Past the Pity Party
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- čas přidán 27. 08. 2020
- The plaintiff and her sister grew up in different foster homes but reconnected as adults. She claims the defendant is violent, and she’s suing her for damaged property. The defendant claims when she got into a fight with the plaintiff, most of her property was damaged. She is countersuing for the assault, a rent refund, and property.
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Judge Mathis lowkey said her boyfriend ugly and the sister would NEVER🤣🤣
THAT'S FUCKED UP SMH
Highkey! And i agree
Exactly 🤣
Is he wrong?
@@LWWM definitely not lying
When a child is born drug-addicted, physically-sexually-verbally abused, and abandoned this is the result. Parents have to do better.
This is very sad
Parents really do, or the cycle will continue...
Agree
As someone who was born into that type of life I agree with you to an extent, but the reality is that at the end of the day you have to make good choices for yourself, regardless of how you feel or how hurt you are.
Almost every day I feel pain because of some of the horrible things I’ve been through, but I still have to control myself and make wise choices. and the reality is that things that happened in your childhood aren’t a good excuse to hurt other people.
And they aren’t a good excuse for bad behavior unless you truly grew up in an environment where there was no such thing as what was right and wrong behavior, and those situations are not the same.
Horrific cycle.
Unfortunately it makes sense why the younger sister is homeless. She keeps disrespecting people who try to help her. Her anger is out of control and soon enough she'll be in jail if she keeps this behavior going.
Your WIERD wishing on somebody downfall.
YUP!!!
@@reddoll1223 nah they just telling the truth
@@tyrushbk this lady’s obviously stuck in the past and has a lot of built up resentment. Can’t simply label this as “disrespect” , she’s not okay ... not excusing her behavior.
Right right, also the way she keeps looking at her boyfriend when Judge Mathis says something to him I believe she whoops his ass when she loses it, because she does has some size on her and women like that can whoop a man....lol
So she really thought her sister was sleeping with her man, did all this damage BUT STAYED WITH HIM🤦🏾♀️...bye
I lost it when he said “MA’AM SHE DIDNT WANT HIM let’s move on” 😭😭🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Then when you look at the defendants boyfriend then the plaintiffs you know she had no intentions on wanting to cheat with the defendants. That's downgrading lol
🤣😅🤣
@ Bianca Shantae You are very pretty and you have a nice name also.
@Bianca Shantae.. yyyyyessssss🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@DGrant86 RIGHT!!!!!!
“Ma’am she don’t want him” cracking tf up
SMH
Dead ass though
And she didn’t look at her and look at him
Dead😂😂😂
Lmfao he was fed up
The little sister needs therapy to handle her rage
Immediately 😂😂
She done tore up AAALLL THAT GIRL STUFF and over there talking about how she got oranges thrown at her and bopped upside the head. YOU DAMN RIGHT!
She knew her sister didn’t want her bf😂😂
“After you threw the pot of grease on my floor, yes, I threw oranges at your head. Continue...” 😂😂😂😂
That gal wants to be a teacher? She won’t last very long with her attitude and actions.
“Gal” 🤬
idk about that one because all my teachers were bitches.
Mrs. Maxwell Of Course is Gal offensive??
All teachers are not bad and MOST of us work hard and really care about our students. ANYBODY CANT BE A TEACHER AND THE STANDARDS ARE NOT LOWERED.
@@MotherDivable In some places standards aren't low but, in a lot of places they are. Some ppl become teachers just to have a stable job.
I hope the young lady in the blue never let the girl in the black into her home again. Forgive and move on, protect your peace 💯✅
Amen
Yup, sometimes you even have to let go of family.
She feels like they owe her something. She has rejection issues. But the issues are with her mother not her siblings. She is still angry bc grandmother took the other 10 siblings and not her. Now she takes her anger out on all of her family members.
She is extra jealous and territorial because she doesnt like to lose things.
