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OH BOY lets shoot back to the 1970s, where housewives all across America didn't have Facebook or a subreddit -- but submitted their tips and tricks to this anthology of sorts!!!!!!!!! I love reading through ~vintage~ material to see how different and similar things were for generations past. It's interesting to see how what we learn nowadays is coming from pretty strong roots. (Not a single mention of house husbands or non-heterosexual couples, as if those simply did not exist just a few decades ago.... :-)) I'm glad to see things have changed but it's clear with this only being a few generations before us now, I'm sure there's many ways to go! When our kids and grandkids look back on the 2020s, I hope we have come even farther by then!
Anyway, aside from the social differences, it was really funny to read the tips and tricks. It was mostly "use this object as a different object". or "tricks" that to me were really....really self explanatory LOL. But entertaining to read nonetheless!!! I hope you enjoy!! I've gotten a LOT more requests recently to read from books, etc.; so I figgggured I'd be pretty safe copyrightwise with this one!
If any of your viewers grew up in the 1970s, I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comment section!! Is this book accurate to your experience of expectations from your mothers or yourself?
Sleep well, little housewives!!!!!! You have a LONG DAY ahead of you tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!! !! ! !
~Gibi
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Yes, one side of my family is German!! My Oma and Opa moved here in their 40s. I just went to Germany for the very first time a few weeks ago!
Holy shit thats so cool! I'm your Oma and Opa's country neighbour, haha. Greetings from The Netherlands 🇳🇱
That's so cool! I haven't been to Germany, but I have been learning German for a few years :D
I live a few countries away but I would love to go some day!
Well as a neighbour neighbour greatings to europe (in case you live out of europe 😅, oh and by neighbour neighbour i mean spanish 🇪🇦)
That's awesome that you visited Germany! I hope you liked it here :D
What were there professions in that very interesting time in the fatherland 😏😏
She's the perfect person to watch if you're not trying to go to sleep but just trying to take a nap. I'm in a super noisy house right now and I am so relaxed
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Taking a nap isn't sleeping? 🤪
Ya
What a throwback can’t believe Gibi has been making ASMR for 50 years now
Ikr
Time flies when you’re sleeping
Makes me feel old
It’s been quite the journey
51 to be exact
As a parent I can confirm that your free time does get pretty slim especially in the early years. Once they’re older and can do things on their own you get more of that Free time back. Helpful hint: introduce your kids to as many of your favorite hobbies as possible so that you can enjoy things together.
whew!!! makes me nervous!!
It definitely flips your life upside down for a bit. The biggest difference is that you have to make it a priority and plan alone time for you and your husband, plus time together. It takes a bit to figure that out, but well worth it. My boys are still little, but I already see my 3 year old is getting more independent. This comment had great advice. Also, make sure to let your kids play independently, it helps a ton when you can even get a few minutes alone!
@@gabriellesmith8427 absolutely 👌
We actually stopped doing date nights alone though. We found ourselves just thinking about what the kids were doing and wanting to get back to them hahaha 😂
Our alone time is when the boys are in bed for the night lol
I couldn't agree more. My kid is in the toddler stage and I swear if I take my eyes of of her for literally more than 48 seconds she's already eating something off the floor or having a fit over something. But I can definitely wait till she's older. I'm gonna miss these days.
@@GibiASMR just don't have kids😐
My oma had this quote on her fridge: "My house is clean enough te stay healthy, but dirty enough to stay happy."
I feel like that quote really resonates with this book.
Admiring a gal's weedless garden sounds like quite the euphemism
just some gals being pals
@@bellac6311 ah yes a very uh heterosexual sleepover I’m having officer when you found “just want to admire your weedless garden 😉” it was completely heterosexual
Omg
💅
PLEASE THIS IS SO FUNNY
My husband is a stay at home dad and I'm so tempted to buy him this book as a funny present. 😝
Do it
YEEEEEEEES! If he will appreciate the humor, he might even get some cool tips out of it
Lol, you should
Way of the house husband
@R&AW that one got me confused 🤔
Gibi is an asmr legend
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hello mr evil
why you so evil evil?
