10 Tips For Overcoming The Fear Of Driving

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  • čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
  • In this video, I tell you about 10 tips for overcoming the fear of driving! These tips can be applied to all of the different fears of driving, whether you're afraid to drive on the highway, afraid to get behind the wheel and simply start the car, or anything in between! The tips will give you the courage to confront your fears and overcome your fear of driving!
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  • @krushnic
    @krushnic Před 4 lety +3980

    its not really the driving, its driving around other people that scares me ;-;

    • @rogerquerrow2930
      @rogerquerrow2930 Před 4 lety +129

      Same!!!

    • @prod.justjae9957
      @prod.justjae9957 Před 4 lety +242

      Pink Galaxys & Pastel Stars yes people be out here running red lights and shit reckless ass drivers

    • @alexrobbins5602
      @alexrobbins5602 Před 4 lety +246

      Fucking same, I'm more scared about other people hitting me.

    • @Desert_rose214
      @Desert_rose214 Před 4 lety +19

      Same😥😥

    • @S3nzubean
      @S3nzubean Před 4 lety +84

      I had a great fear of driving even nightmares til i got my first driving lesson and now im a little better i think its because my instructor is super cool and doesn't rush you , i think ill schedule alot more lessons to help. I believe once you get on the road you'll slowly get better and more confident

  • @KekeDaPlum
    @KekeDaPlum Před 4 lety +1260

    Terrified of driving with others. Seeing someone in in my rear view mirrors scares the shit outta me. I feel like I’m a burden.

    • @volttys1823
      @volttys1823 Před 4 lety +126

      Shymir Plummer yeah I feel rushed and it give me anxiety when I see other cars coming towards me

    • @0_o475
      @0_o475 Před 4 lety +97

      Volttys a tip is to ignore them, if you’re going the speed limit don’t worry about other drivers let them go around and if they can’t they can wait. Don’t feel rushed.

    • @volttys1823
      @volttys1823 Před 4 lety +38

      xs screams sometimes I get shaky and feel like I’m gonna steer wrong and hit them or go off the street and sometimes I feel like a noodle and if I hit a bumb or a rough road again I feel like if going to steer and hit something

    • @0_o475
      @0_o475 Před 4 lety +23

      Volttys driving can be quite stressful especially on the freeway. There’s many things you have to remember and pay attention to. It’s pretty annoying and can make you anxious. Like he said just start off slow...just drive to your local store or areas that are close then drive further away.

    • @unknownuser6124
      @unknownuser6124 Před 4 lety

      Same

  • @rockys2497
    @rockys2497 Před 5 lety +1843

    To everyone who is here & have road anxiety, you got this! everyone has experienced road anxiety at some point, & honestly seeing other people tell their stories about it makes me feel so much better, cuz I’m not alone & it’s a common thing you just have to practice & as cliche as this line is, believe in yourself!

    • @ferrallezz5246
      @ferrallezz5246 Před 5 lety +3

      Ty

    • @Angela-uc5nq
      @Angela-uc5nq Před 4 lety +3

      Thank you!!!

    • @robgonzales5125
      @robgonzales5125 Před 4 lety +3

      Thanks

    • @eyitsyaboi4527
      @eyitsyaboi4527 Před 4 lety +24

      Thank you everybody keeps telling me that i need to start driving but none of them help me learn how to drive so its really stressful on me right now i appreciate the encouragement 😊😊😊😊😊😊🤗🙂

    • @josef.torrealba6992
      @josef.torrealba6992 Před 4 lety +2

      Wow, how good this video about ideas for fear fear of driving phobia anxiety paths. Another resource that I also found useful for the phobia of driving in the snow was the Knewreck Drive Now guide: if someone wants to know more, search google

  • @rosyposie4279
    @rosyposie4279 Před 4 lety +910

    I just honestly don’t trust myself behind a wheel. I’m scared that I will get nervous and hurt others ;w;

    • @tamaka83
      @tamaka83 Před 4 lety +13

      Me, too

    • @ChangeDaTune
      @ChangeDaTune Před 3 lety +24

      Vickie Ray broooooo that’s me 😂 and all my friends make fun of me for it cuz they love to drive

    • @manifestationhappiness705
      @manifestationhappiness705 Před 3 lety +18

      Same, I don’t want that on my conscience

    • @fightfannerd2078
      @fightfannerd2078 Před 3 lety

      Same

    • @jeffma7507
      @jeffma7507 Před 3 lety +20

      I think it’s about balancing caution with confidence.That’s not a bad thing, but don’t let that overtake you.

  • @Shon9tilR
    @Shon9tilR Před 5 lety +974

    People scare me. They drive crazy and try to run you off the road. No one drive the speed limit.

    • @tessaneko
      @tessaneko Před 5 lety +45

      Shon9tilR agreed. The people here drive so badly, that’s what makes things scary :///

    • @chrissummerfeldt2618
      @chrissummerfeldt2618 Před 5 lety +21

      @@tessaneko people in my area are terrible drivers too

    • @rbmortera68
      @rbmortera68 Před 5 lety +14

      True, there are some crazy drivers out there

    • @CrimsonAvian
      @CrimsonAvian Před 5 lety +13

      Lol I was reading this comment right when he said “driving is actually very safe”

    • @Shon9tilR
      @Shon9tilR Před 5 lety

      Crimson Avian Lol lies

  • @cupiiid4038
    @cupiiid4038 Před 5 lety +616

    I think the reason why I have fear is because of Drivers education class, literally all they talked about is car accidents and that most of those accidents are teens and that most of them die from accidents

    • @eyitsyaboi4527
      @eyitsyaboi4527 Před 4 lety +70

      Wow thats not very helpful at all no wonder your scared to drive i would be too

    • @jayliemora4862
      @jayliemora4862 Před 4 lety +16

      SLATT XO DUDE SAMEEEE OMFG

    • @maxporter3756
      @maxporter3756 Před 4 lety +5

      Yep

    • @liecretsev
      @liecretsev Před 4 lety +6

      hahahaha sameeeee wtf

    • @michaelhourigan7553
      @michaelhourigan7553 Před 4 lety +17

      You haven’t experienced true driver anxiety until you’ve seen an rsa ad. For the love of god don’t watch them

  • @ericagrier9418
    @ericagrier9418 Před 2 lety +498

    I'm 29 & just purchased my car to learn and practice how to drive. I've had my permit for 11 yrs, but never had anyone to actually help me long enough to get better at it. I don't have a fear of necessarily driving, but more so just driving in (heavy) traffic. I used to be embarrassed by being as old as I am, but I'm learning and that's all that matters. I'll get better over time, I know it. It doesn't matter how old you are, don't give up, keep trying. I'm doing this for me and I will get better!!

