Love Is Blind’s Micah TEARS UP Discussing Her Portrayal on the Show (Exclusive)

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  • čas přidán 11. 04. 2023
  • 'Love Is Blind' star Micah Lussier chats with ET's Will Marfuggi about how she was portrayed on the show and breaks down in tears discussing her journey. Plus, Micah reacts to season 2 alum Natalie Lee accusing her of not being 'genuine' on the series. 'Love Is Blind' season 4 is streaming now on Netflix.
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  • @TheDawnofVanlife
    @TheDawnofVanlife Před rokem +1319

    We met Micah’s real life friends who were just as messy as Irina, which says a lot about her. She basically said ‘I was so absorbed into what I wanted, I didn’t care why other people were hurting.’ That’s a huge reflection of who you are.

    • @danielleduvall7573
      @danielleduvall7573 Před rokem +35

      Yet, she calls herself an empath 🙄 she behaved which is the exact opposite of an empath.

    • @AlwaysAlicia2991
      @AlwaysAlicia2991 Před rokem +4

      Exactly I said the same thing

    • @spongebobuniverse
      @spongebobuniverse Před rokem +26

      Micah was nasty and messy without her friends. She thought she had the upper hand on Paul. She sized up his lifestyle, disrespected him and looked at him as a dork. She thought she was better than him and because of that she felt like he was a for sure thing.

    • @jesscthevision
      @jesscthevision Před rokem +2

      how was your experience with her friends ? 😮

    • @RessurrectionGraves
      @RessurrectionGraves Před rokem +1

      THIS!!!! The only comment that matters.

  • @betty3014
    @betty3014 Před rokem +2316

    The fact that she’s still friends with Irina says a lot.

    • @SittinNBitchin
      @SittinNBitchin Před rokem +42

      I agree completely 😊

    • @Sadie1067
      @Sadie1067 Před rokem +13

      Sooooo true fr

    • @runnerX007
      @runnerX007 Před rokem +60

      Not to mention her bff from home-clearly attracts a certain type of person: the company you keep says a lot…

    • @reemarimz6830
      @reemarimz6830 Před rokem +49

      ​@@runnerX007 this one is worse that Irina even. I don't even think any of them were happy for her. They seemed happier when she got rejected at the altar

    • @joannawrzelikowska3273
      @joannawrzelikowska3273 Před rokem +13

      And Shelby omg

  • @corenthiajohnson306
    @corenthiajohnson306 Před rokem +2411

    Her friends were mean and rude to Paul. So I'm pretty sure that how she operates because the company you keep is a reflection of yourself.

    • @AlwaysAlicia2991
      @AlwaysAlicia2991 Před rokem

      Yup because when she was in the pods she buddied up with Irina another mean girl with a nasty personality

    • @leyjam3788
      @leyjam3788 Před rokem +77

      That one friend was a complete nut.

    • @betty3014
      @betty3014 Před rokem +105

      And she told Paul that he should care what her friend thinks of him…um..no ma’am. Im glad Paul said he didn’t care.

    • @kat64470
      @kat64470 Před rokem +9

      I couldn't understand what her friends were saying. What did they say to piss Paul off?

    • @betty3014
      @betty3014 Před rokem

      @@kat64470 i honestly can’t remember exactly I’ll have to watch that part again but it was nothing bad he was just talking and the friend said something like I don’t know about that or if I like that or something and he said he didn’t care and Micah got after him and was telling him he should care and not to be like that

  • @SittinNBitchin
    @SittinNBitchin Před rokem +876

    This is called DAMAGE CONTROL. Theres not a lot of room for future shows if the public doesn't like you. You showed up and showed out so accept the consequences.

    • @ivythegreat4943
      @ivythegreat4943 Před rokem +8

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 THIS ALL OF THIS

    • @je.suis.prisci
      @je.suis.prisci Před rokem +5

      😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂 Well played, Micah

    • @terrythompson4126
      @terrythompson4126 Před rokem +4

      This is exactly what I’ve been screaming! Her and the bar flies’ Kardashian impersonation failed miserably!

    • @jl7662
      @jl7662 Před rokem +8

      Insert fake tears

    • @RychAhlberg
      @RychAhlberg Před rokem +1

      Actually plenty of reality shows want people like her for drama, views and controversy

  • @Renay8072
    @Renay8072 Před rokem +265

    She saw nothing wrong with her behavior prior to this point when she says in this interview that she didn’t expect any backlash to anything she did.

  • @peeerlyb.7762
    @peeerlyb.7762 Před rokem +471

    Paul dodged a huge wrecking ball- he is logical and he said he could not see her as a loving and nurturing woman. He was right. She is not. Her friends are horrible too.

    • @beffis1980
      @beffis1980 Před rokem +8

      Absolutely nailed it! I swear she’s Cersei’s evil twin from Game of Thrones.

    • @King_2ya
      @King_2ya Před rokem +2

      FACTS!!!

    • @JoshyJosh
      @JoshyJosh Před rokem

      They BOTH dodged a bullet tho. Paul is a POS too. Stop trying to make him a saint just cause he has a dumb face.

