The mindset that changed my life IMMEDIATELY

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  • čas přidán 16. 02. 2024
  • I'm not gonna lie I've been in a challenging place the last few months, but this mindset really did change my life right away and has genuinely been helping me move forward and stay dedicated. I hope this helps someone out there as significantly as it helped me.
    Also I am extremely proud of how well this little project came out so I can't wait to make more in the near future so stay tuned.
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Komentáře • 1,9K

  • @ThrillOfTheFight
    @ThrillOfTheFight Před 2 měsíci +5773

    I have a feeling the algorithm will reward you for this

    • @azyysart
      @azyysart Před 2 měsíci +91

      Seriously the same feeling

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  Před 2 měsíci +475

      I hope so but I just hope this reaches the people that need it 🤞

    • @Pompompommm
      @Pompompommm Před 2 měsíci +56

      @@sleepycharliee it did, thank you.

    • @Farhan_sav
      @Farhan_sav Před 2 měsíci +19

      ​@@sleepycharlieei needed it brother

    • @iemsawant
      @iemsawant Před 2 měsíci +11

      ​@@sleepycharlieeit will man.

  • @DaSpeedSter
    @DaSpeedSter Před 2 měsíci +4913

    “The pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something.” You changed my life with this one. You really did. Once again, thank you man.

    • @GAMEEX1066
      @GAMEEX1066 Před 2 měsíci +48

      Something similar that i'm always thinking about lately is "pain of regret is always greater than pain of discipline".

    • @Pap3rKoI.
      @Pap3rKoI. Před 2 měsíci +6

      I loved that

    • @jackcarpenters3759
      @jackcarpenters3759 Před 2 měsíci +8

      i enjoy doing nothing.

    • @jindipity4772
      @jindipity4772 Před 2 měsíci

      @@jackcarpenters3759 But would you enjoy it in the long run?

    • @Random_Ladd__
      @Random_Ladd__ Před 2 měsíci +3

      While action is a life giving breath, inaction is a slow death. - Joey Schweitzer

  • @platchet
    @platchet Před 2 měsíci +1121

    “If you get 1% better every single day, you will be 365% better in one year.”

    • @jafarmohammad4653
      @jafarmohammad4653 Před 2 měsíci +50

      37 times better according to james clear in his book atomic habits

    • @rvanderelstyt
      @rvanderelstyt Před měsícem +65

      It's 1% on top of 1% on top of 1% etc. Mathematically it's this: 1.01 ^ 365 which equals to 37.7834343329 times better in one year (like @jafarmohammad4653 said) 😄

    • @platchet
      @platchet Před měsícem +11

      @@rvanderelstyt ok thanks that clears it up 😂 im pretty bad with math. The concept still stands though.

    • @converse5874
      @converse5874 Před měsícem

      @@jafarmohammad4653 I'll take it

    • @michaelbishop9157
      @michaelbishop9157 Před měsícem

      it's aiming too high

  • @johnwallace9467
    @johnwallace9467 Před 2 měsíci +560

    I'm 55 years older than you and can say you are on the right track. Of course all geezers have advice so here is mine: 1-Take care of yourself physically. Most people who reach the age where the pressure to 'become something' is behind them are physical wrecks. Eat right and stay strong and you'll get to be the helper rather than the helpless. 2- Forgive yourself when you mess up and others who disappoint you. And yes, your mom was right about the single step (and you were right to thank her). That's it. Have a good life.

  • @riyandreams
    @riyandreams Před 2 měsíci +1093

    "Nothing changes, if nothing changes."

    • @GOAT676
      @GOAT676 Před 2 měsíci +4

      …man”

    • @jtperez657
      @jtperez657 Před 2 měsíci +14

      "You'll always be who you who've always been if you always do what you've always done"

    • @ajcraft-belight
      @ajcraft-belight Před měsícem +1

      May this be seen by those who proudly refuse to change. 😢🎡

    • @christianmills7728
      @christianmills7728 Před měsícem

      YES YES YES!!!! I came to this conclusion this year YES 🙏

    • @TheSilverShadow17
      @TheSilverShadow17 Před měsícem

      Which means that nobody can stop me from being me :D

  • @infinitefather
    @infinitefather Před 2 měsíci +782

    "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." ~ Lao Tzu

    • @jackcarpenters3759
      @jackcarpenters3759 Před 2 měsíci +6

      the step of getting in the taxi cab.

    • @Mikey2k24
      @Mikey2k24 Před 2 měsíci

      @@jackcarpenters3759😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @sbs-0055
      @sbs-0055 Před měsícem +1

      It’s not done until it’s over - Lao Tzu

    • @comradekenobi6908
      @comradekenobi6908 Před 7 dny

      This is step one
      SECURE THE KEYS

  • @sunside7
    @sunside7 Před měsícem +94

    "The slow, never-ending, subconscious discomfort of remaining dormant will always worse than the temporary and voluntary discomfort of making a change."
    What a great line!

