living alone vlog 🌷 journaling tips, self care, getting my life together
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- čas přidán 4. 09. 2024
- yep, here we go again, another depressive episode. I kinda just lost all motivation to do anything to be honest. felt kinda hopeless which is one of the scariest emotions ever. it’s like that feeling just consumes you right when you wake up which is so unfair. but thankfully emotions are always temporary.
something just switched and I felt the motivation to go out again. this is why I always treasure the good moments. anyways been thinking about learning a new language and trying new things. let me know if you guys have any tips hehe.
see you guys soon! ily 🤍🌷
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sub count: 101k
(tysm for 100K omg! so thankful for you guys! I will be addressing this in my next vlog and maybe we can do a mini celebration hehe)
Is it just me or is via getting more and more happier lately?
aweee 🌷🌷 i have my up moments and i have my down moments but i’ve been better these days!!
She does but you can never trust that. So many people are smiling while suffering on the inside
She's indeed getting happier and Prettier too
I'm really happy to see her happy cuz I was trying to come over my depression episode by looking at her
@@via.ilyouu can you tell the background music during the journal part
Via is my comfort youtuber because she's seems so unbothered by other people and I just love that. Also congrats on 100K!! You deserve that and even more 🌷
i love u so so much
UR THE ONLY person on youtube ive found dealing with loneliness, anxiety while going on solo dates and enjoying being an introvert. ur just like me fr fr. college life is so lonely but i enjoy going out alone , thank u for not making me feel pathetic/sad for that and romanticising it
this is so sweet of you to say! we are in this together! sending u so much love bestie 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
🌷 I only recently discovered your channel but you have quickly become my comfort youtuber. I am currrently struggling with a lot of anxiety and a depressive episode and binging your videos is bringing a lot of light into my life. Thank you.
i love how fast via has been growing in the span of less than a month. so proud of her!
She’s living the main character life and I love it ❤
🌷 I find the "switch" thing you talked about near the end to be a real thing. Sometimes you just wake up and for the coming day, or maybe couple (or handful) of days you just feel off, you overthink stuff, you are louder with your thoughts than with your voice, and you always feel like you come off as awkward.
And then, the switch turns on again, and the next day, you are as badass as ever.
I honestly think there's no real reason for it, you just need to deal with it, and to learn something from it, making treasure of every thought you go through (journaling is gold).
Anyways, great video and stunning editing as always!
The best fact about her is she doesn't hide things, she shows both the Good & bad part. She is really good💛 & also here you go- 🌷
I am struggling with depression and anxiety and this video felt validating, it made me want to go out. I could relate a lot, thank you>333
🌷I’m introverted and very anxious when it comes to going out alone but I’ve been watching your videos a lot recently and you’re inspiring me to want to go out alone and imo that’s a pretty big step out of my comfort zone bc I usually always go out with my friends or one of my brothers🫠 I feel like I’m learning alot from you and I’m really thankful ☺️🤍
I like how she goes to so many different places alone… I feel obliged to go out with friends (which i don’t have), thank u for inspiring me Via 😭💕💕
So happy I found you! As an introvert your content feels like a hug
do not feel ashamed of your emotions. thank u for that reminder 🥺🌷
You will not believe me if I told you that I have spend the past days watching all your videos, watching your vlogs and listening to you talking about a lot of things like self love, loneliness, fear of failure and lots of important topics. it’s really an amazing thing that I found a person who can make me feel better, comfortable, and confident. I really love when you talking with us like we’re your best friend🥺🥺 we’re so lucky to have you in our life, you’re an amazing girl via we love you🥺💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
found your channel a few weeks ago, and your honesty in the videos have genuinely helped me understand that I am not alone.
i was really glad to have found your channel, how you spoke about your experience in the growing up ugly video, I have never related with anyone so much
I enjoy all of your journal entries as well, and also the first episode of the healing diaries.
You having the courage to be vulnerable on the internet has helped so many people.
LOTS OF LOVE AND APPRECIATION TO MY VIRTUAL OLDER SISTER
aweee thank uuu for liking my videos🥹🩷i really means so much to me🌷🩷🩷🩷sending u so much love ☀️☀️
I am also feeling kinda same now days and your video reminds me how much journaling helps us to clear our thoughts and to stop avoiding real problems we are dealing with...Just stay healthy and upload more videos 🫶
she and her videos feel like home , i mean she is like a older sister if i had one , im not saying i idolize her but infact i get comfort seeing her .the fact that she goes everywhere alone is so relatable to me cus firstly i also used to wait for friends to go to a certain place but in end they would take me where they want to ( becs from their perspective the places i want to go is boring ) ,so i decided to not rely on someone and explore new things alone and now i find it so good no one to judge just me my coffee and peace . i go to bookshops , cafes ,library , my institute everywhere alone and trust me it feels nice to be alone .
