DR. Phil - Confronting the Monsters Who Sexually Abused Me: My Parents
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Mommy playing victim just turned my stomach...even more than that pathetic excuse for a man. He wasn't a Father for one moment; he had a child for the sole purpose of having a victim on hand to use and abuse. They should have both rotted in prison. What is wrong with this country that we think 20 years is a sufficient punishment for the murder of a child's soul.
Seriously, I couldn't take her mom's garbage about how she was forced, or her dad's garbage about "not knowing" that what he did was wrong. They were both trying so hard to make themselves look so innocent.
My thoughts exactly 💯
Happen to my friend Elaine and rose and Irene 😢
The murder of a child’s soul. I’ve never heard it explained quite so well. You have explained that perfectly.
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LMFAO I love how whenever the mom talks they just tell her to shut up 😂
Right!? It's amazing.
Also rightfully so. It's the daughters turn to speak! I don't care what people think about Dr. Phil...it clearly made this girl, now a woman, feel confident and comfortable to finally confront them.
😂
The fact that he believes that a 20 year sentence was too long tells me everything I need to know about him taking accountability. He doesn't feel any remorse at all.
Amanda is strong as hell. Heal on, sister. You are a warrior and you had every right to completely annihilate them with every emotion in the book, but instead you chose facts. Cold, hard facts. You, my fellow human, are absolutely beyond strong.
I couldn't agree more! ❤
Perfectly said ❤
She is amaaaaazing and expressed herself so well.
I cannot stand this so-called " mother" . She keeps crying and telling her "husband" that she hates him, that he "groomed" Amanda and the whole time, she was a willing participant. They are both despicable!
I agree totally.
I totally agree
the wife does not hate her husband, she sorry they got caught
I cannot believe this stuff actually happens to kids. I just can't wrap my head around it.
It's hard to imagine it...even when it has happened to you.
As an adult, I look back at my experiences and just shudder...no one knows the reality of the monster until they see it face to face.
I pray it never enters your life!!
Everybody knows Nigeria is a red flag. Turkey is it !
It happens more than you'd ever think. I watch a dozen TCAP channels. TCAP is To Catch A Predator groups who pose as young ones online. They always have a guy who will tell the decoy they have done the unthinkable,like in this case, and then deny it and they have guys on often who have kids but haven't spoken to them in years and I am positive why their kids don't want anything to do with them. I was blown away at how many there are. It's so rampant one of the groups just did a bust in my town and he admitted on camera that he abuses his stepdaughter and was trying to meet a young one. It's insane and seriously has been getting worse since the border is open. DHS lost 80k kids. They have no idea where they were sent.
Oh it happens...he started my age of 5 until I was 16!
Ya it's very common. I was trafficked and sexually abused for 12 years. The courts have protected him, he has been released 3 times and the law did nothing. He did the same thing to his biological son which then he raped his daughters. The man was a master manipulator. Everyone though he was gods gift to this earth. I then was threatened for 9 years that he would murder my family in several different ways everyday of my life after. My phone was tracked, I wasn't aloud to be alone even as a 28 year old. I finally found a point at which I could turn him in and escape and hide. It's been 4 years now and I'm still going through my court case and it's going no where, looks like he might get out again.
What on earth are these people doing out of prison 😡
I too was abused as a child & this here infuriates me , it’s beyond comprehension how these two ugh I can’t call them hum*ns😖 can do this to their own flesh and blood?
They are vil* beyond words. My heart cries for Amanda 😭😭😭
As a child abuse survivor I am so very sorry for what you went thru.
@@terricunningham6810I agree, love & you’re amazing for surviving all of that. These type of people make me feel physically ill. I wish you healing, unconditional love & a whole lot of happiness with the rest of your life. Take care. 💕
@@renb6133 thanks it means a lot
They should be in jail for 100 years!!
They should not even suffer life.
Should never have seen the light of day again
Life plus!
Yes. I couldn't believe he was walking free and totally unashamed to show his face in public!
Absolutely 💯 agree
I’m am just a 47 year old fella that has four amazing kids and five beautiful grandkids. I want to say on behalf of all real parents out there I’m so sorry mam for what ur parents did to u. Im truly so so sorry !
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You’re a good man, Daniel. Sadly, your type isn’t thick on the ground. I agree; no child should ever endure such physical, psychological & emotional torment. I won’t call these types animals. Animals are usually far more loving & innocent than a lot of human beings!
How is it possible for that monster to be out of prison? Should of gotten life!
He needs to be still in prison
What I see is that her father is either a psycopath or antisocial , he doesn't feel any emotions and really tought he was doing nothing wrong or at least lied to himself about what he was doing was okay. He just saw his daughter as a cash opportunity and used her with no regards to her emotions. He probably learn what to say in treatment , because he still doesn't have regrets or compassion toward his Daughter. He just know now that what he did was very wrong and that he made his daughter suffer so much. Still he doesn't understand how much she suffer, he just know she does. There's no emotions in his eyes , this men is highly dangerous and will probably offend again.