    • @brassboy212
      @brassboy212 Před měsícem +1

      However, there's one other pain that's overlooked here. And it's more painful than both of these combined.
      The pain from realizing you've barely made progress when you thought you were.
      When you think you're doing well after reaching 45 feet, only to realize you SHOULD be past 100 feet at this point.
      Believing for some time you were at least trying to change things, only to realize you're barely any different than what you were when you started. And then the "at least I'm doing something" defense is no longer valid.

    • @zaierkaelt.villas6327
      @zaierkaelt.villas6327 Před 5 dny

      ​@@brassboy212 That's failure; and whatever philosophy that comes with it.

  • @theshapeshiftingartist
    @theshapeshiftingartist Před 2 měsíci +339

    I’m 17 and my only motivation to never give up is that i want to make sure my parents in the future live a comfortable and carefree life in their old age. They’ve done too much for me and for that reason i will never give up🙇‍♂️my time will come…i can see it, i know it, and i can feel it.

    • @ksalarang
      @ksalarang Před 2 měsíci +33

      you set taking care of your parents as your goal at 17? well done pal.

    • @wizzo1351
      @wizzo1351 Před 2 měsíci +13

      ​@@ksalarang Kudos to you for appreciating him❤️, You got a good heart

    • @ksalarang
      @ksalarang Před 2 měsíci

      @@wizzo1351 why, thank you

    • @Ivory936
      @Ivory936 Před 2 měsíci +3

      All you do needs to be for you, what youll do for you will without any doubt shines your environment. Remember sun doesn’t wake for us or any tree, it is in his purpose to shine us.

    • @butterbiggins2168
      @butterbiggins2168 Před měsícem +6

      God bless you , but please have some fun and make your own life first. That is all any parent would want for you

  • @dillonkeller4477
    @dillonkeller4477 Před 2 měsíci +492

    I don't even have big goals or dreams, I literally just want to take proper care of myself like a regular adult

    • @munyatingz9758
      @munyatingz9758 Před 2 měsíci +33

      U gotta find your self. U will live with a purpose. Finding yourself comes with everything you need but it’s not an easy journey

    • @prettyteeth
      @prettyteeth Před 2 měsíci +31

      Thats as noble a goal as you can get. To just be able to handle life as an adult.

    • @terrysutton8452
      @terrysutton8452 Před měsícem +6

      Me neither. I just let things slide. But the more I do that, the more overwhelming the task of getting my shit together seems to be. My only goals are to try to keep my home and myself clean. But if I achieve that, maybe I can push on from there. Still a work in progress, but if I can just do a little more each day, maybe I can start to think about what I might like to do to improve my life.

    • @jeancarlodelaluz6415
      @jeancarlodelaluz6415 Před 16 dny

      As simple as it sounds it's true and in my case all I wanted was a job and figure it out on the road but now I'm stressed and burnt out with these dumb ckwkoecokanwbdbxkakwkdbcnaqalqp holes co workers. It's been years since I felt like this and now that I met 2 new friends I have to leave them and work on my own once again. It's been 3 years since I last worked on myself that good.

  • @jnb-iv6zu
    @jnb-iv6zu Před 2 měsíci +910

    What's better than telling youself "just one step today" for people who are hard on themselves: after the day is done, and you habitually look back on your day and think "wow, once again I didn't do enough to reach my goals" you can now think "wow, I took one step today, and that's more than I thought. I _did_ do enough"

    • @VOID_productions_016
      @VOID_productions_016 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Thank you

    • @La0ha
      @La0ha Před 2 měsíci +5

      I just want to say thank you very much from an ambitious person from Iraq.🇮🇶 ❤

    • @heyitsaradia
      @heyitsaradia Před 2 měsíci +1

      🖤

    • @shylock1970
      @shylock1970 Před měsícem

      I really like this. Thank you 😊

  • @michellerobertson874
    @michellerobertson874 Před 2 měsíci +105

    I heard a comment a long time ago that said “Don’t not follow your dreams because of the time it will take. That time will pass anyway”. I thought that was a very good point.

    • @Priyanshiiw
      @Priyanshiiw Před 4 dny

      Omg, you won't believe it, but I was procrastinating a lot 2 hours ago and that's why I have written "time gonna fly anyway" on my left hand. I mean with a ball pen just to keep reminding myself.

    • @turtlec7140
      @turtlec7140 Před 3 dny

      Whoa! Thanks!!! That's such a great point.

  • @nemo6271
    @nemo6271 Před 2 měsíci +33

    _"you must change your life in order to change your life"_

  • @mutskyi
    @mutskyi Před 2 měsíci +630

    You deserve more views. Well done

  • @sybilsabir
    @sybilsabir Před 2 měsíci +345

    "You must change your life, in order change your life" MAN THIS HITS HARD!!

