Jaisay Aapki Marzi | Episode 10 (Eng Sub) | 26 September 2023 | ARY Digital

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    Jaisay Aapki Marzi | Episode 10 | Dur-e-fishan Saleem | Mikaal Zulfiqar | 26th Sep 2023 | ARY Digital
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    Jaisay Aapki Marzi | When Narcissism Takes Over Love
    Jaisay Aapki Marzi is an incredible story that portrays how a person can change their behavior when they come under the pressure of a judgmental society.
    Directed By: Saba Hamid
    Written By: Naila Ansari
    Cast:
    Dur-e-fishan Saleem
    Mikaal Zulfiqar
    Ali Safina
    Kiran Malik
    Javed Sheikh
    Ali Tahir.
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  • @rizv5368
    @rizv5368 Před 8 měsíci +245

    I had been in the same situation for 3 and half years. Despite being a doctor, I was told I was good for nothing. Came out of that hell, living independently and alhamdolillah flourishing everyday.

    • @sonusharma-wd3pe
      @sonusharma-wd3pe Před 8 měsíci +3

      Well done

    • @rifatparveen1362
      @rifatparveen1362 Před 7 měsíci +3

      So happy for u and well done for helping yourself

    • @sabaejaz1638
      @sabaejaz1638 Před 7 měsíci +1

    • @bakerssecret2164
      @bakerssecret2164 Před 6 měsíci +16

      I was also dealing with a narcissist for almost 15 Years and I got to know his true nature now. Still I am living with him because of kids. But now I know how to deal with him. And keep him on his place.
      I wish I could negate the social pressure and get out if this relationship. But one day Allah will show him how bitter n self centred he is. And how he ruined lives of his kids n wife and even himself.

    • @deborahsookram7695
      @deborahsookram7695 Před 6 měsíci

      Listen to me because I went through the same situation. I had 2 young children and was a "stay-at-home" mum. No close family around for emotional support so I did feel trapped. I eventually got out when my children were in high school and I wish that I had done so earlier. It has affected my children, negatively, who are grown up and independent now. GET OUT for your and the children's sake. You will lose your self-esteem if you haven't done so already. The ex, I spoke about is still a NARCICCIST! You think you may be able to handle him but you are destroying and wasting your life with an insecure asshole! Your happiness and peace is worth more than any man! Good luck!@@bakerssecret2164

  • @atifazafar3577
    @atifazafar3577 Před 8 měsíci +70

    What a dominating husband . Aleezy's sister Ramza is so right when she said to her mother, AP KI GENERATION NEY BETI KO AAG MEIN PHENKNA SEEKHA HAY UNKO BACHANA NEIN !! So true !

  • @kanikakaul416
    @kanikakaul416 Před 8 měsíci +194

    Identity crisis.. Narcissism.. Gaslighting.. Emotional triggers.. Toxic partner.. Red flags in a relationship..ghosting.. Vengeance..All these are present day issues which current relationships face.. Superb theme of the drama

    • @saimakamran148
      @saimakamran148 Před 8 měsíci +5

      I am living with Narcissit husband for 16 years.

    • @rifatparveen1362
      @rifatparveen1362 Před 7 měsíci +6

      And can you see how they very easily make "alizay " the one with issues

    • @kanikakaul416
      @kanikakaul416 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Manipulation another thing

    • @kanikakaul416
      @kanikakaul416 Před 7 měsíci

      @@rifatparveen1362 they are excellent manipulators.. they will guilt trip you for ur right thoughts and feelings too and wrap the whole thing around you as if ur the culprit

    • @kanikakaul416
      @kanikakaul416 Před 7 měsíci +5

      They break you brick by brick till the time u loose ur self confidence and identity and believe in their perception of you

  • @seeya7610
    @seeya7610 Před 8 měsíci +358

    The thing I like about this drama is that they’re showing narcissist behaviour step by step. That’s how they trap their prey. People who have experienced or seen others going through narc abuse can tell.

    • @momonizami5547
      @momonizami5547 Před 8 měsíci +3

      😢smj ni ata how to deal

    • @seeya7610
      @seeya7610 Před 8 měsíci +28

      @@momonizami5547 you can’t deal with them. The only way is getting out completely cutting off. Longer a person stays, longer the damage & trauma would be. This is not just regular abuse. They play mind games to completely cripple you in every way.

    • @rninstructor5061
      @rninstructor5061 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Yes same like my partner

    • @rozinabaloch6217
      @rozinabaloch6217 Před 8 měsíci +13

      i personally experienced this with my past relationship and even i feel the same pain in my heart when i remember something about that ,and the writer and makers performed everything very well....

