Marrying a Colombiana

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Komentáře • 63

  • @thepassportog
    @thepassportog Před 10 měsíci +40

    Hot Sauce made a great point about supporting her family. It’s a check on her. She steps out of line, the gravy spigot gets turned of. And it’s her fault. That’s a way to keep the star systems in line…

  • @theblack9700
    @theblack9700 Před 10 měsíci +40

    The Sister Hood ain't gonna like this one! Guess Who's Mad 😡

  • @redlionesv
    @redlionesv Před 10 měsíci +22

    The nuances of bringing her back
    Take notes

  • @ZeAlfredo
    @ZeAlfredo Před 10 měsíci +67

    9:45 Interestingly, if you marry an ABW, even if she isn't a single mother, you still have to help extended family.
    Men typically in ALL family structures have to help out extended family. This is why, traditionally, SONS were more valued than daughters.
    So, it's a moot point to say "oh you have to help her family back home." There are guys right in America right now supporting single mothers, another man's kids, and helping her mother and cousins.
    Indeed, in the gynopotestal family framework, black men are handed lut like tools to other women in the network anyway. His resources, labor, and even his very life are all readily available for the gynocracy.
    Quite frankly, many black men in America end up as son husbands to their mothers. So if that is the case, he is already helping extended family and still doesn't have a wife of his own
    So, what is the actual downside to taking care of someone's family abroad with remitances and taking care of a broken family in America?
    You will take care of extended family either way. One is just cheaper.

    • @azraelfirstofhisname8695
      @azraelfirstofhisname8695 Před 10 měsíci +9

      Bravo 👏🏾 Well said

    • @thegrandoti00
      @thegrandoti00 Před 10 měsíci +7

      That was a thesis, my brudda!

    • @TheCoersum
      @TheCoersum Před 10 měsíci +14

      This is 💯 true. Oftentimes, sending money out of the country is cheaper because of the value of the dollar. But the payoff is a more beautiful, cooperative, and loving wife as opposed to one you have to keep an eye out for constantly.

  • @radtzerthecommanda8523
    @radtzerthecommanda8523 Před 10 měsíci +16

    I miss the old Star wars intro phrases: You must unleard what You have learn.
    If You strike me down i will come back stronger that You can imagine

  • @bladerunner27x
    @bladerunner27x Před 10 měsíci +12

    After a 2nd viewing 2 things stuck out in my mind.
    1. He’s correct about age window for marrying a Latina, if she’s been married or 2nd marriage.
    2. The point that he missed was that by that age she knows the hand writing on the wall, she can make a deal or continue to struggle for REAL!! ✌🏾✊🏿💯

  • @djcountryblack6878
    @djcountryblack6878 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Brothers need to form a Jack and Jill for Passport Bros. That way the women can socialize with other women who they can relate to and living the same lifestyle and ideals.

    • @BGSIBMOR
      @BGSIBMOR  Před 10 měsíci +4

      Interesting...

    • @jacksonmowell3859
      @jacksonmowell3859 Před 9 měsíci

      @@BGSIBMOR Wow, Black women are just like colorists, they are just colorists in the opposite direction. Nothing wrong with a preference but their reasons are colorist and stereotypical. I have been told by dark skin and brown skin that they were not attracted to me but I was nice only because my skin wasn't dark enough. And light-skinned Black women treat me like a panhandler.
      The colorist is hurtful shit I have been told by dark skin and brown skin Black women they are not checking for light skin black guys. Darker-skinned Black men lean toward light-skinned black women but Black women are just into dark and brown-skinned Black men and some of them are into white and Hispanic men. They are not into light-skinned Black men like that. I use to be really loyal to Black women off idealism and that pro-Black shit but the reality is I got to keep it pushing. You can keep using studies from the 1980's but I'm a light-skinned Black guy and you are not and I have had Black women choose Hispanic and white men over me. And I am tall and not ugly and in shape. BGS you always are in denial about this. You talk about this trifecto but I don't have the trifecta and I don't see this trifecto light skin Black guy thing. I have no issue attracting other groups of women.
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  • @educatedlame4085
    @educatedlame4085 Před 10 měsíci +7

    This video is a reality check more than anything for Passport Bros.

    • @asianbride6050
      @asianbride6050 Před 10 měsíci

      How so? Nearly 3/4 of your women here in the US have uncurable forms of STDs are grossly overweight, are masculine, and are also foul smelling. It's obvious why the better Black men here have chosen to search for better women abroad.

  • @adrichapoy6525
    @adrichapoy6525 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Cash💰Machine

  • @jayem5619
    @jayem5619 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Great video. Which is why as the man you need to find a way to live and adapt in her country. I understand that it's easier said then done for most people though.

  • @dj4monie
    @dj4monie Před 9 měsíci +1

    Shout out to Expat Wisdom aka Johnny Mueller. I have been listening to his podcast since 2017.

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardson Před 10 měsíci +8

    I'm age 72 and courting Latinas between the age of 25-35! I only date Latina that are professionals, working a 9 to 5 jobs own their businesses! VIVA COLOMBIANA'S!

  • @jaws2003
    @jaws2003 Před 10 měsíci +4

    A lot of the guys dont take into account the age difference. I will say the ones that go to asia do have a better handle on this area on average. If he's way older and shes much younger I've noticed that he keeps her out of the states. If they are closer in age then its usually better and they bring them back to the states more.

