Penn Badgley REVEALS His Dating RED FLAGS đ± đ© | YOU Season 4: Part 2 Interview
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 8. 02. 2023
- Penn Badgley YOU Interview!
YOU Season 4 Part 2
We asked Penn Badgley and the cast of YOU season 4 to reveal some of their dating red flags!
Does finding Joe Goldberg attractive mean you're a red flag?? Is liking Harry Potter a red flag?? Is wearing socks to bed a red flag?? Penn Badgley, Tati Gabrielle and Amy Leigh Hickman from YOU season 4 will help you avoid those walking red flags đ©đ
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Wasnât expecting a VAR reference from Penn Badgley I wonât lie đ You Season 4 Part 1 is available to watch on Netflix now!
What's VAR?
Value at risk?
@@trishacollymore4397 Video Assistant Referee. Used in football usually to review fouls and offsides that arenât obvious to the refs and linesmen on the pitch.
@@whosdevin bruh
Interviewer: is someone killing a family of 4 a red flag?
Penn: again, It depends on the context
đ If the family of 4 are the killers from Chainsaw Massacre then yes, context would make sense!
joe moment
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đđ the guy is open minded, it's why I love him. Like what if it was self defense? What if it was the Hitlers and by killing 4 he saved millions? You just don't know đ€·đ»
Surprised he did not level w/ having an avatar photo in car at this rate â ïž
You can tell Penn Badgley is very smart and insightful
Can you really
Agreed Iâm liking penn even more with his answers in this interview đđœ
No shit
And hot
Agreed!
âNormalize not seeing Harry Potterâ And this is why I love Penn Badgley.
Its just a movie.
@@gandalainsley6467 I know that but people act like itâs a crime against the universe to never have seen or read Harry Potter.
@@simpleplanfan011 Yeah , it is dumb.
When he said, "I would wonder, are they ok?" Did he mean the people saying it's a red flag or people who haven't seen the movies? lol
Exactly because I never even watched harry potter until I went to uni, reason being is because my parents are overly religious and could never get away with watching it lol
Lmao
Penn needs context for everything, love an open minded man!
I appreciate Penn trying to normalize being poor and not make that a red flag
Agreed.
I appreciate Penn's slowness to cast judgement in this video. There's value within going slow and trying to understand someone's situation or preferences, which seems to be how Penn is approaching the answers to these questions!
Yes true, but also I thought about why the women in this interview was so quick to calling something a red flag and I think itÂŽs because women are conditioned to judge men quicker on their red flags because they have to protect themselves and remove themselves from any situation where they could be potentially harmed/attacked. So letÂŽs appreciate the slowness to cast judgement from Penn but also not judge the women in this video for being quick to judge.
I also assumed that the people in the video where straight and that might be false. But still, this was just from another perspective.
good quality as an actor to keep multiple factors and points of view in mind
â@@Babyblue115 Based and true comment.
I liked his view on the housing situation, knowing that a lot of people donât have a choice
''penn badgley is hot, joe goldberg is not'' someone needs to get that tatted lmao
That should be a disclaimer before each episodeđ
I think we're taking labeling things as "red flags" way too intensely. Like a red flag has to be something that points towards a very unhealthy behavior or thought pattern or some issue. Sleeping in socks or in a small bed doesn't really point to anything besides odd preferences in comfort
Lol
you beeing very toxic, red flag.
I agree as someone who has ignored very large red flags in the past
Same. Like a simple preference over something shouldnât even be tagged as a red flag.
Itâs not that serious, get a life mate
In my opinion, finding Joe attractive isn't a red flag. The show conditions you to find him charming. If we saw the show from Becks or Mariennes eyes, we would 100% think he is insane and not find him attractive. But because we see the show from his eyes, we see how Joe views himself. And because Joe sees himself as a hero who is forced to do bad things, we start to see him as that. The show relies on our trust in a main character who in any other context would be completely detestable. And that is the genius of the show. We want to see him succeed since we identify with him more than any other character. And Penn Badgley just has a lot of natural charm and charisma which makes us less likely to see him as a bad person.
