Clean My Depression Room With Me

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  • čas přidán 22. 03. 2022
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  • @SweetNightmares_
    @SweetNightmares_ Před rokem +700

    Just cleaned my depression room. I’m tired of living in miserable comfort but in more tired of my family pestering me about it. I also want to look at my room without going “ugh.” I end up just hiding in my covers and ignoring the fact I can’t even see my floor.

    • @formulateez_
      @formulateez_ Před 10 měsíci +19

      god this is exactly how i feel, i cant see my floor, i’ve got dirty dishes rotting in my room and theres so mny gnats (alive n dead cuz i sprayed tf outta them the other day) and i’ve been just so miserable and i knew the mold and the overall mess just adds to it bc i hide my room from my friends and my boyfriend bc i keep lying to them about how “yeah it’s definitely a wip but its gotten a lot better!” knowing damn well i don’t do anything other than lay in bed and grope about how shit life’s been recently. hopefully, starting in the morning later, i can bring myself to film the process and finally get it over with

    • @sunshinevlogs8876
      @sunshinevlogs8876 Před 10 měsíci +5

      @@formulateez_ I feel you when I found mold on my wall that was my breaking point I could not stand living in a trash pit anymore but I also couldn’t bring myself to clean it either. Luckily my best friend knew what I was going through and she helped me. I know it’s embarrassing and hard but maybe you should ask for some help cleaning it if your friends and boyfriend really love you you shouldn’t have to hide this from them and they will be willing to help. I wish you luck.

    • @sunshinevlogs8876
      @sunshinevlogs8876 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@formulateez_also just do a little bit at a time if that’s all you can do. Even if you just take one dish to the kitchen whenever you leave your room

    • @formulateez_
      @formulateez_ Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@sunshinevlogs8876 this was so nice i’m about to sob. i appreciate it :) ♡ my friends and boyfriend have kindly helped me many times in the past, i just feel as thought this time around, i should be taking care of it on my own! luckily, my boyfriend is helping me take trash and donations to either the donation boxes or the dump tmrw. my breaking point was definitely the reek of mold in my room and the excessive gnats that crawl around in here

    • @BunnyDoesArtThings
      @BunnyDoesArtThings Před 8 měsíci +1

      Form I AGREE. Same issue SAME exact issue. My mess is about 1-2ft deep EVERYWHERE and in some places near 4-5ft deep. DISHES modly and rotten EVERYWHERE. Modly trash. Water trash, disgusting smells.. its horrible now

  • @Lillyjoy
    @Lillyjoy Před 2 lety +874

    I really appreciate how real and raw this is, I have never really heard anyone talk about how much they are hurting after being involved with a man like people are usually talking about it all calmly in videos and in real life too and you said things that I have felt that are just very comforting to hear. Like it’s just nice to know that it’s not just me. I wish there was a way for all of us who are hurting to just come together and watch movies and sunsets together and be there for each other.

  • @its_just_leah
    @its_just_leah Před rokem +197

    THIS is a depression room. THIS is what I was looking for. THANK YOU for showing me, me. I can FINALLY relate to one of these videos. you gained a subscriber. I love you and this. I dont feel that disgusting any more.

    • @Lunamoth33
      @Lunamoth33 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Me too it makes me feel like maybe I’m not crazy because I have a room like this. I wish you the best in life

    • @debradoo4448
      @debradoo4448 Před měsícem

      Me three

  • @TheTekinha15
    @TheTekinha15 Před 2 měsíci +9

    It's so refreshing seeing someone else with a room that's in the same state as mine. Like I'm honestly in a depression and ADHD pit right now and it's been so difficult to convince myself to clean and tidy it. Thank you so so much.

  • @snickadoodle9504
    @snickadoodle9504 Před rokem +123

    Dont feel embarrassed, so many people struggle with this! Currently I'm cleaning my depression room too, you couldn't even tell i had a floor before I started

  • @amaryllish9876
    @amaryllish9876 Před 2 lety +304

    Girl I need to clean my depression room too so thank you for keeping it real!!

