Maggie's Bachelorette Party | You Can Sit With Us Ep.126

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  • čas přidán 12. 12. 2022
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Komentáře • 151

  • @sadicalradness6927
    @sadicalradness6927 Před rokem +395

    i love that the entire power of second try seems to be focused on getting rainie a date

  • @J-Dito
    @J-Dito Před rokem +454

    I had a c-section and my husband watched it, then he whispered to me (mid surgery) "now I know you inside and out" leave it to him, always keeping it light lol

    • @SassyWinterFox
      @SassyWinterFox Před rokem +14

      Haha mine did that as well! 4 weeks ago we had our little girl.

  • @jolligrace8939
    @jolligrace8939 Před rokem +718

    as a listener who is basically rainie aged i so appreciate her questions. shes asking exactly what I wanna know!! so glad we're seeing more of her, thanks for giving us a voice rainie lol

  • @isabellewittwer4493
    @isabellewittwer4493 Před rokem +179

    As a NICU mom, NICU nurses who are nice, empathetic and respectful but also give you hope and comfort are god’s gift to the world. Unsung heroes for sure.

  • @nicolepavese4495
    @nicolepavese4495 Před rokem +88

    rainie is such a fantastic facilitator of sorts on the podcast- she asks amazing follow up questions and keeps the podcast moving so well. and all her anecdotes add so much to the show! literally give this girl all the success

  • @emilymiller5912
    @emilymiller5912 Před rokem +132

    Maggie's Bachelorette party sounds so much more mellow after watching Zach's bachelor party

  • @katie18976
    @katie18976 Před rokem +175

    Maggie looks so beautiful in today's episode. Like she is always gorgeous and adorable but on today's pod she has an exceptionally beautiful glow 🥰🥰🥰

    • @pamelah1220
      @pamelah1220 Před rokem +7

      happiness is a good look on her.

    • @annagu6605
      @annagu6605 Před rokem +3

      it’s the pre-marriage glow!!! I’m so excited for her ❤

    • @exexsa
      @exexsa Před rokem +1

      Maggie is gorgeous 😍

  • @Nicolelynnn
    @Nicolelynnn Před rokem +71

    i just love maggie so much, she has flourished so much ever since starting to co host this podcast!

  • @jasminerangel486
    @jasminerangel486 Před rokem +26

    i SO feel Maggie on the first dance thing. We didn’t (and don’t) know how to dance and I hated the first dance thing because it was so awkward. At my wedding I had the DJ announce at 30 seconds of the song “the bride and groom would like for all of our guests to join them for their first dance” and made sure the bridal party was in on it so we didn’t have to be in the spotlight for too long. It was perfect

  • @Celestein
    @Celestein Před rokem +85

    Zach being told by the tarot reader that he needs to talk slower is absolutely hilarious.. Like daaamn cool your Chariot, boy! XD

  • @PrincessHeathaB
    @PrincessHeathaB Před rokem +66

    Is it just me or is Maggie extra beautiful today?

  • @rorylori
    @rorylori Před rokem +20

    "I would say I'm tired most of the time."
    same Becky same

  • @amandadavis7585
    @amandadavis7585 Před rokem +29

    Maggie is soooo stylish! I could not stop staring at her clothes, I would love to see how she puts together her outfits ❤

  • @Anna_b360
    @Anna_b360 Před rokem +3

    59:35 for anyone that’s curious, the surprise guest at the Lewbuger show was Wayne Brandy 😉

  • @FlagCutie
    @FlagCutie Před rokem +27

    If they googled "tall guy, internet famous" then they obviously got Grant from Cillege Humor lol

  • @grllwrfr
    @grllwrfr Před rokem +20

    i know this is not actually how it works but i love the idea that becky has been designated by the us government as their No. 1 Go To Juror given how many times she's been selected for jury duty

  • @elizabethphelps803
    @elizabethphelps803 Před rokem +9

    I love you all!!! ❤❤❤ thank you for all you do! You make me feel like I’m sitting and hanging out with friends when I listen to your podcast I love it!