    • @jasminecontreras7341
      @jasminecontreras7341 Před rokem

      What I don’t get is why was he even interested in dating her in the first place? Did he just want to be on the show? I don’t believe he ever saw himself being with her long term

    • @peeerlyb.7762
      @peeerlyb.7762 Před rokem +2

      @@jasminecontreras7341 he fell for her without seeing her and that’s what the show encourages but in real life m, he had to see certain things are not to his linking…

  • @Ashleyunfiltered
    @Ashleyunfiltered Před rokem +216

    She’s just embarrassed. Her friends exposed her just as bad as she exposed herself. This is what happens when Bad people go on reality television and then get completely rejected by the public because of it so now it becomes a rude awakening and they have to do interviews like this to prove they aren’t a bad person
    But the truth is… you were just exposed

    • @e.c.9231
      @e.c.9231 Před rokem +1

      Yes and nothing makes someone change more than everyone shitting on them online 😂

    • @Ashleyunfiltered
      @Ashleyunfiltered Před rokem +1

      @@e.c.9231 you call it shitting, I call it a spade. Call a spade a spade. It is what it is. She has a lot of ground work to do because my one comment won’t stop the millions of people she has affected with her terrible behaviour.
      Don’t play nice, won’t get nice. My comment was simply stating facts. Happens time and time again

    • @caseyw.6550
      @caseyw.6550 Před rokem +2

      ​@@e.c.9231 Her "changing" is no one's responsibility but her own.

    • @SleepinWithKarma
      @SleepinWithKarma Před rokem

      I agree.

  • @JV-jc7ci
    @JV-jc7ci Před rokem +638

    *spoiler* After seeing how her mom reacted to Paul’s answer at the altar, the way she blamed and convicted him for a genuine answer made me realize why Micah is the way she is. An only child, obviously spoiled rotten and pacified in every moment in life that should be a learning opportunity instead of teaching her to accept downfalls like an adult. Maybe if you’d raise your daughter to be a better and more nurturing being, a smart and good soul like Paul would have said yes. And then the way Micah’s friend scoffed and celebrated at the fact she got rejected shows how toxic and disingenuous the kind of friends she associated herself with. I don’t think she has a decent, good hearted person in her life which is a reflection of her own self and preferences.

    • @gabym5546
      @gabym5546 Před rokem +24

      Yessss this scene was very telling

    • @gizemguney2433
      @gizemguney2433 Před rokem +17

      Yes! This!

    • @hwajung_roohwa
      @hwajung_roohwa Před rokem +17

      thisssss I thought like you when I saw her mom's reaction to that situation. after Paul said no

    • @genesisautumn
      @genesisautumn Před rokem +7

      This!!! I blame the mom

    • @jlind3891
      @jlind3891 Před rokem +5

      Or lack of self esteem. Maybe she doesn’t think she deserve better or think that’s how everyone is

  • @AlwaysAlicia2991
    @AlwaysAlicia2991 Před rokem +785

    You're not fooling us Micah you showed your true colors at least stand on it. Stop with the crocodile tears

    • @bethany7785
      @bethany7785 Před rokem +16

      She's been getting death threats, they probably are real. She is still human.

    • @sarahrean7174
      @sarahrean7174 Před rokem +1

      She entertain you though

    • @AlwaysAlicia2991
      @AlwaysAlicia2991 Před rokem +22

      @@sarahrean7174 two things can be true at the same time. Yes she was entertaining and yes her behavior was DISGUSTING. Be careful how you choose to behave.

    • @ShebaSync
      @ShebaSync Před rokem +1

      This right here!!!!!! she's crying because she's got caught and dragged

    • @solomoon3083
      @solomoon3083 Před rokem

      Absolutely.

  • @kibbleandquibble1732
    @kibbleandquibble1732 Před rokem +527

    It's incredible that she can cry with sobs so big she's gasping for air, for 5 minutes without smudging any of her makeup.

    • @jiujuntang
      @jiujuntang Před rokem +32

      I wonder what brand it is

    • @chisuwochabu250
      @chisuwochabu250 Před rokem +13

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chisuwochabu250
      @chisuwochabu250 Před rokem +6

      @@jiujuntang 😅😅😅😅😅 I caught that

    • @jiujuntang
      @jiujuntang Před rokem +5

      @@chisuwochabu250 thanks for catching that 😉

    • @tracy488
      @tracy488 Před rokem +4

      @@jiujuntang Maybe she'll get a contract with a makeup company.

  • @yemio1005
    @yemio1005 Před rokem +245

    I said it before Micah is a GREAT actress. I couldn’t believe the change up from being this mean girl in the beginning to then being this totally loved up gal. It was weird! Honestly something ain’t right with her and I’m very happy Paul said no

    • @r.j1323
      @r.j1323 Před rokem +30

      She ain't even that great of an actress, no one's buying it.

    • @delrey874
      @delrey874 Před rokem +10

      She was a terrible actress from start to finish. It was obvious from the beginning that she had no intention of getting married and just joined the show to get attention and followers.