Good take on the situation you nailed it!
agree !
Absolutely 💯. You can tell by how she speaks about them having a 'family bond.' All the while not realizing what she had.
I don't get it who took her in at 3
What’s up with destroying stuff? Hot grease. Cutting cords. Girl, just leave. She may have some mental problems. I’m afraid to even post this comment. 😳🥺
😂😂😂
😂😂😂 i thought carefully before liking it
Lol !! .. 😁😅😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Jealousy will do all that, she was mad but it’s deeper than that.
She needs counseling ASAP
Yes
@D Blake q0qqaaq
DOESN'T MEAN THERAPY WILL HELP ..THAT AIN'T THE ANSWER TO EVERYTHING LBVS 🙄
@@Ashley-og9ti True, it only helps a little bit, not a lot.
@@NellieKAdaba yes, for some people. To be honest, it didn't help me AT ALL. I actually have seen countless therapists and sorry to say it was pointless. But you know everyone is different 🤷🏾♀️
That young woman is crazy !!!
Lmfaooo was judge calling her bf ugly ?
😂😂😂😂😂
Pretty much
@Tamara Geiger same difference jk
@Tamara Geiger i know that i was just joking
@@LeshaFBaby girl u now mek me laugh out...murderrrr
Somebody that don’t have crap is always quick to destroy other people stuff. She should’ve remained homeless
Absolutely
Ur hit it right on the bullseye people who don't have will be waiting for a reason to tear your stuff up
Right
Truth. Can't help some people
Wow thats how u feel
Looking for her next handout! .....you were in her house lol
9999ioooo
@Tamara Geiger o09n9>iuu
She still mad she didn't get the handouts, "I had to apply for financial aid all by myself", bitch! Lol!
My little brother is like the little sister....
He had anger issues because he felt unloved as a kid. I tried to explain to him that we (myself and my siblings) all grew up the same way and we need to make the best of life. He continued with the anti-social behavior and now he is in prison.
Though childhood trauma is real we can not use it as an excuse to be failures in life. We have to move passed it or else we stop moving all together. Seek therapy and heal. A damaged person left untreated damages everything in their path.
Thank you for sharing your story. So true. It like drinking a cup of poison and waiting for the other person to die. Unfortunately she is trying to punish everyone else but damaging herself in the process. Everyone is trying to move forward. She needs to get help and do the same. The emotional load she is carrying is say to heavy, on top of life other problems
You are so right
Its still damage gonna be there even when he's in prison or not..of course you're not going to understand because you were loved by your family,he wasn't..trust me I KNOW..some of my fam don't understand when I vent out,so I just stopped talking to them about it..I can handle mines a bit better but,I just keep my distance to protect the negativity from folks that dnt understand..so how I will get over it a lil(because you'll never just get over it because it happened and people were affected)just start own family, marriage and kids,and FUCK the rest and their 0 understanding opinions 🤷🏿♂️..in other words cut all of em off..tell your brother that for me tho..
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Despite growing up in foster care they speak and act more cordially than half of the plaintiffs and defendants
I find it hard to judge anyone that grew up without a stable parent.
She had her other grandmother. The other 9 siblings had a grandmother.
So true! Having unstable parents Affects everyone differently i was an angry young adult hopefully she’s grows out of it
@@alishashadows9599 Thats still different to a parent
We don’t have to judge them, but they should still be held accountable for their actions. Not having a mama and daddy doesn’t mean you can destroy property - find a church, find a therapist, do to the place where you can break shit in a room for $30 a hour.
@@memebeauty6835 naww you can't,if a situation occurs that'll take you back there..if she have kids,It may go away a bit,but it'll never just go away..NERVER
Judge thrownin serious shade 2day.🤫😏
He is so bold 🤣🤣 the way he silently played the boyfriend 😂
Hilarious 🤣
😂😂
@@Zachii123to the jail pick
🤣🤣🤣
I only wish the judge would have offered them some kind of counseling! They have obviously been through so much since childhood and it seems to be ruining their relationship as adults! Counseling could help!
