Women Speaking On The Mother That Gave Her Kids To CPS
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The government will pay foster parents or relatives to foster them for their upkeep, but won’t help a mother. Ridiculous.
Which is part of why I say don't get pregnant. Protect yourself by not having unprotected sex
@@kayshawnsimmons5585THISSSSS!!!!
Why would the government pay women to breed when women been having kids for free 99?
Respectfully foster parents VOLUNTARILY take on kids who’s parents can’t or won’t take care of them, so it makes sense that they get help to help the helpless. Parents CHOOSE to have kids, so it’s THEIR responsibility. Unfortunately those are the rules. I don’t make them.
@@sj5218I agree, but I wish parents would get more help.
Where is the father? Why can’t he take responsibility for raising his own kids?
There are multiple
@@user-tv7kh7vw5m 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@@user-tv7kh7vw5magreed, she has 3 baby daddies. Correct me if I’m wrong on that. But can’t atleast of those 3 fathers take their biological kid from her? This just show where we are at in the black community. She already took accountability but not the fathers.
@@Satin.B
If not even one will take them… then to me that was a litter of situationship babies
@@Satin.B Yeah, I feel like just having multiple baby daddies like that kind of shows she probably isn't able to manage relationships with men and probably is going on her trauma. I really don't understand why women have more than one kid without multiple dads like that when the guys almost certainly have no interest in those kids.
People are always like "Everyone should have kids!" but once a child gets abused, neglected, or parents can't take care of them then all the sudden they say, "Some people shouldn't have kids". Why do we always come to that conclusion when it is too late and a child suffers? 🤨
That's why you should never give into societal pressure. Only you know your pocket!
I could never imagine having an abortion until I was in a situation where I did.
Me too, and I was.married, but we couldn't financially support another child.
Say it again🎉
Exact same way I felt ❤
I would rather her give her kids to CPS then to read a news article about her unaliving them.
Exactly people are judging her yet she has no support system. This woman is at her breaking point
if you can't take care of your kids, give them to someone who can. Or don't have them. Their is no shame in not having kids
But the government will give foster parents money to take care of the kids… but won’t give assistance to the MOTHER if she can’t take care of her kids? Make it make sense.
Im a teacher, either she keeps her kid and abuse them like most parents do, or ahe give them away. Hear the same story over and over about abusive parents, kid talk to me about
Im a crisis therapist and so many parents are tired of their kids! They want to give them up but cant smh.
@@Spokentruths725 why they cant?
@@zero1188 its a sticky situation. If you give up your kids in my state well past infancy, it’s still seen as neglect. And if you want them to take only one they will take them all. I guess you are seen as an unfit parent in the eyes of the state.
@@Spokentruths725 I really wish they would think about that before they have them.
@@Spokentruths725 so if you give them up you will be charged with neglect?
Why would people ask why/how would the mother give up her child to CPS? THE SAME WAY THE FATHERS GET RID OF THEIR CHILDREN. 🙄
Exactly….my baby father literally told me to leave him alone and raise our son …because I knew he was a savage from the beginning 😑
Team One && Done. These Degenerative Men, Economies && Societies Completely Turned Me Off From Having More Children.
Exactly. Same here ‼️
@@Loveparfumss ✊🏾💜
Same.
Same
Society designates women into a default caretaker role, even when you're not built for it or can't do it. I applaud her for recognizing that it's not in her and giving her kids up instead of harming them. One of the baby daddies is dead and the others don't help. I refuse to judge her for this.
Roe v. Wade were real people. It was a real situation. Change starts with people. I’m glad she is not to ashamed to talk about it.
My mother had 5 of us by 3 known pos and it was hell on earth in that house…
30 and childfree ❤
Thank you for being responsible.
@@Liz-wz8dh
Thank you for saying this!
First thing: LADIES Keep your legs CLOSED!!!!! 2nd: Build yourself before you bring kids in this world that way incase the man leave you can support yourself and your kids.
@@txspacemom765
What you mean by lend a hand… advice?
@user-tv7kh7vw5m yes help them walk through it, decanter men, pick them up. There are still just a lot of women who don't understand...we have to help each other.
@@txspacemom765
I don’t think we should expect childfree women to do anything for single mothers… I didn’t bring my child here because I didn’t want to ruin it… why would I then village for someone less considerate?