  • @priscillao1064
    @priscillao1064 Před rokem +40

    I feel so seen with this. Thank you so much. Thank you.
    Update: I cleaned my room right after finishing this video. Praying for all of us going through something like this!

  • @Crunchyham6
    @Crunchyham6 Před 2 lety +235

    Watching someone make coffee and clean their room should not be this interesting 😆 I hope you feel better soon!

  • @userunavailable579
    @userunavailable579 Před 2 lety +106

    I have absolutely no motivation to clean my depression mess but I am glad you had!! 🥰

  • @cauldar2482
    @cauldar2482 Před rokem +17

    Just found this video via a New York Times article on cleaning and mental health. Thanks so much for sharing this. I have been through this off and on throughout my life. It's always great to be reminded that there are others who share similar struggles. I really appreciate it.

  • @Julieanne619
    @Julieanne619 Před rokem +37

    Currently trying to find motivation to clean my depression room at 3am…and watching this video genuinely made me feel better about having to do it. Thanks for the laughs :)

  • @julianarodriguez5875
    @julianarodriguez5875 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Hi! I'm 26 living alone and also have a twin bed! I'd rather have more space in the bedroom. Thank you for sharing your process! Cleaning has helped my depression for the better. You got this girlie!!!

  • @kaylapater5634
    @kaylapater5634 Před 2 lety +107

    Love your energy! Keepin it real! Inspires me to clean mine! Thanks for being true! It’s appreciated! 🕊💜

  • @leahsyd
    @leahsyd Před rokem +26

    First, your so pretty! Second… this gives me MAJOR motivation! I get so annoyed with how my room is a mess after a week when I clean and I love how raw this is! It’s real, raw, and encouraging! If you can clean your room I can clean my room! I love organizing and deep cleaning but I HATE putting random things away and doing laundry! Thank you for this!!!

  • @steffym2933
    @steffym2933 Před rokem +8

    35 yr old mom here. I’m dreading cleaning my room. Literally cleaned my whole house but can’t do my room. 😬 but this is the relatable content i needed 😂

  • @bbsvrko4238
    @bbsvrko4238 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I just came out of an almost 6 month depressive episode and finally cleaned my room. My room was absolutely filthy and im so glad i was finally able to gain the motivation to do it.

  • @madebykris_
    @madebykris_ Před 2 lety +40

    you have no idea how much you just helped me. I watched this whole video beginning to end, and it is the first one I’ve found that made me actually motivated to do my room. like i don’t even wanna say it because it embarrasses me how long I’ve gone without cleaning it.. but just know it’s been a long time and you were the person that gave me the strength and motivation to get up and do it. I related so much to what you were saying. I could keep going on, but I i’m not going to because I always end up rambling. Just know how much you helped me ❤️ thank you.
    ps you look like noah cyrus ! 🤙💓

  • @kcbbs
    @kcbbs Před rokem +8

    I always thought that I was the only one who had a mess of a room and watching those aesthetic Pinterest korean room makeovers made me feel worse. I’ve started watching depression room clean-ups to help me throughout my journey of cleaning my current room. And I can relate with the animal pee and stuff in my messy room.

  • @angela4119
    @angela4119 Před 9 měsíci +3

    The cup of coffee having sat there and marinated at the bottom of the cup is so real i relate so much haha

  • @ckhoran13
    @ckhoran13 Před 2 lety +36

    Your last cleaning video is how I found you so this is full circle for me lol hope you’re doing better 🖤

  • @Jasmine-jh1gy
    @Jasmine-jh1gy Před 2 lety +14

    I could never watch cleaning videos through the end because they get boring but with abbe it's always something interesting going on. I love you humor and your real self.

  • @cloverbuddy3569
    @cloverbuddy3569 Před 2 lety +12

    life is not treating me good either i am sick and suffering from school. as far as your next video... idk I like watching you do art stuff, like that spongebob mug or painting the keys of your keyboard, i always find that sort of thing relaxing

  • @livewireOrourke
    @livewireOrourke Před rokem +1

    How I found your video:
    1) Story on my sub feed lead to a story on a Starbucks closing.
    2) I decided to watch a video on making Starbucks from home, tired of the same old coffee.
    3) Clicked on your Starbucks video.
    4) Also saw video on cleaning room, covid fatigue has me wanting to clean but unable to, so I'm living vicariously through you until I'm better.

