Role of A Muslim Women in Modern Society | Nouman Ali Khan
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- Role of A Muslim Women in Modern Society | Nouman Ali Khan
Discover Nouman Ali Khan’s insightful take on the evolving role of Muslim women in today's world. From balancing faith and modernity to breaking stereotypes, this discussion provides a deep dive into the contributions and challenges faced by Muslim women in contemporary society.
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I wanna be a government officer, and I was scared that it might go against my religion, so I prayed to Allah yesterday night and today this is in my feed mashallah :)
Allah humma barik. I am a doctor and I'm always tensed about if I can examine male pt.
@@iqra090 of course you can muslim male doctors help women birth and it's totally normalized why should the opposite be a problem
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
Excellent! I wish you the best. But I have a question: what do you have to offer your husband when you get married?
@@mahbubahmed7 please be serious right now pffff
Thankgod someone is speaking it out otherwise nowadays man think that woman only belong to their houses
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The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
God*
I am a phd student and I love doing research. I feel very sad when Islamic scholars say that women should stay at home, maintain the household and raise children. When i think about that life it feels so poisonously boring. With the development of the technology you have washing machine, you have dishwasher, you have vacuum cleaner, and refrigerator. So what is the "work" womoen supposed to do all day? Raise kids? How many? One day the children becomes old enough to go to school. What do you do with the free time? I have seen so many in *strictly* islamic families women are lazy and backbiters, and addicted to tv and cellphones. They don't do anything at home other than making issues in the families. Such a wastage of human resources.
Thank you for talking about the issue
So true..
Right
I agree, many house wives are lazy, backbiters and addicted to tv and smartphones. The only reason they turned out to be like that. Is a lack of knowledge on both deen and dunya, especially deen. But housewives are also like the backbone of a society. Raising a strong ummah depends on strong mothers. Raising kids the right way in this world of fitnah isn't a joke, raising kids is a 24hr job itself. I dunno how come, a paid job is a job but raising with proper care and moral values isn't?
You don wanna raise kids, being a housewife sickens you, yeah that's you. But there are women who may not want to be career women instead they want to be housewives which is a great choice of career. Even if they have a career, then they want to quit after marriage of having kids, that's an excellent choice and great selflessness. Housewives are the nurturers of future nations, they are the main future builders of nations. The more knowledgeable (both in dunya and deen) mothers we will have the stronger the ummah will be. Raising kids with Islamic teaching by being a stay at home mother is also like contributing to society and deen. And that's the biggest responsibility we have as women. Mother's get 50% more importance than fathers in Islam cause their role is that big and more important in a child's life.
Yeah we women should gain knowledge and try to have a career for a period of time. But building a strong ummah raising both our daughters and sons with Islamic values and teaching is our biggest responsibility. Also leaving pious kids is like sadkah that you will keep being rewarded even after death.
A muslimah can teach children she can become dr
Its is not forbidden but running in between men without veil to stop getting bored at home is not allowed
@@humayaislam9671 sorry but you didn't understand my pov. What do the women do in their free time if the kids start going to school and having their own lives? And with the development of technology there are not many things to do by hand in the home. It's not like I never stayed at home at all- I was a stay at home wife for over a year. And I know there is not much to do at home other than cooking and cleaning. It is such a waste of human resources to use all day just to cook and clean. So if you want to keep yourself busy you have to constantly give birth to kids till you stay fertile. Otherwise - no, there is not much work once the kids start having their lives- let alone become adults and leave the home. Even if you have kids till you are 45-50, there is a long lonely life ahead- watching TV and sulking at the kids that they don't visit you often.
It’s interesting that he mentions Malaysia and Indonesia as good examples of women actively participating in society and having rights because traditional Malay culture is a matriarch which is very different from the other Arab countries we are familiar with like Saudi, Yemen etc which have traditional patriarchal systems. Malays have always honoured women and it’s been taught culturally, so for Islam to support these already existing traditions is a no-brainer.
It is even documented that prior to the Prophet (SAW) introducing Islam to Mecca, the people were corrupt and treated the women and girls absolutely terribly. Islam was a way to teach them and reform them, that women have human rights as well.
