What We Learned in 2019 | Marriage, Love & Friendship

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  • čas přidán 29. 12. 2019
  • THANK YOU ALL SOOOOOO MUCH for riding with us this year it means so much and could not have done it without you! love you all!! Stay with us in 2020 we have SOOOOOO much more planned!! Cant wait. #newyear #2020 #thecolelife
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Komentáře • 108

  • @priscillataylor522
    @priscillataylor522 Před 4 lety +18

    What I really like about both of you, is that how you take turns in talking and not overriding each other. As a black woman myself, we can over talk, but that is what I like with you guys. Your husband talks, you wait and then you talk. Thank you so much for that, I just love it. God Bless you guys.

  • @kimmiller9614
    @kimmiller9614 Před 4 lety +6

    I am older than you guys, but I have learned so much from y’all, thank you and I’m looking foreword to 2020

  • @lavonneward6068
    @lavonneward6068 Před 4 lety +42

    Y’all minister to my heart and soul !

    • @stillhere2297
      @stillhere2297 Před 4 lety +2

      That part.

    • @loveheaven1696
      @loveheaven1696 Před 4 lety

      Glad to see you joyful couple. Thanks for the honest conversation. People will come and go in your life for a season. If they should stick around it will happen, if not God will show them the way out. We need healthy friendships and relationships. Bless the Lord for being my genuine friend thst never fails.

    • @loveheaven1696
      @loveheaven1696 Před 4 lety

      We all are striving to be better people. We are not perfect being. Take time to be perfect.
      You look great and glowing with an halo and the peace of God over you. Lexi. Cant wait for that special Angel to be born.. ♥♥♥

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 Před 4 lety +8

    I felt that "the friendship wasn't healthy for me" in my spirit. I too had to release a long-term friendship. My philosophy is I have colleagues & friends all over the world and in God's timing, we will connect. Believing ya'll will have a safe, healthy, and prosperous New Year!

  • @victoriaa.5278
    @victoriaa.5278 Před 3 lety +2

    JUST discovered you guys and you all are wonderful!!! Brian taking about having that side hustle brought Gen 27:27 out of my spirit “Surely, the smell of my son is like the smell of a field which the LORD has blessed.” You both are working so hard for Jesus and your family, and know His blessing is on you guys in whatever you do. Thank you for stepping out in boldness with this channel-it’s such an encouragement to so many! 💜

  • @wandataylor5044
    @wandataylor5044 Před 4 lety +1

    I am glad that you both checked yourselves to better yourselves. Everyone is not seeking or listening to God. When God is in you only go up from there. Continue to Declare and Decree the word of God in your life. 🙏🏽

  • @RacheltheStoryteller
    @RacheltheStoryteller Před 4 lety +12

    Congratulations! You guys really are a blessing and the wisdom you share is so helpful. I'm glad you started the channel, and I'm excited to see where God takes you! Have a happy New Year!

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Rachel Marissa THANK YOU! That means so much and appreciate you for watching us

  • @diannemorefield6021
    @diannemorefield6021 Před 4 lety +13

    I am so blessed to have discovered you guys this year (2019). You are super inspiring. I need to get a spouse, as I have learned a lot from you guys. Blessings for your 2020 and beyond 💖!

    • @marya.8087
      @marya.8087 Před 4 lety

      You can trust God with that department ma'am.

  • @arleshawilliams7156
    @arleshawilliams7156 Před 4 lety +4

    I just love y'all relationship and the bond that the two of you have. Watching y'all relationship on CZcams makes me want to have relationship where I can be Happy and making sure that God is a big part of it. I just love y'all so much 😊

  • @kimmcnatt6301
    @kimmcnatt6301 Před 4 lety +8

    Happy New Year! I love your messages and thank you for listening to God and obeying. May God continue to bless you and your growing family! ❤️

  • @pa4362
    @pa4362 Před 4 lety +3

    Share your knowledge, more men need to watch this . Are you living in the moment ? I’m very guilty of that . I’ve been married 26 years and it easy to take your mate for granted . Life is a journey , take the right path

  • @a.mariemcnally8382
    @a.mariemcnally8382 Před 4 lety +3

    I find myself clicking the like button before I watch Cole Life videos because its a 100% chance I'm going to like it!! Have a blessed, happy new year!🎉

  • @josebrown7591
    @josebrown7591 Před 3 lety +1

    Lexi was not playing this video. LOL she said, "are you getting your life or nah?!" I was like that's FACTS!

