@@meatball5887 so many muslim women arent happy in their marriage already because of this mentality today . Imagine trying to fullfill the emotionnal need of 2 if you cannot even deal with your actual wife .
@@ahl12366 I've "forced" any man I have authority over to keep a beard. Can I do the same for women and hijab? You people truly are champions of whataboutism. One thing being wrong doesn't make another thing right
Imagine there is Muslim women with no Mahram in her family (They died etc) The people in comments would prefer she should die out of starvation at home rather than going out and work. Shame on Muslims for playing 'God' by deciding who will go to hell (nauzubillah), forcing religion on everyone and using religion in wrong way to control their womens. Seriously, Allah gave us Mahram to make us feel safe and protected but we feel unsafe by our own men. Brother and sisters, there are term and conditions for men too, when they go outside to work. In 21st century, y'all are complaining about world becoming mixed and here men is scared of men. We gotta keep our boys safe too, so they doesn't get sexual harassed by another man
Finally a logical argument. I'm a lawyer, I have had to work with both genders. Yes, law offices are mixed. Most Court system are mixed. This is 21st century. As long as your faith and ethics are strong, you will not allow anyone to harm you. If they try to harass you, sue them or file a complaint, take action. :) Also, we can't compare 21st century with how things were 1400 + years ago. People evolve, society evolve, technology evolves, mentality evolves.
Allah is the most wise and merciful, and Allah makes exception for us in emergency. Even pork is halal if we are dying and no other thing to eat, but with conditions. So just do our best with our best intentions, always ask forgiveness and surrender everything to Allah. Wallahu a’lam bishshawab
@@pseudocolor Emergency or not, Islam never put any impediments in the path of a woman who wants to work. However, Allah asked male members of her family to do it for her and it is very stupidity of Muslim men to interpret whole different meaning that "women aren't allowed" just because of that. Allah never forbid women to work outside nor mentioned it in any verses of Quran or Hadith. "Women are prohibited to work outside" Just find something similar like this sentence in Quran or Sunnah then come and talk to me.
Brother, there are fields women are needed in, such as nursing, teaching, clothing, retail, doctors, and daycare. If women do not fill these positions, they won't have anyone who needs them take those jobs, as men generally don't work in those fields nor interested.
It's filled with salafis who believe women should be locked up, never get education cause going to college will make them apostates and they should even dream of working according to them
@@MsKingusbaby1 because just like the captain of the ship, a man takes full responsability if anything goes wrong. Big risk big reward. Women in charge will do what politicians or weak men are known to do in times of strife, hide and find excuses. We protect women but ask for their trust in return. It s a fair trade.
There are actually certain professions where women are required. Gynacologist, female doctor, female police, female teacher etc. It is best to avoid jobs in which mix-gathering is required, but women can still do it if they follow all the terms & conditions of Islam. Men have to follow them too! If a woman can do an online business, she should always avoid jobs that involve mix-gatherings. Hazrat Khadija(RA) was a business woman too.
Women who were working on the time of Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was doing business from home.men were working for them and they were not like todays corporate ladies !! Also you said about the daughter of old man working outside but they were shy to get water for their ships because of other men were there and prophet Musa(pbum) helped those girls.... You can not compare those women to todays women who go out and work in an office with men!! Sorry to say ....nouman ali khans answer is not genuine .You don't need to please people but please Allah
I'm a house-maid 🤭 so my job n work is inside the house In syaa ALLAH,,,,, it's Halal job that I can do since I'm 16 year's old until now almost 41 year's old 🙂
It is also necessary to point out that "mixing" between both genders in a certain way is forbidden for both men and women and not women alone. Mixing within certain limits and restrictions is allowed for men and women. Jobs that require any type of forbidden mixing are still haram for men to do. Also, a woman is free to decide whether she wants to work or not as long as the work she desires is in a halal environment. It is better for her to stay at home but she is allowed to work if she wants to. And Allah knows best
What?! You mean to tell me that men cannot do haram either? There are a lot of men who are just using religion when it’s convenient to them. But you have men crying about ‘feminists’ who use religion when it’s convenient lol
@@Oooooooo797 and when the women has to mix to help his family its haram whats this double standard? so when a well is full of women and all are lined up to get water the man can just barg in and grab his water and go are you even Muslim?
It is funny how Muslim men wants to respected by their wives but yet they don’t comply with the Islamic rules because under estimate a women power but example is The mother of mumiin khadija R.A. Was a merchant so don’t judge the women and a woman goes out does something bad then that is for her own soul problem in the world and the hereafter but education is equally important for men and women and work is essential for any human beings
Woman and man are equal in value but we r totally different in other things, physically biologically mentally ect including our role and function and this doesnt mean woman are less of value than man no def no how can we compare somth when its different. Staying home, taking care of the family ,the home, raising kids, supporting the husband ect is the best thing for a woman , we can go out and work but its much more preferable to stay home I would recommend reading a book called "a woman s guide to raising a family by shaykh salih al fawzen" a simple book straight to the point with dalel There s also "you can be the happiest woman in the world"
In the very example cited, the women who went "to work" was out of necessity that their father was elderly, and stopped when Musa (AS) had married one of them, as he then took those duties. And Even then, as they "went to work," the Qur'an explicitly explains that they did NOT free mix as the workplaces of today frequently require. They purposefully waited for the men to leave the well. Edit: ALSO add that they did NOT do even a hint of tabarujj as the example in the Quran clearly teaches as an example for women to follow. They walked behind Musa (AS) as a non-mahram, and guided him by minimal speech. Please use the citation exactly as its presented. TEXT OVER CONTEXT.
then how about those women in Madinah? at the time of the Prophet SAW? are they also go "to work" just because all of their fathers are sick? lol out of curiosity... if women shouldn't work or only allowed to work when it's the situation like you described... tell me who'll be the doctors that's gonna treat those pregnant women? so (if you're a man) you're okay with male doctors assisting your wife giving birth? monthly check ups? how about female nurses? police women? you know.. body searching and all... 💁 but hey.. if you don't care good for you i guess 😏
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
@@sarahnovella4971 @**S*J**** Sisters, its not that women should not work, but rather women are not obligated to. Its that Women should not free-mix or do tabarujj. Given the envirnments of today in non-muslim society, its not a very easy thing to circumvent.
@@sarahnovella4971 how did women give birth back then how did women get checked up back then? It’s not like women just started giving birth and all that that’s lazy excuse to give women reason to work and the women he’s talking about in Mecca and trade and all that most of them women will polytheist or Christian’s so this is the system of dajjal and even some of our great sheikhs are falling for it
Very hard to find muslim men who are educated, financially independent and sound in religion. Thats why the whole ummah is in problem. Usually muslim men tries to find wealthy families so their son and rest of these men family can be supported.
U spoke the truth. Men don't earn enough, im not telling that people should have a lavish lifestyle , what some men earn is only enough for themselves. But they tell women to do their job properly
It's refreshing to listen to a more balance opinion than the one that is more heavily to one side. No matter what side it is. Woman can't work just doesn't make sense to me. Mixing also doesn't make sense to me, basically mixing of gender in today's time has been the norm, especially in work place - i mean there is both woman and man, doesn't mean there's no segregation. Also, people need to think if all woman doesn't work, than who would cater to woman's need? For example nurses or doctor. Who would a woman ask about illness specific to female? Male doctor? What about clothing? What about crime related to woman? No female police officer? Just what the heck with this mentality.
@@tabiakhan9870 By "no mixing" doesn't mean getting invisible around men. It only means when in need, we can interact but with proper manner, no silly talk, straightforward conversation with no eye or physical contact, proper modesty from both the sides. Just being friendly and interacting without any need is not allowed.
Part of "Mixing" is forbidden for both men and women and if you are in a mixed place or work environment that alone is not forbidden but it has certain restrictions that apply for both genders. What I'm trying to say is, there is haram mixing and even if it is existing everywhere, it is still haram. However, mixing within certain limits is still okay. I only refrain from mentioning those limits/restrictions as I know them because I believe it's better if you directly ask a scholar.
@@JohnRambo-dr7rd Yeah, as if we don't get educated, it's only you people, the only educated ones. Rest of the world just rolls on the floor.The entire world doesn't work and function your way. Education and free mixing are two very different things and if you're unable to understand this, free mixing hasn't done any favour to your education.😒
Women used to pray in masjid during prophets (saw) era.....but Today's age doesn't allow us the same....I hope you would've heard the event of ibn Umar vs his son on the same matter..... And same here, it's a completely different environment contrast to the prophetic era so women can't go alone with their sheeps today
Some men try to weaponize their twisted perception of islam against women out of insecurity and the worst part is they do it in a way that makes it seem legitimate
@@hamizulhafiz475 The men cheat way more than the women. Cheat while their wives are at home with their children. Do you talk about that?? You guys forget the guidelines apply to you as well!
@@hamizulhafiz475 and why would you even want to stay with a woman who jumps on the first given opportunity to cheat on you unless ofc their isn't something wrong with you? Would you not rather want a partner who despite of all opportunities never cheats on you and is only loyal to u? Your logic is flawed
Lady Khadijah was a great business woman respected by all in a time where they used to bury girls and treated women like slaves. I understand her family was supportive, but it shows that women have no excuses to submit to oppressive social norms. We can fight it. God has made us worthy we just have to realize it.
The old man and the two daughter’s story was the story bfore Quran and prophet Mohamed SA.and clearly mentioned they waited till men leave the pond snd avoided mixing.
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
@@-S_J- our brother should nt come to our wife,and wives live separately,not with bro inlaws .if some ppl r doing wrong ,is it the explanation of giving permission to do wrong..
@@SS-Sna in asia mostly people live in joint family n lecture on women only, that's y i said. But meeting with namehram in loneliness is restricted, not the public meeting. Correct me if i m wrong with authentic reference.