True, although I will say I still find it weird when people root too hard for Joe. Even though we're seeing things mostly through his perspective, we STILL see the cracks in his facade and all his hypocrisy. So it's fun to watch him do what he does, and in a way you're like "MAN just stop murdering please" but for me, I'm not rooting for him to succeed đ€Ł I want to see that man in peril.
Finding him hot is fine, hoping he gets a redemption arc and gets to live a happy life after everything .... Is a bit weird.
@@finpin2622yeah Iâm the same. I donât understand people that are rooting for him hard??? Like⊠heâs crazy yâall. No thanks.
@@finpin2622 Well the thing is that nearly all the people in you suck and you don't feel really bad for them. That is why people are rooting for Joe. Its like with Friday the 13 and people rooting for Jason.
That. And also, Joe as a person is actually quite interesting. Like I don't get what's with all the automatic hate towards him, he kills people yes, we all know that's bad and no one is defending it, but can we move on to discussing something else about him or maybe go a little deeper? If we imagine Joe with the same perso ality traits but growing up in a stable home entertainment and not developing his... Characteristic hobbies, then he's actually a very intelligent, insightful and might I add - compassionate person. He can understand people very well, better than they understand themselves, and if he used those powers for good, he'd be an amazing person. I personally really enjoy his internal monologues and his observations on society. Granted the people we see on the show are their own personal kind of batshit crazy and awful, and are exaggerated versions of real life people, but nonetheless still those musings ring very true with he world we have.
Yes! Penn keeps saying itâs because he is white but itâs a 110% that heâs the main character!!
Someone: *Breathes*
Tati Gabrielle: đ©
I love her so so much. She has a stunning face and just a great aura.
@@tgardner11 sheâs amazing đ loved chatting to her and the cast!
Penn Bagdley: đ©đ©đ©đ©đ©
in indian tati means poop and i cant stop now
"Compatibility is something that is earned and worked for." Tati's takes are so smart.
Tati is such a great actress because I would have never guessed this was her voice when I watch Sabrina or YOU
The fact that Penn needs to know the context đ heâs just like me fr.
Socks in bed being a red flag... Dude, I can't sleep if my feet are cold, it's not really something to overthink for me đ
Right ? I canât sleep if my feet are cold.
Same here đ
Wearing socks to bed is not a red flag!
Some people just have poor circulation and their feet get cold (âŠ.like me đ ).
For real lol. I felt personally attacked on that one. I never viewed people wearing socks to bed as a "weird" thing. So I was surprised to see that they all thought that was a red flag
I am also that person. Im always cold so for me sleeping in socks would be a red flag cuz I dont need another hothouse plant I need someone who is able to warm me haha
4:21 THANK YOU PENN! Star signs and astrology are not inherently a bad thing, but when people judge other or write people off / say bad things about them without actually getting to know them its harmful. It's like judging a book by its cover. Also yeah most people that judge people because of that know barely anything about it
I agree to the "know barely anything about it" Part. Because as someone who is a bit much into astrology, these people judging everyone based on just their sun signs is like my last straw lmao. Because behavior is different based on different planets. So at that point, they're just writing people off at a probability of one out of a hundred
I'm sorry tati's thought processes through each scenario is hilarious đđ
Not really
The idea she thinks weâve all seen Harry Potter because, âwhat did you watch in your childhoodâŠ.â đđđđđ I was an adult when those movies came out. Good lord.
@@laurel1865 sheâs 27, Iâm her age and anyoneâs who a bit younger or older than us didnât see or read HP is bit weird, not a red flag but definitely an question you will ask them as âhow could you avoid it your whole life?â.
People in our late 20s who donât have social media anymore actually seems like LESS of a red flag these days. Like itâs refreshing and means theyâre not interested in public opinion, they just want to live their lives đ€·đŒââïž
All I can say is Tati is an amazing actress if that is what she sounds like in real life
Yeah Iâm very confused w her voice
This! I like her character in the show and want good things for her.. However.. Now the actress herself tho.. Her I can't stand I've just figured out
@@ZymexProductionz why is that?
@@TM-il8rb My brain is just weird like that.. I can't really stand that fast-paced "like"-filled way of speaking :i
â@@ZymexProductionz she talks that way, cuz she's trying to censor herself..or she's not well rested, I feel like.
