Jaisay Aapki Marzi | Episode 8 | 19 September 2023 (Eng Sub) | ARY Digital
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- Jaisay Aapki Marzi | Episode 8 | Dur-e-fishan Saleem | Mikaal Zulfiqar | 19th Sep 2023 | ARY Digital
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Jaisay Aapki Marzi | When Narcissism Takes Over Love
Jaisay Aapki Marzi is an incredible story that portrays how a person can change their behavior when they come under the pressure of a judgmental society.
Directed By: Saba Hamid
Written By: Naila Ansari
Cast:
Dur-e-fishan Saleem
Mikaal Zulfiqar
Ali Safina
Kiran Malik
Javed Sheikh
Ali Tahir.
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مرزی هی لکتی هویی
مرضی نهی!!!!!
مرضی = عربی می بیماری
Q
Abhi pakistan me kitne baje hai
Dure bari age ki lag rahi hai or itni buri acting
Open English Subtitle pleaseee🎉❤
Getting the birds freed from the cage was a good way to convey the message. Brilliant idea!
And what was the massage? As I get the msg if u don't like someone then freed them .?? M I ryt
No... keeping someone captured for your own entertainment is wrong as sherry doing with alyzay taking her freedom
@@sanaullahkhan1448
most of people don't understand n dint get it that human tendency is very complicated
Sherry n his sister both upbringing very much horrible..both are bossy ,rude, make people inferior and narrasist..jo hote hai vese dikhte nahi or unhe khud idea nahi hota ki unhe phychology issues hai ya disorders hai..unhe lagta hai ki vo log bilkul sahi hai ..unke aas pass k logo ko bhi idea nahi hota ..sirf unke partners jo ki unse torture hote hai bas unhe pata hota hai ki kya chal raha unki life me .yaha drama me bahut ache tarike se dikhaya gaya hai or log bilkul bhi iss issue ko seriously nahi lete or comment me log sirf husband wife wala mamla mankar faltu k comments de rahe hai..alizey not egoistic..she is the personality jesi ki ladkiyo ki parvarish honi chaiye..kyoki aisa logo ko dekhne ko nahi milta isliye logo ajeeb lagta hai ki aaree Bhai kya dikh diya kya ladki hai bla bla...hame aise hi life chaiye..khud ki education, dependency,Azad khayal..khud ki wish bolna or samne rakhne ka right everything as boys do..
Bilkulll
A great gesture for all mankind towards innocent creatures of ALLAH.
Correct...but people with manipulated thought processes will be able to understand this?
Alizeh dresses up so beautifully…her clothing selection is very chic and stylish 👍👍👍
This drama is a must watch for every girl.. many men are not like this but whenever they are, and both the families normalise his behaviour, the wife gets in self doubt and accepts the mental abuse. She doesn't even realise till she is stuck too deep to get out of it. It is correctly portrayed, sometimes the man is an angel and if he sees something he doesn't approve of.. BAM! He changes into this rude aggressive stubborn, difficult and unreasonable person who is dominating. And she is right, you do get scared when you confront a narcissist
Absolutely right
It will never change. Jitne masael hein hmari society mein. Her orat ese divorce le k hi bethi ho.
Correct, moreover no one should accept these kind of dominance, I mean Why!!!
It's easier said than done....a woman is always caught in this maize post marriage
Apni zindagi bhi khuch isi say milti julti hay is tarha k murd paay jatay hain is dunya main zich karnay walay😢
Raza 's mother analysis was very realistic and entertaining 😅😅😅
Alizay younger sister is soooo intelligent and understanding ,usually baywakoof aur chulbuli see choti sis dekhtey hain but I really like Ramza
Yes.... Frank log smart hote h 😅
very realistic portrayal of some of the relationship dynamics with a narcissist. The worst part is no-one going to believe the victim's truth. Because the narcissists present themselves so good and always ready to help and care for other people to show off and look better. The victim's sufferings are doubled.
Thissssssssss they act like angels create this illusion but only the victim knows their real truth
Exactly
I cannot believe how many people have experienced life with a narcissist!
