All the things 35 taught me...

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • It's my birthday......... It was my 36th birthday yesterday guys and this year I had a lot of emotions celebrating my birthday., Phewwww 2020 has truly been a roolercoaster, I beat the Rona guys......and as we usually on this platform, I share with you lessons from the previous year as I anticipate all the amazing stuff this new year will bring. The view from the 36th floor is amazing already but first let's discuss what 35 taught me. Watch, Like, Comment and pls Subscribe.

Komentáře • 337

  • @mojisolaomolaradacosta1027
    @mojisolaomolaradacosta1027 Před 3 lety +45

    I don't understand why people hate this lady but to me she is just human and I love and appreciate her for being herself.... You beautiful darling 💋♥️

    • @mariapiakabakaki2251
      @mariapiakabakaki2251 Před 3 lety +4

      It’s jealousy, people are just jealous

    • @tosin1018
      @tosin1018 Před 3 lety +5

      I really believe it is jealousy. Seeing someone having the guts to live life to the fullest and unapologetically. Misery loves company. She has faced everything life throws her way with so much strength.

    • @mojisolaomolaradacosta1027
      @mojisolaomolaradacosta1027 Před 3 lety +2

      @@mariapiakabakaki2251 nobody is perfect, perfection is a perfect lie

  • @Jessicaokolie
    @Jessicaokolie Před 3 lety +119

    I wish you every thing you just mentioned you wanted(a good husband, a healthy baby, more wealth)...
    More winnings

  • @lebogangkekana191
    @lebogangkekana191 Před 3 lety +38

    My best friend died 3 days after turning 30. How much more of a blessing can turning 35 or 36 be...

    • @SUCRE-JZEE
      @SUCRE-JZEE Před 3 lety +2

      So sorry dear, I lost someone too and it was terrible. Cry if you want to, you’d be fine eventually

  • @towelashete
    @towelashete Před 3 lety +95

    The one thing that has kept me "tuned" to your channel is your openess. Most women are afraid to say they want marriage and kids under the guise of being "woke". You are a real ONE

    • @ngozichukwuka5494
      @ngozichukwuka5494 Před 3 lety +8

      Most women are vocal about wanting a husband and children.

  • @olorunsagbaemmanuella1255

    Just watching this video a year after, but mehn... Cheers to you Big Toks!!!!!! Even to 37, 38, 39, etc. Keep winning.🥂

  • @kinggina
    @kinggina Před 3 lety +20

    The word of God is the best and surest therapy. period

    • @sose9601
      @sose9601 Před 3 lety +3

      PERIODT..
      LOUD IT👌

  • @ntontondalo5877
    @ntontondalo5877 Před 3 lety +29

    Ohh..toke , 35 is a big number.Just a few years ago I discovered you and you were only 28....and then again I look @ what you've achieved in just 36 years, and WOW!, you've EXCELLED 👍👍👍👍

  • @saranghae2808
    @saranghae2808 Před 3 lety +17

    Everybody NEEDS therapy. PERIODT. We need to normalize this! Happy birthday beautiful woman!

  • @cowm11
    @cowm11 Před 3 lety +2

    There is a stigma around getting therapy and after I went for mine, I realised that EVERYONEEE should have therapy. It will reduce the craziness in the world. I admire your openness Toke and honestly, your very best days are ahead!

  • @teem8506
    @teem8506 Před 3 lety +43

    First and foremost I love and appreciate you Tokestar. I appreciate you for being honest and being vulnerable. I'm proud of your success and how far you've come. I truly believe that God will surprise you with a man that give you what you need and want. Most importantly will add to your happiness IJN. Stay blessed ❤❤

  • @jemimajameson578
    @jemimajameson578 Před 3 lety +14

    I have been here for three years and I can say for the first time I completely felt her energy in me. happiness is free.

  • @blessingpalmer160
    @blessingpalmer160 Před 3 lety +15

    I can't wait to congrats you next year when you get all you are wishing for. And guess what?? You will get everything. Congratulations to you on finding love and welcoming you beautiful healthy baby.