    • @gl2461
      @gl2461 Před 9 měsíci

      Bad cringey acting yikes

  • @newchapters600
    @newchapters600 Před rokem +402

    Those tears are manipulative . She wants people to feel sorry for her

    • @cynthgonz
      @cynthgonz Před rokem +15

      or maybe she's crying because ppl have taken it way too far and have said more hateful and mean girl things than Micah or Irina ever did. How are y'all coming for these ppl when you're all being worst than them?? make it make sense. look at yourself plz.

    • @RR-mv1vr
      @RR-mv1vr Před rokem +3

      Totaly agree!

    • @ThatGmoney
      @ThatGmoney Před rokem +1

      @@cynthgonz I think it’s more of she’s not skilled at dealing with the public. Micah does show remorse, she even mentions she has a long way to go. People with strong personality disorder traits, blame blame blame blame or they would use words to dismiss. It’s always a controlling game.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Před rokem +4

      I wonder if there’s some shock and sadness of having that mirror pointed back at her and seeing just what a truly sh*tty person she is; Regina George 2.0 is hurtful to everyone caught in her web. That pool scene with her all over Kwame will go down in LIB history- they make Cole look like a choir boy in his mild flirtation with Colleen.

    • @lupedelacruz957
      @lupedelacruz957 Před rokem +3

      Yessssss!! She sounds so fake

  • @rw7567
    @rw7567 Před rokem +348

    Paul dodged a big bullet. She says it herself. She is no empath. She’s just selfish. Even when she’s dealing with Paul, she is incredibly selfish and self-absorbed. I blame her parents. Now she’s gotta grow up. Yeah girl, that mirror can be harsh!

    • @jlind3891
      @jlind3891 Před rokem +6

      In the show she said I’m an empath

    • @rw7567
      @rw7567 Před rokem +5

      @@jlind3891 I was referred to this interview in which she acknowledges that she was only thinking of herself.

    • @ampleoloruntogbe1434
      @ampleoloruntogbe1434 Před rokem +6

      funny how her mum said Paul was in the way and didn't let her meet someone else after he said no to her when Micah was the one who got in the way of what could've been between Paul and Amber. her mum too encouraged this behaviour of hers from what I noticed.

    • @nananichole
      @nananichole Před rokem +4

      @@ampleoloruntogbe1434 exactly. I had a feeling about her mom when they all met for lunch but especially at the wedding dress fitting. Like you don’t have to be totally on board with your kid doing something like this, I get that. But the was she spoke about Paul at the dress fitting gave me a undertone mean girl vibe herself and that was her MOTHER. I’m not shocked Micha turned out the way she did.
      It’s clear Micha’s been told “she’s pretty and smart and can have anything and anyone she wants because she’s MICHA” her entire life. It really shows

    • @solomoon3083
      @solomoon3083 Před rokem +2

      Hell yeah. I’m an empath for animals. I can’t stand humans.

  • @alexciasommerville9514
    @alexciasommerville9514 Před rokem +67

    You need an Oscar girl! This is literally trying to save face. You can apologize without the fake crying smh same thing she did at the wedding, acting like she crying, the whole time no tears smh ppl fake cry in apology so others can feel sorry for them and ultimately make them the victim.

  • @reign4723
    @reign4723 Před rokem +178

    So taking away the sugar coating that she’s trying to do here, she’s basically saying that she was too self-absorbed to care what others were going through as her only focus was her own happiness and she didn’t care who she stomped along the way to get it.
    Pretty much what we all had already gathered about her. She needs some growing up to do before trying to get into another relationship let alone marriage.

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Před rokem +8

      Yes! Her excuse is that she couldn’t see past herself. So very self-absorbed.

    • @erindouglas01
      @erindouglas01 Před rokem +13

      But she’s an eMpaTh

    • @reign4723
      @reign4723 Před rokem +2

      @@erindouglas01 😂😂

    • @lauradominguez2160
      @lauradominguez2160 Před rokem +5

      True, but the fact that she could recognize that about herself, at least shows some introspection and self awareness, so maybe she has a chance of becoming a better person if she really wants to change that about herself, I hope she does.

    • @lillyrose3545
      @lillyrose3545 Před rokem +3

      She is crying because she was unaware that she is a nasty person until the show and how people reacted to it. I doubt she will grow from it. What I actually see happening is that she finds someone else that has her character. Like attracts like. …her and irina, her and her friends.

  • @ArtByHazel
    @ArtByHazel Před rokem +86

    Micah may this be your wake up call to become a better version of yourself.
    Watching her and Irina laughed at someone’s pain was hard to watch. The mean girl vibe was so intense with those two. Because. Deep down they too have their own insecurities whether they admit it or not.
    Their lack of self-awareness is clear and they have a lot to learn going forward.
    I hope she feels the pain of having to see her behaviour affected people the way.

  • @ampleoloruntogbe1434
    @ampleoloruntogbe1434 Před rokem +44

    the first thing she said when we saw her was "if nobody likes my insides, I'd be pissed, but yeah that would make so much sense" meaning she knows how she is. plus her real life friends and their interaction also showed us she was portrayed correctly.

