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Your Turkish eggs looks so delicious I am Turkish and still can't make this egg like you😅

the only rulebook of life is quraan

i literally love you

via i really love seeing you and hongli hanging out together 😭😭💗💗💗. do it often that q&a it was really fun

i grew up pretty idk if i am but people called me pretty, but even if there was some privilege or anything, i lost alot of friendships when i turned 13, i was hated alot by girls cus their crush liked me i grew up with having zero real girl friendships, i thought i did once but her crush liked me n she slapped me n called me a whore instead when i have never talked to her crush, i stayed away from guys just so i could get friends but when guys approach me in school i got alot of rumours being a whore when i rejected the guy

Okay so from where do I start... Via this is the first time when I am at your channel... Seriously just listen me out... I don't know if you believe it or not... It might sound crazy but you are my soul sister and I am not kidding i seriously got this feeling... Like girl how do you say the exact things that I didn't even know i was searching for and desperately wanting someone to assure me with... I'm going to be 23 next month... That means we are basically the same age... And being an Asian I got it more than anyone that what do you mean by all that family trauma that you were talking about... Seriously we don't hate our parents... We love them... I love them more than anything else... If I have to die for them this moment I will not think twice...That much they meant to me... But right now what is happening to me is just taking away my peace... And if I can't become the person I love how will I ever be able to spread love People around me... Three things... One that you were the adult when you chose to give birth to me... Why do I have to act always more mature even much more than my age??? Second thing... That when I will become a mother i will definitely not gonna close my ears towards my child and not listen to them when they are literally crying out loud for help... That's not love, That's manipulation... Third and the most important thing that pierced my heart is everything you said about consequences... Consequences of not changing yourself when it is needed... Consequences of not being selfish when it is the most needed... Consequences of not starting to heal yourself when your little self is crying for help... Okay... I'm taking one of the most important lesson of 2024 from your video... I'm really really really very thankful to you for this video 🙏 And I'm sending my good wishes and blessings for you my sister to get healed completely and be always happy healthy beautiful and at peace with yourself ❤

There is actually is Cafe in Edinburgh where J.K Rowling wrote them books it’s called “The Elephant House” There is also a street based on Harry Potter ! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤️

i had friends in HS, as soon as i finished it, we lost contact and my bestie from that time didnt even text back. in college, i made some new friends but few of them were so toxic and i started avoiding them. i failed my exams, now im wondering if i should continue with college next year or just forget about it, my "friends" from there just ghost me and when i sent something to our group chat they ignore it. it feels so lonely cause if something happens, i have no one to share it to

Needed this so much today !! Thank you for this video girl ❤️❤️

Bro I love you , you say exactly the thoughts that go through my mind everyday 😂😂❤️❤️

Why are you so damn hot! What's wrong with you! I can't watch these videos anymore!

Be independent... me everyday think what I'm gonna do every recess at school.

well you seem nice

This was such a cute travel vlog and an enjoyable watch as someone who lives near Edinburgh and goes there alot although it was a bit surreal at first hearing you talk about the beauty of Edinburgh i then realised that i had never seen it that way before and the videos you captured of edinburgh were really beautiful. Glasgow is also nice aswell for restaraunts and buchanan street is where all the shops are which i think you missed, you were right about it looking like boston as i believe that alot of new yorks architecture was based on glasgow and alot of the time movie studios film scenes set in nyc in glasgow as they can look so similar!

via, u have no idea how much this video has helped me and i just wanna thank u sm for it!! i’m currently in a slump and i think im feeling a bit burnt out but u reminded me that it will pass n get better & ahhh i appreciate u and ur videos so much 🤍