True xD
Ur in every comment section
1973. I was 8 years old. My mom was one of "those women." She got a divorce in 1968. She was a single woman with 2 kids and a job at the local newspaper. 😮 The house was immaculately clean because we helped. "If they're old enough to walk, they're old enough to dust" was one of her sayings. Great video. Could almost hear "Angie" by The Rolling Stones playing.
It sounds like your mom instilled very good values. I was born in ‘70, parents split in ‘77. I can’t remember NOT cleaning the house from too to bottom every week!! To this day my biggest pet peeve is kids not helping with anything when they are perfectly capable - boggles my mind how some parents allow that.
There’s free time when you have kids. It’s just sporadic as with everything. At first, it’s when they nap. You can also take turns with your partner. Time with kids can be free time too-playing, reading. And then, all of a sudden, they’re older and doing they’re own thing a lot. Treasure the moments together, no matter the age. Put the camera or screens down sometimes and just live.
BTW, I’m a child of the 70s. My mom stayed home until I was 10 before working part time. Before that, she taught violin lessons at home. She was incredible. She cooked, cleaned, did laundry, took care of my siblings and me (and definitely did the index card thing-addresses, recipes, vinyl records). My dad was great too. He worked all week, fixed up the house on the weekends, mowed the lawn, kicked the soccer ball with us. It seemed like the era of use more, repair more, throw out less. Feels like yesterday and a million years ago at the same time.
I doubt you’ll see this since it’s way after posting and is among a thousand other comments, but if you do, thanks for the look back in time.
Oh, and your mom’s earrings and grandma’s dress are groovy. You just need an avocado-colored fridge, some shag carpeting, and Ben in a wash-and-wear shirt with a big collar and a wide polyester tie (and no beard, of course-just the ‘stache).
Love this!
What is a wash n wear shirt?
@@nekopoptart Good question. Wash ‘n Wear was a phrase used for clothes that needed little or no ironing, which was a big trend for men’s dress shirts that started in the 60s and especially the 70s with synthetic fabrics (like polyester) blended with, or replacing, the natural fabrics (like cotton).
This book is basically pre-internet life hacks.
True
Also a book she got from her grandmother
Why did we start calling tips life hacks? Wtf
5 min crafts in a 50s
@@atheon4075 cuz it is a life hack
I love that Gibi went full on with the 70s style in this video, even with the hair, the commitment, I'm enjoying this so much more this way 😌.
The hair... the dress...the old TV border.. her make up.. the background.. AND she's using a 70s color filter.. and yes she looks amazing
@@stevekaspar1396 Yeah 😊.
Too bad she can't make more Daisy videos. Those are really the highlight of her channel.
I really have to hand it to Gibi. I don’t know how she’s always so creative and original, especially after doing this for the number of years she has. Videos like this are so excellent in quality and she never creates the same content, which is really difficult to do!
She is so creative
Gibi is that one teacher who doesn't care if you're sleeping in class.
WTH I'VE NEVER HAD MORE LIKES THAN 24 BEFORE-TYSM-😭
She makes you sleep in class
On a giod way 😌
Yeah cos that's her job
I had one of those teachers. She was great
@@raisn Taught me well.
@@patricijafijan6043 *in a good way.
I’m only in my early 20’s, but knowing the 70’s were 50 years ago just baffles me.