@@txspacemom765 NO! As a childfree black woman I am so tired of mothers telling us we need to "Step up and help other women." Where are these fathers at? THEY need to be stepping up and taking care of their children!
@@saramatthews7159 I meant from a more sitting down and talking to each other, helping each other through. I didn't mean money or otherwise.
I empathize with her situation and decision. Had I not given my daughter at 3 days old, she would have started out life as a homeless child. I knew I was not able even before she was born. She was adopted by a nice family and was raised well. Now she is 26 years old and we are close friends, like really close friends.
If you judging these people then just think she could have drowned them in the river, dropped them from the roof. But she let them live instead.
Respect that.
That still adds on trauma to the child is what people are saying.
@@StephanieNiecey so the mother should be traumatized and not the children? How are the children not traumatized when the mother is from being overwhelmed?
@@biblethumper8088 The children are going to be traumatized either way so why not keep your children.
@@StephanieNiecey because she is not able to raise children without sacrificing herself and becoming miserable. Also the father does not keep his children. If men have the right to leave, then so do the mother's.
I really do not have any sympathy for the children because they grow up to be the disgusting adults we see today. If men and women could grow up and h8 the mother's that give life by saying she should suffer for the actions of a man, then let them suffer.
@@StephanieNiecey because the mother shouldn't be traumatized. Because keeping them will make her miserable. Because men have the right to leave, so women have the right to leave. Because they are not above the mothers wellbeing. And lastly because she doesn't have to.
These women and men are super selfish out here to be having kids knowing damn well they can’t take care of them. These poor babies are suffering at the hands of irresponsible adults.
CPS look for the daddies and hand over the responsibility.
Period
The daddies don’t have any money. They can’t take care of the kids either
I was in her shoes. I have raised my son COMPLETELY on my own. I have no family, my ex did NOTHING and I can't tell you how many time I was at the end of my rope but I was judged for asking for help or even mentioning I was tired. When I tell you I had no one, I HAD NO ONE! Yes, it was my choice to have my son but I asked for help and was told, basically, tough bologna. And I was NOT seeking money. I needed physical and mental help. It doesn't matter if you have 1 or 14, women take the brunt of it all and we hold men to no accountability. There is so much wrong with access to women's health care. There is something wrong with child care. There is so much wrong with time off from work. There is so much with costs of everything. There is so much wrong with mental health access. And it ALL falls on the woman. The fact this woman had the wear with all to do what she did, I applaud her. To the women who hate on her, it's our job to educate and help her.
Women hate on and judge each other too much. They have no grace and no class consciousness. Those women keep us divided when we are supposed to be united and help/educate women, and that includes the “unfavorable” women too.
Did they tell you not to F the father of your child? was he a visible POS?
Yes, better to educate her so she can educate others. At least you know your son will be a better man than his father.
@@Liz-wz8dh I pray for that every day!
Honestly, this needs to happen on a large scale. Even if it's just a huge protest of mothers across the country bringing their kids to the cps offices, family courts, state govt steps. Everyone who refuses to hold deadbeat dads accountable while letting ALL of the work and responsibilities fall solely on Mothers.
I personally, like to troll the family courts whenever I'm dealing with them by naively asking who I can send my kids bills to get them lowered (like men can do) or how do I sign up for the program that lessens my kids expenses to just 50% (max support that can be taken from a dads paycheck fyi). It's fun to listen to them squirm trying to answer why none of those benefits apply to mothers. 😂
I feel bad for these kids out here on having their parents tell everybody they either don't want the kids or can't take care of them. No way that isn't going to affect them years later.
It’s her choice and that’s that. These people who are mad at her wouldn’t even reach out to help her
The mother did look very tired and overwhelmed, It's really unfortunate for the children because they are innocent and they never asked to be here in the first place - I just hope that whoever gets the kids are good to them and doesn't abuse them in ANY way. Who knows the biological mother might have been close to abusing them, but I don't agree that someone else's choices should fall on innocent people who had NOTHING to do with their situation - ultimately people need to really THINK before they make life altering decisions , because I feel it would have been better for everyone if the children were never born and where is the so called father?
From the information give, can you decide if this individual had the resources and options for a smabortion? Or the mental preparedness? If not, then what is the conversation about the _children_ got to do with it? Children should ALL be aborted until proven otherwise? What about the women who thought their relationships were solid and then got left high and dry, like Beverly from the Pets empire whose husband screwed her over while she was _dying of cancer_ - you want to shame *those* mothers too?
