Father objects to his $800 child support payment! "Why should I pay for her household?"
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I refuse to pay child support. So, I didn't have any kids. It's that easy, folks.
Anyone who has children may have to pay child support. Children are expensive. All one has to do is not breed or stop breeding. He started a new family and acted like the children he made don't have needs.
@@KevinSamuelsPowerBottom yea tell that to the mothers who have abortions, leave kids at fire stations or give them up for adoption... what child support are they paying?
@@crossfade5107Then that’s on them. Men and women need to use contraceptives or keep their cloths on or whatever.
That’s what I said. The way this society is bad enough and I just finished paying a ticket for not having an inspection sticker which was about 50bucks and these fuckers charged me for court fees and shit which came up to be 100 and some change. That’s how they get you and imagine what these courts and their damn fees do for the child support payments. The state uses these children as pawns to line their pockets. These fathers will pay their entire paycheck and they willl sometimes end up on the street. No I refuse to the state to get a chance to get any more of my money. I have a house and the upkeep is costing me a pretty penny and mortgage. I refuse to have kids and I’ve never been on child support and I never will be on it.
@@thadevilzadvocate yea i agree however only women get "choice" post conception... men dont!
Who in their right mind thinks that having 5 children is going to be cheap?
Exactly 🤣😭🤣 ppl kill
He laid down and made 5 but wants the burden to be solely on the mother and the community.
@@taylorqueensbury170 people who are married and living in one house
He did indeed fuck around and find out though
@@taylorqueensbury170 he wasnt trying to have his kid be a community responsibility he said he shouldn't be paying 800 for another household
It’s sad that paying more is the reason to fight for custody.. not because that’s what’s best for the children. Very sad.
Absolutely, I totally agree. He could get the kids more like he was supposed to but no, because he don't want to pay, he would put those kids through an awful custody battle. Real mature
@@crystalrogers76 my daughter turned 18 last summer and her father tried to convince her to move in with him and get a full time job, so he could stop paying support. I'm like 1) what he pays for support is a grown up discussion, not a kid one B) You're going to school, not to work in a call center and -he doesn't know how laws work.
He had my kid having panic attacks. That didn't last long. 😏
Most of those cases, the deadbeat parent who has never matured, never gets the custody from the other parent, due to he/she is a deadbeat and do not really care for the children they bare into this world.
You losers work a full time job, have 3 other kids at home, and then have to fork over half your disposable income to some other loser doesn’t want to get a job making more than 13 dollars.. has government assistance.. and still you dumb people on the internet want to blame him. Fighting for kids as a man costs a small fortune, the state is already in her favor, and you dumb people just cheer it on. Losers….
@@BrookeMcLymond how many bills non related to your child did you use the child support money on? If you ever used a single penny on yourself you’re a bad person. And I can guarantee you have. Child support is bullshit, use one of the 90 something forms of birth control or take responsibility for your own mistakes.
I was paying $750 a month for one child in 2003. $800 a month for 3 children even in 2016 is just crazy low. Sorry, but I'm not feeling it for this guy. How can he think he has an excuse or reason not to support his 1st 3 children?
My husband pays $700/mo for one child. This guy has it easy but he’s on dummy mode. He should WANT for his first children to live a comfortable and happy life especially bc they don’t have their daddy around much.
@@prihaps What do you use the money for? Guaranteed it doesnt all go to the kid
@@patientmental875 It's not supposed to. It's a misnomer that if a parent receives $500 a month in child support, they are supposed to spend $500 a month on the child. Child support is household income. One month it may all go toward school clothes;two months later, it may go toward car repairs. It's money provided by the non-custodial parent to partially replace the income they used to provide.
@@brianswitzerbbmw The father should pay for the child & the child only not for the mothers poor choices & car repairs! How is the mothers car condition dropped in the fathers lap?
@@patientmental875 Soory, but you're wrong. That's not how the courts and people who don't hate women see it. Child support is household income. Mostly because we don't know how the mom spends money, and it's really not our business. Maybe she just spent $500 out of her income on school clothes, then the car repairs come up. Which makes more sense- that she spend another $500 on school clothes, or that she get her car repaired? The case law is voluminous and unambiguous- child support is household income. Sorry if you don't like it.
He was barely paying anything for child support for last 7 years, he went on to have 3 MORE CHILDREN, now he's upset that he won't be able to afford to buy a home on $22.50 an hour. Well maybe if you only make $22.50 an hour you should of stopped after 1 or maybe 2 children tops. Not 5/6. If he wants to buy a home, maybe his new wife can get a job.. Nobody forced him to bring all these children into this world. Condoms and birth control would of been cheaper. Sorry you've moved on and had replacement kids but the original children still need to be cared for.
Amen to that! 🙏
Yes he is a idiot that has no plan . Pay up sucker 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is as braindead as it gets.
You must not have any children, iof you think a child adds more than $300 to a family budget a month. He was paying MORE than a child adds to cost of living. He shouldnt be forced to help her pay for a house, a car, her clothes, her food, her utilities, or anything else she is blowing his money on. After she pays everything she would already pay for as an adult living in the world, the add on for the child is minimal.
Child support is a scam, and these single mothers are using that scam as a career choice, instead of being responsible adults, and taking care of themselves.
SHE should have thought of that, before laying on her back, and allowing a Man she isnt married to, to impregnate her.
Yeah. I thought it a bit distasteful that he says he'll file to get custody rather than pay.
@@BrookeMcLymond A Man would rather have his kids, than pay for a womans upkeep, and you think that is "distasteful?
You selfish women are gross.
$22 an hour and they expect that much from him. It's outrageous. His ex need to do better
Do better? She's working full time too, and bringing up his children alone.
He's the one who decided to continue pollinating to the tune of three more children! If he can't afford them, he shouldn't have had them.
He obviously has time on his hands, he could get more work. Kids don't stop eating just because daddy had a load more.
I agree!
@@ruthgiles8926you only know part of the truth. If she has a BF then they have 2 incomes. She has only 2 kids. I was a single mom almost the entire time of raising mine with $0 child support.
Don't buy a house then buddy. We know nothing about the background of this couple. He's been paying the same child support since 2016. And of course he's happy to not have to pay hardly anything. An increase in payments is in order.
So you start off by saying then you KNOW NOTHING about this couple and the history of this case. And then immediately say that he should pay more. Wow!!
In a single comment you admit that you don’t have a clue about the case and then came to a logical decision that he should pay more? How exactly does that work in your mind? You don’t know anything about it but you agree he owes more money?
That doesn’t make a bit of sense. And if you think it does then you are really dumb. Sorry if that’s offensive. But it’s a fact.
No it isnt. That woman is NOT spending $800 on *1* child per month.