    • @rozinabaloch6217
      @rozinabaloch6217 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@seeya7610agreed

  • @sidrashaikhji7884
    @sidrashaikhji7884 Před 8 měsíci +476

    Alizeh's father is the kind of father all daughters need❤

    • @gousiyapasha5218
      @gousiyapasha5218 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Like Mehar Ali

    • @mirsameer3386
      @mirsameer3386 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Shere phle to mara jarha tha,ab Pagal hogaya he

    • @siuliataimalie3081
      @siuliataimalie3081 Před 8 měsíci

      Absolutely ❤❤

    • @arjunshahani1360
      @arjunshahani1360 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I totally agree as the daughters need such father to understand them

    • @arjunshahani1360
      @arjunshahani1360 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Ramza is such a sensible girl, why have girls like alizey always to bend in front of the husband and in laws just because he is a man

  • @neeli8423
    @neeli8423 Před 8 měsíci +252

    OMGGGG HE'S TRYING TO BREAK HER PIECE BY PIECE . This isn't dying . It's like slow suicide. He suffocates her & gives her just a bit of breathing space so she doesn't die and he can continue his abuse.

    • @HaeppyUnni
      @HaeppyUnni Před 8 měsíci +14

      Exactly. Jo wife abuse bardasht kerti hai, usay toh khud pata bhe nahin chalta kay woh abuse horehi hai. Yahan per society ko, khas tor per maa baap ko, behn bhaiyoun ko, dostoun ko, doctors ko, sub ko mil ker aurat ki madad kerni hoti hai takay woh abuse se bahir nikal sakay aur apni zindagi dubara shuru ker sakay. Iss tarha torture hogi toh mentally unstable ho jaye gi.

    • @soniashahid6429
      @soniashahid6429 Před 8 měsíci +4

      Yes typical narcisstic behaviour

    • @sangeetaseth2954
      @sangeetaseth2954 Před 8 měsíci +8

      Alizey was such a confident girl but Sherry is making sure that she loses all her self respect and confidence and continue to save her marriage as her mother dictates …. the worst character in this play .. mom who cud not see fear and sadness in her daughter,s eyes

    • @arjunshahani1360
      @arjunshahani1360 Před 8 měsíci +1

      He is a psycho person which girl can be happy with a person like sherry

    • @mariumfaisal8123
      @mariumfaisal8123 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Finally someone is showing it

  • @somiaarshad6599
    @somiaarshad6599 Před 8 měsíci +84

    Sad to see how so many people think that abuse is just the physical one. Mental torture is so ruthless. Allah sab ke naseeb achy karien. Ameen

  • @fz4004
    @fz4004 Před 8 měsíci +72

    Every time I see this drama, I am just appalled that how the writer has perfectly portrayed this intricate abuse! I have lived this life!! Lies, deception, manipulation, sadism….. and much more 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻to the writer to bring this side of abuse! And this is not only about the narcissist. It’s the whole family dynamic and the the community expectations. And I love the young sister of Alizeh💕 and not to miss the sophisticated gaslighting leading Alizeh to question herself :((

    • @tomatotutor369
      @tomatotutor369 Před 8 měsíci +3

      and did you noticed, how first time she said I love him was during the abuse only. The manipulation works on the victim making him/her feel that they are in love and want the person.

    • @fatemaali6379
      @fatemaali6379 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Every aspect of narcissist is bang on but what I have experienced in last 8 years that narcissists don't say sorry 5hat easily to convince even if it's fake

    • @user-mh4sz7dq5d
      @user-mh4sz7dq5d Před 8 měsíci

      Some of the dialogues show that the drama is meant to promote FEMINISM CRAP.
      1. Yh lrki itni smart hy lekin shadi sy pehly socha nhi. Shadi ko mazaq samjh lia.
      2. Boss's dialogue: YH PHLY HMARI YHN PHIR APKI was absolute shit. And the heroine smiling at that was just CHEAP AND THIRD CLASS
      3. "Freedom is more important . Tum shadi na karo".
      What really?? Kiya bakwas hy? Freedom or shadi ka kia comparison hyn? Not all the husbands are abusive.
      Sherry is wrong but alizay isn't also a white character.

    • @Rinee_96
      @Rinee_96 Před 4 měsíci

      @@fatemaali6379 yes my husband has never in 5 yrs of marriage accepted his mistake or said sorry

  • @muhammadabbas950
    @muhammadabbas950 Před 8 měsíci +147

    Ramza is very sensible and intelligent 😊

  • @mojiznaqvi1560
    @mojiznaqvi1560 Před 8 měsíci +77

    Ramza's words to her mother was so true. Each words of her was based on reality

    • @thumbplayer3909
      @thumbplayer3909 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Yeah right

    • @neeli8423
      @neeli8423 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Yes she is the only voice of reason

    • @ummekalsoom5049
      @ummekalsoom5049 Před 8 měsíci +1

      True ramza sahi kehti hai ghar ko bnana sirf larki ka kaam nahi marad ka bhi itna hi kaam hai ghar sirf ourat hi nahi ujarti mard bhi ujartay hain sherry ak zehni mareez hai

    • @sanayaagarwal7031
      @sanayaagarwal7031 Před 8 měsíci

      yes

  • @munazzaadil6913
    @munazzaadil6913 Před 7 měsíci +90

    This drama depicts true colour of our society where men are so self obsessed, self centered to the extent that belittling their spouse gives them pleasure and women are supposed to let them humiliate her. Perfect story script with perfect drama cast, mikaal zulfiqar did justice to his role👏

    • @deborahsookram7695
      @deborahsookram7695 Před 6 měsíci +1

      It's in every society, sadly!