I don’t think people are thinking during or after sex. Sex brings out hidden disorders and therefore poor choices are made.
@@Ninsidhe exactly. How is abortion different from una living children. These people need to be quiet.
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Even animals have enough sense to put off procreation when resources are lacking.
People are never gonna stop humping, you can let that dream go now 😂😂
Exactly!!!!!
Say that !!!
Welll there are these things called protection... like condoms and pills... that can prevent it up to 98% of the time.
It is soooo hard to try them??
Someone has to teach actual information about the consequences of bringing children into the world. Why are adults still irresponsible about this?
If men don’t care and women are enabling; who is holding anyone accountable for these messed up households ?
This is her teaching us. Learn the lesson.
@@biblethumper8088
Most of our mother lived her life
@@user-tv7kh7vw5m why are you still pointing to the men a woman who has 5 kids by multiple baby daddy’s is past it’s point that’s it’s the dad fault sometimes you can not depend on others and check in if nobody help me can I take of a kid or 1,2,3,4,5 kids ?
Team childfree
The way inflation is going i can see this happening more and more. As i single mom i was blessed that i had my family and friends behind me. If i didn't i would have had an abortion or used fostercare .
There’s no easy answer to this. If she truly exhausted all other options then I understand but if she didn’t then she’s trippin 100%
Are the three baby daddies and all those extended family members of the male and woman tripping too? Or is it all the mother's fault? See, this is why we're taking plan B and plan C these days. No more kids for this ungrateful anti woman society. #Childfree #ChildfreeWomen #What'sGoodForTheGoose #GoodFortheGanderToo
@@NovaPrincess yes everyone in the kids family is trippin if she went to them for help and they rejected her and the children.
Also you clearly didn’t read the whole comment 🙄
The woman had children with multiple different men, I would place majority of the blame at her feet for continuing the trauma…That doesn’t absolve the men’s accountable to the situation but she obviously needed to vet her partners better
@@hasley247 So women have to 'vEt', interrogate, run background checks, get search warrants, and do police work just to not be blamed after a male abuses the woman, children, or total strangers or abandons HIS kids? LOL!! Yeah, keep talking and watch the birth rate plummet, especially for black women. We're not doing free labor for males anymore. We're getting degrees, buying home, and flourishing financially as celibate, single, and childfree. You can have a football team of babies by your vetted kangs though. I'm sure there are plenty of good ones without a rap sheet left. Enjoy. ❤️
5 kids by 4 men(1set of twins)…
Do women not realize they are creating children with deadbeats. These are the words of the mothers, not me. So women have to do better. We ignore all kinds of red flags in the name of the feeling we have for a man. But the children suffer in the name of an emotion we call love. We then board the struggle bus and live a life of poverty and its the child that suffers. Can we not learn life lessons from the experiences of others?
The enabling must end first… no soft landing… no village… no trauma bonding…
They know these kids will suffer and they produce and fruit them still!
Apparently not because this has been happening for millennia!
I got pregnant through stealthing (removal of the condom without acknowledgement or consent). My son's father left when I was around 6 months pregnant and I'm now raising my son by myself. My son is now 18 months old and I'm struggling and I have no family support and trying to find my tribe and my way because I'm literally doing this on my own. I know it's a struggle to take care of children especially with inflation and wages seem like they are staying the same. The struggle is real but no matter what I will always do what I need to do in order to provide for son. I am team one and done.
Stealthing is rape
Sorry that happened to you. It should definitely be illegal.
I’m sorry but no one told her to let 4 nuts from 4 men ferment… birth control was available from the first child…
Hopefully someone makes you feel the way she feels when hard times hit you or you make a mistake. May you feel the pain of loneliness and no support when you cry out.
@@johngalt913
I’m childfree… so no one; not even me would be able to make me feel like she feels… my body my choice ❤️
@@user-tv7kh7vw5m I’m talking about in life…I had already figured you don’t have kids but I’m sure you will face trials in your life. I just hope you know what it feels like to have the pain of no support and full judgement.
@@user-tv7kh7vw5m I figured you don’t have kids I was talking about in life…
@@user-tv7kh7vw5m Im talking about in life
There are women who are ending their lives and their child’s life because they can’t handle the burden of raise children rather you give them to foster homes than end their lives short because you werent ready for the responsibility I respect her for real for sparing their life
Sad truth and reality is that every birth giver is not a mother. Not every woman is a good mother. Mental breakdowns are real and it DOES take a village. It’s hard work w/ and w/o support. Honestly, this side of it is not talked about enough.
