Divorce: Between Shariah & Culture | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

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Komentáře • 91

  • @RB-fr1tg
    @RB-fr1tg Před 2 lety +26

    This is so well explained and beneficial for all...an eye opener... MUST LISTEN!
    "you will never regret a divorce done with the proper sunnah procedure"

  • @flyingnaa
    @flyingnaa Před 2 lety +10

    JazakAllah shaikh Yasir Qadhi for delivering khutba on this divorce topic

  • @ain547
    @ain547 Před 2 lety +7

    36.32: Husband and wife, try your best, try your best to maintain your marriage...................

  • @ashine3
    @ashine3 Před 2 lety +14

    27:50 If Wife wants divorce from Husband
    31:20 Cultural Stigma of divorce

    • @tarana9329
      @tarana9329 Před rokem

      Does he say anything about returning mahr in khula when the husband has failed in his duties/there are proper grounds?

  • @wuw385
    @wuw385 Před 2 lety +5

    Mashaa' Allah one of the best khutba yet, a difficult topic covered with such wisdom and such good advice with ahadith and Qu'ran to back it up. If Muslims followed this they'd be so much better... Like the Sahaba, indeed; those promised Jannah.
    Those Muslims with pride in their hearts won't like this talk for sure. Choosing trusting people as arbitrators of wisdom and intelligence but especially those who have a sound heart is surely best.
    Jazakum Allahu Khaieran Sheikh for this informative khutba. May Allah swt bless and protect you from the evil in people's hearts 🤲🏻

  • @tabassum2024
    @tabassum2024 Před 2 lety +2

    Much needed khutba, more detail is needed. Thanks seikh yasir quadi.
    95 percent of Muslim men do not know the proper method and they utter the word without knowledge and in anger.
    And the topic of khula needs to be discussed specially for western country where there is no Islamic court.
    And the stigma of fear of social outcasting is so severe.
    May Allah guides us all that divorce if done according to quran and sunna is rewarding.

  • @da5442
    @da5442 Před 2 lety +7

    One of the most awaited video from Shaikh. Thanks sir 💚

  • @thehabiba2697
    @thehabiba2697 Před 2 lety +4

    MashaAllah I enjoyed listening and learned so much from this lecture

  • @Hamza00011
    @Hamza00011 Před 2 lety +17

    Im so glad sheikh is trying to remove the cultural baggage leaving the pure Islam. The wahabbis have had a disastrous affect on muslim thinking till this day. Another speaker doing similar work to yasir qadhi is Dr Shabir Ally🙌🏼

    • @NRFP
      @NRFP Před 2 lety

      What is pure islam & bad islam?

    • @wuw385
      @wuw385 Před 2 lety +1

      @@NRFP people play with the Sharia, innovation, extremism...

    • @abelievereverrising283
      @abelievereverrising283 Před 2 lety +1

      Read about Islam yourself, its certainly not a Liberal religion. Be warned about people that say everything is allowed in Islam. May Allah guide us all

    • @wuw385
      @wuw385 Před 2 lety +3

      @@abelievereverrising283 really don't know what you're getting at but it doesn't matter. No one talked about liberalism, read about it? I'm studying it and like any religion there are rules for the betterment of a person and society. No one's saying everything is allowed. But what counts most is the heart, whether or not it's corrupt. And corrupt hearts USE the religion and their cultures to justify the corruption in their hearts that they can't perceive anyway. Allahu alem.

    • @abelievereverrising283
      @abelievereverrising283 Před 2 lety

      @@wuw385 No worries, I was talking to Truemono

  • @centric145
    @centric145 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you Yasir Qadhi.

  • @fatimakhatun4623
    @fatimakhatun4623 Před 2 lety +9

    I dont think we should ask family members to help unless we know they are neutral (often they are biased and nothing gets resolved)
    It is much better to ask a third party who has experience with marriage problems like a counsellor or a knowledgeable experienced teacher.

  • @amiirahn.torabally8416
    @amiirahn.torabally8416 Před 2 lety +2

    So well explained Sh. Yasir.
    May Allah reward you for spreading the sunnah. Ameen.

    • @Kamal_AL-Hinai
      @Kamal_AL-Hinai Před 2 lety

      I'm sure you look much prettier wearing a hijab :)

  • @ammarelshaer7067
    @ammarelshaer7067 Před 2 lety

    Amazing sheikh jazak allahu khayeran

  • @hodanahmed5908
    @hodanahmed5908 Před 2 lety +1

    Jiza ka Allah khayr well said

  • @aminator1
    @aminator1 Před 2 lety +1

    Amazing, may allah bless you sheikh!

