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Raising a puppy is no joke. It has nothing to do with the Insta-fantasy of dog ownership we see everywhere. Here are some of the highs and lows I've experienced in the first week of living with my 9-week-old puppy, Vilk.
P.S. We're doing well, I think, and I'm supporting him as he grows and learns about the world around him. Love this little guy 🐺
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This video is very honest. Yes, I could tell you it’s been a breeze, all rainbows and butterflies, and only show the really good parts. But I chose not to do that, because I like to think you’d prefer me to be honest about the ups and downs.
Unfortunately not everyone in the comments seems to understand that. That’s fine - maybe you’ve never had a dog or maybe you prefer to only see perfection on social media. You can keep your judgment to yourselves 🙏
And if you have felt some of what I’m feeling - I see you! I feel you! And from what I hear, it does get better ☺️ So much love even in the tough times!! ❤️
lots of people like to think they know everything just ignore them, follow the advice and training you have learned and just stick with it and all will be well eva :). nice thing about you living this lifestyle is you can take as much time as you want in between trips to train and bond with your doggo.
I appreciate your honesty. Thank you 🙏
You are doing your best eva…and that is all that one can do❤️
Eva don’t worry. We dogg owners know what your going thu. It gets better. Raising an puppy is tough. Just try to get an daily routine. And when it get to tough try to find an friend to take care of vic for half an day. Also try to reach out to some youtube trainers for advice and guidance. Helpful for you and also for your viewers. And lastly enjoy every second. The grow up so fast.
get it Eva! Its easy to judge.
You’re doing amazing! When I found Camper and brought him into the Prius I cried at least once a week at least for the first 6 months! It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, taking him in, training him, teaching him he’s not alone in the wild anymore, and truthfully he is still a challenge but I can tell you this… he was 100% worth the blood (literally hahah from squirrel chasing off cliffs & big falls hahah), sweat and tears! The challenging moments become some of the happiest moments. You have a best friend and a pal for life. I like to think of this a lot too, we are the only human they will know, we are their entire world, and how lucky are we to receive that unconditional love! CAN’T WAIT TO MEET VILK AND YOU! XOXOOX
Camper is amazing because of all the ❤️ and attention he gets. You have a great dog.
Awesome comment, Nikki. I love you and Camper!! We got a puppy at the end of April and I love her but sometimes I want to punch myself in the throat bc it’s so challenging. And I have a husband, an extra pair of hands!! You girls are doing it solo so hats off to you both!! ❤️
Camper’s an amazing dog, in spite of his squirrelsphobia😁
U 2 shoud meet and make a memorable video together .
Nikki!!! You and Eva should totally meet up for a dog walk!!! you guys are both in the usa for the first time ever
I perceived Eva as a very strong, empowered, confident and courageous woman and for that I admire her so much. But what I admire most is she’s also not afraid of showing her vulnerability. That’s honest, real, and she’s also human. Carry on Eva as you’re such an inspiration. Will be here with your journey. Cheers!
It really does show a much more intimate look into how substantive these challenges she faces actually are. Experiencing amazing adventure and witnessing the surreality of beauty around the world, is not an easy feat. Well said…
Empowered by what?
When I got my puppy (also a working line GSD), I cried a lot the first 6 months. Now that he’s 6 1/2 years old, it’s so much easier, but I also feel sad to see him aging. The time has passed so quickly. Try to appreciate the moments even as hard as they are because it goes so quickly.
Mine is going to be 9
I cried every day for about 3 weeks when I got my puppy. I called the shelter twice to bring her back. I truly thought I'd made a HUGE mistake!!!! But here we are, 8 years later, and she is the absolute love of my life. It took time to figure out how to navigate our lives together but once we did, it was pure magic. You'll get there!!!!!!
Oh I am so happy you persisted! You guys must have an amazing bond. Lots of love❤️
@@evazubeck a dream puppy should not be a nightmare 0:37 you'll be ok 18:44
So true....the same happened to me. But I persisted and Max is the love of my life.
