Some don’t even have to hide. I have an aunt that was the side chick for 2 years. Wife finally kicked him out, so she does a 12 hour drive to pick him up and move him into HER house. Did that drive again 3 months later to get his belongings. He then convinced her to remove all our family pics from her walls and redecorate her entire house to HIS liking. The man is in his 50’s with no job, no car, bad credit, and has kids & grandkids that don’t visit nor call. Recently, he’s somehow convinced her to trade in her car for a more expensive one, sell her home, relocate to a state where he’s closer to his fam (while she knows no one there), AND buy a house $100,000 more expensive than her previous, right? The sad part is NONE of this is in his name. Some people are so desperate for a partner, they don’t mind pullin from the bottom of the barrel 🤦🏿♀️
Sad part, We can't heal this whole world from relationships out here. Your mindset has to be intact on knowing the difference between good energy, bad energy. God's not please of what took place with your aunt. The crook she's dating believe me, his days are numbered. God does not allow any man to harm his angels on earth. God takes it personal. Amen🙏
Just nasty! These men sleeping around with so many people. Makes you not trust any of them. I’ll keep my PH and sanity balanced and to myself. Thank you!!!
It's funny how he is choosing to chastise the woman who is technically doing all the right things but for the wrong man, but is so matter of fact and ignoring those actions of the men. Teaching women to be wise, yet putting no accountability on the man, still leads to no progress which men like him fail to see. All this is is a man is one who waits in the wings and resents the woman who chooses the lesser man who gets what he feels he is entitled too, you still not getting that box sir
And please understand this speaks LOUDLY about a man’s character. Please free yourself any way you can. You don’t want the man he is describing to be your man.
@KFontLab FreeYourSelf? Woman please. These 304s are not in bondage. They chose the man and that level of toxicity. All 304s wants the same thing at the end of the day. That’s something they can’t get.
@@user-oz5vl2ho8vyou are talking about 304s, we aren't. If 304s is all that you know then u deserve them. But we are talkinv about women who are faithful and want a good partner as well. I know quite a few of them... Stop projecting and trauma dumping on us
This is why I’m celibate until I get married. I learned from my mistakes and since even I’ve gotten 3 proposals 🙏🏾🤷🏾♀️ waiting on God for confirmation because he knows the best man for me
💍 That's the best way. Good for you!! #knowyourworth Glory be to God that I have never been played, and it's because of this reason right here! ✅️ Has saved me from so much heartbreak.
This is the truth…and ladies, men only treat us like this because we allow it and so many of us are giving it up so easy. We have to respect ourselves and stop letting these men devalue us. Why would they respect us if we don’t respect ourselves?
With this red pill community it seems that women are de-centering men && not really basing an importance on what men think or feel. Men have shown they don’t really respect women on a consistent basis for decades, no matter if she has sex, doesn’t have sex. Something will be found in order to attempt to make her feel “devalued” in their eyes. In fact, most men seem to be jealous of women and will go out of their way to find a way to “humble” a woman instead of step up to the plate and become better men for themselves, family and community. With that being said, a man will spit all of this rhetoric and STILL be a fuck boi.
Men also treat us like this because SOCIETY allows it.... why women always have to be the one at fault, look at you, conditioned quick to blame the woman.... no one blames the trickster, the one with the bad intentions in the first place, the ones leaving a trail of broken hearts... why? Why do you believe that men will never change? Why are we conditioned to believe that they can't change? Is it so that they don't have to do the work? So we get taken advantage of and also have to carry the blame? Just like a slave right? And you're over here giving the stamp of approval to these Men... smh look at the other 2 women agreeing with you. This is why Women will be oppressed in love.. because no one stands up and demands accountability from Men.