@@-S_J- correct in india we live in joint family nd it's not allowed to meet alone with in laws but here the culture is different here they think brothers wife is half wife of there's 🥲
This Noman Ali Khaaa advice are dangerous. Breaking family, when women using people like Noman Ali khaa. May Allah guide those who think they are educated in Islam but very far from
So many knowledgeable scholars in these comments. Passing judgement on someone without any proof why they think this person is wrong. Clearly Ramadan has made you better improved version of yourselves.
They are ignorant fools. They treat their women like slaves. They themselves watch porn and ALL other bad stuffs, flirt look at women in lustful way and they moral police women by fatwas and expect women to stay home. Nonsense
The slight issue here is the modern day men have gotten used to wives working to help pay for their own lives or told they must pay towards all family costs. Yet refuse to help either around the home or actually be a father to the children. Some guys wanna hold on being a bachelor they abandon all responsibilities except go to work, no help at home no cooking no spending time with the family, and still expecting the wife to cook all the meals and take care of the family home
There are also Muslim women who have career they work don't cook or clean. Husband and wife both work and they both do household chores 50/50. But wife keep all of her wages and makes husband pay for everything. This is typical women influenced by feminism she wants her islamic rights when it benefits her and doesn't want to have responsiblity. And Allah knows best
@@nobodyisborngayislam islam states not feminism wife money belongs to her and if she wants too spend On her husband she can However husbands are not allowed to demand or use blackmail to eat up/ use the wives money No where in the Quran does it mention it’s a women’s job to cook or clean She and her husband Both get reward for helping out around the house Act of maturity, self respect appreciation and mercy helping in the marital home It’s fake cultural traditions that women do all the household chores Our beloved prophet helping his wives all the time at home and made sure he completed his fard acts as a man which Allah declared on husband Earn an I’ncom provide food a home and clothing for the women in his household
@@nobodyisborngayislam this is not about feminism its simply what’s stated by Allah. Please tell me which part in Quran or hadith or anything prophets said that women are the ones who should cook or clean? That’s not just her job, but both of the spouse. Prophet Muhammad helped his wife with house chores too. But about money, yes. Yours belong to her and hers belong to her. Just say you’re mad at women getting advantage
@@nobodyisborngayislam please don't get married until you understand that your wife's money is hers and your money is also hers LOL, she should not pay for anything, YOU are the provider, not her.
@@nobodyisborngayislam so a woman doesn’t want to be treated as a maid at home, that makes her a feminist? Do you know how miserable it is to clean up after 3 toddlers and another grown man child? I despise this argument because people who hide behind this thinking view women as objects that serve men only. If the Prophet Mohammad SAW used to wash his own clothes, make his own food, and raise his children, ( AND THIS WAS THE PROPHET WHO WAS BUSY SPREADING ISLAM) then so can any man. There is literally no excuse for a man to whine about cleaning after himself and raising the kids he impregnated his wife with. This is EXACTLY why Allah gave us so many rights; it’s to protect us women from men like this because unfortunately, we are under the mercy of our husband or our mahrams. As I type, I’m applying for a job so I can bring in my own money to fulfill my needs and wants bc my husband hasn’t been since we got married. Financial abuse is the number 1 reason couples get divorced, even in Islam.
I made a video (you can’t see it now because I deleted my channel) that was basically about how children act in the masjid, it was supposed to be a funny joke but someone took it to seriously and said “why are you going to the masjid when you’re a woman? The prophet (saw) said women should pray at home” and “you shouldn’t bring children to the mosque regardless because they’ll disturb people who are praying”. I told them as nicely as I could that Muhammad (saw) like children going to the mosque and said you should never ban women from going to the mosque. I usually go there because my father goes to the mosque and so do my siblings and my mother sometimes goes but usually she stays home because she’s cooking or taking care of our cats. She always encourages me to go because she always says that she wants me to get the full reward. They just got mad and kept saying that women SHOULD be ban from mosques because they belong at home. I tried to reason with them but they wouldn’t listen. And that was why I ended up deleting my channel because they were being disrespectful and tried to play “god”. It’s not up to us to say that women should stay home and not do anything, we still get the rewards of praying in the mosque regardless. May Allah forgive these people and help them see that Islam doesn’t say that women belong in the kitchen. I’m not a feminist but I know that women still have rights in Islam because it’s not like how others perceive it to be. May Allah guide us all and forgive our sins. Ameen.
(RA)... She worked briefly until married Muhammad SAW and she already inherited wealth from her former Husbands. Prophet Muhammad SAW never encouraged Khadija RA or women to work
@@tzarak6257 shewas working after marriage stupid. She didn't leave job. Hazart Khadija RA was Prophet Muhammad SAW boss in business. Prophet Muhammad SAW encouraged indirectly bcz she was working after her marriage. Women can work period. Stop being misogynist sexist. U r just misogynist sexist.
@@abdiaismail2449 misogynist sexist. Women can work period. Hazart Khadija was boss of Prophet Muhammad SAW in business. Women can do job. Just stop being conservative
Im glad you’ve said this. Alot of young boys and men follow this guy named Andrew tate and mix his beliefs with islam. Not knowing islam is not for his ideology’s. Islam is the first feminist religion or religion that gives women rights and power over them selves and in some cases over many others. Alhamdulilah i am a muslim!!🤎💕
Women who were working on the time of Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was doing business from home.men were working for them and they were not like todays corporate ladies !! Also you said about the daughter of old man working outside but they were shy to get water for their ships because of other men were there and prophet Musa(pbum) helped those girls.... You can not compare those women to todays women who go out and work in an office with men!! Sorry to say ....Your answer is not genuine .You don't need to please people but please Allah
@@sharminsvlog8875 Time changes. stay-at-home jobs are not always readliy avalible, coming from somone whos father does not practice Islam corrctly and has taken my Islamic rights away, I have to work to help my siblings and umy, the avrage salary for somone in college trying to get a remote job usually pays less than $12 if you're lucky. 12 an hour part time wont put food on the table. I work for the sake of Allah. not for the sake men, and im sure many other women do also, because alot men dont do their Islamic part. I wish I didnt have to work yet here I am by the will of Allah. if you want to tell women to stop working, be their finacial support.
I do agree with you sis so many men dose not fulfill their duty .you are working hard for your family may Allah reward you make it easy for you ameen ,when It is necessary then scholars said you can work in a halal job with proper hijab... I didn't talk about you .I talked in a general sense as a general ruling of Islam.
Alhamdelliah my dad is understanding he said yur not getting married to someone who won’t let you work who won’t let you study. Im at uni now studying to be a surgeon practitioner and my dad is my biggest supporter. I work two jobs and my dad is my biggest supporter and tho I work my dad never once told me give me 1p. Instead I go out and help with shopping and my dad will get upset that I’m spending my money. So I stopped doing that to make my dad happy and just treat my siblings with anything that they want. My uncles/family stopped talking to me bcz I’ve put shame on me and my family🤣🤣. So I’ve told them when your wife/daughter or any female member needs the hospital don’t ask for a female member - who btw is someone else daughter/sister etc Me working is not shameful! Me studying is not shameful. What is shameful is you saying yur Muslim but make yur own rules. 😢 Sorry about my grammar I didn’t check too tired to check it.
@@FactFusionU its always not depends on us ,there are mens who have wrong intensions and try to destroy ur relationship also expects to become closer as possible knowing u r married .there is some limit to stop but after that u feel like u r being to rude and overreacting u take it easy thats all where your sins starts .
Y’all are talking about mixed places but the street is mixed,the shops and the hospitals the transportation everywhere is mixed…that is just not logical. (+ why you think she will be in contact with man a lot it and not wear hijab) I really can’t understand…
It's mixed but we have to follow islamic guidelines in these mixed places, why do you think the most hated place to Allah is the market place? (but not haram to go there), islamic rulings follow preventive measures to bring about a pure society e.g. Men lowering their gaze and women wearing hijab etc
@@sarahnovella4971 there are more than enough female doctors than necessary, and you're speaking as if every single woman in a career is a doctor which is absolutely absurd
Why are people in the comments feel so ENTITLED on deciding what should a women do when your own life is not sorted out and if you think you are doing well you are in jail already. Stop this nonsense
Ur parents are right if u have to work then u work otherwise sit at home and do ur duties in the house no one will marry a women who wants to work and not prioritise the family
@@Oooooooo797But the prophet peace be upon him first wife which is khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work and you as muslim have to understand that women nowadays cant truth men becuase msn marry then they start threatening their wife and cheating on her because its hard to fight for your life as an uneducated especially if you got divorce how are you going to take care of yourself?? And what do you mean by saying nobody would marry you if you work like ?? Are you crazy ???
@@Oooooooo797Ok so i wanna be a teacher in an islamic school. What's wrong with this. And of course if I want to be a teacher then I have to go outside for it. This is the only dream I have left. I have given up on every single dream of mine. But what's wrong if I want to be a teacher. But still my father won't allow me.
I think woman would have all stayed at home if most men weren't controlling cause they are given money from the man and he doesn't recognise that the money he gave her is hers now and the fact that if she left him she will be ruined cause she doesn't have any source of moneys so she won't be able to leave a toxic relationship even worse if he divorced her
Some in laws look down on wives who don't have a job even when the husband earns enough to support the family. It's like why are you useless and freeload off your husband
*What about men going to work where the non-Muslims invite for TGIF Bar Time, wasting tickets to sports shows, theater etc. How about men.leaving Islam? TAKE CARE OF THE MUSLIM MALE and the woman will be automatically saved*
I am sooo just tired of making people understand how important a woman needs to to work in a business , hospital , bank etc in so many areas of work force so that she can serve women . But family comes first obviously and then to serve the society in a way that we shouldn’t mix with other men. Majority of the countries are not Islamic how is “women to serve women only “environment going to work? As a dentist in an western country I cannot say “ I will only treat women patients “ . Hijab is not just a cloth covering our head/ body it’s our consciousness within ourselves not just for women but for men as well! That the beauty of Islam! May Allah protect our hearts , open our minds and make us Understand His Deen in the best way possible!
