GIRL TALK! Answering questions you are too afraid to ask! (periods, body hair, dating)

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  • @nadinexo
    @nadinexo Před 3 lety +638

    "If men got periods they would just bleed on the street" 😂😂 why does this sound so accurate

  • @adelineclatinici8760
    @adelineclatinici8760 Před 3 lety +406

    I've noticed many people complaining about how you've changed and someone wanted to be supportive I guess and commented "we love a self deprecating queen" on some video. Wtf is actually wrong with people who think that? It's fine not to take yourself seriously sometimes, but doing that on a daily basis for so long just fucks up your self esteem. I'm glad you changed the way you perceive yourself, you are smart and funny nonetheless and I love you.

    • @alyssak7488
      @alyssak7488 Před 3 lety +5

      yes this comment is so true thanks for pointing it out

  • @creatinghelen
    @creatinghelen Před 3 lety +342

    "do you really like him or do you just want him to like you?"
    honestly it's such a good point that I didn't consider for ages, it was always about whether they liked me and whether I was good enough for them that I didn't even think about whether I liked them.. and if you don't even like them why do you care what they think?
    great video Blair

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache Před 3 lety +586

    "Stop shaving with a rusty used razor that you leave on the bathroom floor"
    People watching: *Picks up the razor off the floor*

  • @Lavrnjaa
    @Lavrnjaa Před 3 lety +188

    Blair is the only person who could make a podcast and I wouldn’t be irritated lol

  • @sarzbeth
    @sarzbeth Před 3 lety +516

    Like....you literally keep getting hotter.

  • @DaniRudyyy
    @DaniRudyyy Před 3 lety +82

    Thank you for not just like “virginity is just a social construct”ing that question away!! Amen that people shouldn’t care about anyone else’s sex lives. That’s such a weird thing that people are worried about

  • @stumadeit
    @stumadeit Před 3 lety +175

    The 7 dislikes are the men who’d bleed on the streets

    • @chelsea9493
      @chelsea9493 Před 3 lety +7

      What's even worse is they'd have no shame and just trailing, crossing each other's paths, making art in the streets

    • @peasarebrown7515
      @peasarebrown7515 Před 2 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @morganBeBop
    @morganBeBop Před 3 lety +38

    I have a theory to make leaving a bad relationship easier. I’ve never done it but I think I definitely should have for QUITE A FEW in the past. Start distancing yourself while they’re still around. Boyfriend is going out with the boys instead of a night in? Invite the girls over for a girls night in or go to their house. BIG TIP: use similar rationale that poopy bf does to ditch you if he feels some type of way about you always being with the girls. BIG BIG TIP: if poopy bf starts wanting to spend more time with you, remember that he is no longer a priority and you are gradually preparing for a grand exit from toxictown. MUST REMEMBER: you must initiate girls nights sometimes and not JUST when he’s going out without you.
    My reason for this exit scheme is because I feel like a lot of girls always think about “what if” or romanticize what it was like to have them around because such a big and abrupt breakup is SO HARD for anyone to cope with mentally. I think it’s so much harder to go from 100-0, but if you slowly start to distance yourself then you know what it’s like to have them in your life (even if it’s on the outs) and have more fun without them

  • @Jin-xm8ws
    @Jin-xm8ws Před 3 lety +67

    I'm getting "big sister advice" vibes and I love it.

  • @shelleyisntreal
    @shelleyisntreal Před 3 lety +21

    Also: how to get out of a bad relationship when it feels so hard so hard to leave....the answer is not SOMEONE ELSE. it's within YOU. maybe it's just being YOU. don't look for anyone else. become okay with being alone. learn to live as your own being. the answer is not finding someone else. that's it.

  • @michicrj
    @michicrj Před 3 lety +15

    Another shaving tip - it’s not just about using a fresh new razor, it’s also good to keep it sharp. Never ever just leave it in the shower, take it out and dry it off between uses. You can also sharpen it by running it backwards on some denim!

