7 Simple Steps to Calm an Argument
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- čas přidán 29. 12. 2022
- In this video, we're going to teach you how to deal with arguments effectively. We'll discuss the different types of arguments and give you a step-by-step guide on how to resolve them.
No matter what kind of relationship you have, you'll find that arguments happen from time to time. This video will teach you how to communicate effectively with your partner so that arguments don't become destructive. By following these simple steps, you'll be able to resolve conflicts peacefully and in a healthy way!
#howto #arguments
When dealing with conflict, some people may act passive aggressively. But why? Here is a video all about it: • Why Are Some People Pa...
Writer: Daila Ayala
Editor: Denise Ding
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Drew
Animator: Dinda
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
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Ok
@Psych2Go can you make a video on when to know you have a toxic relationshi
@Psych2Go what is PSI?
I have now I didn't realize there was a second channel
Why talk about politics in the beginning of the video? Gross.
0:52 1. Keep temperature even
2:05 2. Have a sense of humor
2:53 3. ask questions and listen carefully
4:11 4. Realize and accept you might be wrong
5:20 5. Agreements are not forbidden
6:22 6. Research and use facts
7:05 7. Appeal to higher values
Awesome, thanks!!
@@listeningtomusicistalentidgaf you’re welcome
@@Partyqueen594 :D
Here are two additional tips that actually help:
1. Argue for the other side/person
2. Limit an argument to only one reply that must be very well thought and only one reply from the adversary
appeal*
From my experience.
Just speak calmly and listen well.
Don't just hear what you want. Don't forget that just because you're right that doesn't mean the other person is wrong.
Thx
There it is! 👍
HAPPY NEW YEARS EVERYONE! Cheers to happiness ☀️
I’m so afraid and anxious I would love to be calmer and happy!
Hope u be happier, healthier and better (in all senses) in 2023!! All the best.
Whatever it is you've dealt with in the past I hope you find that thing which helps you to feel more comfortable in your own skin. It isn't much but reframing your thoughts is a good starting point that you can do without much practice. Keeping a day journal or replaying affirmations you are confident in can help. The point isn't to replace negative with positive emotion but rather to make yourself aware of your own emotions to turn your thought process into something you control, instead of your emotions controlling your actions.
✨ Timestamps & major points✨
1. 0:51 Keep the temperature even
2. 2:03 Have a sense of humor
3. 2:52 Ask questions and listen carefully
4. 4:09 Realize and accept you might be wrong
5. 5:19 Agreements are not forbidden
6. 6:21 Research and use facts
7. 7:02 Appeal to higher values
Thank you!!
When im in an argument and realize this is just going to escalate more and more i just take a breather and stare them dead in the eyes Wednesday style lmao they then either just get scared or keep screaming at me and realize they have gone to far
Perfect.
Oh a hidden video!
Good job!
@e.h.6529 same, i dont understand that.
@🌇E.H.🌇 look at the time they commented... 6 days ago
they had early access
@@akito.281 same
@@organicmosquito 🥹
God literally recommended this to me for some reason.
I think its the algorithm which did that but ok.
I actually needed this like 5 hours ago but it's fine- thank you btw!
(Yes, I somehow got into an odd argument but we calmed down and fixed everything :D)
I WAS LITERALLY JUST SEARCHING THIS ON GOOGLE OMG THE TIMING IS IMMACULATE
Yep, making sure that you approach each case as an individual and calmly assess the methods that work best. For some it's reason and debunking misinformation. For most it's personal experience and other (non-lethal) ways of persuasion ;)
Ah so it's ok to permanently cripple someone! 😃
@@TrueHey refer to number 2, buckoo
@@jjaa_joyjoyartist I mean it's not lethal
Yeah! I NEED THIS🔥I AM ALWAYS CALM🔥EVERYTIME I HAD AN ARGUMENT WITH SOMEONE, NO HESITATION, STRAIGHT TO THE FACE🔥
To be honest I always go into arguments and I love it
Timestamps
1). Keep the temperature ever 0:50
2). Have a sense of humour 2:04
3). Ask questions and listen carefully 2:51
4). Realise and accept you might be wrong 4:09
5). Agreements are not forbidden 5:17
6). Research and use facts 6:20
7). Appeal to higher values 7:02
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.💙💙💙💙💙💙
Ahh...this video reminds me of THEM.
How they used to calm down me when I used to agitated or hyper.They used to say that you need to cool down during heated argument.I would get ignited very easily and early during that times.