So glad you're back!! And this is perfectly timed, too .. thanks for helping me get out of my own current little slump I've got going on. Now my room is halfway clean, and I got myself flowers 🙃 Also I know you said it lightheartedly, but you don't look bad at all without makeup. Are you absolutely gorgeous with makeup? ofc <3 but you're also gorgeous without it, and i mean it. Idk, i just guess i hope you can see how pretty you are, too. Anyways, sending lots of love, and hope you're doing well ❤❤ p.s. i really like the footage in this video, it feels... idk how to put it. Raw? Like a raw existence, it's just so... dgnsgbsthwtj i wish i knew a better word for it. Oh well 😅 it's really, really nice though. I really like it

im 25.. (just turned 25 in june 12- oh WAIT OMG your VID is dated on my birthday last year!!) i have... really felt the same way all the time... just today uhm, one of my coworkers told me they'll wait for me until im ready?? and im... my nervous instints go 'nopenopenope' though i really want intimacy... somehow Im very into fictional characters than real life people and i feel just... safe all the time thinking in my head about well, selfshipping with them somehow.. the coworker is nice, i just only want friends and thats... just all??? like, heck, im overwhelmed about the idea of dating someone i dont even know whats behind their bac k or something? so,, literally- i feel this- i feel everyone who is afraid of getting vulnerable, it hits me hard, apparently my safe feelings are just,,, being intimate about fictional characters and well, thats p much it, TW TMI and also trauma dumping, I gotta warn St2lking mention: sometimes i feel like... real life isn't at all for me because.. when i fall in love I really end up hurting myself in the process, (Ive been there in high school): had been rejected one time because one's in a relationship- had never got any answers after sending a love letter to a friend (yikes young me) and he left me for someone else the moment i kept being distant... it's painful dealing with all that and there's times,,, i cry that like... i was never beautiful??? or maybe im ugly, or.. no one deemed important lmao, and that I wasn't made to be with anyone??? but nowadays at the same time its like... i dont need anybody??? i only need my own self- i feel safe with myself- and I'm scared of being vulnerable because who tf knows if there's like a red flag or something from anyone or if one day they'd hurt me out of the BLUE, and honestly.. im ALWAYS paranoid of the idea of someone coming after me for a relationship or at some point something intimate- ive had terrible habits that Ive talked to a man and he wants to get to know me, or get intimate,,, or something and I end up ghosting them after two weeks of closeness, like.. i cant get out of guard because how scared I feel about getting intimate WITH somebody im not sure if I ever want to work upon it..? because honestly.. i still have trust issues,,, and all this feeling abt scared of intimacy, and wanting to BE loved.. its still all over the place, and I cry everytime thinking no one cares and shit (i get bitter of others who are in relationships sometimes,,, idk why, stupid me, they're lucky ig, unless idk if they're EVEN stable) ive,,, been also third wheeled by a friend and a lover before which was,,,, why i also had been bitter af seeing someone in a relationship (though im sorry guys, it feels stupid but I also always... HATEd being third wheeled- but yeah I... Im scared of even getting intimate with someone so soon, or something because also Ive dealt with a internet toxic relationship that involved status stalking and stuff.. (oh yeah I was stalked irl before by a old man, but,,, ill tell that story on youtube though if im.. comfortable yet to tell, not sure even when but yeah, but yeah, i ... all this past? yeah im... i have serious trust issues torwards people, im not sure if its just because of my mental illness, or something, but I'll... be diagnosed soon on the 17th, and im not sure what then... theraphy??? idk tbh, but yeah. im not sure if i ever get,, healed about this issue, but what I know is that I feel safer to have friends than just.... find like oh 'the one' to put it that.... sassy way. (geez im sorry about all this,,,, )

whenever i establish a new freindship, almost 90% at the beginning of my friendship always usually start very well, like we're so open and do many shit together, but as time pass by our friendship kinda...crumbled...and it the hardest part of it is to get back to where it used to be, like it feels like resetting to the very beginning to the point we felt like strangers again. Thats why at this point it kinda feels pointless and i feel like dont even bother trying and lazy

I felt hit and hugged by all you said. I relate too much lol . I love this video, and from now on I love you :)))))))

Hi Via , i just wanted to say that i really love you, like SOO FREAKING MUCH, and that you inspired me to create a vlog channel(please dont mind my english, im portuguese😭😭)Love you bae xoxo😘

Watching this felt like a virtual in the best way possible. Summer depression is definitely relatable to me as all my uni friends travel/go back to their parents and I usually am left wondering what the hell I should do.