  • @silvia-eh4cn
    @silvia-eh4cn Před rokem +122

    someone get rainie her own interview show asap

    • @jd5611
      @jd5611 Před rokem +1

      Yessssssssss

  • @laurengarrett2323
    @laurengarrett2323 Před rokem +63

    Just go for it with the custom vows! I was nervous about being so personal in front of people, but honestly in the moment, it’s like you’re the only two people in the room ❤
    Also, brunch trauma from working in a restaurant is real. Thought I was the only one 😂

    • @MsDanista
      @MsDanista Před rokem +1

      Thanks for this comment! Getting married in 87 days. On the surface we’re an odd pairing, but we fit together perfectly. I cannot imagine reciting “traditional” vows when pledging the rest of my life to this man. Anxiety be damned!
      As a former bartender/driver/security for the hotel known in our city as THE VENUE for weddings…the trauma is real. 😅

  • @wap1051
    @wap1051 Před rokem +8

    I have a friend/coworker who married his wife in his 20s and realized years later that they actually had met as kids at a carnival when they were like 6 in a whole other state

  • @lindamoulton1560
    @lindamoulton1560 Před rokem +7

    I seriously think the idea of having a Hypnotist or Magician come to a bachelor/bachelorette party is such a fantastic and fun idea.

  • @rumorsgoods
    @rumorsgoods Před rokem +17

    I filmed my sisters twin c section and (as a 19 year old) said it was the most metal thing I’d ever witnessed. My sister was so out of it the whole time she said her placenta was a beautiful baby when the doctor showed it to her 😂 I love telling my nieces how I saw them taken out by their ankles 😂😂❤

  • @asunbeam5479
    @asunbeam5479 Před rokem +12

    okay i know the ads are really more for convenience, but I just want to say it is so much fun to go see santa at macy's every year!! It is free, and there are santas of multiple different races that you can request

  • @hconf
    @hconf Před rokem +13

    Rainie you ask the best questions. It’s the weird stuff I really want to know about and you’re cool with asking it. Yay Rainie!!

  • @lillycrew4170
    @lillycrew4170 Před rokem +3

    LOVE this podcast

  • @Aleeshia
    @Aleeshia Před rokem +3

    Omg Rainie. Thank you so much for bringing up Love. I think about it every single time Becky talks about her cat and it was my first thought about the magic castle 🤣

  • @journeyofemily
    @journeyofemily Před rokem +2

    I love this trio. I’ve never looked forward to content more than I look forward to this podcast!

  • @eilyfoley7686
    @eilyfoley7686 Před rokem +3

    I was a nicu baby from January to September the year I was born. So thankful for those nurses.
    I also have a little girl and she was born by c section. I remember feeling like it was just rummaging around in my stomach area... That was almost 5 years ago. Xx loved this episode of the pod ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @brittnibooker5047
    @brittnibooker5047 Před rokem +2

    Lawwwwwwd BECKY JUST SAID CLOPEN and I swear that was the combo of a cold shiver down my spine plus a jimmy newtron level of dejavu

  • @rianeruiz2476
    @rianeruiz2476 Před rokem +4

    “I think I’m an extrovert who likes to nap”
    I feel so seen

  • @AvoryFaucette
    @AvoryFaucette Před rokem +4

    Ugh, as a tarot reader it kind of breaks my heart whenever I hear about readings like this 😭 I know they're fun for some people, but predictive readings that assume people's personal context are often so normative (babies! boss! soulmate!) and make folks think that's what tarot is about 😞Tarot's a great tool, but it's not about predicting the future, it's about helping the querent (person you're reading for) tap into their own inner knowing, considering new perspectives, notice their own reactions to the cards, etc. Yes, part of it is connecting with bigger energies outside of the logical mind, and that's an important thing to acknowledge in this hyperlogical, cult of science (read: white, capitalist, colonizing) culture, but you can work with the cards whether you believe mystical forces are at work or not. I think folks like Becky would probably be much less dismissive of tarot if we didn't keep repeating this tired old idea that it's about whether something "works" or not, like a parlor trick!