She has five kids, not three..🧐💯
We must know that if our mother have multiple children from multiple men and she tells you to keep an unintended pregnancy; ignore and do what you would have done instead of creating the same hell on earth for the next generation… if your elders aren’t wise… find you some wisdom!!!
I have compassion and glad the kids are at least safe. What I dont understand is why have more kids if things are hard? After 2 kids, you have an idea of motherhood. Why have more to add on to that struggle? That question has been missing out of this conversation.
I don't know her motivation, but every time I've seen that happen, each kid was born to hold onto a man and it didn't work.
What difference does it make when this happens to married women? Why are you not concerned with fathers doing this?
@@biblethumper8088 We know why men do it. Either they don't care if a few seconds of additional pleasure ruins a woman's life or they are purposely attempting to ruin a woman's life or they are attempting to build a harem of women they have access to for life.
Those are the major reasons men do this, and they range from indifference to evil. Women's reasons tend to be motivated by foolishness and it's a lot easier to educate a woman than to convince a man to be moral.
@biblethumper8088 stop deflecting with a red herring. I never said anything about marriage. It does matter because married or single, if you're struggling to take care of the kids you do have, you don't have more. As a mom, she has to take accountability for her part same as the dad. She knew after 2nd one and still had more knowing she was already a single mother. Both mother and father(s) have been sexually irresponsible and the kids suffer as a result.
@@nicholaidrake1144 I'm not deflecting. I'm showing you how you opinion doesn't make sense. There are married women whose husband's supported them financially while they kept having children. Meaning they weren't struggling. And after he has had so many children, then he decides to leave or forces her to leave. Then the once stay at home mother is now struggling and ends up being in the same exact situation as this woman. So again, what difference does it make when this happens to married women as well?
She didn't harm them or take their lives.
I found this case very hard cuz everybody saying single mothering is amazing but now most of the women say it’s very hard to be a single parents that’s why we as a black community need to do more to protect becoming that ….. she was struggling but she has or has 5 kids …. Why just why …..
Let's talk about how she had 3 baby daddy's and not nare one came forward
Anyone that ridicules her choice is a hypocrite. Better to admit you're in over your head than fake it, which harms the children. I pray she gets the help she needs.❤️
But she needs to make money. If this gets her some money then …. Why not.
I saw someone post this before and I have always agreed: Consenting to sex does *not* mean consenting to pregnancy.
It does though. Sex leads to pregnancy. Why partake in an action that lead to pregnancy knowing you don’t want kids……
@@StephanieNieceyno
@@StephanieNieceyI’ve been having recreational sex since 13 1/2
… I’m 30 now so condoms, birth control and emergency contraceptives work!
Edited(I started at 17 1/2)
If the mother want the baby it’s had… nothing but a rando is needed after that!
Aside from the sorry daddies, it is also messed up that CPS are only willing to take the kids if she poses as a threat to them, INSTEAD of recognizing she is doing them more justice by seeing she is not in the place to raise them currently BEFORE her mental took her to the brink.
The lady in the pink shirt expressed it very well.
Family members do not have to be responsible for kids you made. Let’s start there.
No one else but the father is obligated to care for YOUR children. Brutal truth. No one HAS to help you. Grow up and just stop having sex. Very simple.
The reason why she is being interviewed is because they want to show the reality of what happens when men abandon their responsibilities. These children will grow up to be adults. So if a child could grow up in a broken home and create a broken home, it just speaks to the lack of value these people have on this earth. It's time for these people to go.
My husband and i both had the sad thoughts to give our son up for two years since he was born . The sad reality we can never bring ourselves to do it because we didnt just go through all this crap - family narcissistic abuse , poverty , loss of freedom , debt , sleep less nights and health problem for us both . We thought about it due to being at the point of homelessness living with his dad because my parents are abusive towards all of us .. they spoiled my son with candy, pushed boundaries and snapped when they didnt reenforce healthy boundaries, they worked my husband and i to a point of being literally sick and the verbal abuse ro hurt us and turn us against each other - it pushed us together . It was so bad we packed a bag and left , came back for our stuff and no contact.. my child had went through weaks of sugar withdrawal and they made it to where financially we could not leave without doing anything drastic , we had nothing when we left . . I had the door slammed in my face because i couldnt give all the rent money and i had to make sure my family had food and keep my car bill paid and my dad told me to pay it any time in the month and it was my mother saying i stole things , im trashing their house - i was the only one cleaning it . , im just using them so i dont have to pay my own bills , claimed myself and my husband is abusive and threatened cps on me .. for weaks we were asked can my baby stay for the weekend without us .. the only person in my family that checked in on me personally and told me i love you was my grandma in a text .. my husbands side of the family pulled what little resources they had to make sure we are taken care of and that is doesnt have to come to giving up our child for his betterment . Its out of pure selfishness we are fighting for our child . I wont lie to you .