    • @FASHIONGAL89
      @FASHIONGAL89 Před 2 lety +35

      I'm 32 and finally ready to push my fear off😰 I have 2 babies and one on the way ,I NEED to be driving my fear has increased when becoming a mom. I'm scared of an accident and hurting my babies 🥲😓

    • @nataleewilliams1287
      @nataleewilliams1287 Před 2 lety +20

      I'm 30. Recently bought a car for my Birthday. Had my license for almost four years now. I have really bad anxiety when it comes to driving. I haven't been around a steering for so long I feel like I have forgotten how to monitor a car. In theory I can and know everything but every time I get in the car I get so nervous

    • @ericagrier9418
      @ericagrier9418 Před 2 lety +6

      @@FASHIONGAL89 I think you'll get over the fear the more you get comfortable being in the car. Get familiar with all the functions of the car before you need to use them and do a little everyday, things will get easier. You got this!!!

    • @ericagrier9418
      @ericagrier9418 Před 2 lety +5

      @@nataleewilliams1287 You're already a step ahead, you have your license. Be kind and patient with yourself. Vehicles and being cautious and safe are huge responsibilities, no matter how many others act like it isn't.

    • @briannaskipper96
      @briannaskipper96 Před 2 lety +15

      I’m 26 and I’ve never been taught but I’m purchasing my first car soon to teach myself

  • @jessicatorres7727
    @jessicatorres7727 Před 4 lety +523

    I used to be embarrass because of my age 38 and I have been taking lessons on and off which are expensive. I could not even put the key in the ignition. Fear is a horrible mental sickness. Now I drive but need to take control of the anxiety when people tailgate. I had a garbage truck driver constantly yell at me you failed you failed. Out loud while I was driving I became nervous but said outloud I am bless. We live in a world where people will discourage you instead of encouraging you. The moral to my story is continue to press forward. Encourage yourself! I believe one day I will have my license!

    • @jessicatorres7727
      @jessicatorres7727 Před 4 lety +145

      Who ever read this I now have my license God is good.

    • @TheMizzvanti
      @TheMizzvanti Před 4 lety +52

      I am so happy I ran into your comment. Now I don't feel as bad about myself. I am 26 years old and I am too embarrassed at my age for not driving, let alone not having my driver's license. I'm trying my damn hardest to get everything down pat but it can get discouraging and hard sometimes especially when you have people who say they would teach you but never do it or people that's willing to teach but yet they are very impatient and get frustrated easily when you make a mistake. Not sure when that day will be but I will have my driver's license and my skills will improve for the better.

    • @cassandrabrooks5185
      @cassandrabrooks5185 Před 4 lety +17

      @@TheMizzvantiYou'll get it. 👍👍 32 and I don't have my license. I 'm taking driver ed right now.

    • @sisigs4820
      @sisigs4820 Před 4 lety +1

      @@cassandrabrooks5185 so how do u get places? I just want to know cause im kinda in the same boat but younger..

    • @cassandrabrooks5185
      @cassandrabrooks5185 Před 4 lety

      @@sisigs4820 My siblings.

  • @TheMyr2009
    @TheMyr2009 Před 4 lety +376

    One thing that has helped me besides watching videos on CZcams is when I am driving I like to say out loud what is happening while I’m driving for example “ok that person in front is turning” “I see it’s about to be a red light so prepare to break” “ I notice that car waiting to jump in”...... I hope this helps people.

    • @onoxciametro5686
      @onoxciametro5686 Před 4 lety +33

      This actually does help. Thank you.
      It's like your really focusing when you do that.

    • @zorenmataro7456
      @zorenmataro7456 Před 3 lety +6

      Good to know that i'am not the only one who's talking to my self while driving.

    • @Destined23
      @Destined23 Před 2 lety +1

      This is so me omg !

    • @lexbeltran1354
      @lexbeltran1354 Před 2 lety +2

      That actually helps, I talk to myself while driving. It eases the driving anxiety

    • @loopymomy2532
      @loopymomy2532 Před 2 lety +1

      I am the type of person who gets calm with talking to myself too, but my instructor is my dad. When I tried to do this he justed tried to tell me that I can't do that and I need to keep things in my head. But I can't though? It helps me calm when I keep in control what I'm doing by saying things outloud smh 😒

  • @azathoththe3rd
    @azathoththe3rd Před 4 lety +447

    I'm almost 20 without driving because I'm afraid to get someone hurt. I'm finally at the point in my life where I'm ready to do this. Thank you for this.

    • @king-qi2ks
      @king-qi2ks Před 3 lety +5

      People are actually afraid of driving cars? Lol I don’t get it 😂 my mom had her license and she never drives she is scared shit because one time she drive straight into a tree outside our house 🤦🏾‍♂️ I’m tryna drive but my mom scared for me like wtf

    • @rondadon_0022
      @rondadon_0022 Před 2 lety

      You whippin now ??