The mother would be paying her rent, regardless of whether she has a child or not.The Father should not be forced to pay the mother to take care of her own child. The ONLY thing he should be liable for is help with food, and help with clothing. Either he or she, should be forced to carry health care for the child, but that should be a bill, not a cash payment to the mother.
Child support is a scam. The woman made a choice to have a baby with a Man she was not married to. Child support should be just that, support for the CHILD, not a subsidy to the mother. I have children, and they do not add much to the basic costs of living.
"Dont buy a house then, buddy". What a petty, childish, ignorant, statement to make. He has 3 more children. They need a house. This woman, who has a job, and a new partner, should be taking care of their own household, instead of leaching off the Father, taking away from his other children.
Again, child support is a scam. The States force the Fathers to pay ludicrous amounts to the mother, because the State is reimbursed every single dollar they order, by the Fed Gov. Not only is the State profiting off this scam, the Judges pension fund is funded by the child support reimbursements.
The ONLY way for child support to be legitimate, is for women who where divorced by their husbands. Single mothers should NEVER get child support. It has become a career choice for irresponsible women, who refuse to get off their lazy as*es and take care of themselves. Take away the nonsensical safety net, and women would start making responsible decisions regarding who they sleep with, and who they allow to impregnate them. Single mothers are the most detrimental people in society. Giving them a financial incentive to become single mothers, is leading to the destruction of society as a whole, and damaging MILLIONS of children.
Unthinking, petty, femnazis, like you are disgusting
@raybucbolt You obviously didn't watch the whole video or you didn't listen closely. He has more than one child with this woman he has two and possibly a third. He hasn't had an increase since two thousand and sixteen. That's seven years. Now after seven years there's an increase in this guy's winning like a little b****? Don't have children then if you don't want to look after them. You must be 1 of these deadbeat dads. It took two people to make a child so he is responsible whether he is with the woman or not. Stop crying. Also he proceeded to completely try and trash her when none of it was true and the judge even told him so.
@@carllennen3520 They had more than one child you obviously didn't watch the video.
I obviously DID. YOU must not have. She has *1* child with him. HE has 3 MORE children with someone else.
It's amazing how mothers are suddenly unfit alcoholics and gamblers 🎰 when husbands are asked to pay maintenance.
IKR? Almost every single time!
If CS was limited to her income divided by 2 or 3, these single moms would develop some hustle!
Equally CS could be capped at his income divided by 2 or 3. Then he has incentive to do better since it wont just get taken away by the formula.
@@Willma69 they are all bums here, the mother and the father! This guy choose the mother's of his children and decided to make 5 kids in this day and age! Kids are obviously expensive! He made his bed and should lie in it. I'm just sorry for the poor children having to live in poverty because of the parents. 🙄
Actually you are a bum too, if you would rather hurt your kids by not paying child support and go to jail then reflect on your poor life decisions! 😆
@@Willma69he is 50% of their parent. They are equally as responsible for their child. He has to provide 50% of a happy and healthy life for 5 children. He can't just abandon his other kids. Child support makes up for him not being there.
@@Willma69Please never have kids.
The child support system is disgusting.
Fr...
Strangely motivated to protect his kid against an alleged unfit mother when his CS increased… child’s welfare obviously his priority 😬
These kinda guys kill me. He had kids, got divorced and then deciding he divorced his kids too. He starts another family and now thinks he only needs to pay for the new family. My father was the same way. My mother let him get away with paying a really small amount of child support while she worked 2 jobs to support us. He resented every penny. He was remarried with no kids, a new car, a house with a pool. Saw us once a week for a couple hours and thought he was father of the year. When my mom remarried he thought he didn’t have to pay for us anymore as well. Take responsibility man, and grow up. When your kids get older and find out how you really feel about them, don’t be surprised.
You also have to think that another woman married him, knowing he had to pay child support and probably knew the amount, and she went on to have more kids with him. My wife and I, both with Masters degrees, could only afford one child since we were teachers and did not depend on anyone else to support our lifestyles. It seems to us that the less educated either don't seem to care where babies come from, know how to prevent preganancies, or know when to stop having kids they cannot afford. I don't want kids to starve but it is not right for the rest of us to support kids, especially with the type of parenting they are receiving these days.
Haha so if you get divorced you should have to pay for your ex wife’s RENT?
You are a garbage person.
Garbage
I had to deal with a Dead Beat dad as well, supporting my step-daughter's kid, his ex, while he reluctantly "allowed" visits that he was late for, or no-showed-no-call, regularly. I mandated she involve the court so at least he would be forced to contribute, somewhat, financially to his kids. He acted like this was grossly unfair, the height of injustice. And to the case above, if you're fighting the minimum amount of child support, congratulations, you're a Dead Beat dad. What a s____ bag.
@@shannonmcstormy5021 Women are children, they take no responsibility, they need to be supported.
No children cost $800 per month unless they attend private school. This is about supporting the ex, who admitted in this that she doesn't work.
She is the s bag. And the "dead beat mother." She has no job yet takes government benefits! LMAO.
In America, if the woman is lazy and manipulative, it is the man's fault.
Which is just one more reason that everyone hates America. BUT, I do think this is good.
In my country, divorce is illegal. And considered extremely degenerate. Videos like this, and comments sections like this, really make it clear why our society is structured the way it is.
Because women ARE children. They cannot support themselves. They will lie and say they need more money while not working. Despite the fact that in America, 80% of divorce is initiated by women. So they want to not be married, but also they want money from the ex they divorced.
And the only way to sustain such a disgusting society is to put the blame on the men. Because if the blame was put where it belongs, you would change your laws to be like ours and solve the problem instantly. No more fathers paying for children and lazy adults, no more grifting women using state benefits rather than work.
If the cost of food and a such is going up for him, it's also going up for the mother of his children who is feeding them.
Apparently, those children are supposed to need less so that he can do more for his new family
Exactly. Logic is clearly not his strong suit.
@@jaelzion She was doing fine for 7 years then all of a sudden you need to double it? Wheres the logic in that
@@matthewpop5785 He was getting off light for 7 years and he has the nerve to complain about it after escaping it for nearly a decade? Where is the logic in that?
@@Matisaro they both failed to respond to the court years before, what does that tell you about her? Seems like she was doing fine to me.
$783 a month for two kids works out to about 13 bucks a day per child. Seems cheap af to me🤷🏽♂️
Spot on!
I get $95 for my 12&13 yrd old boys a week...indiana
sounds like he has a “new” family too!
Very cheap. He wants to continue paying $3 a day instead, which won’t even buy ramen noodles anymore.
Not a lot of math professors on here it would seem...... Which is likely why they don't see it as a big deal. $22.50 X 160 hours = $3600/month gross. Roughly 46,800 over 26 pay periods. Now taxes: 22% tax bracket federal. I'll use my state's of 4.95% and both equal 26.95%. $3600 X .7305 = $2629.80/month Net (without any deductions mind you). $2629.80 - $800 (child support) = $1829.8 a month to support his entire family which is basically the average cost of rent these days for a 3 bedroom. The mom is on welfare so her making nothing doesn't matter and he can't qualify for welfare because he makes too much. Soon he will be forced to quit his job and go into welfare.