  • @kennedyseaton7606
    @kennedyseaton7606 Před rokem +35

    she's crying cause she never thought the entire internet would catch on to the fact that she's a mean girl! the scenes don't lie

  • @phoebenaguit
    @phoebenaguit Před rokem +122

    The only reason I have a hard time believing her is that she speaks with a "crying" voice a lot in this interview but there was actually no tears for the bulk of it.

    • @plutoniumcore
      @plutoniumcore Před rokem +7

      Omg yes. The broken crying voice attempt. It sounds forced.

    • @floflo8153
      @floflo8153 Před rokem

      So you'd believe her if she wasn't speaking in a crying voice?

    • @phoebenaguit
      @phoebenaguit Před rokem +3

      @@floflo8153 Maybe, I would have to re-listen to what she actually said because the crying voice without tears just made everything sound disingenuous.

    • @maribelpav
      @maribelpav Před rokem +1

      shes embarassed. wouldnt you be if everyone hated the person you simply are? Everyone's so different, by shes not evil just immature.

  • @valeriamoreno9024
    @valeriamoreno9024 Před rokem +96

    She's so good at fake crying and great with her words....

  • @theworldsonheroin
    @theworldsonheroin Před rokem +52

    i dont think Micah knows who she is. She seems to constantly seek validation from others and insecure people usually attract insecure people. It's not wonder her friends are who they are and how she gravitated towards Irina.

  • @janetgibson5779
    @janetgibson5779 Před rokem +67

    Yes, she is SINCERELY the person portrayed on the show. That was her. Her words, her actions. Shocking that an educated person doesn’t have the wherewithal to think of others. Is she a bad person? NO. Immature? Yes. Quintessential portrait of white privilege.

    • @Joshpower57
      @Joshpower57 Před rokem

      It's not white privilege, it's literally modern young women. They've been raised to be manipulative princesses. That's her, the manipulative princess. Yes, she is a horrible person. Girl actively tried to ruin people's relationships

    • @beffis1980
      @beffis1980 Před rokem +1

      Yeah, she reminds me of Cersei from Game of Thrones! Irina is definitely her evil twin

    • @khayaaa5285
      @khayaaa5285 Před rokem +2

      RIGHT

    • @Yentra163
      @Yentra163 Před rokem

      It has nothing to do with her race. People of ALL races have trash like this. And people of all races have worthwhile folk.

  • @Cosmicles
    @Cosmicles Před rokem +142

    On the show, that’s her true self😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yoda12121
    @yoda12121 Před rokem +95

    When you actually look in the mirror and see yourself of how you really are to people and that sh*t make you cry lol

    • @Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier111
      @Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier111 Před rokem +2

      Aka why no one ever wants to self reflect. Only time will tell if she wants to change for herself... but by then we'll all move on😅

    • @yoda12121
      @yoda12121 Před rokem

      @@Ragnheiour_Olafurdottier111 true! Lol

    • @lillyrose3545
      @lillyrose3545 Před rokem

      You have to see the problem if you want to change. She didn’t see the truth that her friends are and she didn’t see it.
      I doubt she will change.

    • @susangivenrod656
      @susangivenrod656 Před rokem

      She should not be giving interviews. She can’t recover from this. She showed her ass to all of the world, now deal with it!

  • @r.j1323
    @r.j1323 Před rokem +33

    I feel bad for Paul, he fell into this trap when he could have had a sincere woman. And Zach originally fell too but was able to recover. I hope men see and learn from these types of females.

    • @GhislaineMutombo
      @GhislaineMutombo Před rokem +3

      Sorry for Paula? Why? He made a choice, he is a grown man who chose this woman on his own accord. Y'all are capping hard, allegedly could have been having a thing with her bf too. So none of these grown ups are dainty & helpless. They chose their paths.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Před rokem +5

      Notice a theme here…men fall for the manipulative, bitchy, hot girl over sweet, supportive, and steadfast (which is better life-partner material)! Men (and some women) want “fireworks” til they get home & realize you could blow up the whole house

    • @purplespaceship3050
      @purplespaceship3050 Před rokem

      Society is to blame for a lot of this. We validate and reward these people by giving them a level of attention most normal people never have. Even before going on the show girls like Micah and Irina already have large social media followings because we reward people for their looks and not their character. We promote and nurture these kind of negative behaviors. Meanwhile the people who are actually genuinely good human beings go totally unnoticed.

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Před rokem +231

    This is literally what Micah has wanted. That influencer type lifestyle....she's eating this up! Lol.

    • @TheMemoryPolice
      @TheMemoryPolice Před rokem +1

      It's difficult to be an influencer if people hate you though. People will follow and buy products from Tiffany and Brett because they are loved. Who is gonna listen to Micah?

    • @elielelwy
      @elielelwy Před rokem +4

      @@TheMemoryPolicemean girls who also sympathize with her. she shouldn’t have a platform, period.