  • @hibacharek887
    @hibacharek887 Před rokem +36

    Maggie! I hated people looking at us dancing lol. if I had a redo I would ask the DJ to call on the oldest couple then work the years backwards like 60+ years, 50 years etc then you guys last. it's a cute way to celebrate love and marriage and to keep the eyes away from you

  • @krisskye4678
    @krisskye4678 Před rokem +79

    Hoping Ariel comes back. I miss everyone together.

  • @jvertigo1
    @jvertigo1 Před rokem +135

    Maggie, I know this may sound like a backhanded compliment, but I swear it's not. Whenever you tape when you're a little tired, you look so gentle and welcoming. I look like an angry troll.

    • @Lily-um9tj
      @Lily-um9tj Před rokem +18

      This comment is cringe

    • @madisontaylor4936
      @madisontaylor4936 Před rokem +12

      naw dude, this comment is cute

    • @jvertigo1
      @jvertigo1 Před rokem +4

      I really don't mean to offend or make anyone feel cringey. She's just got a nice vibe and I aspire to it.

    • @naxp42
      @naxp42 Před rokem +5

      I don't see any issues in looking like an angry troll. Looking welcoming always is a huge expectation of any human. Normalize looking haggered ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
      I'm sure even Maggie has days off camera that are like that too. She does have a warm energy though.

    • @jd5611
      @jd5611 Před rokem +1

      @@Lily-um9tj can I ask why u think that

  • @samuelrobles3737
    @samuelrobles3737 Před rokem +1

    Also Becky's parents are me when someone asks why I'm not vegan!!!! Love it 😌

  • @forestrose4515
    @forestrose4515 Před rokem +3

    Naked brother band….so many memories and such a huge crush

  • @emmyemu33
    @emmyemu33 Před rokem +3

    Lol I think we've seen the tik tok videos now, I'm pretty sure it's Wayne Brady and tbh that's so so so freaking cool. The bleeped special guest Becky named! Happy for them!

  • @journeyofemily
    @journeyofemily Před rokem +1

    Also the ladies are looking gorgeousssss. Maggie is looking so sophisticated!

  • @Luckcat16
    @Luckcat16 Před rokem +4

    I did a full spit take with coffee in my car while driving when Becky said, "open cooter." Coffee is everywhere- in my hair, on the door, on the steering wheel, on my shirt!😂😂😂

  • @carolina.campos
    @carolina.campos Před rokem +1

    Maggie!! I went to that same island for my bachelorette on nov 19th. It was SOOOOO much fun!!

  • @m_here1
    @m_here1 Před rokem +7

    Just to clarify on legal stuff (law student here) : Becky’s right that there are different standards of persuasion in trials, meaning the standard the prosecution or plaintiff need to meet to convince the jury. In criminal cases, the prosecution has to prove the defendant’s guilt “beyond a reasonable doubt.” In civil cases, there are a few standards of persuasion depending on the claims in the case, but the most common is “by preponderance of the evidence,” meaning it’s more likely than not the defendant is liable. Also, civil cases aren’t about proving guilt/innocence but about proving liability/non-liability. Huge difference.

  • @Ashley-qw2ko
    @Ashley-qw2ko Před rokem +2

    Thank you for The Naked Brothers Band reference! Imaculate taste 🤌

  • @moniqueleigh
    @moniqueleigh Před rokem

    My hubby & I were totally one of those couples who didn't sign our certificate the day of, but that was also because schedules got screwed up & nobody could get to the registrar's office until the Monday after. :D

  • @Tina-cz1bw
    @Tina-cz1bw Před rokem +9

    I wonder if the special guest is Weird Al.