If this guy thinks it would be cheaper to have full custody, he's delusional! With what mom makes, he won't get much support from her.
also his argument that she is an unfit mother ... like it is an argument that he leaves his kid with someone he knows unfit for years. make it make sense.
It would be exponentially less expensive. Children do not add much more to cost of living. That woman is not spending anywhere near $800 a month, on *1* child. It is ludicrous.
No Father should be forced to supplement an irresponsible woman and her loser partner. Child support should be just that, CHILD support. It shouldnt be a way for a single mother to not take care of themselves. She would be paying rent, buying food, and paying utilities, without children. Adding a child to that is only a couple hundred dollars a month, and doesnt become expensive, until they are teenagers, with more expensive needs like a vehicle, and extra carricular activities, which they should be forced to get a job and help pay for.
Child support is a scam, keeping everyone poor. Both the Father, AND the mother who relies on it, are stuck in a cycle they cant get out of.
The ONLY people who should get child support, are women whose Husbands divorced them. If she files for divorce, or is a single mother, she should not get a dime.
I agree. Men get so screwed by women like this. Child support is a scam
@@carllennen3520 fyi $800 is for 2 children. There is more to raising children than ensuring they dont starve. Maybe the family wants the option of school photos, be able to participate in local sport or music lessons? Your last two sentences demonstrate an acute bias against women who initiate separation from partners and is extreme and punitive. Thank God you're not policymaker or family court judge!
@@carllennen3520 it's not how much is necessary to survive it's a calculation based on the non custodial parents earnings.
If she's been an unfit parent all along but you only objected because your child support payment went up then shame on you, sir.
Exactly. Imagine knowing your children are unsafe and not giving a damn until it inconveniences you. It's pathetic.
Yep...he is like a spoiled brat. He could care less about those kids. He wants to take them because he has to pay child support? Not because he loves them or they are in danger. No it is so he won't have to pay child support. Dude is vile.
Lmfao the man must lose either way huh
@@cargopilotguy305 yup, it's a no win situation
@@cargopilotguy305 how does he loose if he get's his children back?
Dude needs to stop having kids that he can't afford 🤦🏿♂️
So do you
@@lovechild6103 people shouldn’t have kids they don’t intend to fully support.
She shouldn’t either! She doesn’t have a decent job and can’t support? They’re hers too!
@@theoriginalkrabbypatty yeah she should too! Both parents are bums who make the poorest life choices. Poor children!
@@theoriginalkrabbypattywhich is why she stopped having kids, and got a job. Sounds responsible to me.
Cause your kid live there, you should want your kid to live in a decent place. Why do you hate your ex more than you love your kid.
Because female ex was probably the one that told him to leave.
@@thomashenshallhydraxis and só he stops caring for his kids? That's a shit dad
It's not his responsibility to make sure his ex has a decent place for the kids that's her responsibility
@@diamondgarcia5312 you will find out that you are wrong, he needs to pay for 50% of the children's rooms
@@diamondgarcia5312why? they are both the parent. Both of them made the kid. No matter where either of them live, they are both equally responsible for giving their child a happy and healthy life.
His argument actually helps her case. He needs to use birth control.
No, they BOTH should. I'm pretty sure she spreads for her new bf too...and at least he worked all this time, unlike her who just started to work. Yeah, tells a lot about how responsible SHE is. He's no winner, but she is actually worse.
You're right. He even argued that the price of food is going up. Yeah, your kids need to eat too.
@@scypsylock9402you're calling her worse on an assumption. First of all, she's allowed to move on romantically when divorcing someone. So is he. Second, you're assuming that she has a boyfriend at all. She's not the one with 5 kids from 2 women. She has 2 kids, and hasn't had any others because she knows she can't afford more than that. Just because she works a lower paying job (while being 90% of the physical parent), doesn't mean that she's not contributing to her kids. Even if she gets a higher paying job and contributes 50/50, he's still gonna be broke because of his 5 kids.
@Scy Psylock I thought the same thing... between these two, there's at least 8 children involved. The gene pool is thoroughly polluted.
@@cyn_na_mini800$ a month is outrageous, you’re projecting. Child support shouldn’t be going to paying rent or car notes, only towards taking care of the child. If you can’t pay your rent without robbing someone (this is state sanctioned robbery) then the child should live with the parent that can.
So his other three kids are more important than the one they are talking about now? This guy is a mess, good luck with getting custody of the kid.
No, he’s saying the recommended amount disadvantages the other three children. Are you slow?
@@Alternate_Titlesthey’re all his responsibility.
@@brookelynnwu8016 His and the two women.
The woman he used to be married to appears to take no responsibility. She has not worked for almost a decade and wants to raise the "child support."
And you think so un-critically that you genuinely think the reason for that is to support the children. As opposed to her. Which is just exhausting. You're a child.
@Lincoln Rockwell what world are these people living in???
@@richperspectives8227 Exactly
Too many Men think paying child support as a paycheck to his ex-wife. It’s selfish and irresponsible to think that way. He doesn’t care about the child, and will try to gain custody to keep from paying. I hope he looses at every turn
Men think that way because it is to many women. No need to emasculate all men when the door swings both ways.
Nope. She does not need $800 a month for one kid. She doesn’t t even work. She should get nothing.
It's loses not looses, and you don't know jack about how he cares about his child. So many bitter women in here with their judgemental comments.
He is LITERALLY paying her rent. All parties said this. She does not work. All parties said this. What is wrong with you? Genuine question. What is wrong with your brain.
@@dcg590 she works dingus and its 3 kids, not just 1.
Should’ve thought about that before he decided to have kids
Wrong. SHE decided to have the kid
HE decided to have kids? Are you retarded?
@@dcg590 what? It takes 2 to tango
@@prihaps women decide who live and die
@@YungSavage203when men's bodies go through *anything* like women's bodies they'll get a bigger say.
I took my ex to court to get full sole custody of our daughter. I was awarded full custody and he did not have to pay child support. She was six when I was awarded sole custody and he never paid a dime in child support from birth to six years. I was a surgeon, and I knew I could take care of my daughter financially without his help. She is now grown, a college graduate and scientist with a family of her own. I gifted her a fully paid for, fully furnished four bedroom four bathroom three-story house when they announced that they were pregnant with twins. My ex after 20+ years of silence suddenly calls her. He found out that she was now a home owner and he needed a place to live.( I have no idea who told him) He told her that he was homeless, an alcoholic and living on the streets in Philly. He reminded her that he was her father, and that she should help him. My daughter has not seen her father since she was six years old. I made sure he always knew where we lived and what her phone number was. He never called her and when she would call his number, he would not answer.It was not my place to make any kind of suggestion, and I told my daughter to pray about it. She called me recently and informed me that she did not allow her father to come live with her because she knows nothing about him. It would be like allowing a complete stranger to move into her home.