  • @Maqsoodde
    @Maqsoodde Před 2 lety

    Ma sha ALlah

  • @adiljafri1094
    @adiljafri1094 Před 2 lety +1

    An informative and benifitial lecture. Masha Allah!

  • @mnizam84
    @mnizam84 Před rokem

    What a quthba.. Masha Allah ❤️👍👌

  • @jibrillabdi9063
    @jibrillabdi9063 Před 2 lety +1

    Very important lesson! ❤️

  • @azraa7110
    @azraa7110 Před 2 lety +4

    Salaam from Nottingham Uk

  • @aribaanisahmed189
    @aribaanisahmed189 Před 2 lety +7

    In some cases the wife crosses the limits. She verbally , emotionally and even physically abuses the husband and then denies all of it in the public when he raises his voice. She then wrongly accuses him of wrongdoing, spreads lies against him and people unfortunately listen to the woman...why? Because they believe that it's usually the men who are wrong

    • @aribaanisahmed189
      @aribaanisahmed189 Před 2 lety

      Should a man continue in such a relationship for the sake of the children? I dont believe so. Its better for them to part ways respectfully and take of their children in a responsibile way

    • @tahirahdean5082
      @tahirahdean5082 Před 2 lety +2

      Of course not, but that’s awfully rare. Usually it’s the man with all the physical strength and financial power who is the abuser.

    • @soob9178
      @soob9178 Před 5 měsíci

      @@tahirahdean5082 it's not awfully rare, i know of many instances.

  • @ArvInd-vd2ww
    @ArvInd-vd2ww Před 2 lety +2

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @fatimakhatun4623
    @fatimakhatun4623 Před 2 lety +3

    Some family members have a personal grudge against a spouse so their help will be of no benefit. Their advice will always be to meet their own agenda.

    • @naila..
      @naila.. Před 2 lety

      You don’t just go to any family member for advice. You choose a wise person who u can trust.

    • @geeque4853
      @geeque4853 Před 2 lety

      @@naila.. what if there is no wise person in the family🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @naila..
      @naila.. Před 2 lety

      @@geeque4853 May be some good friend, otherwise I guess some counseling or talk to local Imam.

  • @shalizalacombe6330
    @shalizalacombe6330 Před 2 lety

    🙏❤🤲🙂

  • @Deen.revival
    @Deen.revival Před 2 lety +5

    I invite everyone to listen to the holy QURAN.

    • @Ghalil
      @Ghalil Před 2 lety +1

      You say this and only this under every video. What is your point?

    • @MKBxyz
      @MKBxyz Před 2 lety

      @@Ghalil maybe to listen to the holy qur’an? Lol
      Jokes aside, if this “person” has been reposting the same thing under every video then it’s not really a person. It’s a spam bot.

    • @Ghalil
      @Ghalil Před 2 lety

      @@MKBxyz Always the same.

    • @mrpandabearofficialchannel673
      @mrpandabearofficialchannel673 Před 2 lety

      Stop spamming and trying to get views,

  • @hl7806
    @hl7806 Před 2 lety

    I want to divorce my husband so do I also have to follow those steps???

  • @ServantofAllah127
    @ServantofAllah127 Před 9 měsíci

    Please can someone help me, my husband gave divorce in anger we don’t know if it’s done, he regrets so much we are so sorry please can someone help n make dua

  • @ain547
    @ain547 Před 2 lety +1

    24.02: a triple divorce is againts the sunnah, it is haraam, it is sinful, this is not the way you divorce

  • @ubaidhabdulqadiray4475
    @ubaidhabdulqadiray4475 Před 10 měsíci

    Can anyone say what is the song that was played in the beginning of the video

    • @noraosman5030
      @noraosman5030 Před 3 měsíci

      That's the Azan. It's a reminder to worship God and a reminder of His love, Oneness, Majesty, and blessings+ Mercy He bestowed upon ALL of human creation. When the Azan is called, it summons communities to remember God; hence, that's why when it is uttered, people leave daily activities to continue being spiritually awakened. In short, it's an invitation from God, and Muslims accept that invitation communally when other Muslims are present or individually. In essence, it's a proclamation of faith where your compassion, kindness, and tenderness do not end at the prayer carpets but extend to the poor, hungry, and those in their homes and outside of it similar to all the Prophets sent by God, Peace and Blessings Upon them.
      Islam focuses on two main factors: our obligations to God to refine our ego (hence, remembering our purpose in this temporal life) and obligations to God's creation. Basically, the question we must answer daily is if we claim to love God, how do we treat His creation?
      The Azan has many different melodic tones, but the message and wording are the same worldwide. Try listening to "Soulful Athan Islamic Call to Prayer by Sidi Taj" on CZcams and others to hear the variation of tones. Hopefully, this helps!