I understand not being able to take care of your kids, what I don’t understand is pulling out your phone out to film yourself giving them up. Gives clout chasing fr.
She's exposing what happens when men abandon their children. It needs to be broadcasted. Plus women who deal with men who have children contribute to this happening.
@@biblethumper8088
Nah! She’s exposing when women are loose and irresponsible
No I think it's for evidence just in case! She did say she will come back for her kids...she just needs to get her life together because right now it's too much for her to bear on her own. It's a cry for help!
Being a single mother is like running around the track a millions of times with no one to pass the paten to . I don't understand why so many women hating on her for going public when it helped so many women to know they are not alone who are suffering. Why is no one holding fathers accountable? She was tired of being a parent by herself or just period. She is actually better than me because I would rather be
It's traumatic to children for fathers to abandon their children. So the child isn't going to suffer more just because the mother left.
The government should pay the mothers to keep their children. That's why they are giving them up. And the same way they pay foster parents to raise people's kids, is the same way they can pay the mothers. I don't want to hear" why should the government pay for children that the mother chose to have". The foster parent also chose to foster the child. So they shouldn't get paid either if CHOICE is the excuse because they made that choice too!!😤
Well the government is so worried about the birth rate so they may start doing that.
No you should never be employed to be a mother. That's ridiculous!!!! Keep your legs closed. I know in Canada they have something called child benefits where families(low income) get around $6275 annually/child. There is help out there you just have to look for it or ask the right questions. But overall it is your responsibility!
and what if she gets pregnant and has another baby?
Being emotional or having emotions is NOT bad!!!
It makes us HUMAN!!
BOTH men and women are emotional in DIFFERENT ways.
The BLACK COMMUNITY make BLACK MEN'S emotional acceptable.
NO human is a unemotional robot!!!
She said her family failed her..she did ask them for help, and they didnt support her. She even asked one of the fathers to bring diapers, and he said he had his other family to deal with..so she came onto social media to voice her frustrations. As a single mother, Ive been there, so I dont judge her..and why Im for 4B
If you have 4 pregnancies for 4 men and no one wants to help…
You’re the problem ❤
If she the problem those men should take their kids from her
Definitely some truth in that too. But it's not like a lot of women are taught to care for themselves though. Sometimes they go to these guys who pretend to care about them just to get something close to affection.
@@Liz-wz8dh
True but 4 pregnancies are 3 pregnancies too many for a pass… you don’t get to ruin everyone you encounter or create and say “but I was young; give me grace” because those kids are younger… uncovered and underprepared for… but they just got fed to the system . What about them?
@@Liz-wz8dh That's why you gotta love yourself. If you don't learn from your mistake after 4x then the issue is within you.
@@lovekingdom5581 She may not know that. A lot of women don't know themselves when they're having kids for these losers.
I completely agree with the woman in the pink shirt towards the end of the video. I understand her sentiments. As a single mother I understand that parenting is a journey fully equipped with highs and lows. Kuddos to all the parents doing their best. Prayers for the parents who are pushed to make such difficult and terrible decisions.
Nobody asks those fathers if they can afford more than one child. People in US, don’t u have some system law what collects alimony from fathers? No village is needed, if u have working law system. Social benefits for instans.
She was RECKLESS and UNCOVERED and thought she should create 5 UNCOVERED CHILDREN in RECKLESS SITUATIONSHIPS… now they have NO ONE 🥀🥀🥀
Go drink water
@@lalat5899
With a plan B
@@lalat5899with a plan B
@@lalat5899with birth control
@@lalat5899
With a plan b
I have considered it and it's always on the table if things get too hard. I already know how it's done. Any mother can bring their child there and state they are not able to raise and provide for the child. No one can force a person to sign up for government assistance and most single mothers are only able to raise their children with government assistance. So technically you can't afford to raise them if you're dependent on government assistance.