    • @inzhuerkin259
      @inzhuerkin259 Před 2 měsíci

      I still can’t get it

    • @Itadori-fu5me
      @Itadori-fu5me Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@inzhuerkin259 life doesn't change by itself, you change it by taking action

    • @Mikey2k24
      @Mikey2k24 Před 2 měsíci

      @@Itadori-fu5meit means you need to change your lifestyle to change your life

    • @Itadori-fu5me
      @Itadori-fu5me Před 2 měsíci

      @@Mikey2k24 similiar to what I said I guess

    • @Psyfi85
      @Psyfi85 Před 2 měsíci

      nothing changes if nothing changes

  • @kikibutterfly1137
    @kikibutterfly1137 Před 2 měsíci +26

    The simplest advice I ever received “something is better than nothing”👌

  • @dream-sn5op
    @dream-sn5op Před 2 měsíci +91

    I'm struggling with depression, overthinking, negative thoughts, and my situation just seems too messed up to fix, it feels overwhelming and hopeless. Many times it gets so hurtful, it's hard to keep going, I don't know if I even have goals/dreams anymore, many times I just want to end it, but this idea of one step at a time, even very small, without thinking of the entire mountain your about to climb, that kinda sounds less overwhelming, and more doable. thank you.

    • @user-cv4ew3yl5m
      @user-cv4ew3yl5m Před měsícem +8

      Please don't give up

    • @maryrogers7799
      @maryrogers7799 Před měsícem +7

      Your story isn't over yet. If you have a pulse, you have a purpose. You are loved and needed.

    • @cosbyjackson5053
      @cosbyjackson5053 Před měsícem +6

      This too, will pass you are loved, and you love. Don’t worry so much. ❤️

    • @carmenl163
      @carmenl163 Před měsícem +5

      That is actually very brave of you to try and change. I know (trust me, I know) how overwhelming things can be when you have no energy. So, for you to commit to taking one step is a considerable achievement. Well done!

    • @jlockwood65
      @jlockwood65 Před měsícem +5

      We see you.
      U r not alone.
      Never WERE.

  • @h1t1
    @h1t1 Před 2 měsíci +748

    Needed this thank you bro

    • @Lamara179
      @Lamara179 Před 2 měsíci +8

      hey void, hope this video helped you, i know its not mine but im trying to give you more motivation, i know you can do it, you will do it its just matter of time, alright stay hard, love your void tho

    • @way2saturn
      @way2saturn Před 2 měsíci +8

      I hope this will help you to get out of the void just take small steps

    • @NglAjitesh
      @NglAjitesh Před 2 měsíci

      Bro is doing everything he can to escape the void

    • @_0_Deleted_0_
      @_0_Deleted_0_ Před 2 měsíci

      Are you gonna edit this one too?

    • @Awesomefy11
      @Awesomefy11 Před 2 měsíci

      Bros about to leave the void.

  • @Sims_gaming
    @Sims_gaming Před 2 měsíci +177

    You got me out of bed. I’d been on my phone for 2 hours, thinking about how far behind on my goals I am. Now I’m at my PC. When I click send, I’ll work for 30 mins on my script for my game.
    Why is motivation so hard? This phone is like a trap sometimes. But I’m grateful I saw your video. Right now I’m hopeful.

    • @edu2428
      @edu2428 Před 2 měsíci +5

      I work from 07:30am to 17:30pm and have game dev as a hobby. I know how you feel. Maybe tonight I will push miself into action too😅

    • @shahxad6533
      @shahxad6533 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I hope you keep doing the work without any motivation. Good luck bro

    • @anxils
      @anxils Před 2 měsíci +7

      Use drive instead of motivation, both are two different things of course, but motivation will always disappoint, drive is more like discipline, do it even when you don’t want to. The outcome at the end is more rewarding than waiting for the motivation to do something, even if it’s a small amount. There’s ways of breaking habits and it’s always a cue, crave, reward ordeal, find what’s making you the way you are, study it and you will find more about yourself that you never knew.

    • @ViniuauCP
      @ViniuauCP Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@anxils+1
      Motivation is volatile, rely on your drive to do the things that you have to get done. It's easy, but it gets easier.

  • @socialworkgroupa5256
    @socialworkgroupa5256 Před 13 dny +128

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @Somusicais
      @Somusicais Před 13 dny

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need

    • @MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht
      @MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht Před 13 dny

      Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @HAMZAPINE
      @HAMZAPINE Před 13 dny

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this
      Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @Somusicais
      @Somusicais Před 13 dny

      Is he on instagram?

    • @MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht
      @MohamedZaitoun-mh9ht Před 13 dny

      Yes he is dr.porass.