    • @elvatoloco7664
      @elvatoloco7664 Před 2 lety +5

      Dude my mom never wanted to teach me and never lend me the car and every time I did convince them they just scream at me and I swear tht built up so much anxiety I feel like ima fuck up every second

    • @elvatoloco7664
      @elvatoloco7664 Před 2 lety

      @@king-qi2ks I feel it💀

    • @Mauricecooper913
      @Mauricecooper913 Před 2 lety

      You got it I have experience of driving that why I’m not really that scared like that

  • @britney5256
    @britney5256 Před 2 lety +163

    1. start slow and work your way up
    2. realize driving is actually fairly safe
    3. know that being a defensive driver increases safety
    4. learn the controls before you are stationary (parked)
    5. driving an automatic car might reduce your fear of driving
    6. start with someone beside you in the passenger seat
    7. take driving lessons
    8. eliminate distractions
    9. do what makes you comfortable
    10. after learning confidence, get out of your comfort zone

    • @aa-tx7th
      @aa-tx7th Před 2 dny

      thank you my ears were starting to bleed listening to this screaming a$$hole crackhead lol

  • @MussoliniLondon
    @MussoliniLondon Před 5 lety +119

    I passed my test 3months ago, bought my car yesterday and drove today, honestly the only thing that makes me nervous is a car behind me 😂😂, but I spoke to my cousin about it and he said as long as you're driving safely and within the speed limit don't let the driver behind you make you nervous, just put on your radio/music and don't give a crap about them

  • @TheLittleme109
    @TheLittleme109 Před 6 lety +273

    Take a deep breath before pulling out of the driveway

  • @rbmortera68
    @rbmortera68 Před 5 lety +244

    im a new driver, a month old driver and im still scared to drive but i always talk to myself that i can do it, and i will drive safely ,

    • @lexbeltran1354
      @lexbeltran1354 Před 5 lety +12

      Just be confident, be careful driving and you'll be fine😊😊😊

    • @cherryblossom5373
      @cherryblossom5373 Před 4 lety +3

      Belinda Mortera how are you? Did it get any better?

  • @rathannuiz9847
    @rathannuiz9847 Před 6 lety +957

    Im scared of driving but i still passed my driver test first time🤙🤙

    • @maryromero7733
      @maryromero7733 Před 6 lety +25

      JumboTron Gamez Great job!I hope I pass mine too

    • @jisbinsanjose6231
      @jisbinsanjose6231 Před 6 lety +15

      I have spent months researching into how to overcome fear of driving and found a fantastic resource at Roys Quick Fix (google it if you're interested)

    • @ullyssessilverio5923
      @ullyssessilverio5923 Před 5 lety +7

      Ok, congrats! Now that you actually have your license do you go out and drive?

    • @TheGamerNerd025
      @TheGamerNerd025 Před 5 lety +4

      Me too bro! I passed the first time as well! :)

    • @moizkhalid1425
      @moizkhalid1425 Před 5 lety +6

      Same today I have to take my sister to the university for the first time and I am scared asf 🤣🤣

  • @CheyennePeppa
    @CheyennePeppa Před 3 lety +194

    I was comfortable driving when I was originally learning but my father while teaching me yelled at me and terrified me, now I’m 25 and yet to get my full license. I’ve seen and been in too many wrecks and I’ve dealt with aggressive teachers too much to be comfortable, but I feel like I’m lacking in basic freedom because I don’t drive myself anywhere.

    • @meadow2579
      @meadow2579 Před 3 lety +11

      I’m in the same boat. I’m going to keep trying though. Try getting comfortable with driving around your neighborhood. I wish you the best of luck.

    • @changingviews7124
      @changingviews7124 Před 3 lety +12

      Same here I’m 26 and have so much anxiety but it’s becoming harder to have the freedom to go when I need

    • @squish1267
      @squish1267 Před 3 lety +17

      I'm 35 years old and just now finally learning to drive due to a history of seizures and anxiety, which have gotten under control in recent years. I went for a driving lesson the other day and the instructor yelled at me for turning the wheel too hard, holding the wheel wrong, etc etc. I just cried. I need to be driving soon so that I can attend my clinicals to become a nurse. I've spent much of my life either in cities or as a hermit stuck at home, but I'm ready to get out in the world and make a difference. I encourage you to face your fear sooner than later. It seems it wasn't long ago that I was 25 and afraid to drive. You got this!

    • @bluskie605
      @bluskie605 Před 2 lety +6

      Same, my first two driving instructors tripled my anxiety about driving now. They were both so mean and didn't answer my questions when I asked about how to do certain things when driving. Like how do I turn better. He said, just go.

    • @changingviews7124
      @changingviews7124 Před 2 lety +8

      @@bluskie605 I just finally got my license 2 days ago and I found it more helpful to watch CZcams videos that were super detailed after 4 on road lessons I started practicing by myself! The channels I watched were smart drive test and helpful diy both guys are good at explaining and showing with multiple cameras!!

  • @kleec6078
    @kleec6078 Před 5 lety +170

    I have a fear of turning into neighborhoods where the cars are parked on both sides of the street

    • @nguelahroseline7692
      @nguelahroseline7692 Před 5 lety +9

      That makes two of us

    • @tessaneko
      @tessaneko Před 5 lety +7

      I live in front of a public school, I feel this so much :((

    • @Eddy12700
      @Eddy12700 Před 3 lety +11

      the side view mirrors always get me so bad idk how far or close traffic i feel like the side view mirror will touch some bs its annoying

    • @Mandenga100
      @Mandenga100 Před 3 lety

      I have that too. I am always thinking like what if I hit one of them by driving to close?

    • @Steposhina
      @Steposhina Před 3 lety

  • @Amandalafontaine
    @Amandalafontaine Před 6 lety +2180

    OK BUT WHY ARE YOU SCREAMING AT ME

    • @youngphoenix0980
      @youngphoenix0980 Před 5 lety +23

      SkinnyPenis SKINNY PENIS!

    • @liangchen6451
      @liangchen6451 Před 5 lety +9

      Cause I am so scared 😫

    • @miloradradovanovic6319
      @miloradradovanovic6319 Před 5 lety +27

      Here's some tips for how to overcome fear of driving
      1) Take control of your life.
      2) Learn about the power of the mind.
      3) Follow the path of people who have already overcome the fear.
      I got these tips from the Roys Quick Fix (check it out on google) definately the most incredible course on becoming wealthy & successful i've seen.