  • @jamieelizabeth2185
    @jamieelizabeth2185 Před 3 lety +11

    As someone that was in a really abusive marriage for 7 years, I whole heartedly agree with Monica. Support and patience are 2 of the most important things you can do for a loved one in a bad relationship

  • @isabellancali5388
    @isabellancali5388 Před 3 lety +20

    This was such a great video, Blair, and I’m a mom of a teenager. I forwarded the video to her because as some may know…moms can say the right thing but most kids would prefer to hear the same advice from someone closer to their age or that is relatable. 😂 Actually, it’s nice to have more wisdom, advice and help when raising a teen. Thanks so much to you and your friend for sharing your wisdom and love. Have a great weekend everyone! 🤗😘

  • @mihaelagirla6879
    @mihaelagirla6879 Před 3 lety +33

    You give me so much serotonin

  • @aliceobregon3194
    @aliceobregon3194 Před 3 lety +8

    Thanks walnut for being so relatable !

  • @GhostHamsters
    @GhostHamsters Před 3 lety +8

    I use the Yuki cup for my periods for several years now and it was a life changer. Mine wasn't pink but see through so it stained after a few years and that's why I bought another one. But it wasn't necessarily, so it also safes you tons of money! Cups can be so awesome for you, if you are able to use them. No shade on anyone who can't/doesn't like them. :)

  • @Itsnicolelive
    @Itsnicolelive Před 3 lety +3

    So happy for this walnut glow-up. Self deprecating jokes are always a mask for something deeper, and when you clear that toxicity from yourself you can thrive so much more!!! Happy for you B

    • @Kensfitt
      @Kensfitt Před 3 lety

      I’ve been gone from her channel for a little while, and slightly lost 😂 are her and nick done?

  • @susannamarybabu8319
    @susannamarybabu8319 Před 3 lety +13

    Thank you for the personal attack B. Being a people pleaser is hard and not even rewarding yet it's so hard to let that go.

  • @demiiwatson2081
    @demiiwatson2081 Před 3 lety +9

    Love this style video I hope you do these more often 💗 feeling more connected to you this way

  • @alisonn228
    @alisonn228 Před 3 lety

    i just love b's energy so much beautiful walnut queen 😌

  • @sierras.4592
    @sierras.4592 Před 3 lety +1

    You've been literally glowing lately ✨✨✨

  • @jamieelizabeth2185
    @jamieelizabeth2185 Před 3 lety +3

    Monica seems like such a knowledgeable and smart woman! You should definitely have her in a video. The knowledge and intelligence between the two of you could be so powerful for your audience 🖤

  • @rachelwhite6128
    @rachelwhite6128 Před 3 lety +7

    Also on the shaving, pulling the skin taut is important to avoid razor burn in the lady part area 💕 if anyone’s looking for other tips ☺️

  • @alyshia9220
    @alyshia9220 Před 3 lety +1

    Absolutely love this video!! More girl talk videos is needed! Around the same age, and definitely still learning things all the time

  • @em.Ashton
    @em.Ashton Před 3 lety +2

    Love you so much Blair! I hope you have an amazing day🤍🤍🤍

  • @hannah2581
    @hannah2581 Před 3 lety +53

    I’m traumatized by Blair talking about her old shaving routine- “rusty… dry” 😟😟😐

  • @averymagik2894
    @averymagik2894 Před 3 lety

    Your the best Blair. You keep us all smiling. I hope you stay happy...healthy...and hopeful! Love always!

  • @hopeandtobias
    @hopeandtobias Před 3 lety +31

    Omg Blair you look stunning!! I am too scared to try out the diva or lily cup thing😂😂 We hope you have a great day and we wish you and anyone else seeing this so much positivity!!❤️🙏❤️

    • @mdvm4528
      @mdvm4528 Před 3 lety +1

      I used to be nervous about the diva cup, but I swear it is the best thing ever. I used to be so uncomfortable during my periods, now it’s like it’s not even happening.

