Thinking About Leaving Social Media- It's Just Too Toxic

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024

Komentáře • 113

  • @meep_murp8758
    @meep_murp8758 Před měsícem +32

    I deleted my facebook and made every other social 100% private. The internet has turned into an overbearing mother that cannot resist the urge to punish you for saying the wrong thing.

  • @Jay50113
    @Jay50113 Před měsícem +27

    Chest pains? Better see your physician. It may be something serious.Don’t stress yourself out.

  • @sntmdsa3628
    @sntmdsa3628 Před měsícem +10

    Leave social media period. Don’t even show your face online use an avatar. We are living in the age where you want to minimize your personal information online. People who show their face and real name on profiles are behind.

  • @DEA1230TV2
    @DEA1230TV2 Před měsícem +21

    Sometimes the algorithm isn’t on your side when you are trying to build your platform. Don’t delete your content. I could just say take a break from it for at least a week and then come back to it.

  • @TomHuckACAB
    @TomHuckACAB Před měsícem +2

    I was a programmer for years. I quit and became a cook. The money is not as good, but It has been 1 million times better for my mental health. .

  • @Jay50113
    @Jay50113 Před měsícem +14

    Let the man take a break.

  • @blackamerican40
    @blackamerican40 Před měsícem +12

    Please see a doctor and have him or her prescribe a really strong anxiety medication. Get a full check up too. 😢😗 Kevin died from extremely high blood pressure.

  • @curtish9499
    @curtish9499 Před měsícem +10

    I recommend taking breaks from social media 😊

  • @curtish9499
    @curtish9499 Před měsícem +11

    I feel you, Shawn. I've had my moments of anxiety too, even with having a job. Stay strong, Bro 💪

  • @mmafan3
    @mmafan3 Před měsícem +13

    I've been listening to you for about 6 years on and off and you have provided some great and valuable information.

  • @jamiedoyle449
    @jamiedoyle449 Před měsícem +3

    I’m 34 and got rid of my social media 12 years ago. I never have looked back. It’s a great decision unless you’re using it to promote business. Family and real friends should have your phone number. Get rid of it! You will be less stressed in general.

  • @officiallydreama4412
    @officiallydreama4412 Před měsícem +5

    If socials are doing that to you, then yes leave. Put everything to your website

  • @RocketmanRockyMatrix
    @RocketmanRockyMatrix Před měsícem +8

    Don't quit. Just take a break for a week or 2.

  • @j-rob3363
    @j-rob3363 Před měsícem +7

    Stay strong. You may need to take a mental break. 💪🏾💪🏾

  • @blastradius9136
    @blastradius9136 Před měsícem +5

    Social media imo has cause your business to suffer. I would take a break and come back just focusing on just promoting your books.

  • @BLACK7MA
    @BLACK7MA Před měsícem +2

    Talk about chest pain is no joke I'm having it right now. Shawn I hope we don't lose you the black community needs you. You have a unique way when you're delivering your message and not many people can demenstrate that kind of talent.

  • @KooL_D
    @KooL_D Před měsícem +1

    I understand this more than you know. Be strong for us man

  • @myronl505
    @myronl505 Před měsícem +2

    Shawn, as so many people in the comment section have said. Just take a break for a while or cut down your videos frequency. I know that you are fully aware that if your content wasn't positive, (especially for BP) you wouldn't have these issues. It simply means that channels like yours and Harvey's (Your World), as well as others are countering the agenda that WS and mainstream media promotes. Kevin Samuels had poor health. Get yours in check and keep it pushing. Your work is very much appreciated.

  • @EmperorOfTheDamned
    @EmperorOfTheDamned Před měsícem +6

    I feel you Shawn! But it's alot of low intelligent people participating in this behavior. I think you should have moderators because you don't have to tolerate that. I appreciate you brotha!💯

  • @ShadowbannedbyYoutube
    @ShadowbannedbyYoutube Před měsícem +1

    We need you here bro. I’m from Chicago. I appreciate your efforts out here on this “internet “

  • @kevinwilliams4294
    @kevinwilliams4294 Před měsícem +5

    Please be encouraged, Brother. Keep going💯

  • @EsauistheCaucasian
    @EsauistheCaucasian Před měsícem +3

    Thank you for all you've done. You deserve a well deserved break.