3am-1pm seems to be my sleep schedule in a slump

I love watching people come o my country x

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5:21 I can relate to this on so many levels

I thought i was the only freak who sprays her phone with alcohol when coming back from the outside😂 lol

Thanks🫶🫶very useful and deep

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you look gorgeous!!🥺❤

girlypop never related to something this much lots of love

im just so damn hard rn

Watching Via helps me heal fr! She shows me that it's okay to feel emotions even though it feels ugly! It's all valid! Thank you Via Muahhh lots of love

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omg im so glad I found your channel I literally relate to you so much 💕

I call it the impossible task - the task that will make me feel better to have it done, that will take a much shorter time than I've been procrastinating it, that I just can't seem to start. I feel like when it gets to that point, I need to either tell someone about how hard it is to start it, and then it doesn't seem so daunting, or I need to just do it before I think too much about it (easier said than done, it is hard to surprise yourself, haha). Or, the healthiest option I finally was able to use this morning, treating a commitment to yourself like you would to a loved one. You wouldn't bail on a friend if you promised to help them out, so don't bail on yourself.

I'm so introvert and people think i have an attitude, they even talk to me in workplace or in school. During reunion my relatives think me i have attitude because they say I'm always alone 😏 duhhh being alone doesn't mean I'm lonely, I'm grateful i survive the world alone. I love myself that's why i take care my self so much 🎉

This was a timely video for ne because I just realised yesterday that I am nkt happy with the way I've been living. Definitely a video ill come back to every so often

this is actually a very impactful video. thank you for this.

Thank you Via, we learn a lot through you! 😊

This😪

I love love your vlogs🎀♥️ they're not typical influencer coded they're so cute and authentic ✨

watching this as someone who lives just outside of edinburgh is wild

bae where's ur leather jacket from 🙏🏼 ik ure prolly tired of ppl asking where u get ur stuff but im canvassing for an oversized bomber slouchy jacket type and want it to be really good quality and urs look really good

Loveeeeeee herrrr soooooo muchhhhhhhh 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

things are not actually tough. it's just the fact that we cannot get the motivation to give it a start. honestly, starting a task is much harder than completing it. once you start doing it it's just a piece of cake. whether it's study or daily life tasks.

I love this❤

It's a really good sign that you're having these thoughts at 23. I'm 30 and the last decade has been traumatic, I had similar feelings that you express in this video recently. When I was 23 I was subject to a therapists abuse (I had gone to therapy to better myself) and sadly since I fell on the wrong therapist it made it worse and I really accumulated a lot of hatred due to injustice over the years. Despite everything I also learned a lot about myself, my flaws, insecurities and my own strength and resilience. It gets to the point where you're at rock bottom and you're your own worst enemy. My anger at my parents was also super intense because I know a lot of my problems come from my upbringing and yet they don't understand. My advice coming from a few years down the line is keep thinking in this way, it's very good, keep trying to better yourself, celebrate your victories, live life for the present, have experiences and don't be too hard on yourself. Know your boundaries, your vision and your worth. Don't dig yourself too deep into a hole of depression, because depression is a hole that gets harder and harder to get out of. But therapy with a good therapist and genuine desire to progress is great. So is note-taking/journalling.

3:26 yes.

I can relate a lot to you. I become really stressed during exams and eat a lot. Moreover i have self esteem issues and anxiety problems. I can't even check my weight after the exams because i fear i would be fat. And this is a cycle.

1:19 it’s like kdrama outfit 😭❤️‍🩹