He's right. I'd rather be single, happy and healthy and safe than have some random person out here sleeping around, passing STD and STI around, having hella babies with everyone in town. Having me out here looking crazy and stupid
I’m 2 years into abstaining and couldn’t be happier. I’m hoping I reach 5, 7, then 10 years. I’ll be okay if I never have sex again. Especially penetration
Your message is timely! A guy that previously pursued me years ago recently contacted me pleading for another chance to reconnect. After asking the right questions, I discovered the person he had married had walked out on him months prior. This same guy has been posting relationship advice with scriptures for months on several social media platforms. I find this to be hypocritical when he's been married multiple times and is no longer with his wife, yet has not disclosed these important details to his viewers & continues to wear a wedding band. I already shut him down & blocked him after letting him know that I happen to know my worth & he can't offer me anything. Ladies: Set boundaries & know your worth! Don't be fooled by guys wearing masks. 🎭
This breaks my heart and gives me inspiration at the same time. I feel embarrassed and ashamed at this big age of 36 to be a fool again. I fear being bitter and cold from this hectic break up I know is coming..
You're a young woman babygirl, it's definitely not too late for you to find a genuine loving honest partner, if that's what your heart desires. Be inspired and motivated by all you've learned and apply it to your life. I found my truest most beautiful love of my life at 50, I'm now 58 with no regrets. The Universe saved the best till last for me.
You gotta know self worth. Why let someone continue to toy with you. If people learn to date themselves. They'll know how to handle certain situations. I did when I was 20. It was a life lesson.
Don’t let a seed of bitterness grow and don’t anyone steal your joy. You can still have joy and peace in the midst of a chaotic situation. Take it from an older lady who knows. God always has you and the best is yet to come.
I learned from having a great Father/Brothers how a man treat a woman - I’m single/no children and at peace - would love to be married- however Men today want fools
Knowledge, that's why I'm peaceful, healthy, happily ALONE!!! AFTER YEARS OF FORCING THINGS TO B, SHIT IT WASN'T NEVER WHAT WE AGREED IT WAS TO B, I JUST ALWAYS ENDED UP BEING AN OPTION HE WOULD PLAY WITH WHEN HE WANTED TO PICK ME, LIKE A TOY IN A TOY BOX. I KNOW STUPID AF 😮 Now I'm so thankful for the lessons, God is turning them into blessings!!! I will always love him, however, I had to revoke his VIP access to my life, to no room to move in my life. Thank you for this, God giving More confirmation, he wasn't man enough for me, he's not even man enough for his self
Not All women...duh. BUT, Lot of women dont want to admit the world lied to them until she lied to herself and blames others for her short comings...as if she isnt incharge of her life Younger women dont wanna listen to the older women... Older women trying to live out their younger years and sabatoge younger women, competing and doing the same dumb shit expecting new results.. All of them blame the men who are mostly just trying to get what they can while always on demand but always under appreciated...he is not without his own flaws, but hated for simply existing taking on the burden of her past poor decisions and delusional outlook...paying for another man he never knew. His childhood had no father he ever knew vindictive baby momma so he never grew into a man just a boy who learned to resent himself and accept bad behavior from women Shes Seeking out good outcomes from shitty men and wondering why, when her character has never qualified for better than subpar...she refuses to demand better from herself, so she attracts what she is, what she allows.. Demands power but refuses responsibility, looking for scapegoats to blame for her lack of hindsight, insight, eyesight and perspective... These Women refuse to admit "I am the reason for my own misery. I keep allowing bad energy in my life cause its "exciting". I dont want to put in the necessary work to attract the type of people who are stabile because Im too consumed with "having fun"...even after having a kid with a man that doesnt claim me and never will cause Im not worth having a family with, and he was never cut out to be that man."
The thing is, many people know they the other person and are okay with it. The reason is, they actually think they are doing something that hasn't been done before! My advice is: Don't be the side chick or side dick in someone else's relationship because when you find a relationship that means the world to you, someone else might end up being the side piece in your relationship.
When a person speaks listen. Once you've listened, make your decisions, and act accordingly. I am glad that we are in the internet age where everything is being revealed
It makes me sad this is where we are as society. There are far too many who can relate and far too many brothers out here doing this and worse. Where did we go wrong???