Say that!!!
i love listening to intelligent women speak! Great video
At some point women need to learn to take accountability. I could understand if she only had one child with a man who'd promised her the world once the baby was born; however, most of these women are out here having SEVERAL children with MULTIPLE men and then expecting other women (especially childfree women) to step in and help them. Use your head before you decide to bring children into this horrible world!
How is the outcome any different if she has a husband who left afterwards?
@@biblethumper8088 well that woman needs to go after that man and get everything she can (child support, alimony, etc).
Exactly!! I feel so sorry for these children having their mother talking about them on the internet. The internet is forever!
@@saramatthews7159 how will she force the man to pay if the courts can't force men to pay?
@@Jae-by3hf this interview will not be more damaging then the fact that the children will grow up and know that their father intentionally got their mother pregnant just to abandon them. They will face trauma from knowing that their father created them as a weapon against their mother just to ruin her life.
Find the fathers ma'ams.
I empathize with her completely….i have one child and let me tell you…it’s hard 😞
Poor kids💔😢 i hope they are safe
My mom watched me no one but my mom watched me
Now I agree that a woman could have some support and help from others but I don't agree with allowing them to just go off and not give any Aid or support in raising the child. They should be paying child support and still aiding in the child's care. The young girl that was in a similar situation to me sounds like she just wants someone to take care of her child so she doesn't have to do it at all because why would you want someone to take your children and not have any involvement in their life including not financially support them ? The second issue is that a lot of these Millennials and gen Z complained about the parenting style of the generation before them and so therefore that generation doesn't feel obligated to help them if I was a piss poor parent then why do you want me to help you care for your child now that you're overwhelmed ? Also did you listen when people were trying to warn you about this person or that person or did you just ignore them and say you were going to do things your way and now you're expecting people to get you out of this bind? ❤
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I don't feel anyone can judge her because to judge a single mother is to say that she is supposed to raise the child alone which she isn't. So if she was never meant to be in that position, then she can't be wrong for giving her kids up. Morally she is wrong for fornicating, but not for her body doing what it was created to do when impregnated.
Better she give them up to CPS than a gutter or dumpster, it's just sad that she had to have more than one kid before it came to this point.
PLAN B EXIST…
I have taken a few and am positive the only persons life I messed up was my own as I lived as I pleased 🙏🏿
Plan B is a thing but it shouldn't be relied upon. Sometimes guys like to try to sabotage birth control. They want you to have kids but don't want to help you take care of them. Just keep that in mind and only have them if you really want them.
I had 1, thats all it took to take precautions to not have more with the wrong person.... and I was a teen! Not saying im pointing blame but 3 kids by 3 different fathers? But to each its own
if it weren't for the nightmare stories i've been told by ppl who were put in foster care and whistleblowers talking about CPS trafficking- i would be perfectly fine with ppl who realize they can't handle being a parent giving their kid(s) up to the state (then taking appropriate measures to never get in that position again), but like i said, the state doesn't give a flying rats ass about child welfare, so it doesn't matter what the mother does or doesn't do, the kids are always gonna be the first to suffer.
You're right. CPS is just such a disaster. I wish it was run more professionally and that we, as a society, actually did more to care for the kids.
@@Liz-wz8dh yes
Well most people make money off their stories. So I don't understand why she's sideeyeing her.
Society/Patriarchy/Phallus Worship is the problem.Im a single mother of 6 and Im about to help ALLL overburdened mothers in my area. I feel for mothers everywhere that are struggling. Its a sacrifice that was advertised to girls. Blk community been gone. Blk grandmas aint like they use to be. My children grandparents NEVA babysat or checked on them. The paternal granparent was non existent. My mom let me know she was busy living her life and working to be a constant grandma.
Why are you lamenting that you can no longer burden older women? When are you going to hold the fathers accountable. Send them to their dads
@@l-kin3480 I’m guessing English is not your first language because you completely misunderstood every word. I never lamented nor did I say such a thing. Dads are not always the answer and in my case that’s not an option.
Yet yesterday a man argued with me for 45 mins about how selfish and shallow
I am for not wanting kids or wanting to date someone with kids (mind you he’s the “see my kids every other weekend” type, boy bye, be a FT FATHER then talk to me)… 😂😂😂😂 Baby these stories don’t make themselves up. I know my limits and I know I don’t have proper support in place for when I have reached my limit. Women are shamed when they ask for help, don’t ask for help, need a break, get frustrated etc but men hold little to no accountability. It’s crazy. Y’all better stop having kids just cause you can 🥱🙄
30:09 this woman is part of the problem.
