But you wouldn't believe the amount of ppl who actually live like this and or model their lives after videos like this not knowing that. At least if they read the comments (if they thought it was real) they would know its not good. No hate im just saying
FR LIKE- I SAW MORE THAN 5 COMMENTS WITH THOUSANDS LIKES SAYING HOW TOXIC THIS RELATIONSHIP IS BUT I FIND IT CUTE AF LIKE HE'S NOT OFFENDED OR ANYTHING AND THE GIRL IS NOT BEING MEAN OR TOXIC AT ALL WTF
@@eavioli well she kinda is (although as this video has said, it is most likely to be fake) She makes it clear that she thinks is the boss in the relationship because he does things for her
@@emilykrey5319 The videos a joke and full of satire lol. Theyve been together for more than 3 years and theyve been engaged for almost a year. I dont watch them often but I think they do skits like this together. And hes looking at the phone so he knows.
For everybody saying he deserves better and stuff: this is a joke. they are somewhat-recently engaged and since he proposed to her and also their other tiktoks together I think it’s pretty safe to assume they both love each other deeply
Yea but why is society okay with a woman talking to a man like this but if it was a man doing it then it's called toxic masculinity? We get its a joke but this is today's society
1. It doesn't matter if its a joke. They have a huge audience and they shouldn't be promoting toxic behavior like that. 2. Just because he's still with her doesn't mean that she's not toxic or abusive. A lot of people are manipulated into staying in abusive relationships.
@@flxcc4481 a girl? Even if a guy did this he will 💯 get the same backlash as the manipulative gf in the vid. I’ve seen her other videos, she’s still like that. If you’re a fan just say so
@@katc6896 for all you know, she's the one with job and he takes care of the house. Only useless one is you, not open-minded enough to see more than what's presented. ^^
Being lazy and manipulative doesn’t mean you wear the pants in the relationship. He is correct the one who holds it all down and pays the bills makes the choices .
so you're saying the person that wears the pants is lazy and manipulative??? she's just making a point even if the gender was flipped just the fact he called out her irregularity and tried to step up and complain about her not doing enough while complimenting himself as the bread winner definitely wouldn't be the boss of the house bc the boss of the house wouldn't have to explain in detail let alone waste time explaining
I like how she trys to do subtle power moves during this video. This boy needs to run. In a normal relationship there is no powerplaying and competition. Thats a red flag and a symptom of something potentially wrong or toxic that is going on or soon to come.
THAT'S WHAT I THOUGHT. Like the one time no one's saying it's staged everyone is taking this so seriously.. bruh, they're already filing the divorce papers
Because we don't know her. Is she really joking around? Take it from my experience. I don't think my dad sees my mom as his equal and he keeps bossing her around. My mom always thinks what would happen to my dad if she wasn't around. I've seen this shit too much.
Why is everyone saying she’s abusing him... there literally having a sense of humour and joking around. And asking for water is NOT I repeat NOT abuse whatsoever do your research so people understand.
So let me get this straight; he cooks, does the dishes, cleans the house, cares about you enough to not get mad when you criticize the way he was washing, and is willing to stop what he is doing to get you a drink that you are like three steps away from. And because of all this you are making fun of him because he doesn’t boss you around? You should feel lucky because he’s clearly way out of your league.
Okay but like why is everyone judging a relationship based off of one VIDEO? Like I thought this was funny, no big deal and then I go to the comments seeing all these people wishing better for him and already filing his divorce papers.. damn
Women want to be on top of men, but they don't find men below them attractive so they look for men above them and then complain about gender equality...????
Imagine being so toxic in a relationship that you don't appreciate when people do things for you. Then go out of your way to make fun of them for caring
Yeah she is trying to do subtle power plays. Normal healthy relationships have no powerplays in them or the couple thinking of that. This is a big red flag
@@hanmira This video cut, is showing toxic behavior wrap in a joke. Those boy seem irritate by the question while the girl trying to prove she has more power over him. That's why I said it was kinda sad not funny.
So you’re talking about gender roles. The person who “wears” the pants is the one who runs the household. Who grounds everyone. Not the person who tells someone else to do something. So he wears the pants ma’am.
@@shivanichauhan1638 implying that women dont wear pants? The line is outdated for sure. But applying the logic and literal understand of it that only men wear pants is also an outdated thought. Change with the times bro
AWW... He genuinely cares🥺 Where can u get a guy like this , he is a fictional character I swear ✨ Edit: Everyone I'm just a 15 year old who reads fiction and made this comment. I'm an introvert and I have absolutely 0 dating experience. So PLS STOP bashing ME for YOUR toxic past.