Every Nation enslaved our ancestors for following Pagan beliefs and other people lifestyles. We are still spreaded across the four corners of this world still in captivity. Our curses run deep for disobeying The Most High. Best kept secret Hebrew Isrealites.
@@Dontbecold• We want to be in captivity so we can have a reason to allow the behavior, and then complain that we are being treated wrong. Damaged people allow this behavior, a healthy person would never allow a boy to treat her in such a way. When we no longer want to live in captivity, we will not. No excuses!
Nobody requires men or black men to have self respect. That’s where we went wrong. The brothers don’t see anything wrong with this. Too many black women take pride in being the “main chick” and being there when he comes home… from sleeping with his other main chick. Etc etc
This young man spoke a mouth full😮 He should've been a advocate for me throughout my dating cycles. He's a black man that has a voice for all women around the world. Look at the King God created through his image. Amen
Whew! When he said the PH part, I just shook my head because yesssss! That’s one of the first signs!!! My last 2 exes are the man he described so glad they are gone and I refuse to go back. They were the worst while I did all I could for them! Bums walk on women like that…MEN appreciate them. Also, some BUMS are good at pretending to be men but usually they can’t uphold that image long.
Lordtt sad thing is he's not lying. Grateful for my peace, great health, celibacy, and no longer giving a F about a relationship because these mofos move different and not in a good way. If God didn't send him its a NO for me✌️. Stay safe everyone and self love is the best love❤️.
@alicia_nicole It’s supply and demand in Atlanta. This a result of all wanting the same men and not willing to compete with your actions and intent. Modern women cheat as much as men and don’t no how about to be asset. Everything is transactional and the love is conditional. Why be with one of you. I can’t each attribute from each person on the roster.
@@user-oz5vl2ho8vSweet pea a woman of value never competes, we don't have to, we just allow the desperate women to chase you. Mercedes Benz and Gucci holds value and never has to "compete" for attention. 😝
This reminds me of a lady who was the sister of a club owner where I used to work; her husband was the bar manager and she would pop up out of no where and say” you seen my HUSBAND!!!?” I would be thinking his name is Shawn and we know he’s your husband but I wouldn’t be so eager to claim him because he sleeps with anybody who will let him. Slept with multiple girls that worked there, tried flirting with me but wasn’t going for it. I remember one lady he messed with popped up on his ass and just sat right next to him at the bar and he was spooked and wouldn’t say a damned thing! All the employees were laughing at the situation!😌
Yea this is so common smh. I've always questioned why women and men. Go after the people that they're not having a relationship with? You never know what a person is saying.
This, unfortunately, is so true and its because we women were not taught or shown self love or self respect within ourselves and our relationships. This behaviour has been passed down generationally; from both men and women of previous generations. Not everybody, but majority. Let us heal ourselves and raise our children by setting a better example, of how to form and practice healthy, respectful, loving relationships.
This gave me chills😢 He described my sons father to a T! Im proud of me, I disappeared from his life 7months ago and I ain’t going back! Maybe he can try to get it right in another life cuz it’s a rap! 😌
Wow Brother wow you dropped a bomb 💣 in my head yes, something exploded from the fire you dropped, need you say no mo i may pass out. Truthful words that make a person check oneself out. On the other hand the games goes on as females have given into the normalcy of this lifestyle just for companionship.
Wow, this was impactful..., makes you feeling stupid and realizing how stupid you really look come into reality. I appreciate the truth being shared, and vocalized.
Did yall hear the lady scream, " Cause it's good!" 🙄 And the cycle will continue no matter how you relay truth to people. Hopefully, you got across to at least one that was there.
@@demetria4339The okie doke is that women still choose the same men on the same aesthetics time after time. Which is through what they think they want and not on what life tells them. You right the game hasn't changed.