You sound like a very fair, and kind person. God bless you.
You didn't raise a dummy
That prayer most likely saved her and family life. Her dad doesn't sound stable 😮😮😮😮
Talk about you rich privilege somewhere else. Literally no one cares about your wealth. Typical Dr.
The audacity of that man😂😂
These DAD'S ARE OFF THE FCUKIN HOOK
Nah. He's a $800 🐡
He’s still grossing 3k a month. He will be ok. No reason the taxpayers should have to support your kids
Their kids.
@@richperspectives8227 No, they are not the taxpayer's kids...
@@reachandler3655 👀
His + Hers = Their kids.
@RICH PERSPECTIVES both can be correct but for "their" the reader would have to infer it to mean someone other than the kids of the taxpayers which is not in the sentence. "Your" makes the differentiation. Really though "someone else's" would be a better fit.
Grossing 3k a month is not enough money to live off of..I live in GA and the average price of a home is $2500 to rent.. 1 bedroom apartment go for at least $1800..thats not including utilities, plus everything else people need to live on top of that $800 being taken out for child support ..so yes he will be struggling
If he's complaining about support money now, then I guess the child can't count on dad helping to pay for college. 😏
Part of the monthly child support should go into a college fund. Not into moms hand for any entertainment, drugs, drinking, smoking, etc. I'm not saying that's what's happening here, but I've seen it plenty of times with family and friends. It's not babysitting money. I'm sure glad I chose to be kidless. 😉
@@debcarpenter8519 Child support and alimony are two different things.
No way any of his kids are going to college.
@@NorthBayFCT
Funny you attack the dad who although angry was well spoken and making 22 an hour but the women on the other hand sounded uneducated and has cases on her from DCF. They should have more time with dad and less with her.
@DLC, That’s a great idea. So great that our government wouldn’t ever think of it. Way too logical for them.
“I’ll just fight for custody of my kids cause she’s unfit anyways.” For the sake of the argument let’s pretend she is unfit… you didn’t care enough to fight for them before? Only now because it’s affecting your pockets?! That’s disgusting! Those kids deserve better.
Exactly! I helped thousands of dads before but when your kids “YOURS!” Are on public assistance … knock if how are your kids going to be on any public assistance docket when you make $22.50
Do we know as a certainty he hasn’t tried to gain custody of the child?
I left my abusive husband almost two years ago. In the divorce he was so worried about my “mental health” but never went to court before the 12 months we were in divorce. He owes me 14 thousand is still not paying.
That is SO COMMON.
What a deadbeat! He only bothers to get these two children every other weekend, while he IS raising & putting all his attentions on those 3. Shame on you, dad. All your kids need you the same. And if she's so unfit, what haven't you tried to get custody of them before now? Probably because all you're concerned about is the 3 you have now with your current woman. Sounds to me like it was fine as long as you could put your kids off on your ex, paying her as little as you could, as long as they didn't affect your current life. Sounds like dad needs to grow up, & switch from being in diapers with a bottle to being a man with a plan for all your kiddos. Just my opinion.
Poor kids got a deadbeat Dad. He’s a deadbeat, just based on his attitude.
You're full of it. Once the mom wins custody, the dad is relegated to BS. Then he moves on and you want to shame him for under? What is she doing? She has a new man and life also, but still making fast food money, 7 years later? Figures you'd still nah the guy
@@Beautiful_Messmom is deadbeat also, at least be honest with your comment
Should the children he has now suffer because his ex is a bum?
@PatientMental, should his original children suffer because HE’S a bum (and an asshole, as we all witnessed)?
He has 4 kids. One with her and 3 with his wife . They are asking him to pay almost $900 a month to her for the one child. Yet they only gave him a thousand dollar credit per month for the 3 kids that live with him and his wife. How does that make any sense? This shows court systems prioritize single mother hood over family units.
He has two children with his ex wife/partner. Nobody made him go out and create more children when he knew that he already had two to help raise.
It's so unfair for him
That's his fault
The other children have both their mother and father living together.
GRATEFULLY My ex and I did 50/50! I didn't need his $. We BOTH contributed to our child's college fund, etc.
When you are actual adults and keep it about the kid(s), the BS just doesn't exist.
That’s what normal people do!
Yeah, WE know that. 😉
Until someone tells her she can semi-retire and collect from him if she has custody.
If she has financial difficulty, she can always drop back to this.
@@peterpan408it's not "collecting from him," it's expecting him to continue his 50/50 support. Just because he's not in the home, doesn't mean he's not their parent. Both of them made the kid, both of them gotta be 50/50.
College is a fraud
So he got lucky for the last few years and still complaining? Sounds like back support is in order.
What about what the current wife/ mother is making and contributing to those 3 kids and "his" household.
Why can’t she get a decent job?
Does the SNAP program seek repayment when a parent like this man has refused to divulge his income over 7 years?
@@theoriginalkrabbypattywhy can't he support his kids she has a job why should it be all on her
Y'all are silly
@@GoodnightJLHyes
He wants his children to go without and live poor while he goes off and buys a new house. smh. He was paying scraps and pennies before therefore forcing them to have to eat off from food assistance. It is very difficult to raise children on one income. He should be ashamed of himself. He has no reasonable argument for not being able to pay. He isn’t at risk of loosing his housing, etc.
Not to mention that “daddy deadbeat” thinks the taxpayers should feed his kids so he can buy a brand new house. Ugh.
He definitely should be ashamed of himself for paying so very little before
Sounds like a man preparing for his or her future. Not a bad father at all. Mom needs to step up to the plate and grow a pair
I have one child and 3 months ago my support payments went up to $147 a week and I make $19.50 an hour. Lost my apartment, now staying in a hotel for $350 a week and walk to work every night. My son's mom is a nurse and lives with her parents in a nice big house for over 10 years for free.
She a nurse no way you should be paying that much get lawyer and do some research
Her living situation doesn't involve you. Your responsibility is to take care of your child, not her. Your child support order isn't much in the overall scheme of things when you consider food, medical, dental, vision, childcare, etc. Be glad all you have to pay is that $147 a week. Sounds like you need to do what I did when my kids were small and I was struggling...find a second job.
I suspect that you don’t have much parenting time with your son. Your ex wife should be making good money. But it’s none of your business how much she pays for rent and none of your business how much her parents help her.
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Her job ain't got nothing to do with your responsibilities.
Doesn’t care about getting his kids from an unfit mother until he has to pay for them. I hope she uses that in her court case he is a joke
I hope she gets a job. Equality, yo.