  • @ddubb3000
    @ddubb3000 Před měsícem +5

    Hey love your channel and content brother keep your head up and do your thing haters always gonna hate ! 💪🏾

  • @torritaite2880
    @torritaite2880 Před měsícem

    That's a shame. Because we need more voices like yours. I get why you feel that way.

  • @RocketmanRockyMatrix
    @RocketmanRockyMatrix Před měsícem +6

    Go to Jones Beach over the weekend.

  • @AnthonyChobotdoespopcult-jz7jr
    @AnthonyChobotdoespopcult-jz7jr Před měsícem +16

    We need you buddy

  • @dwood78part23
    @dwood78part23 Před měsícem +4

    As a "Watchman on the Wall" it'll be a shame if you have to do this in order to keep your sanity. Sadly, it's going to get worse as these trolls start coming into FBA online spaces in order to get us to get in line with supporting Harris.
    Your voice is in FBA Online Spaces is very important Shawn. But so your mental health. So do what's in your best interest.

  • @tyreselovell
    @tyreselovell Před měsícem +2

    Have you heard about what’s apparently cool with my generation right now?
    CZcams 20v1 and see for yourself…..at this point I just want to live in a small cabin in the country, raise a family and grow my own food/ hunt or fish for it. Throw the cell phones away.

  • @niyas7138
    @niyas7138 Před měsícem +3

    Best to put your health first

  • @resistancepublishing
    @resistancepublishing Před měsícem +20

    Kevin Samuel died because of poor health. Take a break and think about changing up your format.

    • @KallusGarnet
      @KallusGarnet Před měsícem +2

      Kevin is a primary example of all styles and no substance, people are suckers for shinny things.

  • @cortezforever
    @cortezforever Před měsícem +10

    You are one of the last real CZcamsrs left. Don't worry, CZcams will lose massive market share soon when web3 decentralised data comes to market. There will be 1000 CZcams like platforms. After August NVIDIA releases the Blackwell B100, meaning you will be able to turn your book series into video animation like Showrunner AI and Open AI Sora, with the click of a button. Don't quit, we need you. set up a go fund me, go on holiday.

  • @RealIvy1
    @RealIvy1 Před měsícem +1

    all love, just take some time to re-adjust, you made it this far, you can make it even farther. Don’t give up

  • @jaredgardner5968
    @jaredgardner5968 Před měsícem +7

    Please don’t. You are needed.

  • @uncle_ben_rices_nephew
    @uncle_ben_rices_nephew Před měsícem +1

    I’m with you Mr. James. Please do what you deem is necessary for your mental health.

  • @MissCandy350
    @MissCandy350 Před měsícem

    A lot of people on social media aren't necessarily intellectually capable of thinking and responding critically, and don't understand meaningful engagement without being toxic. It's getting worse, especially during this election season when everybody is so emotionally charged. On top of that, people are losing their minds because they're stretched super thin in every way. I suffer from anxiety too. Uncertainty and lack of resources can send anybody over the edge. Sometimes you have to make yourself less visible and limit nonessential contact in order to focus on your mental health.

  • @Saint.questions
    @Saint.questions Před měsícem

    Just discovered your channel(black goths and alts in media). And have been enjoying your content. Thank you for all you do. :)

  • @Daniel-sl4gf
    @Daniel-sl4gf Před měsícem +2

    I get what your saying about the toxicity of social media, and I agree with u 100%, Shawn. Since I'm not a content creator, i can more easily dodge the toxic crap of those despicable nut jobs. Ppl can be a**holes, whether online or offline. U gotta expect that from them. But if your experiencing chest pains and extreme anxiety, then your health should be your priority above all else! And if stepping back from social media is what u need, than that's completely valid.
    Take care of yourself, and know that there are others who understand what you're going through.