This drama gives me goosebumps. After marriage torture doesn’t have to be physical...mental torture is even worse. Marriage is equal between two individuals. Y don’t people accept this. To make a marriage work...a girl has to adjust ,compromise,tolerate,ignore even to the extent of losing ones own identity. But this is one life n it’s NOT worth it. I will not want my daughter to live such a life!!! Alizey.....I just love ur character n the dialogue with ur mom at the end was Very insightful! Director....take a bow !
Pyshical torture u ca show
But
Mental torture noone believes
N then everyone expects us to behave normally as if nothing has happened or rather we r making a big deal out of it . Bottom line ... silently bear everything n all r happy.
Mardo k dunia h .. gonga behra n bne asy hi bn jayngy
@@never.know.your.destiny well someone needs to change may be after one generation things changes.we shouldn't accept thinks about gor daughter
this is a true depiction of how narcissists treat their partners. I'm glad someone actually took the time to write and compose such a masterpiece.
Alizay’s story is just like a copy of my life. From strong independent girl to a helpless person stuck in an unkind relationship only because I now have a child. All these years and I still can’t work out what my husband wants
Like my sisters
Same my life😢
@@sabaasad560can I talk to you I need your help can you please guide me I am getting married mujhy us se same feelings aa rahi hain mujhy Dar lg raha hai.
can I talk to you I need your help can you please guide me I am getting married mujhy us se same feelings aa rahi hain mujhy Dar lg raha hai.
@@user-bq1yv1ev5q then don’t get married to him. Trust your gut. Or you will suffer your whole life
❤To the beautiful eyes 😍 reading my comment right now,may Allah bless you and your family with good health , prosperity and mental peace ❤
Ameen
Aameen
Ameen sum Ameen..😇😇..
and I'm expecting the Same Duaa for you also, dear Areeba Khan..❤..
Ameen same to u
Thank u
Sherry is just like my Ex Husband and i took divorce from Him. Hats off to Durefishan Saleem for picking up the story that is so relatable to so many women belonging to our society.
Acha Kiya,,,, marriage ki dubara??
@@musazunnonon of ur business
Exactly
Hamari society mein aisa Hi hota hai Allah pak sab betiyon ke acche se naseeb Karen😢 bahut emotional drama hai
me mentally disturb ho chuki hu aisi conditions face kar kar k
Itni azadi to honi chahiye k koi Pasand nhi Aaye to hum alag hosaken zabardasti ka rishta azab hota he❤
This drama is so practical. This is modern Arrange marriage. Where you say yes to marry by heart hoping you found the right man. Thn slowly when reality hits you hard your whole life turns upside down. Thanks for this drama team ❤
But how to identify such narcissists bcz before marriage they are very good at hiding their true self .even in this drama sherry did not reveal his true self before marriage. How to identify the red flags .
Arrogance of Natasha as well as the coldness of Sherry leads Alizey to distant herself from this congenial environment.
@@allaboutent6207 trust me you will see something but we will ignore it completely coz we don't want to face the reality or subconsciously hope that we r wrong ....Even in this drama since beginning he was rude with Ramza. Remember!!!
So true 😊
Finding the right man is like winning the lottery, the same goes for love and arranged marriage.
"Jaisi apki marzi" is a slap to "mein" crazt veiwers . I love this drama. Alizey is a strong character I love her
Strong nahe khud sar hai
@@Rikuchan_Shorts of course u can’t stand strong independent women
Such a great script and excellent acting by Mikaal as the bipolar and narcissistic husband. Durre plays her part beautifully as the downtrodden wife who thought she married an open minded man. Alizey introduced a new term majboor aurat syndrome! 😅 Well done to all for such an amazing drama with great messages to our society 👏👏
Ikr
Sherry ko himmat hy jo alizay ko brdasht kr raha h. Bnda 2 mint m damagh thek kr dy. Itna loving shohar mila h or nakhry khatm nai ho rhy is k..