I honestly understand the feeling of "when will it get better" I feel like atm I'm having such a bad body image of myself that it effects me everyday when I wakeup I haven't been feeling good about myself especially as I'm so fixated on this one bit on my face. I just know that after my alevels ill start feeling better and will soon do that change if its effecting me too much. 🌷
you are comforting me more than any youtuber i just wanna thank u for that 🌷🌷🌷
🌷 going outside while depressed always feel like a huge win for me. Good for you for finding the strength to do all those things 💪🔥
🌷 I discovered your channel literally two days ago and you've become my comfort CZcamsr. You're just so real and I feel a bit motivated to go out. Also, your past videos about growing up ugly and finding the confidence to wear the clothes I want really spoke to me. I feel wayy better after watching them. Thank you so much 💗 have a wonderful day~
🌷I watching your video while enjoying myself with my journal routine, and yeah i feel so much comfortable. Happy to spend my time with you. 🌷
🌷I'm honestly really thankful to have found your channel. There are so many times when I find myself nodding along in agreement and being able to relate with others is one of my favorite things. Love you and I can't wait until the next video :)
via, CONGRATS ON 100K, you're literally my source of inspiration im so grateful i found you, i love you so freaking much
ilysmmmm
listening to you ramble is calming and helps me process my own emotions 🌷
Your videos are such a comfort, i love waking up early to be able to watch your videos before school, makes me feel so much better
awwwww this makes me so happy to hear!! 🌷🩷☀️
I love watching your vlogs. I just love how relatable and fun you are🌷❤
🌷 I discovered your Channel at my lowest. I'm very anxious and depressed these days. I go through something that really broke my heart. It's very painful when you do everything for a person to make them happy and forget about your own happiness. The person took me for granted and used me for my pure heart. And trying to heal myself for something I did not break is very traumatizing. I feel very calm and motivated watching your vlogs. I'm so happy that I found you as a very good creator. My bad thoughts almost win but I have to get my shit together, life goes on. And seeing how you cope with your own struggles in life makes me realize that we all have our problems. Everyone goes through something. But I'm happy that I'm not alone. Thank you!! Your videos are very comforting. It's like you speak to my soul, my inner little kid feels happy to have someone who has the same mindset as you. Its like speaking to a long-lost friend. I talk to myself too, it's weird for some but it helps me to keep the chaos in my head clear. And I also talk when I watch your vlogs. I wish we could talk in real life. You seem a very fun and kind, big-hearted human being! I hope you have an amazing week. And it does get better, we have to believe in that. Life sucks sometimes, but not going to give up! 🌷🫶🏻
i’m so sorry to hear that! we’re all in our healing journey together🌷i’m so glad to hear that my videos were able to help you!🩷🩷🩷sending u so much love bestie
@Via Li not gonna lie, I'm kinda fangirling right now. I always watch your vlogs at night because I feel more myself and also when I'm at my lowest of course. I don't know how to describe it, but watching you makes me feel like I don't need anybody to make myself feel happy again. Thank you for every video you posted so far. Because of your videos, I'm finally getting better, I'm in my healing process and enjoying my life more 🫶🏻🩷🌷
🌷lately been so stressed and demotivated but after stumbling up on one of your vlogs one morning it just motivated me to keep going and that we ourselves have to make things better for us💝 Thank you so muchie! I loved your vlogs!
You are the one who makes me feel like there is someone like me out there iam not alone, 🌷☺️
🌷i love your videos!! the way you talk to the camera seems so personal and comfortable, and as someone who struggles with a lot of things you mention in your videos, its very comforting to watch all of your vlogs
You’re my comfort CZcamsr. Thank you so much for posting videos. Lately I’ve been feeling insecure, and watching your videos makes me feel better. Thank you so much❤️
Started watching your videos in the past month and now you are my comfort CZcamsr TT I really feel like my feelings and emotions are valid and real when I see that we share a lot of common thoughts thoughts and feels 🫶🏻 luv u so much 💗
I LOVE your editing so MUCHHHHH, so simple and pretty and iconic and so easy to watch!!!!!!!!!!!!