It is the intention that matters the most.... Keep your intentions pure and For a doctor necessary skinship would not be a sin etc.... Both men and women shouldn't engage in Haram activities for Work... But working is important for both
@@Alevv0104they never had more rights and freedom before Islam. Before Islam women were trade able assets. Khadijah R.A inherited the business from her previous Husband. She hired men to work for her and stayed inside her house. Women were treated as garbage. If you had a daughter that was the biggest shame ever. People would bury their daughters. If you owed a man something and couldn’t pay it off with money you would then give your wife to the man for a night and that’s how the debt would be settled. Women were not respected or treated well before Islam. Do your own research fool.
Sahih al-Bukhari 42 Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "If any one of you improve (follows strictly) his Islamic religion then his good deeds will be rewarded ten times to seven hundred times for each good deed and a bad deed will be recorded as it is."
When a lady wears hijab then Allah sends angels for her protection. Surat al-Ahzab, ayah 59: Oh Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their outer garments close around them. That will be better, that they may be known and so not be bothered. And Allah is oft-forgiving, most merciful. From these two ayat of the Noble Qur'an and from the authentic sources of guidance provided for us, we can derive the following principles of proper dress and adornment for Muslim women: # not bothered means protected.
He is indeed mixing. The home is the best place for the women, this is why we should take from respectable figures of the Deen and not “compassionate imams”
@@redman6790 it is people like you who demand a female doctor for your wives but at the same time say such bullshit in CZcams comment sections. Hypocrite
@@redman6790their is women nowadays that cant truth men so they work indeed becuase they dont want a man who might just break their heart and tou realize if you dont work you might get humilated by husband or threatened and islam tell us to respect eachother and the prophet peace be upon him first wife khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work so...???
@@redman6790If women is in don,t do work who treat female patients,who look after them, Because female should get treat with a from a female,if it a ancient society mid wife go to to women,s house when it needed ,in at the same time they are female educated women who teach women they got education for skme level,get married but we are not living un Society like that,she can stay in home but education is very important because if you have education if your husband fell ill,you can do Classes to little kids, To for expeses,for that female teachers is neeeded,for dressing females Hair dresees needed
Women should be financially independent - it's good to share money if you're in a healthy relationship but if you get divorced or he cheats etc. then how will you pay to divorce?... Where will you stay whilst you divorce him?...Where will you live? And how will you pay for the kids (if you had any)? Those are things that require money so imao every woman should be financially independent.
this push for women working only benefits capitalism because it increases a country’s gdp, and this is the measuring stick for “success” today. there is already plenty of work that needs to be done from maintaining the home, raising the children, fulfilling Allah’s rights, and the husband’s rights. i dont see how there is this much free time that a woman would willingly go and work. unless of course sending your children to be raised and indoctrinated in public school then complaining to imams and sheikhs later on why your kids are no longer Muslim. children are an Amanah from Allah and it is the parent’s responsibility to raise them, not the state. We know how we should raise our children from the Sunnah, Alhamdulillah. “Play with them for the first seven years (of their life); then teach them for the next seven years; then advise them for the next seven years (and after that).” *explicit warning* Furthermore, because this feminist and capitalistic movement of everybody working, now the husband no longer has his Halal to come home to because she is tired or upset from work. this is a slippery slope that can, and does lead to corruption. like the husband now turning to pornography because his wife is not fulfilling what is fard on her i.e obeying her husband. now the husband is committing zina and the wife can be held accountable. if a woman does what is fard on her: 5 daily prayers, fasting Ramadan, hajj and zakat, and obeys her husband and he is pleased with her, she can pick any door to Jannah. Allahu Akbar! not to mention you dont need to wear hijab in your own home, and you can adorn yourself as much as you please for your husband. Mother's are honored in Islam, not "business women". Mother's are what raises the future of this Ummah. Subhan'Allah, look at this responsibility and honor, and you want to forsake all that for what?.. six figure salary? You can always go back to college, you can always start a business from home. There is, however, a time limit for women to have children. And what's better than increasing this Ummah's numbers?
Ya nd where do u find a husband that respects you, protects you and also provides for u, nowadays men are so lazy and have astray too and cos of that the women's who wants to please Allah by worshipping him nd pleasing her husband have to go out and work.
Women having careers is great and all, but they should never priorities it over the duties towards their husbands and children. Same way how a man must work, provide and protect his wife and children. That's the priority over almost everything else.
@Touhami this comment is quite unfair… many women try hard to take care of their family.. also just for my own knowledge.. is there specific duties cited in Quran for women.. i know men have to provide for their family but for women is there something in The Quran that says their only job is to take care of husband and children.. women have dreams too they want to achieve things too in their life.. and some jobs are better suited for women
@Touhami thanks for the info… if the question if is it better then the answer is it is better.. but nowadays both husband and wives need to work to support their family
@Touhami And who are u to decide someone else's priority in life? If someone has career or work as priority whether men or women there is nothing wrong in that..... This is the reason Muslim community is backward in every field nowadays....
Even then she can go to the masjid and learn her Deen with other women. Women have natural human needs such as socializing and enjoying nature. Instead of restricting women they should build Islamic and healthy spaces for them so they can mix with each other without men. I went to university in Saudi, and one of the best experiences was going to an all women school without worrying about covering up constantly and I could talk naturally. The students would go out in picnics with each other and I felt so blessed as a woman to have that comfortable experience Alhmdullah. We also didn't have to worry about boys and our looks and could fully focus on your studies.
A women needs to have her own earned money, just think asking for every penny from your father or husband everytime, and if they are not their then you don't have anything, even for buying pads for your basic hygiene you need to ask!!!..shit!!
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allaah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688. “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33]. This ayah is addressed to the wives of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم but they are examples for the women believers. And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (567) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood. The wife of Ibn Mas’ud رضي الله عنه said to him “ will you not get me a jilbab?” In which his reply was “sufficient for you is the jilbab that Allah has covered you with your house” (ibn abi dunya islah al-mal pg. 70) I expect people to respond to my comment “which refers the general norm/ruling in regards to this matter) with “what if this?” Or “what if that?” As I see often in these comments. The reality is for the women, that they are closest to Allah when they are in their homes as shaytan beautifies them as they leave the home. But “what if she needs this?” Or “what if she needs that?”
@@avagray9705 i didn’t say it’s haram. With the evidence I have given, it’s clear the foundation and most preferred is that a woman being home is how she attains the pleasure of Allah, thus being granted jannah insha’Allah. The general is that the men are the maintainers and providers of their womenfolk as mentioned in the Quran. As also mentioned in the ahadith i quoted in my comment, the home is better for her, and her merely just going outside, shaytan beautifies them. Can a woman work? Yes if certain conditions are met, but the standard and foundation is man working and providing.
@@astrivingbrother1012 yeah no one's refuting that men should earn and provide but the thing is Allah didn't forbid women to work so how can men folk forbid something Allah didn't. And Muslim brothers should only marry those women who don't want to work if they want housewives. Problem solved
Men are losing their geyhreh (shame) so sad. Women losing their mind to modern society so sad. May Allah subhanahu wa taala guide us to the straight path. Ameen
There are conditions to be observed, which is important and essential It's not like it's Halal to work in mixed place where the Muslim woman would be sitting next to men and chating, or she is dressing nice to show her body, wearing makeup, perfume, high heels And to be honest, as a woman, I think it's soooo hard for us not to do these things, so we can try working from home, not because we are repressed, but because most work environments these days are absolutely not Halal, like which job will allow you to keep your niqab, and not to "look and sound" attractive?? We need to be clear and honest before we say, yes go work anywhere even if you don't need to, because Sahabyat did!! Like WHAT are you talking about!
May Allah strenghen you. We muslims are weak as we should work hard and provide for our families as well as for those who can not work. Because of us (weak muslim man) you have such trial. But you still should try tu make it in halal way.
Salam Sister, i understand where you are coming from but just because you might find it hard to work while not to “show body, wearing high heels” doesn’t represent most women. please speak for yourself and not generalise everyone PS : i completely disagree with Women wearing to “show body” and etc, but to say that EVERY women do that at work is just ridiculous. think carefully, do your parents work? did your mom “show her body” ? Exactly.. think before saying something Sister, peace ✌🏽
@@TimTim-dq2nf bro what are you talking about? Read the sisters comment again and that yours. She does not say EVERY but MOST and jnfortunatelly she has right. Its difficult to find a job for practicing mudlim woman...
@@ibrahimagadjukic7627 not really I’m an engineer woman and I don’t have any problems regarding any of what she said it not that mixed really and every woman in the department is wearing a hijab so…
@@enami_0136 well she did not talk about you, me neither 😊 we talked in general. I would like it is like you say in general but it is not. I live in Europe and a wife of my friend has hijab, she sent hundreds of job applications and get always negative, although she has education and there is need on the market. I can tell you a lot of other similar examples unfortunatelly...
Women can definitely go to work. No problem. But if their husband wants them to not work and stay at home and take care of the house and the children then she can't work. She has to obey her husband or divorce him(if she still wants to work). I don't think i need to explain this . I think every Muslim knows already that a wife has to obey her husband or she will end up in hellfire like the prophet (PBUH) said.
Okay but in our Hindu religion husband must obey and respect his wife and vice versa. They promise to take interests in their interest. This is one of the vows they both take while marrying.
@@agajaa2459 Do you think in Islam men don't need to respect their wives? Of course It is mandatory to respect one's wife. In Islam they also take interest in their interest as long as it is not something haram. Capeesh?
@@sandhikneaj7029 No,I know men respect their wives in Islam but the housewife vs working woman is a common issue faced by every woman... I like your thinking that women can definitely go to work and I just want you to never force ur wife to leave her job.Better to make it clear what you want a housewife or a working wife before marriage cuz you don't have any right to force her to leave her job even if u are her husband. Only she has the right no one else has. If you really want both of u to be happy in a relationship then you can find a solution and make adjustments for everything just by having a proper communication. It's not just a job,it is a dream for someone,the dream that a 4-5 year old soul carried in her eyes,worked 10-15 hours daily to achieve it and then her life partner with whom she has to spend her whole life,apart from whom no one in the world is going to support her,understand her will take away her dreams...she will be completely broken if the person whom she expected to support her in this situation the most will suddenly turn against her and destroy her dreams....her years of hardwork,her purpose will be ruined. No,no innocent soul needs to suffer that.