  • @fujiokakujo
    @fujiokakujo Před 2 měsíci +39

    i just say this everyday “i just need to be at least 1% better than yesterday” and it helped me

  • @ArchitSinghBais
    @ArchitSinghBais Před 2 měsíci +189

    I am in the exact same slump. It's 2:40 AM and after watching this video, i have decided to take my one step. Thank you
    Your new subscriber ✨

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  Před 2 měsíci +15

      You got this, I’m extremely happy I could help

    • @synappl2479
      @synappl2479 Před 2 měsíci +4

      it’s 2:38 am for me, swearrr i be getting motivated in the middle of the night. 🙏😭

  • @Sandhya14947
    @Sandhya14947 Před 2 měsíci +29

    These words ❤"Don't look at the entire mountain you're about to climb just find where you're going to put your foot."

    • @Sorchia56
      @Sorchia56 Před měsícem

      I wrote that on my refrigerator, in sharpie! The frig is next to my coffee maker, I’ll see it several times throughout the day! ❤ ⛰️ 👟

    • @Sandhya14947
      @Sandhya14947 Před měsícem

      @@Sorchia56 🤍👍

  • @madwhitehare3635
    @madwhitehare3635 Před měsícem +12

    "If you can't be a blessing to yourself , go out and be a blessing to someone else.
    The reward is immediate. You will hold yourself in greater regard if you have helped another."
    ...God...

  • @gorankswarnkar9008
    @gorankswarnkar9008 Před 2 měsíci +30

    5 years, didn't cried, this last five minutes made me cry like hell, I got so emotional.

  • @hallson9213
    @hallson9213 Před 2 měsíci +88

    Im 31 this year, still have no idea what im doing right now. Whenever i feel hopeless, this kind of video shows up. By watching it helps me calm down a little bit. So thank you.

    • @blackhagalaz
      @blackhagalaz Před 2 měsíci +9

      Other 31 yo here. Same thing I don't know what I am doing. I had a burnout last year, and can't work since then. Went to a clinic which helped a while and then I fell into a hole again. But honestly? Today I had a good day, and coincidentally this video showed up. Today I just sat down on the balcony and did some pottery work. That kept my mind of the negativity. When I see "The mountain" I am looking at a whole new career path, because I can't return to my old job. But my one step today was just finding something enjoyable and be OK with not having figured everything out jet.
      Let this be your first step tomorrow... knowing that most of us don't have a clue what we are doing. We are all just bull-sh*tting ourselves through life. You are not alone :).

    • @BilobateDrip
      @BilobateDrip Před měsícem +4

      32 here and exactly the same. I hope you all find a turnaround, even if slow at first. Charlie, thank you for this video, it means a lot to hear

    • @TheNyhm1
      @TheNyhm1 Před měsícem +4

      I’m 57 with a really bad back and I don’t want to work in my business anymore. Too painful and everyday in an absolute struggle. I feel trapped and my own wife doesn’t really understand

    • @br0k3ndad
      @br0k3ndad Před měsícem +1

      ​@@TheNyhm1women never understand, nor care. They are self obsessed narcissists

  • @WashifAdnan
    @WashifAdnan Před měsícem +7

    "The pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something " Hits hard

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 Před 14 dny +5

    "Be the change you want to see" That is my prayer of action each day.

  • @Spifey
    @Spifey Před 2 měsíci +134

    really good video thanks

    • @ReflexXeon
      @ReflexXeon Před 2 měsíci +4

      Hey dude! U made my childhood 💙

    • @reynaa3205
      @reynaa3205 Před 2 měsíci

      Its been a long time since i watch ur vid lol

  • @elevatewithmettavijnana6170
    @elevatewithmettavijnana6170 Před 2 měsíci +22

    “You must change your life in order to change your life” Good one

  • @callumcruickshank5236
    @callumcruickshank5236 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Why am I crying watching this? This has been my life since 2019. I’ve just not felt like I’m progressing. I’m in my last year of uni with 2 months left and feel so scared, stressed and like I’m stopping myself from achieving the goal of graduating. But the “just take one step” has really put things into perspective for me. I’m going to consistently study and keep pushing to be better. Thank you ❤️

  • @valvo3389
    @valvo3389 Před 9 dny +3

    Overthinking and cycling through negative thoughts is a tough battle I’ve been going through for years now and I hope that I’ll make it through. I’ve learnt that staying present and not having high expectations helps me a lot.

  • @mitaasy
    @mitaasy Před 2 měsíci +7

    “Don’t look at the entire mountain” love it. I have same problem.

  • @Pretko
    @Pretko Před 2 měsíci +75

    This video deserves WAY more views. Thanks for inspiring me.

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  Před 2 měsíci +6

      Thank you, I’ll always keep striving to inspire

  • @chrisdanner2785
    @chrisdanner2785 Před 2 měsíci +60

    That film making was great ! Appreciation from France, you deserve more man !