    • @mmm555m
      @mmm555m Před rokem +2

      @@TheMemoryPolice people still follow along cuz they’re intrigued. Plus now she gets to have a “seeing the light” phase where she “turns herself around” and can show her “fans” her character development.

    • @TheMemoryPolice
      @TheMemoryPolice Před rokem

      @@elielelwy - that is true, the mean girls are gonna follow her and the girls who hate all men

  • @bambooblue74
    @bambooblue74 Před rokem +36

    Woman up Micah! Take accountability for your actions. Here’s your chance.

    • @beffis1980
      @beffis1980 Před rokem

      I don’t believe there’s any chance she’s a narcissist! She knew she was crying. She knew Amber was crying. She knew Amber was sad. She is a Cersei from Game of Thrones.

  • @crystalharris4142
    @crystalharris4142 Před rokem +57

    Crocodile tears🥴 She’s trying to save face, but the damage is done as she showed her true self on the show. When someone shows you who they are believe them. Not buying it boo boo.

  • @superwomae
    @superwomae Před rokem +26

    Her true self really comes out when she’s around her friendssss. I guess you are what you surround yourself with.

  • @serina9455
    @serina9455 Před rokem +53

    Lmao nobody cares that she’s crying because it’s fake😭💀

  • @JM-pi2vc
    @JM-pi2vc Před rokem +50

    Kudos to Paul for seeing her shortcomings! Paul said early on that he was used to down to earth, hippie-type, outdoorsy girls. I guess he couldn't handle all the pretentiousness, plus he peeped she was not caring and compassionate enough, and I'm sure her so-called friends were too shallow and rude for him too.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Před rokem +7

      I don’t think he ever once saw her without full hair & makeup, including those massive caterpillar falsies on her eyelids. Scottsdale Barbie is the polar opposite of the crunchy PNW hippie chicks it sounds like are his preference. Good on him for giving her a chance but seeing through the facade.

  • @genestarolle2810
    @genestarolle2810 Před rokem +11

    Paul made a smart move.

  • @angelmushahf
    @angelmushahf Před rokem +15

    Micah’s story was karma at its finest. She and Irina laughed at Chelsie, Bliss and Jackie, especially, Amber when Paul rejected her. Then Shelbie and the gals laughed at Micah when Paul rejected her. And don’t forget that Irina tried to pursue Paul during the honeymoon. Micah needs better friends. If you hang out with hyenas, don’t be surprised when those same hyenas eat you alive.

  • @ssr6731
    @ssr6731 Před rokem +32

    She and her friends made so much fun at Paul was just horrible... She said like she wanted to change him and dress him, like she was too good for him..

  • @TheAliciaky
    @TheAliciaky Před rokem +18

    Definitely that Paul made a good decision. From the beginning she was interested in Kwame, but it's a good thing he chose Chelsea, because she seemed honest, humble and really in love with Kwame.

  • @mazzyg6186
    @mazzyg6186 Před rokem +16

    So crazy how her face is dry but she’s crying sooo hard

  • @makeblackcommunitiesgreata6496

    🐊 😭 Now she's worried about her image worldwide.
    😂 🤣 PR Damage Control.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Před rokem

      Honestly this entire interview seemed like PR damage control, well rehearsed and scripted

  • @benmac2112
    @benmac2112 Před rokem +55

    That pool party pretty much appears to be telling of her character. It appears that she is a natural flirt but does not understand boundaries. Also, there were quite a few incidents in the dorm that gives the mean girl vibes and she appears to want to be the center of attention or be the most popular girl among the men. Too bad, she has to learn her lesson the hard way.... public scrutiny and publicly being called out. Before coming to the show, am wondering if she had some people or friends called her out on some of her behaviors. Or when they do, how does she respond to those criticisms.

  • @dashag2342
    @dashag2342 Před rokem +7

    True definition of: "Show me your close friends and I'll tell you who you are".

  • @Kiki-xd3sn
    @Kiki-xd3sn Před rokem +9

    I’m furious that at the reunion she was not held accountable for ANY of her behavior but they grilled Irina so much, and she genuinely seemed ashamed.

    • @trulyyoursish
      @trulyyoursish Před rokem

      True. She played Kwame and that's hurting Kwame, Chelsea and Paul.

  • @Honeybulldog
    @Honeybulldog Před rokem +53

    Cocodrilo tears

  • @nicholasgarrick8855
    @nicholasgarrick8855 Před rokem +17

    With friends like Shelby who needs enemies?

  • @llauoykcuftube
    @llauoykcuftube Před rokem +51

    she is not good enough for Paul obviously, he is intelligent, good guy and she is just superficial mean girl

    • @Amazigh_MaeMae
      @Amazigh_MaeMae Před rokem +4

      ​@F I don't think he was aware she was like that. He prob was in shock too watching it back.