Keep the damn government out of your home!
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He’s a regular Rhodes Scholar, isn’t he. Thinks he’s due a house, when he won’t even pony up for these two children. He needs to think about what THEY deserve.
And, oh yeah - - get a second job, Einstein.
Not exactly Father of the Year material. No concern for the children at all.
@@Plantlady70 Well he did state he has other kids now, maybe they deserve something too?
Wow...okay, that made zero sense but sure.
Did you pay attention to every word in this case? He HAS been paying all this time, and at least he has been working the entire time unlike the ex wife who sat and played house with her bf and just started working recently... Figures you would blame the guy only even though the ex wife is no winner herself and is just as guilty and irresponsible as he is, only he worked for years and she sat and collected like a leech. He may not be a winner, but she is also worse than he is in ways. She could have got off her fat rear and worked instead of using her child support money which is meant for the kids they share...that money is NOT hers, it is meant to care for the kids. Wow...
@@kanedakrsa making more kids when he can’t afford to care for the ones he already had. Seems like he needs to keep it in his pants from now on, or get fixed.
I can see why they are not together anymore.
When stuff doesn't go his way, seems he just straight turns into an as$hole.
Wonder if he realises that the cost of living also goes up for the kids he is meant to also be supporting, which he only pays 40$ a week. I doubt it.
Exactly! He whines about COLA yet he's been paying the same amount (low-ball, in my view) for the last six years!
She’s a pos. No one needs $800 a month for one kid.
Thats right defend the welfare queen mother 😂
I just finished paying my ex husband $179/WEEK for one teenage boy. Plus I gave him the house when we divorced. I never objected. He consistently tried to get more money from me. I told him to let me know what my son needs and I will buy it. Suddenly, he didn't need anything. I had no problem supporting my son but I wasn't about to support my ex because he's a lazy ass.
Women live off child support lol.
How you think your husband stayed lazy?
I have full custody of my daughter. My ex said the same thing to me (just tell me what she needs and I’ll get it). Never worked. She would always try to justify a reason my kid doesn’t need the stuff I’m requesting. And it was always like pulling teeth. Additionally, it’s difficult to always “wait” for her to buy things. Often times what I want to get for my kid is spare of the moment. We’ll go out and she’ll want to buy an outfit and a meal. Now what am I suppose to do? Call my ex and ask her to Venmo me cash so I can buy it? She isn’t answering so now what do I do? Well obviously I use my money. Child support just makes sense.
Men been doing it for a very long time. Suck it up
Mom lost custody you must’ve complete scum bag
I don’t have children, but I feel like the person with primary custody should submit receipt of everything needed and purchased and clarify what it was used for and why and submit it to the courts to then be clarified again before the parent who pays for support pays anything per month. I feel like that be fair. With the exception of like diapers, baby formula because like..duh
Unbelievable that “parents” feel like they don’t need to provide for their kids.
Providing and paying for two households is not the same
He was paying child support the whole time.
@@kishkin8743 Right, but he argues things are more expensive so he shouldn't have to pay more. So does he not think things are more expensive for his kids and ex as well? He needs to STFU and get a second job. The taxpayers are already paying his kids medicaid and food stamps. Dude is pathetic.
@Daniel RN you're pathetic.
His 3 kids, got 1042 credit.
But one kid with her, he supposed to pay 800?
Tell me you're a blood sucker without telling you're a blood sucker.
He capable ebough to support his household and 4 more others. Plus this kid, that's 6 people he's providing for.
What have you done? Who have you support?
Why should the man be forced to financially support two households
And so he should’ve thought about child support before having 5 kids.
Stop having kids, lol
Quit divorce raping men!quit being whores!
Childcare for two kids is high & usually over $100 / week @ most places or $400 total/month. Split between the two that is $200/ parent- which is cheap. Then factor in transportation, clothing, food, housing,sport fees, school costs and the $800 he is to pay along with the $800 she pays [ probably more as she has custody] is spent with little to spare. I doubt she is wasting that money. His three other children did not just appear one day so it seems he could have been planning all along. IF SHE IS UNFITwhy would he leave his children in her care ? Oh, yeah, he only cares about the money not custody poor kids what a bad dad
Oh dear. He's saying food prices and other bills are going up in regards to his current household. Sir, those prices are also higher for your kids that don't live with you. That's why she needs the support increased.
U ain't lying he sounded dumb
Its 50 bucks more a month and he's lucky he doesn't have to provide health insurance either!! ..deal with it!! Shit, my son pays 1200 a month for his 2 girls..pay your damn support for these kids!! They're going to age out of the system soon anyway and you could pay the kids directly!!
Wow… he doesn’t care about his first kids!
Only a person too stupid to count would conclude that from watching this video.
I'm amazed to listen to a few of these...the women 1) Don't work 40hrs/wk
2) Because of not working, qualify for Food Stamps & other aid
3) Because of qualifying for aid...now the Father has to "repay" those state aids??
Why do you want Single Moms working 40 Hours a week?
Latch-key kids are socially detrimental.
Yep! Because if they had stayed married the state wouldn't have to pay to raise those kids, hence why a man has to pay for what he creates, it doesn't matter if he went out and made more kids he couldn't afford
@angelafahlenkamp9311 You don't know what you're talking about.
@Mrjones-ed7hi as a child from divorce with half siblings I know ALL ABOUT IT! With first hand experience, if child support has been paid then my Mom wouldn't have been able to go to the state for help which meant they went after him to force him to take responsibility for his 3 kids and all the others he made in between and after it too!
If he can’t afford 5 kids, he shouldn’t have made 5 kids with 2 different women.
Wow just what a wh$re would say!
And yet she can't afford her kids at all without assistance but he is supporting 5 without assistance she needs to get a full time job so she can afford her kids 😂
He could probably afford five kids if the state wasn't involved.
The prices for the kids food goes up too, not just your own. I get taking half your income to pay child support isn't easy, BUT AS A MAN, MAN-UP AND PROVIDE FOR YOUR KIDS. ALL OF THEM. Work a second job, get a better job. It's what men do. Men do whatever it takes to provide for, protect and guide their kids. This doesn't mean that women cannot or do not do the same, but you cannot control what mom does or doesn't do. The only thing you can do is work harder or smarter.
As a man, HOW DARE YOU complain about the piddly amount the state makes you pay. You SHOULD provide even more! A real man asks what is needed for the kids, and then PROVIDES THAT. What kind of man gets all butthurt and cries IN COURT, infront of another man, about how its not fair.
What a simp.
Maybe she doesn’t use child support as support for kids.
It’s normally nail and hair support for women.
Well there’s plenty of mothers out there gaming the system
People make fun of me because I only have 1 child, I have as many children as I can afford. It’s super easy to not have more children than you can afford, far easier than having children that you can’t afford.