    • @afia9641
      @afia9641 Před 4 měsíci

      @@deborahsookram7695 no, not in every society. This emotional abuse is not acceptable in every society. In countries like Pakistan, women tolerating abuse are called AZEEM AURAT. That is not the case in West, no one glorifies abuse in West

  • @amberq4515
    @amberq4515 Před 8 měsíci +277

    Our Asian society doesn’t realize mental manipulation and mental torture is a form of abuse. Abuse isn’t solely in physical form, it can be mental, emotional, financial, as well as sexual. This drama depicts a narcissist husband who is mentally and emotionally abusing his wife for the satisfaction of his ego.

  • @AGARWAL28
    @AGARWAL28 Před 8 měsíci +48

    I really loved mindset of Raza such a neutral man who tells what is right or wrong

  • @SairaAmirProduction12
    @SairaAmirProduction12 Před 8 měsíci +65

    Allah Kary iss nature ka husband kisi ki beti ko b na mily ameen

  • @mariyawhd6647
    @mariyawhd6647 Před 8 měsíci +51

    Ramza's acting is so outstanding ❤ The way she takes stand for Aliza is mind-blowing

  • @nadlefaz
    @nadlefaz Před 8 měsíci +47

    So good to see how Sherry knows who is the softest in the family.. her mother... with her fears and traditional values...
    And he can get what he wants by manipulating her
    I love how subtle and slow behavours are tearing her apart... 😢

    • @nazbegum4759
      @nazbegum4759 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Highlight - Taming the cage Birds conversation.

  • @Shcbittybob
    @Shcbittybob Před 8 měsíci +136

    Omg this is so scary, how alizay is giving in to sherry’s manipulative behavior. Now she’s started seeing faults in herself, she thinks she has failed him and the relationship is suffering because of her. God this does happen in real life, a narcissist can have you wrapped around their fingers like that. 😢

    • @afreenamjad3396
      @afreenamjad3396 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Yes , this is fact in real life alsi

    • @lovedeepsidhu9941
      @lovedeepsidhu9941 Před 8 měsíci +10

      Yup. Gaslighting by the narc makes the victim start doubting themselves.

    • @drafshansamee8437
      @drafshansamee8437 Před 8 měsíci +5

      So true.
      Gaslighting does exist and it kills

    • @HaeppyUnni
      @HaeppyUnni Před 8 měsíci +6

      Exactly. Jo wife abuse bardasht kerti hai, usay toh khud pata bhe nahin chalta kay woh abuse horehi hai. Yahan per society ko, khas tor per maa baap ko, behn bhaiyoun ko, dostoun ko, doctors ko, sub ko mil ker aurat ki madad kerni hoti hai takay woh abuse se bahir nikal sakay aur apni zindagi dubara shuru ker sakay. Iss tarha torture hogi toh mentally unstable ho jaye gi.

    • @farihanaz9808
      @farihanaz9808 Před 8 měsíci

      Its reality.....

  • @nidakhalid2484
    @nidakhalid2484 Před 8 měsíci +33

    Hats off to ramza when she say apki generation ne betiyo ko aag mai phenkna hota hai....

  • @mirshabnam1828
    @mirshabnam1828 Před 7 měsíci +29

    Aliza was doubting herself... But she forgot the car scene where he clearly threatened her ,made her to call them just to say sorry and also expressed that he was taking vengeance for making him wait that day!

    • @emansheikh2736
      @emansheikh2736 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Exactly , I was thinking the same

    • @rachurachu2994
      @rachurachu2994 Před měsícem +1

      I too thought so. But this happens in reality too. We will know something is wrong. But will be confused. And on top of that parents always advise to tolerate and we don't have patience etc. etc...

  • @meeramathew1640
    @meeramathew1640 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Lol, when Natasha said they share the same soul...so true!! Both are insane and feed off each other's negativity and ego. I can't believe people like this really exist.

  • @fadistatus
    @fadistatus Před 8 měsíci +161

    its really hurt when your own family don't understand that depression and social anxiety are real illness, and say you're just being lazy

  • @fazimughal7944
    @fazimughal7944 Před 8 měsíci +63

    Even educated and independent woman have to suffer ,i had been through the same but nothing changes , its a continuous torture and you can't even get out from this trauma , never . So so much relatable

    • @neeli8423
      @neeli8423 Před 8 měsíci +6

      💯 I believe that's why they have shown alizeh as a strong independent educated girl... This can happen to ANYONE .

    • @Upasana158
      @Upasana158 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Even though we come out of it the trauma never goes away.