Now when I look back I am more tamable and easy going person.
Adapted methods like deep breathing, counting one to hundred,squeezing stress ball,pressing the tips of pens continuously, bursting the popper etc.etc.
All these techniques I have imbibed within self so that neither me nor others gets harmed.
After continuous therapy and medications I am more of a social amicable person.
Thanks to my doc and to THEM too.
I'm really happy for ya!!
Hope ur doing good.
Oh ! I forgot to mention.
Keeping quiet and listening to the accusations and not giving a reply to the argument are some key factors.
I prefer keeping quiet and calm and listen to the blaa-blaa instead of giving a befitting reply.
If possible I try to move away from that place for the interest of both.
This is my success mantra to be jovial and happy even during argument..
Ssshhh ! Please don't tell anyone.
Especially to THEM..🤫
Y'all calm down. This voice is beautiful too. I love it sm!! Thanks a lot psych2go team for all these informative vids. It has helped us a lot. Happy new year everyone!!
Lets look forward to making new experiences and memories in 2023 and become a slightly better version of what we are now. Cheers!!
Edit :- i hope autocorrect cooperates with me in 2023 😭😭
No, is not beautiful... it's weird, cringe
@@matchmasterqueen5054As much as i respect ur opinion - I'm just stating mine. Its nothing to be so worked up about, ifykwim.
I agree with you and btw, I love your username, very creative in my opinion
@@KD_moderateotaku thanks :D
new voice actor? love the changes in voice & editing, it's awesome to see how you guys rotate in jobs (hopefully rotate ;-;)
I love all your videos! I wish I see these videos earlier! ❤
I’m like the calmest person ever tbh you could yell at me and I wouldn’t have an bit of anger at you
I wish I could be like that
Me too
Thank you for the help! but even though my emotions had been rough for a bit and also a few didn’t understand how I look or feel. And saying things and calling me ugly and asides from that. I had a conversation with my classmate named John, we sorta talked different things but we got along, and yeah. And my little brother too, and not rage! But Anyways Thank you and take care and if your experiencing these. your not alone. especially even they misunderstand or they looked at you as something bad. Don’t bring your anger and all. Just remain calm and you’re going to be okay! Like me when I experienced these. But we all are human. And we had accidents, and mistakes and most lies. Just remember don’t overthink, even life is tough. We all matter and May had those things but we can do this. And not give up! No one is a loser and a winner. We’ve all had theses! Even when the world changes hard and makes people like that, don’t get to hard on anyone and don’t judge their races and anything even Asians! Everyone loves everything they loved and we may act differently but it takes practice. I apologize if I’ve made a longer paragraph!
Thank you for this video and tips. I’ll try to think of them, especially the quote about: “most people don’t listen to understand but to reply/retort”
Had an argument with my friend. Thanks to this video, the argument did not heat up much.
I needed this tbh
Please make a video about how to check if someone is manipulating you or not
If someone is outright yelling at you and it is someone you care about, the best thing you can do is stay quiet. Let them argue themselves down to whatever has gotten them so heated. At this point the argument isn't between you and them; it is between them and themselves. If you are not actually part of an argument or discussion, there is no way to prove your point.
Acknowledging an understanding of their perspective, is not agreeing with their perspective. It is though, proof to the other person that you have been listening.
Just know that if you resort to insults, you’ve already lost.
If everyone watched your videos, the world would be such a better place :'D
Another one that can be added to this is know when to take a break or walk away. If emotions do get to high you may want to take a break, calm down, and then return to the conversation. If you are getting no where in the conversation and both sides are feeling frustrated or angry it might be best to just end the conversation before permeant damage is done to the relationship. This is not always an easy thing to do but can be extremely helpful.
Ty 4 the new tips
Thanks for your amazing content
Thank you for the help and your right thank you
*Me, studying this video before i come out to my family*
oof hope it went good
2:19 had to rewind to listen to it over and over. “Enforced one-way shots firing: is bullying”!
topics like this are so important
Love the video!!! 😍😍😍
Thx so much this will be extremely useful 😁
Not this being uploaded right after I was involved in an argument 💀
Such a calm voice
Drew has lovely voice ❤️💖
Don't think I've heard this person. Love how they speak. Has there been male speakers. I've only heard 3 voices
Thank you
I needed this video ❤
*No.4 needs to be No.1 ...*
... and _it needs to be explicitly stated by both parties._
Both people need to openly concede to the other person that it's just _possible_ that they could be wrong about anything they currently believe is true.