@@agajaa2459 I understand what you mean. First of all i will only marry a woman who practices Islam like i do. I won't settle for less than that. She has to be a practicing Muslim like me or more than me. That's one. Secondly if she is a practicing Muslim she will know what her rights are and what my rights are as a husband according to Islam. If these things are followed i will never face a situation where my wife will want to work without my permission. But for arguments sake. Let's say a Muslim man faces such a situation where his wife wants to work even when her husband doesn't want her to work. What should he do then? He will talk it out with her parents. If that doesn't work out. Then he has the full right to divorce such woman who is disobedient to her husband. As for a Muslim woman who wants to follow her dreams( Given that she also practices Islam) then she has to marry a guy who has no problem with her working. If she is not a practicing Muslim in the first place then she should marry a disbeliever.
@@reyes8143 are you a 2 yr old? It is fardh to obey to parents. All women too must obey their mothers, a man filled with masculinity will for sure obey his mother. Like your son Will obey you. Mother vs wife problems lie only in the subcontinent,in countries India and Pakistan. Real muslim men know to handle it. And real muslim men try finding a real muslim woman not any hypocrite woman with no knowledge of Deen, fighting for her courier, and finances except for the Qur'an, ilm ad deen
We should seek knowledge from the scholars who have learned from previous scholars who have also learned from previous scholars. Truly we are in times of fitnah. Many Shaykhs but little knowledge, the basis according to majority of scholars is that women should stay at home. Their prayer is best prayed in the inner most corner of her house. There is necessity and need which allows women to leave the house such as attending Friday prayers etc. But staying at home is the basis. It is not ridiculous and we should be afraid of our speech when talking about the Deen of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala. And Success is only with Allah. May Allah guide us all.
Your example from the Quran is misleading. The two girls went out and did the work cuz their father is old and weak. And these are the guidelines. If there are no mahram men who can work, and there’s fear of starvation, then women can go work. That’s according to Islam. You don’t need to stroke westerner’s feelings by misquoting and misleading our religion. There are many reasons why this is the case. Work on explaining the reasons instead of misinterpreting Islam
This is a false. Yes women can work, however it’s not the main responsibility as man are the financially responsible for the household. Women have the noble job of raising the kids which is more important as the women raises the next generation for the ummah. Many of the great scholars like Imam Bukhari, Imam Shafi and Imam Ahmad credit their mums as they developed them to becoming scholars. As for the daughters of Madian, they had to work because the father is unable to, however when Moses alayhi Salam helped them, they advise their father to hire him to work. Now we do we need female doctors, teachers etc however we shouldn’t make it a standard that women need to work.
As Salaam alaikum Sir nouman I have to tell you that, unfortunately no one will agree this statement of yours becoz people have fixed mindset that if women work nowadays she is going to be irreligious and commit zina and all She can indulge in all bad stuff in a short time Allah hu Akbar It is also true But one big truth is if any women knows who she is properly and what is her responsibility she will NEVER EVER indulge in such things and be the human she must be for sure May Allah SWT bless us all always with good akhlaq so that we atleast try to understand what is the thing we must do as assigned to us Ameen
But the prophet peace be upon him first wife which is khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work and you as muslim have to understand that women nowadays cant truth men becuase msn marry then they start threatening their wife and cheating on her because its hard to fight for your life as an uneducated especially if you got divorce how are you going to take care of yourself?? You said women make zina in work SO DOES THE MAN WHAT ARE YOU SAYING
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [al-Ahzaab 33:33].
@@JigglyPlatypus Verse was revealed to them but it not restricted to them if you search tafsir. Just like verse to stop drinking alcohol was revealed to Sahaba of Medina but applies to all believers, all cities, and for all time till Judgement Day.
@@reyes8143 Many women like who? Can you name some? Also there is a difference between "making money" and going out of the house to work with men. Khadija (ra) was a business woman who was "making money" but she had the Prophet (pbuh) conduct the business on her behalf.
One of the worst problems is that Muslim men care too much about what God says when it comes to women but, care the least when it comes to themselves!
Truee, they use "Islam" to get a second wife then don't give her, her rights.
@@meatball5887 so many muslim women arent happy in their marriage already because of this mentality today .
Imagine trying to fullfill the emotionnal need of 2 if you cannot even deal with your actual wife .
Yes god also says men should hava beard in islam but no muslim forces men
@@ahl12366 I've "forced" any man I have authority over to keep a beard. Can I do the same for women and hijab? You people truly are champions of whataboutism. One thing being wrong doesn't make another thing right
Men like that r always backward, no one listens to them😂 male dominancy has ended we're in 21 century
I pray there should be a person like him in Muslim families.... Mashallah
True
Ma Sha Allah*
Imagine there is Muslim women with no Mahram in her family (They died etc) The people in comments would prefer she should die out of starvation at home rather than going out and work. Shame on Muslims for playing 'God' by deciding who will go to hell (nauzubillah), forcing religion on everyone and using religion in wrong way to control their womens. Seriously, Allah gave us Mahram to make us feel safe and protected but we feel unsafe by our own men.
Brother and sisters, there are term and conditions for men too, when they go outside to work. In 21st century, y'all are complaining about world becoming mixed and here men is scared of men. We gotta keep our boys safe too, so they doesn't get sexual harassed by another man
If you couldn't tell, nobody cares about men
Finally a logical argument. I'm a lawyer, I have had to work with both genders. Yes, law offices are mixed. Most Court system are mixed. This is 21st century. As long as your faith and ethics are strong, you will not allow anyone to harm you. If they try to harass you, sue them or file a complaint, take action. :)
Also, we can't compare 21st century with how things were 1400 + years ago. People evolve, society evolve, technology evolves, mentality evolves.
Allah is the most wise and merciful, and Allah makes exception for us in emergency. Even pork is halal if we are dying and no other thing to eat, but with conditions.
So just do our best with our best intentions, always ask forgiveness and surrender everything to Allah.
Wallahu a’lam bishshawab
@@pseudocolor Emergency or not, Islam never put any impediments in the path of a woman who wants to work. However, Allah asked male members of her family to do it for her and it is very stupidity of Muslim men to interpret whole different meaning that "women aren't allowed" just because of that. Allah never forbid women to work outside nor mentioned it in any verses of Quran or Hadith. "Women are prohibited to work outside" Just find something similar like this sentence in Quran or Sunnah then come and talk to me.
@@aurrafirelilly7766 May Allah guide , it is sign of qayamah people will interpret words of Allah which Allah did not say , may Allah guide you
The wife of Ayyub alaihissalam also worked when her husband was sick
When her husband was sick. Ok
@@Intellectual_Indian27 yes and if women arent working already how will they find peoper jobs except lowest paying ones
@@Intellectual_Indian27 am not working for him lol 😂 am gonna work if he's fully healthy or not coz am working for myself what can he change?
@@alphafish4756don’t matter islam isn’t based of ifs when it happens u deal with it u can survive on those jobs
Brother, there are fields women are needed in, such as nursing, teaching, clothing, retail, doctors, and daycare. If women do not fill these positions, they won't have anyone who needs them take those jobs, as men generally don't work in those fields nor interested.
Wow. This comment section is filled with scholarly figures, Masha'Allah.
That's exactly why the Ummah is flourishing right now.
Im sorry, I really have no idea whether you are truly complimenting the comments/commenter or it's a sarcasm 😁
@@pseudocolor same
@@pseudocolor assume the best brother.
@@pseudocolor it’s sarcasm lol
It's filled with salafis who believe women should be locked up, never get education cause going to college will make them apostates and they should even dream of working according to them
Alhamdullilah! I love how Islam empowers Muslim women!
Just like in Afghanistan
Alhamdulillah it empowers Women but not how modern society empower
Then why women has to obey their husbands? So basically if he says dont work she cant..
@@MsKingusbaby1 but the husband must also provide for her and her children there are equal roles and guidelines for both men and women
@@MsKingusbaby1 because just like the captain of the ship, a man takes full responsability if anything goes wrong. Big risk big reward.
Women in charge will do what politicians or weak men are known to do in times of strife, hide and find excuses. We protect women but ask for their trust in return. It s a fair trade.
There are actually certain professions where women are required. Gynacologist, female doctor, female police, female teacher etc. It is best to avoid jobs in which mix-gathering is required, but women can still do it if they follow all the terms & conditions of Islam. Men have to follow them too! If a woman can do an online business, she should always avoid jobs that involve mix-gatherings. Hazrat Khadija(RA) was a business woman too.
Women who were working on the time of Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was doing business from home.men were working for them and they were not like todays corporate ladies !!
Also you said about the daughter of old man working outside but they were shy to get water for their ships because of other men were there and prophet Musa(pbum) helped those girls....
You can not compare those women to todays women who go out and work in an office with men!!
Sorry to say ....nouman ali khans answer is not genuine .You don't need to please people but please Allah
@@sharminsvlog8875tell me the genuine answer please
Hello. Some women were widowed and had to work.
This I agree with
I'm a house-maid 🤭 so my job n work is inside the house
In syaa ALLAH,,,,, it's Halal job that I can do since I'm 16 year's old until now almost 41 year's old 🙂
It is also necessary to point out that "mixing" between both genders in a certain way is forbidden for both men and women and not women alone. Mixing within certain limits and restrictions is allowed for men and women. Jobs that require any type of forbidden mixing are still haram for men to do. Also, a woman is free to decide whether she wants to work or not as long as the work she desires is in a halal environment. It is better for her to stay at home but she is allowed to work if she wants to. And Allah knows best
What?! You mean to tell me that men cannot do haram either? There are a lot of men who are just using religion when it’s convenient to them. But you have men crying about ‘feminists’ who use religion when it’s convenient lol
I think remote work is the most ideal.. WFH is near.