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks564 Před měsícem +2

    I know what you mean about anxiety Shawn, every time I have bad indigestion, I think I'm having a H.A... since finding out I'm prone to blood clots 🔹️ take a mental Health break Shawn as long as you need.. don't delete your channel

  • @br1kw1k3rburstofspeed4
    @br1kw1k3rburstofspeed4 Před měsícem

    It's always best to put emphasis on your health. Take as much time off as you need Shawn. You deserve it.

  • @kdub2229
    @kdub2229 Před měsícem

    Shawn is it possible to just take a break ? But NOT quit altogether ? U still have alot of us that look forward to your channel. We have learned so much from you. Especially about how the "Welfare State " was created , which gave us a lot of needed answers .
    Don't forget most of the toxic individuals are from the obama phone era , NOT the intellectuals .
    Try to do what David Carroll used to do , " Delete and Block "! Sounds like a football move.
    UNfortunately Shawn , most so-called adults have NEVER grown up or matured.
    Try taking a break first ( 3 months ) or so . And also try updating your office chair , these chairs can really work your body and back over as time moves on . I'm 6'1' 225 lbs , I had to get a larger man's office chair. Shaq makes a line of chairs for larger Men too.
    PLEASE , do NOT delete your catalog of work, You have worked too hard creating it to just throw it away. Also talk to Mr. Chris & Co, and see what he suggests ?
    Don't forget David Carroll also said he only debates his INTELLECTUAL equals.
    God Bless you . Take care of yourself.

  • @maribrunson4464
    @maribrunson4464 Před měsícem +1

    I hope you don't because I truly enjoy your commentary on various subjects. I do not always agree with you, but your opinions are highly respected. We need more people who speak positive thoughts.

  • @ib272
    @ib272 Před měsícem

    Never had any social media (some say youtube is ok) and even thinking about cutting that way back and eventually out maybe.

  • @seanminkins7701
    @seanminkins7701 Před měsícem +1

    Be encouraged, Bro. Shawn James. Do what is best for you. You may want to take at least a 30-day (month) break. Social media can be overbearing and overwhelming! Even the goat himself "MJ" took a break from Basketball !

  • @tajshemesh5844
    @tajshemesh5844 Před měsícem +1

    I understand, fam.

  • @tr8086
    @tr8086 Před měsícem +1

    Stay strong Bro !!!

  • @reginaldblaylock6937
    @reginaldblaylock6937 Před měsícem

    Don't let this mess bother you Shawn.

  • @reginaldblaylock6937
    @reginaldblaylock6937 Před měsícem +1

    Take a break Shawn renew your self.

  • @SoulSir5vr
    @SoulSir5vr Před měsícem +1

    You have my support whatever decisions you decide to make brother Shawn. You know where to find me if and when you need me my friend!!! B1

  • @rckc.1719
    @rckc.1719 Před měsícem

    please Mr Shawn get away from the stress.....................be safe

  • @gabrielbenitez9257
    @gabrielbenitez9257 Před měsícem +2

    Take a break from social media Shawn, go see a doctor and whatever the doctor tells you, just take a long break and promote your books without stressing yourself.

  • @zacharyjames1578
    @zacharyjames1578 Před měsícem +2

    Whatever you decide to do I wish you best of luck.

  • @tealc8953
    @tealc8953 Před měsícem

    Take break and take care of your health brother. ✌️

  • @freelyyellow2719
    @freelyyellow2719 Před měsícem

    Im sad to hear this. please dont leave. i listen to your videos everyday you bring realistic logic and common sense we need from your generation.much needed . i grew up in NY/Bronx area a lot of your talking points resonate. but i understand social media is not good for people with anxiety i dont even have a Facebook or snap chat im a private person and a woman who lives alone. i hate this because all the good content creators that speak truth get banned and flagged, all these sick hateful, fake, psychopaths have millions of followers/supporters.we in the last days right is wrong/wrong is right. Dont let these trolls win.