I spent most of my 30’s with my kitty cat on recluse for this reason 😂😂😂 I know my worth but when you live in big cities where ppl hop in and out of bed with each other like they change their clothes, it’s safer for your physical health as well as your mental health to not date.
damnnnnn , I always make sure I find love in myself n create my own happiness , thought i wasnt doing the right thing but this clip actually got me right 😉
Yup 👍🏾 that PH balance is always a dead giveaway. I remember when my last boyfriend started sleeping around on me without protection. I could smell her and my PH balance was off. Not to mention how both my son and I dreamt about her (the other woman) as well. See this connection of soul ties thing goes very very very deep indeed. More than just the physical, but the metaphysical,too!
Some don’t even have to hide. I have an aunt that was the side chick for 2 years. Wife finally kicked him out, so she does a 12 hour drive to pick him up and move him into HER house. Did that drive again 3 months later to get his belongings. He then convinced her to remove all our family pics from her walls and redecorate her entire house to HIS liking. The man is in his 50’s with no job, no car, bad credit, and has kids & grandkids that don’t visit nor call. Recently, he’s somehow convinced her to trade in her car for a more expensive one, sell her home, relocate to a state where he’s closer to his fam (while she knows no one there), AND buy a house $100,000 more expensive than her previous, right? The sad part is NONE of this is in his name. Some people are so desperate for a partner, they don’t mind pullin from the bottom of the barrel 🤦🏿♀️
I can believe it just to say you gotta a man smh and still lonely because he's not worth sh***t! Sorry this happened to you.
Sad part, We can't heal this whole world from relationships out here. Your mindset has to be intact on knowing the difference between good energy, bad energy. God's not please of what took place with your aunt. The crook she's dating believe me, his days are numbered. God does not allow any man to harm his angels on earth. God takes it personal. Amen🙏
Darn shame….. and I hope she realizes that he is not worth anything to anyone else
Smh
Damn!!! Thats deep🤦🏾♀️
Just nasty! These men sleeping around with so many people. Makes you not trust any of them. I’ll keep my PH and sanity balanced and to myself. Thank you!!!
It's funny how he is choosing to chastise the woman who is technically doing all the right things but for the wrong man, but is so matter of fact and ignoring those actions of the men. Teaching women to be wise, yet putting no accountability on the man, still leads to no progress which men like him fail to see. All this is is a man is one who waits in the wings and resents the woman who chooses the lesser man who gets what he feels he is entitled too, you still not getting that box sir
@danif2604
Please stop acting like sexually liberated modern women are out here being faithful. 😂 Stop playing yourself.
Exactly 😅💯💜
Like that! 👏🏽👏🏽
Can’t be blaming the males when the females should be knowing better he ain’t using protection. The nastiness goes both ways sis
The men MOST women want are sleeping with all the chicks. And that ain’t many dudes.
And please understand this speaks LOUDLY about a man’s character. Please free yourself any way you can. You don’t want the man he is describing to be your man.
Right
💯💯
@KFontLab
FreeYourSelf?
Woman please. These 304s are not in bondage. They chose the man and that level of toxicity.
All 304s wants the same thing at the end of the day. That’s something they can’t get.
keep being delutional !
@@user-oz5vl2ho8vyou are talking about 304s, we aren't. If 304s is all that you know then u deserve them. But we are talkinv about women who are faithful and want a good partner as well. I know quite a few of them... Stop projecting and trauma dumping on us
Someone said I was cut throat and I felt guilty but after listening to this I thank God I move accordingly 😩
That's good some people don't know how to take the truth! But it's your fault GTFO! 😆
@@eclecticqueencosmeticsllc Fr! at some point, we gotta take accountability for the part we play in our own problems. 🥴
@@Kaiannag sadly not everyone wants to change!
Stay cut throat sis ❤
@@ashwin.unlead right
This is why I’m celibate until I get married. I learned from my mistakes and since even I’ve gotten 3 proposals 🙏🏾🤷🏾♀️ waiting on God for confirmation because he knows the best man for me
You not even safe in the marriage sis
@@s.r.6626 say it again.
@@s.r.6626you is when it’s who God has made for you. Which is who she’s waiting on
💍 That's the best way. Good for you!! #knowyourworth Glory be to God that I have never been played, and it's because of this reason right here! ✅️ Has saved me from so much heartbreak.