The single bed one is ridiculous! Whatâs wrong with sleeping in a single bed in your 20s or even much later in life?? Single person = single bed, just makes sense
Itâs whatever makes you comfortable. My daughter has always had a full sized or queen mattress, but thatâs so all the sheets are the same.
The bed part is kinda unfair cause not everyone can afford a new bed and/or not have enough space for a bigger one. Living is getting expensive. I'm almost 20 and never had anything bigger than a twin my entire life
They said late twenties not early twenties đ
I was thinking what if they donât have a big enough room for a bigger bed, like maybe a uni dorms might only have single beds for the accommodations you can afford. Some of my friends accommodations are very small bedroom areas with a single bed and maybe a desk. Perfectly fine to me.
â@@xoxokennyaI must've missed that, but I still stand by my point.
i love the cast's personalities so much, penn is understanding of other's point of views and i agree with most of his answers, for example that other people can't afford money or those who didn't watch harry potter lol
i dont think it's a red flag to say joe is hot if they're talking about his physical appearance (because he is attractive) but if they are saying he's hot because of his behavior, there's obviously something wrong with them.
the woman that called him charming had a point. that's a big part of how he gets away with things (plus it's an unrealistic show). he is charming and it can make you overlook the bad things he's done and how bad and dangerous he truly is. but it's still never ok to call his behavior hot or say that you want someone to do that to you.
The more interviews I watch of Penn Badgley, the more I fall in love with him!!!!!đâ€ïžâ€ïžđ
I donât think calling your parents mommy or daddy is that much of a red flag. Sometimes thatâs just what they grew up calling their parents and theyâre just used to it.
Yeah. Iâve got a bunch of friends who call their parents mommy or daddy. Well to be exact, itâs closer to âmammeyâ and âdaddeyâ, which is just another of the million ways to call your parents in asian languages.
I had an ex hate that about me, when he called his parents by their first names (didn't say a thing but I consider it to be so so cold)... like? I'm sorry I grew up in a family were showing affection isn't bad?
I feel like in Hispanic culture itâs super normal to be an adult and still call your parents mami and papi. I think only my white American friends call their parents mom and dad.
I feel like here in Australia youâd get bullied hardcore for calling your parents that đ
It makes me feel icky
Tati the actress that plays marieanne is so real like I love her energy so much
Cool seeing Tati's actual personality, she seems lovely.
penn badgley talking about astrology⊠HE GETS IT. KING
I grew up in the Southeast US and knew many people who werenât allowed to watch or read Harry Potter as kids for religious reasons. It was strict, too. Getting caught with one of the books was as a physical punishment
I was never allowed to watch Harry Potter. One day I just convinced my mom but my dad was never happy with it. Stole and hid one of my books because of it
I had very religious neighbours like this. They saw all our fave movies as being very bad and they were all banned.
@@snoozyq9576 my wife wasnât allowed to watch/read it because it had âmagicâ and âwitchesâ which was strictly against her parents/grandparents beliefs
Or because we were adults who had no interest in watching or reading kid books.
You can really see the difference in maturity levels between them. Penn is the only one who didnât say âI do this so itâs normalâ.
I dint think it's a difference in maturity levels. The reason why the actresses are more quick to jump at red flags than Penn is because they need to do that to avoid danger and harm in real life.
@@ajiththomas2465 yes beware the bed-sock killer
I sleep with socks on. I just like having socks on
Yea if it's a cold night why not keep your feet warm? It's only logical.
Penn trying really hard to hide that he knows astro lol.
I wear socks to bed ⊠I never thought it was weird đ
I can imagine Penn enjoys playing Joe a lot as he seems like such a thoughtful, genuine guy. So playing a psychopathic serial killer must be fun!
He's talked about it in other interviews. I'm not not sure he necessarily enjoys it, he was morally conflicted about playing the character and almost didn't do it. It seems like the cast all has fun together though.
after watching this, his intelligence proves me why he plays Joe of all people.
I hope Marienne comes back in part 2, I love Tati so much I wish she was in more scenes this season. (but I hope she teams up with Ellie to take down Joe or something, I want more of Marienne but I need her to be safe haha)
well :)
The sad thing is there ARE actually people who consider meaningless shit like not having seen a certain movie as a red flag.
penn explaining the astrology thing is so perfect. thatâs exactly how i feel.