When the puppy matures and starts staring deeply into your eyes, the journey is complete.
Yes!! Its such a satisfaction to see your pups grow and obey but most importantly, that connection and that stare man... Melts your heart.
I always found it creepy when animals stare at me lol.
you will have complete instructions to fill the dog bowl, regularly.... yup, just from the gaze in their eyes.
@@Atrayus1984 on some primal level, they wonder if you taste good.
@@curiousbystander9193 HA, I knew it!
I don’t know what its like having a puppy but it sounds exactly like having a newborn. When you were overwhelmed and teary, it was exactly how i felt once i had my newborn at home. That feeling of loving him so much yet wanting to escape for a few hours, that’s exactly how i felt with my baby. You brought back memories! I would say its the lowest i have ever felt with him.
Having a dog or wolf-dog puppy is NOTHING like having a human newborn.
As a person that has owned several dogs, let me just say this. Vilk seems like a good puppy. Soon you will be able to take him on your runs. I encourage you to get him started ASAP. As much as you travel, it can only benefit you to have him with you at all (most) times. As he matures, he will become your best friend and guardian. Loyalty is what you will eventually end up with, with Vilk. And on a positive note, the runs will make him want to crash afterwards giving you a new time slot to edit your post's 🙂
Vilk is probably thinking, "She's so much more work than I was expecting!" 😁 Don't beat yourself up so much; you're doing fine.
@Greg B - she is. It is a slow process, and both side are learning to read each other. Some people overthik this too much. At the end, this is an animal you have to take care of, protect if you have to, a member of your "family". Also driven by instincts in a lot of cases, so you have to remember that too. And dogs are good at reading a body language too, the same with most animals, even facial expressions, tone of the voice, and so on. They will know if you are excited, upset, happy.
At the end... the puppy is responsibility too. And you have to know that at the end. It will all gets better. Taxing experience after few days/weeks? Nah. Not even close. For him, for the puppy you will be there for all of his/her life. And you will be there where the dog/cat/any other animal will die too. And you have to be there for it, at this moment. But for you it will be just a short part of your life. So learn from that. And in a way, learn from each other.
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I wish Vilk the best of luck. With patience, he'll probably get Eva to do what he wants in time 😁😛.
@@safe-keeper1042 - Exactly that! At the end, in a way, we are the "servants" - especially with cats :)
He looked more like a wolf pup when he was smaller before his coat shed and changed a bit.
I'm 62 and all I've ever had are German shepherds, many types like eastern, western Czech etc. It does get better Eva and your time and love will pay off. Through him, you will automatically become more aware of your surroundings ( where he looks, you'll look) and when he gets bigger, just the look on his face may deter any bad people from bothering you. My wife and I are so happy you found him. We always worry about you.
Absolutely agree the payoff will be 10 fold. He will keep her safe .
Yesss the first year is soooo hard, but when they become adults they become completly different. I have now 3 dogs and they are now so polite
@@laurabf777 The good part is that pup's first year is equal to babies first 6-8 years.
I'm 42 and have always had Malinois since I was elementary age. Two that were mine and that I always raised from 7, 8 weeks puppies (my parents were products of the 70s and 80s, and loved animals, my dad got first Malinois male (Flap, import from France) when I was 6 and I made it mine, it was my dog, he got a female (Katie) and made that one mine too (constantly with me where I went, spoiled em), then on in my family the Malinois were always mine). Got two now (one under my feet/desk, the other plopped against side of my chair). I miss their puppy days, for the most part - but Malinois, being Malinois, and I hated caging mine (I'd be gone, 8, 9, 10, however many hours at work and I hated the idea of cooping them in a cage for all that time), so every set I've had destroyed a couple houses (and one college apartment) in their early years (doors - including sliding glass ones they learned how to take off the track, carpeting, walls, appliances, furniture). I'll do it again, and again, and again, till day I die. its just part of having dogs (at least the kind I get). They're always devoted and I'm used to them always being there, and I'll never give that up.
