5 Qualities to Look for in a Wife with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

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  • čas přidán 7. 07. 2024
  • Embark on a transformative episode into what makes a marriage survive and thrive. We dive deep into the five qualities of a godly wife. Whether you're a woman striving to grow in these virtues or a man seeking a lifelong companion, this episode promises to enrich your understanding of love beyond the superficial.
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Komentáře • 120

  • @sveltelee5545
    @sveltelee5545 Před 2 měsíci +103

    Shout out to all my Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!! You got this!

  • @christy183
    @christy183 Před 2 měsíci +32

    "Do not fall for the things that are good, but wait on the things that are GOD." Oh, amen (Matthew 6:33).

  • @ApexHunter89
    @ApexHunter89 Před 2 měsíci +24

    I can’t remember where I heard this but it was GOOD. If a woman isn’t a wife before you get married, she probably won’t be after either. Being a wife is a mentality and posture, not a piece of paper, ceremony or ring on her finger. There’s no magic that happens on a wedding day - it’s a confirmation and acknowledgment of what’s already there.

    • @jackiebuhle
      @jackiebuhle Před měsícem +1

      This is good👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LoratoPhefo
    @LoratoPhefo Před 2 měsíci +37

    Your videos make me feel like marriage is such a beautiful thing. I’m one of those women who absolutely had a flawed understanding of submission. But the way you describe it makes me feel like it’s something worthy and possible and honorable, and also glorifying to our Lord. To me it sounded like dictatorship. It’s never been described in depth the way you have so thank you so much. Finding your podcasts at the time we are planning our wedding has been such a huge blessing 🙌🏾

    • @Raven.Sunflower
      @Raven.Sunflower Před 2 měsíci +1

      This fills my heart with joy to read! Marriage, as intended by God, is a wonderful gift 🕊️♥️. Embracing submission is a beautiful way to honor God and truly demonstrates remarkable strength and grace. 🌸
      Congratulations, and may love and blessings accompany you and your future husband on your journey ahead. 🙏🏾🌷

    • @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha
      @Doinglifewithkenandtabatha  Před 2 měsíci

      We love to hear that our podcast can be a blessing to you! Glory to God. We appreciate your support. Stay tuned every Thursday :)

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Nothing but love for these ones.....theyre feeding us and guiding us in the things of the Lord

  • @torip9444
    @torip9444 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I am currently in my waiting season and trusting in God with the most faith that he will show me my putting God 1st Kingdom Husband. We will love on God together keeping him 1st and center of our union. I will have a partner to fast with , go to church with, and just all around praise God with finally. In the meantime I will continue to live my life in obedience to my Lord and savior reserving my temple.

  • @Lafashionista862
    @Lafashionista862 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Can we have a video on how to be a cheerleader and lift your man up ? People say this all the time but a lot of us have not seen it so as easy as people say it is. This is beyond foreign to me. But I want to learn. Encouragement is not my love language and it’s not something I’ve ever been given. I only experienced physical touch/affection and the ones around me tore down a lot of my goals

  • @TheRena1969
    @TheRena1969 Před 2 měsíci +10

    Amen thank you God for Confirmation 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 for my marriage next month on May 15 we will be married 27 years and been together 36 years🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @christopherrose7785
    @christopherrose7785 Před 2 měsíci +12

    Thank you Ken and Tabatha for your encouragement and spiritual advice on making your marriage great through biblical scriptures. God bless you both.🖤🙏🏾

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 Před měsícem +2

    I am that Proverbs 31 women preparing for marriage!!

  • @jnew251
    @jnew251 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Man this episode just made me apperricate my wife even more she processes all those qualities to the t God bless I love this podcast

  • @hakeimfiftysix9127
    @hakeimfiftysix9127 Před 17 dny

    Amen
    Do not look for the things that are Good but the things that are of God!

  • @lufuifisofojefedafa2976
    @lufuifisofojefedafa2976 Před 2 měsíci +14

    Seek first the kingdom of God.

  • @ashtribonaparte7557
    @ashtribonaparte7557 Před 23 dny

    I am that flesh!! 😂🙋🏽‍♀️ Girl God bless you cuz you are what my fiance wants out of me. I'm working on it, and that's why I'm here!

  • @valentine_music
    @valentine_music Před 2 měsíci +3

    I have now found my Proverbs 31 Woman. Thanks for this episode. All boxes ticked. God Bless. Keep up with the good work !

  • @marycannon6046
    @marycannon6046 Před 2 měsíci +7

    Yes, you and your PRECIOUS wife did give us your VERY best, today!!
    Thank you!!

  • @crystallatrece3545
    @crystallatrece3545 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Sooooo good! Thank you!❤

  • @marilynekokaetouman2678
    @marilynekokaetouman2678 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Great episode thank you!