    • @its_k9819
      @its_k9819 Před 3 lety +1

      I bought my cup last month and I am so scared to give it another try. First time I tried it was tough and painful to insert in so I gave up half way but ever since then I am only thinking about it but I am scared

    • @mdvm4528
      @mdvm4528 Před 3 lety +1

      @@its_k9819 try folding it like a rose, and insert it from the tip, slightly angled. Then once it pops, try moving the base clock or anti clockwise (doesn’t really matter which direction you go). I do this to make sure it is properly open. To take it out, y grab the base and move it clock or anti clockwise (don’t pull, specially with force), and when three fingers can grab the base, I fold the culp in half and from one corner I start to take it out. In my experience, the painless way to use the cup is a trail and error situation for each person, and this is what works for me

    • @its_k9819
      @its_k9819 Před 3 lety

      @@mdvm4528 thanks but there's one more thing i wanna ask you, how deep do i need to insert it... I mean how deep inside the base should be?!!

  • @raspberryjam1211
    @raspberryjam1211 Před 3 lety +1

    blair❤️ thank you so much for this video. you gave me so much advice in this one video. i love you❤️

  • @sophierebekah
    @sophierebekah Před 3 lety +17

    'drink some tequilla and break up with them' *FLASH BACKS*

  • @saraatppkdotpt8140
    @saraatppkdotpt8140 Před 3 lety +2

    Wasn't expecting this but great listening to these subjects!

  • @nidhis225
    @nidhis225 Před 3 lety +3

    love these talks

  • @Isa-cq8pu
    @Isa-cq8pu Před 3 lety

    happy blair is back and better than ever

  • @milkbread5036
    @milkbread5036 Před 3 lety +5

    I'm 26 and needed this. Thank you B :'D

  • @sandranuccio259
    @sandranuccio259 Před 3 lety

    Yes the Venus for pubic hair and skin is awesome! I’ve been using this for 2 months and I won’t use anything else! Love it 🥰

  • @sarahmonique5321
    @sarahmonique5321 Před 3 lety +1

    You've just made a helpful video while making us laugh. Thank you my favorite CZcams wizard 😌

  • @sanjanasinha2867
    @sanjanasinha2867 Před 3 lety +1

    Your videos make my day! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sarahyilmaz7202
    @sarahyilmaz7202 Před 3 lety +3

    I have never been that early 😍 I love you so much💜💜💜

  • @tahliad5543
    @tahliad5543 Před 2 lety +1

    I recently broke up with my ex of 8 years.. It’s called trauma bond. That’s why you know it’s toxic but you love them and so you stay. Research it walnut, understanding it helped me find closure and gave me confidence to move on without heartbreak. When you’re in a toxic relationship your heart breaks years, months and days before the other person (Usually a narcissist) even knows there’s a problem. When it’s time to actually end it officially, you realise you’ve gone through majority of the ‘post relationship blues’ already, because you experienced heartbreak during and so ending it is relief, after the initial shock and worry no one else will love me and realising there’s no one to tickle my back anymore and I do love back tickles haha.. I felt calm, I suddenly knew why people say they could feel the weight lift from their shoulders, it really did and it felt wonderful.

  • @julypatchouli9719
    @julypatchouli9719 Před 3 lety +35

    Can't confirm somebody is into you, just because they like to spend time with you. Have been friendzoned and rejected on that base multiple times...

    • @Jordan-bo4nv
      @Jordan-bo4nv Před 3 lety +4

      Most of the time they like you lol not necessarily into you

  • @gabrielle6706
    @gabrielle6706 Před 3 lety

    Loved this video B 💕 being rude to service workers is a huge red flag

  • @RedRosesDead07
    @RedRosesDead07 Před 3 lety +7

    Love yourself FIRST!!! Aside from family and friends, loving yourself is the most important thing you can do before you get into a romantic relationship. Red flags matter!! Trust your instinct and know your worth. If the other person shrugs off your concerns, questions, or feelings or worse, gaslights you... walk away. You are the one who gets to decide how others treat you. Also, everyone is weird and no one is perfect - everyone has insecurities they don't want others to discover so remember that the next time you see any influencer or celebrity living a "perfect" life. That's all production BS they put out online. And hydrate, people.