Max2ds , I graduated High School in ‘77..how do you think I feel, lol?!😄 I know 50 yrs probably seems like an eternity to you, but trust me, hun..the years go by much faster than you realize now; Enjoy Your Youth!😉
Gibi and itsblitzzz were my first introductions to ASMR a couple yrs ago; since then, I’ve added Goodnight Moon to my favorites list. Over time I’ve tried a few other ASMR artists, but Gibi continues to remain at the very top of that list! Well, Gibi & Goodnight Moon, both, lol. They’re So incredibly talented, versatile, endlessly creative..they just blow me away!💗
Gibi has not only entertained me with her various characters and scenarios, but she has also helped me more than I can say; particularly on those nights when I can’t seem to keep worries & anxiety at bay, I find myself almost instantly relaxing when I turn on one of her videos.😊 Take care, hun
@@ShiningTrapezoid Please shut up
@@ShiningTrapezoid LOL
@@ShiningTrapezoid Lol..was it something I said?!😄 Take care, hun😊
@@ShiningTrapezoid crawl back into the dark space you came from. Such an unnecessary comment. I'll assume you just had a bad day :)
at this point gibi could give us an asmr tutorial on how to build a rocket for NASA and i wouldn’t bat an eyelash
same
next video Tatyana. over sees rocket construction for your visit to your 11th summer home on the moon after completing space training
@@gayjayy next video Tatyana oversees intercontinental ballistic missile construction. in retaliation of the museum removing your wax figure.
co staring daisy
@@JS-rv3et Daisy is in charge of enriched uranium production
@@br-v388 i dont like "daisys" voice but i think a daisy being a new hire like assistant in training being taught by Tatyana would be hella relaxing and by that i mean make you laugh so hard you get exhausted and fall asleep.
maybe have diasy and Tatyana fight over how things should be done since both KNOW how to do things the right way.
“Find out your husbands preferences… so he can do them himself”
My favorite part 😂
I was born in the 2000's but I grew up listening to music from the 70's 80's and 90's, because my mom would play it through the speakers while she was cleaning. Not complaining doe, I love It!!♡♡
Samee ♥️😌
Same, I am 1993...I love that music, 90's fashion, makeup everything ....
I grew up thinking 1960s, 70s, and 80s music was 2000s music. Ah yes, Crimson and Clover, that 2003-2007 song.
@@asmrsoftlyreading2864 omg i though you said you were 1913 lol
@@liekeegold6009 hahahahha 🤣🤣
Thank you for validating making the choice to be a home maker! I'm a professional artist and big rona killed my business which is how I ended up at home and... I love it! I love taking care of my home and sometimes, when I tell people that I made the decision to continue as a homemaker, I get a serious side eye!
And you're right! Anyone can be a home maker if that is what is best for you and your partner ❤
Omg I wish people wouldn’t think like that. If being a homemaker is what you want to do, do it and don’t let anyone discourage you! It’s terrible how our society doesn’t value homemakers, they do some of the most important work in society for free!! You’re doing great, I’m glad you like it ☺️
Honestly some of the strongest people I've ever seen have been homemakers. Endless respect!
@@brandonadams5270 thank you so, so much! It's a joy to make a home for my family... but it really is a lot of hard work!
gibi looks SO good with this hairstyle omg she rocks everything
Legit, she's rocking this look hard
Book: "Here's a trick to use when the house is a mess and you hear visitors coming up the driveway: Run and put the sweeper in the midle of the floor as you were just beginning to clean, then you can relax and enjoy the visitors."
Gibi: "I will be using that one thank you very much."
Me: "Same! 😆 Why did I never thought about this before!? This trick is old but gold!" 😂
13:04
So put a broom in the middle of the room??
@@esla1885 yeah like get a broom and pretend you just started to sweep the floor of that room
Well you know people don't usually just show up at other people's houses without notice anymore so unless you forget that they were coming I don't know how much I would even use that. But it is smart
@@mikasanchez1003 ohhh, I think I'd be embarrassed if people saw our broom just sitting out but i get it
Gibi rocking a 70's housewife look just further proves she's the mother of the ASMR community
Facts
„Mother of the ASMR community“ ? I LOVE Gibi ASMR but the „mother of ASMR community“ is ASMR Darling isn’t she ?!
@@Luca33600 I thought it was more the ASMRtists like Gentle Whispering or Whispers Red. Gibi doesn’t really give off “mom” vibes in my opinion lol
@@Luca33600 I beg to differ , the Mother of the ASMR community would be Maria, Gentle Whispering ASMR or WhispersRed ASMR! I see Gibi as more of that cool aunt
@@chantellemartin4808 Gibi and Karuna are the cool aunts and all 4 ASMRtists are sisters. This is canon and you can’t tell me otherwise
this could be even cooler if it was a roleplay
example: a tv show where a woman from the 1970’s has finally gotten enough signitures to allow the male dominated news stations to allow a woman onto the show, with her segment titles ‘How To Run Your House without Letting it Run You’
except that in the 70s she would need sigs. cus they have had those rights already
wouldnt *
Great idea. She could then use a quiet but normal voice too which I prefer.