I am an attorney and a Muslim woman. As a follower of the teachings of Dr. Israr Ahmed, Radhiallahu ta'ala Anhu, I have frequently sought guidance on the internet regarding the suitability of the legal profession for women. Today, while viewing this particular video, I found the answer I had been seeking. I am profoundly grateful for this enlightenment. May God bless you. Thank you very much. ❤
Assalamualaikum
Don't say RadhiAllahu Ta'Ala Anhu for Dr Israr. RadhiAllahu Anhu is used for sahaba and great men and woman during Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam
Like Aisha RadhiAllahu Anhu, AbuBakr RadhiAllahu Anhu,etc
It's not for scholars or normal people and Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala knows best
As a women you are equal to men and that's awesome that you are an attorney
Because you were not seeking guidance you were looking for something which gives you proof that you are not wrong.
I have been going through the same thing In law college. Alhamdulillah gonna graduate soon and finding clarity.
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
Yess.. even Caliphate Umar bin Kattab (Radiallahu anhu) appointed a muslimah (asy-syifa bint Abdullah Al-alawiya) to became the supervisor/head of the market.
Thank you for this info.
Actually there's no evidence of it. So stop spreading information without it being verified.
Then you should verify first and then write this comment. @@samaryaqeen8893
The day nouman ali khan Said and promoted "Music is not Haram " "where is the Hadith "
The moment he caused THIS great Fitnah into this End of time world, while Gen Z are already lost and You made them more lost, more into sins by his Statement
From that point onwards Nouman Ali Khan Lost Respect of Actual Muslims
And now he is trying to create more Fitnah by Bringing Females out of Their households and into Workplace and next thing you know, boom "feminism"
Just remember a girl who earns, a girl who leave house, doing work outside leaving her children and husband and most importantly Going Against Shariah,
She has no point, no chance hearing her Husband and obeying her husband,
Why would she?
He earns,
She earns
His money for all family members
Her money is only for her
Islam prohibited and stops problem from the roots,
And 21st century feminism didnt suddenly boom day,
The day Dad, mom, parents, guardians allowed females to come out in the workspace with the non mahram
That was the stepping Stone and first step for feminism.
Lets pray and make Dua for Nouman Ali Khan that, may Allah guide him and guiyus into straight path, Amin.
And stop these fitnahs and provocative things.
@@samaryaqeen8893 Lol liar
Every Muslim man today should see this video and know this. Barak Allah fika ya sheikh
There is a saying - a dogs tail never becomes straight it was bend and it will always be bend... Better we teach our sons to respect women and treat them like human beings from a young age...
@@jamshedkarai5524what’s wrong with women waking up.? Q bardasht karain tum mardo ki ayashian? Apna Islam apnay pas rakho.
"We are meant to feel less" is exactly the feeling sexist societies using religion are imposing on women when religion itself encourages women to be an active part of society, have a voice within the modesty of Islam of course but still live up to our potential. It makes me sick to my stomach to see how little truly understand (or are willing to understand) this issue. As a woman and a mother, I set the example to my children that I can be a dedicated mother and still live up to my potential by contributing to making society grow and be stronger.
MashaAllah
Make sure you aren't servile to your boss and respect your husband
@@yuppieyup8188 we as people should respect each other generally it seems like u have some problems that needs to addressed
@@noordonia7082 what are those problems lil sis
@@yuppieyup8188 you should understand that it's the norm to respect other people unless they are being disrespectful to u little brother
We are such a misunderstood religion. Islam is not getting enough credit for being such a beautiful religion. People have so many stereotypes because there are so many fellow Muslims who think this way. I admire and respect Hazrat Khadija Raziallahu Tanahu and all Prophet Muhammad's wives (PBUH) because of their lifestyle and independence even in such an era. Hazrat Aisha Raziallahu Tanahu was the mother of Ummah and is said to be the most intelligent scholar in Islamic history. She was so special that Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) had a prophesized dream about her. He had gotten married to her early because of that same dream.
sheikh nouman is truly what this ummah needs💞✨
May Allah give the worst of jahannum to the men who think that their wives are not even worth giving the respect given to a servant... May Allah give justice to the women who suffer 😢
@jamshedkarai5524 Question. Why in the world did she marry a guy with that kind of personality or mindset? & Why couldn't she choose someone who had similar aspirations?