  • @maribelcalderon7284
    @maribelcalderon7284 Před 2 lety +14

    The ADHD vibes are high in this vid. I relate 100% -depression room and all 😅🥲

  • @mayaemail
    @mayaemail Před rokem +12

    I’m crying so much right now because I just made huge progress on my depression room, I picked up 1 bag full of garbage. I literally felt such a wave of emotion over me when I tied that first bag closed.
    It’s 4:30 am and I’ve been staying up till this time every single night for 3 weeks since school ended, procrastinating on cleaning my room and it’s been so depressing.
    My room got really out of control in October of 2021. For once I have some hope in myself…. I’m going to return to This comment i made and reply to it when I’m finished my room 🙏🏼🤍

    • @mayaemail
      @mayaemail Před rokem +1

      I just wanna say… pit bull was the first song I listened to when I started cleaning my room today 💀💀

    • @abbelucia
      @abbelucia  Před rokem +2

      it feels soooo good when it’s done

  • @taleeiring4520
    @taleeiring4520 Před rokem +4

    GURL I SWEAR YOU IS ME
    - the depression room
    - the jamming to songs/music while cleaning depression room
    - the reactions and energy whenever that kinda song comes on😭🤚
    - the messy hair
    - the singing songs especially to Taylor Swifts song

    • @taleeiring4520
      @taleeiring4520 Před rokem

      + the dance moves
      - the many Teddy bears
      - bipolarity in music lol

  • @noraarellano9325
    @noraarellano9325 Před 2 lety +7

    I call that stage of cleaning regret; when you don’t wanna finish but have to but are regretting all your decisions. Fun times!

  • @richardparadox163
    @richardparadox163 Před 2 lety +31

    Abbe: No men live here. What man is coming into my house, taking off one sock, and then leaving?
    Abbe’s Mom: 👀 Honey, I think it’s time for you to meet someone

  • @user-ec1ek3ci5h
    @user-ec1ek3ci5h Před 11 měsíci +2

    I’ve currently got an hour to clean a room that I haven’t seen the floor in months. I’m doing great 🙂

  • @justemmalyn7934
    @justemmalyn7934 Před 2 lety +30

    Great job! It takes a lot of strength to get up and clean when things are rough. You did amazing! (Also, my bird liked your guitar playing at the end haha)

  • @toadiethegoose
    @toadiethegoose Před rokem +5

    Thank you so much for filming this! I finally got enough motivation to clean my room but I feel really guilty for how long I ignored it and how but it got. Seeing you do this makes me feel so seen and takes away some of the guilt. Thank you

  • @maryjean6496
    @maryjean6496 Před 2 lety +20

    I just wanna say I really enjoy your videos they make my day ☺️ Your personality is pretty awesome btw. Keep up the good work !

  • @stillbrenda
    @stillbrenda Před rokem +2

    Thank you for being so real about yourself and how your room looked!! 🫶

  • @xkittypawzz
    @xkittypawzz Před měsícem

    i need to clean my depression room but i never have motivation for it, moldy plates and medicine, clothes that are dirty everywhere, food remains. substances i never knew that were in my room, crumbs, messy bed, messy closet, just all that. i looked for videos to see people who have to deal with the same, i saw this video and i got so much motivation to clean my room. thank you so much

  • @macywright6036
    @macywright6036 Před 2 lety +4

    I could literally watch you do anything. LOVE your videos!

  • @Dark94light
    @Dark94light Před rokem +6

    I just want to say that I rarely laugh at CZcams videos but you're perfectly chaotic and funny. Thanks for making my night.

  • @briannagarcia9252
    @briannagarcia9252 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you for being so vulnerable and showing your process. This video was great! You're hilarious. Sending love your way.