  • @amyclare5377
    @amyclare5377 Před rokem

    Love this there's really younger and older women who need this advice

  • @rafaelcollao8364
    @rafaelcollao8364 Před 3 lety +47

    Girl you're barking up the wrong tree with Ricky Martin lol

  • @Hadelekindi
    @Hadelekindi Před 3 lety +3

    I love your eyeliner😍

  • @suzannesauter5724
    @suzannesauter5724 Před 3 lety

    ily thanks walnut

  • @ieva1velberga956
    @ieva1velberga956 Před 3 lety +1

    Cups are the best!! Also, no toxic shock syndrom ✨

  • @missmama919
    @missmama919 Před 3 lety +40

    All the middle aged women in the comments still rockin the used razor/self tanner technique say YEAAAAA! Blair you are the sister we all need ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @jen4492
      @jen4492 Před 3 lety +2

      She said her viewers are 16 or in their 20s. I’m in my 40s. Haha.

    • @jen4492
      @jen4492 Před 3 lety +3

      @Jolene Jellybean how many of us are way older than she thinks we are? Blair??? Half your audience could be over 35. 😆

    • @AllyInWonderland
      @AllyInWonderland Před 3 lety +3

      🤚🏻 I’m 30

    • @tomdayas
      @tomdayas Před 2 lety +1

      damn i’m 13💀💀

    • @missmama919
      @missmama919 Před 2 lety

      @@tomdayas you'll be in the 30, flirty and thriving club with us all soon enough!!

  • @cassieemaeee
    @cassieemaeee Před 3 lety +3

    LOVE this idea

  • @Sunpea
    @Sunpea Před 3 lety +2

    What’s really helped me with razor burn is a few things. I switched to the Billie razor subscription. I use shaving cream for sensitive skin and then after I apply a lotion made for rough & bumpy skin. Like Cerave SA cream or gold bond ultimate rough & bumpy skin. These lotions have a combo of acids. I apply it for the next 2-3 days after I shave.

  • @xxxfairyyxxx
    @xxxfairyyxxx Před 3 lety +2

    Ya I feel like the replacement thing works pretty well but be careful to not have a rebound relationship where you just take the first opportunity

  • @shereenb5695
    @shereenb5695 Před 3 lety +28

    I'm nearing mid 30s n learnt hold off on shaving till ur almost finished with shower gives ur hair time to soften. use coconut oil or tea tree oil thats anti-inflammatory properties to it. shave with the hair not against it wash blade between swipes .I use men's razors as its for more thicker hair and also its better then womens and 1/3 price . cotton underwear after .

    • @dessyfancy6978
      @dessyfancy6978 Před 3 lety +5

      I've learned that just going commando after is a lot better and helps things breathe, but I get that's not for everyone haha

  • @LaurenKneram
    @LaurenKneram Před 3 lety +7

    I'm 31 but Blair is my big sis. Thanks bestie ✨

  • @nattie911
    @nattie911 Před 3 lety

    Tend Skin is a LIFE SAVER!!! I have been using it for almost 10 years (omg im getting old!) and I haven't have razor bumps since! Also, a new disposable razor overtime!

  • @lavenderruffles
    @lavenderruffles Před 3 lety

    EXACTLY what I needed to hear rn, ty big sister bestie B

  • @megrozleeann
    @megrozleeann Před 3 lety +2

    Wow. This video really hit deep for me. Just got out of an 11 year toxic relationship....

  • @CaNTjOURnEeY87
    @CaNTjOURnEeY87 Před rokem

    We love our Bestie Walnut

  • @briannalohde2305
    @briannalohde2305 Před 3 lety

    I use the machine that pulls the hair out down there, and at first it was so painful but now I don't feel it. I would highly recommend it, it leaves no hair left. Just gotta get through it and start with smaller areas and make sure the hair isn't too long to start off with.