🌷i found really comforting watching your videos and it's just so weird and good how sometimes i feel better just to see someone i can relate to
Ive been watching ur content for a while and it defs calms me. Ive been staying at home either glued to my bed or pc for the past 3-4weeks and finally ive gotten the motivation to go out and do some shopping today. The weather wasnt great but it made me super happy. Window shopping (well not rly..i bought 2 books 🤭), eating snacks, chilling at a cafe for a bit (solo) made me feel at peace. All this time ive been waiting for my friends to be available but going out solo is just as enjoyable 😌
At this point, I just like your videos before watching them, Your videos are so comforting and you have sucha positive and kind energy🥰
You are a ray of sunshine! These videos are my COMFORT ZONE 🌷🌷🌷
I recently stumbled upon your channel and I've not felt happier.. its like seeing an exact soulmate doing the same things on the other side of the world, its soo crazy. what you said about lowering caffeine but having a coffee then a green tea the same day is so uncanny bc I did the same thing yesterday haha.. also my self dates pretty much look the same. i hope you never shy away from being yourself and making more cute videos
I've watched you since u had 20 k, seeing you now with 100k makes me happy even it doesn't affect me, I'm happy for you 🌷
omg thank u for being here🥹🩷🌷
To be honest coming across your tiktoks and your yt page has been very calming for me. It's rare for me to to follow people but i am so glad i did.🌷
🌷🌷🌷🌷I don't know why but I found the things u talk and think about the buying perspective thing and other thoughts to be so related to me just found ur channel but such a comforting person luv u🥰
Finally found my comfort CZcamsr ahahha as an introvert and someone who have no friends and always talk to myself I really enjoyed your video and the way u talk to the camera it’s such a peaceful vibe ❤and please don’t feel stupied to talk to the camera a lot Bcz it’s actually enjoyable and relatable
Via, i already love ur humor! You seem like a really fun person. I wish you more good days babe 💗 thanks for being real
🌷recently found your channel and got addicted to your vlogs love you ❤❤❤
I just had one of those depressive episodes & well this video helped me survive...love youuu you're like a bestie whenever I feel down & lonely I watch ur videos
🌷 i love the way you film your videos
u inspire me so much!!!! you feel like an older sister 2 me ahaha im glad you make content cuz it comforts me knowing there are other ppl out there who've had the same experiences as me and are doing well (or atleast trying to and even thats enough) 🌷
🌷i absolutely love you cause you make me feel like its okay and normal to be anxious and depressed and that it really does get better.mwah! :))))))
the best comforting gift after a long day of writing exams and studying 🌷thank you for being you via!
🌷 I love the way you say your thoughts out loud. Knowing that someone else is talking to herself in some way calms me down 😂
🌷I just started watching you yesterday and have been binging your videos ever since. You literally made my day.🌷
Via congratulations on 100k !!!! You're the best!!!!🌷💌
i love how real u r abt ur feelings
I absolutely love Via's videos!! They are so comforting and raw. Does anyone know other CZcams channels that have the same vibe? I've been trying to find similar ones to binge on, but I can't for the life of me ughhhh
I recently found your channel and istg i am hooked!
I have been binge watching your vlogs 😂❤
seeing you happy makes me happy
this vlog was so comforting.
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I love how you express your emotion and just being your authentic self. You inspire me a lot!!!!
via you are such an inspiration!!! i've been struggling being alone and this is so motivating to me. i REALLY love your content
Congrats on 100k I love watching your videos. Every other I force myself to go outside especially spring summer the sun is shining nice weather going outside always makes you feel better even for a short walk
ahh 100k congrats queen!! you've so deserved the insane blow-up your channel has had. this is an amazing channel and is so different from everything else - it's so intimate and really introspective and many of the things you've said has inspired me greatly.
I LOVE U
WAKE UPPP!!! Via Posted!!🩷🫶🏽
your content just makes me happy its like so comforting 🌷
Lol, why are you me? You were describing me perfectly and I relate to everything you said. I found that kinda weird but I don't hate it, It's great 😄
You understand me. 😅
You know watching your videos, I like listening to you talk, you're very comforting 😁
All the things you said really made sense.
Also, thanks for the journaling bit, I really wanted to write my feelings down for a while now, but never really had the push to do it. 😅
I like how you are an introvert, yet you force yourself to go outside all the time, it's amazing and you make Boston sound really fun 😄
I came back to the channel because I missed this and I was really angry at my parents and my sister and I guess it really helped with that,
So thank you for everything Via 😊🌷
This was really comforting. I like the vibes :)
Omgg your videos are just so comforting i love it so much, have a great day Via 💗🌷
via i just wanted to let you know that discovering your channel was one of the best things to have ever happened to me. thank you so much! 🌷
As a person who avoids going outside bc of social anxiety.. it's kinda , you know , enjoyable for me to see pp esp like you enjoying themselves even tho it's boring .. hehe..
- thanks for uploading your videos
love the vibes Via and really these days watching your videos just makes my days better and happier 😊
aah omg so excited to watch!! i love ur videos so much they’re so comforting 💗💗
ILYSM
your videos bring me so much comfort🌷
I FREAKING LOVE YOUR VLOGS, VIA. I’ve been stuck in a dark place/negative mindset for years now and you motivate me to do things that make me happy and grow as a person🌷 Sending love from Canada🌷❤️😭😭😭
I just wanna say that your vlogs saved me for the past couple of weeks.