  • @savonnastaggs4664
    @savonnastaggs4664 Před měsícem +1

    Just got the chills!! That's the spirit, joining and blessing this podcast

  • @Erikaisfavored
    @Erikaisfavored Před 2 měsíci

    Another great segment.

  • @cynthiawambui-re7wq
    @cynthiawambui-re7wq Před 2 měsíci

    Beautifully and clearly put!

  • @adoyicecilia7105
    @adoyicecilia7105 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I have been anticipating this. Thank you so much

  • @ChristFan868
    @ChristFan868 Před 2 měsíci

    So timely. Love you guys. Thank you.

  • @queenconscious2989
    @queenconscious2989 Před 2 měsíci

    Sooo good. This is absolutely on point! ❤

  • @feliciaroschauer891
    @feliciaroschauer891 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Amen to this🙏🏽 Thank you🤍

  • @blackgoldhourwmerv9886
    @blackgoldhourwmerv9886 Před 2 měsíci

    This was a great watch! Thank you both! 🙏🏾

  • @aryelbrown
    @aryelbrown Před 2 měsíci +2

    🔥🔥🔥 Thank God for this ministry!

  • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
    @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 Před 2 měsíci +1

    God bless your work❤

  • @tashanifrater4028
    @tashanifrater4028 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This was so good, great ministry ❤❤

  • @reginalove6201
    @reginalove6201 Před 2 měsíci +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥as always!!

  • @user-cb6gp5lt7w
    @user-cb6gp5lt7w Před 2 měsíci

    This is incredible. Thank you

  • @WorshipperKW
    @WorshipperKW Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks so much for this 🙏🏾

  • @RAINSHOWER1217
    @RAINSHOWER1217 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I’m so glad I bumped into this. It’s something I need! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @sthompson8873
    @sthompson8873 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for being REAL! This was so good! 😊

  • @jandremuller9928
    @jandremuller9928 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Great episode. Open some eyes

  • @jowiesewie5817
    @jowiesewie5817 Před 25 dny

    Wow I really needed to hear this.

  • @ericaanderson4769
    @ericaanderson4769 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @Rutietootie
    @Rutietootie Před 2 měsíci +4

    Tab your hair is looking beautiful!!

  • @fritzsmith1479
    @fritzsmith1479 Před měsícem

    I enjoyed Watching/Listening to this! SOLID Godly Advice!

  • @Christcitywpb
    @Christcitywpb Před 2 měsíci +3

    Love you guys, Lady Tabitha you did an amazing job at the ARC conference 2024!!!! I was there and I saw you bring the house down in 10mins. God bless you both. Please keep me in my husband/pastor in prayer we are trusting God for building campaign

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue Před 2 měsíci

    THE OFFICE IN BOTH BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT IT IS!!!

  • @kimwhite-lott2189
    @kimwhite-lott2189 Před 17 dny

    Yes, I did! Good teaching!!!

  • @tendaiyvonnenyoni9448
    @tendaiyvonnenyoni9448 Před 2 měsíci +1

    So true helpful information about what makes a good relationship between wives & husbands

  • @lasharnyoungsam5874
    @lasharnyoungsam5874 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Absolutely loved the way this was articulated, especially by you Ken👏🏾. God bless you both❤️

  • @Abbas_Daughters
    @Abbas_Daughters Před 2 měsíci

    Amazing Episode 💕💕💕👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @ebere_worthy3603
    @ebere_worthy3603 Před 9 dny

    This was so good. Thank you Ken & Tabatha ❤

  • @HowTo5min-co3ni
    @HowTo5min-co3ni Před 2 měsíci

    Just discovering this channel. You guys are helping people keep it up! Good content by the way.

  • @LoveLee_
    @LoveLee_ Před 2 měsíci +2

    I’m so glad I’ve come across this channel during my singleness. Taking notes before marriage 📝 y’all are helping me, thank you!! 🙏🏾

  • @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy
    @jifunzekiingerezanadorothy Před 2 měsíci

    So good ❤❤❤

  • @maryannkiburi9908
    @maryannkiburi9908 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I’m always learning and relearning from your podcast. God bless you both 🙏.

  • @rebuiltbygrace
    @rebuiltbygrace Před 2 měsíci

    So enjoyed your teachings today at the marriage Conference. This was a great Podcast.

  • @patriciahamer3741
    @patriciahamer3741 Před 2 měsíci

    Very good!

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Great information ❤thank you for the confirmation and the godly word. I will continue to pray and wait. God bless. Amen

  • @Megan_Alexis
    @Megan_Alexis Před měsícem +1

    🙌🏾 YESS so grateful to God for headship and leadership.