  • @corruptauthor
    @corruptauthor Před měsícem +1

    I got off fb last month tried of bad news and negative energy

  • @blackymadd336
    @blackymadd336 Před měsícem

    Well, I really don't want to see you go but it's for the betterment of your health then so be it. Whatever decision you make regarding this unfortunate situation I support you. Have a good day.

  • @ibrahimturay491
    @ibrahimturay491 Před měsícem

    You cannot quit you tube. Everything else quit. I like hearing your views and talking points. I only use you tube and nothing else. Please teacher keep teaching

  • @FlavoredGenuine
    @FlavoredGenuine Před měsícem

    Do what is best for you, Shawn.
    We all need a break away from social media so we can focus on ourselves and maintain our health.

    • @JackDamjien77
      @JackDamjien77 Před měsícem

      How will you support yourself if you quit sir?

  • @danettemitchell3086
    @danettemitchell3086 Před měsícem

    I have been viewing your channel for a short while and have learned so much. I understand how you feel. Do what's best for your physical and mental health. Will miss your commentary. Stay strong and God bless you in whatever decision you make.

  • @byronspencer1554
    @byronspencer1554 Před měsícem +4

    CZcams Is social media! Just saying.

  • @clairestanfield-ui1fg
    @clairestanfield-ui1fg Před měsícem +2

    a break would be a good idea💡💡💡 Too much stupidity online now.

  • @frederickwalker740
    @frederickwalker740 Před měsícem

    I learned a long time ago not to take myself to seriously.

  • @blu3_enjoy
    @blu3_enjoy Před měsícem

    I hope you keep posting to CZcams at the very least, I enjoy listening to your opinions on just about anything.

  • @williebisrael2979
    @williebisrael2979 Před měsícem +1

    We will be here when you get back brother

  • @andrewayne225
    @andrewayne225 Před měsícem

    Social Media can be very toxic.

  • @rolandhandy9030
    @rolandhandy9030 Před měsícem +1

    These media platforms are tools. You may need to modify the way in which you use them. If God told you to continue he will provide you with all you need to complete the task. I would like to see you teach a course.

  • @Bronxguyanese
    @Bronxguyanese Před měsícem +2

    Shawn. Go for a check up buddy. I see my doctor regularly and go to the gym and at times even church to check my mental health. Btw my sister attended IS 184 and my brother went to Park West high school and graduated in 1991. And black social media is the worse. David carroll predicted this stuff.

    • @ShawnSJames
      @ShawnSJames  Před měsícem

      Went to a doctor last year for heartburn. My heart is fine, and so is my gut. Problem is I'm anxious because I don't have a steady income and I work on social media where everything can be lost in a moment because someone gets upset over something I say in a video.

  • @bobbythisisgreatthankgodpl5039

    MAY HOLY FATHER PLEASE WATCH OVER MY BROTHER AND KEEP HIM STRONG AND SAFE IN YOUR BEAUTIFUL WORLD AND TEACH HIM TO EAT FROM JESUS BE SAFE CALL ON 'THE HOLY FATHER PLEASE LOVE 'THE HOLY FATHER WITH ALL YOUR SOUL!😮

  • @gamingwhileitshot8040
    @gamingwhileitshot8040 Před měsícem +1

    Try to work on getting over that anxiety. Don't let it get to you. God helps those who helps themselves. It's never easy. It's a journey.

  • @georgewright5631
    @georgewright5631 Před měsícem +8

    Dont do it we need you

  • @user-cv7hv2oy8t
    @user-cv7hv2oy8t Před měsícem

    I think we, as Black men, need black men like Shawn James who speak with logic and reasoning so we as black men can assert ourselves with good character and good conduct. We can't let negativity get the best of us. An elder in my family lived to see her 96th birthday. I had another elder in my family live to see his 98th birthday. The key to longevity is stay positive, think positive; connect yourself with the Most High God. Listen to the God inside of you, so that you can connect to the God outside of you. Most of all, focus on all the good moments, both past and present, that occurred in your life; be aware of the bad but don't dwell on the bad.