  • @Hairsocietystore
    @Hairsocietystore Před 3 lety +10

    I call you my mommy even though you don't know me you have a daughter in me cause Everytime I listen to you it's like I get motherly advise you've me tamed my life in so many ways love you tokstar

  • @ruonatessy3755
    @ruonatessy3755 Před 3 lety +2

    Cheers to better days ahead

  • @babygalforlife6653
    @babygalforlife6653 Před 3 lety +2

    Happy birthday babygal for life

  • @minab122
    @minab122 Před 3 lety +42

    This was a cool conversation, a real one. Cheers to greater days! 🍷

    • @adenikee
      @adenikee Před 3 lety +1

      Like !!!

    • @nwachukwucrown8796
      @nwachukwucrown8796 Před 3 lety

      I just wanna meet with you Tokstarr. I want to move from banking to a media career

  • @Lalacandoitall357
    @Lalacandoitall357 Před 3 lety +8

    Congratulations 🎉🎉🎊 Toke. I pray 36 brings you awesome health and awesome memories. Can you write another book 📚 about your career and when you realize what career path you wanted to take and why? Love 💝 all the way from America. Happy belated birthday 🎁 Toke

  • @shetu_agidi
    @shetu_agidi Před 3 lety

    Happy 36th birthday baby girl for life. Nice watching always😍

  • @tonidieumerci
    @tonidieumerci Před 3 lety +7

    I love Toke so much ... God will look into your file , Don't worry..

  • @ifeomamarshalomc3101
    @ifeomamarshalomc3101 Před 3 lety +1

    Happy birthday beautiful Queen 👸 💓 💗 💖 🎂🎂🎂👑

  • @loisfrempong9109
    @loisfrempong9109 Před 3 lety +12

    1:21 ah so that wineglass meme was auntie Toke all along😂🍷.
    Happy birthday B.G.F.L🎉🎉🎉

  • @jennifernnoli8240
    @jennifernnoli8240 Před 3 lety

    Yes oooooooooooooo.Amen to all your heart desires .

  • @vitaliabrown2805
    @vitaliabrown2805 Před 3 lety +53

    I love your optimism, it’s so refreshing. My bday was Monday so we are nearly birthday twins, happy birthday queen 🥰❤️🧡

  • @amakamonicclems4527
    @amakamonicclems4527 Před 2 lety

    Your an inspiration to our generation. God bless you and grant ur heart desires

  • @ebehionerhime6993
    @ebehionerhime6993 Před 3 lety +13

    I LOVE YOU TOKE. YOU HAVE BEEN SUCH AN INSPO TO ME. SINCE UNI DAYS. I LOVE YOU AND I THANK GOD FOR YOU. BTW MY DAUGHTER IS ALSO A SCOPIO WEN I GAVE BIRTH TO HER I WAS EXCITED BECAUSE OF YOU ,SO YAL WILL BE THE SAME SIGN.

  • @Mistura__
    @Mistura__ Před 3 lety +5

    The Scorpio shoutout, the optimism, the energy 😍❤️ God bless you Queen

  • @olamideadedapo1351
    @olamideadedapo1351 Před 3 lety

    I love this woman too much😓😓🤗😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️

  • @REJOICESCREEN
    @REJOICESCREEN Před 3 lety +2

    God will grant all your heart all your heart desires. much love

  • @adofosimpaa
    @adofosimpaa Před 2 lety

    Wow, you are very beautiful. 36 paaa. Enjoying from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @aiyepolataopheequat4593

    Thanks for been you. Ko easy mehn. Well done T

  • @saadataliagan775
    @saadataliagan775 Před 3 lety +11

    Toke which therapy did you go for?? 😂😂 hope it's not the one we have been watching 😂😂!!