    • @YuvrajNijjer
      @YuvrajNijjer Před 8 měsíci

      tu iska solution kya hai Independent larkion ko shadi nahi karne chaye

    • @fazimughal7944
      @fazimughal7944 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@YuvrajNijjer they should keep their eyes open or ak bhi red flag nazar ay tu usy miss na kren due to societal pressure don't get married. At the start , sherry threw tantrums and kind of red flags actions but girl ignored at all. If u r Muslim must do istikhara divine help u will get

    • @Upasana158
      @Upasana158 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@YuvrajNijjer iska solution hai ki ladko ko sahi tarike se palna chahiye. Unko kind, open aur compassionate banana chahiye.

  • @sumairaliaqat7625
    @sumairaliaqat7625 Před 8 měsíci +33

    Ramsa is the most sensible person in the whole house. She always spoke facts 😍

  • @cric_ketZ677.
    @cric_ketZ677. Před 8 měsíci +14

    I like Ramza's character. She is the strongest part of this drama .

  • @fadistatus
    @fadistatus Před 8 měsíci +35

    عورت کسی کام میں ماہر ہو نہ ہو مگر اندھا اعتماد کرنے میں بے حد ماہر ہوتی ہے

  • @rajitta100
    @rajitta100 Před 8 měsíci +54

    Natasha has portrayed her role so well. I have started hating her literally , she has aced her role

  • @aminahameed8530
    @aminahameed8530 Před 8 měsíci +48

    Story of my life and this is exactly what I had faced. Everyone around me could sense it, except me. Currently, I am a patient of Clinical depression, have survived 5 panic attacks in a day, and have been admitted to CCU for a good 3 days. All because of severe narcissism I faced.

    • @rupakaur4912
      @rupakaur4912 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Sorry to hear about what you went through. Focus on your life and health.

    • @zaraali6006
      @zaraali6006 Před 8 měsíci +3

      😢😢😢ALLAH PAAK aap ko theek kr dain ameeen😭😭😭

    • @hscreation830
      @hscreation830 Před 8 měsíci +2

      may Allah give you good health and make us stronge ameen❤️

    • @NargisKhan-hl9sh
      @NargisKhan-hl9sh Před 8 měsíci +1

      ALLAH PAK aapko achchi health de aap Durood Ibrahim padhe mujhe bhi bohot sukoon mila h

    • @glowwithoriflame3739
      @glowwithoriflame3739 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Are you still living in your toxic relationship

  • @syedaramisha2079
    @syedaramisha2079 Před 8 měsíci +48

    As per this drama A man always only wants to see her wife like being so poor and being sorry all the time. his real happiness and satisfaction level while she was saying sorry to him describes the whole story and mindset of a man.

  • @ainaa3019
    @ainaa3019 Před 8 měsíci +80

    Each and every scene of this drama is based on reality

  • @ShaluGupta-oz6rm
    @ShaluGupta-oz6rm Před 8 měsíci +151

    Who agree " Namaz is permanent solution of all the problems " ❤❤❤

  • @emmasuo272
    @emmasuo272 Před 8 měsíci +15

    Oh finally someone brought something very needful to the screen those who don't know narc abuse and consider it love are unaware that this actually is trauma bond with the narcissist which will eventually damage the brain cause stress PTSD and the symptoms lasts quite long the blame shifting gaslighting and many more in this abuse I appreciate the writer and both the actors for writing such a needful script and amazing acting durefishan.

  • @MuhammadBilal-cw8dw
    @MuhammadBilal-cw8dw Před 8 měsíci +19

    Is drame ka name hona chahye tha
    "Sirf Meri Marzi" 😁🤣🤣

  • @punelzafar3484
    @punelzafar3484 Před 8 měsíci +21

    Epic! Such a perfect demonstration of narcissists. Both brother and sister are the same 😂

  • @zain9356
    @zain9356 Před 8 měsíci +35

    The scene when alizay says sorry to sherry and he also reply sorry Ohh my eyes filled with tears but that's true sherry is narcissistic person because husband this behaviour is not acceptable for a girl and drama story is just 💗💗💗 can't miss 1 second scene ❤

  • @user-zq9bj3nk3y
    @user-zq9bj3nk3y Před 8 měsíci +39

    I comment here every week on how accurate this portrayal of an abusive narcissist is. Some of the textbook tactics / behaviours of my ex - feeling relief when I am sad or crying, “accusing” me of being a “feminist” or losing his temper if I said anything he perceived as “feminist”. Triangulation and giving importance to other people to feed my insecurities - Sherry does it with Natasha and my ex used some of his “female friends” and side ladies. Not relenting when I am begging for forgiveness.

    • @misbhayasin5727
      @misbhayasin5727 Před 8 měsíci +3

      So sorry you had to go through this

    • @fungshui4850
      @fungshui4850 Před 8 měsíci +2

      As well as being a Narc, the character is sadistic. Dark triad vibes. Our sick south Asian communities create such monsters, it's a cancer we have to eradicate. Wishing you the best for the future.

    • @user-zq9bj3nk3y
      @user-zq9bj3nk3y Před 8 měsíci +5

      @@fungshui4850 thanks! I got out 6 years ago and am okay now but so agree with you. Some of it is so entrenched in our culture.