Exactly.
Unit she heals the broken child in her, a healthy adult will not emerge. She needs counseling bad.
I agree but instead of JM offering her counseling and not allowing her to use all that as an excuse to get out of everything she done to her sister he literally ruled in her favor of money she clearly didn't deserve and he said he understood her actions so he basically told her it was okay to act like that and to keep doing it with his ruling. Its sad. You can't use your childhood as an excuse forever to get out of being held accountable for her actions that are dangerous to those around her. She needs serious help and most of the help she needs is somebody telling her to move on and accept that you are a danger to everybody you're around and that your childhood isn't the way out of it and also somebody smacking some sense into this girl which is coming if she keeps doing people like this with that raunchy attitude she got.
You forfeited all that stuff when you decided to tear up her things.
She’s jealous of her sister nd has anger tords her cause of how the family treated her better ...
True and she has rejection issues. The grandmother took the other 10 but not her. Could imagine the damage she wouldve done living with her other siblings?
@@MotherDivable True. I’m definitely not defending her but after having gone through all that trauma b4 the grandmother took all but her that caused further trauma. She shouldn’t be taking it out on her sister tho. Or anyone for that matter. She needs to go to therapy & heal herself!!
@@MotherDivable it’s interesting that it occurred like that, they both agreed she burns bridges on the mothers side of the family. I would presume she was even a troubled youth...
D Blake exactly
@@lunamonetmonroe PLEASE ..THERAPY IS NOT THE ANSWER TO EVERYTHING 🙄
I disagree with judge Mathis. She was separated from her siblings and family. She had no relationship with them. I believe her acting out was due to abandonment from not only her mother but her siblings and mother family. Shit is sad I was split up from my siblings from the age of 12-21. My grandma took my 4 younger siblings and let me go into foster care. That pain goes deep and no one would understand it if they haven’t lived it.
Judge Mathis don't know shit. I would never go on his show.
@@PropertyandCasualtyAgent seems like he left me down.🤷🏽♀️
@@rubyjae6932 I am so sorry for what you've endured and I hope that you've healed as much is possible.♡
@@PropertyandCasualtyAgent The Father and Son are two different entities/"persons".....I say that in curiosity of you saying "God Jesus the Father" 🤔
True. But you can’t destroy others property.
Judge Mathis legacy is going to be that he had great disdain for crack heads..lol
😂
Lmfaoooooooooo
Facts
😂😂😂
LMAOOOOOOO
The mother tosses all of her kids away and years later, she expects them to treat her like a queen . Did anyone ever wonder what happened to the defendant in that foster home? Something bad definitely happened to her, i hope that she gets the counseling that she needs.
She would have mentioned it.
@@voxnihili7097 not if she’s not ready & not if it doesn’t have anything to do with what’s going on .
That counseling may not help..the damage is done...see people want you to just forgive and forget like it ain't never happened..ya keep doing that, someone may just spazz out or get killed...try to use empathy..that shit ain't going to ever go away..so just let me vent and don't say dumb ish like" GET OVER IT"!!IJS🤷🏿♂️
She need to seek God not counseling I concur she experienced some bad things but you can't take it out on your supposedly loved ones that's trying to help you..praying for all involved may God cover them..amen!
Stop it
Lmfao she didn’t want him !! I’m crying 😭
They are all toxic for each other. Just walk away from each other and live your life. Don’t focus on one another anymore.
Doyle stay snatching shit outta the litigants hand. 😂😂
The fact that the sister still with him...after thinking her sister wanted him girl bye...
she knows he wants the sister
@@TRILLTALKTV still send him on his way...
that was hella rude to imply that her man is ugly. im glad he laughed it off and remain humble. mathis can be reckless with his mouth. i love that girls voice
Tamara Geiger Girl stop, yes he did !