  • @disvinteebissumroy4830
    @disvinteebissumroy4830 Před rokem +9

    Becky, pls listen to Murder With My Husband podcast with Payton Moreland. It is so good and i am sure you will love it. Actually you all will love it. Love you all! Special shout out to Rainie and so happy for Maggie for the upcoming marriage

  • @Theordoreqaz
    @Theordoreqaz Před rokem +5

    absolutely lost my mind at the "pin the Zach on the clitoris"

  • @KsstheStrs
    @KsstheStrs Před rokem +1

    My husband and I went to the same high school. We didn't know each other then, nor did we know each other existed. Which I think is wild because we had a lot of friends in common. We found out years after graduation when we met.

  • @srimukhichitti5240
    @srimukhichitti5240 Před rokem +4

    Wait why was Becky not there

  • @hopeyamada5239
    @hopeyamada5239 Před rokem +5

    I think Rainie's stat on meeting your soulmate is outdated bc it sounds like something that would occur before globalization

  • @TM.BECK14
    @TM.BECK14 Před rokem +2

    My name is Tia and it was so unexpected to hear my name all of a sudden 😆 I've hardly ever come across other Tias even online, and almost never hear it out loud in reference to other people lol

  • @kitkatkagomeX2
    @kitkatkagomeX2 Před rokem

    I literally completed a pizza order about 10 seconds before they suggested pizza at the end🤣

  • @daniellekirsch5402
    @daniellekirsch5402 Před rokem

    Maggy! Regarding the OR. The first surgery that bothered me was a foot?! I think the similarities between our bad experiences is that its a recognizable body part whereas with organs, etc, the recognizable body parts around the surgical site are draped. It takes the personal aspect out of it.

  • @cruztastrophe
    @cruztastrophe Před rokem +8

    It's Weird Al. Making my guess now.

  • @trickycoolj
    @trickycoolj Před rokem +2

    My husband and I are 6 years apart and met well after college through a mutual friend but figured out we went to the same junior high 6 years apart. Super weird.

  • @nililiana9107
    @nililiana9107 Před rokem +1

    Ladies are looking good 💖

  • @chihuahua0965
    @chihuahua0965 Před rokem +1

    haha im similar about how there CAN be so many events before a wedding but I did a barchlorette party but DID NOT see any reason in a bridal shower or engagement party

  • @hconf
    @hconf Před rokem +3

    Beck your dad sounds so sweet. My mom went vegan and my dad was like you better not make me do that I’m going to eat meat no matter what.

  • @MaitriDhar
    @MaitriDhar Před rokem +18

    Did the tarot card reader meant like the way that Maggie was surrounded with zach baby posters throughout the Bachelorette party!!
    Just a random thought that entered my head

  • @elizabethphelps803
    @elizabethphelps803 Před rokem +7

    Wait so Maggie went to Keith and Becky’s wedding? She was talking like she went to the bachelorette party for Becky

    • @missdasiaam9028
      @missdasiaam9028 Před rokem +4

      She did!!! If you scroll down her Instagram feed you’ll see pics.

  • @Danesha_M_H
    @Danesha_M_H Před rokem +1

    7:49 LMAO 😭

  • @natalie_kendel
    @natalie_kendel Před rokem +4

    Becky, I love that you went back to being more brunette. It suits you best!

  • @hellohellohello12345
    @hellohellohello12345 Před rokem +2

    Trying to listen to this on Spotify and it keeps stopping at around the 8:35 mark!!! 😢

  • @emmaRBC
    @emmaRBC Před rokem +8

    I had the robot surgery! 🤖 Without the robot I would have had my whole chest cut open but instead I just have 4 little scars up my side. Such a weird concept though!

    • @miqueladavis5393
      @miqueladavis5393 Před rokem +3

      I’ve also had a robot surgery! It was for my lung and I only have two scars whereas I can’t even imagine what they would’ve needed to do without robot assistance

  • @michellemullett4562
    @michellemullett4562 Před rokem

    Love is my favorite ❤️

  • @HaleyAlton211
    @HaleyAlton211 Před rokem +4

    BECKY. YOUR HAIR. IS STUNNING👏🏼

  • @constructenglish1
    @constructenglish1 Před rokem

    Can you guys review the Harry and Mrgan docuseries?