  • @soleiacapuano5817
    @soleiacapuano5817 Před rokem +1

    Hi ☀️ This is Soléïa from France and I have to tell you: you are amazing! Sorry for my english and my mistakes.. i'm learning 😅 i'm having a really bad time that's why i'm watching your video and i'm surprised 🤣 i sing, draw, paint, drink so much coffee, i have a dog and cat (+ a rabbit), sometimes my room is like a explosion, but important I do sometimes too! I roller skate in my house and it's really a pleasure not to be alone anymore!!! I lived the difficult stage of losing my father, it was the beginning of my anxiety, my depression and 10 years later I'm still fighting with it... All that to say that I'm 22,it's ok if I'm not perfect all Time , it's is hard sometimes but luckily people like you exist to put a smile on my face and believe! Thank you for this, sorry for the long text I write and I wish the best for u

  • @purplecheetos3959
    @purplecheetos3959 Před měsícem

    Cleaning my depression room with you, it looks pretty close to the same as yours. Your vulnerability to show this is honestly inspiring

  • @feadogmhor5170
    @feadogmhor5170 Před 2 lety +7

    Yes you can nurse plants back to life.
    xo a fellow almost plant killer 😅

    • @abbelucia
      @abbelucia  Před 2 lety +2

      oh good to hear, hopefully my lil fern can live again

  • @JavahutTTV
    @JavahutTTV Před 10 měsíci

    thank you for doing this, it's so brave to be this vulnerable and it helps so many. like lots of others in the comments this made me tear up because I feel so seen and relatable and not alone. This got me off my ass and made me realize I CAN clean my shit. thank you so much again

  • @carolyntorres8171
    @carolyntorres8171 Před rokem +1

    I feel you! I struggle so much, too. More power to you, girl!

  • @imac_r8948
    @imac_r8948 Před rokem +1

    This video motivates me so much to clean my apartment, ive been procrastinating cleaning my apartment for two months now, its been pretty hard, also wanna thank you for taking away my anger atm, been feeling pretty irritated at everything and this video was nice to watch

  • @noelanik
    @noelanik Před 11 měsíci +1

    i love this video because my room is similar but lets just say much worse and the way you are making a video to keep yourself to clean is so smart and im so glad i found someone who really helped me clean my room

  • @781tunafish
    @781tunafish Před 2 lety +5

    Don’t ever change…
    Such a great video.

  • @nat1XP
    @nat1XP Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for probably making us feel less alone. And you're so smart and funny

  • @mckenzieh2878
    @mckenzieh2878 Před 2 lety +8

    This was very satisfying! I hope things look up. Can’t wait for your next video :)

  • @angryboy540
    @angryboy540 Před rokem +2

    I haven't cleaned my room I haven't had anything motivation but today I decided to do it and your video helped me a lot thank you! I just subscribed

  • @simonashopova7428
    @simonashopova7428 Před rokem +1

    I LOVE the chaotic energy. You motivated me to deal with the mess I've created.

  • @_Snowy_Sunset-
    @_Snowy_Sunset- Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for posting this! this really helped me thank you so much for being so brave I wish I could be as brave as you, my room is really horrible im just trying my best to get the motivation I need in order to clean it. Y'all are amazing and loved

  • @theanxiouscatechist2504

    I'm glad I'm not the only one. Your video is motivating me to clean and giving me guidelines as to where to start.

  • @debradoo4448
    @debradoo4448 Před měsícem

    I normally struggle with depression on a good day, now I am grieving just to add that to my salad. My three favorite people in one year, two of them in a month. And my room shows it.🥺🌻

  • @multiskype
    @multiskype Před 4 měsíci

    oh my gosh, just discovered your channel, love your energy so much ❤
    yours is a criminally underrated channel

  • @user-nb3uc7bf5e
    @user-nb3uc7bf5e Před 11 měsíci +1

    your cat is one of the most beautiful creatures id ever seen 😍 also ty for the motivation to clean it helped a lot

  • @natashamirani2217
    @natashamirani2217 Před 2 lety +1

    i absolutely loved this.