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  Před 2 měsíci +3

      France?! That’s awesome thank you for the kind words ❤️❤️

  • @cloobzy
    @cloobzy Před 2 měsíci +1

    legitimately now one of my favorite videos on youtube at this very moment, your words really threw a punch through my chest - from how true it all really is. thank you for this, it's actually so great.

  • @FluidMotionPictures
    @FluidMotionPictures Před 2 měsíci

    This is really heartfelt. I watch a lot of youtube and motivational videos and you have your own unique touch. Nice work!

  • @brokenice9471
    @brokenice9471 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Your cinematography is on point bro! People always be exaggerating online, but your shots actually look movie quality. Thanks for the message too, it’s a good reminder to keep trying.

  • @jacobpoulton3547
    @jacobpoulton3547 Před 2 měsíci +4

    this is incredible, not only the advice but also the character in the video. The 1:1 ratio, the beautiful color grading, the incredible cinematography. Please keep creating.

  • @HNblaz
    @HNblaz Před 2 měsíci +8

    I suffer from the constant fear of being not good enough. I would get a pretty good level for art, social skills, even video games...but I would constantly think it's not good enough. I'm so bad at anything. At least that's what my subconscious permanently thinks and makes me believe.
    It is so hard to keep up the pace of my life because I try to do so much things, that I end up exhausted, anxious and often, burnt out. I can make everything in two days, then sleep for weeks after. It's been two months since I haven't drawn anything. I did just one sketch yesterday, yet I feel like it's not enough, it's not a well finished piece.
    I work really hard on myself for years with my loved ones. I really want to feel like one step is enough and be proud of myself for once.
    I will be enough, and that's way sooner than what my brain wants me to believe.
    Thank you for your video.

    • @ShayHarding
      @ShayHarding Před měsícem

      I can't draw at all, so you're better than me at it.

    • @HNblaz
      @HNblaz Před měsícem

      @@Starfish125 It's been incredibly better, I've made huge improvements but I still need to work on me. Thank you for the advice, I'll watch it right now !

  • @Marilyn2401
    @Marilyn2401 Před 2 měsíci +2

    You just said EXACTLY what I've been feeling for years. Like, word for word. I finally understand myself.. thank you sm

  • @timillionaire3724
    @timillionaire3724 Před 2 měsíci +6

    this was so nicely edited bro thanks for putting out the truth out into the world instead of sugarcoating everything

  • @gameingwithredhead2944
    @gameingwithredhead2944 Před měsícem +6

    “You must change your life to change your life”
    Such truth I so often ignore or disregard. Not disregarding this time

  • @carmenopitz8825
    @carmenopitz8825 Před 2 měsíci +8

    I've seen countless videos about Self-Improvement and Goal Achievement - but very few have been as honest and realistic as this one. Realizing that the small Steps bring the Change - is fundamental. And that's something each of us can do. We all have the Opportunity to create what we want. The Challenge is to know what we really want. TY😘

  • @therecycledpirate
    @therecycledpirate Před 2 měsíci

    I freaking love your video. Smooth, soft, inspiring and truthful!

  • @Halal-Man.
    @Halal-Man. Před 2 měsíci +6

    Bro I really needed this, Thank you. I pray to God that we all make it in life👊🏻

  • @knowntoache
    @knowntoache Před 2 měsíci +12

    The change begins with your first step out the door 🗣️🔥

  • @ShreeyaVNair
    @ShreeyaVNair Před 2 měsíci

    thanks man, thank you for making this. what all you said really resonated with me and im glad i watched this. sending good energy and support to all, we can do this.

  • @user-ju1bq6eu9u
    @user-ju1bq6eu9u Před měsícem +2

    the pain of regret vs the pain of discipline

  • @nuitoasis9508
    @nuitoasis9508 Před 2 měsíci +18

    THIS is what I needed to hear now. This is great, thank you for this.
    I'll be 17 this year in march and I've done absolutely nothing good for me. I am in a loop/cycle of suicidal thoughts, letting myself get worse and waiting to die, or get myself back together and try to live and become happy. In the end, nothing is changing. It's really hard honestly I just want to give up, but at the same time I don't and I don't even know why. Changing my life and my mindset feels really impossible. But this video helps a lot, and I'll try my best to give it a chance.