@@jamshedkarai5524 this is so wrong man , women should be asked whether they want to marry or not , women should be asked whether they want to marry that certain guy or not
Marriages are not supposed to be done forcefully 😭
@@jamshedkarai5524 imo women should only listen to their husband if he is saying things that are right & align with the ways of Islam and they should politely decline their in-laws if they want to
And yeah forced marriage shouldn't be done but I think it's common in India & Pakistan
Not only in Muslim families but in other religion's families too
A daughter is looked at as an liability or an additional weight in family & they just do the marriage to do away with them once they're of certain age
@@jamshedkarai5524 yeah ik I am from India too
You get what you allow
Also make sure you don't marry that kind of man and learn about his personality before marriage
Even if he lie you still have intuition and can tell
I it's late, it's better to have divorce, usually the second husband are better than the first
I cried I cried and I cried!!! NO WORDS left! ❤
Don't cry and don't follow him blindly. Read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and do your research.
@@mahbubahmed7umm why not?
I wish Pakistani system understand it
Right
I wish...
It’s not only Pakistani sister it’s problem with some of Muslims too 😢😢😢
It’s unfortunate because people just follow culture rather than follow Islam.
@@CatShak right now the temperature of Lahore is 47 and every one is getting sick but no precaution has been nade
Thank you so much to the wonderful Nouman Ali Khan who shares the teachings of the Quran so clearly and uses examples to make it easy to understand. So many Muslims are deeply rooted in culture as opposed to our beautiful religion which means so many girls and women are bereft of education as well as work opportunities. May Allah bless you and all of us 🙏🏼
JazakAllahu Khairan Kaseer Sir Nouman. I have been feeling this identity crisis for a long time now just because the scholars literally portray women as lesser beings... They conflate the messages of Surah Ahzab and present them to reinforce the idea that women are just to serve men at homes.... I feel sad and disappointed that they are scholars and still misunderstand the messages regarding women. Allah created women as allies of men, and not lesser human beings, and He has Told us in the Quran Himself. Allahu Akbar ❤
Ma sha Allah
Jazak Allah kheer brother 😊
This Video made my day and Eid Mubarak to everyone.
Thank you very much shaikh! As a girl child I was very worried about this matter and has always thought why society is putting so much pressure on us. I didn't knew what Islam says about it. But now I got it. Thank you very much once again to enhance my knowledge and give us females empowerment😊
Don't blindly follow anyone. Before forming an opinion, read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and conduct your research on the topic.
@@mahbubahmed7yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone. Be it a man or women. And yeah I will pursue my education and will make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limits. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad Al fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody. He is also a scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and are blinded by worldly affairs (same goes to the man as well). Thank you.
@@mahbubahmed7Yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my Mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone, be it a man or women. And yeah i will pursue my education and make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limit. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad al-fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody, he is a profound scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and blinded by worldly affairs. ( same goes to the man as well) thank you.
Yes brother I have read the ayat that you recommended me and I don't deny the fact that is written. But I want to clarify that I don't blindly follow anybody. I follow Islam. Plus I am not doing anything that is considered haram in Islam. I wore burqha whenever I go out, I go out with my Mehram. I pursue education and it's a right given by Islam. Islam never restrict anyone, be it a man or women. And yeah i will pursue my education and make my career and it's not a bad thing because I am not doing anything bad. I am in my limit. Khadija ra was a business women, the first university established in the world is by Muslim women (Fatima bint Muhammad al-fihriya) . My intention is pure as well as my act. And I want to tell you that nouman Ali sir is not a nobody, he is a profound scholar. So, it's better to give your recommendation to the girls who are in need and blinded by worldly affairs. ( same goes to the man as well) thank you.
NAK is not a sheikh or a faqih, seek fatwas from scholars
MashahAllah this was needed! JazakAllah
Thanks for this video, needed it the most! And I'm really grateful to Allah for being a Muslim woman ❤
Jazak Allah khair Noman sir
Mashallah!
Thank you Nouman 🥲
Amazing words
Subhan Allah . yaa dear ustadth what i was injoyed about the countrey talking about Allaah make it easy for us Ameen☝️🤲🤲 jazak Allahu keyren.
Ohhhh my brother 😭😭😭❤...how grateful I am to Allah SWT for guiding you to this relieving understanding and conclusion 🙏 I enjoyed this lecture a lot. Jazaka Allah a thousand kears 🌸🙏
Thank you ustaad...i owe you a big thanku...
very refreshing.....
Yeah i wish all muslim men understand this😢
If this is Islam men will obey but this isn't.
