Why Can't a Father and Son Get Along? | Sadhguru
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
- Sadhguru answers a question about why sometimes, a son feels the need to create a distance with his father at a certain point in his life.
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5 days ago i left my house and started living completely on my own even though its just 10kms away, what sadhguru said is so relatable, its between two men, not between father and son. and if the one is taking too much space and authority, nothing much left for the other one.
Absolutely true
@@shephherd more power to you god gives you this responsibility cause he know you are strong you can handle it.
Bro give me your num.i also want to get away from my house.also r u happy now?
Sadhguru talking about nepotism in front of nepotism king without saying word nepotism 🙏😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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I support sadhguru but here he become senseless like a hardcore yogi ..that's why clean form of spirituality is also needed like bhagavad gita
@@amresponsibilitytakernotli9613 Why do you say sadhguru became senseless here?
I dont think this has anything to do with “nepotism”
@@gabe3693 The younger guy is an actor whose father is a producer.
Yesterday I had a fight with my father. I wake up now and see this video. Wonderful
What happened?
Mee to 😅 💫
How old are you?
Me too yarr
Me to & I'm regretting now.
Parents need to give two things to their children: Roots and Wings!
no they don't, we are not carrots nor crows, people just need proper nourishment and joyful atmosphere.
Yes! you should be connected to your soil like your soul and should chase after sky like you do for salvation!🙏
If they can't give you that, just go out there and find it yourself.
Then i was not given the roots and the wings, I have legs to walk
Most of us wont when we are parents
As a father give your son space to grow, you will be happy and you will be happy.
Can we all agree that when He uploads our days get better! 💖
100 percent
No
Yes
I think there are people running his social media platforms
Yes one hundred percent
Father: Son how old are you?
Son: I am 25.
Father: Ha, at your age I was 28.
Lol ! 😅
😂😂
🤣😂😂
Always superior..😄
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m learning so much from this great soul.
This tension man vs man instead of father and son is nothing more then insecurities vs acceptance. I love my father but we couldn’t be in the same home by the time I reached 19. Why? A combination of our mutual insecurities. Fast Forward and our two sons are of the same age and we get on famously because I have accepted them growing into the men that they want to be. I don’t always agree with their choices and I try to offer guidance, but I want them to recognize that I accept who they are and who they are trying to be. Having such a relationship is a blessing that I realized I as the elder have to make possible.
There should be inclusion between human beings not ignorance,ideologies and opinions for other people.
If you see others as a piece of life and not setting conclusions and imaginations by your intellect.
You will see this world just the way it is meant to be seen by the creator.
This is very great advice. I came to realize at one point that much of my friction with my dad was being at home at an age where i wanted my own independent life and it just wasn't possible with parental authority figures around. moms tend to be more easy going but dads are known to be serious and strict, especially from certain cultures. so it is best for young man to leave and have his own life and home, unless he has to stay to support family or sick. as sadghuru says, father also, gets tired of son, having other person challenge authority in own house. however, from certain cultures, the father is so serious that he comes off as rude or not supporting to the son, almost because he is constantly challenging the son 24/7. my dad doesn't want to even have a bro relationship he says. he is "old school" turkish man always trying to prove a point and has not time to hear anyone else talk.
This video was released just after I had an argument with my father, this can't be coincidence. Sadhguru support is 24x7 active.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... He told what happens but even he did not gave a solution... And the way he talked about it seems he himself has gone through this
Really man same
@@mandeepsingh-kj6nz The Only tangible solution to this problem is for the son to man up and leave home if he finds that his relationship with his father is almost irreconcilable. . Bear in mind, unlike mothers, fathers usually do not bend for their kids. So if you identify this problem in your twenties and thirties, just man up, pack up, and leave. It's always difficult initially when you lose that home security you're so used to but if you struggle hard enough to get stability, you'll be the happiest man alive.
@@patrickjensen5602 bro u are very right.
I get along with my father very nicely, he is a bar I think I can never surpass, he is my inspiration, he is my god, so is my mother. And I am 26.
Well said man
@Sampat good to know that, but it's not same with most of the people, so he's just answering what is been asked 👍
Believe me this is exactly how your son might think of you.
@@srinitaaigaura I am not yet married.
There should be inclusion between human beings not ignorance,ideologies and opinions for other people.
If you see others as a piece of life and not setting conclusions and imaginations by your intellect.
You will see this world just the way it is meant to be seen by the creator.
I grow beyond my abandonment as a child to a caring adult with the hope of supporting my son. Hard is life unless you have purpose!
I wish my father was like you. Rather than changing, he turned just like his abusive father. Hope you have a good day 👍
I saw this comment: "Firstly, you realise how limited your intelligence is & how that means how humble you ought to be in doing compromises with the other person you are living with.