    • @fungshui4850
      @fungshui4850 Před 8 měsíci

      @@user-zq9bj3nk3y good for you, stay strong.

  • @shahinershad3924
    @shahinershad3924 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I was in this situation for a long time where no self respect, dignity, not from my husband but from mother in law...later I took the toughest decision..now Alhamdullillah

  • @HusnainEditor403
    @HusnainEditor403 Před 8 měsíci +6

    اللہ کے ہر فیصلے پر مطمئن رہیں، کیوں کہ اللہ وہ نہیں دیتا، جو آپکو اچھا لگتا ہے، بلکہ اللہ وہ دیتا ہے، جو آپ کیلئے اچھا ہوتا ہے۔

  • @anuchopra3903
    @anuchopra3903 Před 8 měsíci +52

    Oh god itni Educated ladki aur Working hone par bhi iska kaya haal bana diya....😢

    • @muhammadasjad7401
      @muhammadasjad7401 Před 5 měsíci

      aisy hi mut maar detay ha sari khoobiyooo ko nooch kar nikal detay ha

  • @whoawhoaization
    @whoawhoaization Před 8 měsíci +41

    This drama is a super accurate description of abusive marriages.

  • @ikiaa1499
    @ikiaa1499 Před 8 měsíci +27

    My sister said this drama matches my past relationship (engagement) and yes it does, thank god I got myself out of that

  • @criticsensible8262
    @criticsensible8262 Před 8 měsíci +27

    What does the fiancé find in Natasha🤦🏻‍♀️
    Dump her!

  • @SaniaTasnimBasher
    @SaniaTasnimBasher Před 8 měsíci +20

    Perfect example of Stockholm syndrome where victim falls in a neverending cycle of love and hate towards abuser.
    You don't need a villain in this drama. The hero is the villain.

  • @RichyHere
    @RichyHere Před 8 měsíci +53

    Amazingly written story, screenplay. That is how life is, people gradually crush you and you start doubting yourself

  • @binteshahid9825
    @binteshahid9825 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Aik toxic partner kese apko apni identity question karne par majboor kr deta hai alizey is the correct example of it. A wrong partner can literally destroy you in way even you won’t realize.

  • @kumudatayannavar9686
    @kumudatayannavar9686 Před 8 měsíci +103

    Living with naracciest person like Sharry and Natasha is hell , thoughts freezes and end up in suicide 😢

    • @sidrabatool9839
      @sidrabatool9839 Před 8 měsíci

      Hmmm

    • @arjunshahani1360
      @arjunshahani1360 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Really no one can live with people like sherry and natasha both are psycho

    • @YuvrajNijjer
      @YuvrajNijjer Před 8 měsíci

      pata to shadi ke baad hi chalega pehle to acha he lag raha hota hai Shaadi is like lottery😅

  • @gameplayvideosyt7721
    @gameplayvideosyt7721 Před 8 měsíci +36

    Such a true story...my sister is alizy and I was always talking like ramza lafz ba lafz.but my mom did what her mom is doing and she is still suffering from 22 years ..if someone is in such situations please get divorced as soon as possible 🙏

    • @Anju_Rajan
      @Anju_Rajan Před 8 měsíci +2

      Oh seriously

    • @billgatess1
      @billgatess1 Před 8 měsíci +5

      And in other people's eyes, she is happily married!

    • @malikraza4732
      @malikraza4732 Před 8 měsíci

      Yes this is real.I saw this situation.

    • @seeya7610
      @seeya7610 Před 8 měsíci

      It’s sad. Why don’t you help her get out?

    • @gameplayvideosyt7721
      @gameplayvideosyt7721 Před 8 měsíci

      @@seeya7610 she is in same situation like alizay...phir wo akdam acha ban jata he and our parents think that everything will be fine

  • @zohradawood3674
    @zohradawood3674 Před 5 měsíci +2

    My daughter was a chemical engineer nd her husband did the same. He was a narcesist she divorced but still cant find herself he took away all her self respect nd confidence she now works as a teacher. She was a topper in engineering

  • @rachurachu2994
    @rachurachu2994 Před měsícem +1

    My husband was also the same. I did everything for him to please him. He decided everything about me. Even my dressing. Still he was rude. Later I started ignoring him and I firmly stood for my rights. Then he would not talk to me for several days. That was his way to break me. I used to be broken initially. Later I learned to remain normal. I neither argued nor cried. I stopped begging for his love and attention. Then things started to get better. Now, Alhamdulillah I have no complaints about him.