  • @youdontknowannyeonghaseyeo5571

    sending virtual hugs to everyone

  • @ashabell2089
    @ashabell2089 Před 3 lety +1

    A mommy walnut 😂😂❤️ love her

  • @dancewithme7435
    @dancewithme7435 Před 3 lety +86

    I really like this type of video so much .... She is like a big sis I don't have 😂💀❤️

  • @Eligon12
    @Eligon12 Před 3 lety +1

    💙🧚🏼‍♀️😘 love your CZcams channel and every single video you put up entertains me !! Stay safe. Love your sarcasm reminds my of my sisters & I humor lol !

  • @lavenderixi
    @lavenderixi Před 3 lety

    I’m really happy that you upload this bc I dunno how to shave UHH

  • @StewVlogs26
    @StewVlogs26 Před 3 lety

    Girl ur like fine wine! Jus Keep getting better with age! 🥰😍

  • @jenniferzhou8635
    @jenniferzhou8635 Před 3 lety +12

    I usually shave down & then sideways to get a smoother shave, but directly up causes ~issues~

  • @amandanoble3354
    @amandanoble3354 Před 3 lety +3

    I think jealousy is a result of mistrust so just make sure you know how the people your thinking of act when your not around. Ive been with my partner for almost 9 yrs and we are both never jealous because theres no mistrust.

  • @rinadelrey5510
    @rinadelrey5510 Před 3 lety

    screaming on the Deep talk 👏👏yes girl yeasss..most relatable youtuber EVA🥀🌈🌞😋 love ya B.

  • @karlienelson6360
    @karlienelson6360 Před 3 lety

    yes blair love the vids

  • @olga2you
    @olga2you Před 3 lety +1

    Omg the house wives of Orange County clip 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @petiteAndrea
    @petiteAndrea Před 3 lety +2

    Good to see you happier and surrounded with good people, B. Wishing you the best!

  • @aurora9553
    @aurora9553 Před 3 lety

    i love you sm

  • @meganeldridge6825
    @meganeldridge6825 Před 3 lety +2

    i’m 22 with a great mom and 3 older sisters but i just love blair 🤣

  • @anaglk1415
    @anaglk1415 Před 3 lety

    If wax irritates your skin you should try sugaring, it's pretty amazing and works really well!

  • @themissjessicapaige1
    @themissjessicapaige1 Před 3 lety +3

    Just popping in to say you're such a baddie 😍😍
    U make my eyeballs v happy

  • @Crayola.n
    @Crayola.n Před 2 lety +1

    “Even if you have a tramp stamp…” hahaha 💙😂😂😂💙this is a good example as to why I love this channel

  • @jennifershelonchick6245

    Yo , I’m LITERALLY 46 and I’m exactly with you in our worlds together.. isn’t that Crazy?? You’re my gurrrrillllaaaa🤗

  • @juliapoppell6168
    @juliapoppell6168 Před 3 lety

    ILY!!!!

  • @l27nalusgemmapatriciat.95

    hello queen💜

  • @maud.v.e
    @maud.v.e Před 3 lety

    Love the video🤩

  • @viviennestclair4527
    @viviennestclair4527 Před 3 lety +1

    where's your shirt from? you look SO pretty!

  • @malenaa4015
    @malenaa4015 Před 3 lety

    Thank you mama walnuts

  • @irissupercoolsy
    @irissupercoolsy Před 3 lety +7

    omg... i just started recently with the "replacement theory" lol... i works great... I was miserable before i did that. Now i'm really fine

    • @springwater7525
      @springwater7525 Před 3 lety +1

      Then what happens when you have to face yourself

  • @athenakoustarela1269
    @athenakoustarela1269 Před 3 lety

    hair conditioner for shaving try it , it will change your life !

  • @howtosurviveelectronichara6474

    Shaving w hair conditioner changed my shave game.

  • @Samahra01
    @Samahra01 Před 3 lety +50

    The day that 99 percent of mothers would pay for their underage daughter's to have laser on their hoo-ha...the shaving tips are great this, Ms. Walnuts! I hope you're doing well, sweetheart! God Bless! And to those who couldnt see that blue bottle it's called Tend Skin and it works..