Lagta hai tum b sherryjese shohar ho this aesa kaha
@@narmeenmughal1651😂😂
@@sarfarazhussain7752 respect n krha dafa kro
Reza and his family are so cool, Alaza deserves husband like Reza.
Alizey's mom acting is so real. And their dialogue is so real.
Yes I agree
Hyeeee 😂
Wrong
That's reason k betiyn dab k hi rhtin hain
Ye we agreed 😊..
The last scene between mother - daughter was terrific. So well written, great direction & so naturally performed
Alizeys situation is soo relatable😢.. Feel soo sad for her. She deserves better❤
Sherry and his sister are 100% Narcissistic personalities...treating people like hell is their quality. They leave no other option but to leave them alone😅
Perfect performance by every character❤
Love seeing alizey being so blunt with her responses, no nonsense no pretentiousness.
but she'd better say it in lower tone
She just exaggerated things,she doesn’t needed to escalate things to this level.Actually shery is so possessive about seeing her boss touched her but she doesn’t react or respond.The grudges from few days took by sherry made him extremely upset,and the worse he react the same moment 😅
Insan ko itna b blunt nae hona chahye. It is not wise to be so blunt. Specially a woman should be more careful. Shadi compromise k bghair nae chalti, na mard ki na orat ki. Sherry mein kuch buri aadaat hein jo k nae honi chahye. But Alizay konsa perfect he. Zahir he us mein b hein khamiyan. Ye bat husband ki gherat k khilaf he k uski bivi ki traf koi daikhe, touch krna to door ki bat he. Room mein mess create krna, sony k time pe dusre ko light on kr k disturb krna b koi achi bat nae. But sherry over react krta he just like his wife. Bus wo ye psand ne krta k uski wife us se zyada successful ho centre of attention ho. Ye thinking or double standards mardon k or orton ki her bat pe over acting jhanum bna deti he is shadi ko.
She is acting irresponsible, it’s not a gesture to touch colleagues.
life is a struggle jo kar jate hain they are winners
Ramza is really sensible character.....just love her❤
I love both dads. So sensitive and sensible.
اللہ کے ہر فیصلے پر مطمئن رہیں، کیوں کہ اللہ وہ نہیں دیتا، جو آپکو اچھا لگتا ہے، بلکہ اللہ وہ دیتا ہے، جو آپ کیلئے اچھا ہوتا ہے۔
Mujhy in maaon pe herat hoti he jo beti ko samajhti e nhi na unko apny tariqy se handle karny deti hen
I have seen in her stories that she watches you tube comment. I hope she sees this comment and put up in her story just want to say love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳 Me my family and my friends we all watch your show and we are loving it
Such a good drama ....har maa ak tarhn sochti hy apni beti k laiy .....❤❤
I wonder why this Raza is so crazy about Natasha.. I mean she's jst a rich spoiled brat😂.. Is this only me who can sense something fishy? 🧐
Dure fishan acting so natural ❤
poor dad he is being abused by her daughter
Both siblings are extrmely toxic
The father daughter relationship is so beautiful! I hope her dad will help her through this!
He must
OMGGGGG THIS DRAMA FINALLY ARY MADE A DRAMA THAT CAN CHANGE LIVES … Love Aleeza and her dialogues
Exactly!!!!
Dure-e- fishan are very cute actress who many peoples are agree this????
Sherry ny shadi ky badal girgit ki trah rang bdla had h😂
Mrd Shadi K bad full samny aata Hy pehly nhi smj aata yeh fact Hy chy acha b ho
That's how narcissist are 😢
I'm obsessed with alizeh and her sister😂❤❤ so forthright😍 their father is amazing too❤
Alizay sister is irritating 😂
This is a very realistic drama as I feel like I am seeing my married life playing in front of my eyes. I have been married to a person who suffers from a narcissistic personality and is possibly bipolar. These are the early signs that I didn't realize and spent 23 years trying to fix our marriage. They don't change without significant help from therapists and that is only if they want to get help. Otherwise, there is no hope. Ladies, please watch this drama carefully and see the signs of these types of men who treat women like this. Get out before you shed an ocean of tears. My family saw the signs years ago, yet I kept making excuses. Ek bandhan ko mutual respect aur pyar hone chaye.