@@Blackxwidow5 😂😂😂
Lil Jay Stays Flossin' Well he did 🤷🏽♀️😂
They knew where they were coming. You must be new huh? He calls people all kinds of names lol
Is all entertaining for ratings
Parents pay attention she wants to teach your kids. RUN
At some point you going to have to take responsibility for your actions 🎬. You cannot go through life & losing your temper with your family members because you felt one of your siblings was getting more attention then you. At some point you going to have to face reality & your issues and problems or you will carry that burden everywhere you go.
True
Nobody wants her boyfriend except for her.....Bless her heart.
😂😂😂
Dang Judge played tf out of the boyfriend without having to say much 😂😫
Daquanna had nothing to lose, literally 😂😂😂
She need get help I do understand her pain butt still get some help
NO HELP OUT HERE SMH
How she acting like growing up with her grandma she got the raw end of the deal? What she got was spoiled rotten.
Maybe so but when all the other kids was together and she was turned away can hurt a person. She might have been raised alone but that can do damage when she see the rest of them being raised together.
YOU MUST HAVE BEEN IN THE HOUSE SHE WAS BROUGHT UP IN RIGHT???
@@osummer6936 I'm with you. Just because she was the only one in the house doesn't mean she was spoiled. The grandmother could've treated her badly. Also like you said she saw all her other siblings together and she was the only one who wasn't in the house with them. That is definitely something that will cause hurt and anger with someone
How do you know how her grandmother treated her? Her grandmother could have been abusive. Not all grandmas are super sweet.
@@naia1362 true
She goes full blown Tasmanian through the house, and has the nerve to cry about 2 punches and a slap with the screen door SHE broke off? She's lucky....
Exactly!
I’m not saying the young lady is right, but I do understand how it feels to be raised separately from your siblings.I spent your entire life questioning why I was the odd man out. I never destroyed anything but I definitely don’t deal with my family like that.
I Respect Woman and I'm All For Them Defending Themselves Against Any Stranger Trying To Cause Them Harm, But Not Your Family, Who Has Offered You Help By Taking You In. That Type of Behavior is Really Uncalled For. The Defendant Brought Being Put Out on Herself, Which Set Her Off. Can You Imagine How She Must Have Acted, After Believing and Accusing Her Sister of Having an Affair With Her Boyfriend. Her Sister Seems Laid Back, She Must Couldn't Take Anymore, So She Probably Had To Put Her Out. I Mean She Must Have Some Type of a Good Heart, She Let Not Only Her Sister Stay, But Also Her Boyfriend.
SMH.
I agree. You don’t bite the hand that feed you. Especially when it’s family. They definitely need counseling. I hope they can repair there relationship. I hope both are willing to work it out. I’m saying this only halfway though the case lol.
@@AshleyAshleyAshley395 Exactly, It Would Be a Good Thing If They Do, But Don't Know How Optimistic You Felt Seeing The End.
I agree.
She has angry issues. And I understand it's from the trauma she been through as a child. Ppl don't know what they be doing to there kids when they do drugs
They know but they don't care. The only thing that matters is the drugs. That why you can never trust an addict.
Was your mom on that rock?
Defendant is jealous of her sister. Sad.
She needs counseling. As an adult you recognize what was done to you, why hurt someone else. Do better
Where’s he at…he didn’t come today
Plaintiff: he’s right there
JM: 😯
Me: 😂🤣😂
When the judge said let's get past the pity party I feel as if he didn't fully grasp what she was trying to say. Her sister's grew up close and she grew up alone it wasn't really about pitying the situation it was what it was and she was stating the facts. Truth be told they all had each other. It had nothing to do with the caretaker. She yearned for the family connection itself...
EXACTLY!!
Excuses excuses. She seems to blame the world that owes her nothing. Her sister was left too! She is just a damaged person.