Hear Hear!!!
I love having one kid. I am blessed with a hard working husband in the trades and money is STILL tight. I can cut her fruit into cute little hearts and we get to do so much fun stuff I wouldn't have time or ability to afford with multiple kids. People told me CONSTANTLY I'd want another after X time. I knew I was one and done. I never really wanted kids before I met my husband and he came from a very large family wanting a very small one so it worked for everyone. When I got 'baby fever' (never for an actual baby ngl) I got a puppy and it's WAY cheaper and just as cute. It's great for people who want more kids but imo having one is highly underrated lol
"People make fun of me because I only have 1 child"... Sorry but that doesn't make any sense. I was never blessed with any children due to cancer through age 18 to 21 & not knowing the reason for my lack of children, not once has anyone ever "Made fun of me". With all due respect, that's one of the oddest openers of a comment
I agree. I have one child. I have to pay child support to my ex husband. He is brutal. He wants more money. He knows that I make good money as a truck driver, and he purposely took a low paying job so that I would have to pay more in child support. I now have my tubes tied. It ain't worth it.
@@tartanmystic4025because it's a lie. No one says that.
The courts should have NO say in child support. Fathers should support their children on their own. So UNTIL there is a finding of facts that prove the father or mother have not been supporting their children the court should have NO say! Does a court tell parents who are together they have to spend X amount of dollars on their kids ? NO. So why should they order support once the family is broken/ divorced? It’s SIMPLE , because child support is a multi billion dollar a year business. COURTS DONT CARE ABOUT KIDS. DIVORCE IS A BUSINESS FOR THEM. The courts go through leaps and bounds to order child support but do ZERO investigation to make sure the money is spent on the children.
My girls are 23 and 20. When they were 3.5 and 1 an order was put in for support for my ex-husband. I received literally 3 payments of 80 dollars. Then they said he couldn't be "found". Over the years he was arrested dozens of times in over 10 states. Despite being in and out of the system, nobody ever seemed to be able to keep track of him. To this day, the case sits idle, archived (who knows). The amount he owes is over 120K dollars. My girls are fine- one a forensic biologist and the other is in her 2nd year of nursing school. I look at the arrears money and think about how they could have both been put through college and come out 100% debt free. I have little sympathy for fathers OR mothers who think their financial comforts are more important than their kids.
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Cool story bro.
Same with my father, leaving behind 4 kids. He disappeared and my mother had to work 2 to 3 jobs to support us. He made a miraculous return 10 years later and give us each $100 before disappearing again. Crazy.
Sad story. I think it needs to be fair for both sides the dad shouldn't be paying to fully support the mothers household either. The dad should also probably not go having additional kids with someone else if he can't afford those either.
Being a deadbeat is shameful too.
And yet you chose to have not only 1 kid with him but two. You chose that man, what does that say about you?
Maybe someday some kind soul could teach this loser the birds and the bees so he can get a good understanding of where kids and the obligation to support them comes from
An increase of around $600/month damn. Work OT or go to jail.
What a great reason to fight for custody, because you don’t want to pay child support.
Because the mom’s worthless pile of shit, and he’s paying for himself and 4 other people and a house, she gets $800 a month for doing nothing. Total bullshit.
It's funny she can op-ed out of being a mother by killing it but fathers have no choice 😅😅😅😅😅😅
Court leaves him so choice.
Taking on a mortgage when you have children who are in need of financial support is absolutely unacceptable and irresponsible. She’s right to take him to court.
What is she's bitter about him moving on to live a better life in his new house with his new family. Women do that all the time
@@JenSumma Doesn't matter. You have to pay for your own kids especially when the kids receive public assistance. 800 is very reasonable. If the 800 makes it so you can't afford a house, you can't afford a house. You need to make more income.
@@marudoethiopia That’s insane!! Idk how y’all afford kids. Hats off to you
It takes two people to make a child and the father should not be the only one financially responsible when the mother get the privilege of not working. The court should order her to get a job and get off the system and not put the financial burden on the father. The system is unfair. Women are vindictive and spiteful. If a relationship goes sour it’s okay to gather yourself and move on and stop trying to take revenge on the dad because it only affects the relationship with his children
@@justnick5834 The mother is obviously working and taking care of the kids- they say as much in the video. 800 a month is not such a huge amount of money that you could imagine the woman is basically retired with child support as her own income.
There are many many wonderful fathers out there who not only spend custody time with their children but who also take care of their children by paying their child support .. it's the few who don't that cause all the trouble like we see here. If he only wants to take the children 52 overnights a year, how does he think he will be successful in going for full custody? He is using that as a bullying tactic. I really can't stress enough that it is only the children who suffer when a parent uses these ploys.
If I ever have a kid, and ended up divorced from the mother, the court wouldn't even need to order support. I'd just make sure my kid(s) had everything they could need, including a mother not on the dole or broken mentally and physically trying to make up for an absent father.
@@slupot awesome 👍
@@slupot and thats the way it should be! You will be a great daddy❤
I think that dad is all bluster. He’s just trying to intimidate his ex-wife by saying he’s going to try for custody. He doesn’t really want them, he just wants to cause her trouble. He’s a deadbeat AND an asshole.
As a loan officer who has helped many single moms buy homes, I can assure you that there are many deadbeat donors also.
My son's "father" chooses to stay on SSI so he never has to pay child support to his kids. I have his oldest and we do just fine without him 😊. Some men shouldn't be dads. The same thing can be said for some women. The saying "every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child" is so true.
you should get the facts straight tho.. CHOOSES TO STAY ON SSI? no disabled people chooses to .. THERES ALOT OF OF THEM OUT THERE THAT REALLY ARE PERMANENTLY DISABLED REMEMBER THEY SAY NEVER JUDGE THE BOOK BY ITS COVER .. ITS NOT THERE FAULT THAT THERE DISABLED IS IT?? U CANT BLAME A DISABILITY THATS MET TO HAPPEN THERES ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT ARE PERMANENTLY DISABLED IN DIFFERENT WAYS!!
If that were actually true, you’d be able to get child support because people can’t choose to not make money to avoid child support. It’s illegal.
@@adriandejesus4473yes that seems crazy.. I’m disabled and I pay $$750 but eventually my condition will worsen and I’ll no longer be able to work. I won’t choose to be on SSI it’s inevitable
Every man that's thinking about getting married and having kids needs to watch this. This is a perfect example of why I had a vasectomy at 27.
smart guy
Wow he's a big baby🤣🤣🤣dude literally said he would fight for full custody over child support 🙄 dude bye✌🏽 he knows damn well he doesn't want to have full custody
Your absolutely right, he doesn’t. He’s just a big bully trying to intimidate her.