    • @mladenmarkovic7193
      @mladenmarkovic7193 Před 5 lety +3

      hey ,if anyone else wants to discover how to overcome phobia of driving a car try Sovallo Fearless Driver Fixer (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my cousin got cool success with it.

    • @aalispahic4359
      @aalispahic4359 Před 5 lety

      I\'m not sure but ,if anyone else needs to find out about driving anxiety try Tarbetti Car Coping Tutor (just google it ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my cousin got cool results with it.

  • @girlnotforsale
    @girlnotforsale Před 6 lety +296

    I can drive just fine in MY town. My problem is driving to a new town. My FEARS are getting lost (missing a turn). Me slowing down traffic because I don't know if I'm in the right lane. And once I am lost not knowing what to do. You can't just ask people for help anymore without them getting annoyed. I am up in age and still stuck in the same town. It is depressing.

    • @pesiuber
      @pesiuber Před 5 lety +19

      Wow. You just described my life. My boss is moving my job to the next city and I am seriously thinking of getting a new job.

    • @yolandaobregon7094
      @yolandaobregon7094 Před 5 lety +14

      Or when the person yells at you and insults you

    • @OGHadesFTF
      @OGHadesFTF Před 4 lety +1

      girlnotforsale I don’t think I know a girl that has no gps on her phone. And I’m sure if you asked for some help cause you were lost people wouldn’t get annoyed lol

    • @fractionpassion
      @fractionpassion Před 4 lety

      What about a gps?

    • @nicky-jv8dr
      @nicky-jv8dr Před 2 lety

      @@OGHadesFTF what does being a female got to do with gps? shit comes with every phone and car nowadays lmfaoo

  • @hf18455
    @hf18455 Před 5 lety +188

    Switching lanes and highways can bite me

    • @jesusismyjoy7102
      @jesusismyjoy7102 Před 4 lety +21

      H F 😩😩😩😩paralyzing fear of switching lanes and highways !

    • @anonymous_yo_mama6728
      @anonymous_yo_mama6728 Před 4 lety +3

      I'm kinda nervous/anxious right now. Cause tomorrow I have driver's education, and it's the highway session.
      And last session I was already messing up on, not changing lanes smoothly😩

    • @cassandrabrooks5185
      @cassandrabrooks5185 Před 4 lety

      @@anonymous_yo_mama6728 Mine's this Monday. I'm little nervous.

    • @Sportieguy
      @Sportieguy Před 4 lety +4

      I remember when I took my first lesson on the highway the scariest part was entering the highway and keeping up to speed. Switching lanes is not that hard to be honest.

    • @anonymous_yo_mama6728
      @anonymous_yo_mama6728 Před 4 lety

      @@Sportieguy True. Entering the way was honestly the hardest part, and then you gotta figure out how fast you have to go, in order to enter.

  • @5kingquan
    @5kingquan Před 5 lety +326

    Glad I’m not alone lol

  • @ricotv7718
    @ricotv7718 Před 4 lety +95

    I’m 19 and I’m scared to death to drive !😭

    • @riennx1255
      @riennx1255 Před 4 lety +2

      sameeee

    • @Eddy12700
      @Eddy12700 Před 3 lety +3

      lol im 24 and im still scared so yea, also give me an update have you started driving or permit/license?

    • @joelhp9742
      @joelhp9742 Před 3 lety

      @@Eddy12700 I have

    • @2kchallengewith4video
      @2kchallengewith4video Před rokem

      ​@@Eddy12700can i get an update

  • @chenoamoten5296
    @chenoamoten5296 Před 5 lety +322

    Are you a driving instructor? If you're not you would make a great instructor.

    • @jreyes2822
      @jreyes2822 Před 5 lety +30

      Chenoa Moten he’s my CZcams driving instructor

    • @ibabymomx3
      @ibabymomx3 Před 4 lety +3

      Kenny McCormick foreal

  • @sarahanderson8034
    @sarahanderson8034 Před 5 lety +195

    I’m 20 years old, I’ve been in multiple car accidents throughout my life (none in which is was the drivers faults, always was hit by another person) and I’m beyond terrified of driving. It’s a hassle on everyone in my life and I can’t seem to get behind the wheel without shaking and crying. Someone help 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @sarahanderson8034
      @sarahanderson8034 Před 5 lety +4

      Thank you dude!

    • @jacquelinebennett
      @jacquelinebennett Před 5 lety +32

      I’ve not been in any accidents and I passed my driving test with flying colors and with ease and I’m a good driver, but I get so nervous because I am terrified of the idiots I share the road with.

    • @jadedblue04
      @jadedblue04 Před 5 lety +17

      Jacqueline Bennett yes! That is my fear as well. I am from new hampshire and everyone treats the road like a nascar track. If speed is 30mph you will have people zooming by at 40+mph! There is no "3 second rule" here either. If youre just at the speed limit there will be people tailing your ass, like 1 second behind you. So that requires me to speed up to turn because they won't have time to slow down if i slow down without hitting me! It is getting ridiculous! I hate driving. I am learning because I have to take my kids to school soon but I am worried about all these horrible drivers

    • @msfaye5182
      @msfaye5182 Před 5 lety +1

      @@jadedblue04 were I'm from it's illegal to tail gate or rush people on the road there's been to many accidents so they just put they just made it illegal. But that sounds terrifying.

    • @TheCheExperience
      @TheCheExperience Před 5 lety +18

      Sarah Anderson dude , same ! I got in a wreck at 17 and it was bad. It messed me up to the point where being in a car period scares me. Now I am just tired of depending on others and wasting money on Uber’s , so I’m taking my drivers test tomorrow to kick fears ass, don’t let anyone rush you , it happens when YOU ARE READY ! However I hope it happens sooner than mine did ! I wish you the best Sarah , don’t feel bad about it , life happens hun

  • @NN-ej9lk
    @NN-ej9lk Před 5 lety +95

    I have a huge fear of driving! It’s been 4 years since I got my license and have only drove a few times. I live on a busy road it makes it so hard to get out of my drive way without being so scared. What makes it hard for me is I always think about what people think when I’m driving like if I take to long to turn people will beep and it makes me more nervous. I watch all these videos to end my fear I feel good but once I get in the car it all comes back. I really want to drive but I just get to scared sometimes I feel my legs shaking I have these thoughts of just wanting to give up. I just want to have no fear and be happy when I’m driving.