🌷4:14 okay I barely watch your videos because I just found your channel a few days ago and just the way you're giving us a journal prompt and telling these things about our emotions is so comforting omg I luv your vibes and this video already😭❤
CONGRATS ON 100K !!
Via if you think your intros are stupid MY GOODNESS you're a total mood in there. My favorite part of your videos are your intros THEY ARE THE BESTTTT I LOVE YOUUUU
congrats on 100k !! you and your videos always make my day better and i love how comforting they are 🌷
🌷 via you make me feel so much better thank you for existing
via is on her main character era and we love to see it 🌷🌷🌷🌷 congrats on 100k bestieeee🫶🏼
y’all are so sweet ilysm muah muah 🩷
i’d totally love a live stream where you just sit and journal with viewers
13:27 I think I found this switch for myself, deep breathing/ meditation as soon as I wake up helps with my anxiety, maybe it would help you too
I love your videos 🌷
Felt this so much, Thankyou for the reminder that we aren’t alone 🌷🌷
you know it’s going to be a good day when Via uploads 🌷❤🌷
OMGGG YOU REACHED 100kk CONGRATSS!!! I love watching your videos while I draw it just makes it more enjoyable and relaxing for some reason
Oh and I typed this while watching your video so heres a tulip 🌷
Congrats on 100k Via 🌷!!! It's been so nice to see you grow so quickly, you definitely deserve it!! I was wondering if you would consider making cooking vlogs or have a mini section to have some cooking in it?? I find that it always gives a soothing homey vibe, and thought I would ask! Either way though, thanks for all the effort you put into the content you make
yesss i would if i had my own place😭 it’s a lil awk since my kitchen is shared! but i’ll see if u can!
I always watch Via's vlogs whenever I'm feeling depressed and it instantly makes me feel better. It's like a magic spell or smth fr 🌷
getting home from a slow and boring day of work to one of your videos is always so great 🫶🏻 i recently binged all your vids and i literally love your editing and content aesthetic and format, sending lots of love ❤️ 🌷❤
🌷 I love your videos! is like having a friend that talks about their days, it's entertaining, we also have a lot in common!
13:30 tbh I had been searching for what triggers me feeling like shit some days/weeks and on top of the world some other times, and as obvious as it sounds, it really helped me to learn more about my cycle. Like just watching videos on how hormones affect your mood and energy throughout the month, and not I can accept more and anticipate these highs and lows :)
i enjoy your content and personality smmm. i live 40 minutes outside of boston and there is a train in my city i can take directly there but recently i have developed some social anxiety and i am always so afraid and feel almost like i shouldnt. i went in this weekend with family and it was so nice and fun and there was so much i wanted to explore and watching your vlogs makes me feel like i deserve to take up space and that i would love to go out more and explore, even alone and enjoy my own company.
i recently started watching you and you’re sent amazing examples! sooo thankful for this channel
i love uuuu
@@via.ilyouu i love you
moree
god the thumbnail and reading the summary part is so beautiful im in love 🤌🏼🤌🏼😭😭😭😭 she's so pretty??????
aweee ily bestie
i came across one of your videos today. then i saw more of your videos. i was really sad and ur videos are really comforting. thanku. i just fell in love with u.
13:03 aaaa this was me the other dayy, idk im usually fine with my own company and im okay working from home but idk smth just switched off that day and i just felt really anxious idk why :< will definitely work on those habits or find things that help me to turn the switch around like walking outside alone to enjoy the scenery or writing my thoughts in a journal !
love the video as always, thank you via 🌷
U are such a inspirational person 💗 especially for me cuz i struggle alot with goin out alone cuz of anxiety and paranoia and i completely the struggles ppl have but u inspire me alot to do more for myself thx for makin a major difference to ppls days 🥰 stay healthy and safe pls girl ❤🤗🌷🌷
OMG IM SO SHOCKED WITH UR ENORMOUS GROWTH IM SOO HAPPY FOR U A COUPLE MONTHS AGO U WERE LIKE 10-30K SUBS NOW UR 100K ALSO LOVING THE CONSISTENCYYYY ( i think i consider myself an OG as i have been here since the near start of ur growth, where I watched all ur old videos, now they r deleted)
omg stoppp ilysmm!! thank u for being here for from the beginning 🌷🌷
Your videos make me feel so much less alone thank you 🌷
you make me so happy, thank you for your efforts on your content
I discovered your channel few weeks ago, now you became my favorite youtuber
These are so nice. I love your journal videos. This makes me feel less guilty about being alone and less lonely when I am alone. I am so glad I found you and grateful to exist in the same time frame as you. We shall get through this together even if it is indirectly ^_^ 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
your videos make me happy and less stressful. Thanks to the video you are pretty!!