Thatd be a cute idea
As a mom of 2 under 2, I describe motherhood like the scene in Trolls when Poppy is singing how nothing can knock her down as everything’s kicking her ass and by the end she passes out while trying to say she’ll get back up again
Oh my gosh this is perfect!
As a mom of a 4 and a 2 year old and currently pregnant. I agree with this very much. 😂😂
As a mom of twins, I can confirm 🥴
this hairstyle is so flattering on Gibi!
yeah she is really pretty i also like the little choker she wears it really matches her.
I disagree not my favourite hair style of hers, althugh it looks better,
gibi’s makeup in this is absolutely perfect. this book wasn’t nearly as bad as I expected!!
I think she so creative
Fun fact: ads for women’s hygiene for down below used the phrase “The burning means it’s working!” In the 1970’s
Holy sheesh
This is not a very fun fact
ouch
only gibi can come up with videos this creative. its not just asmr, it's a way of life
Plot twist: This is her own reality, and we’re all just living in it.
WaNdAvIsIoN
"Gibi! Who's doing this to you, Gibi?"
It’s GiBi, It’s all GiBi!
This thread is underrated 😂
@@amaiacolby2716 OMG THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT
Yo, your grandma sounds hella cool like DAMN! An anesthesiologist?? Props! Cool to see her granddaughter being a productive person as well!! :D
The coincidence of getting a honey ad with it having gibi and this video being sponsored by honey is the most funniest thing ever 🐝
but have you downloaded honey!?
@@GibiASMR i have no need I am 13
@@GibiASMR Yes I've saved so much with just two clicks!
@@GibiASMR yes! Iv saved over $40 in less than a month! Honey has changed my life 🥰🤪
The prolouge: "1,000 women wrote this book!"
Some South Dakota woman being 950 of them:
i swear
@@GibiASMR i hope that woman is still out there somewhere. being the glamarous center of attention she was always meant to be
Lmao
I’ll take it! I swear people barely pay attention to South Dakota existing sometimes. I’ve met people who genuinely think we all ride horses instead of drive cars and that we all have outhouses instead of indoor plumbing. So something where there are a lot of South Dakota mentions is impressive.
No matter what...gibi never fails with the intros
Yes!
Facts the paid promotions are the best
I would love to see more ASMR videos from Gibi taking place in different decades 🤩 an exercise video from the 80s, maybe a grunge rock groupie for the 90s/00s etc.
I think Gibi could make a great Fallout ASMR where she is a Vault-Tec saleswoman helping you furnish your new dwelling!
Yes please 🤩🙌
Ooh that's a good one
Please do this gibi
Yes
Oh my god yes please 😍😍🙏🏼
As a new mom, this book is saying all these things that I needed to hear when it says that things get easier as children grow older, the whole "taking 15 minutes to have time to yourself" thing and that things don't have to be perfect, to take care of yourself first before trying to get things done. Now I want to find that book and see what it says in the section about taking care of children. So far it seems legitimately useful for the most part.
And yes, at least so far in the newborn stage I appreciate every minute that I can sleep or take care of basic needs in peace, never mind using free time for hobbies unless they can be done while breastfeeding. Sleep is my biggest hobby right now. It's pure bliss and I miss having a full night of it! I probably should get out of the house sometimes like the book suggests, but most of the time I'm way too overwhelmed. Now that I've gotten that off my chest and baby detached, I think I'll go back to seeing if I can put her down in her bassinet and sleep.
Blessings and good vibes to you and baby! It may be overwhelming now; but, you will make it. Even if you can spend 30 seconds deep breathing each day it will help.
@@valeriealexas Thank you!
It gets easier and you’ll stop feeling overwhelmed! Enjoy your newborn while you can, it goes so fast xxx
@@sophieneumeister1825 Thank you!