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly Před 2 měsíci +3

      Good luck!! Also a good habit that I got into is downloading affirmation and quote apps!! Don’t give up, good luck :))

    • @nuitoasis9508
      @nuitoasis9508 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Thank you soso much. :) I will try that habit. I used to read the negatives quotes but I'll try to stick to the positive ones even if I always think the opposite after reading those. But i'll try to change that. Good luck to you too and I wish you the absolute best! Thank you for your time and nice message, it made my day a little brighter :D@@FishWillFly

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly Před 2 měsíci

      @@nuitoasis9508 your welcome!!! Also if u ever want to talk or ask for advice u can always ask me! Honestly the last 3 lines really resonated w me yk and I still think that sometimes but we can do this :DD (And remember that nothing’s impossible, we came into this world with no beliefs, nothing, that means we can I learnt things as everything we are now is what we learned. Idk abt u but thinking about this really helps) and u also made my day a little bit brighter, I can tell your an amazing person and I’m glad this helped

    • @djshoots9888
      @djshoots9888 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@nuitoasis9508I’ve been feeling the same way recently. Am still here 🙏. I hope you are too. Working out and meditation is a good habit.

  • @gastronomee_
    @gastronomee_ Před 2 měsíci +9

    this is gonna blow up, i can feel it. fellow small creator rooting for you.

  • @pinkychatterjee1052
    @pinkychatterjee1052 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you so much man you don't know what impact you created in my mind with this "one step" You deserve way more views man hats off!!❤

  • @muraciaHQ
    @muraciaHQ Před 2 měsíci

    This is honestly the push I needed, at the very least, today. Thank you. I wish your artistry and the amazing aesthetics of your visuals a long and prosperous future.

  • @pandorasbox1658
    @pandorasbox1658 Před měsícem +17

    I’m sending this to my son. You’ve encapsulated his problem exactly. He needs someone other than me to tell him this. Thank you.❤

  • @kevgamble
    @kevgamble Před 2 měsíci +4

    Many years ago I came across this quote, which has stuck with me: "Positive anything is better than negative nothing." (Elbert Hubbard) It seems good to place the emphasis on "anything".

  • @NorThenX047
    @NorThenX047 Před 2 měsíci

    have needed this today and yesterday and for the last 20 years. It's never too late. Regretting 1 small thing forever is so much more painful than doing 100 voluntary uncomfortable steps forward

  • @ryanf6671
    @ryanf6671 Před měsícem +1

    I’m at how much time I feel I waste and mostly yt but it’s also allowed me to find content like this. Felt so overwhelmed and voiceless to my inner thoughts today I’ve woken up and started working on a routine and I feel better than I did 3 hours ago. Avoided yt told my gf I’d be off my phone as I cooked and ate breakfast, read atomic habits and did a bit of studying not much but I’m actually going to school to study and currently making lunch. I don’t know what I’m doing but I can say slowly make on improving %1 everyday and at the end of the year you’d improve by 365% this video spoke volumes to me and I appreciate the message. Have a good day.

  • @tanishka2620
    @tanishka2620 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Settings big goals, not being able to do all of it, procrastination as an escape, making it a habit, seeing results and getting stressed and anxious, this had been a long loop of habits that I wanted to escape. I was so tired of being tired, that I couldn't hope from myself. Then I set the 80 minute rule just 80 minutes of touching my potential and increasing it every day, I'll implement this from today. Your video came right on time, btw love the cinematography thank you for the lesson, we all needed this, hope we all heal and achieve our happiness. 💛

  • @ryenis
    @ryenis Před 2 měsíci +4

    Ive always told myself that each time i think about my goals, the closer i get to actually doing it. If i think about it every day, i am one more day closer to doing what I want to achieve. That was 2 years ago. This year, ive finally made that mark in my life and have been consistently practicing animation which is something i wanted to do for the past 3 years
    Your video was shot beautifully, not only was it inspirational but was masterfully composed. I can see a lot of attention went into the details of the video. I cant wait to see what you cook up next bro fire👨‍🍳

  • @satoukazuma168
    @satoukazuma168 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks dude, i was going through it tonight and i felt like I wasn't doing nearly enough of what i should be doing and it just feels so overwhelming. I will keep this in my mind going forward.

  • @saravranic
    @saravranic Před 2 měsíci

    You have no idea how much I needed this now, this is by far the best video on procrastinating and fixing it I've ever seen. Respect and thank you🙏

  • @jaccco6319
    @jaccco6319 Před 2 měsíci +39

    I’ve seen many many many videos about productivity and accomplishing goals but this one really struck home, it’s such good advice but people don’t take time to articulate it as you have, much appreciated amazing video 🗣️

  • @golden_wallet
    @golden_wallet Před 2 měsíci +3

    3:15 is actually very similar to a verse from the Quran that I heard before "(11) Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves..." 13- Surat Al Raad. Well prepared short man 💙

  • @gijsbouhuijs
    @gijsbouhuijs Před 2 měsíci

    This is fr the best advice i think you could give to anyone. Because when some does take and looks back he can see the progress. Pretty inspiring

  • @lalomouster
    @lalomouster Před 2 měsíci

    I've seen a thousands of motivational speeches and videos in my life but this is a masterpiece.

  • @bobabun
    @bobabun Před 2 měsíci +3

    This video is amazing, the shots, the colouring and the message. I'm sure you're going to make it, one step at a time!