  • @donnayearwood-rouff9903

    Just started viewing two days ago but have already subscribed because I identify with your spiritual and moral values. It is refreshing to see the soundness that can only come from God on this social platform. This video ministered to me about walking in obedience when He gives an instruction, truly appreciating the lows as they help mature us and the need for like minded , strong, motivating sistas as part of your inner circle (which I'm blessed to have). Blessings Cole Family!💕

  • @itsthejamesfamily322
    @itsthejamesfamily322 Před 4 lety +6

    You guys are awesome ! My wife and I have a marriage channel ! And this Is right on point ! ❤️❤️ life is full of learning experiences

  • @cathleengriffin3341
    @cathleengriffin3341 Před 4 lety +8

    Thats good i received that. I have learn its okay to put myself first im always give,give but now its my turn🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +2

      Cathleen Griffin AMEN 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @vanessadowns8912
    @vanessadowns8912 Před 4 lety +5

    This is very Encouraging!
    God Bless you both🙏🏽💙🙏🏽

  • @loveheaven1696
    @loveheaven1696 Před 4 lety +3

    Im with you. Im pushing to get some things done that i put aside for 5 years.
    I just have to find the right people and investors. Thanks for encouraging us. I needed more boldness and working on it for 2020.

  • @alicechilds6842
    @alicechilds6842 Před 4 lety +2

    You are so right about friendships It is like a tide wave ebb in and out. So are acquaintance and life experience. I am now seventy and find it never change there is always more to learn. What a joy to know life does not have to be old. Seems like both of you grasp it when I knew I changed about thirty did not understand but had to move on. And about every ten years it hsppens for different reasons. Just leave them the same as you met them. Gods Love for New Year.

    • @alicechilds6842
      @alicechilds6842 Před 4 lety

      Everyone is not to be in your life forever. Gods Love for the New Year.

  • @emerdinelennon3916
    @emerdinelennon3916 Před 4 lety +8

    You both are definitely a blessing to me! I’m thankful for you both and I feel good to know that there are young people/couples out there living for God in other parts of the world! 🙌🏽

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Emerdine Lennon That means so much! 😭😭

  • @leam7018
    @leam7018 Před 4 lety +9

    I need to find some accountabilibuddies to help me get my life lol. I've definitely been slacking on things I want/need to change in my life.
    Thank you for sharing your lives with us. I'm excited to see all your new adventures coming up in the new year will be. Especially with the baby. Happy New Year and may God continue to bless you. 💖

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety

      That means so much we appreciate you! It means so much that you see purpose and value in what we do!

  • @melissaestrella3242
    @melissaestrella3242 Před 4 lety

    The way you too look at eachother and really listen and support one another is so beautiful. Cant wait to have that in my life

  • @splchicago4636
    @splchicago4636 Před 4 lety +1

    You two are such a blessing. I love you guys! Blessings in 2020!

  • @frankyb4249
    @frankyb4249 Před 4 lety +1

    “My body, soul, spirit is at rest” wow❗️
    Thank you so much for all the content you put out, love y’all so much ❤️

  • @janamarley2336
    @janamarley2336 Před 4 lety

    Thank you guys so much . Listening to you confirmed what I have praying and asking God which direction to go. Happy New year all the very best for 2020. I’m on my journey 🙏🏾

  • @annwill2089
    @annwill2089 Před 4 lety +1

    Love you too. Have a prosperous New year when it comes & God bless you.

  • @JohnneseP
    @JohnneseP Před 4 lety +4

    Absolutely love y’all! That Hannah Montana moment was golden lol. You guys have absolutely touched my life on many aspects. I pray you guys have an amazing new year. ♥️

  • @ginl-j
    @ginl-j Před 4 lety

    You guys are a God's couple.... And you'll continue to attract people to your youtube channel and talk about how you guys do life God's way.
    I started watching your videos this last month and been blessed. Thank you for being real and transparent. Be bless the Cole family!