  • @ifyouweremeforreal
    @ifyouweremeforreal Před rokem +21

    Accountability is hard for some folks

  • @cedii_x
    @cedii_x Před rokem +27

    This was funny and pathetic. They (her & Irina) wanted to be influencers and famous from this. It’s hard *not* being yourself. Her real personality shined through in each episode & it’s really funny that she actually described herself as an empath but… well you know 😏 nothing of the sort. Mean girl with mean friends, doing mean things. Nothing new.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 Před rokem +1

      She’s the main character, or so she thought, and had her bubble burst hard because I doubt she’s ever not gotten what she wants in her entire life

  • @shabrinaz9877
    @shabrinaz9877 Před rokem +26

    She is quite masterful in this. Theres expertise to the method of madness. 😅

    • @msmarsaya
      @msmarsaya Před rokem +4

      It's called The Karen 😂

  • @marsargoxmiso1695
    @marsargoxmiso1695 Před rokem +7

    I was absolutely disgusted with how her drunk friends were nasty and rude to Paul, she didn’t take his side she took theirs it’s ridiculous that at that age your allowing your friends control now you feel about a decently nice partner like y’all in middle school, I’m glad he said no in the end she needs to grow up.

  • @guoshanhui
    @guoshanhui Před rokem +11

    I hope she learns a lot from this experience! I applaud her for not overusing "like" in this interview. At least there's been an improvement in that area

    • @annaymous
      @annaymous Před rokem +1

      Omg thank you, I’d start a like count in my head for her.

  • @katet8639
    @katet8639 Před rokem +5

    Micah crying: *World tiniest violin playing*

  • @Yeodoongiiie
    @Yeodoongiiie Před rokem +17

    sooooooo i guess this means she didn't get married....?

  • @c_louie670
    @c_louie670 Před rokem +11

    I forgot in th show she said she was an empath, she clearly wasn't. I don't believe her tears. I wish her the best but I really hope netflix doesn't invite her to new shows.

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Před rokem +5

      Being so caught up in yourself that you don’t notice hurting other people is the opposite of being an empath. 🤣 I forgot Micah said that.

  • @meli7315
    @meli7315 Před rokem +5

    I mean, Paul just said “I can’t imagine her being a mother, that this nurturing part is missing” I mean 90% she criticised his clothes… 🤦🏻‍♀️ instead of developing some quality communication…

  • @user-dt5wo5ju1p
    @user-dt5wo5ju1p Před rokem +6

    Every girl watching this video knows a girl like Mica we’ve all been bullied relentlessly by girls like Mika and we all see how they act when they get caught. She’s not fooling anyone she and Irina deserve the worst and I hope they get karmic shit that’s coming their way.

  • @rice2329
    @rice2329 Před rokem +7

    Micah is not as bad as Irina and Jackie

  • @barbaramelady110
    @barbaramelady110 Před rokem +4

    She cry because She was revealed!Paul was smart ,highly intelligent Man who make perfect choice to walk away ,BRAVO to HIM.

  • @charlottelee259
    @charlottelee259 Před rokem +3

    Micah is a mean girl. Paul dodged a bullet.

  • @Antibeautyguru
    @Antibeautyguru Před rokem +5

    To be honest I think she’s someone who takes on the personality of those she hangs out with and she’s super insecure so she hangs out with mean girls who make her feel important and like she’ll never be bullied and then she acts like a bully to fit in and feel superior so she won’t ever feel inferior again. I think she’s just a follower.

  • @TheSLme
    @TheSLme Před rokem +6

    If this is her state now, I can't imagine how the reunion will go.

  • @tseringtsomo5049
    @tseringtsomo5049 Před rokem +8

    An empath shows their character through their actions. They observe and understand and emphasize about the other person who maybe hurting at the moment and they don't hide behind the "I laugh because I am nervous " excuse. Maybe it's true but I am find it really hard to believe her.

  • @marou55ia_
    @marou55ia_ Před rokem +6

    As she said -- she was TRYING TO GET her happy ending. It did not seem like she had genuine intention to open her heart & be vulnerable. She was clearly trying to force things to happen & control the outcome & it failed. Sometimes it's best to let go of trying to control, and just receive love & understand that some things you can't control. Tiffany for example was open but not forceful.

  • @rebeccaaa9994
    @rebeccaaa9994 Před rokem +25

    The people you are around are a reflection of you so this is concerning considering all of her friends are mean like they were so rude to Paul for no reason. She cares too much about other people’s opinions and is too scared to be by herself which in its self is not good because it means she cannot be alone

  • @mayalorbetskie624
    @mayalorbetskie624 Před rokem +9

    Girl bye! You need to do some self reflecting instead of deflecting.

  • @emilyp8266
    @emilyp8266 Před rokem +11

    she's only "sorry" because she got caught and revealed who she really is. Where are the tears Micah? Lol

  • @heatherbee2134
    @heatherbee2134 Před rokem +8

    "That's not who I am"
    Even though it's exactly how I acted 😢
    This girl... still friends with that irena and her long time friends SUCK! that is her. She's just sad it's her reality. Time to change!

  • @kdh1830
    @kdh1830 Před rokem +11

    Are Karen tears a thing? Or Becky tears? We should coin one of those phrases because it’s definitely a thing.