    • @NN-ej9lk
      @NN-ej9lk Před 5 lety +5

      mika mi
      Still haven’t gotten over my fear it’s been another 5 months and I haven’t set foot in the drivers seat. Just sitting in it while it’s off scares me. Thanks good luck to you too hope you get over your fears before me haha :)

    • @lilstuart1584
      @lilstuart1584 Před 2 lety

      @@mynameisjeff4967 how are you now

    • @lilstuart1584
      @lilstuart1584 Před 2 lety

      @@NN-ej9lk how are you now

    • @sofiagaitan5259
      @sofiagaitan5259 Před 2 lety

      Me toooooooo!!!!! Literally the same. Finally going to just get a car a like to motivate me :(

    • @tutsecret499
      @tutsecret499 Před rokem +1

      You need to have a buddy inside your car for a while, until you get accostumed. Get a good boyfriend, a husband, a friend, a roommate, co-worker. In my case when I learned, and then started driving, my ex husband was excellent was always with me and taught me very well, then one day he said, "it's time you go alone from now on". I had problem with directions, like how to get to specific places. I know one case where the whole family took turns to go with the learner everywhere, and 2 years past, the father said: "you go alone from now on, and this day was raining pouring. Anyway all this insecurity drama past, and now the daughter drives even to the moon. Everybody has it's pace. But don't give up, do slowly but consistently, and seek results.

  • @douglasvitrano
    @douglasvitrano Před 5 lety +42

    one things that's helped me a lot is, do the things that scare you often.

  • @3nvy.m3
    @3nvy.m3 Před 5 lety +183

    this is why i get scared bc people YELL AT MEE AGGHHHHHH

    • @lexbeltran1354
      @lexbeltran1354 Před 5 lety +15

      People yell at you while driving? That is not cool

    • @ibabymomx3
      @ibabymomx3 Před 4 lety +3

      214. TG lol yea ppl b so mean sometimes

    • @ashleysolomon6265
      @ashleysolomon6265 Před 4 lety +1

      Ughh my sons father lol

    • @askingkennedy9570
      @askingkennedy9570 Před 4 lety +1

      FELT

    • @dustinlee168
      @dustinlee168 Před 3 lety +2

      These two women honked at me while i was turning to and pull up on our driveway. She was expecting me to drive faster than 45 when i was turning. People r just mean.

  • @supriyagentes6042
    @supriyagentes6042 Před 2 lety +6

    I have anxiety of driving after an accident which T boned us ... I feel scare of speed and I really freak out on highway trucks and speed. That anxiety got built up gradually . I am trying to overcome it and thanks for all the tips . really you are a good teacher .

  • @asg7448
    @asg7448 Před 5 lety +94

    I can’t turn around corners without going over a curb, so that’s fun

    • @strangerrrrrrr
      @strangerrrrrrr Před 5 lety

      daquavis SAME

    • @ELP1125
      @ELP1125 Před 5 lety +3

      Curb*
      And you’re just turning too soon

    • @ev_green_
      @ev_green_ Před 4 lety +2

      yeah turning is really "knowing" the space of the car just practice turning in a parting lot and turning into empty parking spaces

  • @xde_H
    @xde_H Před 3 lety +8

    Reading the comments and seeing that I’m not the only one make me feel little bit better about myself 🙏🏻

  • @Darkknight41790
    @Darkknight41790 Před 2 lety +6

    I’m 31yrs old and just passed the drivers written test yesterday. Thank you for your videos, very helpful.

  • @babymario6514
    @babymario6514 Před 5 lety +85

    I’m actually decent at driving but I can not drive wit other ppl I don’t know why but it causes me so much stress and anxiety that I can’t drive correctly but when I’m alone ima smooth sailor

    • @shaunazawadi4100
      @shaunazawadi4100 Před 4 lety +1

      Same to me 😥

    • @jocelyna.3755
      @jocelyna.3755 Před 3 lety +3

      Shauna zawadi omg practice with teddy bears in the seats😭goodluck

    • @vmann1237
      @vmann1237 Před 3 lety

      Omg same! I thought I was the only one who thought this way but glad to not be alone!

    • @symphonicdeerstalker7320
      @symphonicdeerstalker7320 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm the opposite, i feel like if i don't have someone near me i can't have help in case i crash/panic etc

    • @taylorfrederick5455
      @taylorfrederick5455 Před 3 lety +1

      Finally, someone else who gets it. I prefer to drive alone bc I feel so uncomfortable and nervous with having someone else in the car with me.

  • @mr.shinyhunter6508
    @mr.shinyhunter6508 Před 2 lety +7

    I'm 18 and I feel awful not being able to drive, especially since most of my friends can drive amazing

  • @maryromero7733
    @maryromero7733 Před 6 lety +54

    I have a fear of parallel park and driving in the freeway. I know how to drive very well ,but the only struggle is parking my car.I will go do my behind the wheel Next month because I fail the 1st time.I have extreme anxiety 😣

  • @Alouha0407
    @Alouha0407 Před 2 lety +3

    I had fear of driving before because of the cars behind me and not confident at all. Been using taxi drivers to get home from work and dealt with them being rude and waiting for hours made me tired and upset. So I told to myself that I am going to drive in able for me to go to work and be comfortable in my own car and get home early. I overcome my fear on the road. I still need to keep practicing in able to complete the hours they required at the BMV.

  • @eftaliakompogiorgas2593
    @eftaliakompogiorgas2593 Před 5 lety +52

    I've got my learners and I'm practicing with the instructor ♡ the more practice I will do the less fear I will have ♡ 😊

    • @lexbeltran1354
      @lexbeltran1354 Před 5 lety +3

      Exactly, practice makes perfect. In time, you will master your driving skills in time. Good luck☺☺☺

    • @andyyang50
      @andyyang50 Před 5 lety

      What car did you practice with. Auto? Manual?