Pen sounds normal and healthy
People who say socks in bed is a red flag have never had the beautiful experience of bad circulation in their hands and feet and can actually be woken up because of how painfully cold their feet gets when socks were not initially worn to bed... ...
Penn looks like he could be in the Nativity Story
This comment made me lol. đ€Ł
Oh my gawd đ€Ł or a cult leader đ
Damnnnn!!!!!!!! This Penn got incredible answers. Thank you for understanding that well very different circumstances/realities.
Imagine having a dinner party with Penn and Tati
I love how human they are.
Iâll never understand whatâs the problem with wearing socks to bed. Peopl always say itâs weird but there isnât really a justification. Is it weird to wear pjs? Itâs the same thing. I just have cold feet.
Yeah and one of them said socks to bed is like cover under covers, like, have you not heard of PJs? Also my feet don't really get cold, but I feel like socks are comfy especially after clipping my nails, I hate getting my nails snagged on the threads
the way tati talks about astrology ... i love u queen
Joe is so judgemental that to see Penn be diplomatic is really refreshing
Yep. What he said is so true. It is wrong to ask someone's star sign right in the beginning before seeing it for yourself whether you are compatible or not with that person. As someone into Vedic astrology, it's a vast subject, quite complicated and the more you dig deep the more you realise that we are misusing astrology to our benefit. Infact there are so many less knowledgeable astrologers out there wrongfully predicting stuffs... Let alone common people like us.
Me in my single bed with socks on in my 20sđ
... living in ur mom's basement, u employed đđ
Socks in bed is a red flag? They must have great heating!
TIMES HAVE ALL WAYS BEEN HARD for some people more than others. even when things were going well the people have a long history of taking nice things and fucking them up.
Wearing socks to bed is weird...? đ„ș But it's comfy!
People heving a problem with you keeping your feet warm is the real red flag!
Itâs like theyâve never heard of winter. đđđ
And I will catch a cold if Iâm not wearing them. Judging me for keeping me healthy is a red flagđĄ đ©
Lol Pennâs football pun đ âIâve seen the VARâ so itâs a red flag đ©
Penn needing context for everything đ
What's VAR?
My dad used to buy my mom a fancy perfume that he also buys for my stepmom and I thought it was weird until I put 2 and 2 together and realized itâs the perfume his mom wears â€
I just like socks man. Why is it a red flag to wear them to bed đ
I just like my feet to not be cold
ive never watched the whole HP movies justice for us đ im perfectly okay đ
3:50 THANK YOU
What is so weird about wearing socks in bed?? I hate having cold feet, socks warm them upâŠ
Most people feel more comfortable without socks going to bed and some do because some people their feet get cold so they put socks on
I can't sleep if my feet are cold!!!
I watched the first and 2nd HP movie but I felt like it was overly hyped and was talked about so much that it deterred me from finishing it.. until Covid/quarantine happened and my fiancé who loves HP made me have a whole HP marathon with him and I understood why people loved it so much lol.
I really love that Pen would ask if someone was Ok if theyâve never seen HP.
Some religions and cults can be very strict about the kind of media they allow (surprise surprise witchcraft ainât their bag). And growing up in that kind of environment can be damaging. It was a very insightful response by Pen.
He is slowly becoming Giga Chad, and itâs beautiful.
I wear socks all day and to bed bc my feet are always cold and I don't like when they get sweaty when just wearing slippers đ€·đ»ââïž
Omg Tati seems so chill and cool
Imagine penn dating someone whoâs seen âyouâ and their just like, man I hope this goes well đ
Penn has a wife đ
5:55 when someone wonât show you their basement⊠totally thought the interviewer was finding a polite way to ask about ppl not showing you their junk for a second đ it makes their answers funnier
My husband had a case of athleteâs foot when we first started sleeping together and he insisted on wearing his socks because he didnât want to spread it. đ„° Context is everything.
Yeah, context is everything :). Can you explain to me, why it's weird to wear socks when sleeping? Where I live it's normal. Don't you guys get cold feet?