Another actor could have play the psycho better tha Mikaal.
@@kishorefleur3600Mikaal plays his character brilliantly! 😍
I was seeing a guy who intially was the kindest man ever after few months I started seeing his teeth a wolf in sheep clothing most horrifying experiences of my life everyone should be aware of narcissists who use love bombin manipulation to trap a victim
Allah ap ko bohat khushiyaan day Ameen 😢
I don't find this drama realistic I found it pretty dumb and capitalising on the abuse of maybe 3 - 4 % of the population , the problem is that these dramas are brainwashed by the girl out there that girls should have ego more than men they need to understand they are doing marriage and men dont like being disrespected I had seen 20 30 marriages in my family that had a very happy life and most of them are working women but the modern day feminist want to push agenda live without the men where it should be live with the right mindset of men 😁
I want to hug Saba Hameed and the writer, as well as all actors! OMG!!
When alizay said with her dad I still need u baba i still need ur care i miss u was so amazing and it makes me cry
This drama shows us how to handle a toxic person nd how to deal with a toxic husband.
Till the 9th episode, the drama is hooking with all the characters. I am enjoying the role of the actor who is playing Dur e’s father. What a natural performance from him and a big applause goes to him. He is an example of a great father- daughter’s bonding. Hopefully, it stays the same throughout.
That scene between alizeh and her dad on breakfast table was so emotional. They didn't speak much yet conveyed alot of emotions ❤
I still need your care.. your reassurance ❤️
❤❤
But a very painful feeling 😭
❤
❤
Maa ko samjhna chahiye apni beti ko na k damad ko
Larki ko ziada smjhny ki zrorat he alizy ki maa bilkul thek kr rai he
Omg. This was normalised in every drama till now it’s highlighted
Mikaal is really giving scary vibes as sherry..brilliant acting
Brilliant as a psycho
@@criticsensible8262 exactly 😂
💯
I don't understand raza ko natasha kase pasand aagye 😅😅
Exactly 😂
😂
Guess he likes being whipped hahah
Hahaha
Mein bhi yehi soch raha tha
Ye bat bohat sochny wali
Whole mistake is not just of sherry only...alizay also don't want to understand him ...she is so egeositic
Yes
He’s a narcissist playing games! She’s educated and getting bad vibes. She’s not shown some stupid woman living in lala land. She knows what’s coming. But this guy is shatir, he being nice to everyone except with her so noone believes her & she gets stuck with him. This is one of the dangerous traits of narcissists toxic person.
@@seeya7610 you are right. And when a self respecting woman objects and responds to this misbehaviour, our people call her egoistic!
They don’t have servant who can serve the food
@@seeya7610exectly.most of people don't understand n dint get it that human tendency is very complicated
Sherry n his sister both upbringing very much horrible..both are bossy ,rude, make people inferior and narrasist..jo hote hai vese dikhte nahi or unhe khud idea nahi hota ki unhe phychology issues hai ya disorders hai..unhe lagta hai ki vo log bilkul sahi hai ..unke aas pass k logo ko bhi idea nahi hota ..sirf unke partners jo ki unse torture hote hai bas unhe pata hota hai ki kya chal raha unki life me .yaha drama me bahut ache tarike se dikhaya gaya hai or log bilkul bhi iss issue ko seriously nahi lete or comment me log sirf husband wife wala mamla mankar faltu k comments de rahe hai..alizey not egoistic..she is the personality jesi ki ladkiyo ki parvarish honi chaiye..kyoki aisa logo ko dekhne ko nahi milta isliye logo ajeeb lagta hai ki aaree Bhai kya dikh diya kya ladki hai bla bla...hame aise hi life chaiye..khud ki education, dependency,Azad khayal..khud ki wish bolna or samne rakhne ka right everything as boys do..
Each n every scene and dialogue is soo real and on point. The scene when he starts fighting at night. Then next morning husbnd pretending to forget what happened and behaving normal.