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much this means the world to me 🥹

  • @bullanguages
    @bullanguages Před 2 měsíci +8

    The pain of doing nothin will always be worse than the pain of doing smth! Wow! Bro, that brought peace to me! Thnks! 🔥 new sub here!

  • @BlueBeeMCMLXI
    @BlueBeeMCMLXI Před měsícem

    Good man, keeping it all REAL. You come across as genuine.

  • @pun15h3r.
    @pun15h3r. Před 2 měsíci +2

    The algorithm is pleasing us brother.
    I needed this.
    It's still hard.
    But from what i learned in my 34 years on this planet this is the most important one.
    Consistency is key.
    Just one step at a time, each day man.
    Exactly.
    Thanks 4 reminding me!

  • @NorThenX047
    @NorThenX047 Před 2 měsíci +4

    "you cannot forward step until you step forward" - some guy

  • @Sin5558
    @Sin5558 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Brother, best wishes and long life! I really needed this, I had been going through challenging times lately, which made it even more tiring for me to start what I had always dreamt of. Unlike other motivational videos, you did not try and sugarcoat the process and actually emphasised what really needs to be done at this very moment. I felt an instinct towards resuming what I've left because, like you said, I'm no more thinking about making up to the mountain for now, I am just thinking about starting. Thank you so much, brother! I sincerely wish the very best for your future endeavors, and I am glad that we're all not alone in this process. :)

  • @destinedup
    @destinedup Před měsícem +1

    "just take one step everyday no matter how small" it really is life changing advice

  • @wildopgaming
    @wildopgaming Před 2 měsíci

    bro you basically made the perfect video of the video i was planning on making, this sets out everything i thought mid december to tasking myself to take the steps necessary to make everyday from jan 1st and on very productive which i have been doing, its an wonderful feeling, i love this video bro i resonate wit it heavy, i also love the part you said the pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something, big attention grabber and hook, rlly puts your mind to think, i absolutety love that!

  • @Till25Iwillbewaitingforu
    @Till25Iwillbewaitingforu Před 2 měsíci +8

    " Pain of doing nothing will always be worse than the pain of doing something."
    ~~~ Wise Words 🖤

  • @odyssey33795
    @odyssey33795 Před 2 měsíci +16

    This is definitely so underrated! This video changed the way i think about things

    • @sleepycharliee
      @sleepycharliee  Před 2 měsíci

      That means I did my job haha thank you for the kind words 🫶

  • @FishWillFly
    @FishWillFly Před 2 měsíci

    I honestly didn’t expect the start to describe my EXACT situation, also thank you !! New sub :)

  • @MolootyNest-md6ti
    @MolootyNest-md6ti Před měsícem

    This is just what I have been going through. And I felt very understood when you talk abt how I feel exactly. Thanq for this video. A new subscriber here.

  • @prodigion1
    @prodigion1 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Yeah this is good advice. One thing to add from me: the 'subconscious discomfort of doing nothing' doesn't have to be uncomfortable. It's all in your head. A long time ago, I felt like I had been dealt a good set of cards but my happiness was being limited by my 'discomfort' that I was imposing on myself for a variety of reasons, e.g., knowing how much I had procrastinated, that I wasn't where I wanted to be, that my room was messy, etc. I'm in a much better mental state now where I am infinitely forgiving of myself and instead of basing part of my self worth on my productivity, I pride myself on being able to be happy all the time, now matter how lazy I've been. I prefer to reach this stage first, and then I can work on becoming more productive - it's just chiller. Our instinctive negative feelings are built in to help us survive as animals, but we're not at risk of death anymore so we can let go of all the discomfort:) Thinking about big crazy stuff like the universe and how we are all biologically operating machines also helps me reach this mindset

    • @prodigion1
      @prodigion1 Před 2 měsíci

      icl, I think I'm slowly becoming Buddha

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly Před 2 měsíci +1

      Helloo!! Any tips on getting to that level?? I honestly struggle forgiving myself when I procrastinate so I’d love some loll. Thank uuu :D

    • @prodigion1
      @prodigion1 Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@@FishWillFly Once you realise that mentally telling yourself off is silly and useless, it's just a question of phrasing things in your mind so those feelings go away. What kind of person is it cooler to be: a person who procrastinates and then starts scolding themselves like everyone else does, making themselves unhappy for no reason, or a person who procrastinates and doesn't care because they see the bigger picture of life and they know that they can't change the past.
      I have phrases I like to go to when I feel baggage, e.g., 'be comfortable with being uncomfortable', sometimes you feel like you're ALMOST really happy but there's just a few thoughts holding you back, but you just have to sit with that discomfort and be ok with it.
      For forgiving myself, there's a song by Deb Never called 'Stupid' with the chorus 'I'm so stupid' and it's sort of a relaxing way of forgiving my past self for being such an idiot. Or as I said before, think BIG. Imagine that you have lived through the life of every human before you and now it's your turn in your body. Would you be stressed out about not being productive enough? I think you'd probably just treat life like a video game and have fun if you can, never stressing about anything. Eventually, the instinctive guilt of laziness start to be less instinctive.