@@marchuitt I love it. Those are amazing dogs as well Marc. The hard times today are what we laugh at tomorrow.
This is just the training phase; you got this!!! When he's older and well trained you'll get the reward of a lifetime. Hang in there!!!
P.S. You're doing a great job!
One day, Vilk will go on runs with her!
Few days and she's already crying and whining.. She don't got this
I came here to say essentially the same thing. Puppies ARE hard. That is IF youre actually doing the work. The good news is, all of that effort does pay off. Youre going to have a wonderfully bonded and focused dog who will be up for any challenge you put before him. The breed is brilliant, but yes a TON of energy. Thats great for you and your jogging though!
I have a large pair of dogs in our Fifthwheel fulltime (pretty much a similar RV and Layout to the one you saw in texas), and we DONT jog everyday... So we got lazy breeds. My wife worked SO hard with them as puppies and theyre pretty well trained. Theyre enjoying the life on the road.
I do know that German Shepherd dogs can be pretty people shy and not like strangers if theyre not socialized a lot early on. Perhaps thats the goal if youre more interested in personal protection, But sometimes a non-socialized dog can be a right pain in the butt. HAHA.
Good luck, Eva. Youre doing great!
Hi, Eva. I would suggest you get a ramp or ladder for him to get in and out of Odyssey, he will be doing it at least 6 times a day, probably a lot more, it could damage his joints.
It is quite normal to feel overwhelmed, but to me it looks like you're doing fine so far :)
I would like to offer another advice, especially for having Vilk off leash, if no one else already suggested it: find a secure, fenced in spot (it can even be a house), stop near a tree or some big object, ignore him so he gets bored and starts to investigate around and, when he's not looking at you, hide behind the tree. His eye sight is poor, so you don't have to be invisible. When he'll realize he lost you, he will panic a bit and start to search for you. Preferably wait for him to find you and, when he does, make a big deal out of it: treats, toys, ball, etc.; if he can't find you and you see him take off in some direction, call him back, before he gets too far, so he doesn't get lost or something (this is why it is important to be in a secure area, where he can't actually get lost), and then try again. Do this a lot, in as many places as you can.
This will teach him that, if he's too focused on other things, he will lose you, so he will begin to keep a close eye on you, you should find it more and more difficult to actually get away from him, which in turn will mean that he will not get lost or something on a hike, HE will the one keeping track of you, and making sure you don't "escape".
Hope this helps ! Good luck with the little one :)
This is a good tip for confident dog. An insecure dog you'll traumatize with that "trick". Most trainers don't recommend that anymore.
@@ooOxeniaOoo Vilk comes from working gsd lines and from the very little i've seen of him, he seemed pretty confident, at least for this type of "stress".
@@mirceaparvulescu7925 I agree :)
Yea, hip issues are big dog issues when they start approaching senior years...
A well trained dog represents 1000's of hours of training from day one, everyday.
Imagine yourself watching this footage in like 5 years when a mature Vilk and you have already lived a huge amount of experiences together. What a great adventure companion you just got!
I have myself 4 dogs and 2 cats, all rescued from various places. The amount of love I get from them is something I can't put into words. Indeed, I have to wake up very early, give everyone their fair amount of attention and I basically built my life around them and their needs. It's not an easy journey but the rewards you have from them is incredible. Much love Eva from Cora, Nero, Bebe, Oreo, 3-legged-dog and Lady.
My dogs are alot older now and when I look at their puppy photos I realize that I have a smile on my face. 14 years now and I wouldn't trade a single minute for anything. Please don't worry, you'll be a great dog mom
I am 73 and had dogs all my life, best advice I have always followed is.
Ignore bad behaviour but generously reward good behaviour with love and treats especially when puppies.
Never "punish" a dog with physical abuse, or isolation, as it will only manifest as aggression or nervousness, just be firm but fair with your voice if he steps out of line, and reward him immediately when he does the right thing. That way he will respect you as his pack leader and WANT to do the right things and follow you to the end of the earth.