@@rexarashy2036 I’m sure he cuts grass cooks cleans fixes the car. He’s the guy who gets up in the middle of the night to make sure everyone is safe… he wears the pants period.
@@Abandoned2377 she probably do the same, she got the pants 😂😂😂, when man works and women stay in the house doing same thing he does they call hem the man, so we can see the same thing going here.
@@kendrikhawk7436 I was just reading that and you replied to your own comment talking about that. I had to comment because that sentence was unexpected and made me laugh. 🤣🤣
He definitely wears the pants in the relationship, if he up and left and you couldn't survive without him then that means you NEED him and also means he Ultimately makes the calls in the relationship but allows you to act like you in charge because he's a man who carries no insecurity or ego within. And that's the tea honey.
Yeah. I thought this was a little distasteful. So he's helpful and hard working. You ask him to help you. I don't see the correlation of who wears the pants??? Honestly, it kind of seems like the recorder isn't pulling their weight. That's just a mooch...
If you as a guy gotta get up and baby your girl in the relationship. 🤦 that’s just a sad relationship. You’re carrying her like a child. Your in a relationship. Take care of each other and don’t let the other fucking baby you. Shit just won’t end well in the end.
@@smcalpha and how do you know that? Do you live with them? Have you seen their videos? Do you know them well to realise that they have been together for 3 years and are getting married soon? Don’t snoop into another relationship and act like you know better.
This happened with my girlfriend when we were at my house but I was the one washing the dishes and getting the drink. Babe you ever see this love you and now know why you asked me that. 😂❤️
His mannerisms are like that of a middle aged overworked stressed out mom. Much respect for him tho. Bet he’s just on autopilot looking after his unappreciative mocking wife.
So he’s caring and nice, that isn’t a reason to say he doesn’t wear the pants, it’s obvious if he left your life he would have a lot bigger of an impact on your life than you would on him.
Right? All these people like “y’all so cute where do I find one like him?” is it really this normal to expect someone to do everything for you while not contributing anything yourself, then go ahead n feel free to reduce them diminish them down and patronize them and act like he’s your little bitch or something ? then film it put it on the internet? I don’t understand either. thought I was the only one thinking she’s manipulative she’s toxic, they’re toxic affff if this vid wasn’t staged, he should run
@@UnknownRED333 oh no no no no no no no. WOMEN need to stop treating their partners like this. It's not cool. First you get a perfect bf and then you make fun of them. It's just not cool.
He definetily "wears the pants" and he s just gentle with you To "wear the pants" means to be responsable and in charge of the house, you alone cant even take your drink
I remember the old western shows where the man works and come back, watch TV and drink beer. The woman does a ton of shit while the husband is working. And when she finally leaves him. His life goes to shit.
I'm not saying that this is the one and only way things can work out. But it works for me and my girlfriend, so far. I feel that no one person should be wearing the proverbial pants. In my opinion, being in a relationship, both parties should be familiar with each other's strength and weaknesses. I may do better in certain situations, my girlfriend will do well in others. So I guess the concept of "wearing the pants" should be fluid and situational 🤷♂️
@@dben9986 No, that's what leads to the failures of relationships to begin with. Someone has to make the final decision. I'm sure some women are suited for that role, but scientifically and historically the man is most suited to this role. And even if she does take the role most of those relationships end. It's just a sad reality. This girl is just an ingrate, no questions asked.
Y'all are commenting about how she's "taking advantage" and that she "doesnt appreciate" him, but Im almost positive this is just a joking around video that he is 100% playing into.
Its not that. its that it gives other people such as wrong advocates, boomers and millennial the wrong idea of doing shit around a functional household
It’s scripted, tell me why would she post something about her wronging someone this is satire and comedy. That’s just like me successfully committing a crime and calling the police on myself after, like it doesn’t make sense
So by this woman’s logic, if she ever has kids, then they will be the ones wearing the pants. Because it will now be her duty to do some work for them as well and answer to their needs. Interesting
Actually, I think its kinda ironic that she thinks he's a simp bcs he does all that shit, which means she knows that usually it's her job (not necessarily this girl's, just "Her"), and practically being sexist. And what's ironic is that she, as a part of all that anti-sexist libertarian movements, still unconsciously knows that it's usually her job lol
Basically a slave to your whims and fantasies alongside doing the work at home if his actual job wasn't enough. Don't grow too comfortable expecting men like this.