That audience got REAL QUIET REAL FAST!!😂😂😂
Sure did 🤣🤣
He ain't lying
Right I totally agree 💯
Nope
At all
This is the truth…and ladies, men only treat us like this because we allow it and so many of us are giving it up so easy. We have to respect ourselves and stop letting these men devalue us. Why would they respect us if we don’t respect ourselves?
Facts
With this red pill community it seems that women are de-centering men && not really basing an importance on what men think or feel. Men have shown they don’t really respect women on a consistent basis for decades, no matter if she has sex, doesn’t have sex. Something will be found in order to attempt to make her feel “devalued” in their eyes. In fact, most men seem to be jealous of women and will go out of their way to find a way to “humble” a woman instead of step up to the plate and become better men for themselves, family and community. With that being said, a man will spit all of this rhetoric and STILL be a fuck boi.
You have told the WHOLE truth!
Men also treat us like this because SOCIETY allows it.... why women always have to be the one at fault, look at you, conditioned quick to blame the woman.... no one blames the trickster, the one with the bad intentions in the first place, the ones leaving a trail of broken hearts... why? Why do you believe that men will never change? Why are we conditioned to believe that they can't change? Is it so that they don't have to do the work? So we get taken advantage of and also have to carry the blame? Just like a slave right? And you're over here giving the stamp of approval to these Men... smh look at the other 2 women agreeing with you. This is why Women will be oppressed in love.. because no one stands up and demands accountability from Men.
🔥
He's right.
I'd rather be single, happy and healthy and safe than have some random person out here sleeping around, passing STD and STI around, having hella babies with everyone in town.
Having me out here looking crazy and stupid
I am glad I have been celibate for 6 years!! God's Timing is always right!!! I rather wait long than marry wrong. 🤷🏽♀️
I’m 2 years into abstaining and couldn’t be happier. I’m hoping I reach 5, 7, then 10 years. I’ll be okay if I never have sex again. Especially penetration
Your message is timely! A guy that previously pursued me years ago recently contacted me pleading for another chance to reconnect. After asking the right questions, I discovered the person he had married had walked out on him months prior. This same guy has been posting relationship advice with scriptures for months on several social media platforms. I find this to be hypocritical when he's been married multiple times and is no longer with his wife, yet has not disclosed these important details to his viewers & continues to wear a wedding band. I already shut him down & blocked him after letting him know that I happen to know my worth & he can't offer me anything. Ladies: Set boundaries & know your worth! Don't be fooled by guys wearing masks. 🎭
I say this all of the time Know your Worth ladies. Never settle for less
They say you stink when really they brought the stink to you!
Baby I LIVED this life. A whole lot of pain birthed a whole lot of power.
This breaks my heart and gives me inspiration at the same time. I feel embarrassed and ashamed at this big age of 36 to be a fool again. I fear being bitter and cold from this hectic break up I know is coming..
The only way to be is fool is to stay sis.
@mindingmines3515
Breakup? You’re a side piece if you’re with a man like that. Lol Break up are for women who are actually claimed by a man. 😂
You're a young woman babygirl, it's definitely not too late for you to find a genuine loving honest partner, if that's what your heart desires. Be inspired and motivated by all you've learned and apply it to your life. I found my truest most beautiful love of my life at 50, I'm now 58 with no regrets. The Universe saved the best till last for me.
You gotta know self worth. Why let someone continue to toy with you. If people learn to date themselves. They'll know how to handle certain situations. I did when I was 20. It was a life lesson.
Don’t let a seed of bitterness grow and don’t anyone steal your joy. You can still have joy and peace in the midst of a chaotic situation. Take it from an older lady who knows. God always has you and the best is yet to come.
My ph balance stayed off messing with my ex, I’m so glad I left
Folks are not ready for this truth. ❤
The truth is being his home mate, and main chick isn’t any better. But … that’s the conversation black women don’t want to have at all
I learned from having a great Father/Brothers how a man treat a woman - I’m single/no children and at peace - would love to be married- however Men today want fools
He really described the men of today
Right
And the chicks who want to be their main or side.