  • @anadimarystella2811
    @anadimarystella2811 Před 3 lety +1

    I love you Tokenne. Chukwu gozie gi with what you want

  • @blessedvine2805
    @blessedvine2805 Před rokem

    U r so such a sweet darling very smart in all u do. Baby I so love u🥰🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @zeekaokafor6528
    @zeekaokafor6528 Před 3 lety

    Ok I felt your energy n how open u r
    Nice one sis

  • @jennifernnoli8240
    @jennifernnoli8240 Před 3 lety

    Atoke mi....you are such a Darling

  • @jemimatyodaa5186
    @jemimatyodaa5186 Před 3 lety

    ❤❤❤💋💋💋love and amen to all your prayers 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Beyinagba
    @Beyinagba Před 3 lety +8

    "I'm still a bad bitvh"😹😹❤❤❤

  • @Mz_ceentia
    @Mz_ceentia Před 3 lety +3

    I am not 35 oo but I do most of what you’ve spoken about!!!!
    You inspire me a lot and I love the woman you consistently continue to grow into!!!
    💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
    Inspireddddd!!!!!! And we love you very much. I also love the honesty, you make me know that life is not a bed of roses but we continue to push

  • @Tartiyana
    @Tartiyana Před 2 lety

    You’re amazing! ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🍾🍾🍾🥂🥂🥂

  • @lizzyemmanuel9140
    @lizzyemmanuel9140 Před 3 lety

    Love you so much baby girl ❤️❤️❤️😘❤️❤️💕

  • @yourstrulyjennifer3426

    I pray God grant your desires... You are an inspirational woman... God bless you abundantly 🙌

  • @houseofellatv7115
    @houseofellatv7115 Před 3 lety

    I just discovered another me
    Toke is a Babe and More
    I love you without a reason girl
    Your openness is next to none
    Kudos Girl 💃💃

  • @sandraikedi2307
    @sandraikedi2307 Před 3 lety

    You are a blessing to humanity

  • @juddiesimpact2874
    @juddiesimpact2874 Před 3 lety

    I love your spirit... i pray God sees you and shine on you.💕💕.

  • @harunapriscilla2297
    @harunapriscilla2297 Před 3 lety +4

    Love your vulnerability! That is a strength. Proud of you Queen T💕💕. Sending Love💕💕

  • @frumagdalene2685
    @frumagdalene2685 Před 3 lety +2

    Ahhhhh !! I love your vibe Toke 🥰🥰🥰🥰. Much live from Cameroon 🇨🇲

  • @risperladee5718
    @risperladee5718 Před 3 lety

    I like you toke.. I follow you because of your personality.. And the way you dress... 🇰🇪🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️👆

  • @jenniekiki5583
    @jenniekiki5583 Před 3 lety

    Amen to your wishes

  • @oloridestiny3251
    @oloridestiny3251 Před 3 lety

    Such a positive video love it 🤎

  • @vivienneninsiima843
    @vivienneninsiima843 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday🥂🥂🥂 you inspire me😊😊

  • @mofilayoarowolo3119
    @mofilayoarowolo3119 Před 3 lety +2

    Happy birthday Toke!!!!!

  • @sose9601
    @sose9601 Před 3 lety

    I love you Toke😘😘😘😘
    Happy Birthday to you and your zen is so where I am right now..
    You are The Lady and we will meet soon,that I can see in this New Year..
    Yesss to a baby reveal and an amazing man..
    We will get our heart desires this New Year..

  • @saadataliagan775
    @saadataliagan775 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday Toke🙌🙌🙌

  • @victorygodwin3058
    @victorygodwin3058 Před 3 lety

    You are very sincere and I love it

  • @SUCRE-JZEE
    @SUCRE-JZEE Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday mama, I love you

  • @sincerelyomaina
    @sincerelyomaina Před 3 lety +2

    I'm a scorpio! There is just something about scorpios! We really are a beautiful tribe! Happy birthday to you! :)

  • @rosesteven7879
    @rosesteven7879 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday beautiful 😍 💗

  • @ariyovictoria7551
    @ariyovictoria7551 Před 3 lety

    I love this Babe so much

  • @Beyinagba
    @Beyinagba Před 3 lety +2

    I wish you all you wish for yourself😍😍😍❤

  • @DearTife
    @DearTife Před 3 lety

    From your lips to God's ears sis!