I love how he's trying to say that wearing the pants means handling the house and not just earning for the house cause I think it's high time that we got over this stupid gender stereotype that have been given to men and women for centuries and let them make their own choices regardless of gender
Idk if this was a joke on her end but I can understand his frustration, Relationships should be 50-50, helping each other and growing with each other. If this is real I really hope she starts steeping up in the relationship and do stuff with him, doing things together saves so much time and no fighting about who did what.
I don't dare to do that to my boy. We should appreciate each other fairly as how we love each other too. Life is too short. Make the best of it for both of you
I feel like if the roles were reversed the guys in the comments wouldnt be so pissy about it cuz thats what a lot of them are thought. But i say make it fair clean after yourself, take care of urself, cook for urself or one day one cooks the other cleans and the other day it’s reversed. There perfect balance :) Thats the kind of relationship i want And ik the video is a joke
everyone: he deserbes better bla bla bla bla bla meanwhile him: he is a complete adult he knows what he wants or what he deserve stop being the judge bruh
When a woman is doing all the cooking, cleaning, and all other work around the house, and a man goes out to work, it's a man who wears the pants in relationship. Here, with the roles switched, it's still a man who wears the pants. And I find it interesting how a man who goes to work while woman does house work isn't called lazy, but nearly everyone in the comments is saying the girl in this video is lazy.
Yeah! Exactly my point! I seriously think this is what the skit was about (the video is scripted and not real) men are always treated like angels for doing the bare minimum, while woman have been taught to do it and be the “woman” of the house for years. But there won’t even be a “thank you”.
I don’t like the term “wears the pants”. But I agree with him. He’s doing the dishes as you sit there, film him, and boss him around. If he’s the one doing stuff, then he’s the one who “wears the pants”.
Am I the only one who thinks this is not funny at all? A relationship is supposed to be two helping each other, there is no boss thing! And even if so, it is humiliating to take a video of your bf helping with dishes and laughing about it saying I am the boss! Women has been fighting against such behaviours for a while not to treat men the same way I suppose
@@Purple-sx8us It is not disturbing calm down. They're obv joking. The heck why would he not realize what he's doing. FYI, the person above you said the truth in relationships. Not everyone is the same.
The hell is wrong with you like people... Relax they, are just joking even if your partner is helping you out when you are tired or you help him when he is so what... And the boss thing is joke and they are laughing because of their conversation. So stop being so stubborn grow up please.
Isn't this the same guy from tiktok who literally rolled on the ground in anger when his girlfriend incorrectly mentioned the number of years they have been together? 😂He is really cool
Like I swear people are so overdramatic they’re acting like she’s such a bad girlfriend and doesn’t appreciate or take care of him when they probably planed this thing before hand and it’s obviously a joke I swear people are way too sensitive
I mean he’s 100% right, but everyone in the comments are taking this too seriously when it’s probably just a skit. They’re just good actors.
THANK YOU
But you wouldn't believe the amount of ppl who actually live like this and or model their lives after videos like this not knowing that. At least if they read the comments (if they thought it was real) they would know its not good. No hate im just saying
FR LIKE- I SAW MORE THAN 5 COMMENTS WITH THOUSANDS LIKES SAYING HOW TOXIC THIS RELATIONSHIP IS BUT I FIND IT CUTE AF LIKE HE'S NOT OFFENDED OR ANYTHING AND THE GIRL IS NOT BEING MEAN OR TOXIC AT ALL WTF
Yeah.
@@eavioli well she kinda is (although as this video has said, it is most likely to be fake) She makes it clear that she thinks is the boss in the relationship because he does things for her
He's absolutely correct. Such a sweetheart. Hope you find someone who appreciates all you do for them
yall don't have to this so seriously
Arent they engaged?
Arent they already together?
@@kiyosumi5623 god I hope not. Poor guy
@@emilykrey5319 The videos a joke and full of satire lol. Theyve been together for more than 3 years and theyve been engaged for almost a year. I dont watch them often but I think they do skits like this together. And hes looking at the phone so he knows.
He's a beautiful person. Hopefully he finds someone who appreciates him.
😭😭😭 y'all so
damn 😬
I hope so too
Well. Seems like it's their "gimmick" for her to abuse him on camera. Buhut...gotta wonder 🤔
He already has a girlfriend
For everybody saying he deserves better and stuff: this is a joke. they are somewhat-recently engaged and since he proposed to her and also their other tiktoks together I think it’s pretty safe to assume they both love each other deeply
Nope never same to assume (GABBY PETITO CASE) everyone assumed never good
Yea but why is society okay with a woman talking to a man like this but if it was a man doing it then it's called toxic masculinity? We get its a joke but this is today's society
1. It doesn't matter if its a joke. They have a huge audience and they shouldn't be promoting toxic behavior like that.
2. Just because he's still with her doesn't mean that she's not toxic or abusive. A lot of people are manipulated into staying in abusive relationships.