  • @TheGreta2400
    @TheGreta2400 Před 4 lety

    Thank You ...for being a Blessing to us here on CZcams. I pray that you continue to grow as a family in GOD and continue to be a Blessing to one another.🙏🏾

  • @tammyames6208
    @tammyames6208 Před 4 lety

    Congratulations on 25,000!! I’m believing for double that next year!! I Love this!! Happy New Year!! 🎉🎉🎉

  • @suebell1212
    @suebell1212 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you guys for this, to really sit and reflect on the past year, to see the growth and the blessings, and to own our areas of strength and weakness, is powerful. To God be the glory 🙏

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Suzette Bell Thank you for watching us it means a lot!

  • @thatotherdisciple
    @thatotherdisciple Před 3 lety

    Praise Jesus for that push because the Lord knew I needed yall and the topics you speak about. Thank you from the depths of my heart.

  • @fressurepoint2008
    @fressurepoint2008 Před 4 lety

    Congrats on your 25,000 subscribers! 28,000 now!!
    Thank you for being a light for me in 2019. Many blessings for the two, I mean the three of you in 2020!!!

  • @dorothytaylor7369
    @dorothytaylor7369 Před 4 lety

    Love this video , wishing you guys a very blessed, prosperous & healthy 2020

  • @deborahblackshear3325
    @deborahblackshear3325 Před 4 lety +3

    Awesome couple. Wishing you guys the very best day and years to come. Lexi, you are glowing, just beautiful.

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Deborah Blackshear awwww thank you! im glad you see it 😭😭

  • @FirstLastHoe
    @FirstLastHoe Před 4 lety

    The most crucial thing I learned this year was that I wasn't trusting God the way I should and after He showed that to me my whole year changed! Thank you Guys you are such an inspiration and you really show us what it's like to be joined together as one❤️❤️ Have a blessed and safe New Year!! And everyone in the comments as well!!

  • @stillhere2297
    @stillhere2297 Před 4 lety +1

    I love your videos. I have a hard time trying to "get my life". You all encourage me and others to strive for more and to let God direct you.

  • @leratoandrose4172
    @leratoandrose4172 Před 4 lety +1

    Thankful just to watch you and all the life changing advice that you share. Appreciate it and love you guys Shout from South Africa❤️

  • @taylorw.4572
    @taylorw.4572 Před 4 lety

    Everything you guys mentioned in this video is areas in my life I need to grow and work on. Thank you for allowing God to use you two to minister to people on your channel! Love you both 💙!

  • @carenn4461
    @carenn4461 Před 4 lety

    Beautiful couple! Always encouraging me and creating smiles to us and helping us grow!

  • @micheleslater4607
    @micheleslater4607 Před 4 lety

    Happy New year to you and your family. May the Lord bless your family tremendously with peace, prosperity, health and unity. Blessed clarity for 2020. You guys bless me. Thank you for sharing your lives.

  • @philindabell6292
    @philindabell6292 Před 4 lety +1

    Happy New Years! 🎊❤️🎉

  • @antoniogilbert5114
    @antoniogilbert5114 Před 4 lety

    You guys are such a blessings. Your impartation is awesome. May God take this channel to another level.

  • @lilianrich5446
    @lilianrich5446 Před 4 lety +5

    That's so good you two made me see myself as doing better at things i haven't started yet. Now i know am ok i will get started working on it. Thanks for sharing💞happy new year💞

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Lilian Rich That’s awesome and let’s get started!!

  • @shersher91able
    @shersher91able Před 4 lety

    Awesome you both could be youth pastors. Praying for a blessing in the new year. Continue to shine your light

  • @candacedawn357
    @candacedawn357 Před 4 lety

    Your videos are so refreshing for me because I feel you guys, as a couple, exemplify what God wanted a relationship to be like.