100% psychopath. BOTH of them. The mom acting like that REALLLYYYY???
I'm sure he knew what he was doing was wrong, but just didn't care bc he's a psychopath. Possibly a sadist.
He seems dumb as a brick wall though. "Gee I had no idea you would try to kill yourself bc of what happened." Or "I mistook childhood curiosity for actual interest."
He's definitely talking about it, but to a psychopath that just gives them an excuse for their actions. Both parents knew it was wrong and so they blame each other.
The way he looks at her is freaking me out. How absolutely revolting. My heart goes out to the victim… I can’t imagine the strength it took to survive such a horrific situation.
This father and mother have no soul
The father is once of the worst narcist i have ever seen.😮
Not a narcissist. He's a sociopath. There is a big difference. Just like this difference in a psychopath.
@@kimberlyr.2305agreed
These demented parents are SO DAMN VILE
Although it was amusing watching them turn on each other..
They both know they were wrong, that's why they blame the other.
As survior, I can not describe the hate I feel for these two monsters, so many of your daughters descriptions of her abuse ring so true too me, sick, vile, disgusting monsters just like my Mother and step Father!!!!! Should of stayed in prison!!!
The mom's acting got embarrassing. I felt so embarrassed for her 😂
Omg this man is very sick 😢
Both parents are VERY SICK.
The mum makes me sick
Amanda is a perfect example of someone who's survived despite the parents she had.
That two such pathetic, selfish & twisted individuals could produce such a strong resilient & wise daughter is remarkable.
Those two are a waste of oxygen & i cannot believe they both made it out of prison with a pulse.
Especially the female- she's not a woman, a real woman would never do what she did.
I bet they were both in some sort of protective custody.
What's horrifying is that her poor adult life is surviving it. She's such a strong person and it's so horrifying that it's like no matter how strong you are, no matter how much you try to take control of your life, the abuse just follows you like a demon. In my opinion this is as bad if not worse than first degree murder. These are just about the most evil you can find.
The mother sounds slow...
Both evil
That daughter is absolutely beautiful. I hate that she lost her innocence - no, that her innocence was TAKEN from her. But she did not lose the beautiful soul she very obviously has. You can see it. Those monsters however, are ugly as sin because their souls are not worth the effort used to create them.
I see a beautiful woman who has risen above the trash that she had to endure at the hands of her own “parents”.
I’m glad you got to face your monster and say what you needed to say, and I hope that you continue to hold your beautiful head high and keep the good in you that your “parents” obviously lack.
Where in the world were the rest of Amanda's family, Grandparents, Aunts, ect.
etc.
The abusive do not care about anything but $$$
I wouldn't be surprised if the parents isolated and made sure no 9ne else knew what was going on. Abusers are good at that.
Hopefully she never sees her undeserving parents.
Some people don't have family like that. My mom and dad moved us across the country when I was only one year old. I don't have anybody but them
Those parents are disgusting should have gone to prison for life no parole that poor girl how awful were is any justice for her
Amanda your stepping out for the voiceless shows that you are strong keep healing ❤
Amanda, don't be ashamed for others actions. Be proud of how far you have made it from where those miscreants set you up
@candidaatkinson6249 ALL OF THIS!!!! All of it! Shine, Amanda! 💕
I'm here to tell you guys, that while most of us didn't go through this extreme many of us were molested. Those "fast "young girls, promiscuous women, drug addicts, alcoholics, homeless, depressed, suicidal people that you turn your nose up to or blind eye possibly but more than likely have been violated. But we don't want to hear it but what her dad said was correct. Many knew back then it was going on and made excuses. It was either the victim wanted it, seduce them, or even "Oh he's sick and can't help himself. Even heard stories of the adult women knowing and sometimes grooming the victims as well.
This broke my heart. What a wonderful daughter that she is. So glad that she is away from them.
Explain to me why these people would come on the show knowing how bad everyone is going to shame them and bash them and leave terrible comments about them. Why would they come onto the Dr. Phil show for the whole world and show off their faces and bring this all back up after 20 years I don’t understand but I’m glad they did. I wish this guy would walk into the store while I’m standing there. I’d throw him through the door he came in.
I will help it’s so vile 😢
Psychopaths have no feelings. They dont care. Its all entertainment to them, even the negative attention
They are IDIOTS and they are EVIL.
I was shocked how open they were… maybe they were paid to be on? Or they just want to be on TV
I'm so shocked that these people didn't get life on prison, Amanda will heal they don't deserve healing especially the mother, she was supposed to protect her from the devil that is her father
As a survivor I tell you she will never heal!!