  • @queencnation
    @queencnation Před 3 lety +4

    Love it 💖

  • @smilergal89
    @smilergal89 Před 3 lety +20

    Happy birthday Tokstarrrr. I pray that God will strengthen you and perfect all that concerns you and that you meet and connect with the man God desires for you as is your hearts desire so that we can stan these pregnancy and baby pictures ❤️🙏🏾 keep on living your best life 😘😘

  • @afolabiolukoya1885
    @afolabiolukoya1885 Před 3 lety

    I could listen to toke for hours. Amazing upbeat personality. By the way u look stunning whatever age. Best of luck with your future endeavours. Tons of 😍

  • @TemieBeauty
    @TemieBeauty Před 3 lety +6

    Happy Birthday 🎊 love your vibe Toke... you’re the personality my 36 year old ass be trying to keep at bay lol... #tellitlikeitis

  • @arnynahjela891
    @arnynahjela891 Před 3 lety

    So happy for you Toke

  • @tessyigiba5622
    @tessyigiba5622 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday! Many better years ahead

  • @mudiwatm9131
    @mudiwatm9131 Před 3 lety +1

    Scorpios rock..
    The Phoenix that rises!!

  • @blessingsho6887
    @blessingsho6887 Před 3 lety +2

    Awwn this vlog is everything... Thank you toke and cheers to an amazing 36 and beyond.

  • @Toriiakanbi
    @Toriiakanbi Před 3 lety

    Aww😍😍

  • @leshegolerutla2998
    @leshegolerutla2998 Před 3 lety

    It is done sis ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ThePatriciaPatrick
    @ThePatriciaPatrick Před 3 lety

    Married at 30 but alone at 36, '84 babies going through life. Same story. Our desires (babies, marriage) for year 36 is surely happening. Amen

  • @estherelufowoju3166
    @estherelufowoju3166 Před 3 lety

    Only you are still very young darling, you make me feel so old. I am 53 but proud, independent with an amazing son🙌. HBD love enjoy each moment 💋

  • @ellaonyeka2990
    @ellaonyeka2990 Před 3 lety

    I love you so much toks😘😘😘😘❤️ happy birthday 🎈🎂

  • @ibukunoluwamonisola2265
    @ibukunoluwamonisola2265 Před 3 lety +2

    Dear Toke, you are a shining star, whose price is far above rubies, you are someone I cherish so much even when Twitter almost made me hate you😭. May all your secret prayers be answered Ma’am including the ones you can’t share with us on the vlog. You are a blessed woman❤️ I Love you so much mama. I hope I’d see you one day🥺. Incase you need a surrogate mother, you can let me know( that’s one of my soon to be side hustle lol) Loves💋

  • @temitopeodeyinka1150
    @temitopeodeyinka1150 Před 3 lety +1

    Amen to all you prayed for. Please invite Tiwa, Kumbi and Temisan for the next one

  • @chocmilk4388
    @chocmilk4388 Před 3 lety

    You are a Queen! We love you in South Africa. Yes, 35+ with money feels different 👸🏾

  • @olawuwoikimat5035
    @olawuwoikimat5035 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday Queen 😍

  • @evelyntwebaze5639
    @evelyntwebaze5639 Před 3 lety +1

    i like your energy ,great to hear that your well and have healed from all the bad things that have happened .

  • @ellaonyii
    @ellaonyii Před 3 lety +2

    Happy birthday Toke.
    Mine is 25'th of Next month.