He proved he’s the boss by being the mature one here
The mature one? Its a joke
@@flxcc4481 oh you again, replying to all facts comments saying its just a ‘joke’ of her
@@jvnee because it is but just because it was a girl she deserves the worst of course
@@flxcc4481 Wow, You really Do need help, don't you?
@@flxcc4481 a girl? Even if a guy did this he will 💯 get the same backlash as the manipulative gf in the vid. I’ve seen her other videos, she’s still like that. If you’re a fan just say so
Just in case anyone was wondering what the words on his shirt mean
勇- courage
忠-loyalty
爱-love
Thanks
谢谢
@@isspb9850 不客气😊
@@indranisharma1776 you're wlc ❤️
Thank u!
“Wearing the pants” doesn’t mean that they boss everyone around, it means they’re responsible and take care of everybody.
Literally, so he’s right
sad for this guy. She's useless.
@@katc6896 do you live with them and see them living OUTSIDE OF TIKTOK? no? great, so shut up and don't call people useless
@@katc6896 for all you know, she's the one with job and he takes care of the house. Only useless one is you, not open-minded enough to see more than what's presented. ^^
He deserves better
But this guy is spitting facts , he’s doing everything a man should do , this girl is just proving his point as the video goes .
Are you trolling us?
So your telling me the man should do everything
Ur joking or to dead to Realize this is a skit
@@Whateverisayfax It’s a joke to go to the skid my boy
Wait, if the man does everything, what does the woman do?
I hope he finds someone who values him more. He seems precious.
it’s a joke- and she obviously loves him if you look at their other tiktoks😐🤌🏻
@@tinasreang804 oh. a joke? ahhaha ha ha omg such a funny joke lmaooo wow its so funny omg ahahah
@@cat.lover.. it's pretty funny
judging a relationship by a tiktok? People do this now? What the fuck
@@maxjill NOOO FR😭😭😭😭😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
Being lazy and manipulative doesn’t mean you wear the pants in the relationship. He is correct the one who holds it all down and pays the bills makes the choices .
She reminds me intuitively of someone I know with borderline personality. Im not saying she has it. But that childish manipulation aspect is there
so you're saying the person that wears the pants is lazy and manipulative??? she's just making a point even if the gender was flipped just the fact he called out her irregularity and tried to step up and complain about her not doing enough while complimenting himself as the bread winner definitely wouldn't be the boss of the house bc the boss of the house wouldn't have to explain in detail let alone waste time explaining
I like how she trys to do subtle power moves during this video. This boy needs to run. In a normal relationship there is no powerplaying and competition. Thats a red flag and a symptom of something potentially wrong or toxic that is going on or soon to come.
True
How do you know he pays the bills tho?
Why is everyone getting so sensitive she’s just having a joke around.
THAT'S WHAT I THOUGHT. Like the one time no one's saying it's staged everyone is taking this so seriously.. bruh, they're already filing the divorce papers
@@hanmira DIVORCE PAPERS!
Yea
Underrated comment fr
Because we don't know her. Is she really joking around? Take it from my experience. I don't think my dad sees my mom as his equal and he keeps bossing her around. My mom always thinks what would happen to my dad if she wasn't around. I've seen this shit too much.
Why is everyone saying she’s abusing him... there literally having a sense of humour and joking around. And asking for water is NOT I repeat NOT abuse whatsoever do your research so people understand.
"I'm the boss" but he still washed dishes and got your drink 😂 You guys so cute!!
Look what the drink said 👀
@@aubrey264 ok
@@aubrey264 i didn't see what did it say
@Zade72 yes, that's a really good point
@Zade72 that's a leader not a boss
So let me get this straight; he cooks, does the dishes, cleans the house, cares about you enough to not get mad when you criticize the way he was washing, and is willing to stop what he is doing to get you a drink that you are like three steps away from. And because of all this you are making fun of him because he doesn’t boss you around? You should feel lucky because he’s clearly way out of your league.
It’s honestly sad
Couldn't have said it better myself. As a girl, I can say she's lucky af!