Trying to fight a pregnant woman? Unbelievable! This is out of the way
Absolutely no accountability
At the end of the day at some point you can’t blame everything on your past. YES there are bad parents. YES life is not fair. YES sometimes we are forced to raise ourselves but at the end of the day we have to make life better for ourselves and make better choice for ourselves. At some point you know what right and wrong is, either you’re gonna continue to blame your past or put forth the effort to do better for your present and future. Either you’re gonna be a statistic or a testimony.
If you was to tell someone that, they're response would be is "you got me fkd up"!!!she's emotionally scarred fam..if you haven't been in that situation,you DEFINITELY wouldn't understand...
@@yotiep.1072 Just because you're emotionally scarred doesn't mean you get to act like a fool. And it doesn't mean someone has to put up with it.
You're responsible for how you treat people period..
I've been through hell and back so I get it. There are things I'm stuck with but even on my bad days that's no one's problem but my own.
@@lee_aveittome yea you're right,but at the end of the day people from generations and generations from their family history from fathers,mother's grandmother's and grandfather's,it's them and the decisions they chose to make that's going to affect their kids down the line..some affected by it,some not..but if you're a parent and don't give a dam about the trauma it's going to cause down the line is just lowdown and selfish..my opinion and this is straight facts 🤷🏿♂️..but like I said ya wouldn't understand..maybe you get it,but you won't understand
@@yotiep.1072 Yea having generations and generations of trama and abuse and addiction is really hard. Recovering is hard.
That doesn't give you an excuse though. Yea you can have sympathy but it's still up to you to break that cycle.
It's no impossible it's just hard.
No one can force you to be a certain way the only power the trama has is the power you give it.
@@lee_aveittome yea of course you can break the cycle,it just still could affect them,but some people hide it better than others,but we're not perfect.so if someone has a moment,and you know they went through hell,just try to understand, try to talk to em if they want to talk, or give em space..it's simply not just going to go all the way away,even if they had therapy for it too..us as people we are not perfect..just like you said you went through hell and back,I would understand, show empathy, especially if we're cool..but that's just me..I'm cut diff I guess..but you definitely have some good points
“She snaps I tell you that” lol sis cray cray
Wow DAQUANNA HAS A VERY HIGH TEMPER AND DESTROYED A LOT OF HER SISTER PROPERTY.THEY BOTH NEED COUNSELING.
Two very beautiful sisters!👸🏽👸🏿🌷💐🌷
I agree, they both are beautiful and I wish them the best!
@@prettyparker Absolutely! They need to act better towards each other and get along better especially when all they have is each other!
Jane D. Are u drunk?
They have 8 other siblings!
@@sharonjohnson5503
What the hell do you mean "am I drunk"???
What do them having other 8 siblings have to do with anything that was said here?
Let me give you some advice Ms Sharon Johnson.... conserve your time and energy into finding out who the real fathers of all of your bastard kids are instead of making ignorant ass comments on CZcams you dummy! 🤭🤫🤐👍🏾👌🏾👏🏾
LORDT JESUS LIL SIS IS A WILD ONE 🤯😱 Thats too much!!! When the big sister said "I did throw a couple oranges at ya head...yesss" that was hella funny lol
if “i think about my past and get in my feelings”was a person
I'm too mad they couldn't do that simple math in their head.
I overstand this situation all too well. It was six of us in a volatile household. Though we shouldn't have endured any of those things we made it out. I thank the Lord every single day because as bad as we had it there were kids who had it worse. Only two out of six chose to live peacefully. Once you're grown no one owes you anything. Some parents deserve grace and I do mean SOME... I understood at a very young age why my mom was the way she was and that's why I forgave her and loved her no matter what. It hurt like hell watching her judged, mistreated, abused, etc and still fight for her moms' love only to never receive it. Life is what we make it so either you want to live happily or live hellish it's all up to you. We gotta get past that "oh I had a rough upbringing so excuse me being trifling" nope doesn't work that way. My condolences does go out to those affected like this. Peace💜
No one has time for people who get mad and damage property.