  • @xolakoti4561
    @xolakoti4561 Před 2 měsíci

    Amen to this!!! God bless you and this ministry. I pray it reaches a multitude of people.❤ God is doing a great work here🎉

  • @abena7826
    @abena7826 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for pouring into us! Such an enlightening conversation. God bless you 💗

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 Před měsícem

    You guys have really beng helping me .. Thank you and God Bless

  • @themarro6695
    @themarro6695 Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent episode! So thankful for your ministry Ken and Tabatha. I love the way you compliment each other ❤

  • @khensanimnisi1276
    @khensanimnisi1276 Před měsícem

    Was giving up on LOVE,but the LORD led me to your podcast I really see and understand things differently as I listen to your teachings many many thanks 🙏.

  • @Delightful_Dia
    @Delightful_Dia Před 2 měsíci

    Beautifully said; clear and precise. Thank you for your sharing your wisdom and understanding.

  • @brendabenavidez1910
    @brendabenavidez1910 Před měsícem

    I'm waiting on God .. i will watch this again ty

  • @michelletrausi3071
    @michelletrausi3071 Před 2 měsíci +2

    What a great podcast! So much good information. Thank you Pastors for breaking it down. Today you put it all into perspective for me. Thank you and thank God for all he is doing in you and through you. ❤

  • @Raven.Sunflower
    @Raven.Sunflower Před 2 měsíci +1

    New subscriber! I've listened to both parts, and they are incredibly enriching and uplifting! It's truly refreshing to witness others passionately standing for the Lord's design for marriage, a beautiful covenant 🕊️🌸May God continue to bless you both abundantly!

  • @lanaib_
    @lanaib_ Před 2 měsíci

    God is changing me to be more of a wife thank you for this video!❤

  • @danielarubiio
    @danielarubiio Před 2 měsíci

    Been here since November 🥳

  • @napturalee_8815
    @napturalee_8815 Před 2 měsíci

    Tabatha I appreciate your vulnerability for your part in this episode because I’ve been through every single thing you’ve mentioned! During this time of my life I’m learning and building myself from the ground up and you all are helping me so much!

  • @CatchClarisa08
    @CatchClarisa08 Před 2 měsíci

    I enjoy this show so much! You two are my favorite people. Tabitha is so beautiful! I love the hair color❤

  • @RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod
    @RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod Před 2 měsíci +2

    Glory to God. Blessings to your family and all of us in Jesus name amen 💗🙏🏼

  • @wholewomanyaya
    @wholewomanyaya Před měsícem

    As a woman of God, this was so good!

  • @estherndungu590
    @estherndungu590 Před 2 měsíci

    Am single and i admit that watching your broadcast has been of great helped to me As a young Christian and also throughout my singlehood.

  • @morowell2473
    @morowell2473 Před měsícem

    Praise the Most High for your healing Tab!!! You are a teaching us how to overcome by your testimony!!! Rev. 12:11

  • @terenpartee3066
    @terenpartee3066 Před měsícem

    I have watched a few of these videos and they have helped me tremendously. Also I can’t help but say how I see the love in Tabitha and Ken eyes when they talk to each other. ♥️

  • @Elizacolvin-dl7xb
    @Elizacolvin-dl7xb Před 2 měsíci +1

    Aghhhh SO FRUITFUL! I’ve been thinking a lot about my husband (whom I have yet to meet) and the qualities I desire. I realized I had to ask myself these very same things and prayed to God to search my heart and help me grow in wifely ways! Thank you for this Word of Wisdom!
    Really would Love if you could talk about.. how to identify my husband or wife and trusting Gods will over my want. Thank you both again ❤️❤️

  • @chidimmanwakasi3644
    @chidimmanwakasi3644 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks you ❤😊

  • @rockymountainprincess9078
    @rockymountainprincess9078 Před měsícem

    Your ministry is a true blessing 🙏. Thank you for all you do for the body of Christ❤.

  • @SoldierOfYWH
    @SoldierOfYWH Před 2 měsíci

    Pastor you’re speaking facts, a woman’s looks does not come before her dedication/love for God! no bueno!
    it is a must to see the fruit of God in her, in her behavior and actions

  • @michaelsane.1729
    @michaelsane.1729 Před 2 měsíci +1

    AMEN‼️

  • @the_realsharisse
    @the_realsharisse Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for this video, I am single currently but I believe that God is preparing me for His son. I never saw an healthy marriage before and I’m in my late thirties. My mother and Dad never gotten married, but my mom had gotten married twice. Dad never gotten married 😮‍💨 so yeah 🤷🏾‍♀️. But I’m grateful for Daddy God , because He’s teaching me through some healthy, successful marriages. And you guys are one of them, thank you again for all the wisdom. I’ll make sure that I’ll share my God written Love Story with you when it happens, God bless 🤗

  • @theworldsbestmom8082
    @theworldsbestmom8082 Před 2 měsíci

    Wish I saw this 3 years ago

  • @sherylsmith279
    @sherylsmith279 Před 2 měsíci

    Yes! Great perspective…love the word! Also let us remember the husband, is to provide for his wife. (1 Timothy 5:8.) The trend seems to be women must come to the table with tangible things. I believe that her heart posture is what’s important… she should not have a gold digger mentality, but bringing something material is not a criteria. Let’s remember we are a helpmeet (Genesis 2:18.). We honor and respect our husbands. If they love us, we will respect them naturally. Yes, it is however wise for women to have an income.