- Secondly, you hope the other person in the house realises the same & is able to learn to share with you what he believes is his space, gracefully.
- If you can't sustain your patience that long yet, find a non-violent way ^^ to find your own house/home."
Everyone being respectful and considerate and being willing to make reasonable and fair compromises is a good approach when sharing living spaces with others.
Only Mother's are Experts in Handling & Tackling this Friction between the Father and Son. I am not sure how Daughters Handle this Friction between Father & Son in Absence of Mother. After the Mother I think Daughter in Laws can Take Over very well in Handling the Friction b/w her Husband & Father in Law ..I am & was a Complete & Absolute Failure in Handling this Situation as a Daughter. As Far as Friction between Two Woman if it's a Daughter & Daughter in Law Relationship.....I prefer to keep away my self and just be busy saying my Daily Prayers or Studying or Working [if Employed] with after I am done with my Daily Chores with Mutual Understanding between the two or Family ...😊
When a father and son don't get alone its basic on differences of life and the path the son walks. Both are right on their own right and wisdom apart from self beliefs. Blessings 🙏 🙏 Amen 😔 be at peace ➕
Is it the same in India too? I used to think it's a Turkish thing 😄🙏 Bow down to your wisdom Sadhguruji 😊🙏❤
This is same in humanity
It is an international thing
Ya same
Its like this all around the world
@@user-zi1ks8vc8o actually in animal kingdom.
How could nature be so precise about me that I got a You Tube notification about the video exactly matching my situation..😅
WHEN IT COMES FROM SADHGURU, NATURE WILL ALWAYS PROVIDE WONDERS. YOU WILL EXCELL... BLESSINGS...
It's artificial intelligence
@@veervidhudkavall2157. I'm just being funny
Rightfully said 2 men sharing the same space gonna have conflict. I need to move somewhere where I can breathe without feeling sorry for myself.
The friction has led to huge gap that will remain unfilled. No matter how hard both parties try, disputes prevail..
Love respect and gratitude. Thank you for helping. Amazing energy to you and to flow
Whatever you think of Karan johar, his episode with Sadhguru was one of the best. Good questions and good insights
Guru ji aapki video mujhe bahut inspire krti hai
I was literally thinking something related to this and this notification poped up
Same
With change of times, thoughts and behaviours can't be the same...that distances father and son owing to rigidity of father's and not adoptivistic which is inevitable for sons to survive in competitive world.
Sadhguru comparing this to the animal kingdom is interesting cz i have seen many Documentaries highlighting the same.
Indeed many answers lie in the animal nature of who we are.. I'll definitely study this more 🙏 🙏 🙏
Pranam Sadhguru, from a spiritual youtuber
I was just thinking about this at the moment the notification came through. Thank you 🙏
Same here... Just lied down in bed coz of things happening thinking about the same topic 🤣🤣🤣🤣 mum came and asked me to sit as evening time.. Took the phone and got the video... I
Amazing how the universe pops out things at the right time.
Really,! it's impossible
I support sadhguru but here he become senseless like a hardcore yogi ..that's why clean form of spirituality is also needed like bhagavad gita
@@amresponsibilitytakernotli9613 here he just talks logical and real.... What hardcore did he talk.. He just said what happens....
Hare Krshna lots of love and support from Varanasi Iskcon Varanasi
It's good that me and my father live in different homes.
Plz upload all such videos in hindi too, so that we can share to our parents 😌😊
Best timing I ever seen right time right video
I was always wondering why my internal feeling denies family and people who are too attached to their families..
This video has uploaded after me and my parents quarrel.
It been a very long time since I spoke to my father
Sadhguru ❤️
my dad left me at 7 years old and it's still plaguing my life at 34.
Bless you! 💐🎉
Please don’t do the same to your children.
@@lacsapeduoa564 I'm too caring to do that im born in July.. Currently, I'm childless I have birds and a cat lol when I said it's plaguing my life I meant I constantly think about it.
@@kapiltandonLKO thank you
I wish someone would ask about requiring space in marriage.
plz add subtitles
In The ending Sadhguru don't want to reveal the women way of hiding their frictions. He knows that's where the power of a woman lies, and will cause lot of disturbance if he say it, so he just can't throw it into us like that. A heap of knowledge frfr wow
Agree Sadhguruji but friction can occur with a father but not a *dad* ! For a *dad* always gives forgives and forgets like my foster dad😭😭
HappY Diwali Gurudev💐💐
Tips To Raise Your Vibration
- Let go of your ego
- Expand your consciousness & awareness
- Keep your environment clean
- Go outside in nature everyday
- Listen to music that heals your soul
- Think before you react with emotions
- Isolate yourself from people holding you back
- Eat more healthy greens
- Meditate daily
- Love yourself more
- Philanthropy!