It’s a joke why are you people looking so deep into it
Its a joke stupid
@@jalyshabrown5704 jokes are supposed to be funny but you probably have a suck humour so you do you
Bossing around someone is not wearing the pants in a relationship. If you can't appreciate him for the things he did for you i'll gladly any day.
Okay but like why is everyone judging a relationship based off of one VIDEO? Like I thought this was funny, no big deal and then I go to the comments seeing all these people wishing better for him and already filing his divorce papers.. damn
@@hanmira ikr, people need to calm down and don't poke into other people's business like it ain't even that hard to just not comment but oh well
These are scripted, it’s a joke. Leave them alone
Nothing but facts
Yeah well I don’t think he would want you anyway
The fact that she thinks bossing him around is wearing the pants in a relationship says a lot about this generation
Honestly I hope this is a skit or some this makes me blood pressure rise 😕😆this generation is sad
Women want to be on top of men, but they don't find men below them attractive so they look for men above them and then complain about gender equality...????
Its not this "generation," this girl as an individual shows a lot of signs of toxic traits in her videos
Wow guess u don’t what a joke is
@Lexi 93 Another meninist, im assuming lolol
He actually does, he did everything in his will to do something that he wasn’t planning for and still does the dishes. Lol
That's not wearing the pants bruh
@@jamaloliver6940 It is actually
@@jamaloliver6940 he is actually
@yoko. he do the things a woman does in the relationship wearing the pants mean your the boss which she clearly is
@yoko. 😂😂 what that doesnt even make sense because yet still u defending the guy who gets bossed around by his girl 😂
Imagine being so toxic in a relationship that you don't appreciate when people do things for you. Then go out of your way to make fun of them for caring
Imagine not taking a joke
@@flxcc4481 lol imagine thinking toxic behavior is somehow okay
@@UninspiredContent imagine not taking a joke
@@flxcc4481 imagine being so desperate to get attention when the joke is not funny and is just sad rubbish 💀
@@michaelbishopva imagine not taking a joke just because its a girl
She’s just proving his point more by not being able to do shit for herself lmao
Broooo mad facts !
I mean she's able. Just finds it easier to manipulate him into doing it
@@ashgreen3574 wait until she finds a real man, and won't bend over for her bullshit
Y'all chill it's a tiktok. I'm sure he's comfortable doing the dishes as it is completely normal for men to also do them
@@ashgreen3574 This isn’t really manipulation though. He was already doing the dishes and kindly passed her a drink. She’s just being an ass on camera
He's being nice because he cares about you. Doing what you ask is out of love, not because he's submitting to your orders. Don't get it twisted lady.
I never can understand how people can be so pathetic to such sweet mature people like him. He is so precious 🥺.
r/woooosh
The one wearing the pants is the one who in a way has final say, takes care of everyone and is responsible. Don't mistake that for kindness
When he actually does wear the pants. It’s not about who says “do this” it’s about who actually puts the most work into it to keep things stable.
Yeah she is trying to do subtle power plays. Normal healthy relationships have no powerplays in them or the couple thinking of that. This is a big red flag
@@I_Ace yeah... It's kinda sad to see...
yall taking this way too seriously, it's kind of concerning
@@hanmira This video cut, is showing toxic behavior wrap in a joke. Those boy seem irritate by the question while the girl trying to prove she has more power over him.
That's why I said it was kinda sad not funny.
@@riri1878 i mean yes this is toxic af but this is ONE video yall...
This is one of the most awesome backfires... Entitlement will never win Empathy
So you’re talking about gender roles. The person who “wears” the pants is the one who runs the household. Who grounds everyone.
Not the person who tells someone else to do something. So he wears the pants ma’am.
Exactly.. bossing around is not "wearing" the pants 😂
I was about to say the same thing. I think she is the one confused about the meaning of "who wears the pants" lol
Really he's does everything that mean she don't do anything
@@shivanichauhan1638 implying that women dont wear pants? The line is outdated for sure. But applying the logic and literal understand of it that only men wear pants is also an outdated thought. Change with the times bro
@@PinkBelt100 💯
AWW... He genuinely cares🥺
Where can u get a guy like this , he is a fictional character I swear ✨
Edit: Everyone I'm just a 15 year old who reads fiction and made this comment. I'm an introvert and I have absolutely 0 dating experience. So PLS STOP bashing ME for YOUR toxic past.
Just look
@@minecraftmaker6087 um.. What
@@minecraftmaker6087 I- it’s not that easy
Care about the personality more than looks and other materialistic things, then you may or may mot find him.