Socialising with other dogs while a puppy is also very important, so they learn the boundaries of play and manners to older dogs etc.....the majority of dogs are very good and very quick to work out the boundaries...if they are allowed to.
My current15 year old Lakeland/Irish Terrier cross (Frodo) is the best companion I have ever had, so well behaved that sometimes it is almost embarrassing, and gives unconditional love back six fold.....even does therapy rounds at the local old peoples Care Home
Looks like you have already formed a close bond, and as fellow travellers he will love it you will soon be inseparable.
I have a soon to be 15 year old bushland terrier who is also ridiculously well behaved, except for 2 things. He occasionally goes nuts if kept away from a dog he wants to smell. He is obsessed with the smell of hazelnut ice-cream and will try anything on his power to get it. He jumps on chairs, tables, flings himself at us & generally forgets how well behaves he normally is 🤣
Apart from that he's socially astute, quiet, asks to go the toilet, is very loving and has a keen eye on the patterns of the day. Stuff like getting his toy bear and bringing him upstairs to his bed when he feels it's time for the family to go to sleep. He is a huge personality in a small sturdy body
Almost 12 years ago I was where you are with your puppy. Today, like everyday for all these years he paid me back for any stress or difficulty he ever caused. It’s like you’re putting energy in a love account that pays you back with interest!
As a seasoned GSD parents, we laughed when you went to porta-potty and asked “where will this lead?”. Eva, you now have a GSD…..you will never be in the bathroom alone again!
It is a significant duty! You will have conflicting emotions, especially if this is your first time getting a puppy, but once you have nurtured a puppy, you will have trained him/her really effectively. IT'S A GIFT, the joy you see in every dog is priceless! We all know you're a good person, and you'll make an excellent furparent, EVA! Take it one step at a time. You'll become obsessed to adding lovely dogs one day.
Dogs teach us many things and as a puppy it is called patience, When they grow up it is loyalty and unadulterated love. It all pays off 10 fold in the end.
I sat in my kitchen, on the floor, after 2 weeks with a 2month old Ozzy (puppy dog) and thought - OMG what have I done. He is 2 now and I love him to bits. It does get easier. Dogs always need “looking after”, but the puppy stage is way more full on than a grown dog. Use the support of others if you can to have a rest. You WILL wonder how you ever lived without doggo eventually, me and Ozzy promise 🐶 😘
Aww thank you for that ❤️
Not sure where you're at, but in the USA we call them "Aussies" :)
Welcome to parenthood! The joys outweigh the challenges! You’re doing great! 💖~Cara
The Little Guy is just beautiful.
Seems like he is learning fast, too .
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Your honesty with the ups and downs is one of the things that makes your vlogs so special!! Don’t let the “know-it-alls” get you down,please. We are all imperfect, and it’s often that imperfection that makes us special.
Staying in one place, a cabin in the woods, is good decision to allow the puppy to acclimate himself to his new world.
We appreciate your openness, honesty and authenticity. That's why we love you! We don't want perfect, that just wouldn't be real. Thanks for all you share xx
Such a beautiful dog. Glad you found a companion! Dogs are amazing.
The first week I had my puppy, I was so stressed and sleep deprived I almost rear-ended someone. But it got better and now my baby is 9! I savor every moment since she’s getting up there and she’s such a good dog. It was worth the time, love and training. I love her so much.
Ah so so lovely to read you ❤️ Thank you for sharing!
Very true. I was exhausted with Schnee the first months aswell. And hopefully you will gain a lovely cuddle Buddy. She is so cute. Also, other dogs can be great trainers, so when she is old enough take advantage of the dogparks in America. I haven’t found one here in Germany yet. :-/
@counselthyself Excellent video and @Eva I think the Whistle is a great idea for future times when Vilk might stray further away form you than he should 👍
I’ve found it helpful to get a trainer. My dogs were able to cope with everything, it was me who required the right training. It made our life very easy , more relaxed, really good.