  • @Foodart2023
    @Foodart2023 Před 8 měsíci +75

    Suaral susral hai ....chahay ameer hon yan garib .... similarities are there 😢😢😂😂

  • @sajjalfatima3118
    @sajjalfatima3118 Před 8 měsíci +40

    Every girl should have a sister like ramza

  • @MaqboolHassan-be8xv
    @MaqboolHassan-be8xv Před 8 měsíci +9

    My sis went through the same thing ..she got partner like him who tortured her mentally for Three years.. finally my sister took divorce..now she is in peace and Happy

  • @naseemafarheenshaik8936
    @naseemafarheenshaik8936 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The transition from super strong amd super confident, having clear and intact opinions and understanding on everything to self doubting and getting weak, confuused personality..... exactly what happens to the victims of the narcissistic toxic abuse...very precisely shown

  • @azrafida1604
    @azrafida1604 Před 8 měsíci +42

    Alizey is not in love with sherry. Sherry has trapped her so bad that she thinks she is in love with her. Typical manipulative, toxic behaviour from a narcissist. What he does to alizey after he commits a mistake is called gaslighting (becomes a victim and puts the blame on wife instead of accepting mistake). Alizey's mother is feeding sherry making him even more powerful

  • @user-qd5xl2oi9s
    @user-qd5xl2oi9s Před 8 měsíci +26

    Raza character is very sensible and acting 👏👏

  • @arjunshahani1360
    @arjunshahani1360 Před 8 měsíci +5

    This guy with whom natasha is going to get married is such a sensible guy also very understanding person he is trying to make natasha understand things but she is so stubborn she does not want to listen to anyone as it hurts ger ego

  • @humanasir9091
    @humanasir9091 Před 8 měsíci +5

    I can't believe Alizeh is mishandling her situation. She herself is a confident motivational speaker.

  • @TheRandom108
    @TheRandom108 Před 8 měsíci +520

    It always seems to me that the people who haven't seen or lived through such abuse think all these are cute little tantrums that Sherry is throwing. It's so toxic and so harmful, and only gets worse with time

    • @saraqudoos2657
      @saraqudoos2657 Před 8 měsíci +9

      Very true

    • @ainaa3019
      @ainaa3019 Před 8 měsíci +47

      And they try to sound fair by blaming both partners. Husbnd did this but wife also did that. But they don't realize that wife only reacts to what husbnd did.

    • @ifraqazi252
      @ifraqazi252 Před 8 měsíci +1

      QQ QQ q

    • @Chichipara_
      @Chichipara_ Před 8 měsíci +3

      💯

    • @gameplayvideosyt7721
      @gameplayvideosyt7721 Před 8 měsíci +28

      Exactly...my sister is going through this from las 22 years and my family always say sab theek ho jay ga but ya kabi theek ni hota

  • @Keemham
    @Keemham Před 8 měsíci +12

    یا اللہ ہم سب کے حل پر رحم فرما ہم سب کی جو بھی پریشانیاں وہ دور فرما یا اللہ یہ تیرے محبوب اس مہینے میں دنیا پے ائے تھے یا اللہ ہم سب کے صغیرہ کبیرہ چھوٹے بڑے سب گناہوں کو معاف فرماتا کہ ہماری دین اور دنیا اچھے ہو جائیں امین

  • @soc1596
    @soc1596 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Damn the gaslighting is on point. A narcissist can never ever be pleased, it's never enough.

  • @jasminemody799
    @jasminemody799 Před 8 měsíci +89

    If a educated independent girl like Alizey can behave like this than what to say

    • @shahhashmi8647
      @shahhashmi8647 Před 8 měsíci +12

      Education aur dil alag cheezay hai insaan muhabat mai majboor ho jaata hai khas tor say jab muhabat shohar say ho

    • @iqraanees1666
      @iqraanees1666 Před 8 měsíci +10

      Our society ruined the educated girl ..

    • @bushraa9944
      @bushraa9944 Před 8 měsíci

      But she has to save her home too

    • @bushraa9944
      @bushraa9944 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Every eastern married girl do the same

    • @EnlightenedU19
      @EnlightenedU19 Před 8 měsíci +2

      Education b humri zindhi k yae issue kbi solve ni kr pati hum educated girls ko limit set kerwai jati hum tabha ho jati hum

  • @cosmicconnections1130
    @cosmicconnections1130 Před 8 měsíci +52

    So good and damn natural acting by dur e fishan 💕 as wife she became attached with sherry now and she is getting emotional for him acted so well 👌 this is how ladies tolerate such kind of mentally retard men's due to certain attachment sometimes their emotional sometimes for kids

    • @muslimah_peace1907
      @muslimah_peace1907 Před 8 měsíci

      Sometimes for lifetime ...

    • @garimaa01
      @garimaa01 Před 8 měsíci +1

      True❤

    • @tomatotutor369
      @tomatotutor369 Před 8 měsíci +1

      yaa I felt so relatable when she said I love him when it was the peak of abuse. Thats how manipulation works on victim.

    • @cosmicconnections1130
      @cosmicconnections1130 Před 8 měsíci

      @@tomatotutor369 that's the way actually narc leads partner

  • @husna8388
    @husna8388 Před 8 měsíci +13

    Exceptional master piece..after a long time ...iam hooked to this drama..at times it gives goosebumps and at times give tears..

  • @mariammursalanhaider8682
    @mariammursalanhaider8682 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Every episode of this drama amazes me it’s so true to life showing the real tortured lives of women married to narcissists.
    And what amazes me is that this means it’s all very very common

  • @mahnoorahmad2215
    @mahnoorahmad2215 Před 8 měsíci +33

    A woman gives her all to the man she marries, while the man is never emotionally connected to her.