  • @ieva1velberga956
    @ieva1velberga956 Před 3 lety +55

    Girlies, downwards, sideways. Never up. Clean razor, aloe vera. Shave with a shave gel or use coconut oil or olive oil if u don't have a shave gel on hand. Lets not have itchy 🐱

    • @haileygrace1924
      @haileygrace1924 Před 3 lety +3

      So wait a damn minute you don’t go up this explains so much

    • @ieva1velberga956
      @ieva1velberga956 Před 3 lety +3

      @@haileygrace1924 never go up. Down, down, from side to side.

    • @tommarvoloriddleakavoldy9263
      @tommarvoloriddleakavoldy9263 Před 3 lety +1

      Can you go up on your legs? Also can you use conditioner?

    • @katp910
      @katp910 Před 3 lety +2

      @@tommarvoloriddleakavoldy9263 you should go down first on your legs but once the hair is mostly gone, you can go up to make everything extra smooth

    • @g.7702
      @g.7702 Před 3 lety +6

      If I shave down, the end result looks like I haven’t shaved in 2 days.

  • @MrsSaltapocinhas
    @MrsSaltapocinhas Před 3 lety

    We have the same menstrual cup bestie 😌💕

  • @dashas2287
    @dashas2287 Před 3 lety +3

    ive never clicked this fast

  • @samdarko-channel
    @samdarko-channel Před 3 lety

    Love yooouuuu 🖤🖤🖤

  • @casieedgington
    @casieedgington Před 3 lety

    Ily Blair

  • @sorrelsne
    @sorrelsne Před 3 lety +6

    Ok peeps…. I NEVER GET RAZOR BURN!!!! DO THIS: Shave using a (new) 5 blade men’s razor with few or no wire guards on it (just gets clogged and hard to clean) . If it’s good enough to cut men’s thick hair, go around a chin, and not leave bumps… it’s good enough for you down there. Plus men’s razors a cheaper. Use warm water, wait like 15/20 minutes until your pores are open. I put conditioner on the hair down there to shave (it doesn’t irritate me but everyone is different), it softens the hairs Start on the edges and work your way in. Shave with the hair direction until it’s super super short then shave against the hair to get the last tid bits. Don’t be afraid to use your fingers to pick areas up so you can see and reach, or move your legs open to create flat surfaces so you don’t cut yourself! Shave every 3+ days If you have to shave more than that (vacation) just touch up the bikini line going with the grain. Make sure your pores are open. If you feel like you can go against the grain too make the judgement call when you get to that point. Good luck!

  • @Thaa_judgeee
    @Thaa_judgeee Před 3 lety

    The dove 3 in 1 had me dying 😂😂😂😂

  • @tistin5272
    @tistin5272 Před 3 lety +1

    I am 1:17 into the video and I want you to know I turn 25 next week and I still don’t know how to shave my “down there” to the point where it’s not uncomfortable so THANKS BABE now I’m gonna listen in n let u teach me 😘

  • @zeynepdemir5839
    @zeynepdemir5839 Před 3 lety

    I LOVE YOU

  • @katarinac4940
    @katarinac4940 Před 3 lety

    early walnut gang gang

  • @sarahdehler
    @sarahdehler Před 3 lety

    Warning about using products with glycerin (aka sugar) in them: If you are prone to yeast infections, avoid at all costs!

  • @AbiCroCro
    @AbiCroCro Před 3 lety +20

    If you feel prettier like this then good, I love to see it, but I also really love it when you’re walnutting around looking all... like me.

  • @emilyjewell7603
    @emilyjewell7603 Před 3 lety +69

    blair:go focus on yourself after breakups, you dont need guys, make new *girlfriends!*
    me: *raging lesbian*

  • @nattie911
    @nattie911 Před 3 lety +3

    The best dating advice I eve got was: Go into a date thinking 'this is just practice for when I met the right person'. That way I feel like it takes off a lot of pressure for the date to be perfect and you can just relax and go with the flow.