I know! People make a big deal out of nothing. My extremities are always cold and i NEED socks.
Thanks for the social media Joe. Iâm a girl in my 20s and now my only social media is CZcams and itâs great. Highly recommend.
Staring at my socks in my single bed while Im 27 at home with my familyâŠ..
Right!? đ
9:46 this is cultural too. I call my mom mommy/Madre and my dad daddy/father. To them calling the mom or dad was disrespectful and too casual. Mommy/daddy was affectionate and Madre/Father was respectful.
I wasnât âokâ for like 19 years of living until I saw Harry Potter for the first time đ
Penn âit dependsâ Badgley over here
I have horrible circulation, so in the winter my feet get ice cold. Like, to the point where I canât feel my toes and I canât sleep. So, Iâll wear socks to bed in that instance, and I donât think itâs inherently weird. Also, not a red flag in either case. That sounds more like a personal preference than a âred flagâ
You should try an electric underblanket!! I have the same problem with my legs and feet, itâll hurt a ton but the electric blanket has been a game changer!
@@slytheroineq8868 wait what it hurts?
@@NewWesternFront Yes i have bad circulation, which sometimes causes a lot of pain in the winter when its cold. I dont know why, but its one of the few things that help
yeah... i hadn't seen harry potter and then binge watched them all, four or five years ago
There's a game called red flag or deal breaker. I played it on a date once. and all my answers sounded like Tati's I just can't give you a yes or no answer. đ Also Penn's mentally healthy and so logical about everything. I'm so jealous of his wife
Thank you Penn badgley for normalizing not watching Harry Potter
Gosh I love Penn đ„șâ„ïž
I have year round cold feet so I often wear socks to bed
Regarding the horoscope, I agree donât let it be the first thing you ask.
I agree with Tati that Penn & Joe are different - Joes behavior is ALL red flags đ©
My socks make me feel warm, cozy and safe in bed đ© I literally have to sleep with earplugs and an eyemask on. The socks are the least of my worries.
Tati Gabrielle is so cultured
For a fragrance consisuer like myself I see nothing wrong with getting something I enjoyed for an ex for someone else. But for someone who isn't into fragrance as much as myself it could be a red flag because fragrance for many bring back memories of good times. I've always been hey if you to leave I won't hold ya back kinda guy.
It's funny because I actually didn't grow up watching Harry Potter so my guy now was like YOU have to watch it. I did and my favorite is the last movie. However, I would have hated it if he thought it was a red flag lol. I love that Penn said what he did about it.
Penn Badgley seems like such a sweet man đ„č
socks in bed? Simple: it's cold and I want to warm up kind of a given if you live in a cold country
But my feet are always cold at night:( car obsession isnât red flag necessarily but itâs annoying lol.
Classic case of: just because you do it, doesnât make it normal đ
lol when he said, "I"m Kevin Hart", for a second I was like, "hey, that's NOT Mark Normand!"
A brit that hasn't seen Harry Potter is a red flag for me
I don't think it's a red flag, but being a Brit seems to add insult to injury somehow
Penn Bagley should do a movie about Jim Morrison at this point! Look at the resemblance...
So true what he said about the astrology thing! People who actually know about it would never look at the star sign for compatibility⊠youâd have to get their whole birth chart and then look at their moon & venus sign đ
1:34 she''s so real for this đ
My now wife had not seen HP OR Star Wars and it was fantastic for our relationship cuz I got to show her and make her a fan
God, after Part 2, his voice is TRIGGERING af! đ€Ł
It still feels so strange watching Amy Leigh Hickman as an adult, playing someone other than Carmen - I was obsessed with her and Mia McKenna for a whileđ
Funny that a lot of the questions here really depends on the culture/country. Living with parents is super normal here in SE Asia.
Omg that first red flag was something an ex did... except he made me buy it đ shoulda seen the red FLASHING in my face đ
What joe said about astrology is so true. Definitely a red flag for me
his name is penn badgley, not joe goldbergđ
Joe đđđ
@@hruneya really?
Same,I'd be like byyyye
@@hruneyawho cares, itâs funny
Penn definetly watched a lot of football whilst he was here because the card and VAR references lmaooo