Men have to provide so mixing sometimes has to happen where as women don’t and choose to sin
@@Oooooooo797 and when the women has to mix to help his family its haram whats this double standard? so when a well is full of women and all are lined up to get water the man can just barg in and grab his water and go are you even Muslim?
@@Oooooooo797as if men don't sin
It is funny how Muslim men wants to respected by their wives but yet they don’t comply with the Islamic rules because under estimate a women power but example is The mother of mumiin khadija R.A. Was a merchant so don’t judge the women and a woman goes out does something bad then that is for her own soul problem in the world and the hereafter but education is equally important for men and women and work is essential for any human beings
اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِي ذَنْبِي كُلَّهُ، دِقَّهُ وَجِلَّهُ، وَأَوَّلَهُ وَآخِرَهُ وَعَلَانِيَتَهُ وَسِرَّهُ
I promise to myself that my future generation will never face the problems I'm facing today.
For example?
Elaborate
I believe as woman we are created equal in God eyes. But man who is the head just abuse their role too much.
Not my man ❤️
@@nooort we you found your prefect half.
@@slashgamer4755 well it about the character. And because these people rush things too much . It just two weeks and they married.
@@slashgamer4755 that so true
Woman and man are equal in value but we r totally different in other things, physically biologically mentally ect including our role and function and this doesnt mean woman are less of value than man no def no how can we compare somth when its different. Staying home, taking care of the family ,the home, raising kids, supporting the husband ect is the best thing for a woman , we can go out and work but its much more preferable to stay home
I would recommend reading a book called "a woman s guide to raising a family by shaykh salih al fawzen" a simple book straight to the point with dalel
There s also "you can be the happiest woman in the world"
In the very example cited, the women who went "to work" was out of necessity that their father was elderly, and stopped when Musa (AS) had married one of them, as he then took those duties. And Even then, as they "went to work," the Qur'an explicitly explains that they did NOT free mix as the workplaces of today frequently require. They purposefully waited for the men to leave the well.
Edit: ALSO add that they did NOT do even a hint of tabarujj as the example in the Quran clearly teaches as an example for women to follow. They walked behind Musa (AS) as a non-mahram, and guided him by minimal speech.
Please use the citation exactly as its presented. TEXT OVER CONTEXT.
then how about those women in Madinah? at the time of the Prophet SAW? are they also go "to work" just because all of their fathers are sick? lol
out of curiosity... if women shouldn't work or only allowed to work when it's the situation like you described... tell me who'll be the doctors that's gonna treat those pregnant women? so (if you're a man) you're okay with male doctors assisting your wife giving birth? monthly check ups? how about female nurses? police women? you know.. body searching and all... 💁 but hey.. if you don't care good for you i guess 😏
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
@@sarahnovella4971 @**S*J**** Sisters, its not that women should not work, but rather women are not obligated to. Its that Women should not free-mix or do tabarujj. Given the envirnments of today in non-muslim society, its not a very easy thing to circumvent.
@@Precipica we have to circumvent todays norms and make a new normal.
@@sarahnovella4971 how did women give birth back then how did women get checked up back then? It’s not like women just started giving birth and all that that’s lazy excuse to give women reason to work and the women he’s talking about in Mecca and trade and all that most of them women will polytheist or Christian’s so this is the system of dajjal and even some of our great sheikhs are falling for it
So happy my religion is so beautiful Alhamdollilah we should study history in detail and also about our religion to make our life easy and beautiful
Mother Khadija was managing Business , she was an Entrepreneur herself....period
She didn’t mix with men but managed it from home… period
that was before she became a muslim.
she didnt work outside. she hired men to do all the job.
She had hired men to do the job
Omg just kill me already no wonder the world is doomed🤦
Very hard to find muslim men who are educated, financially independent and sound in religion. Thats why the whole ummah is in problem. Usually muslim men tries to find wealthy families so their son and rest of these men family can be supported.
He's definitely not the only one I've heard to explain this but it is important that we have balance
@@latishiaeddarif2888 who do you mean by he?
Well, you don't know much Men i assume
I could say the same thing about women, but it will lead nowhere. Maybe stop talking shit and generalizing?
U spoke the truth. Men don't earn enough, im not telling that people should have a lavish lifestyle , what some men earn is only enough for themselves. But they tell women to do their job properly
It's refreshing to listen to a more balance opinion than the one that is more heavily to one side. No matter what side it is. Woman can't work just doesn't make sense to me. Mixing also doesn't make sense to me, basically mixing of gender in today's time has been the norm, especially in work place - i mean there is both woman and man, doesn't mean there's no segregation. Also, people need to think if all woman doesn't work, than who would cater to woman's need? For example nurses or doctor. Who would a woman ask about illness specific to female? Male doctor? What about clothing? What about crime related to woman? No female police officer? Just what the heck with this mentality.
How are people supposed to work in teams if they're not allowed to mix?
@@tabiakhan9870 By "no mixing" doesn't mean getting invisible around men. It only means when in need, we can interact but with proper manner, no silly talk, straightforward conversation with no eye or physical contact, proper modesty from both the sides. Just being friendly and interacting without any need is not allowed.
@@notanyonesconcern1996 so basically being... educated
Part of "Mixing" is forbidden for both men and women and if you are in a mixed place or work environment that alone is not forbidden but it has certain restrictions that apply for both genders. What I'm trying to say is, there is haram mixing and even if it is existing everywhere, it is still haram. However, mixing within certain limits is still okay. I only refrain from mentioning those limits/restrictions as I know them because I believe it's better if you directly ask a scholar.
@@JohnRambo-dr7rd Yeah, as if we don't get educated, it's only you people, the only educated ones. Rest of the world just rolls on the floor.The entire world doesn't work and function your way. Education and free mixing are two very different things and if you're unable to understand this, free mixing hasn't done any favour to your education.😒
Alhamdulillah ala kulli haal🤲🏻
Women used to pray in masjid during prophets (saw) era.....but Today's age doesn't allow us the same....I hope you would've heard the event of ibn Umar vs his son on the same matter.....
And same here, it's a completely different environment contrast to the prophetic era so women can't go alone with their sheeps today
Their are still masjids with women's section but I think only in India, pakistan and other south asian countries masjids are only for men
What ? That’s weird we have masjid of man and woman with different doors in different directions it allowed in islam
@@enami_0136 ya... But in india 🙅nope!!!
@@HappySoul8900 yeah it's sad.
@@kalims2775 🙃
Some men try to weaponize their twisted perception of islam against women out of insecurity and the worst part is they do it in a way that makes it seem legitimate
Do you have any idea how many women cheating at workplace?
Men use Islam to oppress women
@@hamizulhafiz475 The men cheat way more than the women. Cheat while their wives are at home with their children. Do you talk about that?? You guys forget the guidelines apply to you as well!
@@hamizulhafiz475 do you think men are physically incapable to cheat on their wives in workplaces?
@@hamizulhafiz475 and why would you even want to stay with a woman who jumps on the first given opportunity to cheat on you unless ofc their isn't something wrong with you?
Would you not rather want a partner who despite of all opportunities never cheats on you and is only loyal to u?
Your logic is flawed
Lady Khadijah was a great business woman respected by all in a time where they used to bury girls and treated women like slaves. I understand her family was supportive, but it shows that women have no excuses to submit to oppressive social norms. We can fight it. God has made us worthy we just have to realize it.
Some liberal feminists rubbish. She worked from home that’s fine and also cooked and cleaned if u can work from home and do ur household duties sure
Kid she worked from home the men used to work for her instead of cherry picking things like a liberal feminist read the full story 😂
I agree Sheikh Nouman. May Allah reward you.
He is not a Sheikh. It’s Ustad
The old man and the two daughter’s story was the story bfore Quran and prophet Mohamed SA.and clearly mentioned they waited till men leave the pond snd avoided mixing.
Do your women only meet with their mehrams? Don't your brother come b4 your wife? Where does your "don't mix" theory go when its time to give your wife a separate home??
@@-S_J- our brother should nt come to our wife,and wives live separately,not with bro inlaws .if some ppl r doing wrong ,is it the explanation of giving permission to do wrong..
@@SS-Sna in asia mostly people live in joint family n lecture on women only, that's y i said. But meeting with namehram in loneliness is restricted, not the public meeting. Correct me if i m wrong with authentic reference.
@@-S_J- correct in india we live in joint family nd it's not allowed to meet alone with in laws but here the culture is different here they think brothers wife is half wife of there's 🥲
This Noman Ali Khaaa advice are dangerous. Breaking family, when women using people like Noman Ali khaa. May Allah guide those who think they are educated in Islam but very far from
Someone needs to see this. Shukran
So many knowledgeable scholars in these comments. Passing judgement on someone without any proof why they think this person is wrong. Clearly Ramadan has made you better improved version of yourselves.
this!! as if they have even the 1% of knowledge that Ustad Nouman have
They are ignorant fools. They treat their women like slaves. They themselves watch porn and ALL other bad stuffs, flirt look at women in lustful way and they moral police women by fatwas and expect women to stay home. Nonsense
Noman is actually no Man
He can't work for his womenfolk, so wants others to follow same
@@Ballu12345 what are you even on about?
@Mariam Khan you still provided 0 evidence
May Allah SWT preserve the women of this world
The slight issue here is the modern day men have gotten used to wives working to help pay for their own lives or told they must pay towards all family costs.
Yet refuse to help either around the home or actually be a father to the children.
Some guys wanna hold on being a bachelor they abandon all responsibilities except go to work, no help at home no cooking no spending time with the family, and still expecting the wife to cook all the meals and take care of the family home
There are also Muslim women who have career they work don't cook or clean.
Husband and wife both work and they both do household chores 50/50.
But wife keep all of her wages and makes husband pay for everything.
This is typical women influenced by feminism she wants her islamic rights when it benefits her and doesn't want to have responsiblity.