She's a strong lady. I couldn't go through that and be so strong. I hope she feels better now.
This is how porn ruins people.
A lot of people look at porn and don't hurt their kids or any kid.
Mom and dad could have easily sold themselves on porn and made money. Not saying that's right either, but at least they wouldn't have sold their soul and included their daughter!
@@BlueLuna5but a lot of people who hurt children this way, look at porn and blame porn.
It’s like alcohol, many people drink without driving and killing people. But because of alcohol, there are fatalities every year from a drunk driver.
@LanaKennedy121 but for people who don't abuse alcohol it's fine.
There are millions of people who look at porn and sex is totally natural. But they don't turn to child p. There's something wrong with their brain to begin with.
Most people who abuse kids this way were abused as children, too.
This has nothing to do with p***. porn and child abuse is not the same.
How absolutely EVIL
Mom playing victim makes me sick. Dad just existing makes me sick. Feel for the daughter, she has a lifetime of healing to do.
Her mother has attention seeking behavior. She’s been doing her best to make all this about herself. She can’t just let her daughter attempt to vent, and tell her side of what happened, and how she felt.
The mother is just as guilty as he is. Those two are Satan's spawn. How dispeckable.
Exactly! She is unbearable!!!
This is sickening. The mother is just as accountable. He has eyes that makes my skin crawl. I hope she is ok, bless her 😢
The mom fake crying with NO tears...i cant. Props to the daughter for not just lunging at them both knocking them tf out
He should never have the victim with the perpetrators!! It’s disgusting!!
9:44 This man is a liar!!!! That sort of thing was never joked about amongst decent, normal people!!
That Birther is worse than the Molester! He appears to be trying to be brutally honest. His Spouse is just shifting blame and not taking responsibility for her evil actions! Shame on both of them!
To be honest I don’t know how the hell you can look at an innocent beautiful child and all you see is dollar signs.
“I hate what you did to US”
The mom needs to stfu and quit acting like she’s a victim in all of this. She’s just as horrible as he is.
Are you kidding me? Like these people are for real? The parents have no shame!!!! I can't believe these so called parents have excuses for themselves
This woman is absolutely amazing! So strong, to be able to sit & converse with her abuser so confidently & calmly. I wish her the absolute BEST in her life🤍
The way this womans demeaner is absolutely a testiment she is so calm and the way she handled her emotions is inspiring what a warrior
This right here is disgustingly unbearable. I cannot believe they’re even getting view time and not behind bars. I feel for Amanda, her courage is incredible. The crap she had to endure does not go away, at least she is facing the ones responsible to overcome it.
Look at that man's eyes. Satan lives in him.
That woman is absolutely stunning, strong, and bright. I'm sure she's helped many women from sharing her story. God bless you.
This is beyond evil 😈 😭 this is unbelievable. Portia from South Africa
Who in their right mind comes on Dr. Phil to talk about this for the whole world to see
That father is an absolute creep, he’s still in denial or he’s trying to play games, he should never of got out of prison
The only Dr. Phil show that I stop at the moment he walked out.
I can’t believe he came on this show. He has zero shame.
‘Live too the label’! Damn, that hit a spot with me! 😶
How is this dude still alive?
These parents are straight up sociopaths. I can't fathom how people like this operate - absolutely no remorse for using their children as pawns in a disgusting money-making scheme. I wish this wasn't real.
The mother’s far more exacerbated ignorance, excuses, and deception, makes her worse than the father. He admits SOME things, yet SHE blames
Only him for her actions. Sickening.
* edit: I don’t care if he’s saying we want to hear, the mother hasn’t even understood that part and then become deceptive and throwing the wool over our eyes type thing. She can’t be that stupid. Or maybe she is because she’s playing complete victim on camera and thinking she was a part of his game as well. Thank god no one believes that
I'll always see my kids as little even when they're grown.
She looks like a little angel in that picture and "dad" has the nerve to say "well that was before this all happened." Naw he's evil.
This is so hard to even believe this is real. I cant imagine hurting my babies or watch them be hurt. 😭 And it blows my mind these sick people are free in society. Can you imagine what they did to other children
Zero change or rehabilitation after 20 yrs of prison😡
I’m sitting in tears. My heart is breaking for her. No one deserves this.
The relief on her face when she realised that she is allowed to give herself another chance was just everything.
Is there a catch up episode on how she is doing? ❤
I can’t fathom how a mother can let this happen??? She has had countless opportunities to leave him and get her daughter out of that terrible house, but the truth of it is she didn’t want her daughter to get out her and her husband are sick in the head and don’t deserve their daughter she deserved better and they deserve nothing good in life, since they can’t be PARENTS like wtf they both deserve jail.
I don’t feel any remorse coming from the parents, in fact, feels more like disdain.