  • @ManiacMayhem7256
    @ManiacMayhem7256 Před měsícem +1

    Definitely take a break

  • @1983jcheat
    @1983jcheat Před měsícem

    All the best Shawn. I had podcasts put out about me. I understand. If you ever need someone to talk to, you have my contact info.

  • @flowzo75
    @flowzo75 Před měsícem

    Have you tried other platforms? I hear "locals" is a great one and you can charge a fee and you don't have to deal with the algo issues there.
    I value your knowledge and show. Give this a chance and see how it goes. You got nothing to lose. Plenty people would be willing to contribute to your show such as myself. Take a look and make a video so we know if you are going to move to another platform with more favorable terms for content creators.

  • @DarkroomMedia007
    @DarkroomMedia007 Před měsícem

    ❤ Feel better Shawn

  • @omiorahman6283
    @omiorahman6283 Před měsícem +1

    get well soon

  • @JuwanBuchanan
    @JuwanBuchanan Před měsícem +1

    We all need a break sometimes. I’m thinking about taking a break from Twitter outside of business reason’s because Elon turned it into a racist right wing cesspool

  • @claudiaschneider5744
    @claudiaschneider5744 Před měsícem

    Social media - even you tube - became very much toxic. Take a break from all that unhealthy stuff on social media.

  • @thelivingear990
    @thelivingear990 Před měsícem

    Sorry if any of my silly trolling has contributed to some of your stress levels. You seem a cool person and I would hate to see you go away all together. You may need a good vacation, even if it is just a road trip.

  • @RocketmanRockyMatrix
    @RocketmanRockyMatrix Před měsícem +2

    What about the state or government jobs I sent you? Any response?

  • @drizzey680
    @drizzey680 Před měsícem +1

    Keep going Bro, We love your videos. 💯

  • @Tony_Black42
    @Tony_Black42 Před měsícem

    Unless you can use social media for business i don't see the point of it. All it has is a bunch of superficial, judgemental people on it. Use it to network .

  • @Soul_Dood
    @Soul_Dood Před měsícem +2

    Stop 🛑 we need you in the niggaverse Shawn 🔥🔥

    • @johnathanwoods1223
      @johnathanwoods1223 Před měsícem +1

      Hell! Even the strongest soldier 💪🏿🪖💪🏿 has to take a rest. There's enough madness for him to expound on when he gets back.

    • @Soul_Dood
      @Soul_Dood Před měsícem +1

      @@johnathanwoods1223 that's true a good break can do someone good

    • @Jay50113
      @Jay50113 Před měsícem

      People are so selfish. If the man needs to take a break,let him.

    • @Soul_Dood
      @Soul_Dood Před měsícem

      I was being sarcastic buddy ​@@Jay50113

  • @Osiris909
    @Osiris909 Před měsícem +2

    Simply take the time to walk away. You're doing 2 to 3 videos a day for a number of years. As I said before create separate channels for certain content. Books are not selling is because that is not what people desire. People are wanting books by Quan Millz because his sales really are up. Best to refocus on new characters and another genre (example Sci-Fi). Kevin Samuels died because he was fussing and arguing with single mothers day after day. Kevin thought he was some kind of pseudo psychotherapist. He wasn't. He had no training in that field. It weight heavy on this mind in stress. That killed him along with drinking too much Red Bulls.

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady182 Před měsícem +3

    Just block people

  • @johnathanwoods1223
    @johnathanwoods1223 Před měsícem +2

    Good. Take some mental health time away from Satan's playground and focus on you and your family. Youve given more than enough source material to help trying blacks to navigate.

  • @yardknight4953
    @yardknight4953 Před měsícem

    Take a 30-day break

  • @KallusGarnet
    @KallusGarnet Před měsícem

    Make your own website, its not hard.

  • @michaelpeterson3736
    @michaelpeterson3736 Před měsícem +1

    You bring up the late Kevin Samuels to make a talking point, when you have been one of his harshest critics even after his death. How hypocritical. You may not have agreed with him.But he was doing What he thought was right to try and elevate black men.