  • @ettaseyes
    @ettaseyes Před 2 lety +1

    I think I need a playlist of your cleaning music because omg there all so good

  • @dumb.l0bst3r
    @dumb.l0bst3r Před 4 měsíci

    I love watching people clean their depression room, it makes me feel like im not alone and that my room doesnt matter to the person that I am, thank you for this

  • @kingcheese6124
    @kingcheese6124 Před rokem

    thank you for this trust me my room looks WAY worse and it’s been so hard for me to find motivation lately especially with my room this video helped thank you I hope u are doing well sending positive vibes

  • @birdydraws5685
    @birdydraws5685 Před rokem +1

    Havnt realy cleand my room in over 3 years. Started to clean a few weeks ago. Trying to find the motivation to finish the last little things I nead to do (that is, bevore moving to the crates whit random stuff that will stay so for a wile)
    This vid is so chill, I think I'm ready to finish my room now :3

  • @angelicbugz4614
    @angelicbugz4614 Před 11 měsíci

    This gave me motivation to work on my room a bit today. You did a really good job.

  • @sofiadofia-xl2bk
    @sofiadofia-xl2bk Před rokem

    this was such good motivation for cleaning my room!

  • @Vinylllll
    @Vinylllll Před 11 měsíci +2

    Cleaning my depression room as well, but needed some motivation :)
    It's rare to see someone with a room as bad as mine! I've only ever showed four people my room that don't live in my house :,)

  • @natsbeautifullife
    @natsbeautifullife Před rokem +1

    glad I watched until the end. Beautiful voice!! Hang in there!! You'll get better!

  • @stepheniebelinc8990
    @stepheniebelinc8990 Před rokem

    You are an inspiration! Love you sister

  • @cedes8191
    @cedes8191 Před rokem

    This just gave me so much motivation that I’ve been trying to find for like a week

  • @jennlenk
    @jennlenk Před 2 lety +1

    I honestly wish this video was longer you seem amazing 🤩 you're my new favorite person lol

  • @RobOHara
    @RobOHara Před 2 lety +2

    A clean room is a fresh start. Good for you!

  • @chelseacounsell
    @chelseacounsell Před rokem

    Congrats on doing it! It looks way better at the end

  • @RockmusicVlogs
    @RockmusicVlogs Před 2 lety +3

    Your dog just gave me so much serotonin

  • @anakami434
    @anakami434 Před 2 lety +2

    I enjoyed it, thank you soo much i was really sad 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you're such an awesome person!!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @Lil_music_official
    @Lil_music_official Před rokem

    Ive watched so many videos of depression room cleaning and never found one that actually motivated me but it’s actually did

  • @TheBigAramakiStan
    @TheBigAramakiStan Před 5 měsíci

    Happy that you were able to do this..I wish my room looked like this mine has been a build up of 2-3 years and I really want to clean it up before 2024 just hard finding the motivation and too embarrassed to pay a company

  • @sapphireparcival5428
    @sapphireparcival5428 Před rokem

    It's nice to know that other people have similar issues with depression rooms, the energy and community are comforting in a sense.

  • @bondingusdingle3972
    @bondingusdingle3972 Před 7 měsíci

    taking a break rn while cleaning my room this def gave me some motivation

  • @kyleefredericks6595
    @kyleefredericks6595 Před 2 lety +1

    I looked up cleaning my room and I saw you and now I freaking am obsessed with you your so funny 😂

  • @arizonawitch6962
    @arizonawitch6962 Před 4 měsíci

    Whenever my depression gets bad my room is dirty but i get anxiety over the fact its dirty but im just to tired to get up. Glad im getting better with cleaning my rooms clean right now i just cleaned it today 🎉

  • @starzzixx
    @starzzixx Před měsícem +1

    Thanks for posting this; it reminds me that I’m not alone

  • @yuna.cos_48
    @yuna.cos_48 Před rokem

    I now finaly have the motivation to clean my Depression room👏🏻👏🏻thanks to u 💞

  • @kachow278
    @kachow278 Před 2 lety +3

    this was so good. i hope you start feeling better 💖

  • @nickthefox4596
    @nickthefox4596 Před rokem

    Good job on getting it done i hop your able to stay in a better mind seat and keep your room clean or get the motivation to clean once or maybe twice a week eather way im proud of you 👏