Do _not_ proceed into any argument where both parties cannot concede their own human frailty. The simple fact is that we could all be wrong about anything. If somebody can't just concede that, then just walk away, and state that the reason that you are walking away is that it's pointless to argue with somebody who will never, ever change their own mind.
As soon as both parties agree that it's possible that they could be wrong about anything, the argument instantly cools down, and instead turns into two people exploring each other ideas and way of thinking. That's much nicer!
Great massage
The thing is people come to me and start arguing even when I did nothing to them
Tapping into a person’s mouth for me can become worse with the meaning in their mind of me telling them to quiet off.
Well I will never try to calm an internet argument because those things are very rare anyways and should last forever
Oh, thank u Psych2go🥰❤️😍
YAY! 🎉 😄
Practicing for dinner with my family later, thanks ❤
Thank You all at Psych2Go. Bringing a spoiler to the discussion is that we are all not at our best at all time's. That being related, the world's people have created antagonist. In an ideal population the validation is a reasonable objective. As we are now we have discrediting people that we threaten with honesty, respectful behavior's ,and so on. The are adept at picking fight's and know our passion's. I relate this personally , and hope to clue other's in.
Sadly I've found some unable to even begin to handle their own emotions, and become completely out of control. It's hard then
"but cereal before milk is common sense"
Le mood-swinged me: _I put cereals and milk before bowl_
Thousandth like! 🤗
Milk before cereal indeed
That is an extremely cute art style
Yay!
if only i had found this video yesterday.
Sending this to my boyfriend:)
So, i did all the steps a long time agoo, i learn to understand the humans, and whith this theme, more and more i learn to understand the bonds, witch i respect above all, so what can i do to calm my patner with life??
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Hello Psych2go!🥰😀😁🤗🤩😍
my healthy autistic/ADHD household functions perfectly fine without constant calm emotes
I really can't focus on the rest of the video with this being point one. I'm so sick of people not taking me seriously when i can clearly communicate my needs during a meltdown but so many people have demanded i calm down before they help me calm down.
And i mean simple needs like some alone time or for a light to be turned off because i'm having sensory over load
Start a respectful argument to practice what we learned:
2:14 scared to always say the same mean things because I just KNEW he would EXPLODE, making it worse for me on the receiving end 😓
New voice actor?
Does this help me when I combat my depressed brain?
What. ? New voice?
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Can you please do a CZcams video of how to deal with a toxic manipulator😉☢️ love your CZcams channel😎🤍
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2:02 hmm, I was told “its not MY problem that you put feelings into how I say things. That’s a YOU problem” (because he said something very harshly, while his body language was also aggressive / closed off ) 😓
How we actually handle arguments
1. Get mad
2. Start getting defensive
3. Yelling starts
4. Yo mamma jokes form
5. tears pool
6. Self-esteems crush
(Both exit opposites sides to hide their feelings)
and scene
She has a great voice but the inconsistent intonation makes these videos harder to understand
This. I skipped some because of it.
Wow I’m early
First 🏆
bro was so early the video wasn’t officially published💀💀
@@spectacularobman4153 💀
Secret Video???
Be like GoW's Thor and ask if they are a calm and reasonable person.
wait a second
is the thumbnail Grian and Scar or am I insane and also obsessed with hermitcraft
5:33 😂😂😂
Ok but this all seems like how you can stop an argument BEFORE you have to try to calm it instead of when it already has become heated and it needs to be calmed.
Yea but my parents when they argue with me they always take me the wrong way and that’s why I can’t go to cheer next week because I told my dad I finished in the shower and i guess it sounded like slightly rude😢
We have to act like Batman very calm
Really??😆😆
Then we're Superman 😂
Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😋😋😋
That's not Amanda 🫨
🤔
Accept the L, even when you are right😅
Especially with women
Early
Hi. I live with a very argumentative mother, who yells at me if i try to argue with her. Is there any way to combat this?
32 seconds or to say half a stack
Is that grian and scar I see in the thumbnail
Cereal before milk at all times.
Halo Cindy sis.. how are you?
Hi:D
What is this voice? A 6am sleepy me sounds less tired than whoever is talking.
What is her name love her voice 😍
@mothgirl your welcome your cute haha
view streak #16
Damn that voice!
early..?
Congrats!!
This isn’t you your better than this
but war is the only way to live in 2022 D:
o7