    • @Evelyn-fw2jz
      @Evelyn-fw2jz Před 4 lety

      My instruct is so mean and is always shouting that’s why I hate going

  • @jamesotisrenefordjr4668
    @jamesotisrenefordjr4668 Před 4 lety +14

    Am 31 Years Of Age In Never Really Took A Drivers Test I Had So Much Fear Of Missing Up In It Never Helped When Nobody Wonna Teach You That Really Sucks It Makes You Not Ever Wonna Drive Anything But Throughout My Life My Holy Father Has Shoed Me How To Do Almost Everything In I No For A Fact He’ll Help Me Overcome This Driving Thing #Soon

  • @subhasininatarajan5809
    @subhasininatarajan5809 Před 4 lety +6

    I'm ok to drive in empty road, the moment I see the vehicles and people movement I feel terrible immediately. But I could relate to one of your tips, it's the manual car which adds oil in the fire - my brother says I will do better with automatic car. Great video. Thanks

  • @kryzzyb3422
    @kryzzyb3422 Před 5 lety +16

    Thanks for this. I took driving lessons for both manual and automatic and I really think automatic did lessen my anxiety with driving. One thing my instructor also told me then is that confidence is needed to drive. So feel confident already before getting behind the wheel!

  • @cindytran8927
    @cindytran8927 Před 5 lety +13

    Just started learning how to drive, my biggest fear is getting hit or crashing into someone or something, my grandma is teaching me she is a great driver with lots of experience but, she is not calm and she yells a lot it makes me very stressed and panic even more.

  • @pangkoulee7648
    @pangkoulee7648 Před 5 lety +6

    Another thing you can do is also visualize how you would drive in a situation before you go out driving. Deep breaths. And YES driving lessons help alot.

  • @julissa8640
    @julissa8640 Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you, I watched your videos and went driving today after almost 3 months . Just saying thank you for helping me overcome my fear. I kept reminding myself that driving is a normal, safe activity that everyone does. Sounds silly but it works

  • @kefkapalazzo1
    @kefkapalazzo1 Před rokem +2

    I’m 28 in nyc and I tried to learn last year. No one was patient with me, and until I started taking Ubers often I’d be in a car less than 10 times a year on average

  • @Ari44402
    @Ari44402 Před 6 lety +65

    A semi passed by me(traveling in the opposite direction) and blew a gust of wind up and made my hood pop open a little and I literally screamed😂

  • @katia3667
    @katia3667 Před 4 lety +8

    I haven’t drove in about 2 years and I’m finally getting my new car today so watching your videos have been a good refresher lol I’m a little scared because I have gotten in a few bad accident as a passenger so I have a little fear I know it will pass but I just take it slow let the other people pass you is what I’ve always been told!

  • @MYInnerSoulS
    @MYInnerSoulS Před 3 lety +9

    I have my licence for 4 years now and I have driven very few times. I wanna start again and I'm planing on taking classes but honestly the idea of me geting up one day and just geting in the car alone to go somewhere feels crazy! I really wanna make it but my fear makes it look so difficult!!

  • @hienienguyen6766
    @hienienguyen6766 Před 5 lety +2

    wow you got me thinking of better ways of thinking about driving. i am already passed by driving in a parking lot. now is getting over the fear of being around people

  • @spaces3345
    @spaces3345 Před 4 lety +13

    I'm 26 and I really need to learn how to drive. But I suffer with migraines that affect my vision. So, I'm so nervous about that. I got my first permit when I was 17 and it ended up expiring when I turned 23. Now, I have another permit and it's about to expire next year. Need to get my nervous shit together.

  • @kristinareichl8516
    @kristinareichl8516 Před 3 lety +15

    I went out of my comfort zone today and drove into the city (Tampa) and on 2 highways. It was also a 2ish hour trip, which is the longest I've ever driven alone. I took some wrong turns, but I feel so much better about driving

  • @jelanimckenzie49
    @jelanimckenzie49 Před 6 lety +19

    I like this a lot. The more I watch your videos the more better of a driver I can successfully be.

  • @mvddiekay
    @mvddiekay Před 4 lety +12

    I got my license at 17 and I was okay with it even though I kind of drove crazy when I drove my mum places. Then one time we were crossing the freeway and I didn’t look close enough to see there was a car driving past that was *close* and I went ahead and tried to cross then as soon as I realized I would’ve almost hit them I pressed the break and avoided hitting them. But that was the moment that made me super scared to drive, my mom got onto me about it and I realized how dangerous it is and the possibility of dying if I don’t pay attention 🙁 ever since that incident I am scared. And it sucks because I live right next to a freeway, I have to cross it or take the other road which is longer way but at-least I’m safe. I’ve barely drove since then. And it sucks because I’m 18 now and my parents are pressuring me to start driving because I will need to drive myself to college and work because they will be busy 😕 wish I lived in a state that had train stations. ugh. I hope I get better 🙏🏻

  • @Hudon-qi8br
    @Hudon-qi8br Před 3 lety +6

    When he said said driving is actually very safe my fear vanished also I just drove for the first time in a parking lot its not as bad as I thought as long as you pay super close attention

  • @nightwalker9828
    @nightwalker9828 Před 5 lety +34

    Can't do it because my driving instructor keep yelling and tapping my shoulder and he screamed : speed up SPEEEEEDDDD UPPP!!!!

    • @contentsommelier
      @contentsommelier Před 5 lety +1

      I kinda feel like a bad instructor when I was 16 is what caused my driving phobia. Can you request a different one?

    • @5secondsofpaige
      @5secondsofpaige Před 5 lety +2

      my instructor is the same way it makes me not want to go out and practice with him

    • @blaineyeamlak
      @blaineyeamlak Před 4 lety

      Im bouta fail.... Again cause the same thing

  • @56dimples
    @56dimples Před 5 lety +7

    I can actually say, Your tips have helped me out a great deal.. Thank You!