  • @christinedancoisne8389

    Popping off at the end!!!!! The vocalllls

  • @45pinklove
    @45pinklove Před 2 lety

    OMG YES THANK GOD! I HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR THIS VIDEO FOR LITERAL MONTHS

  • @sneakytrashpanda
    @sneakytrashpanda Před rokem

    2nd time watching this and I absolutely love it; loved the whole video & would watch again

  • @marieives9200
    @marieives9200 Před 2 lety +3

    I’m sorry… why have I not stumbled across your channel before girl I love your personality! Great vibes⭐️🤙🏻

  • @shaharula00
    @shaharula00 Před 2 lety +8

    Good job Abbe! I see and appreciate you. This was difficult but you did it.

  • @carolinaberrilleza7600
    @carolinaberrilleza7600 Před 2 lety +5

    I always come to your videos for some comfort, I don’t why but like you just get it! Lol

    • @norakaplan5828
      @norakaplan5828 Před rokem

      I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU. TOO MANY PERFECTIONISTS IN MY LIFE AND IN MY HEAD.

  • @PhilosopherWR
    @PhilosopherWR Před rokem

    You helped me clean a little today. Thank you.

  • @sugarcrash9984
    @sugarcrash9984 Před rokem +1

    Im watching thos bc im cleaning and need motivatipn. Ty for this:)

  • @erinluvspigs
    @erinluvspigs Před rokem +1

    Tip: when picking up a huge amount of clothes off of your floor, put them all into a big bin bag (including the ones in your draws) and put that bag aside for when your room is completely done :) then open the bag and sort which ones to keep and not keep. Then put the ones your are keeping, organised back into your draws, and the others, just donate or throw away ❤

    • @higher_haze
      @higher_haze Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yes! when clothes are piled up like that in ones room, I think it's easier to put it all in one bag and just do laundry. Doesn't matter if some are clean, it makes the job easier to clean the floor

  • @helgan4617
    @helgan4617 Před rokem

    Watching this to have a bit of motivation even though it's been months past the point where I should have started cleaning it. Even my bed is disgustingly dirty, and I still sleep in it. Literally no part of my room is clean. So many cups and so so many ants. Can feel your comment about not getting involved with a man lmao, had a long term partner and he literally wrecked my life just so suddenly. Just makes me sad that I let myself be like this. Depression is hella though. Hope everyone here having a rough time will find some relief soon.

  • @friedazlife9074
    @friedazlife9074 Před 7 měsíci

    I'm dyin lol. Love it. Thanks for sharing cuz I need my bedroom with 20 water bottles in it. Thank you!

  • @spookysarah7777
    @spookysarah7777 Před rokem +2

    As a person with depression I relate to this. This is my room too. Save for the cups, I can't do anything in my room it's pretty much just storage.

  • @mae8041
    @mae8041 Před 2 lety +3

    This is what 2022 has come to for me, I’m watching a random adult singing all to well by Taylor swift while I sit on my bedroom floor among my plants👩🏻‍🦲🫶🏼

  • @TefTV452
    @TefTV452 Před rokem +1

    Bro, we have the same personality 😍 I'm binge watching cleaning videos to fall asleep, this one is so entertaining

  • @annelaurenbalan
    @annelaurenbalan Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. I'm trying to clean up my depression room. I have no desire. I have now discovered that there is such a thing as the “depression room”. I've come to think that I have hoarder disorder. Watching this video and researching, I understand that depression made me reach this point.

  • @themusicjunkie4life
    @themusicjunkie4life Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing you cleaning your depression room. I have not had the will to clean mine. Hopefully my next day off.

  • @yacosy
    @yacosy Před 2 lety

    How you remind me is awesome. Nice playlist!

  • @alexuscamacho2199
    @alexuscamacho2199 Před rokem

    this is my favorite clean with me. I adore you. 🤍

  • @meriannechilibagula8660

    your video gave me the motivation to deep clean my own depression room-- i dont think people who aren't going through it will ever know the feeling of knowing your room is messy--yet not doing anything to make it clean. Im so happy you shared this with us🩷🩷

  • @sarahlaurie6
    @sarahlaurie6 Před 2 lety

    I thoroughly enjoyed this