    • @lolacookie453
      @lolacookie453 Před rokem

      They are referred to as narc/BPD tears of manipulation

  • @bbrandon5567
    @bbrandon5567 Před rokem +3

    Girl you were def a mean girl… I mean, Shelby LAUGHEDDDDD when Paul said no and that’s your BFF…

  • @nader85021
    @nader85021 Před rokem +7

    Practicing for the reunion. I am sure she is watching this with her PR agent to get feedback for the reunion.

  • @wilsonjoshwilson
    @wilsonjoshwilson Před rokem +2

    Paul a scientist. Man’s calculated everything and made the right choice lol

  • @sarahsayed2012
    @sarahsayed2012 Před rokem +3

    On her extended interview with ET she says she doesn't regret anything she did because that was her true self and I believe her.
    She seems like a manipulative and sneaky person.

  • @Karen-hl4lx
    @Karen-hl4lx Před rokem +2

    She needs to reflect on her friend choices. Shelby can say she’s looking out for Micah and just cares about her, but she was right off the bat snooty, rude and judgemental. She basically was saying that Micah’s experience and feelings weren’t real and she didn’t trust her own friend’s feelings. She knew better. She’s not a good person.

  • @mamabirdie734
    @mamabirdie734 Před rokem +3

    Micah’s blonde friend Shelby was a mean girl to Paul from jump so was her friend Ruby and Micah loved being a mean girl with Irina and that’s w/ the camera’s on. Birds of a feather flock together. Paul probably sensed deep down she was a shallow, vapid, self absorbed bully who not only lacked compassion for others but delighted in their pain…Her friend Shelby was also completely classless and carried herself without any sense of sophistication.

  • @Primrosevang
    @Primrosevang Před rokem +4

    She is sad because she got exposed as a mean girl.

  • @joannawrzelikowska3273
    @joannawrzelikowska3273 Před rokem +5

    "Work on ourselves....like everyone else" wtf 😂

  • @SpellTube
    @SpellTube Před 4 měsíci +1

    I feel so bad for Micah! She was so sad to a point where there were no tears at all when she’s crying 😭

  • @walelu777
    @walelu777 Před rokem +3

    Sort of off topic but has anyone noticed Netflix has the most unflattering lighting? It makes everyone look 10 years older than they are. Isn’t the point of lighting on a tv show/movie to make people look decent?

    • @jovanaavalos174
      @jovanaavalos174 Před rokem

      Yes oh my god. The light did not do Micah or Irina any favors.

    • @walelu777
      @walelu777 Před rokem

      @@jovanaavalos174 that’s what I thought too but I wasn’t gonna say that 😂 seriously though, it made everyone look awful. You shouldn’t be able to see someone’s pores from an interview lol

  • @anordinarygurl9642
    @anordinarygurl9642 Před rokem +3

    Girl- why she teary like that? No real tears are coming out. The way she immediately just resumes talking like nothing after cleaning her face is just so fake. She just looks so off. Besides, we've seen her friends too and I think we've seen her true character. Even at the alter when she asked Paul to go first. I was like what? Her and Irina do deserve each other and they can save their "apologies"🙄😒

  • @MissHimbeere
    @MissHimbeere Před rokem +2

    An empath would never say he is an empath. Girl you are so self-centered. Empaths would never.

  • @kristinacollins8380
    @kristinacollins8380 Před rokem +4

    I have a hard time feeling any ounce of empathy for Micah given she acted the way she acted - this is who she is. I feel empathy for the victims though - Chelsea and Paul in particular. I hope they are OK and I commend Paul for saying "no." Micah, instead of tears, use this experience to try and be a better person. Reflect on why you feel a need to gossip, make others feel bad, laugh at another woman's pain and compete for another's love interest for the sake of winning? Why keep friends who laugh at your pain instead of sharing in your sorrows?

  • @lolacookie453
    @lolacookie453 Před rokem +7

    Notice how when narcissists/BPD people cry, it NEVER elicits an emotional reaction from other people. This is a perfect example of it in case any of you are wondering why your body isn’t reacting in an empathetic manner watching her cry.

  • @kawball
    @kawball Před rokem +6

    This comment section gets it 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @queenshay
    @queenshay Před rokem +6

    Her crying reminds me of Amber Heard. There are no tears that appear on her face she's wiping but nothing is there....

  • @DailyCards
    @DailyCards Před rokem +3

    Her mean friends laughed after she got rejected. But she was also mean. Karma got her

  • @ariellewht
    @ariellewht Před rokem +5

    Of course she’s crying , but we don’t care. Just own it, why do people always say “that’s not me” the friends you have also give mean girl vibes .

  • @elouiseee
    @elouiseee Před rokem +6

    Yeah, she’s sorry but she’s not going to stop posting her modeling pics in expensive luxury brands, money grabbing and worshiping her own image.
    Doesn’t really say, “I’m working on myself,” but to each their own.

  • @peonyflowers23
    @peonyflowers23 Před rokem +1

    Micah, that girl you call your best friend is a frenemy. She sat there and laughed as you were hurt. Forgive yourself, commit to doing better and CHANGE THE COMPANY YOU KEEP.

