🙏

  • @ThisMelMel
    @ThisMelMel Před 15 dny

    Thanks for a more accurate report on this tragic and very evil act.

  • @btm96
    @btm96 Před 15 dny +1

    4:18 you actually used the word "literally" correctly, thank you!!

  • @2012MyVideos2012
    @2012MyVideos2012 Před 15 dny +2

    Was the idea to move away from family his idea???

  • @aquaticsunset
    @aquaticsunset Před 13 dny +3

    Is this AI? Narrator’s cadence is bizarre

  • @Missliaz
    @Missliaz Před 13 dny +1

    What is going in America the ugliest crimes happen there 😮

  • @peterolbrisch8970
    @peterolbrisch8970 Před 14 dny +1

    Never marry a poison expert.

  • @auntbeatrice6911
    @auntbeatrice6911 Před 10 dny +1

    iT SEEMS LIKE THEY ALWAYS HAD A PHOTOGRAPHER HANGING OUT WITH THEM. wEIRD.

  • @megomyeggo
    @megomyeggo Před 6 dny

    That is so wild! I graduated from Bishop Carroll Catholic high school in 2011!!

  • @danniblechnerbookjourneymentor

    This is absolutely awful. 💔 I'm worried now though this video has taught other people how to poison people. There's way too many psychopaths out there 🤬💔

  • @georgeforall
    @georgeforall Před 15 dny +2

    No one ever wants to work at the mustard clinic.

  • @cathylopespereira7661

    Open marriage is not a marriage

  • @donmcron3334
    @donmcron3334 Před 3 dny +1

    Lmao I can't watch this

  • @user-mn6sq3is4t
    @user-mn6sq3is4t Před 14 dny +1

    WTF is open marriage😢😢😢😢

  • @BC-bt7hu
    @BC-bt7hu Před 15 dny +1

    Alien shooter has entered the chat lol

  • @millysmindtrip1179
    @millysmindtrip1179 Před 9 dny +1

    Dog lovers want to know what happened to her dog Crumpet!

  • @MrShaneSunshine
    @MrShaneSunshine Před 13 dny +1

    What about the Dog?

  • @petergriffin383
    @petergriffin383 Před dnem

    This younger generation doesn't marry for love, they marry other's based on how successful they are. Love is a thing of the past.

  • @hersheyssmith2104
    @hersheyssmith2104 Před 3 dny

    Poor unlucky woman! She chose the wrong evil man to marry and she ended up 6 feet under!

  • @NekoNebula1313
    @NekoNebula1313 Před 11 dny

    Well guess what there's no such thing as an open relationship.

  • @alexab2016
    @alexab2016 Před 13 dny

    Sadly, being an empathetic person is one of the very reasons a narcissistic psychopath would want to end you

  • @JasonBrock
    @JasonBrock Před 2 dny +1

    I don't like the vocals in this one. it makes the 3:00 mark talking about Mayo Clinic sound like generated or something. I can't put my finger on it.

  • @melissahope4133
    @melissahope4133 Před 12 dny

    Music on this video is too loud for the guys voice. Difficult to hear him.

  • @hyacinthmoon6289
    @hyacinthmoon6289 Před 15 dny

    I live in Rochester and I’ve never heard of this! Wooooww

  • @LunaBobbi
    @LunaBobbi Před 11 dny

    Why the background music.
    Super annoying!!!!

  • @ethospathos
    @ethospathos Před 14 dny +3

    I always liked this channel, until they started using AI. Unsubscribed.

  • @meganmacpham
    @meganmacpham Před 13 dny +2

    The comment section is disgusting.

  • @justingroff3682
    @justingroff3682 Před 14 dny +1

    but we agreed that we would be swingers without any feelings of emotions yeah that is called being a narcissist Ted Bundy

  • @xKarenWalkerx
    @xKarenWalkerx Před 15 dny +1

    No more colchicene!!

  • @fluminesesoc
    @fluminesesoc Před 14 dny

    Why they look alike tho?lol 😂

  • @marcelad1057
    @marcelad1057 Před 10 dny +1

    Both have the same facial features.

  • @deFourr
    @deFourr Před 11 dny +1

    Change the voice narrator