I feel this so much!! My baby just turned 5 months old today. It felt like the first few weeks would never end and I'd never get sleep again or my boobs back to myself!! I hope you have more of a routine these days and are less overwhelmed. Congrats on your new addition ❤
I’m a stay at home mom with a 2 year old and 1 month old. Yes, Gibi these 70’s mothers are not lying when they say they may only have 30 min to themselves. I don’t even have that right now haha! 😂 This book has some genuinely good advice though. I’ve never been choked up by an ASMR video before but the lines“someday the house will be too neat when the kids are gone,” and “your best memories will never be of a perfectly clean home” got me emotional over here 😭
I always found the 1920’s-1970’s fascinating. Even though there were a lot more stereotypes and everything was incredibly gendered and heterosexual only, it’s still very interesting to learn how these people lived in those times, and what it was like back then compared to today. And as always this was very relaxing and incredibly fascinating!
I would actually really love a modern healthy habits video. Something with like cleaning tips and mood boosters and stuff like that. Something along the same lines, but just with a little more relevance. It would be nice to be able to listen to ASMR and also incept myself with some healthy habits.
Hey Kurea
that would be very cute!!
@@GibiASMR how are you doing?
I swear. Just when you think Gibi worns out her deep bag of tricks, she comes back with a load truck full of new ASMR concepts.
You should do asmr from different decades: 1980's, 1990's, 2000's and 2010's
yeah like wandavision
WANDA VISION WANDA VISION WANDA VISIONNNNN
It was Agatha all along!
"women really vary" gosh i could not stop laughing while listening to this, you truly are the best ASMRtist Gibi 🥰
This entire makeup and ensemble is a LOOK!!! I’m obsessed with it
Hey Christina
AHH THIS IS SO COOL, GIBI YOU'RE ALWAYS THE MOST CREATIVE ASMRTIST
Ephemeral Rift would like to know your location
WHY CAPS I'M SCARED
My parents were born in the ‘70s and they remember this kind of ASMR from their early childhood years. 😂
The style/theme of this thumbnail/video is so cool, and I was hoping for a full video on this book, nice 😌.
Man. The soft edges are so much more relaxing. Would honestly enjoy it on so many more videos lol
I love the 70’s vibe, I would love to see your take on like a WandaVision video
I love Gibi's reaction to the 70's being 50 years ago. Because SAME! I'm still thinking it's only been 30-40 years..
(btw we're closer to 2050 than to 1980, existential crisis coming in 3, 2, 1...)
The fact that I might still be alive in 2050 is so scary........ Why did you make me think of that.
@@idislikemints I'm so sorry! But couldn't that also be something good? There will be so many exciting new things to come :) try to focus on the good stuff in life
We're closer to 2050 than 1990
Okay so I did some research and the $6.95 price adjusted for inflation is over $40 now!! Which seems really quite expensive for a book like this.
My own Grandmother owned something similar, but it was closer in physical format to a magazine. I have no idea what it cost, but I expect that it was much cheaper than $7.
Honestly no one relaxes me more than gibi like her vids are so entertaining yet soothing 😌
When I realised the 70s were 50 years ago I too pulled the exact same face as Gibi. Then the realisation I’m a 90s kid about to turn 30 hit and it all made sense. Doesn’t make me happy about it though! 🤣🤣
no way its 50 years ago i was born in 1984 and im only 36. also yes fear it loath it dread it it comes all the same.