THIS!!!! 👍
have you seen her videos? do you think she's ready quit? lol, not a chance
So true. Trainers help with the dog but pur trainer said he is really training us on the psychology of the dog and techniques to use.
Yes, Totally.
Echoing so many comments here, but raising a dog is possibly the most difficult thing I've done! I thought I was prepared from having a dog growing up, I thought I did enough research. But I was crying almost every day some weeks with our puppy. It's an enormous adjustment when you're used to your routines and day to day life. You're doing great and I'm glad you found some comfort from reddit and a trainer to reassure you. (And to anyone else out there struggling with a pup, please find a local trainer, please reach out to people! You don't need to beat yourself up about it and suffer alone.)
Lol try children
Vilk is absolutely adorable!! Congrats on the awesome addition to your pack! Puppies are most definitely a ton of work and it can feel so overwhelming at times, but the hard work really is all so worth it. Having an amazing bond with a dog is an incredible feeling.
Having spent most of my life with German Shepherds Dogs (GSD's) I can tell you that the things that make them a lot of work and that cause challenges when they are puppies are the same things that make them intelligent, faithful and the best companion a person could ask for. Puppyhood is a small part of their life and believe me, you'll look back on this time with great fondness and find yourself wondering how it went by so quickly. The best part is that they seem to retain the qualities that make them so adorable and loveable as puppies throughout their entire life. Enjoy the puppyhood for as long as you can.
Hang in there. Getting a puppy is a lot of work, especially with a working line GSD! But it’s worth it and it does get easier. I’ve always compared it to having a new born for that first little while. You’re both doing great and before you know it, it won’t seem like work anymore and you will have yourself the most loving, loyal best friend as a companion. I look forward to seeing your progress together!
That means so much. Thank you ❤️
Eva, Vilk is absolutely gorgeous! The first six months are the hardest but trust me, worth every second. I’ve had German Shepherds all my life, now on number seven and you couldn’t have picked a better breed. My girl I have now just turned eleven and she’s the dog of my dreams. ❤ You got this! I never had human children, only German Shepherds. Love your channel
We talked about maternal bones and decided we are alike. Ours are for puppies! Sweet to hear you say you are on constant look out for him not find ways to do injury to himself! I still have 3 of his siblings so it's all day making sure they stick tight with me on the farm so I know what they are doing. His other siblings are doing swell chasing mops and following the wee kiddos around. But girl when you went jogging while we boated the lake with him, I wish could have seen the separation anxiety on your face twice! I know without a doubt you love him! You are a good dog trainer, too! He's doing great with his commands. Wherever you are you know this is you and Vilks second home. Safe travels!
My first time out walking my little puppy Luka, I remember feeling exactly the same way as you. I passed a little old lady at the park who said "You two have so many beautiful walks ahead of you". That comment has stuck with me through it all and makes me smile every time I think about it.
Now Luka is 10 years old, we did indeed have countless incredible walks and adventures together and I look forward to many more.
Look ahead, you are right now asking yourself "what have I done" but in no time you two will merge into each other's lives. You are doing great :)
Thank you for normalising the first few weeks of puppy life! I was so overwhelmed the first few months I had my boy - there were many tears. But with lots of perseverance, many more tears, lots of laughs he is now an incredible 3 year old who is the best buddy ever. You got this!
Love your work, and honesty, that sweet good boy Vilk! Keep up the excellent work and living out your dreams!
Thank you for your honesty, Eva! i adopted a stray dog from Romania 2,5 years ago and whoa - was I tired/exhausted/overwhelmed for the first year with her! My perfectionism + her unknown past and trauma = no easy combo... But it's gotten sooooo much better now through patience and positive training, as it did for you and Vilk 💕 I feel you!
This dog will grow up to be your best friend and your fiercest protector! I can tell you're trying really hard. Trust me the effort will totally pay off 🤗
Don't be so hard on yourself, the struggle is part of the journey. Cute pupper, he will love you for ever.
One of the best videos I have seen in the recent past. Hope your love for Vilk stays strong forever. Take good care of him always and forever as you are doing now.