Lil Sis is hulk smash crazy wrecking ish..she gotta be loved from a distance. Praying for their recovery
The first defendant is right, they were not there for her. Genetics don't mean anything.
She was left out. They family took everyone in but her so they were bonded. She felt in a child's mind unwanted. There were circumstances but when your singled out as child you feel rejected. Her experience is valid. The way she behaves in unfortunate but makes sense. Hope she gets healing.
Your right , blood don’t mean nothing
It seems the younger sistet is ungrateful for the help she's been getting and her anger is misdirected. Her sister is not responsible for childhood. This family needs Iyanla.
Iyanla🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
JM a Mess he don't mind saying what's on his mind,no filter LMAO 🤣😂😆
Ma’am she didn’t want him 😂😂😂😂 lmfaooo
Just because she was raised alone, doesn't mean she was spoiled. Obviously she wasn't, which explains her anger. That's probably why she wants to know why the maternal grandmother didn't take her too.
The mother definitely favors the plaintiff. That must hurt.
exactly
Nice insight. The beautiful Chocolate Drop is hurt and hurting and sometimes shit's unfair.
Pitty Party ? Why is the judge being nasty to her. Her mother chose drugs over her wtf is wrong with him.
Same happened to all the moms kids not just her . She bit the hand that fed her periodt . Her sister has nun to do with her mom and she shouldn’t have touched nobody else stuff .
That don't give u a reason to destroy 12 peoples belongings
That may be the case & yeah she got dealt a shitty hand in life & her family failed her she could’ve chosen to make life what she wanted instead of always having a victim mentality like the world owes her something. I get she’s jaded but taking it out on everyone around her doesn’t solve anything. She needs therapy to heal & learn to have some accountability on the part she plays in why her life still is the way it is.
@D Blake Nah I don’t, I sound like I’m being objective & real. There’s a difference. I’m well aware everyone handles trauma differently. Point is the defendant is a grown ass adult STILL having the mentality that bcuz she’s gone through so much that she can keep blaming her past as to why she keeps making the same bad decisions again & again. That serves no one. Just as with any other area of life if we want to yield good results WE have to put the work in & not have the expectation that we will ever get closure with some things or that the ppl who have wronged us will ever turn around and make things right. WE have to make things right for ourselves point blank period. Did she need more love & guidance as a child? Absolutely. But as a grown adult there comes a point where you have to make the choice to make a change for herself b4 it’s too late & she winds up down the roughest of paths her whole life.
Because at some point you have to move past it. You gotta take the lemons and make lemonade. She's a perpetual victim. Always has a sob story.
He's not "wantable". 🥴
Can't stand when people just start destroying whatever they can get their hands on just because they had
I know the younger sister did not just say her older sister is looking for a handout at the end of the show! Who was homeless and had burned bridges??🤷🏾♀️ I wouldn’t want her to live with me either; she is destructive and have serious anger issues. I hope she gets therapy to heal her wounds, so she can stop taking it out on everyone else.
If you’re going to be mad, be mad at the ones who were supposed to raise and protect you. Not your older sister. She had the same circumstances and hardships but chooses to be happy despite her circumstances and overcame her trials. The oldest sister doesn’t blame the world for her pain yet overcomes it. I hope the younger sister stops being so emotionally stunted and finally blossoms into the adult she can be. She’s grown now, and there are no excuses. Work hard, and keep pushing.
Disagree
So you call your sister “this girl”? Sometimes theirs a story to the “ black sheep” and sometimes not. Definitely 50/50 here
Love this show! I always watch this before I go to the studio😂😂 It juices me up
The nerve of the lil sister saying her sister will be just looking for the next handout. Baby girl, weren’t you living with her?😂
I think she's the "black sheep" of the family because she does crazy things to people. No one wants to deal with that. I wonder how many dads there are for all the siblings🤔
There is no way in hell she got a man sitting right there and they broke! PICK A HUSTLE!