    • @kiran14528
      @kiran14528 Před 8 měsíci

      No only narrssist not connected

    • @suheera2630
      @suheera2630 Před 8 měsíci

      😢

    • @farihanaz9808
      @farihanaz9808 Před 8 měsíci

      So true

    • @Allrounder03
      @Allrounder03 Před 8 měsíci +1

      Yrr... Who the hell told this to you.... Not every man is like this.. And woman of today's time is impatient

  • @NazimKhan-bf8ru
    @NazimKhan-bf8ru Před 8 měsíci +65

    I love Quran ❤❤❤❤😊

  • @Beyondstalites
    @Beyondstalites Před 7 měsíci +15

    There is so much to learn from this drama . So many theories , social issue, mental health, entrepreneurship, sensitivity and insentivity, personal and professional dealings, commitments, social and professional life, practicality and idealism and so many things to explore ...

  • @SanaShortVideos
    @SanaShortVideos Před 8 měsíci +19

    Raza andha hy kia 😂 why is he tolerating Natasha churail 😂

  • @nusratparveen5704
    @nusratparveen5704 Před 8 měsíci +47

    ایسے ذہنی مریض کبھی ٹھیک نہیں ہوتے.😣😣😣

    • @umb7088
      @umb7088 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Mein is situation ki Ak misal hon..zanhni mareez khabhi theak nae hotay..wo theak hay or mughay cancer ho gea hay..big lesson for everyone...

    • @lailahussain4910
      @lailahussain4910 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Bilkul

    • @farmingbasicinfo
      @farmingbasicinfo Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@umb7088Jb shadia mgrur aur dulat kay sath ho ge lalchi log

    • @zaraali6006
      @zaraali6006 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@umb7088ALLAH PAAK aap ko sehat lambi zindagi dain ameeeen😢😢😢

  • @fadistatus
    @fadistatus Před 8 měsíci +7

    کفار اور مشرکین کو کتنا ہی ناگوار کیوں نہ ہو
    محمدﷺ وہ ہیں جن کی تعریف کر دے گئی ہے

    • @ismaeelahmad3752
      @ismaeelahmad3752 Před 3 dny

      mra hazoor ki koi masal nahi ati shan iam proud of you mazrat muhammad i love yoou hazrat muhammad aww

  • @fouziajawed6481
    @fouziajawed6481 Před 8 měsíci +209

    یہ ہمارے معاشرے کاالمیہ ہے کہ ہمارے ماں باپ بیٹیوں کی شادی کے بعد خوف زدہ ہو جاتے ہیں اور ہر حال میں بیٹیوں کو ہی دباتے ہیں اکثر لڑکیوں کی پوری شخصیت برباد ہو جاتی ہے اپنا گھر بچاتے بچاتے 😢

  • @legendgamers1852
    @legendgamers1852 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Crying after watching this episode... seriously felt scare for her...Parents should have to understand

  • @HiroDiary762
    @HiroDiary762 Před 8 měsíci +56

    Thats why arrange marriages are scary🙄

    • @arjunshahani1360
      @arjunshahani1360 Před 8 měsíci

      This guy sherry is sick and irritating guy i don't think any woman can be happy with him

    • @simran274
      @simran274 Před 8 měsíci +5

      U have not seen horrible love marriages

    • @YuvrajNijjer
      @YuvrajNijjer Před 8 měsíci +1

      sabhi lovers husband hai bante hai Raat gayi baat gayi😊

    • @mahnoorali2944
      @mahnoorali2944 Před 8 měsíci +4

      And I find marriage scary.

    • @samarali73
      @samarali73 Před 8 měsíci +2

      You never know. A narcissist person never show his true color until he gets married. Once you fall into a trap of marriage you get to see the real character of that person. No matter whether its a love or arrange marriage.

  • @nafisaahmed2640
    @nafisaahmed2640 Před 8 měsíci +42

    What a story ! Acting, direction ,lighting and casting pair up the two leading Mikaal and Durefishan both are outstanding . Specially Mikaal he has actually justified his role with pure dignity , honesty and dedication. Every second he just play extraordinary . Best wishes the whole team to create this exceptional drama..

  • @farwaahmed982
    @farwaahmed982 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Mikaal doing his role perfectly 😊

  • @saminaafzal150
    @saminaafzal150 Před 7 měsíci +5

    When someone is in this kind of situation they don’t realise the abuse and the time comes when the victim start believing that they are the ones who have problems that need sorting. Then the whole lifetime cycle of torture and abuse starts. Because when the victim thinks they’ve succeeded resolving one the perpetrator creates another.