Listen up hoe,he is trying to survive! She is living in the house she got in the divorce (if not payed off,HE is paying that)she is getting government assistance (food stamps,government Medicare which HE has to pay for)and she got a new man with his pay! And she got half HIS assets in the divorce. IN DIVORCE THE MAN HAS TO PAY FOR BOTH LAWYERS! And as your heard but ignored HE has 3 other children HE must support! He is trying to buy a house because rent is thru the roof! Food thru the roof! WITH NO HELP! PERIOD! so you need to gfy!
Why do u women get so mad like it’s ur kid he talkin about lol 😂😂😂😂😂
If 3 kids total $1k credit then $250 should be plenty for that child!!
I am so grateful to God that I was able to get full sole custody of my daughter and NEVER needed child support. My ex would not pay anything before we went to court so I knew he wasn’t going to pay anything once I had full custody. It was absolutely his loss because our daughter grew up to be a wonderful, beautiful, smart educated young lady who now has a family of her own is a college graduate and is a scientist.
Think about the dad's that actually want to be a father. There women out there that father have support then have the father show up. How do you think that makes the dad feel?
Is she married?
If your children are receiving public assistance you are receiving PA.
Poor guy. Screwed by the system again!
If she can't afford to take care of her kids and needs his money, did shouldn't have the kids
They're not her kids lol it's their kids ...he cant support his kids by you're logic since he's complaining about paying and says he can't afford it why would he have the kids?
Or should the kids be in the system by your logic 😂 a system that's horrible and harsh on kids
Like she had those kids all by herself 🤦♀️
If he can't afford all those kids then he should have kept it in his pants or gotten a vasectomy.
This dude was so pleased to say how long he was under paying. Well, now back to reality and he has to pay the proper amount. Can you imagine how his child will feel when she/he discovers that Dad wants custody just so he doesn't have to pay increased child support. I am always amazed at the guys (mostly) who don't want to pay. Jeeze.
If he gets custody which is his right why does he need to pay the mother anything.
@@ryanscott2470 Watch it again. Both parents should have been paying their fair share, from the beginning. He has an opportunity to do the right thing going forward. I hope he does it.
Lol he complaining about 800??? That ain't shit were I live!!
he was paying less than 300 a month but they did a review and it went up to 800... so now he complaining, I understand why cause with his 3800 dollar a month income.. he was paying peanuts before the review.
I got 900 for 3 kids in Texas
I currently pay $3,022 for two kids in California. I would kill to only pay $800
@@Rmanaseri you live in California...
@RICH PERSPECTIVES I know, once this job is over, I am never returning to this hell hole.
Its funny they never asked! How long she been making 13 dollars an hour🤷🏿♂️
I love these men that want a reset in life because they divorced. Ex-wife and children can struggle in poverty, while he can buy a new home.
She should have a job as well! You can’t rely on someone else!
The courts should use the formula regardless of if the kids are on public assistance or not.
This guy keeps talking about he hasn't paid more in seven years... and that everything is more expensive now. Does he realize that he is supporting the case for an increase in child support?
I manage a drug store. The average price for a box of 12 condoms is about $15. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
News article said a man fought for custody to lower child support. He ended up shaking a 6month old healthy baby girl. She died.
As a single father of a 13 year old, I can promise u that it doesn’t cost 800 a month to support a kid. I spend maybe 400 and that’s with allowance and entertainment. I make good money too. I have full custody of my kid. This poor guy. Why isn’t mom working??!?!? Wtf find a job! Also dad needs to get more overnights but not just cause child support!
Mom has a full time job. She is also the one primarily caring for the kids while Daddy Dearest is off with his new family. And you're full of it. If I add up bills, clothes, food, etc. that I pay for my kids, it's easily most of my take home pay and I make good money. I'd love to know where you're living that $400 is sufficient to support one child much less multiple kids like in this scenario.
@@darafisher1576 If you're buying hundreds of dollars worth of cloths for your kids EVERY month then your probably living beyond your means. I live in FLorida. 400 dollars is actually on the higher end too.
Wow!! Like food cost didnt go up for the mom, too!
She gets food stamps! Gfy
@@bullet5596Exactly, food stamps, maybe cash benefits as well, she said she works and she gets child support.
Every parent should be required to work. Split costs of daycare. Split time evenly. No child support. If someone refuses to split time then and only then should child support be issued. It should be based on the difference in income between the parents. So if the guy makes 30,000 and she makes 25,000 then it should be based on the 5,000 difference. But only if they don’t share equal custody.
He only has them ever other weekend
@@sw3116 then it should be based off both their incomes. She’s receiving welfare so why isn’t she the deadbeat? She isn’t paying for her kid either. We are. It’s funny how quickly everyone complains about him but not her for getting welfare benefits. If he can’t pay he goes to jail. If she can’t pay she gets help from taxpayers. They are both deadbeats.
He says he has no choice... dude can choose to stop making kids, ffs.
The child not in the house shouldn't be allocated anymore money than the children in the house. That is a BS part of this. We really just need to require that whatever parent takes the child simply accepts all costs. That will fix most of this.
Child support should go onto a special debit card so all expenses can be tracked.
and if its not even his kid?
i been paying 550$ for 2 children a month.. she just had a review in the courts yesterday and they say i owe $1,100 per month.. this is ridiculous..
Don't start a new life and obligations without factoring in your current life
This was literally like watching a playout of my child support drama. Dad makes 30k more a year than I do. Is only granted 1 week a year. And griped for WEEKS about his CS amount.
GRANTED?
Why are people plain heartless these days
@avid459 Yes. "Granted." I know it's all too easy to jump to a conclusion about a person based on a single YT comment, but try to keep in mind you're neither in possession of all the facts or the full context of the situation. Neither of which I'm under any obligation nor desire to provide.
@@bytesizeterror32 We know a few facts,
You divorced him, he was heartbroken.
You broke his house and heart, took away his kid and then you demand money using the child and our mafia like courts. Poor lad can only see his child one week in a year, imagine the pain he must be in.
Imagine if you had to be away from your child how hurt and resentful would you be, over that, then you poke fun at him on a public platform. Well done
@@avid459 BWAHAHAHA! You assume too much. Waaay too much. You go ahead with that premise if it makes you feel better.
For those saying child support isn’t fair, the state, WE are paying for the assistance the kids are receiving. Men should not start new families when they already have one.
Just watching these makes me so grateful for my life lol I don’t have to deal with this in my household with my 19 & 17 year old children.
He has a point. He’s got to be able to live too!
Then he needs to go get a better paying job. That's how life works.
Get a better job or stop having kids....it's easy unless you're a freaking idiot 🙄
@@darafisher1576but then his child support increases
@@carlosamador3045 fr its bs kids dont need that much 😂
She finna be dripping her new man out with yo money boy!😂😂😂 She gets food stamps and a medical card, so all that extra money is going where?