Meanwhile there’s tons of mothers who keep their kids to look good and for selfish reasons and are toxic and mentally abuse and traumatize their kids their whole lives because they can’t acknowledge their issues
Why would they interview minors? She don’t make sense 28:55
I’m sure the fathers didn’t want them before they made it to earth… but she said she “ *was having them for herself and she would give them all the love they need* ” when no one person can love 5 children enough… themz the facts
The way you are so sure you might be one of the fathers🤷🏾♀️
@@danielen359
Im a Plan B salesmen ❤️❤️❤️
@@danielen359IM THE VILLAGE that’s had to take care of other people’s “WILD NIGHT CREATIONS”!!!
@@user-tv7kh7vw5m sincerely, it reads as the village who condemned this woman no matter her choices (to procreate or give her children to cps) but conveniently left the fathers responsibility out of the conversation
Remember they can’t vet and they “just fell in love”
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Knowing how BAD the CPS system is, why would you willingly give your child to the CPS? A lot of people DO NOT deserve kids!!!!!!!!
They don’t care…
You’re the first person to call that!
It’s all how brave and don’t judge
But she maybe helping her kids to experience new traumas on top of being unwanted and unprepared for
Three children... from THREE different men... ummm okay 😞 smh
It's called a "selfish act".... bringing children into a "struggling world"... sad...
She's made BAD choices... BAD decisions... BAD judgements... time and time again...
I guess... you can say... she has FINALLY made a "good move"... and given the children a chance at some normalcy in their young lives... while she finds her way... and builds a more stable foundation for her future and theirs too... let's hope...
I pray there will be NO MORE babies in her plans...
5 children from 4 men(1 set of twins)
@@user-tv7kh7vw5m
WHAT?!
Five children?!... FOUR Fathers?!... jeeezus!
@@lencicollier6492
That’s why I’m going off in this comment section… she was living foul and now her kids are suffering!!!
@user-tv7kh7vw5m
Good Lawd!... smdh
Yep... She is NOT a responsible person...
Every child deserves a "good parent"... but... EVERY adult does NOT deserve to have a child...
She is a "selfish adult" for carelessly having so many babies... I am glad she released the children to the State...
She just doing what she shamed the fathers+ for doing… abandoned them
And they should be shamed too. If they were taking care of their children maybe she would not have to give them away
@@danielen359
Women have final choice!!!
She chose and she chose and she chose to give them away ❤️
@@user-tv7kh7vw5mand her final choice is to dump them kids off to CPS.
Mother don’t HAVE to stay and raise them just like the fathers.
@user-tv7kh7vw5m true, but males have the first choice to not ejaculate in a woman. Dominoe effect.
A lot of men leave instead of unaliving the mother and child but we still call them deadbeats… So you don’t get a reward for leaving… unless all deadbeats do!
I need to comment on this right now about the whole crying thing. I have trauma for my childhood and I cannot cry or produce real tears. I can wailing and that is a type of crying wailing is a type of crying. They have been said this lady asked for help. She asked for help from her family her friends from the kids other parent nobody wanted these kids. She went to the fire department. They didn’t want to help. They called the police on her. the police came and took these kids assumed that they were being abused and neglected rather than she was just trying to surrender them, took them for for interviewing The ladies threatened her and said basically you better hope they don’t find anything other than that just their dependence and they need help because their dependence and can’t care for themselves. Mother who really truly need help, but who was worried about the law sit there they would’ve left. Can we stop being so fucking judgmental in this day and age?with reproductive health on the line and people not being able to access termination those of us who are largely black and can’t access termination
I think she is really brave for asking for help and taking her kids there. I think she’s really brave for sticking around and waiting to see what the outcome was and also to ask if she could bring her kids clothes there and then lady shamed her and say well you know they don’t want bedbugs and the lady was like I don’t have bedbugs, but I can understand.