@@hardwirecars Yeah, I saw a tiktok entitled 50 years of alternative makeup and it started in the 70s, I was nearly sick 🤣
Ok, as a woman who graduated High School in ‘77, you guys are making me feel like I’m the Crypt Keeper, lol! 😅 I know, I must seem ancient at 62, but trust me..it goes by Waay faster than you think. And unless I look in a mirror to startle me back to reality, lol, I still feel like I’m 30ish inside!😉 Enjoy each day, make the most of “now”; take care!😊🌸
@@trixiewheeler3483 Didnt say anything about it being a bad thing, just that it’s mad the 70s we’re 50 years ago. To me, the 90s were last decade 🤣 I forget how fast time flies cos one min I’m starting uni & now I’m nearly 30 starting my own family so 🤣 also as someone who’s parents are heading towards 60, you’re not ancient at all 🤣
@@AsphodelMoon No, I realize you weren’t saying that it was a bad thing; I was joking more than anything, lol! It’s shocking to me too, when I think about my 45th High School graduation being next year!😄 My oldest son was born in ‘87, 33 yrs old, & he’s getting a little freaked that he’ll be FORTY in under 7 yrs..OMG!😱 I can’t help but chuckle inside..I tell him, ‘You’re still young, sweetie! And you’ll be young in 7 yrs, lol.’ I know, it’s all relative, my mother-in-law Wishes she was “Only” 62!😉 Whatever our age, time only goes in one direction, so enjoy each day best as we can, make the most of it. Side note: My mom actually had this book when it first came out, then I eventually read it- a real blast from the past for me.😊
Anyone else suddenly get bit spooked that they could see the floor when Gibi tilted the camera? XD
GibiVision
nah no feet were seen we still good
“Try to appreciate coloured blocks as part of the decor”
*ppl with rooms full of LEGO* : SEE IT IS DECOR!
Me as a small child with my lego all over the place
Your grandmother having a stylish dress from the 70s makes me feel like my parents are super old. My mom graduated high school in 1974, and I am currently 26 years old. My grandparents were all born like between 1920-1935
Book: "Don't be sentimental about birthday cards or old school notebooks either."
Gibi: "I disagree, they're so easy to store keep them."
Me: "My mom literally *burned* them apparently, I'm not kidding." 😂 😭
That sounds exciting ngl
A few marshmallows and we could have had some s'mores
@@chocolateuniverse3178 Yeah I agree! 😆 That's why I thought about doing the same with my school notebooks many times after finishing school, but I actually never did, for now at least...
We used to have a “homework bonfire” at someone’s birthday party that was right when school ended
@@camcat26 Wait, really!? 😆 That's so cool! 😎
it's freaking 2 am here in Italy and I can't sleep... I really needed this, thanks Gibi, perfect timing❤
I'm Brazilian and I don't understand anything you say, but I'm always here helping🦓❤️
The trick is to instead of running your house to walk it, it makes you the dominant force in the occasion
Nah I be making the house do 200m sprints
Yall run ur house? I just give it some cocomelon and it sits happy all day 🥰
A 70s flight attendant rp would actually be so cool !
Gibi's voice is a calm paradise to fall asleep with, Gibi's personality is so fun to stay awake and watch.
My brain solved the dilemma by making me fall asleep and dream her giving funny comments to random stuff. 😂
The look of fear on Gibi's face when she realized its almost been 50 years
You just turned what would have been a mildly irritating book (tbf I found a lot of the tips useful and cute when I ignored the sexism) into a delightful and educational video
Edit: I hate how useful this video actually was to me ;-; I thank the grandmothers and brides of the 70s
Honestly these vintage self-help books usually do have good advice! idk if you watch Drew Gooden, but he reviewed some 50s self-help vids. Besides the bizzarely placed sexism, they’re pretty charming! 😂
(love the yoosung profile pic :p)
@@mmellifluouss thank you for the recommendation!
And thank you about my pfp!!
It makes me so happy when people recognise what fandoms im in ^^
@@sfornbrook I've been too busy to play the actual game lately lol. but I love it, yeah! :)
@@mmellifluouss I’ve had this pfp for over a year now lol - when I first played the game I immediately fell for Yoosung and it made me sad how underrated he was
I’m a Seven simp now but Yoosung will always be special to me for that reason ❤️
Yes, it is weird to think that in 50 years time, books that are written now maybe considered bizarre as well 🤯
i love how he doesn’t even care if it’s raining, but it’s still relaxing!