Imma get a women like that 😏
“YOU WOULDN’T SURVIVE 🌲 DAYS WITHOUT ME”😭😭
He’s so sweet I need someone like this! Luv y’all
Hopefully he wakes up and finds another woman that isn’t as lazy and mocks him for being caring.
I think maybe this is a joke
She work and he doesn’t, shit I need a women like that she can have the pants if she wan to 😂😂😂
@@rexarashy2036 I’m sure he cuts grass cooks cleans fixes the car. He’s the guy who gets up in the middle of the night to make sure everyone is safe… he wears the pants period.
@@Abandoned2377 she probably do the same, she got the pants 😂😂😂, when man works and women stay in the house doing same thing he does they call hem the man, so we can see the same thing going here.
@@rexarashy2036 You make no sense
This really raised my respect for men . He's just spitting facts 💯
This is actually pretty funny, if he's not just playing along. I can't shit in these videos, anymore. Lol.
I don't remember writing "I can't shit in these videos, anymore.", nor can I figure out what I meant by that, if I actually did write it. 😂
@@kendrikhawk7436 I was just reading that and you replied to your own comment talking about that. I had to comment because that sentence was unexpected and made me laugh. 🤣🤣
Ummm. Were you drunk when you wrote this?
This is a world full of cardi bS she really thinks she runs shit 😭
He can be a boss and still do dishes and get you your stuff. He is literally the perfect Bf material.
*husband material
Yeah but is she wife material? Can't even clean the f/cking dishes sheesh.
@@illeatyourpancreas7070 fax
But she aint the gf material
He could do way better tho
This video is just a reflection of how good of a person he is
He definitely wears the pants in the relationship, if he up and left and you couldn't survive without him then that means you NEED him and also means he Ultimately makes the calls in the relationship but allows you to act like you in charge because he's a man who carries no insecurity or ego within. And that's the tea honey.
She on the otherhand seems like she has some deep insecurity problems and ego resulting in her manipulative beheviour
he’s doing stuff because he loves her not because she’s in charge of him
Yepp.. I can very much see that 😐
Omg finally one comment that gets it
Everything he said is exactly true give that man his respect !!!
He’s definitely the man of the house. He wears the pants.
The girl should be lucky to have a guy like him, who takes care of her. Silly that she's debating about wearing pants in a relationship.
Yeah. I thought this was a little distasteful. So he's helpful and hard working. You ask him to help you. I don't see the correlation of who wears the pants???
Honestly, it kind of seems like the recorder isn't pulling their weight. That's just a mooch...
If you as a guy gotta get up and baby your girl in the relationship. 🤦 that’s just a sad relationship. You’re carrying her like a child. Your in a relationship. Take care of each other and don’t let the other fucking baby you. Shit just won’t end well in the end.
Its obviously a joke
@@westlee1626 You're absolutely right
She doesn't deserve him
The patience of this guy, now that's called commitment
He seems like a good dude. Needs to find himself someone more appreciative of that.
and someone who is childish and makes fun of his accent. she’s a weirdo
The “here you go” voice 😂
I love when he says “here ya goo” in the sweetest voice when handing her the drink 🥰
I still can't get over how he says three with that Irish Accent
The fact he was rolling with his and her joking around by “bossing” him around and not breaking character at all is pure class.
If I was him, I will never go out with a girl like that, he deserve better
it's a joke (even if it's not funny)
@@hanmira no he still deserves better
@@smcalpha and how do you know that? Do you live with them? Have you seen their videos? Do you know them well to realise that they have been together for 3 years and are getting married soon? Don’t snoop into another relationship and act like you know better.
@@smcalpha how do you know? it's a joke
He is a big catch for her.
This happened with my girlfriend when we were at my house but I was the one washing the dishes and getting the drink. Babe you ever see this love you and now know why you asked me that. 😂❤️
His mannerisms are like that of a middle aged overworked stressed out mom. Much respect for him tho. Bet he’s just on autopilot looking after his unappreciative mocking wife.
Yea hope they're not married 😕 he'll lose his mind in a yr
@@1hunnidpercent somehow they been together 3
Mom's usually do wear the pants though so he ain't wrong
The trolling between these two is something underrated
So he’s caring and nice, that isn’t a reason to say he doesn’t wear the pants, it’s obvious if he left your life he would have a lot bigger of an impact on your life than you would on him.
Facts! Preach!
I don't understand why would you or anyone do that to such a simple and adorable human being who take care of you and do everything for you
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He is such a sweet soul. She can be rough to him.