Appalling that the mother acts like she’s also of victim when she’s actually as greedy,no soul like her husband.
I absolutely can NOT believe he's out of prison. Just wtf....wow. sick sick sick ppl out here
One of the best of your shows Dr Phil!
I’m kinda amazed at the balls of these parents coming on TV
I was holding on okay until Dr.phil sat down with her alone. The secret shame a lot of survivors carry is exactly as he described it. The father is obviously a monster but the mother scares me more. The blatant manipulation is so gross, shes such a narcissistic mess trying to dogpile on the father like shes not equally evil.
What an excuse of parents
The mother…. No words. Obviously the father is a disgusting sociopath but the mother is on another level. They should both be under the prison
I have no words for her so called "parents". I do for the beautiful woman who has been through horror and unimaginable pain. You deserved Dr. Phil help and although I saw your horrific story well after it was aired, I hope and pray you received the care and help you so needed. Bless you xxx❤
Why do i feel like only the dad is being held accountable!?
Why are they not in jail !
Definitely a case where she needs to have absolutely no contact with her "mother & father." They are absolutely repulsive.
Incest is always unacceptable, regardless of the era. Parents have a fundamental duty to safeguard their children. Those who engage in such despicable behavior should be sentenced to life in prison. If they are capable of harming their own daughter in this way, one can only imagine what they might do to someone else's child.
We were in 1980is learn in school what incest is and that is not normal to kiss parents in lips, or take a shower or walk even half naked in front of both of them. Back then we were 6-7 y old. So, 20y after that was even more in pictures.
So they’re out so they can continue their abuse with someone else?
Omg am I seriously watching this right now 😮😮😮😮 wtf
She’s done so well for herself to be able to face them and still keep her cool. She’s an amazing lady with one hell of a story on this earth. May she heal and find peace with her life. There’s will no remorse from either of them. One looks scary and their other on a blame game trip. Shame on both of you.
it blows my mind how the so called parents come on nation wide television to tell this story and act proud of it. It’s absolutely disgusting, sickening, shameful and devilish. They need to be in prison for the rest of their lives!!!!
My prayers are with this sweet girl.
I hope she finds pure peace, happiness and love. ❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ I'll send lot's of love to Amanda and hope she heals well from all the abuse no kid should EVER go through😭❤️❤️ Love from Norway🇧🇻
The “father” gives me BTK vibes.
Dr Phil you are so kind,be blessed
Amanda is one of the strongest women I’ve ever seen. The embodiment of a warrior. The parents need serious help and locked up imo. I literally can’t make any sense out this couples nonsensical and disgusting actions.
I'm sorry but pedophiles don't get rehabilitated They say what they are told they are supposed to think. There's no remorse or sadness on his face. He cares nothing about his daughtr. And the Mom? Shes just as bad. Both are acting and they make me sick.
she was a child,,,these parents should still be in prison
what a broken legal system, when monsters like these two are out of prison wow..
Wow disgusting
Thank you Dr Phil for helping people like this!
Thank you Dr. Phil for what you do. Abundance of light and blessings to this girl.
Sexual feelings are not a sin. They're part of being human. However, Parents evoking awakening and exploiting those tender feelings in a young person most definitely is. Peace.
This happens way more than people know because most people keep it behind closed doors and don't report. I was one of them, raped by my stepfather for almost 5 years and my mom wont even believe me almost 15 years later. I was ashamed for years and after my 4th suicide attempt, I was able to go to the psych ward, get out of that house and start a new life. I would not wish the trauma of sexual abuse on anyone because it is debilitating.
Amanda you are not alone. I now know I am not alone either. ❤I understand your pain and I thank you for your bravery l, it gave me new strength. I too had changed my name to protect myself as a young child and I still at 40 years old hate my real name, the sound of it brings back all
My trauma. You are loved and you are strong. God bless you ❤
I am sorry for what you went thru. as a child abuse survivor I do understand the trauma and pain.
Dr. Phil went Steve Wilkos mode on those parents.
The mother is worse than him.
Both disgusting. Both deserve to be under the jail
I want to do this sooooo bad to my two! She is so freakin admirable! I know she doesn’t feel it and I know she’s still broken but I’m so very proud of her!
Wait... why are they out of prison? They obviously have no conscience, they are dangerous
This father & mother should of remained in prison, they have no soul.
This is horrific. My goodness. I’m at a loss for words!!!!!
Him saying “these things were joked about, laughed about” back then is so false. Maybe it was only true for him because of the company he kept, but the vast majority of us don’t joke about SA’ing /r-wording our children and to the point that it would make us think it’s ok to do. The only thing I can think of that is remotely close to what he’s talking about is when ppl joke about the typical creepy guy in a white van offering candy to children, but that’s miles different from what he said