  • @daniellanarain7707
    @daniellanarain7707 Před rokem +3

    Why do I feel like weird Al is coming to the Lewberger event?

  • @sookysmashaus
    @sookysmashaus Před rokem

    Rainie stating that 60% of us marry someone we met before we were 16. I met my spouse on Tinder. Turns out when I was like 6 or 7, my dad took our family on holiday to Lake Muskoka, Ontario Canada (we're from the States, he's Canadian) and the cottage we rented was a few doors down from where my spouse's family has a cottage! So, we probably went swimming or canoed right past his family's cottage when I was a child! Life is WEIRD and cool!

  • @katy_a003
    @katy_a003 Před rokem +5

    Can we have EUGENE TO BE IN THE NEXT PODCAST AND TALK ABOUT Harry and Meghan docu series!!! DO It!!!

  • @Danesha_M_H
    @Danesha_M_H Před rokem

    48:52 thankfully me neither. 😂

  • @hahalove47
    @hahalove47 Před rokem +1

    My husband and I went to high school together be didnt start dating till a couple years later

  • @samrose8275
    @samrose8275 Před rokem +2

    I think the special guest is Terry Cruz! Just a guest lol

  • @adrianpink8144
    @adrianpink8144 Před rokem

    Alex Wolff is the one in Old & Hereditary lol.

    • @adrianpink8144
      @adrianpink8144 Před rokem

      Also I had the biggest crush on Nat when I was a kid 😅

  • @smoola7
    @smoola7 Před 8 měsíci

    Who was the special guest with Lewberger?

  • @alexanderhamilton9285

    Becky reminds me a lot of my form/mentor/homeroom tutor/teacher. Just her general demeanour and the things she says. It is kinda freaky. Also this podcast is so comforting it makes growing up feel a little less scary.

  • @helloitsali.
    @helloitsali. Před rokem

    i was thinking the special guest could be conan since keith has said he wants to essentially be conan obrien

  • @chihuahua0965
    @chihuahua0965 Před rokem +1

    when I was 7 I was in the room when my brother was being born.

  • @melodybrake
    @melodybrake Před rokem

    I had two C-sections , open appendectomy, and gallbladder scars .

  • @lauraperezv
    @lauraperezv Před rokem +2

    Maggie, stop, you're so cute 😭❤

  • @milesdelis
    @milesdelis Před rokem +3

    i mean this in the best way possible, but rainie reminds me of a better version of portia from the white lotus

  • @annabooher6897
    @annabooher6897 Před rokem

    “Magret”😍

  • @krisskye4678
    @krisskye4678 Před rokem +1

    Lemme say
    When my love and I get around to it, the guest list is minimal. Our moms, his three siblings and their partners, my two siblings and their partners, and collectively three kids (as of rn). 17 ppl including us. He wants a beach wedding, I want to elope, so we compromised.

  • @angelicahiser2706
    @angelicahiser2706 Před rokem

    I witnessed my baby sister give birth and I swore I would NEVER have kids. Then I met my husband and now I have 2. I was terrified for the first one and I barely made it to the hospital with the 2nd baby. First one I got 2 epidurals, then 2nd one didn't give me enough time to get an epidural. I still don't know how I did it without meds.

  • @shundiin8
    @shundiin8 Před rokem

    Idk why but my sister invited me into the delivery room when she had my nephew… WHEN I WAS 12. So definitely ahead of the curve on that one haha Rainie I’ll DM you when I have a baby 😉

  • @kathleenuclear
    @kathleenuclear Před rokem +10

    #getrainieonraya !!!

  • @mayanblossom
    @mayanblossom Před rokem +13

    So genuine question to everyone: is the bachelorette party set up by the maid of honor? Or does the bride do it?
    I was recently asked to be maid of honor and I’ve been told that I’m supposed to set up the bachelorette with no input from the bride because that’s tradition. But I think that’s kinda bass ackwards…? 🥴

    • @zhoradaiyu5184
      @zhoradaiyu5184 Před rokem +8

      I do think its tradition, but I'd ask the bride what she expects from you in this role. And probably other bridesmaids can help you out

    • @FlagCutie
      @FlagCutie Před rokem +5

      I was under the impression that you are supposed to plan it, but with input from the other bridesmaids. Also at least a general understanding of what they bride wants. You're not gonna take a traditional Christian bride to a strip club lol.