Right? All these people like “y’all so cute where do I find one like him?” is it really this normal to expect someone to do everything for you while not contributing anything yourself, then go ahead n feel free to reduce them diminish them down and patronize them and act like he’s your little bitch or something ? then film it put it on the internet? I don’t understand either. thought I was the only one thinking she’s manipulative she’s toxic, they’re toxic affff if this vid wasn’t staged, he should run
What a wonderful person!! He deserves a better person.
He s definitely right. If you really need to define a boss in a relationship he would be that.
She's literally proving he wears the pants lmao
he deserves someone better for sure 💯💯💯
When ppl take a caring man like him for granted… annoying, especially when you don’t have one by your side 😹
Women: wants a guy who washes dishes, cooks, cleans, etc.
also women: makes fun of a guy that washes dishes, cooks, cleans, etc.
@@UnknownRED333 oh no no no no no no no. WOMEN need to stop treating their partners like this. It's not cool. First you get a perfect bf and then you make fun of them. It's just not cool.
She's a depreciating asset
@@UnknownRED333 yeah keep blaming men for everything
He’s not wrong. Its rare to find mens like this these days! Always appreciate a good man!
He definetily "wears the pants" and he s just gentle with you
To "wear the pants" means to be responsable and in charge of the house, you alone cant even take your drink
I remember the old western shows where the man works and come back, watch TV and drink beer.
The woman does a ton of shit while the husband is working.
And when she finally leaves him. His life goes to shit.
@@dben9986 yeah, also right now these roles are not consistent because most women work same hours as men
I'm not saying that this is the one and only way things can work out. But it works for me and my girlfriend, so far.
I feel that no one person should be wearing the proverbial pants. In my opinion, being in a relationship, both parties should be familiar with each other's strength and weaknesses. I may do better in certain situations, my girlfriend will do well in others.
So I guess the concept of "wearing the pants" should be fluid and situational 🤷♂️
@@dben9986 yeah
@@dben9986 No, that's what leads to the failures of relationships to begin with. Someone has to make the final decision. I'm sure some women are suited for that role, but scientifically and historically the man is most suited to this role. And even if she does take the role most of those relationships end. It's just a sad reality. This girl is just an ingrate, no questions asked.
I think you proved his point. He wears the pants b/c you can't take care of yourself.
She’s so shameless and he’s so kind and priceless
She sounds like a keeper. Can't wait for him to cheat on her with someone who isn't full of herself
LOL
Yeah how about he dumps her first tho
anyway
She's a DEPRECIATING ASSET...
ONLY A MATTER OF TIME TILL HE FINDS A NEWER , YOUNGER, BETTER MOD
😂😂😂😂 yea ok
Y'all are commenting about how she's "taking advantage" and that she "doesnt appreciate" him, but Im almost positive this is just a joking around video that he is 100% playing into.
Its not that. its that it gives other people such as wrong advocates, boomers and millennial the wrong idea of doing shit around a functional household
He’s so precious, I hope he finds someone who loves him the way he deserves to be loved 💕
She does love him it's Scripted lol
It’s scripted, tell me why would she post something about her wronging someone this is satire and comedy. That’s just like me successfully committing a crime and calling the police on myself after, like it doesn’t make sense
ITS A JOKEEEE
So by this woman’s logic, if she ever has kids, then they will be the ones wearing the pants. Because it will now be her duty to do some work for them as well and answer to their needs.
Interesting
Actually, I think its kinda ironic that she thinks he's a simp bcs he does all that shit, which means she knows that usually it's her job (not necessarily this girl's, just "Her"), and practically being sexist. And what's ironic is that she, as a part of all that anti-sexist libertarian movements, still unconsciously knows that it's usually her job lol
Truth
I didn't got a shit but I agree with u
@@Parth-gx1nw 😂
@@Parth-gx1nw yea i kinda expected that after I re-read that long shit
He's a certified simp what u talking about
The person who will do things for the person he cares about... that's the most admirable thing.
Y’all are the absolute cutest
Nah I feel like he was getting pisssed of while saying this 😂
This men is clearly raised by amazing parents
Well manner and soft spoken about his thoughts and role in his relationship...
Slacks dont matter, actions do...maybe you should pray he never.gets tired
Her : Who wears the pants in the relationship?
Him: death stare
He's a keeper.
If mah man ain't like this I dont want him-🤚🏻😫✨
Basically a slave to your whims and fantasies alongside doing the work at home if his actual job wasn't enough. Don't grow too comfortable expecting men like this.