Knowledge, that's why I'm peaceful, healthy, happily ALONE!!!
AFTER YEARS OF FORCING THINGS TO B, SHIT IT WASN'T NEVER WHAT WE AGREED IT WAS TO B, I JUST ALWAYS ENDED UP BEING AN OPTION HE WOULD PLAY WITH WHEN HE WANTED TO PICK ME, LIKE A TOY IN A TOY BOX. I KNOW STUPID AF 😮
Now I'm so thankful for the lessons, God is turning them into blessings!!!
I will always love him, however, I had to revoke his VIP access to my life, to no room to move in my life.
Thank you for this, God giving More confirmation, he wasn't man enough for me, he's not even man enough for his self
Not All women...duh.
BUT, Lot of women dont want to admit the world lied to them until she lied to herself and blames others for her short comings...as if she isnt incharge of her life
Younger women dont wanna listen to the older women...
Older women trying to live out their younger years and sabatoge younger women, competing and doing the same dumb shit expecting new results..
All of them blame the men who are mostly just trying to get what they can while always on demand but always under appreciated...he is not without his own flaws, but hated for simply existing taking on the burden of her past poor decisions and delusional outlook...paying for another man he never knew. His childhood had no father he ever knew
vindictive baby momma so he never grew into a man just a boy who learned to resent himself and accept bad behavior from women
Shes Seeking out good outcomes from shitty men and wondering why, when her character has never qualified for better than subpar...she refuses to demand better from herself, so she attracts what she is, what she allows..
Demands power but refuses responsibility, looking for scapegoats to blame for her lack of hindsight, insight, eyesight and perspective...
These Women refuse to admit "I am the reason for my own misery. I keep allowing bad energy in my life cause its "exciting". I dont want to put in the necessary work to attract the type of people who are stabile because Im too consumed with "having fun"...even after having a kid with a man that doesnt claim me and never will cause Im not worth having a family with, and he was never cut out to be that man."
Glad you realized you deserve better. On to a better journey!
Thank God 😊 THANK GOD ❤ THANK GAWD 🎉🎉🎉🎉 CELIBACY AIN'T BAD AT ALL 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
Amen ❤
The thing is, many people know they the other person and are okay with it. The reason is, they actually think they are doing something that hasn't been done before! My advice is: Don't be the side chick or side dick in someone else's relationship because when you find a relationship that means the world to you, someone else might end up being the side piece in your relationship.
When a person speaks listen. Once you've listened, make your decisions, and act accordingly.
I am glad that we are in the internet age where everything is being revealed
We have ALL been here at least once , but ladies please don’t stay in these cycles
It makes me sad this is where we are as society. There are far too many who can relate and far too many brothers out here doing this and worse. Where did we go wrong???
Every Nation enslaved our ancestors for following Pagan beliefs and other people lifestyles. We are still spreaded across the four corners of this world still in captivity. Our curses run deep for disobeying The Most High. Best kept secret Hebrew Isrealites.
@@Dontbecold• We want to be in captivity so we can have a reason to allow the behavior, and then complain that we are being treated wrong. Damaged people allow this behavior, a healthy person would never allow a boy to treat her in such a way. When we no longer want to live in captivity, we will not. No excuses!
@@Dontbecold no offense, but your grammar here needs work.
@@cobaltblue26 pay no attention to the grammar today, the message is on point
Nobody requires men or black men to have self respect. That’s where we went wrong. The brothers don’t see anything wrong with this.
Too many black women take pride in being the “main chick” and being there when he comes home… from sleeping with his other main chick. Etc etc
Mouth wide open 😳... THIS IS ABSOLUTE ON POINT!! 👏🏽 👏🏽 Dope talent and master of expression 🫡 yeasss! 😎🥰
This young man spoke a mouth full😮 He should've been a advocate for me throughout my dating cycles. He's a black man that has a voice for all women around the world. Look at the King God created through his image. Amen
I’m sure he was or is still currently the man he described. Why do you think he knew the role so well…
He IS this man and we are not kings and queens. I wish we stop this naming already.