    • @AYOOitssomeone
      @AYOOitssomeone Před rokem +1

      I think it depends on the bride/bridal party! That is a pretty traditional way of doing it where the MOH plans everything but I think it’s starting to go away from that. I would just ask the bride what her expectations are that way if she wants to help or do it all herself she can or can give you ideas. Personally I plan on doing everything for myself and my bridal party because the idea of anyone else planning it/spending money besides on themselves makes me feel guilty so if that’s a concern for you too I would definitely bring it up sooner rather than later in case you get stuck with paying more than you want or have!

    • @AYOOitssomeone
      @AYOOitssomeone Před rokem +2

      I will say tho it also depends on the size of the bachelorette party. If the bride just wants to go dancing and get dinner I think that’s very reasonable for you to plan but if she wants a whole weekend that might be tough. It’s also unrealistic for one person to plan a whole weekend without any help from the bride or other bridesmaids

    • @mayanblossom
      @mayanblossom Před rokem

      Okay thank you all! I just found it both overwhelming and unfair to not talk with the bride of at least a general outline of what she wants. This girl is doing med school and I don’t have the time or energy to do everything 😂

  • @alyswonder
    @alyswonder Před rokem

    You look fab

  • @grapeypear4558
    @grapeypear4558 Před rokem

    My husband has an umbilical hernia! I wonder if he could have laparoscopic surgery for it…

  • @shelbyemig
    @shelbyemig Před rokem

    The surprise guest has to be weird Al right? That's my guess lol

  • @sighhAYSzG5AG
    @sighhAYSzG5AG Před rokem +1

    Is it Conan?!?!

  • @nililiana9107
    @nililiana9107 Před rokem

    Who's the ad gurl? I miss their voice in ads already

  • @jd5611
    @jd5611 Před rokem +2

    As much as I respect and hope for Maggie’s and Zach’s wedding to be as private as they wish, I would like to express how much I hope and care to hear your vows to each other. I am most excited to hear Zack’s but I think that it would be such a beautiful insight into your relationship. However, we are obligated to hear them. Still, I really really want to hear! But, respect if you choose not to share :)

  • @athulyashenoy2303
    @athulyashenoy2303 Před rokem +1

    Within a min 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @heythere2174
    @heythere2174 Před rokem

    Isn’t Maggie a pediatrician or pediatric nurse? Were those all her babies?? 😂

    • @rubes55
      @rubes55 Před rokem

      she’s a paediatric nurse, I think xx

  • @shelbyn9762
    @shelbyn9762 Před rokem +1

    Jack black 59:27

  • @Guilty_Feet
    @Guilty_Feet Před rokem

    You're all so cute

  • @heleniamonolidis
    @heleniamonolidis Před rokem

    I need someone to please acknowledge that they also are hearing this because I’m going crazy - does Becky make that freaking “mmm” noise after her sentences like Trisha paytas. The thing Ethan Klein called Trisha out on. PLEASE someone tell me you hear it too. Sound off in the comentes plz & ty

  • @JackJackIsBackBack
    @JackJackIsBackBack Před rokem +1

    Did becky not go to Maggie's bachelorette party?

  • @jvertigo1
    @jvertigo1 Před rokem +34

    Also, don't you work with kids and babies as a nurse, Maggie? That's lots of babies aroynd you lol

    • @jmason1770
      @jmason1770 Před rokem +3

      Yes, she does work with babies.

    • @jvertigo1
      @jvertigo1 Před rokem +11

      I'm just saying, that tarot reading could be more literal "She is physically surrounded by babies during her waking hours" and less "have a baby Maggie"

  • @samuelrobles3737
    @samuelrobles3737 Před rokem

    Who isn't pro-jury? How is there an opposition to that!?!?!?