  • @isetv842
    @isetv842 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday 🥰

  • @tajahtajah4999
    @tajahtajah4999 Před 3 lety

    U are so real!!!damn

  • @bidemiadigun
    @bidemiadigun Před 3 lety +1

    Toke you’ll find love and have your own baby very soon in Jesus name. Happy Birthday dear ❤️

  • @Spiffyyyyy
    @Spiffyyyyy Před 3 lety +6

    Amazing! You’ve got this Sis! Cheers to the new year! 🥂

  • @rhemamensah6582
    @rhemamensah6582 Před 3 lety

    Love you Toke 😂😂🙈🙈🤗🤗🥂🥂to more life and prosperity

  • @amagloria5466
    @amagloria5466 Před 3 lety

    God bless you Anuty Toke

  • @nifemi_speaks7500
    @nifemi_speaks7500 Před 3 lety +2

    Your openness is on another level and that's something I'm learning from you..tbh I really wished for you on your 35th that before 36th you have your own husband and baby buh who says it's too late, I wish for you all that you wished for yourself and I pray for a perfect healing mama💙💙 can't wait for the birthday bash🤣🤣💃💃💃💃

  • @sweetangeleunice4262
    @sweetangeleunice4262 Před 3 lety

    Happppppy birthday baby girl for life.🎈🎈🎈🎈💐💐💐💐💐💐🎈🎈🎈🎈

  • @CEO_Anna14
    @CEO_Anna14 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday 🥳

  • @nahnceymoncherie8080
    @nahnceymoncherie8080 Před 3 lety

    Happy Belated Birthday Tokstarr

  • @jenniferogbalu6460
    @jenniferogbalu6460 Před 3 lety

    🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @sadeeqanayimi5823
    @sadeeqanayimi5823 Před 3 lety +8

    This is literally the realest thing I’ve heard all year 🥂 congratulations Tokstarr 🥂💯 we love you ❤️

  • @gracemuwandiike4115
    @gracemuwandiike4115 Před 3 lety

    I love you Toke ❤️❤️

  • @rahmonbashirat7599
    @rahmonbashirat7599 Před 3 lety

    Momma @36 cheers 🥂 to a new journey God grant you all ur heart desires momma❤️❤️❤️

  • @sandianbc8732
    @sandianbc8732 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @owoeyejesulobagrace5092
    @owoeyejesulobagrace5092 Před 3 lety +4

    You are amazing Tokstarr! I love how you own your truths and how you let us in and inspire us! Happy birthday again ❤️❤️❤️ I can’t love you less! May God grant the desires of your heart 🙏🏾

  • @ginikaubah
    @ginikaubah Před 3 lety

    I love you mama.

  • @Wokeafricantvs
    @Wokeafricantvs Před 2 lety

    Love you

  • @TheMrA38
    @TheMrA38 Před 3 lety +1

    I listened up to when you say "we are going to be having very honest conversations... I might feel differently tomorrow" lol then an advert came on, I know even a badbitch gotta eat so yo, I was memorised, and hope you know nobody that loves you will ever look at you and feel there's something missing. Children can feel like a status symbol but a rude awakening comes to those holding that mindset. I am not pointing the finger I know from feeling your intention is good. Sorry for the loss because from 8 to suffer such trauma and now 26 years on you are beaming so bright making you a wonderful inspiration.
    TM loneliness has effected me and many others but it is much much worse to be with a company that is wrong and feeling lonely than to be on out lonesome.
    Just to say when I first invited you I had no idea your were a big timer now I know, the offer still stands. We make sure to keep learning in the aim of growing older and wiser. This year in Chinese Zodiac is the Year of the Rat and as 36 is in the twelve times table this is your birthday... I never saw the joy in having a rat as a pet before and now I don't think I would chose anything else... just to be clear I MEAN YOU RAT GIRL lol... it is a sign with much about money... So if i can when you are hear when you leave or enter any door I must try to have the spray cans to shower you... dirty money always makes a badbitch feel dreamclean. hey ok.. Love how you are.. numbers aside, you can count on me. Charlie xxx

  • @estherchi08
    @estherchi08 Před 3 lety

    We can't wait too 💃💃, I love you 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @flowciousworld5407
    @flowciousworld5407 Před 3 lety

    Happy birthday #babygirlforlife .... Love your show