That's the thing the state is taking a portion of the money back and then maybe giving the mother $300 to cover the food stamps and Medicare. So why not close her government account? Since people don't really know what child support really is.
Examples of passive bribery include: An employee working in a bank accepting a bribe to share customer data. A security guard bribed to allow access into a building for the purpose of theft. A procurement professional accepting a bribe to award a contract to a vendor
So glad I don’t have to go through this anymore.
It sure didn't take long for the comment section to devolve into women with deadbeat exes and men who hate woman, shrieking at each other.
The calculator is broken just like the system. I begged for joint custody of my girls that I was with every day and then a judge takes my kids and tells me to pay CS. You lose time with your kids, your home, your junk, and most importantly your children. My final CS payment is next Friday but the tragedy is the time I lost with my precious baby girls that can never be recovered. And this is in a no-fault divorce. Shame on you for taking my kids away from me and what you do to so many others.
Hopefully the next generation of men will see these videos. Use contraception and never get married. The court is not your friend.
If she's working full-time and still is eligible to receive state insurance and food assistance for your kids, there is certainly an issue! Plus, you're seeing them a minimal amount of time, so she's getting no breaks either. The judge suggested several times that if he increased his overnights, it would help bring down the monthly amount. His only response to that is to threaten to take them away from her out of spite! He's a piece of work!
Yes and he blamed her and her boyfriend 🤦🏾
Exactly!! If he can’t pay child support, how the hell could he afford to have them full-time?
There is a issue affordable healthcare it’s a shame a person works and can’t afford healthcare when it’s free in other countries 😂
It didn't even upset him when they talked about his kids getting food assistance. He was more worried about buying a new house.😡
I wonder who he thinks should cloth and feed his children
anyone else, but him. he wants to buy a house and live his life in peace....
You and me.
Not her right?
They both should.
@@dcg590 She works as well
A good attorney is crucial in Cs cases, especially when the case is with the AG's office. The custodial parent has representation, so believe me, the non-custodial better have a rep too....and a good one.
For only $1,500 our attorney saved my husband well over $67,000 in additional child support. That doesn't even include the medical support he never had to pay.
A good attorney will keep it out of the IV kangaroo court. Ours delayed the case going to court for over 10 years.
By the time the AG sued my husband, we had two kids of our own. So the calculation went from 20% of his income, down to 16%.
The case was put in family court where we had a sympathetic judge. The AG wanted my husband to pay almost $800 a month in cs.
Because of some smooth dealing, my husband only paid $364 a month. He didn't have to pay medical support, and no extras.
Our attorney put the ex on the stand and showed her for the POS that she is and the judge said he would not hear this case in his court again.
In concluusion, the case could never be heard again, husband only paid a fraction of what he would have based on his income, and no medical support.
The amount he saved us is very likely over $80,000.
A non custodial can't afford not to hire an attorney.
My child support was taken away from me for having P.A. for 6mnts back in 2000, and we are in 2023. My children father nor I had any idea this was happening at all. The child support was set and agreed on 15 years ago, and out of nowhere, they took the funds from me and my children. Both my children's father and I worked all our lives and only needed help once, and now they are taking funds funds from our pay checks for only needing help once 15 years ago. Any adivse???
I know so many guys that pay child support is ridiculous. And most of them gripe about it And I know several who had babies with other women And divorced that one too so they’re paying child support to two families.
80% of divorces are initiated by women. You’re an idiot.
Lmao oof. I always said Id never get with a man with children but my husband has one and he never once mentioned any negative feelings with his CS payments which are $700/mo. He buys him expensive electronics and pays for more than he even legally should.
Major turn on for me when a man takes care of his babies.
@@prihaps He supports his ex with that money. He probably also still gets some pussy for the money as well.
Paying money is not taking care of children. Staying married and not being degenerate American subhumans is taking care of children.
Your comment reads like it was written by a child.
You know, it's not easy to get custody in this scenario. My husband has an ex like this. She never worked, stayed on public assistance, and kept having kids. CPS was frequently involved.
He was paying a boatload of child support for over a decade, well over $100K. He had to fight tooth and nail to see or even call the kids, and we had to fly to court several times to get summer/holiday visitation on paper. (Mom took the kids and fled to a state 1000 miles away, then actively alienated them. They all have PTSD from it.)
After a court-ordered Christmas visit in 2020-the first time a Christmas visit had ever been allowed-the kids decided they wanted to come live with us. We're a healthy family with normal-range parents. Their mother flipped out that she wouldn't get child support anymore because she couldn't afford to support her other kids. My husband suggested, perhaps she should get a job? More flipping out. He agreed to continue paying child support even when the kids moved in with us, just to get them out of that abusive household.
Their mother followed the kids to our state a month later. 10 months after that, she ran one state away after an arrest for DV here. When she left the state, my husband was granted an emergency custody order due to abandonment. Child support was terminated, and their mother *still* asks to borrow money more than a year later.
Children are NOT paychecks!
I hate that that happened to you and your husband
@@MrsNikkiStephenson thanks, me too! I hate that the kids got hurt most of all. They didn't deserve the treatment they got, and it took them awhile to truly understand they were safe. They're doing much better now, but it hasn't been easy. Getting them effective counseling locally has been a challenge here, and Better Help was too expensive.
I feel terrible for their younger siblings on their mother's side too. None of this was their fault, and they're on their own now with two terrible parents 4 hours away from us. At least when they were in the state, they could visit with our kids on the weekends. We'd also welcome their family to visit at our house so the kids could spend time together.
This woman will have more money annually now than the father. She is choosing to make only $13.50 a hour when McDonald's starts at $15 an hour. I feel like this mother is choosing to be underemployed. If CPS in involved, custody should be re-evaluated.
@HBatch, you have NO idea if this mother can earn more than $13.50 an hour. Maybe McDonald’s hours don’t work for her, since she’s a single parent and has to, oh yeah, take care of absolutely everything in her kid’s lives. I’ll use your logic then and tell that man’s new wife to get off her rear and get herself a job so she can help ends meet with his second family. If you can’t afford the kids from your first relationship, you need not be having any others.
@Mary S, your husband has an ex “like this”? Do you know this lady? Do you know exactly how things went down in this marriage? You’re very arrogant. And apparently psychic.
Does his new wife work ?? 😊
I have 3 children and they are all grown now. I was only getting 450.00 amonth for the 3 of them.
For 2 kids, that's not bad. Maybe he should have considered not buying another house or having more kids.
50/50 custody and they should both be lying their own way: if she can’t afford them then she shouldn’t have custody of them
My husbands cousin has like 6 kids 4 different mums 🙄 he earns alot he pays alot and he doesn't live with any of then now. Granted most are adults only 2 teens now but he sees them every fortnight. Don't breed if you don't wanna take care of them!!!! $22 USD per hr is alot.