And Allah knows best
@@nobodyisborngayislam islam states not feminism wife money belongs to her and if she wants too spend On her husband she can
However husbands are not allowed to demand or use blackmail to eat up/ use the wives money
No where in the Quran does it mention it’s a women’s job to cook or clean
She and her husband
Both get reward for helping out around the house
Act of maturity, self respect appreciation and mercy helping in the marital home
It’s fake cultural traditions that women do all the household chores
Our beloved prophet helping his wives all the time at home and made sure he completed his fard acts as a man which Allah declared on husband
Earn an I’ncom provide food a home and clothing for the women in his household
@@nobodyisborngayislam this is not about feminism its simply what’s stated by Allah. Please tell me which part in Quran or hadith or anything prophets said that women are the ones who should cook or clean? That’s not just her job, but both of the spouse. Prophet Muhammad helped his wife with house chores too. But about money, yes. Yours belong to her and hers belong to her. Just say you’re mad at women getting advantage
@@nobodyisborngayislam please don't get married until you understand that your wife's money is hers and your money is also hers LOL, she should not pay for anything, YOU are the provider, not her.
@@nobodyisborngayislam so a woman doesn’t want to be treated as a maid at home, that makes her a feminist? Do you know how miserable it is to clean up after 3 toddlers and another grown man child? I despise this argument because people who hide behind this thinking view women as objects that serve men only. If the Prophet Mohammad SAW used to wash his own clothes, make his own food, and raise his children, ( AND THIS WAS THE PROPHET WHO WAS BUSY SPREADING ISLAM) then so can any man. There is literally no excuse for a man to whine about cleaning after himself and raising the kids he impregnated his wife with. This is EXACTLY why Allah gave us so many rights; it’s to protect us women from men like this because unfortunately, we are under the mercy of our husband or our mahrams. As I type, I’m applying for a job so I can bring in my own money to fulfill my needs and wants bc my husband hasn’t been since we got married. Financial abuse is the number 1 reason couples get divorced, even in Islam.
I made a video (you can’t see it now because I deleted my channel) that was basically about how children act in the masjid, it was supposed to be a funny joke but someone took it to seriously and said “why are you going to the masjid when you’re a woman? The prophet (saw) said women should pray at home” and “you shouldn’t bring children to the mosque regardless because they’ll disturb people who are praying”. I told them as nicely as I could that Muhammad (saw) like children going to the mosque and said you should never ban women from going to the mosque. I usually go there because my father goes to the mosque and so do my siblings and my mother sometimes goes but usually she stays home because she’s cooking or taking care of our cats. She always encourages me to go because she always says that she wants me to get the full reward. They just got mad and kept saying that women SHOULD be ban from mosques because they belong at home. I tried to reason with them but they wouldn’t listen. And that was why I ended up deleting my channel because they were being disrespectful and tried to play “god”. It’s not up to us to say that women should stay home and not do anything, we still get the rewards of praying in the mosque regardless. May Allah forgive these people and help them see that Islam doesn’t say that women belong in the kitchen. I’m not a feminist but I know that women still have rights in Islam because it’s not like how others perceive it to be. May Allah guide us all and forgive our sins. Ameen.
I always remember, even khadijah did work and trade
(RA)...
She worked briefly until married Muhammad SAW and she already inherited wealth from her former Husbands.
Prophet Muhammad SAW never encouraged Khadija RA or women to work
She had a man doing her job...she was home
@@abdiaismail2449 stupid she was working.
@@tzarak6257 shewas working after marriage stupid. She didn't leave job. Hazart Khadija RA was Prophet Muhammad SAW boss in business. Prophet Muhammad SAW encouraged indirectly bcz she was working after her marriage. Women can work period. Stop being misogynist sexist. U r just misogynist sexist.
@@abdiaismail2449 misogynist sexist. Women can work period. Hazart Khadija was boss of Prophet Muhammad SAW in business. Women can do job. Just stop being conservative
Im glad you’ve said this. Alot of young boys and men follow this guy named Andrew tate and mix his beliefs with islam.
Not knowing islam is not for his ideology’s. Islam is the first feminist religion or religion that gives women rights and power over them selves and in some cases over many others.
Alhamdulilah i am a muslim!!🤎💕
Women who were working on the time of Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam was doing business from home.men were working for them and they were not like todays corporate ladies !!
Also you said about the daughter of old man working outside but they were shy to get water for their ships because of other men were there and prophet Musa(pbum) helped those girls....
You can not compare those women to todays women who go out and work in an office with men!!
Sorry to say ....Your answer is not genuine .You don't need to please people but please Allah
@@sharminsvlog8875 ???
@@sharminsvlog8875 Time changes. stay-at-home jobs are not always readliy avalible, coming from somone whos father does not practice Islam corrctly and has taken my Islamic rights away, I have to work to help my siblings and umy, the avrage salary for somone in college trying to get a remote job usually pays less than $12 if you're lucky. 12 an hour part time wont put food on the table. I work for the sake of Allah. not for the sake men, and im sure many other women do also, because alot men dont do their Islamic part.
I wish I didnt have to work yet here I am by the will of Allah. if you want to tell women to stop working, be their finacial support.
I do agree with you sis so many men dose not fulfill their duty .you are working hard for your family may Allah reward you make it easy for you ameen ,when It is necessary then scholars said you can work in a halal job with proper hijab...
I didn't talk about you .I talked in a general sense as a general ruling of Islam.
@@sharminsvlog8875no they weren’t working from home they were farming aswell so they were outside
Alhamdelliah my dad is understanding he said yur not getting married to someone who won’t let you work who won’t let you study. Im at uni now studying to be a surgeon practitioner and my dad is my biggest supporter. I work two jobs and my dad is my biggest supporter and tho I work my dad never once told me give me 1p. Instead I go out and help with shopping and my dad will get upset that I’m spending my money. So I stopped doing that to make my dad happy and just treat my siblings with anything that they want.
My uncles/family stopped talking to me bcz I’ve put shame on me and my family🤣🤣. So I’ve told them when your wife/daughter or any female member needs the hospital don’t ask for a female member - who btw is someone else daughter/sister etc
Me working is not shameful! Me studying is not shameful.
What is shameful is you saying yur Muslim but make yur own rules. 😢
Sorry about my grammar I didn’t check too tired to check it.
No shame in working. Just observe the hijab and other guidelines. May Allah bless you and give you more success. Ameen
@@FactFusionU its always not depends on us ,there are mens who have wrong intensions and try to destroy ur relationship also expects to become closer as possible knowing u r married .there is some limit to stop but after that u feel like u r being to rude and overreacting u take it easy thats all where your sins starts .
Relatives should mind their own business.
Masha Allah,, you go girl.. May Allah make you succeed 😊
@@amyxxx8525 thank you sis ❤️likewise
Masyallah what an eye opener
Ma shaa Allah, the most satisfying content and the reply of him💝💝💝
Women worked in olden times and they still work nowadays too , too much expense for one person's wage both husband and wife should work
My ex husband didn't want to provide, I was on government welfare system!.
My ex husband did not provide n support so I got rid of him got a khulla went back to college uni got a job brought up a kid too.
لا اله الا الله
Y’all are talking about mixed places but the street is mixed,the shops and the hospitals the transportation everywhere is mixed…that is just not logical. (+ why you think she will be in contact with man a lot it and not wear hijab) I really can’t understand…
but they will be yelling when there are no female doctors to assist their wife 😂
Even their home r mix🙄
@@sarahnovella4971 everyone hates the female medical student until she becomes the only female doctor to treat his wife..
It's mixed but we have to follow islamic guidelines in these mixed places, why do you think the most hated place to Allah is the market place? (but not haram to go there), islamic rulings follow preventive measures to bring about a pure society e.g. Men lowering their gaze and women wearing hijab etc
@@sarahnovella4971 there are more than enough female doctors than necessary, and you're speaking as if every single woman in a career is a doctor which is absolutely absurd
Alhamdulillah, Iam greatful for what Allah has blessed us with❤
Masha Allah
A man not fulfilling duties at home, yet he has the courage to tell a woman not to work.
In conclusion, both spouse must work and tolerate each other
Exactly like my husband
How about women make their own choices
U r rigth 100 %
If she's married, it's upto the husband whether she works or not. It's the law of Allah and how you feel about it doesn't matter.
@@Altair-El-Haddad Simple, don't get married to someone who takes your simple rights like having a job.
@@meatball5887 It's a right in this country
Not in islamic law
ALHAMDULILLAH!
Yes .......... ☺💙☺
Why are people in the comments feel so ENTITLED on deciding what should a women do when your own life is not sorted out and if you think you are doing well you are in jail already. Stop this nonsense
Jail?
As in hellfire, yeah no.
Only Allah decides where you go you are no one to say "you're going to hell"
"You're going to jannah"
Astagfirullah
@@meatball5887 WTF are you doing here go read namaz or pedo some kids
Alhamdulillah, Allah has made me Muslim❤❤❤
My parents should listen this
Ur parents are right if u have to work then u work otherwise sit at home and do ur duties in the house no one will marry a women who wants to work and not prioritise the family
@@Oooooooo797But the prophet peace be upon him first wife which is khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work and you as muslim have to understand that women nowadays cant truth men becuase msn marry then they start threatening their wife and cheating on her because its hard to fight for your life as an uneducated especially if you got divorce how are you going to take care of yourself?? And what do you mean by saying nobody would marry you if you work like ?? Are you crazy ???
@@Oooooooo797Ok so i wanna be a teacher in an islamic school. What's wrong with this. And of course if I want to be a teacher then I have to go outside for it. This is the only dream I have left. I have given up on every single dream of mine. But what's wrong if I want to be a teacher. But still my father won't allow me.
Common sister ,you cannot live outside without a Mahram ,
@@Stargirl__6789you go girl.