Lawd he sho wasnt my man...and nobody else's either....these type of men end up lonely and left in the nursing home and dying alone
Right or looking for a younger hospice wife. To take care of them. Who's gonna cheat on him. 😆
👏🏽👏🏽
He said what he said. 👏🏽👏🏽
I'm thankful that I have never had this problem! Keep it right and tight until marriage. #hesnotyourhusband 💍 #knowyourworth
Everything you said was true I felt every word 💯💯💯 I know my worth that’s why I’m by myself
Me too
@@innocentlife2346 it’s the best way to be
Same here‼️ 💯 it’s a mess out here
@@keelane2575 you ain’t lying about that I have trust issues people be doing to much for me
This entire poem is “yup, yup, dang how’d you know?” 😂
They need to teach gurls this in school ❤
They need to bring God back into school
Whew! When he said the PH part, I just shook my head because yesssss! That’s one of the first signs!!! My last 2 exes are the man he described so glad they are gone and I refuse to go back. They were the worst while I did all I could for them! Bums walk on women like that…MEN appreciate them. Also, some BUMS are good at pretending to be men but usually they can’t uphold that image long.
I agree 💯 glad you're on a better journey.
Amen . we are diamonds ladies . Don't ever let no man treat you like a penny. Know your worth. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
I almost shed a tear 😢
Lordtt sad thing is he's not lying. Grateful for my peace, great health, celibacy, and no longer giving a F about a relationship because these mofos move different and not in a good way. If God didn't send him its a NO for me✌️. Stay safe everyone and self love is the best love❤️.
This is good, love the flow, love the message
Tough Lessons! Do Not Repeat!
He talking about every one of these ninjas in Atlanta 👀
😆😆
Say THAT again girl!!!
Houston too 😂😂😂 All they do is waste ya time. Now everyone is blocked and I’m finally at peace 😌
@alicia_nicole
It’s supply and demand in Atlanta. This a result of all wanting the same men and not willing to compete with your actions and intent. Modern women cheat as much as men and don’t no how about to be asset. Everything is transactional and the love is conditional. Why be with one of you. I can’t each attribute from each person on the roster.
@@user-oz5vl2ho8vSweet pea a woman of value never competes, we don't have to, we just allow the desperate women to chase you. Mercedes Benz and Gucci holds value and never has to "compete" for attention. 😝
So very deep and true.
Matt Capone.🔥
This reminds me of a lady who was the sister of a club owner where I used to work; her husband was the bar manager and she would pop up out of no where and say” you seen my HUSBAND!!!?” I would be thinking his name is Shawn and we know he’s your husband but I wouldn’t be so eager to claim him because he sleeps with anybody who will let him. Slept with multiple girls that worked there, tried flirting with me but wasn’t going for it. I remember one lady he messed with popped up on his ass and just sat right next to him at the bar and he was spooked and wouldn’t say a damned thing! All the employees were laughing at the situation!😌
Yea this is so common smh. I've always questioned why women and men. Go after the people that they're not having a relationship with? You never know what a person is saying.
I can thumbs this up a million times. Excellent observation. Excellent word play. Brilliant message👏🏾
All I can say is damn a bunch of women in the audience understood that and can relate 💯😎
Why he telling on his friends
Lmaooooo
…but when it’s your husband… who’s ya man but not ya man… this hits differently.
Young man young man. 🤦🏽♀️where you at in my day!! GOD BLESS YOUR MINISTRY 🙏🙏🙏
I swear the truth be one of the hardest things to hear😕
Real Talk 💯
Love Jones…Bring this kind of realness back.
❤ yourself first
DAMN! WORD !!!! sTRONjay!!! 👏👏 👏👏 👏👏 👏👏 (standing ovation) !!!! mind blowing TRUTH !!!!