OMG 😱 I feel meri zindagi ki reels chal Rahi hai .😢 exactly the same I lived .. horrible life..thank God am out now from the abusive marriage and now single happy ❤
Sab itni natural acting kr rh hn asa feel hota h yh sab waqae men horha he kisi k sath ..
Bilkul Natasha ki acting sb se different he
Sherry is right about her wifes boss. He shouldnt be touching her at all..
True islam k against ha drama
Yes absolutely
Yes, but it wasn’t her fault. So point in insulting her. Plus our co-workers & friends touch platonically. There was no point to make an issue. This man seems sick with mental issues.
@@seeya7610 achha a
Well in that case women also can be sick if she saw her husband grabbing hand of someone
@@Mahvish.jamal16is sherry grabbing hands of any female employee??
Alizay's strong character ❤
Awesome script...I like Alizeh & Ramsha character
Now a days My favorite dramas. Jaisy apki Marzi .. kabli pelawo. Jindo. Main .jevan Nagar. Ap logo ko in me se konsa Pasand he
While watching this drama, I felt the scary and depressing emotions on my nerve... It's so true that well educated and professional women also face mental trauma... So good portrait.
Pakistani fathers are so understanding,
Alizay ki dressing buhtttt achi h 😊
Sari maa ese hoti hai. Lalin I wish mere father aliza ke father Zaise hote.
Kaaaaash Javed shaikh ne Sahi tym pr bacho ki service krdi Hoti. To aaj Bache itne bad tamiz na hote
Haerat he raza ko natasha m kia asa nazar aya 😂😂
This drama is so close to our society pressure for those families who disrespect girls even when they are from educated well groomed families n respectful towards in-laws -- Aliza;s father n mother in their own part behaving in a realistic manner- great work done by the team 🏆👍🇵🇰
Jazak Allah Allah bless you n your family
دنیا کا واحد عظیم لیڈر جنہوں نے 63 سال عمر پایئ کبھی جھوٹ نہیں بولا اور سب سے بڑا انقلاب بر پا کیا وہ ہمارے پیارے نبیٌ حضرت محمد رسول اللہﷺ ہیں ❤️
our most respectable prophet Hazrat Mohammad saw
30:00 onward father daughter conversation omg so real so cute so comforting. Being a daughter I can understand nothing else daughters want then a supporting father.
Excellent story, every character is playing his part so well.😊
I mean koi compromise krna ni chata shadi is not a small thing every one should understand seriously
No dirty, No remake, No kissing, No over acting
Only pure emotion and love ❣️❣️
U wanna see kissing 😅😅
@@aashirazeem5724ap ne chwl zaroor marni thi
Hi
This is islam
This is the best thing about Pakistani dramas unlike Indian serials 😂 sote waqt bhi itne make up, jewellery, heavy dresses 🥴
Saba Hameed's younger sis Huma Hameed nice 1 lady.
Durefishan is so much cute ❤❤
Hatsoff to the dialogue writer "majboor aurat syndrome"👌😂😂
I loved it 😅
Hcihbvhh
Alije behut cute hai ❤❤❤❤
Sherry is right here no husband tolerates that her wife hug with her boss and collegues etc...
👍
Hug nahi Kiya ,, only kandhe par halka sa hath rkha😊
Alhumdulilah proud to be a Muslim ❤
My favourite drama jaisay apki marzi😊😊
I don't think any husband even from elite class would be comfortable by some other man hugging his wife common don't create mess in every point.