  • @praisegirl264
    @praisegirl264 Před 2 měsíci

    Love the podcast! You two or amazing. And I do believe we must put god first. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ We need him and I we will be miserable without him. And I do not want a man who don't put god first before me. Either you put god first or you want get me. I do not have anymore time to waste on the wrong mate. Thus I s it for me ...

  • @kimwhite-lott2189
    @kimwhite-lott2189 Před 17 dny

    Amen

  • @ashtribonaparte7557
    @ashtribonaparte7557 Před 23 dny

    It's hard to stroke his ego especially when Im all about humility. It just feels subservient. I hear what you're saying. I'm taking notes. I'll try less to roll my eyes behind his back when I applaud him for buying groceries like baby wow you did that! My king provides for the kingdom blah blah blah 🙄😂 women are so much stronger than men but here we are.

  • @jenniferreynoso8231
    @jenniferreynoso8231 Před 2 měsíci

    Great video! Are you two from Arizona? I see your hat says Patagonia. :)

  • @KJ47_
    @KJ47_ Před 2 měsíci +2

    Much Love To You Guys, Ken u went crazy this episode ‼️ These Gems u dropped will help many future marriages including my future marriage, Glory be to God ❤

  • @mercyjohn9734
    @mercyjohn9734 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Wow I just noticed I am a red flag .... definitely need to change

  • @Karters_Mom
    @Karters_Mom Před měsícem

  • @Blue77Blue
    @Blue77Blue Před 2 měsíci

    WHEN IT IS ONLY BASE ON HUSK!!!

  • @mikecarter523
    @mikecarter523 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Pastor Ken can't be letting them barber shop conversations out! He breaking the man code 🤣🤣🤣

  • @DioniWise87
    @DioniWise87 Před 2 měsíci +3

    The whole episode is a gem! 💎 Watch it all! But if you want to go directly to the 5 qualities, then go to 20:24.

  • @julebymkl3068
    @julebymkl3068 Před 2 měsíci

    Yes! Men and women understand the power of women 😂😂😂

  • @Lifeafteryes
    @Lifeafteryes Před 2 měsíci +1

    📝📝❤❤✨✨🔥🔥

  • @marinachoban2607
    @marinachoban2607 Před 2 měsíci

    Now I’m worried I’m not wife material😥 cuz I get stressed out easily and take things close to heart, and have insecurities😔
    What do I do?

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 Před 2 měsíci +2

      If asked, i would tell you to understand that, first, you are not perfect. You got flaws.
      Then, you need to know , believe and act as the worthy lady you are.
      Not laying your identity on a man but on GOD ONLY.
      You are loved by God as He sent His only begotten son to die on the cross for the salvation of our sins.
      You deserve to love for real and be loved for real.❤

    • @ram47863
      @ram47863 Před měsícem

      Surrender to god, ask God help to make you more relaxed

  • @user-uy1bl8bw9h
    @user-uy1bl8bw9h Před 22 dny

    HELLO, I FEEL SHE NEED TO KNOW HOW TO COOK.
    CLEANLINESS, RESPECT THERE PARENTS,

  • @andrewims1321
    @andrewims1321 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Finding a good Christian woman can be difficult. Especially when sex is off the table.

    • @torip9444
      @torip9444 Před 2 měsíci +4

      Good morning. I'm not trying to sound like a debate team here, I understand where you're coming from because it is the same for us women. What I have grown to learn is that a person can't truly call themselves a follower of Christ if they can't give up those temptations, esp premarital sex for the Glory of God and being pleasing to him. I had to check myself because of a slip up with falling into temptation, knowing it was wrong in the eyes of God. I made sure to repent and have not turned back to my mistake. Is it difficult to leave sex off the table? Yes, but not impossible. It is manageable to overcome by calling on Jesus for renewal of the mind, body, and spirit.

    • @andrewims1321
      @andrewims1321 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@torip9444 well spoken sister. Continue to put your faith into the Lord.

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@torip9444
      Preach louder❤

    • @lanaib_
      @lanaib_ Před 2 měsíci

      @@torip9444thank you so much for this comment!

    • @whitneytash2622
      @whitneytash2622 Před měsícem

      No one wants sexual purity anymore...

  • @1STELDER
    @1STELDER Před 2 měsíci

    1st

  • @kimwhite-lott2189
    @kimwhite-lott2189 Před 17 dny

    Amen

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 Před 2 měsíci