Enjoy this ride! Be patient, your little furkiddo is going to be one of the best experiences in your lifetime, and everything you are experiencing is all good!! We're cheering for you and Vilk. Such a lovely doggo!!
I've raised working line GSDs I know what you are going through. You can do it, and it'll be worth it. The first year is tough, and a steep learning curve but you will end up with the smartest most loyal companion ever. I've raised other types of dogs and worked in animal shelters. Working line GSDs are different and other dog owners wouldn't get it. Join a local schutzhund club, they will help you a lot! Also it will be a good chance to socialize him, it's so important to get lots of socialization in at this age so they don't grow up aggressive towards unusual people or dogs due to fear later.
Thanks for that! Yeah looking forward to hanging out with other dogs once Vilk is fully vaccinated!
There’s beauty in imperfection! This is what your little puppy is teaching! To let go of all that! Back to earth. Thanks for being so real!
All this stress and hard work is SOOOOOO worth it Eva. Hang in there.🐾❤️🐾❤️🐾
Gorgeous animal. You're his world now. wishing you both much health and happiness together.
My Golden Retriever is just over 5 months old and some days can still be tough but it gets so much better. He will get it. That bond with discipline is all it takes with persistence. We are cheering you and Vilk on!
They can feel the energy you put out.so relax and confident.
Vilk is adorable and you are coping so well ❤. It is difficult because we love and care so much for these wonderfully and fearfully made companions. The BEST is yet to come. Much love xxx
Thank you for being perfectly imperfect and sharing it. That got me all emotional.
Welcome to pet ownership ....my dog is 13yrs old now and she came back into a puppy pretty much...I lost my whole 20s raising her, but I don't regret it. One of the best moment of my life having a dog..stay safe and stay strong Eva
I remember a short time ago you told us you were going to do things different. This was so you could enjoy life. It seems like you are still pressuring yourself to give us what we want and forgetting...we are here still. Take your time, enjoy it a little bit more. We aren't going anywhere, quit trying to please us and then we will see you at your happiest. Give yourself a little bit of credit, your audience is here for you.
Omg yes!!! This all the way. We are along for Eva's ride!
This is the part about social media that I think is scary for anyone with a soft heart - you don't ever have to be perfect Eva. As a matter of fact - it is your imperfections that MAKE you the perfect EVA. We love you. Don't be so hard on yourself - you're doing amazing things! Anyone in your shoes would feel exhausted. xo
Watching this was so valuable as I am going through the exact same thing. Thank-you Eva & it looks like it all turned out well in the end. ❤
He's so energetic he brings energy to your vlogs he will never leave you alone ❤️you are an amazing mother
I love how you love your Wilk. The fact that you showed your imperfect reality made for more compelling viewing. I think you are going to do just fine. It sounds like you are taking all the right steps to be a great doggy mama! Anybody who thinks otherwise can go . Wilk's a lucky boy.
Honest, aunthentic, and beautiful even in the hard parts. That’s what we need more of and why I appreciate your vids. Love is not always fun and easy and pretty. Sometimes love is ugly crying and being frustrated and still being present and doing what needs to be done. You’re doing great kiddo! Proud of you.
All the work you are putting in now will make it so much easier in the months to come!! Try to enjoy your time with you pup It will get better ❤️
Thank you for sharing this beautiful honest video 🤍🤍🤍
We recently got a second dog. We thought it would be easy because he was 3 years old and we are experienced owners. Just like you, we seriously underestimated the time and effort and patience involved. Owning a dog is a tremendous responsibility. It is a both a time commitment and an emotional commitment. You will get thru this! You have a great puppy there. As you've no doubt heard its very important to train them and set boundaries. Of course these things take time.