*she
@@ur_dead_5722 i think they use any pronouns
My mom was a homemaker and I admire her so much. She was often looked down on with many facial expressions you made throughout. I don’t think you have bad intentions, just know some of your audience enjoys making their husbands feel special and practicing all the self care mentioned in this book. The book dropped a lot of wisdom.❤
The one benefit of Gibi possibly shedding an ocean full of tears in her first year of marriage was that said tears could be used to nourish her 1970's flower dress to ultimately growing bigger and stronger.
Tears?
what on earth?
What
Yall didnt watch the video huh…. Bc this is a joke that goes w the vid 🙄
"SHOP ONLINE AT THE GOOGLE STORE" is something I will never get out of my head since it seems to play so loudly before every god damn asmr video
Cool and perfect right after ABBA came back😍✨
YESSS BESTIE
YESSS
You already know grandma gibi was slaying it in the 70s with that dress xD
I just got a Gibi Honey ad and then I start the video IT'S SPONSORED BY HONEY!! I swear if Ben don't call her honey I'm un immersed.
This was so enjoyable! I'd really love more videos in the future where you just read interesting books to us and add a little commentary!
Hey Audrey
Yeeess! I was hoping you were gonna delve more into this book. And I love the aesthetics of this, too.
i love your reading voice and the way you flip pages/hold up the book, it reminds me of being read to as a kid 🥺 (even if it involves johnnycakes lol) thank u so much for all your hard work gibi!
The fact that her hair looks beautiful as always is amazing :)
Day Seventy Five of asking Gibi to do
a role play of Avatar: The Last Airbender with every character, except it’s in ASMR, when she hits 5 million subscribers.
@odzul djordje kecić No! Not at all
@odzul djordje kecić obviously not??? what would make you think that lmao
Aunt Iroh.
After finishing reading Flowers From 1970 for the 3rd time I was surprised when I saw Gibi post a 1970’s asmr video-clicked right away :]
if you run out of ideas, you could always do a pov: you fell under the fridge and youre now part of the ice cube club
Have to say Gibi would still look gorgeous in the 1930s, I’m jealous:(
Can you imagine? Her grandmother practiced the most highly paid medical job and Gibi makes more money whispering.
Ephemeral Rift watching from the side: not bad, not bad....
Lol
I’m going to be honest, how you did your hair makes you look so beautiful. You should do that every so often here and there. Love the content, keep up the great work.
34:00 that tip about buying furniture for your lifestyle is actually pretty accurate. As a mom who lives on a farm there is no way I could ever have a white rug, or chairs with skinny legs. Everything has to be durable and realistic. I don’t have many “delicate” pieces of furniture or decorations. I have one champagne velvet couch that I got as gift a long time ago and I keep it in my room safely tucked away from the craziness of the rest of the house. No dogs, no food, no shoes, no art supplies allowed on that couch! Lol
I'm a mother of two (1 and 4) and I can totally use these tricks. I can't believe I say this, but this book is actually helpful. They are absolutely right about being more relaxed and trying to get some free time for yourself. I'm using my half an hour each evening to watch asmr and relax :)
I was born in the 2000s and my parents are from the 70s and they love showing me their old stories
For those confused by the terms "Oma" and "Opa" at 08:40, they're german for Grandma and Grandpa.
In Dutch we also say oma en opa.
omg the pretending that your cleaning is so relatable though? for some goddamn reason the 1/10 time that my house is ever messy is the exact time when someone decides to visit, and I'll just stack any dishes/clothes/etc. in a way that makes it looks like there is less of it, chuck out the hoover or a sponge or something and tie my hair up on the way to the door to make it *seem* like I had forgotten guests were coming and was in the middle of tidying
side note, I have a system so everything has it's place and have managed to whittle it down to such an exact science that if a particularly nosy guest ("why is that there? when was the last time you dusted? oh, you redecorated? I don't like it.") shows up unannounced I can clean a room in ~30 seconds flat while one of my sisters gets the door and the other does the "pretend we were cleaning" setup- it's like clockwork
LOVE THISS! but I have a video suggestion I just thought of this and no one has ever done it (I think or I have just not seen it before) "ASMR but your in an online class" you're teaching us but in online class, I think it would be funny like "open your cameras everyone" "who is unmuted?" like that LOOOLL
Even if your not tired, gibi can ALWAYS, and I mean always, help relax you.!😃👍🌙😴
Hey Lindsay
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I've been a homemaker for 14 years. This was neat to hear. Since my kids are older now they are expected to do much more for themselves which gives me the opportunity to learn new skills as a aspiring herbalist and homesteader.