This, unfortunately, is so true and its because we women were not taught or shown self love or self respect within ourselves and our relationships. This behaviour has been passed down generationally; from both men and women of previous generations. Not everybody, but majority. Let us heal ourselves and raise our children by setting a better example, of how to form and practice healthy, respectful, loving relationships.
Thank you man
Let those who are in slumber.... Wake up!!! There's something better on the other side....Truth serum
Well said❤❤❤
Wow i needed to hear this 🙌 👏 much love ❤️ thank you my brothra
Let him cook!🎉
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He just got a new fan💪
Beautiful ❤
Bring it to the light brother 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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I did not need to hear this today, but I'm glad I'm out of that situation. 😔😣
He is so so so so very right! ❤
This is nothing but truth. I found out my ex narc was doing all of this. Smh. Thank God for freedom is all im saying!
@OneFaithFilledLady
Freedom?
You chose him tho. 😂 Accountability is like a foreign language to you all.
This never gets old. 💯👍🏾
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This gave me chills😢 He described my sons father to a T! Im proud of me, I disappeared from his life 7months ago and I ain’t going back! Maybe he can try to get it right in another life cuz it’s a rap! 😌
That's good you're on a new journey.
I rather be single than with a cheater, liar and taker!
Wow Brother wow you dropped a bomb 💣 in my head yes, something exploded from the fire you dropped, need you say no mo i may pass out. Truthful words that make a person check oneself out. On the other hand the games goes on as females have given into the normalcy of this lifestyle just for companionship.
I agree 💯
Wow, this was impactful..., makes you feeling stupid and realizing how stupid you really look come into reality. I appreciate the truth being shared, and vocalized.
Did yall hear the lady scream, " Cause it's good!" 🙄 And the cycle will continue no matter how you relay truth to people. Hopefully, you got across to at least one that was there.
Lll it could’ve also been sarcasm. But the cycle will continue because the game hasn’t changed in decades and people still fall for the okie doke.
@@demetria4339The okie doke is that women still choose the same men on the same aesthetics time after time. Which is through what they think they want and not on what life tells them. You right the game hasn't changed.
@@grindhard4312 lol are you single ?!?
I spent most of my 30’s with my kitty cat on recluse for this reason 😂😂😂 I know my worth but when you live in big cities where ppl hop in and out of bed with each other like they change their clothes, it’s safer for your physical health as well as your mental health to not date.
Smdh! Enough Said!! Lol❤❤😂😂😎🥰🔥💯👀
TRUE FACTS 💯
MY BRO'THA THANK YOU!!!...
FOR KEEPING THINGS 200%
LADIES KNOW YOUR WORTH..
TO KNOW YOU DESERVE BETTER..
NOT LEFT OVERS.....💩😭😱
Omg, who is this guy? I love his poetry. Is his actual name matt capone?
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TRUTH❗️…my top motto KNOW YOUR WORTH☄️
damnnnnn , I always make sure I find love in myself n create my own happiness , thought i wasnt doing the right thing but this clip actually got me right 😉
We accept the love we think we deserve.
The crowd was to loud durning the PH balance part 😂😂😂
And they still Continue to like the smell🐠
Right
He Goin in 💯❤️💫
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Well Said brother...
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So short and sweet ….I receive this message learning to love myself more and more
Respect 💯💯💯
🔥❤Matt Capone is the truth
Let tht 1st line sink in!!
!HEAVY!
Yup 👍🏾 that PH balance is always a dead giveaway. I remember when my last boyfriend started sleeping around on me without protection. I could smell her and my PH balance was off. Not to mention how both my son and I dreamt about her (the other woman) as well. See this connection of soul ties thing goes very very very deep indeed. More than just the physical, but the metaphysical,too!
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LAWD! 😪 this man is on point! Ladies, kNOw your worth ! 💍
Yeah Yeah💯🫡
You betta speak on this madness!!!!
Facts
You know how he knows all of this lool
Exactly cus he’s like this.
Yes, I couldn't see a ring on his finger, not that it counts for much when it comes to some of these men. Probably another Derrick Jaxn (Jackson).
This was dope 👌🏾
Men need to treat women right instead of the bs