  • @AkuaOkodie
    @AkuaOkodie Před 2 lety +2

    Very practical. Moved around and reversed in a parking lot. I was shaking glad i did. Also agreed changing over to automatic reduced some of the fear. Next target is going down the road.

  • @jazmin9196
    @jazmin9196 Před 6 lety +95

    My problem is at highway. Oh boy I got so anxious. I don’t have not problems driving local but when it comes to drive on highways it’s the worst to me! 🙄

    • @douglasvitrano
      @douglasvitrano Před 5 lety +2

      me too

    • @joykeith6025
      @joykeith6025 Před 5 lety +3

      thank god am not a lone

    • @tikatinika1367
      @tikatinika1367 Před 5 lety +3

      OMG just like me. I can drive in town, but when it comes to highways , I get crazy. If there is someone with me, that's ok, but if I am alone, I get so anxious that I end up having a panick attack

    • @hienienguyen6766
      @hienienguyen6766 Před 5 lety

      yeah i think that would be anyone

    • @jacquelinebennett
      @jacquelinebennett Před 5 lety +3

      I know I am trying to get over my fears/anxiety to get onto major highways. I am fine driving to and from work (which is 15 mins from home) but beyond that I get so anxious.
      My reason for wanting to get over it is myself and my friend of ten years who I met online want to meet and we wanna go out and have fun and do a trip and I wanna be able to be independent so we can do it without anyone else (i’m 27 and I rely on my mom heavily for getting me around because of my fear and I am tired of feeling like a burden)

  • @MarinaMoldovan
    @MarinaMoldovan Před 5 lety +6

    I'm so thankful for your videos . You make the best video ever!!!

  • @missmarwa150
    @missmarwa150 Před 4 lety +4

    I live in an overpapulated city, the streets are very narrow and It's crowded all the time. I didn't have any fear of driving. Until my dad was driving one day and a small bus hit us, it was very bad accident. The man hit the passenger seat where I was sitting. The ambulance came and took me to the hospital. Thank God, I stayed sound and safe, but since then I am terrifed of driving.

  • @giftya3115
    @giftya3115 Před 6 lety +6

    Thanks for sharing it helps alot as beginer learning to drive.

  • @greysyena7952
    @greysyena7952 Před 2 lety +3

    Getting a relaxed and cool headed driver companion is the best tip. Tried and tested!

  • @imjustsomeguy
    @imjustsomeguy Před 3 lety +7

    I'm in my early 20s, already have a driver's license, and I still get anxiety when driving. My brother got his license at age 16 and by age 17, he drives on freeways like it's nothing.

  • @MICAbolles
    @MICAbolles Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing these driving tips! I have a horrible phobia/fear of driving and I have to start learning how to drive. I am TOTALLY not looking forward to the whole experience! I want to face my fears and eventually learn to drive my husband's semi trucks as that would be quite an accomplishment for me! But every time I get behind the wheel I shake and sweat and panic so bad that I get blurred vision and bad judgment. I will definitely be taking your advice and starting out at the bottom of the "ladder" as I undertake and attempt to master driving.

  • @aliciamckay9769
    @aliciamckay9769 Před rokem +1

    Really been learning a lot from the guy. He really should get a lot more credit than this. So humbled and grateful for his help to others get over fear of driving and teaching me a lot.

  • @jimenaares9021
    @jimenaares9021 Před 5 lety +3

    I am loving your tutorials for new drivers thanksss

  • @randomname3709
    @randomname3709 Před 4 lety +6

    I keep trying my best not to be stressed but god knows I feel like I have a ball in my stomach from stress. I even keep getting nightmares of crashing the car and when my dad or siblings teach me they dont understand this irrational fear that I have.

  • @nickandchrismom
    @nickandchrismom Před 4 lety +18

    This was very helpful! I will be 35 on the 3rd of next month, I have a licence and my nearly 17 yr old son just got his license and I have a fear of driving I am overcoming in Jesus name. Thanks!!

  • @CinnamonWillis
    @CinnamonWillis Před 2 lety +1

    I always come back to watch your videos when I get nerve enough to get in a car again! I live in NY so it's not often that I'm behind the wheel. Thank you for all of these videos over the years :D

  • @alexgarza4944
    @alexgarza4944 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for making this video! This video gave me the confidence to drive on my own to without feeling any anxiety and I'm getting my car very soon 😌💯

  • @charlenec8382
    @charlenec8382 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm 25 and I just got my license a few months ago and I just got a car and driving still makes me nervous. I'm okay with driving in town, still need to work on turning and stuff, but what really makes me extremely nervous is switching lanes, highway driving, and passing. I'm also not very good at parking so I park away from everybody if I can. I feel way better when someone's in the passenger seat but obviously that can't happen all the time. It's definitely a learning experience.

  • @jeffma7507
    @jeffma7507 Před 3 lety +8

    I think it’s starts off as precognition to be wary of the road and surroundings, then it starts to to turn into anxiety. So having an active and cautious mind while driving is a good thing, but once you let that be the source of your fear, it’s become unhealthy.

  • @winniecantonese
    @winniecantonese Před rokem +1

    I started watching your videos today!!! Thank you for all your awesome driving videos!!!

  • @OdaAlexx
    @OdaAlexx Před 2 lety +3

    I have my first driving test next week, so scared of driving!! I think it’s worse now that I’m 27, I’ve built it up in my head as this thing I could never do. Now I have a child and realize I NEED a car, but still so scared of messing up😶 I’ll remember the ladder thing when I start 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @animeloverforeverfan3701
    @animeloverforeverfan3701 Před 3 lety +13

    People around me make me feel more anxious because I think I'm doing something wrong all the time. And I'm scared especially in neighborhood areas where there are cars parked slightly on the road or an obstacle (including pedestrians) that I don't want to hit OBVIOUSLY but I just get stressed. Also people really should start abiding by the speed limit and not put pressure on you when you're driving the exact speed limit.

  • @davinaedwards7936
    @davinaedwards7936 Před 4 lety +4

    God bless you my brother, youve been a big help to me

  • @ewoyenrurhemebradu5388
    @ewoyenrurhemebradu5388 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks, I'm just learning how to drive and this is just what I need.