Traveling with my 2 dogs right now . Took them down from my motel room at 7am to go out . Went back to my room. Found a tick in the bed that the dogs brought back in . Make sure he is treated for fleas and ticks . Try to take him out every 3 or 4 hours . For the type of traveling you are doing he will be a great body guard . Training takes time and consistency. A little bit at a time many times a day . Dogs learn from just being around you . If you are calm they will stay calm . They can read your moods . Best of luck and don’t get frustrated . He will pick up on that .
Your imperfection and your soul keeps me coming back you so real, life long support here....
Your doing great! It’ll get so much easier. When he’s older your gonna miss his puppy days 😊 but your also gonna love having a well behaved & awesome companion. Good times ahead!
As a mother of 3 kids, I feel you 💛 the crying, the nonstop energy, the struggles, trying to get time for yourself while kids or dog sleeps 🙈
You are perfect the way you are: a loving, caring, smart, cute, determined, plant based doog mom. Dog parenting is hard but it gets better, I pawmise. 💚
You have a nice family, glad to see you are so close! Well done!
Vilk is such a beautiful dog! The more exercise he gets, the easier it will be for you. He will release a lot of that pent-up energy with exercise and will become a well-rounded and well-behaved dog. It does get better and you're well on your way to having a best friend share your experiences with you, for years to come! 🐕🦺
I totally get what you are going through, last year i got my self a pupper, it was mad hard at the start but now i dont see my life without him, he is my family "period" he is my son and i love him to the end of the world, it is tough in the start but it will 1000% get better and ul remember those days when he was smol and miss those hard days.
Aw thank you so much for your kind words! Yes, I know 100% it’s worth the investment in terms of energy, time, and attention. Love the little guy. Sending lots of love to yours⚡️
Slowly but surely you will love this experience as time goes on and everytime you feel sad your pup is going to be there to bring back happiness and joy ❤
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Even though it feels overwhelming, you guys are so cute together!
Thanks for not being scared to show the challenges and rough times that EVERYONE goes through. Even on a dream adventure like yours, Its perfectly acceptable to have days that may not be happy or even enjoyable and filled with frustration or sadness. I appreciate you displaying your honesty with us. Makes you seem more relatable then some one that only shows the picture perfect fantasy as you described. Safe travels superwoman!
OMG my puppy was so much more work than I ever expected. I was exhausted all the time. I’m glad you care! Keep on inspiring us to do hard things!
We love you! And we love that you share the raw emotion with everything… Always great videos and the dog is awesome! Keep up the great work
aww he is a good little fellow. what a beauty
Your an amazing mama to your baby. The beginnings of their life is almost always chaos and a TON of hard work. You are literally molding him so you both are intertwined together into life. Not an easy feat
This will all be well worth it as you and your bestie sit back and reminisce in a few years time. You have LOVE my friend, true and unconditional love. ❤️
Eva, thank you for sharing your vulnerability. It is real, raw and helps us journey with you.
Raising a puppy is much more than what we originally think it will be!
The amazing thing is that they grow up so fast and then sleep longer and are less demanding and become a loyal, best friend.
Keep marching on with this wonderful journey called life!
You have an amazing attitude, a great sense of adventure and exciting future ahead of you.
All the best in your journey !
What you are sharing with us Eva is real life, your real life through the lens of an adventurer!! Of course not everything is going to be rainbows and butterflies. Especially now that you have Vilk, it’s tough raising a proper puppy and it is a ful time responsibility in the begging. Keep at it you are doing great and don’t forget you need a little bit of self care through the day too. You are a great inspiration!!!
Good vibes
Much love
My first puppy that I raised it was love at first sight, and he was so calm and sweet, a perfect angel honestly I had no complaints. Second one - same breed, got her from the same lady - was a totally different story! She was so hyper and took me a while to adjust. You’re not alone. Once they get past that puppy craziness they are your ride or die best friend for life
so relatable!! I was soo exhausted when I adopted my dog and he was not even a puppy but a very scared rescue dog. I doubted my decision a lot at the beginning but now we are sooo happy. Cant imagine my life without him. You got this! You are doing great!!
He's a beautiful doggy! Dogs are just giving you their unconditional love. When they're puppies it looks different from when they are grown. Hang in there!