Right
Then he should have gracefully expressed his discontent, instead that ghaleez husband began to distrust character of his own wife and stop defending him, he has clearly proved himself as a controlling hateful narcissist
@@roop502 he expressed in car and she replied " boss hain wo mery izat krti hun main unki"
true
narcissitic revenge hence begins , he is shown as one from the begining but now with one mistake from wife will kick his revenge and now the abuse will onmy increase
this happens in real life too
mistakes and wrong doing happens with everyone
but here they are showi g what happens when victim makes a mistake and abuser uses to his advantage
nice serial with pure emotion and love
I guess Alizeh ko b thora compromise krna chahye kia ho jata agr wo driver k sath aa jati to aurt ko itna b ziddi ni hona chahye
Mrdon ko bhi nhi hona chahiye
@@reemnaeem2832 yeah ksi ko b ni hona chahye
Only sherry in entertaining in this drama
Mikaal nailed his character
Naila Ansari MaM so amazing ✍️✍️✍️✍️
Alezye's dad is just soo soothing and relaxing personality she is so lucky to have him😊
I still need your care baba❤❤🥺🥺the most emotional dialog in this episode ❤❤
"Betiyon ko bhejna nahi chahiye" v true.. log iska bohat galat faida uthate hai
Who is proud to be a part of ummat E Muhammad PBUH ❤️
This question should be asked to self, not to others, and it should be reflected by your behavior to others
Tauba Alizay ki Maa Sherry nay haath nahi uthaya yah ganeemat samjhti hay , best Mother inlaws award goes to Alizay's mother( reason beti say ziyada Jawai piyara )
Parents should understand their daughter’s feelings
It’s a red flag for the parents when their daughter is happier at their place than at her husband’s house. Why parents ignore it & wait for the other person to destroy your beautiful, bright smart daughters? Why?
Alizey’s attitude is justified. She’s educated & have dealt with people so she already knows what she’s getting into. She doesn’t live jn lala land.
Sherry is a Shatir man. Pure narcissist with mind games.
I don’t get here people’s comment on the boss. Why most people lack critical thinking. From what we saw That boss was the one who suddenly in a platonic way patted her. It wasn’t Alizey’s fault & got insulted by Sherry . Women are taught good & bad touch from very young.
If she had felt bad touch she would’ve called him out!
I hope she takes stand, ignore her mom preachy lecture & get out before it’s too late.
Alizeh Kch zyada he angrez bany phir rhi ha
Rukhsati hijrat ki tarha hoti hai, insaan thora idhar rehta hai thora udhar, mukammal kahin nahin rehta. 😢 so true
Got goosebumps as the character of mikaal is portraited so realistically, i have been through the same in reality, beard much more than that of two faced so called islamic family, as i got married in rural tribal areas & they were like forget your family, your mom n sell out thr property of your father so my husband could invest the amount, they treated me as their unpaid life time maid , no monrhly expense no shopping, just follow the routinr, obey the orders of mother in law and feed brother in laws n entire family, it was just 6 months n i am expexting now n was mentally tortured by all. My entire gold was stolen by my husband n given it to my mothrr in law, i was so alone , he used to beat me at night during pregnancy if i called my mother.
Wht happened did u get divorce from that man or not
How are you now dear. I am in the same position and that's why i am taking pills to avoid pregnancy bcs this type of man will not be good for their entire life. I am planning to take divorce.
@@raziahijabi don’t plan get divorce right now
Allah bless u and safe your life
If any woman is in this sort of position get out ASAP specially if u are educated and independent
Brother and sister dono Maniac 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂so much buttering ,butter ka business kar lo😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜
Majboor aurat syndrome" what a phrase
Natasha ka face us k character pay buhat sut karta hy.
Sometimes the drama feels real story!
Beautiful scenes- the one where birds were freed and the one between alizay and her dad
Kahin Kahin alizey bhi over react krdeti he ..
Ego ka masla ha iska
Har waqt! Over
I can relate with each and every behaviour of shehri’s character. I was in a relationship with a Narcissist and a Narcissist always choose a strong,independent opinionated and an empath person and loves to see them helpless because of them. Great research on Narcissist personality.
نتائشہ ڈائناسار😮
only jaisy ap ki marzi drama lover can feel the happiness of every episode
Ghissi pitti line😂
Fantastic drama bahut achha bahut achha
Such a dual personality sherry has.
Representing most of our male version that are frequently available in the markets of Pakistan.
Alizay is v right as she wants to persue her dreams,such a professionally stable personality she is that is not digested by egoistic male like sherry.