  • @walterking85
    @walterking85 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Shit, I might have to have Childen Via Surrogacy. We already experience the the Black Tax in America.

    • @Surgicaldamage
      @Surgicaldamage Před 10 měsíci +3

      Ask yourself, where you got the idea of having to from? Think of the logic behind it.

    • @walterking85
      @walterking85 Před 10 měsíci

      I'm Dammed if I do, Dammed if I don't@@Surgicaldamage

  • @mgtowcowboy8159
    @mgtowcowboy8159 Před 10 měsíci +13

    Sir, with all due respect; the correct spelling is "Colombiana" not "Columbiana". Good video regardless

    • @BGSIBMOR
      @BGSIBMOR  Před 10 měsíci +11

      Autocorrect

    • @JetBlackAir
      @JetBlackAir Před 10 měsíci +5

      ​@@BGSIBMOR, so your keyboard had a Don Calypso / Edward Anderson moment.

    • @JetBlackAir
      @JetBlackAir Před 10 měsíci +6

      ​@@BGSIBMOR, that's auto - _corrupt!_

  • @bobbycoltrane7552
    @bobbycoltrane7552 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I know about dealing with the extended family of a Latino or an Asian in their country that's a given and in some cases that's not a problem it's a lot better than dealing with the westernized crap I deal with now

  • @lsporter88
    @lsporter88 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Yeah, it is something to think about. Great commentary.

  • @Sr.Dusty-Leon008-da-III
    @Sr.Dusty-Leon008-da-III Před 10 měsíci +20

    I have major issues with even the ideal of marrying in South America due to their history with black Africans. It is what it is that greengo card is amazing

    • @patriciacoley3801
      @patriciacoley3801 Před 10 měsíci +11

      GRINGO! 😅

    • @mrcead
      @mrcead Před 10 měsíci +2

      Exactly. This is why we have to write our own manual

    • @fermannermaner3385
      @fermannermaner3385 Před 10 měsíci

      LATIN AMERICNS ARE VERY ANTI BLACK, LATINAS ARE RACIST AGAINST BLACKS AND BLACK MEN, COLOMBIANS ARE ALSO QUITE RACIST TPWARDS BLACK MEN,,,IF YOU ARE A WHITE AMERICAN, IT IS SOMEWHAT EASIER AND DIFFERENT, BUT BLCK MEN OF AFRICAN DESCENT FROM THE USA OR ANYWHERE ELSE, IT IS NOT REALLY A GOOD IDEA TO GET A LATIN AMERICAN WOMAN......THERE IS ALOT OF RACISM AND COLOR PREJUDICE IN LATIN AMERICA, YES YOU MIGHT HAVE A FIRST WORLD PASSPORT OR AN AERICAN PASSPORT,OS MANY OF THEM WILL WANT TO HOOK UP WITH YOU AS A BLACKMAN BECUASE OF THE PASSPORT,,,,BUT OVERALL NOT A GOOD IDEA.....AS A BLACK MAN I HAVE SEEN SO MUCH RACISM AND PREJUDICE HERE IN LATIN AMERICA AGAINST BLACK PEOPLE

    • @TruthSeeker30_
      @TruthSeeker30_ Před 9 měsíci +1

      Marry a Afro latina…

    • @patriciacoley3801
      @patriciacoley3801 Před 9 měsíci

      @@TruthSeeker30_ And make sure comprendes tu la lingual , tambien.😘👍😏

  • @jamiefox9245
    @jamiefox9245 Před 10 měsíci

    Probably will all even out when the guy is in his 80’s and one of the family members taking care of him cause he still has resources for the family.In America the funds would probably be used for a Nursing Home cause that’s where they would put him .

  • @willdiesel8431
    @willdiesel8431 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Casey Kasem deep fake audio?

    • @BGSIBMOR
      @BGSIBMOR  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Nope. That's his voice. I've met him

  • @vg1024
    @vg1024 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Basically, only import women at the end of their SMV value and keep them close. Smh. What a world we live in. Lol.

    • @user-jh5wv3oo1l
      @user-jh5wv3oo1l Před 10 měsíci +5

      We understand the world that we choose to live in -- let us navigate it

    • @Will-ef2tw
      @Will-ef2tw Před 10 měsíci +6

      It's like you finally get ur Mercedes but it's last generation bodystyle.

    • @krumbleme2
      @krumbleme2 Před 10 měsíci +1

      And this is a white man......

  • @jarawaboy3675
    @jarawaboy3675 Před 10 měsíci +3

    1st🫣

  • @123pb
    @123pb Před 10 měsíci

    And?????????????????????????????

  • @no_guarantees
    @no_guarantees Před 10 měsíci +4

    1/2 your age + 7

  • @PrinceZakariyya
    @PrinceZakariyya Před 10 měsíci +4

    First

  • @grab2ndgear_eddie869
    @grab2ndgear_eddie869 Před 10 měsíci +3

    1st

  • @bladerunner27x
    @bladerunner27x Před 10 měsíci +8

    No offense BGS, small correction. Colombia for country and Colombiana for woman. ✌🏾✊🏿🫡💯

    • @BGSIBMOR
      @BGSIBMOR  Před 10 měsíci +10

      Auto correct...🤣

    • @doncalypso
      @doncalypso Před 10 měsíci +2

      I blame it on the bad influence of Edward Anderson's *_Grammatical Felon_* ass...

    • @bladerunner27x
      @bladerunner27x Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@BGSIBMOR I already KNOW 😂😂