Wonderful, heartfelt, honest video. Looks like you are doing a great job, and I think getting input from Rachel and some of your friends with puppies likely helped calm some of that "what was I thinking?" anxiety. Vilk will add a new texture to your travelogues. Cheers.
They definitely help! Thanks for tuning in!
A few months of challenge for years of joy. Worth every moment
Wow this is a masterpiece, so unique, so personal but universal emotions.
That puppy is a whole Sunday mood ❤️ cheers Eva happy Sunday ;)
Whenever I feel overwhelmed I imagine sitting with a good friend having a coffee listening to them tell me the same frustrations and what my advice would be...and then give that same grace to myself. So hard...we expect far more from ourselves than anyone else! But you are doing a great job!
Glad you got your buddy there. He's adorable. Perfection is impossible. Be the best dog mom that you can be and enjoy your new friend.
Congratulations on your beautiful puppy. He will be a great companion for you on your travels.
Oh my god! you are doing an amazing job! you will form such a strong bond with Vilk - you will go through the 'what have i taken on / what the hell have i done?!' stage but it's so worth it -
You have opened the door to a whole new world when you got your awesome puppy. Your life won’t be the same. He should have you very well trained shortly. Soon you’ll wonder how you lived so long without him. He’s beautiful and very smart.
The first few weeks I was feeling overwhelmed and like „what have I done! Is this our life now?“.
Be proud and happy how he is already following you around. As soon as I unleash my dog, he storms off to look for the next exiting thing and „hopefully“ returns to us
You just have to be more exciting than what ever your dog is focusing on. Bring his favorite toy and a pocket of treats. Always be practicing on your dog's recall training. First with a long leash and eventually off leash. Without a strong recall you put your dog in danger from other dogs or traffic, or other animals in nature. Training always has to be number 1 even when they are old as the always need to be sharp and attentive to you as alpha. Dog pack mentality is how you have to see your relationship as, not buddy buddy. That's when things get tough with a dog.
You have a best friend and a pal for life. You are the one and only in his life.. Never let him down.. 👍 Greetings from Denmark.
Some people match their dogs quite well. I think this guy is perfect for you!
Eva.. You are doing an amazing job as a new dog mom. They are like having a child.. Your life does change, but it won't last(the hectic part). That's is what life is about: changes, adjustments, and resilience. You can tell that he was meant to be with you and you were meant to have him. Things will get better and that little guy will be your best friend..💞
Hang in there, your not alone, any pup owner has been through the same exact things. It's so much harder in our situation. But so worth it once you get through it.
It’s so cute you jumped right into motherhood even though you didn’t plan on it! Love it! And please don’t be so hard on yourself!! As you know all to well, each stage or adventure in life is ALL about adapting and learning! I’m sure you two have come Along way!! It’s so real and so relatable!!
I went from puppies that destroyed my house because I didn’t know what I was doing to mature well behaved dogs and now to elderly dogs that will be leaving me soon. I would give anything to be back to the wild puppy days with them. This is heartbreaking.
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Puppies are all wild-and-crazy. He'll grow up fast and eventually calm down, and you'll look back and treasure the memories of him when he was young and energetic. Dogs pass through all the stages of life all-too-quickly. I've never known a human I could have a 14-year relationship with, day-after-day, and still find totally loveable.
Exactly. They age quickly.
Eva, for whatever it's worth, perfection is a goal, not a destination. My mother didn't or couldn't understand that and it destroyed her from the inside out. She was never satisfied with herself or those around her. And it made her a bitter, angry, and spiteful person. What you're going through right now is normal, whether it's with a puppy, kitten, or a human baby. ESPECIALLY a human baby. You end up having to put the rest of your life on hold for a while as you get this new life up on it's feet and prepared for the world. Once you get past this, things will get back to normal. But don't let it make you question who you are. Just try to look for the light at the end of that tunnel where you'll have a long-time companion who will also have your back.
You are doing amazing! Everyone will go through that