  • @007kash007
    @007kash007 Před 2 lety

    Once you divorce the third time it becomes irrevocable so she has to marry someone else then marry again.

  • @Iamasma
    @Iamasma Před 2 lety +1

    What is this controversy about instant triple talaq in India? Which the Govt of India banned!? Can Shaikh plz explain...

  • @sham5440
    @sham5440 Před 2 lety

    Alhamdulilah in srilanka we follow 'thalakh' process and 'khula' with Islamic court.
    But sir I have a question, as I have known and have studied, if a Muslim couple got get divorce, if they want to get back then both should marry separate and divorce then only they can back together? Aren't it?

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 Před 2 lety +1

      No. This process I believe is called halala but it is haram!

    • @rzafar78
      @rzafar78 Před 2 lety

      It depends on the way they are divorced. The way you have mentioned is only applicable after an irrevocable divorce i.e. when a man gives the woman thalakh 3 times. If they want to remarry then the woman has to marry for real (not for the sake of remarriage) and when and if the marriage ends, then she can remarry her first husband. If the thalakh is once or twice, they can get back without a new nikkah within the woman's iddat period. Alternatively, if iddat has passed, they can do a new nikah - both ways are valid. As far as I know, after khula they can marry again without marrying other people.

  • @safuraanamsheikh5022
    @safuraanamsheikh5022 Před 2 lety

    Is there any difference between a man and a woman's prayer? Please shaykh give clarity on this topic as here in India women pray alot different then men. And in sujood the seven body parts which are supposed to be touching the ground are also not touched in the manner in which women here prostrate please tell the correct rulings regarding this concern

    • @007kash007
      @007kash007 Před 2 lety

      If you're a Hanafi then yes there is. Most Indians are Hanafis.

  • @muneebpeeran8528
    @muneebpeeran8528 Před 2 lety

    I disagree (humbly). Culture has been divorced from the biography of the prophet (pbuh). The ulema should be working on putting it back together (insha-Allah)

  • @centric145
    @centric145 Před 2 lety +1

    Our rasul asked for advise?That is weird

    • @muslimmatrimonialcanadausa6498
      @muslimmatrimonialcanadausa6498 Před 2 lety +3

      Offcourse He did (SAW) ask for advise to make it as an example that consultation is important in such matters.

    • @usmanhannan5675
      @usmanhannan5675 Před 2 lety +4

      He asked for advice on many occasions and we should do the same as his follower.

    • @abelievereverrising283
      @abelievereverrising283 Před 2 lety +3

      Yes, he was ordered to by Allah to consult the believers under him, despite being the ruler of Medina. It shows the lack of ego, and we should follow his footsteps.

    • @Kamal_AL-Hinai
      @Kamal_AL-Hinai Před 2 lety

      He is a human after all.

    • @007kash007
      @007kash007 Před 2 lety

      He used to consult with his wives and companions esp after Fajr.

  • @hamzabakri5021
    @hamzabakri5021 Před 2 lety

    Be careful of this guy he's not good one

    • @Hamza00011
      @Hamza00011 Před 2 lety +2

      Dont watch then? Stick to the scholars of najd who will destroy the little intellect you have left

  • @oc6583
    @oc6583 Před 2 lety

    Br Yasir, you knocked down all the trees in the forest by mixing truth and falsehood. Your intentions must be good, however, you should be more responsible and wiser than this. You stated so many fatwas in such a short time of 30 mins and out of context.

    • @maqroutal-louz5864
      @maqroutal-louz5864 Před 2 lety

      Brother or sister, what do you gain by criticising here what he is saying if this is what he came to gather in terms of knowledge. Yourself you are saying that his intentions must be good. So that is enough. It is very harmful to be on that mindset of criticising. Maybe be more constructive by making your own videos and leaving a link here instead of empty non constructive critical comments and whoever wants to hear your view then let him do