  • @BrainyBeesTV712
    @BrainyBeesTV712 Před 4 lety +1

    I really appreciate your vids.....may God continue to bless and direct y'all steps. Love from Texas. I am ready for the book club

  • @gregggarner7203
    @gregggarner7203 Před 4 lety +1

    ❤️🙏❤️🙏 love you guys!!

  • @Shallewa
    @Shallewa Před 4 lety

    I'm so grateful that I found you guys!!

  • @sandygough1114
    @sandygough1114 Před 4 lety

    Happy new year you guys are awesome!

  • @cferreira3130
    @cferreira3130 Před 4 lety

    Happy New Year! I find you two very inspiring. Thanks

  • @charlenemcghee7502
    @charlenemcghee7502 Před 4 lety

    Love you too my sister and brother in Christ! Happy New Year 🎈🎆🎊 congratulations on reaching 25000 subscribers

  • @lifetop10s96
    @lifetop10s96 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for sharing the vision board and also the things that you go through to get there. Its very helpful and inspiring.

  • @preachingpoet
    @preachingpoet Před 4 lety

    Im sorry you guys felt a struggle😔.
    A season, a reason, a blessing, a lesson... I have two close friends. It’s hard when they don’t stay but some can only handle being associated in my life.
    You guys made a video where you talked about friends and Brian said, “know your worth”. And when I look at people I ask, I know my worth, do they know theirs. We can only walk together if we agree.
    You guys are amazing. You could be life coaches. I watch your videos a few times to digest and learn. Thank you for your transparency!
    Merry CHRISTMAS 🎄🎁
    Keep celebrating!
    And 25,000 ain’t nothing! You guys are BLESSED! Watch God work!

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      J Elizabeth Hardges Love this!! Thank you!

  • @Layemii
    @Layemii Před 4 lety +1

    This was educational and refreshing 😍

  • @Wlf5953
    @Wlf5953 Před 4 lety

    Happy New Year and Mazel Tov on 25/28 subscribers 🤗🎉.

  • @kaylaa_104
    @kaylaa_104 Před 4 lety

    love this. you. two are awesome!!!

  • @denisejohnson9798
    @denisejohnson9798 Před 4 lety

    Ps.Happy New Year’s happy happy new year new year to all three of you wish you many more to come and God bless you all

  • @Shanciaaolcom
    @Shanciaaolcom Před 4 lety

    I love ur spirit❤️🙏🏾😊thank u for sharing ur heart😘

  • @carolynwilliams6153
    @carolynwilliams6153 Před 4 lety

    Happy New Year!

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 Před 4 lety +2

    Trademark that Accountabilabuddy and buddies... you have something there yall!!! #Branding That Word came from God🙌🏾👍🏽😁 Have an Amazing New Year Cole Fam!!! ❤❤❤

  • @joycethomas84
    @joycethomas84 Před 4 lety

    You guys are a beautiful couple and thank you for such a great video.

  • @creejackson1575
    @creejackson1575 Před 4 lety +2

    The book club would be great I’m down

  • @Praise_Wellington.
    @Praise_Wellington. Před 4 lety

    I pray you guys will stay with God forever🙌🏾💗 love from Manchester England Uk

  • @FeelinMe11
    @FeelinMe11 Před 4 lety

    Love you guysss

  • @teneillegordon9946
    @teneillegordon9946 Před 4 lety +1

    Love this channel! I think you all should start a podcast if you'd like. I would definitely tune in!😊

  • @denisejohnson9798
    @denisejohnson9798 Před 4 lety

    U2 look so happy I am so happy for you both of you and your beautiful baby to be can’t wait to see you she’s gonna be beautiful just like both of you 2020 is bringing the biggest blessing that a woman and man won’t that’s a child into your life is your daughter and she’s going to have a wonderful mother and a wonderful And beautiful grandparents and uncles and aunties God is good all the time

  • @sarajefferson8565
    @sarajefferson8565 Před 4 lety +1

    may GOD protect ur pregnancy Amen

  • @michelletaylor7089
    @michelletaylor7089 Před 4 lety

    You guys are ride to die buddies ( on each other bandwagon) with information you share..So informational and it feeds to my spirit

  • @janefreeman7157
    @janefreeman7157 Před 3 lety

    "AMEN"!!!!!