I think woman would have all stayed at home if most men weren't controlling cause they are given money from the man and he doesn't recognise that the money he gave her is hers now and the fact that if she left him she will be ruined cause she doesn't have any source of moneys so she won't be able to leave a toxic relationship even worse if he divorced her
If you think like this lease do men a favor stay single
صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم 🌸
🤍اَللهُم صَلِّى عَلَى سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمّد ٍ وَعَلَى آلِ سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمّدٍ🤍
Allahumma solli 'ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa'ala Ali Sayyidina Muhammad
Some in laws look down on wives who don't have a job even when the husband earns enough to support the family. It's like why are you useless and freeload off your husband
Yeah the secular feminist in law and modern western workforce companies who would look down on these womens not the real Islamic law ones
*What about men going to work where the non-Muslims invite for TGIF Bar Time, wasting tickets to sports shows, theater etc. How about men.leaving Islam? TAKE CARE OF THE MUSLIM MALE and the woman will be automatically saved*
Absolutely not
U cannot put 1 bar to stand when one side is empty. It is equally important to maintain both sides
Well actually save both not one
CZcams shorts! Let him do that in a larger video!
I only listen to this man because he the one educated and an amazing speaker
No cuz he speaks what you like that's it 😂he sugarcoat things unlike others so he can have women audience that's it 😂
I am sooo just tired of making people understand how important a woman needs to to work in a business , hospital , bank etc in so many areas of work force so that she can serve women . But family comes first obviously and then to serve the society in a way that we shouldn’t mix with other men. Majority of the countries are not Islamic how is “women to serve women only “environment going to work?
As a dentist in an western country I cannot say “ I will only treat women patients “ .
Hijab is not just a cloth covering our head/ body it’s our consciousness within ourselves not just for women but for men as well! That the beauty of Islam! May Allah protect our hearts , open our minds and make us Understand His Deen in the best way possible!
Exactly u don’t need to work but ur choosing to mix with other men
It is the intention that matters the most.... Keep your intentions pure and For a doctor necessary skinship would not be a sin etc.... Both men and women shouldn't engage in Haram activities for Work... But working is important for both
Free mixing environment is not allowed
Ok.. did this woman really say work in banks
Then stay at home? Maybe
NAK,women working with no choice isn't an argument you should put forward,like the old man and his daughter's.
Khadijah R.A. the first wife of the Prophet S.a.w. was a businesswoman. I believe That was how she met the Prophet.
that was before islam was revealed
@@aminaelo sources?? That's she stopped working after Islam, hurry up
@@aminaeloOh, so women had rights and more freedom before Islam? Interesting.
@@Alevv0104they never had more rights and freedom before Islam. Before Islam women were trade able assets. Khadijah R.A inherited the business from her previous Husband. She hired men to work for her and stayed inside her house. Women were treated as garbage. If you had a daughter that was the biggest shame ever. People would bury their daughters. If you owed a man something and couldn’t pay it off with money you would then give your wife to the man for a night and that’s how the debt would be settled. Women were not respected or treated well before Islam. Do your own research fool.
Subhanallah
Alhamdulillah
Allohu Akbar
SubhanAllah ❤
Sahih al-Bukhari 42
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "If any one of you improve (follows strictly) his Islamic religion then his good deeds will be rewarded ten times to seven hundred times for each good deed and a bad deed will be recorded as it is."
Facts.
When a lady wears hijab then Allah sends angels for her protection.
Surat al-Ahzab, ayah 59:
Oh Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their outer garments close around them. That will be better, that they may be known and so not be bothered. And Allah is oft-forgiving, most merciful.
From these two ayat of the Noble Qur'an and from the authentic sources of guidance provided for us, we can derive the following principles of proper dress and adornment for Muslim women: # not bothered means protected.
بارك الله فيك و جعله في ميزان حسناتك 🌱🌱🌱🌻🌱🌱🌱🌻🌱🌻
Mixing of truthhood with falsehood!
He is indeed mixing. The home is the best place for the women, this is why we should take from respectable figures of the Deen and not “compassionate imams”
@@redman6790 says who?
@@redman6790 it is people like you who demand a female doctor for your wives but at the same time say such bullshit in CZcams comment sections. Hypocrite
@@redman6790their is women nowadays that cant truth men so they work indeed becuase they dont want a man who might just break their heart and tou realize if you dont work you might get humilated by husband or threatened and islam tell us to respect eachother and the prophet peace be upon him first wife khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work so...???
@@redman6790If women is in don,t do work who treat female patients,who look after them,
Because female should get treat with a from a female,if it a ancient society mid wife go to to women,s house when it needed ,in at the same time they are female educated women who teach women they got education for skme level,get married but we are not living un
Society like that,she can stay in home but education is very important because if you have education if your husband fell ill,you can do
Classes to little kids,
To for expeses,for that female teachers is neeeded,for dressing females
Hair dresees needed
Women should be financially independent - it's good to share money if you're in a healthy relationship but if you get divorced or he cheats etc. then how will you pay to divorce?... Where will you stay whilst you divorce him?...Where will you live? And how will you pay for the kids (if you had any)? Those are things that require money so imao every woman should be financially independent.
Alxamdulilaah 🤲❤️
Wow this... Really gives me a different perspective on this man. Very interesting.
this push for women working only benefits capitalism because it increases a country’s gdp, and this is the measuring stick for “success” today.
there is already plenty of work that needs to be done from maintaining the home, raising the children, fulfilling Allah’s rights, and the husband’s rights.
i dont see how there is this much free time that a woman would willingly go and work. unless of course sending your children to be raised and indoctrinated in public school then complaining to imams and sheikhs later on why your kids are no longer Muslim. children are an Amanah from Allah and it is the parent’s responsibility to raise them, not the state.
We know how we should raise our children from the Sunnah, Alhamdulillah. “Play with them for the first seven years (of their life); then teach them for the next seven years; then advise them for the next seven years (and after that).”
*explicit warning*
Furthermore, because this feminist and capitalistic movement of everybody working, now the husband no longer has his Halal to come home to because she is tired or upset from work. this is a slippery slope that can, and does lead to corruption. like the husband now turning to pornography because his wife is not fulfilling what is fard on her i.e obeying her husband. now the husband is committing zina and the wife can be held accountable.
if a woman does what is fard on her: 5 daily prayers, fasting Ramadan, hajj and zakat, and obeys her husband and he is pleased with her, she can pick any door to Jannah. Allahu Akbar!
not to mention you dont need to wear hijab in your own home, and you can adorn yourself as much as you please for your husband.
Mother's are honored in Islam, not "business women". Mother's are what raises the future of this Ummah. Subhan'Allah, look at this responsibility and honor, and you want to forsake all that for what?.. six figure salary?
You can always go back to college, you can always start a business from home. There is, however, a time limit for women to have children. And what's better than increasing this Ummah's numbers?
💯
Totally agreed
Ya nd where do u find a husband that respects you, protects you and also provides for u, nowadays men are so lazy and have astray too and cos of that the women's who wants to please Allah by worshipping him nd pleasing her husband have to go out and work.
I couldn’t have said it better!
It's ok as long as my 💳 is increasing 😂😂
Thank you so much for clearing this out 👍🌟
Jazakallah Khair
Women having careers is great and all, but they should never priorities it over the duties towards their husbands and children.
Same way how a man must work, provide and protect his wife and children. That's the priority over almost everything else.
which part of men abuse their power and authority so women must work for their security do u not get?
@Touhami this comment is quite unfair… many women try hard to take care of their family.. also just for my own knowledge.. is there specific duties cited in Quran for women.. i know men have to provide for their family but for women is there something in The Quran that says their only job is to take care of husband and children.. women have dreams too they want to achieve things too in their life.. and some jobs are better suited for women
@Touhami thanks for the info… if the question if is it better then the answer is it is better.. but nowadays both husband and wives need to work to support their family
@Touhami And who are u to decide someone else's priority in life? If someone has career or work as priority whether men or women there is nothing wrong in that..... This is the reason Muslim community is backward in every field nowadays....
@Touhami u go and comeback and then sleep lol why would she care about u and ur kids why when she do the same she seems bad woman😂😂
May Allah bless you
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Beautifully answered ❤
Jazzakallah khair
When men can provide for whole family and live comfortable, than women can stay at home
Even then she can go to the masjid and learn her Deen with other women. Women have natural human needs such as socializing and enjoying nature. Instead of restricting women they should build Islamic and healthy spaces for them so they can mix with each other without men. I went to university in Saudi, and one of the best experiences was going to an all women school without worrying about covering up constantly and I could talk naturally. The students would go out in picnics with each other and I felt so blessed as a woman to have that comfortable experience Alhmdullah. We also didn't have to worry about boys and our looks and could fully focus on your studies.
A women needs to have her own earned money, just think asking for every penny from your father or husband everytime, and if they are not their then you don't have anything, even for buying pads for your basic hygiene you need to ask!!!..shit!!
@@daizz5500 I agree with you
Exactly
I'm like prophet Muhammed pbah wife Khadijah, I work and make my own money!. Alhumdillah
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allaah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688.
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance”
[al-Ahzaab 33:33].
This ayah is addressed to the wives of the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم but they are examples for the women believers.
And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood (567) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
The wife of Ibn Mas’ud رضي الله عنه said to him “ will you not get me a jilbab?” In which his reply was “sufficient for you is the jilbab that Allah has covered you with your house” (ibn abi dunya islah al-mal pg. 70)
I expect people to respond to my comment “which refers the general norm/ruling in regards to this matter) with “what if this?” Or “what if that?” As I see often in these comments. The reality is for the women, that they are closest to Allah when they are in their homes as shaytan beautifies them as they leave the home. But “what if she needs this?” Or “what if she needs that?”
Ma sha Allah akhi
Agreed
Where is the hadith explicitly saying it's haram forbidden to work outside as a woman
@@avagray9705 i didn’t say it’s haram. With the evidence I have given, it’s clear the foundation and most preferred is that a woman being home is how she attains the pleasure of Allah, thus being granted jannah insha’Allah. The general is that the men are the maintainers and providers of their womenfolk as mentioned in the Quran. As also mentioned in the ahadith i quoted in my comment, the home is better for her, and her merely just going outside, shaytan beautifies them. Can a woman work? Yes if certain conditions are met, but the standard and foundation is man working and providing.
@@astrivingbrother1012 yeah no one's refuting that men should earn and provide but the thing is Allah didn't forbid women to work so how can men folk forbid something Allah didn't.