@@asimsajjad4002and u know that bc you study the quran your whole life like he?
@@ellas.965 this is a lame excuse that he has a PhD so he can't twist the truth. Yeah he's a well known academic and I am not denying that but in this matter specifically he is promoting liberal and feminist values.
@@ellas.965 and your point that he's more studied Islam than me is proof he is doing intentionally.
@@asimsajjad4002 men like you with low knowledge are used to downgrade women and to take all opportunities from them because you just don’t know it better. But thats the point in the islamic history there are FACTS (like he said) that women are there for more then household and children. They were business women (like our mother Khadījah), leaders and soldiers. And the fact that muslim women are every day more educated then you, is just killing you, right? You know how you notice a good man? It’s a man who KNOWS and practices his religion and has a strong masculine personality to encourages women to be the best version of them selfs. He is not insecure and low in knowledge like you. There are many Imams standing up for women today and you put them down and saying such bs. is just embarrassing. Women will never choose a men like you, when they are in their right mind.
Thank you so much Ustaad for explaining it so well
Profoundly grateful to you for saying it out loud. It would be helpful if other scholars echo that. we need help bring back the true tradition and true religious context.
Thankyou so much ❤🎉
This is soooooo important to spread among us Muslims!!
Happy to see this. I was depressed from the perspective put forward by Indian men for women in Islam.
Don't follow him blindly. Read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and do your research. Do you believe Islam permits the mingling of women with non-Mahram men? Are most workplaces where women are employed free of non-Mahram men?
@@mahbubahmed7 STop crying like a baby , That verse is for the mothers of the believers not all women and even if it was it downst mean women should be imprisoned in their homes rather that their majority of time should be spent under their homes and are you saying that women segregated places don't exist?
@@InshalPlays The verse refers to the mothers of the believers, and believing women are meant to follow their example, just as we follow the Prophet Muhammad.
If you believe that not working outside confines women to their homes, you are certainly living in a fantasy.
And stop pandering in my comment section; let the women speak.
@@mahbubahmed7. Historical evidence shows how active muslim women were during the time of the prophet. Businesses , battleships, they were so involved in both, both are mix-gendered spaces. The verses on awrah, haya' , modesty etc have laid up very beautiful rules for women in public. None of the verses talk about physical segregation, let alone the domestication of women. If all of us, men and women, really understand the verses, really know to guard our eyes, modesty, practice haya', take care of our clothing n physical appearance following the Islamic rules, public appearance, be it for work, travel, study etc won't create any issue. The prophet allowed this, majority scholars agree with women's participation in public life, economy etc, why would a mere individual like us make things so difficult? Islam is beautiful in and out. It is this kind of mindset, our inability to respect differences that make Islam look ugly, outdated.
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Thank you so much may Allah bless you with happiness and prosperity
I needed this ❤❤❤ Thank you!
The problem is why do women think that staying at home and serving the family is "lower task"? Why do they assume that what men do is superior. Allah has assigned roles to each gender and we will be rewarded by following that.
Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, "All of you are shepherds and each of you is responsible for his flock. A man is the shepherd of the people of his house and he is responsible. A woman is the shepherd of the house of her husband and she is responsible.
Why not? Staying at home all the time doing repititive work, isolating yourself from the world can be bad for mental health. Why suppress a person from reaching their full potential by limiting their world experiences? Also if you stay at home your entire whole life your muscles get weaker because of lack of excercise, even your bones become weak because of no sunlight. This is totally against nature.
sir/ madam i dont know which one u are, but as u said beibg a house wife is a noble one but when u being constsntly comapred to man's capability and hearing things like "u laze around all day what do u know about outside world, "or "u are dependant on my money so u should be greatful that i am even keeping u with me otherwise i would have left u and could have married another woman from a wealthy baground" or u are nothing but a burden and u couldn't even give me a boy , u are a liability" hereing these dialogues from eons, so what would happen to the psychology of that woman, if the luck runs out if the husband dies or he domestically abuses or he leaves her with her children and marries again, what option she has? the world and people are not ideal like the quran describes or prescribes it sir, dont u know more than women , mens nature is fragile , their desires are fragile and their ego is fragile thats why these concept of 4 mariages introduced in islam, allah knew man's nature of explotation over other beings because of two things1) he is physically stronger 2) he doesnt give birth, so because of these aspects where he physically doesnt bear any pain and he will definitely exploit his weaker gender so he put these conditions and also he made education, that is islamic education mandatory,
@sakuracherryblossom-np3oi you gotta be kidding me.