  • @Estiexo
    @Estiexo Před 4 lety

    lol your channel is going to blow up! trust and believe

  • @cheryledmund4228
    @cheryledmund4228 Před 4 lety

    Happy new year

  • @traceytucker9185
    @traceytucker9185 Před 4 lety +1

    I love that “Ride the WAVE” if you don’t you’re going to drown!!♥️

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety

      Tracey Tucker That’s it right there !!

  • @mre455
    @mre455 Před 4 lety +1

    Brian's clothing style is on point....

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      mre455 haha thank you 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @saranghae2808
    @saranghae2808 Před 4 lety

    I need accountabiliibuddies too! Happy new year to you both! GOD Bless you!

  • @jessisqueen
    @jessisqueen Před 4 lety +1

    Lexi can you please drop your skin care routine next year so my skin can look as good as yours next year?

  • @kathystephens7820
    @kathystephens7820 Před 4 lety

    You are an Awesome Couple

  • @zinhle_mo
    @zinhle_mo Před 4 lety

    Every time I watch Lexi, I feel like she’s my big sister from the internet ❤️

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety

      Zinhle Mo SISSSS YESSS 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @mmaolisae3675
    @mmaolisae3675 Před 4 lety

    Love the Lizzie McGuire bit at 4:18 😁😁

  • @tanyajackson6601
    @tanyajackson6601 Před 4 lety

    Love ur vlog

  • @stephanielatrice5939
    @stephanielatrice5939 Před 4 lety

    Please keep encouraging us, please keep encouraging each other. This was so wonderful to watch. I appreciate you guys! Alex, please include us in your book club. Your sis loves to read lol And just to mention, I got so discouraged with my CZcams Channel that I eneded up deleting all my videos but 2. I didn’t think I was interesting enough and didn’t have enough faith in myself. So for 2020 I would like to pick it back up again and I’m asking my Cole Life Comments fam to please support me and subscribe to Women of Strength ! ❤️❤️

  • @janenjoku3342
    @janenjoku3342 Před 4 lety

    Actually @Cole life, for we catholics, the christmas season started from 25th and continues into January, cheers...

  • @sydneerodriguez6814
    @sydneerodriguez6814 Před 4 lety

    Love yalls channel! How old are you guys if you don’t mind me asking?

    • @TheColeLife
      @TheColeLife  Před 4 lety +1

      Sydnee Ramsey thank you!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻 so glad you’re watching. We are both 28 years old.

  • @Khatoon170
    @Khatoon170 Před 4 lety +1

    Merry Christmas god bless your family pray for us every one who don’t have kids best gift for you ask god to live happily have gorgeous kids very soon good luck in your life time best wishes from me consider me as one of your siblings

    • @Khatoon170
      @Khatoon170 Před 4 lety

      🌺🌹♥️♥️💕💕🎄🎁🧸💝👶🎆🍀🌺🎂🍼

    • @thenjiwemoyo3323
      @thenjiwemoyo3323 Před 4 lety

      U are both natural.Stay blessed and loved

    • @sexysoulfulsonjakelley8207
      @sexysoulfulsonjakelley8207 Před 4 lety

      I really enjoyed you guys I enjoy your positivity the way you support each other and I really love that you guys are Christians and you're doing this with the Lord's blessing and I really love that about you guys that you always want the Lord's blessing and whatever you do and that's beautiful not everybody do you know not everybody wants the Lord blessing in anything or you know these days I appreciate people who who do that and I think you guys are wonderful and I love hearing from you and thank you for being you

  • @alethacates2497
    @alethacates2497 Před 4 lety

    ❄✨❄Happy New Year!❄✨❄ 》This is the day that the Lord has made let us rejoice and be glad in it! Psalm 118:24

  • @merryrose8959
    @merryrose8959 Před 4 lety +2

    I pray ya'll are in youth Ministry !

  • @tamiramutunga155
    @tamiramutunga155 Před 4 lety

    Plse introduce your dog he/she looks cute