And Muslim brothers should only marry those women who don't want to work if they want housewives. Problem solved
SubahanAllah JajakAllah
Masshalah it’s great videos
Thanks, this was really needed.
Men are losing their geyhreh (shame) so sad.
Women losing their mind to modern society so sad.
May Allah subhanahu wa taala guide us to the straight path.
Ameen
You got the genders mixed up. It should be women are losing their geyreh and men losing their mind.
@@humayunkobir4998 you are right too, but it starts with men, todays men are losing their masculinity, becoming more tolerant, "Dayouth".
Whats wrong with women working man ? The first wife of the prophet peace be upon him use to work
@@ufyyrud1254 that was before Islam.
Islam prohibits women to work or study in haram environment like free mixing.
@@yamazaki4836Islam prohibits men working in free mixing environment
SubhanAllah
JazakAllah khair for the info
There are conditions to be observed, which is important and essential
It's not like it's Halal to work in mixed place where the Muslim woman would be sitting next to men and chating, or she is dressing nice to show her body, wearing makeup, perfume, high heels
And to be honest, as a woman, I think it's soooo hard for us not to do these things, so we can try working from home, not because we are repressed, but because most work environments these days are absolutely not Halal, like which job will allow you to keep your niqab, and not to "look and sound" attractive??
We need to be clear and honest before we say, yes go work anywhere even if you don't need to, because Sahabyat did!! Like WHAT are you talking about!
May Allah strenghen you. We muslims are weak as we should work hard and provide for our families as well as for those who can not work. Because of us (weak muslim man) you have such trial. But you still should try tu make it in halal way.
Salam Sister, i understand where you are coming from
but just because you might find it hard to work while not to “show body, wearing high heels”
doesn’t represent most women.
please speak for yourself and not generalise everyone
PS : i completely disagree with Women wearing to “show body” and etc, but to say that EVERY women do that at work is just ridiculous.
think carefully, do your parents work? did your mom “show her body” ? Exactly..
think before saying something Sister,
peace ✌🏽
@@TimTim-dq2nf bro what are you talking about? Read the sisters comment again and that yours. She does not say EVERY but MOST and jnfortunatelly she has right. Its difficult to find a job for practicing mudlim woman...
@@ibrahimagadjukic7627 not really I’m an engineer woman and I don’t have any problems regarding any of what she said it not that mixed really and every woman in the department is wearing a hijab so…
@@enami_0136 well she did not talk about you, me neither 😊 we talked in general. I would like it is like you say in general but it is not. I live in Europe and a wife of my friend has hijab, she sent hundreds of job applications and get always negative, although she has education and there is need on the market. I can tell you a lot of other similar examples unfortunatelly...
Women can definitely go to work. No problem. But if their husband wants them to not work and stay at home and take care of the house and the children then she can't work. She has to obey her husband or divorce him(if she still wants to work).
I don't think i need to explain this . I think every Muslim knows already that a wife has to obey her husband or she will end up in hellfire like the prophet (PBUH) said.
Perfect answer boss.
Okay but in our Hindu religion husband must obey and respect his wife and vice versa.
They promise to take interests in their interest.
This is one of the vows they both take while marrying.
@@agajaa2459 Do you think in Islam men don't need to respect their wives? Of course It is mandatory to respect one's wife. In Islam they also take interest in their interest as long as it is not something haram. Capeesh?
@@sandhikneaj7029 No,I know men respect their wives in Islam but the housewife vs working woman is a common issue faced by every woman...
I like your thinking that women can definitely go to work and I just want you to never force ur wife to leave her job.Better to make it clear what you want a housewife or a working wife before marriage cuz you don't have any right to force her to leave her job even if u are her husband.
Only she has the right no one else has.
If you really want both of u to be happy in a relationship then you can find a solution and make adjustments for everything just by having a proper communication.
It's not just a job,it is a dream for someone,the dream that a 4-5 year old soul carried in her eyes,worked 10-15 hours daily to achieve it and then her life partner with whom she has to spend her whole life,apart from whom no one in the world is going to support her,understand her will take away her dreams...she will be completely broken if the person whom she expected to support her in this situation the most will suddenly turn against her and destroy her dreams....her years of hardwork,her purpose will be ruined.
No,no innocent soul needs to suffer that.
@@agajaa2459 I understand what you mean. First of all i will only marry a woman who practices Islam like i do. I won't settle for less than that. She has to be a practicing Muslim like me or more than me. That's one. Secondly if she is a practicing Muslim she will know what her rights are and what my rights are as a husband according to Islam. If these things are followed i will never face a situation where my wife will want to work without my permission.
But for arguments sake. Let's say a Muslim man faces such a situation where his wife wants to work even when her husband doesn't want her to work. What should he do then? He will talk it out with her parents. If that doesn't work out. Then he has the full right to divorce such woman who is disobedient to her husband.
As for a Muslim woman who wants to follow her dreams( Given that she also practices Islam) then she has to marry a guy who has no problem with her working.
If she is not a practicing Muslim in the first place then she should marry a disbeliever.
You are absolutely right.
I was so tensed n got stressed due to this ayah as a woman but jazakallah sir nauman ….now I m feeling good 😌
Feminist Muslim women: I don't have to listen to my husband.
Also Feminist Muslim women to their male managers: Yes, boss. Right away, boss!
Best comment ever!. $uper logic
Lol the husband too😂
And men still listen to their mom lol
@@reyes8143 are you a 2 yr old?
It is fardh to obey to parents. All women too must obey their mothers, a man filled with masculinity will for sure obey his mother. Like your son Will obey you. Mother vs wife problems lie only in the subcontinent,in countries India and Pakistan. Real muslim men know to handle it. And real muslim men try finding a real muslim woman not any hypocrite woman with no knowledge of Deen, fighting for her courier, and finances except for the Qur'an, ilm ad deen
@I Wonder Instead of copying men u could have made use of the potentials that Allah gives exclusively to women.
hi ! can u read this ?
allahuma sallia'la saidina muhammad wa'ala ali muhammad ᥫ᭡
thank you !
May the peace mercy and blessings of ALMIGHTY ALLAH BE WITH YOU AMEEN
Khadija RA, was a wealhty successful entreupeneur when she was married to prophet Muhammad pbuh.
She managed her business at home and she was a stay at home when she got married to rasoolullah sallalahu alayhi wasalam.
Thats why he is my favourite 😍
If a two income household reduces stress, increases mutual respect, and promotes mystery, it’s a good thing.
Promotes mystery ?
@@savingday yes, you don’t always know exactly what your partner is doing or could be doing to better the world
And the children?Will you allow them to be indoctrinated by the system?
😂
We should seek knowledge from the scholars who have learned from previous scholars who have also learned from previous scholars. Truly we are in times of fitnah. Many Shaykhs but little knowledge, the basis according to majority of scholars is that women should stay at home.
Their prayer is best prayed in the inner most corner of her house. There is necessity and need which allows women to leave the house such as attending Friday prayers etc. But staying at home is the basis. It is not ridiculous and we should be afraid of our speech when talking about the Deen of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala. And Success is only with Allah.
May Allah guide us all.
Amen!
A women working should be the exception rather than the rule though
a man talking to women at work should be an exception and not a rule though
Well that’s not how it is in Islam so don’t complain as Allah knows better than you
Your example from the Quran is misleading. The two girls went out and did the work cuz their father is old and weak. And these are the guidelines. If there are no mahram men who can work, and there’s fear of starvation, then women can go work. That’s according to Islam.
You don’t need to stroke westerner’s feelings by misquoting and misleading our religion. There are many reasons why this is the case. Work on explaining the reasons instead of misinterpreting Islam
This is a false. Yes women can work, however it’s not the main responsibility as man are the financially responsible for the household. Women have the noble job of raising the kids which is more important as the women raises the next generation for the ummah. Many of the great scholars like Imam Bukhari, Imam Shafi and Imam Ahmad credit their mums as they developed them to becoming scholars.
As for the daughters of Madian, they had to work because the father is unable to, however when Moses alayhi Salam helped them, they advise their father to hire him to work.
Now we do we need female doctors, teachers etc however we shouldn’t make it a standard that women need to work.
Jazakallah
What a disgusting misrepresentation of hadith.
As Salaam alaikum
Sir nouman
I have to tell you that, unfortunately no one will agree this statement of yours becoz people have fixed mindset that if women work nowadays she is going to be irreligious and commit zina and all
She can indulge in all bad stuff in a short time
Allah hu Akbar
It is also true
But one big truth is if any women knows who she is properly and what is her responsibility she will NEVER EVER indulge in such things and be the human she must be for sure
May Allah SWT bless us all always with good akhlaq so that we atleast try to understand what is the thing we must do as assigned to us
Ameen
But the prophet peace be upon him first wife which is khadija rdiya allah 3anha use to work and you as muslim have to understand that women nowadays cant truth men becuase msn marry then they start threatening their wife and cheating on her because its hard to fight for your life as an uneducated especially if you got divorce how are you going to take care of yourself?? You said women make zina in work SO DOES THE MAN WHAT ARE YOU SAYING
@ari-qd6xj just say you want servants in the shape of wife. If she wont recieve education she will always be submissive to you. Dis gusting
Quran 33:33
May allah grant him a long life...loves❤
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance”
[al-Ahzaab 33:33].
@@JigglyPlatypus Verse was revealed to them but it not restricted to them if you search tafsir. Just like verse to stop drinking alcohol was revealed to Sahaba of Medina but applies to all believers, all cities, and for all time till Judgement Day.
@@JigglyPlatypus what applies to the prophets wives applies to all Muslim women they were supposed to be out role model smh
That is not a valid argument lol since they were still many women who work in that era. So there is no restrictions in women making money.
@@reyes8143 Many women like who? Can you name some? Also there is a difference between "making money" and going out of the house to work with men. Khadija (ra) was a business woman who was "making money" but she had the Prophet (pbuh) conduct the business on her behalf.
@@jb223 regular women used to go out in farms and markets