Women staying at home does not mean she literally does not step outside lmao. The level of exaggeration is insane in your comment lol.
Look at equal societies like the Scandinavia where women are tired of working and want to find a man who can provide for them. With the exception of a few, it will be extremely challenging for women to balance the outside and raise kids, women do not have the same stamina as men, they were created different and hence they should feel comfortable in their skin and not compare themselves with men.
@sakuracherryblossom-np3oi because going to the office and doing your job is not repetitive AT ALL right? Having a boss ordering you around can affect your mental health as well. Not working does not mean you do not have any hobby. In fact, being at home allows you to have other hobbies that you might not have the time for if you had to work AND handle housework (don't even talk about the burnout). Working women STILL do the majority of the housechores EVEN if they work. So I'd rather stay at home, take care of the house without the additional stress of paying bills and cater for my kids' needs instead and STILL have the time to do some baking, reading or memorising the Quran. It all depends on your perspective.
@user-it3yf1et4p unfortunately there are many men who do not appreciate their wives who stay at home and this is a sign of jaahiliyyah. Allah's command is clear and even if people do not want to obey and do not appreciate it, it doesn't change the facts that Allah's obedience comes first. In the end, on the Day of Judgment, Allah will not ask you what other people thought or said, but what YOU did.
I really needed this... Thank you so much
My favorite scholar with the most logic.
Thank you so much brother, i really needed to hear this and i wish other muslims would respect women enough and appreciate their role in society. It's good to see people explain things in the right way rather han being straight up biased or disrespectful.
Surah Ahzab ayah 33 is our answer.
Excellent lecture ..JazakAllah khair for bringing this out !
Absolutely agree ,infact traditional Islamic culture was more outgoing and in par with Islamic teachings then the modern Islamic culture which most are follow with strict rules etc
Thank you ❤
Ja za ka Allah hu khair. I . Very happy to hear this
I love this man just so much, we need more men like Noman. May Allah pour enormous barkaah in his life.
Loved this advice to Muslim families. So well explained.
WOW, this video is so helpful
See?
This is the mindset of someone who -understands- islam and quran… Baraak Allah feek ustad
Jazakallah khairan kaatsirran syaikh Nouman for your insight, and deep gratitude to mention Malaysia and Indonesia as examples. Yep,you are correct about the woman roles in both countries.
I feel Empowered listening to this i.e. about women in Islam..Alhumdulillah
Don't follow him blindly. Read the Quran, Chapter 33, Surah 33, and do your research.
@@mahbubahmed7No bro that Aya context is about prophet wives not for all women just look at Aya number 32
@@muhammedyahiyah5798 Yes, the verse refers to the mothers of the believers, and believing women are meant to follow their example, just as we follow the Prophet Muhammad.
what a mindset , actually its islam MashAllah 🤍❤
Thank you for this important and beautiful presentation 🙏
Literally my all problem get cleared, my blind blown by this great speach, I have become more stoodfast after listening it, thank you sir you are always been my mentor❤
Sister Ali khan
Thank u
Awesome speech. 👌
Wonderful analysis Sir
I think there are conditions for that. I am from Indonesia. My mom is a career woman. She went from 7 am- 7pm. When home she just angry angry and angry because of tired. Couple times she said she wanted to divorce to my dad and said to me that she wanted to show him that she didnt need him. I was taken care of by maid who brough her boyfriend to home and had sex in my house. At 4 years old I caught them. Next maid, eating my portion of food while they were having the same. As a teen I wanted affection, did lots of sin. Jealous of my friend that had a mom at home after school. Alhamdulillah Allah gives me chances to do taubat at 30.
Alhamdulillah the mercy of Allah
It was easy for myself to have a polarized view of Malaysia and Indonesia but its common sense to be critical. JazakhAllah khair for sharing your experience
Nevertheless may Allah guide our Ummah back to the sweetness and way of life of Islam
You should share this story with as many women as possible. Women don't seem to understand the negative impact of working outside the home. A woman working outside brings no real benefit to her family; she only contributes to the company she works for.
Today many women are failing to understand this.