  • @ntombifuthigumede
    @ntombifuthigumede Před rokem +5

    Still not moved. Not even by the tears. 3/10 for the theatrics😬

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 Před rokem +7

    I wish I would remain friends with someone that tried to steal my man. 🙄

    • @peeerlyb.7762
      @peeerlyb.7762 Před rokem

      Not sure where her head is at. Irina is behaving like a Russian psychopath. No empathy for others whatsoever, it’s scary.

  • @bobscratchett5346
    @bobscratchett5346 Před rokem +2

    She no longer says ‘like’ constantly. She was a mean girl but it’s only a show and the backlash was over the top. Hopefully, she’s learnt from it and becomes a kinder person. Especially being rejected by Paul, she’s probably be3n humbled and embarrassed. She said he wasn’t her type and she wasn’t that attracted physically, but gave it a chance.

  • @francinesanchez5402
    @francinesanchez5402 Před rokem +8

    I don’t know Micah, but I do know that she approached Chelsea to apologize after the pool.
    We saw some reflection from her during the show. Sometimes we are insensitive or unkind. If we apologize to the people we hurt and make amends and they accept it, then that’s that. It seems like she was doing that DURING the process. But her actions triggered a lot of viewers that she didn’t have the opportunity to apologize to until now (and most won’t believe her anyways).
    I get the feeling that she isn’t aware of how bad the mean girl stuff. She seems like the “nice one” out of her friends. Her friends said horrible things and were inappropriate. Her long time friends and Irina…. When you hang out with those people, 1) you are nice in comparison 2) you don’t understand how inappropriate that behavior is.
    It seems that she gets excited with the gossip.
    Either way, Jackie and Chelsea said mean things about Zach and Tiff didn’t stand up for him. There was a LOT of mean girl behavior on the season and it doesn’t seem like we are falling out the other girls. We HAVE to understand how edit plays a part.
    I think Micah fulfills a certain stereotype for many of us that we don’t have peace about. I wish her the best in her journey for growth. I saw her making mistakes, but trying to make amends along the way.
    I was triggered watching it too, but I think she is probably a pretty nice person who has some work to do (more than anything evidenced by her very mean friends - her lack of awareness on their behavior is def a place for growth).

  • @nikkihahaa
    @nikkihahaa Před rokem +3

    alexa, play "blame it on the edit" by rupaul

  • @maribelpav
    @maribelpav Před rokem

    I can see her heart and what an incredible quality to be able to say "I'm sorry" and I'm wrong." Everyone in the comments with judgments, you're all just talking about your own self. When a person is being bashed time and time again why would you ad to it?

  • @plutoniumcore
    @plutoniumcore Před rokem +3

    She's really trying to force the tears and the crying voice. She trying not to look bad.

  • @143Shayx
    @143Shayx Před rokem +2

    When Irina left the show, i noticed a mature Michah and she seemed genuine about the way she acted towards Jessica and was sorry. Her friends are trash 2bh. Shes a nice person i feel who made wrong choices and was easily influenced. It appears to me she didn't have a role model being the only child. She seems to have grown. All the best Micah.

    • @joceery
      @joceery Před rokem

      yes same she needs to love herself and let go of those friends ...

  • @DrLauraRPalmer
    @DrLauraRPalmer Před rokem +3

    She is no where near ready for marriage. Not only is she a narcissistic type mean girl, she’s a drunk and can’t even speak without slurring her words. Her and her friends speak “drunk” (slurring words) 24/7 which proves/shows she’s OFTEN drunk. I think she has a lot of growing up to do bc she acts like low hanging fruit at this point. He made the best decision and he knows it.
    Hopefully she’ll get there.

    • @magacop5180
      @magacop5180 Před rokem

      She will never be wife material.
      Certainly not mother material.
      Paul was right.

  • @childoftime9964
    @childoftime9964 Před rokem +3

    I don't mind Micah, it's just the company she keeps with some of her friends like Shelby and Irina

    • @droosyg252
      @droosyg252 Před rokem

      Birds of a feather flock together

  • @pmd1933
    @pmd1933 Před rokem +8

    Oh my God she is a mean girl oen it!! Hello its who you are. Doesn't mean your bad just kinda mean. Even serial killers families thought they were great.

  • @camillegraham777
    @camillegraham777 Před rokem +5

    All I keep hearing as I watch this is “I’m a good person”. IYKYK

  • @cathyhall3955
    @cathyhall3955 Před 11 měsíci +2

    How Paul and Kwami can think micah is sweet and kind is beyond me

  • @margareteolliveira3478
    @margareteolliveira3478 Před rokem +2

    It’s impossible not to notice in the moment the other girl was suffering.. her reaction was natural.. and she was not so public she wouldn’t be admitting she was wrong. This “show” is only because she was caught in the camera

  • @Grace_ingrid
    @Grace_ingrid Před rokem +19

    She had so much to own up to 😮 she never faced that she could be the villain. Hopefully she can grow from this and can lean to treat people better and finds happiness 🙏