Do you broads tell that to the one night stand guys you hook up with as well?
@@goku6560 okayyy that was sarcasm no need to get that worked up-☠
@@UnknownRED333 it was a joke sir-😃☠
@@V2Ta__ add /s next time you do that and maybe I won't get worked up as much
I love how he's trying to say that wearing the pants means handling the house and not just earning for the house cause I think it's high time that we got over this stupid gender stereotype that have been given to men and women for centuries and let them make their own choices regardless of gender
I would put my bets on the wisdom of thousands of years of experience over some stupid selfish idealistic girl whim.
The people who didn't get the joke🤦♀️😂😂😂
Idk if this was a joke on her end but I can understand his frustration, Relationships should be 50-50, helping each other and growing with each other. If this is real I really hope she starts steeping up in the relationship and do stuff with him, doing things together saves so much time and no fighting about who did what.
Girl hes solid relationship material i mean a level class man. Be good to him sis.
All the clues were right in front of his face🤣
The drink did it for me🤣🤣🤣🤣
Come on !!!! Dont take this man for granted.Andrea doesnot seem to be matured enough to realise how gud he is.
He'll clue up eventually when he asks himself what she brings to the relationship... Considering he does everything 😂
they both are engaged ....i just love both of them😭😭
I don't dare to do that to my boy. We should appreciate each other fairly as how we love each other too. Life is too short. Make the best of it for both of you
This is a skit, I hope everyone realizes it. Y’all they’re engaged 😭
he is the kindest person I've ever seen
I feel like if the roles were reversed the guys in the comments wouldnt be so pissy about it cuz thats what a lot of them are thought. But i say make it fair clean after yourself, take care of urself, cook for urself or one day one cooks the other cleans and the other day it’s reversed. There perfect balance :)
Thats the kind of relationship i want
And ik the video is a joke
everyone: he deserbes better bla bla bla bla bla
meanwhile him: he is a complete adult he knows what he wants or what he deserve stop being the judge bruh
When he said "hErE u Go" that was so adorable lol
When a woman is doing all the cooking, cleaning, and all other work around the house, and a man goes out to work, it's a man who wears the pants in relationship. Here, with the roles switched, it's still a man who wears the pants. And I find it interesting how a man who goes to work while woman does house work isn't called lazy, but nearly everyone in the comments is saying the girl in this video is lazy.
Yeah! Exactly my point! I seriously think this is what the skit was about (the video is scripted and not real) men are always treated like angels for doing the bare minimum, while woman have been taught to do it and be the “woman” of the house for years. But there won’t even be a “thank you”.
I don’t like the term “wears the pants”. But I agree with him. He’s doing the dishes as you sit there, film him, and boss him around. If he’s the one doing stuff, then he’s the one who “wears the pants”.
He seems like such a sweet person :(
he is being kind to youuuu
Am I the only one who thinks this is not funny at all? A relationship is supposed to be two helping each other, there is no boss thing! And even if so, it is humiliating to take a video of your bf helping with dishes and laughing about it saying I am the boss! Women has been fighting against such behaviours for a while not to treat men the same way I suppose
I SO agree ! This video is distributing on so many levels 🙄
@@Purple-sx8us It is not disturbing calm down. They're obv joking. The heck why would he not realize what he's doing. FYI, the person above you said the truth in relationships. Not everyone is the same.
Pretty sure it’s just scripted. I’m sure they just meant to give some of their subscribers a giggle.
The hell is wrong with you like people... Relax they, are just joking even if your partner is helping you out when you are tired or you help him when he is so what... And the boss thing is joke and they are laughing because of their conversation. So stop being so stubborn grow up please.
@@MS-rs6od yeah i agree.
She's so lucky to have him
She’s basically bragging about not having basic life skills…he’s right, she can’t survive without him.
This is a tiktok trend….. why is everyone so hurt over a joke😭
He's right though....'wearing the pants' doesn't mean you're controlling or ordering your partner around. This is a common mistake people make.
😱 his accent is sooooo cute!!!
I wish I could have him all to myself😍❤. I would love him so hard...
Isn't this the same guy from tiktok who literally rolled on the ground in anger when his girlfriend incorrectly mentioned the number of years they have been together? 😂He is really cool
everyone judge her just because this ONE video and everyone act like they know everything smh
Like I swear people are so overdramatic they’re acting like she’s such a bad girlfriend and doesn’t appreciate or take care of him when they probably planed this thing before hand and it’s obviously a joke I swear people are way too sensitive
@@in_jail_out_soon1237 IKR