  • @jasminemody799
    @jasminemody799 Před 8 měsíci +23

    Really don’t understand why do girls parents feel so weak n low

  • @laiba_khan28
    @laiba_khan28 Před 8 měsíci +52

    Only jaisay AAP ki Marzi drama lovers can feel the happiness of Tuesday and Wednesday night 💗😢

  • @natashawajeeh9295
    @natashawajeeh9295 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Aleezay k baap ko salaam....hmein ese fathers chahye jo stand le sakein😢😢😢love this man

  • @dietitianfareeha2227
    @dietitianfareeha2227 Před 8 měsíci +14

    Writter deserves an award❤

  • @ainaa3019
    @ainaa3019 Před 8 měsíci +91

    The start scene where alizey is blaming her ownself. Always narcissists try to put blame of everything on you and make you confused so you think that may be you over reacted.

    • @shahhashmi8647
      @shahhashmi8647 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Right

    • @charanjeetkaur4697
      @charanjeetkaur4697 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Exactly. It's famous trait of narcissistic behaviour. Trying to blame others for every thing.

    • @rajitta100
      @rajitta100 Před 8 měsíci +3

      True

    • @billgatess1
      @billgatess1 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Yep. Self doubt is the first stage of abuse working

    • @sumanreactions
      @sumanreactions Před 8 měsíci +4

      So true, actually i have the same type of husband 😤😤

  • @farhataltaf6477
    @farhataltaf6477 Před 8 měsíci +7

    دونوں بہن بھائی نفسیاتی کیس ہیں

  • @aimanrani7278
    @aimanrani7278 Před 8 měsíci +5

    That's how manipulative people make you think that it's all your fault and make you feel guilty.

  • @DesilifeinKenya
    @DesilifeinKenya Před 8 měsíci +4

    We love Allah We love Hazrat Muhammad SAWW

    • @minalmalik
      @minalmalik Před 7 měsíci

      مُحمّد صلّی اللّٰہ علیہ واٰلہ وسلّم♥

    • @yakky6052
      @yakky6052 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes but why are you putting this here? Inappropriate.

  • @jasminemody799
    @jasminemody799 Před 8 měsíci +13

    Ramza is so matured n Understanding

  • @sattisamina7150
    @sattisamina7150 Před 8 měsíci +14

    How Sherry became victim typical of Narcs they do wrong n become victim , they like actual victims to say sorry they get Supply out of it., Amazing drama

  • @sumaiyatahir7219
    @sumaiyatahir7219 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Ase relationship ko nibhana n is se nikalna dono aik azab hai I can feel it

  • @raynairam7980
    @raynairam7980 Před 8 měsíci +13

    I feel bad for Natasha’s boyfriend why he’s trying to destroy his life

  • @artflow4127
    @artflow4127 Před 8 měsíci +21

    Ramsa kitni mature hain🤍

  • @cosmicconnections1130
    @cosmicconnections1130 Před 8 měsíci +33

    Jaise apki marzi best show of the year reality based no fussy over drama just a dur e fishan 💕 acting amazing 👏 👍 👌 lots of wishes from india sister is too much sensible

  • @anubhabghosh4731
    @anubhabghosh4731 Před 3 měsíci

    Alizeh's behavior and personality reflects a sweet and perfect women ..can't even express how much i lover her role in this series. like a absolute angel❣❤

  • @aWanderersKitchen
    @aWanderersKitchen Před 8 měsíci +7

    Only Aleezay's sister understands Sherry

  • @saimamajeed2691
    @saimamajeed2691 Před 8 měsíci +8

    سب تو نہیں مگر کچھ حضرات کو بیوی کو دبا کر رکھنے کا شوق ہوتا ہے ان سے بااعتماد بیوی برداشت نہیں ہوتی

  • @TheHimalyanYogini
    @TheHimalyanYogini Před 8 měsíci +35

    Such an intense drama ❤ cant skip a single second

  • @uzmabibi5424
    @uzmabibi5424 Před 8 měsíci +13

    Natash looks jealous for every one . She needs to eat something sweet 😅

  • @sarajamshidi6034
    @sarajamshidi6034 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Sherry has a personality disorder called Narcissism. It has no cure sadly ! And the only way is to run away from these type of people :(

  • @danishsidra.7865
    @danishsidra.7865 Před 8 měsíci +19

    Shadi k bad aurat APNA Ghar bachane k Liye compromise Karti hai bas 😢😢😢

  • @sehar_khan1232
    @sehar_khan1232 Před 8 měsíci +12

    Let's vote for 3 episode in week

  • @farihajavaid7807
    @farihajavaid7807 Před 8 měsíci +2

    In arrange marriages, a girl has to give time to herself but in aleezay's case she is confronting from the very first day. Wise thing is to first observe n adapt new environment. Then slowly and gradually mould the ppl around. This a sad reality that in our society mostly a woman changes herself, not her husband or inlaws. But there are ppl who give space to each other. Ultimately if things become worse then only option is to get rid of such relationships

  • @elsafamily7633
    @elsafamily7633 Před 8 měsíci +3

    31:18 Very solid point given by raza.
    K....apny ghar par kya kr rha hai......
    That matters a lot how he is behaving with his wife

  • @moonmalik4141
    @moonmalik4141 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Beautiful relation between Ali tahir sab n their daughters z awsom ,a fathers relation should b like like this ,their relation z as same as my dad n me❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