- Eliminate clutter from your life
- Practice gratitude
Absolutely, none of them are ready to back down...
In case anyone did not understand the solution is that after your marriage or if your very uncomfortable before marriage , leave your house and stay at another place . If you want to be close to your parents and worried for them , then rent or buy a home away from just two three blocks. All will be happy.......I posted this from my experience......
Word, Sadhguru🤞
True.....when friction starts even fathers are reacting like foe,they are not showing the sense of long life experience....specially when chids are with out real mother and growing under step mother
The reason Sadhguru gave is wonderful. The question is clearer!
During sri krishna and sri rama times, principles of life, dharma, and karma effect was teached to children. Now nothing, so children are like that.
A beautiful learning and realisation...👌🙏
When I feel stressed out by the idiocy of our politicians, I go here for solace.
I miss the big man ❤
Thank you sadhguru...
Are you from North East?
@@sanyasingh8899 from Malaysia... U:)?
@boing bryan I have been seeing you for years in comment sections
Welcome 🙏
@@boingbryan8123 India... 😄
Every generation makes the same mistake, that's correct but if realization strikes the Father and still he cannot do anything all that can be done is let it go no matter what. Seems the mistake has to continue, the son realization strikes when he grows old. Suffering is in the blood, though one can change it. My fate is fixed and I know for sure what is ahead.
There would be no tension if you remember this dialogue. ‘ Baap baap hota hai. Beta beta hota hai. ‘ Translation. Father is always a father no matter what! Son is always a son no matter what !!
Most of every family always head to head
Namaskaram sadhguru🙏
Be your own individual. I am surprised KJ did not know ,
our body is made of molecules;
which are vibrating constantly ;
and creating electromagelic energy waves....🗣️
Interesting!
🙏 pranamam Sadhguru 🙏
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Namaskaram 🙏
Sadhguru there is difference between father and fatherhood
Namaskaram Reader 🙏 😊
Sadhguru always assures I’m on the right path ❤️
Guruji thank you for making the morning beautiful. From Bangladesh.
Fr!! I'm arguing with my father n this video popped up
Pranams sadhguru 🙏
My father left our home when I was 5 years old "demanding space" and he searched an appartement 100 m accros, thats how we kept friendship all time, very simple ;-)
The Only tangible solution to this problem is for the son to man up and leave home if he finds that his relationship with his father is almost irreconcilable. . Bear in mind, unlike mothers, fathers usually do not bend for their kids.
AWESOME
Good spech sir all are equal messege is every persons life is importent
Sadhguru 🙏
When he said ..some people born in certain place make the entire nation suffer ...legends know to whom Sadhguru is saying 😅
Hitl,er : hah!! nice one my Hindi friend
Thanks 😊
Remember that : we are supposed to grow out of this biological identity, not grow out of the family.
Yeah, many people in comment section misunderstood this..
True true
A father does not need a son but a son needs a father 🙏❤🌻😇
This is not true
@@Jdivine55 why....
@@thatdudethatsezshiz7706 The father needs the son just as much
Yeah, my father always calls me for help and never my sisters to the point im just tired of it
@@muilanhan4759 does he also love u more?
Really helpful video 🙏
you hit the nail...
Video toh dekh lo. 10 second pehle toh upload hui hai. ಠ◡ಠ
@@bu11ymaguire 😁🤣😂🤣
4:21
When the falcon can no longer hear the falconer; things fall apart.
Thnq sadhguru
🙏
Got an answer I was looking for
So true as my sons have turned on their family , mainly me.
Right Sadhguru
Namaskaram 🙏🌸🍃
If anyone here can agree?Possibly The most interesting discussion that could ever take place would most probably be between Sadhguru and Abraham hicks. Like this comment if you agree and lets see if we can get that to happen.
Not just father and son . Father and daughter also
Thats so Sad and True
Sadgurunam ।
It is is my personal observation, that mostly the elder child & father r not at good terms and they both r mostly on different tangents! Whereas, the scene is different with younger chlid, they r generally at same tandoms!
Pranam Aaradhyaa
Truely said 👌👌
2 Men. Guess my little guy has always wanted space. That was his 2nd sentence ever. "Give me space." And after all these years, his Father doesn't understand this. I choose to be a Mother before I choose to be a wife.
इसी परिस्थिति मे हुँ आज कल
Jai Hind 🇮🇳🚩
thanks
Love you sadguru
Oh the italian family and India as a kingdom