  • @090435438
    @090435438 Před 4 lety +10

    The crazy part for me is I’m a great driver. I trust myself...i just don’t trust other drivers. My fear of getting rear ended is real

    • @RealAntek
      @RealAntek Před 3 lety +3

      Put very long metal spikes on the rear of your car

  • @lotuskoko
    @lotuskoko Před 5 lety +3

    I would say in general, but especially in this time where people tend to be preoccupied (especially with their phones) and not aware, teach the new driver to develop their situational awareness. This is probably one of the most important aspects of driving. Once you are comfortable with what is going on around you you will gain more confidence because you can more easily manage the situation. This will result in learning the basic techniques much easier. You're mind won't be stuck on fear of (fill in the blank).

  • @nancyvillagonzalo5301
    @nancyvillagonzalo5301 Před 2 lety +2

    I'll have somebody beside me. The one who's relax in carrying instructions, it helps a lot :)

  • @Angel-gt5iv
    @Angel-gt5iv Před 4 lety +1

    Your channel is really amazing and helpful to everyone, hope you keep making videos and stay safe and healthy!!!

  • @mavismataga4571
    @mavismataga4571 Před 5 lety +3

    Thank u for your videos..Great job

  • @laingmaryann
    @laingmaryann Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks for the tips. I have had my license for over 20 years. I have driven a total of 10 times including driving lessons. I just get too freaked out. I am thinking about trying to drive again. It would be nice to finally be able to drive a car.

  • @nanalopez9400
    @nanalopez9400 Před 2 lety +1

    i have a fear of driving and im 30 years old. While growing up (as a child/teen) i have been in a few car accidents some not so bad just a fender bender but my last accident was with an ex and that one almost cost me my life. That is when i lost my will to drive. I am now slowly overcoming my fear and i take my test on Nov. 16th hoping that i pass. Parallel parking is also not my strong suit and i am still practicing it till this day. You videos have really helped me and really broke some things down to where i can understand them. Thank you!

  • @gildarose2173
    @gildarose2173 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you sir so much for your videos, they are so helpful. I got my licence when I was 18years old.. and never needed a car until right now. I’m from Australia Sydney. Now living in the country so I really needed a car.. I drove years on and off but never to bothered with it, but now need a car. I took some refresh driving test for 5weeks.. 2mths later my dad bought ne a car my first car ever... I’m so happy but sometimes a little nervous thank you for your videos..

  • @janoygrant5144
    @janoygrant5144 Před 3 lety +3

    I like the idea of overcoming fear by listening music or having persons in the car with you

  • @julienkhachas4042
    @julienkhachas4042 Před 6 lety +132

    hey everybodyyyyy

  • @alhanuof5330
    @alhanuof5330 Před 2 lety +2

    I have a car and a drive license but I am struggling to push myself to drive. Thank you for the tips I will try to apply it

  • @cj8803
    @cj8803 Před 2 lety +2

    I needed this video. I'm JUST learning how to drive and taking lessons. It's getting better day by day, but my anxiety gets me worked up and I don't want that. I want to feel CONFIDENT that I know what the hell I'm doing lol.

  • @nathanhaimson
    @nathanhaimson Před 3 lety +4

    I'm 22 and have just gotten my permit for the fourth time. I've just been too scared to practice. I wish I could teleport because driving is just so intimidating.

    • @abriawilds2872
      @abriawilds2872 Před 3 lety +1

      Same 😭

    • @meadow2579
      @meadow2579 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m 19 and only have my permit. I’m really scared to drive too. I wish you luck on getting your license.

  • @heroinmother5314
    @heroinmother5314 Před 5 lety +10

    you sound like charlie from its always sunny in philadelphia (but thanks for the vid inwas terrified❤️)

  • @maggymaina3416
    @maggymaina3416 Před 3 měsíci

    This guyis just amazing, makes everything seem clear. I amscared of driving with pedestrians all-over. I hope i can gt over the fear

  • @wolfrayne8355
    @wolfrayne8355 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for normalizing being afraid of driving. it's hard to even talk to people about, because people just want to judge and talk shit.

  • @applebsb75
    @applebsb75 Před 6 lety +70

    Pass my test last Wednesday

  • @juliayanez755
    @juliayanez755 Před 4 lety +8

    I feel like all my friends drove on the road for the first time, they just got there permit and drove but I went out like 3 times and still haven’t left the parking lot

  • @David.jaemin
    @David.jaemin Před 2 lety +1

    Really enjoy your videos.. I just registered for driving school.. watching the way you explain about all this things makes me feel more comfortable

  • @Mat15115
    @Mat15115 Před 2 lety +2

    It's 24 years since I last got behind the wheel. I was in a hit and run, but aside from the accident I always had issues with maintaining my speed

  • @bernsbuenaobra473
    @bernsbuenaobra473 Před 5 lety +6

    How about considering a "defensive driving" strategy. In many countries the problem are not the rules but really bad attitude drivers, poor ethics in the road, road rage etc. not really technical. But I really commend your efforts on all of these I watched.

  • @ranwi7801
    @ranwi7801 Před 6 lety +4

    AFTER ALL THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE SWEETEST WAY OF EXPLAINING....THANKS FOR TAKING THE TROUBLE....LOVE YOUR WAY OF EXPLAINING

  • @hebrewcoffee5333
    @hebrewcoffee5333 Před 4 lety +2

    This actually helped man thank you

  • @yvonnepaulrobert4461
    @yvonnepaulrobert4461 Před 4 lety +1

    Great explanation, you seems to be the perfect instructor for me. Thanks

  • @alita1821
    @alita1821 Před 5 lety +3

    I didn't have a fear of driving or anxiety of driving before my first lesson this past friday....my instructor was horrible. He kept yelling at me at things he told me to do. I checked back at driving lesson videos and i did everything right. He made me feel like crap. I changed instructors but i feel nervous getting behind the wheel now. My next lesson is tuesday and i dont even want to do it.