A woman is a human first of all and will definitely get tired of doing long hours job outside. She will definitely get frustrated if she comes home and there are other responsibilities waiting for her to fulfill. Only those women should work outside who are single or single parent. When you have a husband, it's his duty to provide and his wife should be happy what she gets and not overburdened him.
Finally, someone is honest ... thanks a lot NAK Sir
Can you please provide me with the link to the full lecture?
I love your thoughts so much you are so genius as a Muslim person. Keeping to the women in the house as a captive is nothing but atrocity.
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alhumdulillah at least some videos without background music
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Please make this video available in Urdu...
😅 oh my god ustadh Nouman, some people are gonna get the wrong idea and argue.
But Thank you very much for explaining, i believe based on principals of our deen and careful restrictions (for both genders tbh but especially women) we can win in life and the hereafter ❤❤❤❤
What books or resources are there to learn about this topic?
I wish muslims understand this
Thoughts like "Why I am here", "am I here only for serving husband" made me feel very low. I was feeling down these days. YOU CANNOT IMAGINE HOW THIS VIDEO HELPED ME❤🩹 I think it's hard for men to mention the facts like this. So I appreciate this channel for sharing, and appreciate Dr. Nouman Ali Khan mentioning and sharing his thoughts. May Allah bless you, accept your good deeds, and make you happy in this dunya and akhirah🤲Jazakumullah Khair🤍You're helping your sisters for strengthening their Eeman❤🩹
The 'Only' word you used with Household, shows a lot about your upbringing.
I m no scholar n i admire ustadh nouman ali khan a lot...but the issue i see here is utadh is taking some specific case n applying generally like those sister have to take water by themselves bcuz their father had grown old they had no option...may Allah guide us all
This is very applicable to today's society actually as a very large part of women are either single, divorced or widowed. Many are also without a male figure in family, due to many father's abandoning their kids after divorce and they have no brother to help them. So it's very relevant today, since times have changed a long time ago, and we need to face reality and stop putting unrealistic expectations on women.
Nah bro u just an incel
It's not about what today's society demands it's about what islam says about this...if one is compiled to do a job like u mentioned widowed or widout male guardian then they must do to earn their livelihood...but generally speaking most scholars say men and women are given roles in islam
Exactly! You are not a scholar. And please understand that all this suppression of women is WESTERNER concept. We were under the British rule for so long that we might have lost all our beauty of Islam.
from where do I get full video on this topic
I am a proud moslem woman all because in real Islam women have a high rank and I love Allah swt for the ultimate Merci He has over His creation. سبحان الله
High rank for is being an man's pleasure toy and his broodmare? Or to be one his four broodmares?. Wake up and respect your worth as a human being.
It depends upon the local environment around you where you are living.
I always believe that if Allah didn’t want me to be an Architect, he wouldn’t give me the merit to qualify for that position. I am good in math and science, why would I be good in these fields if Allah doesn’t want me to use that skills!
I would like if he could back this up with hadith and life's of sahaba and accepted norms at that time.
no of course not
the Quran teaches women how to live independent lives but thru team working and unity with ur husband.. so the children are raised with love discipline and routine..
and if a woman does not want to work.. she does not have to. Because God is very lenient with women.
I think not only woman but also man are not permitted to move outside for no reason
All family related
Women can win the Noble Prize...Marie Curie,take care of home,raise children...etc.with proper education..
Ladies go forward!
This sheikh is going to get a backlash for these statements
I respect ustadh a lot and I'm learning arabic from him.
But I totally disagree with all the points he said in this video. I don't know why he said that or told these stories through a perspective that is actually harmful
Kindly elaborate this is great😊
If i do video blogging in my hijab, would kt be allowed
No
I believe there should be accommodations for working moms in the system.
ALLAHUMA BARIK ❤❤❤
But according to dr. Israr (as sir Norman’s mentor and inspired from) it’s totally opposite, that’s women should remain @ homes and orders for packaging etc should be given there, they don’t need to come outside unnecessarily. Please clear so confusing
Dr israr was a great scholar but not a Prophet
Okay... He mixed many issues together and presented it as a very clever approach.
Where did declaring exceptions as the general rule come from?
Yes, he may have helped many people with the Arabic language, but this does not require taking religion from him. He is not an alim anyway. Choose scholars carefully.