My husband and i both had the sad thoughts to give our son up for two years since he was born . The sad reality we can never bring ourselves to do it because we didnt just go through all this crap - family narcissistic abuse , poverty , loss of freedom , debt , sleep less nights and health problem for us both . We thought about it due to being at the point of homelessness living with his dad because my parents are abusive towards all of us .. they spoiled my son with candy, pushed boundaries and snapped when they didnt reenforce healthy boundaries, they worked my husband and i to a point of being literally sick and the verbal abuse ro hurt us and turn us against each other - it pushed us together . It was so bad we packed a bag and left , came back for our stuff and no contact.. my child had went through weaks of sugar withdrawal and they made it to where financially we could not leave without doing anything drastic , we had nothing when we left . . I had the door slammed in my face because i couldnt give all the rent money and i had to make sure my family had food and keep my car bill paid and my dad told me to pay it any time in the month and it was my mother saying i stole things , im trashing their house - i was the only one cleaning it . , im just using them so i dont have to pay my own bills , claimed myself and my husband is abusive and threatened cps on me .. for weaks we were asked can my baby stay for the weekend without us .. the only person in my family that checked in on me personally and told me i love you was my grandma in a text .. my husbands side of the family pulled what little resources they had to make sure we are taken care of and that is doesnt have to come to giving up our child for his betterment . Its out of pure selfishness we are fighting for our child . I wont lie to you .
Y’all really should have thought about most of those situations before bringing a child into this world…Its unfortunate that y’all’s negligence placed the child in this situation 😔
@hasley247 what exactly am I suppose to do , put him back .. he's already here for one and for 2 I had a car , was not in debt , a place , a stable marriage and a job .. lack of child care , medical injuries , hospital debt from a c section and birth when I had the birth fully paid for at another facility, had a mom that love bombed me and said don't worry family is here for you and sung a different tune once she knew I was vulnerable.. yeah think about what
My husband and i both had the sad thoughts to give our son up for two years since he was born . The sad reality we can never bring ourselves to do it because we didnt just go through all this crap - family narcissistic abuse , poverty , loss of freedom , debt , sleep less nights and health problem for us both . We thought about it due to being at the point of homelessness living with his dad because my parents are abusive towards all of us .. they spoiled my son with candy, pushed boundaries and snapped when they didnt reenforce healthy boundaries, they worked my husband and i to a point of being literally sick and the verbal abuse ro hurt us and turn us against each other - it pushed us together . It was so bad we packed a bag and left , came back for our stuff and no contact.. my child had went through weaks of sugar withdrawal and they made it to where financially we could not leave without doing anything drastic , we had nothing when we left . . I had the door slammed in my face because i couldnt give all the rent money and i had to make sure my family had food and keep my car bill paid and my dad told me to pay it any time in the month and it was my mother saying i stole things , im trashing their house - i was the only one cleaning it . , im just using them so i dont have to pay my own bills , claimed myself and my husband is abusive and threatened cps on me .. for weaks we were asked can my baby stay for the weekend without us .. the only person in my family that checked in on me personally and told me i love you was my grandma in a text .. my husbands side of the family pulled what little resources they had to make sure we are taken care of and that is doesnt have to come to giving up our child for his betterment . Its out of pure selfishness we are fighting for our child . I wont lie to you .
My husband and i both had the sad thoughts to give our son up for two years since he was born . The sad reality we can never bring ourselves to do it because we didnt just go through all this crap - family narcissistic abuse , poverty , loss of freedom , debt , sleep less nights and health problem for us both . We thought about it due to being at the point of homelessness living with his dad because my parents are abusive towards all of us .. they spoiled my son with candy, pushed boundaries and snapped when they didnt reenforce healthy boundaries, they worked my husband and i to a point of being literally sick and the verbal abuse ro hurt us and turn us against each other - it pushed us together . It was so bad we packed a bag and left , came back for our stuff and no contact.. my child had went through weaks of sugar withdrawal and they made it to where financially we could not leave without doing anything drastic , we had nothing when we left . . I had the door slammed in my face because i couldnt give all the rent money and i had to make sure my family had food and keep my car bill paid and my dad told me to pay it any time in the month and it was my mother saying i stole things , im trashing their house - i was the only one cleaning it . , im just using them so i dont have to pay my own bills , claimed myself and my husband is abusive and threatened cps on me .. for weaks we were asked can my baby stay for the weekend without us .. the only person in my family that checked in on me personally and told me i love you was my grandma in a text .. my husbands side of the family pulled what little resources they had to make sure we are taken care of and that is doesnt have to come to giving up our child for his betterment . Its out of pure selfishness we are fighting for our child . I wont lie to you .