Daquanna needs therapy. She’s beautiful, seems very intelligent but is extremely unpredictable, She needs help mentally and emotionally. The baby of an abused and separated family usually gets the worst end of the stick later on! She definitely created her own issues, but she can fix the path she walks with help
Terrible behavior between sisters 😫. Little sis needed to be held more accountable for destroying all that property!
Siblings rivalries are common, but that one goes beyond limited boundaries. The little sister has to go through anger management program, otherwise she will end up in jail.
She's homeless and has the audacity to say someone is looking for a handout.🤣🤣
Judge Mathis disrespected the hell out of the defendants man 😂😂😂😂
Judge is so shady! 🤣😂
Man my ex busted my car windows out recently and the situation sounds so similar to this one, people that claim to care about you can really be jealous of you and what you have and try to disguise it, it’s sickening 😭
You better be glad he didn't send you too HELL
Little sister had to realize that *nobody owes you anything * in life. Not even your parents, they don’t owe you. If you’re dealt a bad hand, you have to grind and hustle to earn yourself a great life. It’s time to grow up! 🦾
1st case I can understand why she's mad if you as a kid feels left out it can have an effect on you but it's the parents fault why she's like that
I don't understand why the state doesn't make therapy mandatory for children in foster care
facts
Daymn i know a relative like her and can’t with that anger - & the petty parties . Delusional asf
The little sister live in denial she need therapy before her extreme anger lead her to another place then it will be too late
How pissed off can someone can make you cut the washing machine cord????
She’s so hurt and angry I feel like the plaintiff knows that and try’s to be understanding. The plaintiff doesn’t have that hurt like her sister she’s let stuff go. Prayers for them both they both been thru a lot.
Mathis is overlooking this young lady and its upsetting me.
He always does that.
Why would she want him and he can't keep a roof over their head....get real
she wasnt doing much better with no car or job
@@TRILLTALKTV she had the job all up until she quit. Who knows Her man (plaintiffs)could've had a job as well
The person saying “Hercules” in the back ground had me rollin
When lol
I’m not making excuses for the little sister ; HOWEVER the mother definitely contributed to her neglect and rage , and instead of turning a blind eye they should’ve gotten her help immediately. She is a product of her trauma and environment. She was the black sheep at age 3…. You cannot tell me at the age of 3 she had done something so wrong the maternal grandmother couldn’t take her , yet wanted to take 10 other siblings of hers. My mom went through this , and granted while it went in her favor ( she’s very successful the most successful) she still has abandonment issues and her mother was able to keep all other children except her. It still is a painful as a young girl wants their mother and it makes them have insecurities at a young age; and even can create uncontrollable emotions.
I just have to point this out. It’s not a pity party. But she clearly stated she didn’t grow up with them. Her grandmother got her. And the maternal grandmother got all the other siblings. So she did not grow up with them.
When you grow up with someone. You are more understanding of them and their actions. As opposed to just meeting someone and experiencing their behaviors.
I understand why she is the way she is. Not justifying it. Just saying. I don’t like that he dismissed her and her history.
Lmfao he jus went in on her boyfriend “you dont have to convince me”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
As someone who grew up in a similar fashion… who you become is partly because your parents and the rest is on you. You learn what’s what in the world, and you decide what choices you make after that. She didn’t make good ones..
She’s not the only kid to be mistreated or subject to witnessing some bs... but she’s grown now and that comes with options/choices that an adult has to improve themselves. She can continue her behavior or get help - she has a choice... just like she has a choice on being with a man, finding a job, moving house to house and being nasty to those that offer help. There comes a time when UOU have to take responsibility, too many excuses.
Of all them kids why she separated? I wonder if all the other ones is light skin
Good question