I have 3 boys, twins 12 year old, and one 14 year old. I no longer do any of their laundry or bedding, I only remind them to do them. I also homeschool but it's a Perry relaxed schedule as being rigorous is too much. I never know what will come up so we have to be flexible. My husband runs his own business and works really hard outside the home but also does all the home building projects I create for him, remodeling, and repairs needed to be done.
I have a hack for ya...I buy all the groceries on the weekend a d fir 2 days I basically cut, cook, vac seal, food prep and that way I dont have to stop for the rest of the week to cook for everyone. They can just help themselves and I can keep doing important things that need to be done. =)
Hey Amy
Wow. Just when I thought she could not come up with more ideas, she does the smart thing by going back in time. 😄
I hope this turns into a series...
@@dianellysmarcano7858 Oh, that would be so cool. 😋
Female Parent here! My husband and I decided for one of us to stay home with our child. I ended up being the one staying home. Your free time definitely changes. I can't just go do what I want with out it becoming a project. That's for sure! Sometime I pass our child off to a family member for a few hours so I can do what I want with out her.
I would definitely recommend doing whatever it is that you like doing, with your child. Weather it's bike riding, trail hiking, video games, library visits, dinner dates blah blah. Take them along for it so you can keep enjoying what you're doing and share it with them..... unless it's drugs... then you should stop doing that and DON'T include them in that.
I absolutely loved this Ms. Gibi! I've thought about taking some of these tips into consideration. Please do more. At least more reading books! Love ya girl!
I really want a 1930 fancy conversation because I like that time period, plus try to make other decades, but this is optional,and you can do not that, so no pressure
Hey Ann
My first and last children are 20 years apart, with one in the middle (well, much closer to the first). Free time can be tough in the beginning but I find that many women tend to apologize for taking time for themselves. I never did. I always at least took the time to sit with a cup of coffee and book to read for about a half hour to an hour, whenever it fit in best, depending upon the age and schedule of the child.
This was good advice back then, but remember, as you said, this is going on 50 years ago. A LOT of technology that exists now wasn't even thought of or dreamed about back then. Plus a lot of women were still housewives and didn't have careers. Times have changed but you also have to look at them in a reflective lense. Great video though. I love these themed, look back videos.
*gibi trying to fight through the misogyny of the 70s without losing her shit*
Usually asmr videos are kinda boring other than get tingles or for sleep , but gibi's videos are really tingly , it helps for me to sleep and really entertaining or funny , so thank you soooo much Gibi , we love you :)
As a mom of 3, your free time definitely dwindles. I often have to choose if I want to get some things done or have me time while my youngest naps. I tend to choose chores and then stay up too late trying to have me time and then am super tired the next day.
It does get a bit easier once the older ones start school. I have one left at home right now as my kids are 10, 6 and 2. It can be easier to do smaller chores with less kids running around. But I still feel like the kids bathroom is always a mess no matter how hard I try. Lol. But everyone always says you will miss the messes once they leave the house. We shall see. 😅
I do miss hanging out with friends and being able to just go out and do whatever with my husband whenever we want. I only have one person who watches my kids for me, so I have to wait for that person to be available and then hope my husband can work within that time frame.
However, I love being a mom and my kids are my everything. I do think it is normal to be afraid of motherhood before you have kids though. Kids are a huge responsibility and not everyone should be parents, let's be honest.
But if you were to decide you wanted to have a baby, I think you would be the most amazing mom! That would be one lucky little bébé.
That moment when the 70s and the year 2021 meet when Gibi takes out her phone xD
Speaking as a parent, the first year does take ALL your free time. But now that he is big enough to play with toys, my son is way easier to handle. I can set him down with blocks or a ball and get some me-time in.