    • @prodigion1
      @prodigion1 Před 2 měsíci

      @@FishWillFly also I don't know who you are but I give you permission to procrastinate all day every day as much as you want idc

    • @FishWillFly
      @FishWillFly Před 2 měsíci

      Ok thanks!! Honestly I have big dreams but sometimes I get too distracted. I normally procrastinate on studies bc my school sucks and all but I’ll try to implement these tips tyyy

  • @isnacahyani2355
    @isnacahyani2355 Před 2 měsíci

    thank u bro. literally change my mindset. so grateful to find this video

  • @rickflippin1
    @rickflippin1 Před 2 měsíci

    young man this simple but moving message has changed this old man, thank you from the bottom of my heart, God Bless you always.

  • @trackstar5165
    @trackstar5165 Před měsícem

    bro honestly this is a masterpiece. you hit every single point that was needed to be hit the way they were supposed to be hit. amazing job. truly a work of art.

  • @keerthi9716
    @keerthi9716 Před 20 dny

    I can't explain how grateful i am for this video buddy..love your work...keep goingg!

  • @gabriellec5962
    @gabriellec5962 Před 2 měsíci

    Love your cinematic approach. Warm, authentic. Needed this too, like many others. Thank you

  • @Anmol-ei4on
    @Anmol-ei4on Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you bro, sometimes we forget that we just need to take a step forward.
    Love u bro god bless u ❤

  • @SchmupKing
    @SchmupKing Před 2 měsíci

    This is amazing 🙌🏼 needed this today. And my sister would appreciate this as well so Im forwarding it now. You’re gonna blow up from this

  • @PakistaniSteve
    @PakistaniSteve Před měsícem

    I was feeling this way for like 3 weeks. I needed this video. Thanks bro Thankyou so much.

  • @jufejahe
    @jufejahe Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this, it's always nice to see the result of the advice as it's given to me, meaning I know making this video required you to take several steps before posting so it's super motivating to see. Thanks for sharing a piece of yourself with the world!

  • @normamccafferty3053
    @normamccafferty3053 Před 2 měsíci

    Outstanding video! Thank you! Subtle. Well shot. Impactful. And inspiring. Thanks for putting this out there- I’m grateful to have seen it. ❤

  • @MariKoo11
    @MariKoo11 Před měsícem

    Dude, I think you literally saved lives with this! ❤

  • @ianmcqueeney
    @ianmcqueeney Před 6 dny

    This is the best video I‘ve seen so far in 2024, needed to hear this today. Keep up the good work brother!

  • @7hamed7
    @7hamed7 Před 2 měsíci

    This video is so warm and well-filmed. Good job man.

  • @prosper624
    @prosper624 Před měsícem

    Good stuff man! Love the twist at the end. This is something I feel like I can stand by 😤🙏🏽

  • @mrsaveabuck5969
    @mrsaveabuck5969 Před měsícem

    I thank you so... much for this this is exactly what i needed to hear today and i thank you for sharing and for being transparent!I look forward to seeing your other videos!

  • @_Danielkblack
    @_Danielkblack Před 2 měsíci

    This is exactly what I needed right now dude, thanks so fkn much

  • @ameliezices
    @ameliezices Před 2 měsíci +1

    hearing this was so necessary for me. I feel like I needed this more than anything. thank you for real. obrigada, from brazil.

  • @sushmitabudha3102
    @sushmitabudha3102 Před měsícem +1

    Ovethinking and overwhelming myself is all I'm doing these days or months must i say,
    Thankyou i needed this

  • @AAStudiosdesign
    @AAStudiosdesign Před 25 dny

    This is exactly the video I was looking for and needed. I already knew and felt all the things you said but you summarized it in the perfect way that I can easily look back on it to remind myself. I am proud of myself that I took some steps today.

  • @serkatskaya
    @serkatskaya Před měsícem

    I've open my notes and put in your main quote after watching this.
    Thanks, man. You were needed>

  • @traviusquestforPHD
    @traviusquestforPHD Před 2 měsíci

    Been trying to start content creation consistently but always held myself back. This video is going to be a source of inspiration, thanks bro 🙏🏾

  • @prakash-niroula
    @prakash-niroula Před 2 měsíci

    I've always been hard on myself, and overthink and overwhelm about what is left, now I see that by focusing on current thing, you can be out of stress and same time achieve your goals too. Nice one

  • @motivation.monkey
    @motivation.monkey Před 4 hodinami

    Congratulations on such an outstanding achievement. I can't wait to see your channel grow even bigger.