He spoke as if working women were building their lives independently of the capitalist order. We are not governed Islamically so, we do not wait working life and social life can be organized and kept safe in accordance with Islam.
I live in Turkey and I am a newly-graduated pharmacist, believe me, I could barely stand university... How can I "work" in this system that is hostile to Allah azza wa jall? Regardless of how Jewish Zionists control the pharmaceutical industry, what will remain of my sense of shame, haya if I live all day long in the pharmacy, hospital, company, etc., dealing with men who are complete strangers to me, communicating well, and having to smile? Moreover, with this kind of speeches, what kind of life am I being encouraged to live like this when Allah saved me from environments that he did not approve of and granted me the niqab?
Despite every problem, "some people" praise the working life and encourage Muslim women to do so. This is nothing but fitna in today's conditions. I cannot believe muslims genearally "forget(!)" about freemixing is haram and almost everywhere, freemixing is on its peak. How can we preserve our haya and iman in such system... Haya is a part of iman, you all know.
And I would like to point something serious:
We muslims deeply in need of countries founded on Islamic Sharia. We need our nizam, our system. You see, we just can't entegrate into kufr systems. Our mindsets, living purposes, priorities are completely different. We must reject them and their false-ideoligically formed systems. How can we really happy while taking their education, working in their places...
I call out to my sisters: Look for ways to use the talents Allah has given you "only in a way that will please Him". About your talents and mind etc. ; After learning your religion and your priorities, look for mashru' ways to use it for the ummah. Be sincere to the Ummah. Even before that, be sincere to our Rabb. You can fool everyone else, but you can't fool him tabaraka wa taala. He is the one who knows best your intentions that you strive for. Ask yourself what do you want to work for? Where? Know your priorities well, love your priorities because Allah has made them priorities.
If you are married, you have to be a spouse first. Love being a wife. If you find this task boring and do not get pleasure and a sweet excitement from it, you are at a loss. I am very serious.
In addition, the preparation and raising period for the child is underestimated. It even seems like a boring chore. What happened to us? Let's recover. Let's not fall into traps. Especially feministic traps.
I pray to Allah taala to give us hidayah and make us steadfast on hidayah.
People says that there is no barkat in women earning
The woman's primary role first and foremost is the family and the home. Society is broken because soo many women ( and men) don't want to accept that
Malka Balqees in the Quran
Men who damn their wives to the home, fail to see both her potential for the family and the society, and also their own importance to partake in the home.
Can a muslim girl become a ips officer i mean what about the dress code ?? Its little yk inaproperiate yk what im trying to asking
this hadith bukhari 5237 o woman you have been allowed by allah to go out for your need tell woman to stay home and i think they this also prohibitted them to work sorry if i am wrong
I wouldn't say the roles of men and women are equal for the simple reason that the man has an obligation to provide for his family. Likewise, it is the woman who bears the children. This automatically creates an asymmetry in what each one should do in a balanced family in my view. What do you think?
I think women have more of a role in the upbringing of a child. However many Muslim men seem to think that they can be totally absent from that duty and contribute almost nothing to raising the children. Their children have rights on them and they seem to forget their contribution in bringing this child into this world. But that does not mean that women should not work, when children become less dependent on their mothers, they get quite lonely and they need something other than their family to have a purpose. It can be a religious purpose, a charitable purpose, a financial purpose but something. A woman is not something that has to be hidden away in her house. The whole reason the burqa exists is to allow them to interact with the outside world.
Muji to sob kaam atyhi kamanyky par
My bilkul bhi bahar ki doniya myri bhi hy
Mard sy mybhi barabar hu iasa bilkul nahi samajti
Ya baat serf wihi karty hy jo
aworat ki takhat mard sy kam samajtyhi
Aworat mard sy bhi zada akhalki takha rakti hy
Aworat bhoot zaada sy zada himmat wali hy takhat walihy khoobsurat hy
Wosilea aworat khar py hi hoto
Bachho ky
bhai ky
Bytiky
Har wo log hamari risti daar hi wologoki
Khoob surat zindagi bananyki
Zarorat hy
Awora ki khoob surati chupana hi wosiki bhalaihy
Aworat kaale ho ya
Gori
Moti ho
Ya patli
Aworthi hotihy
Allahi ki dihuee rounaq hy
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Not just for household, also for having children and to have sex with.
Its the older generation that's holding onto all of this unfortunately