Stop Hiding From God. w/ Fr. John Burns

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  • čas přidán 22. 06. 2022
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    Fr. John and I discuss the inclination we all have to hide our true selves from God and from others. The parts of us that we see as unlovable or ugly cannot stay hidden forever, and, often, hiding causes us to crack and build up pressure which gradually becomes too much to bear alone. God calls out to us to let Him in; to let Him see us.
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  • @OwenMcGrathSwag
    @OwenMcGrathSwag Před 2 lety +56

    Thanks Matt & Father John. You both have no idea how badly I needed to hear this

    • @christianabella3592
      @christianabella3592 Před 2 lety +5

      I feel you on that brotha!
      So very thankful for all the work Matt has done for us to provide us with many blessed men and women of God to come onto the podcast and all the other content.

    • @Peeledonion100
      @Peeledonion100 Před 2 lety +2

      me too! Thank you so much both of you. Who was the commentator that Fr referenced? I would love to read it! very grateful prayers to all, and Glory to God!

  • @sacredheart7965
    @sacredheart7965 Před 2 lety +20

    In my life as a Catholic, self hatred is my biggest barrier to making any progress.

    • @oceanblue3803
      @oceanblue3803 Před 2 lety +1

      Same here….

    • @qtgaming2473
      @qtgaming2473 Před 3 měsíci

      The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness (Jeremiah 31:3)
      God loves you

  • @danieltracy7136
    @danieltracy7136 Před 2 lety +21

    "For in truth we are not called once only, but many times; all through our life Christ is calling us. He called us first in Baptism; but afterward also; whether we obey His voice or not, He graciously calls us still. If we fall down from our Baptism, He calls us to repent... He calls us again and again in order to justify us again and again --and again and again, and more and more, to sanctify and glorify us."
    John Henry Newman

  • @tollermaus
    @tollermaus Před 2 lety +8

    My confessor gave me the Litany of Humility as a penance. It hit me like a bucket of ice water, but it has transformed my attitude toward what life throws at me. With Jesus, we can be real about who we are.

  • @audioacc
    @audioacc Před 2 lety +23

    That is so beautiful…. There’s a book called “Jesus the Bridegroom “ by Brant Pitre who expands on this. And this video reminds me of the story of Rapunzel: she could have left her dungeon tower on her own but the witch convinced her that she’s too ugly and unworthy for love. It took the love of a handsome prince to convince her that she is worthy. And she was free of the lies and the tower.

  • @kd1greene
    @kd1greene Před 2 lety +11

    I don’t even know where to begin with that. Been angry for so long I don’t know how to abandon it or surrender it to him in fear of what awaits me on the other side.

    • @claudiabaumann522
      @claudiabaumann522 Před 2 lety +1

      Look at the painting of Jesus of Divine Mercy ❤️ I trust in you ❤️say : Jesus i trust in you-Jesus i love you-save our Souls ❤️🙏❤️repeat 3x

    • @wishIwuzskiing
      @wishIwuzskiing Před 2 lety +3

      The fear is the evil one, lying to you, saying anything to keep you from the truth of God's eternal and unconditional love. Listen to this clip again, fully confident in God's true love for His creation!

  • @itinerantpatriot1196
    @itinerantpatriot1196 Před 2 lety +7

    Such wisdom. That is exactly the mind game Satan played with me for years. He convinced me that since it was impossible for me to hide anything from God it would be impossible for me to return to Him because he knew my heart and my heart wasn't pure. He mixed just enough truth in with a ton of lies to keep that wedge between me and God.
    If you feel that way, that you aren't worthy, realize where that is coming from. Satan and his minions have one goal, to take every soul with them into the abyss. And they will stop at nothing to do it. The first step is asking for forgiveness, the second is accepting it. God will take care of the first part, we just have to have enough faith to accept it and believe in our heart that we are forgiven. That one is on us. Thank you for this video. That message can never be delivered enough.

  • @Bob.W.
    @Bob.W. Před 2 lety +20

    Self hatred is self centeredness. Its just as egotistical to think you are worse than others as to think you are better. Grace gives us all our power, value and hope.

  • @wishIwuzskiing
    @wishIwuzskiing Před 2 lety +4

    Beautiful, just beautiful. Everyone, especially the broken and discouraged, needs to hear this .

  • @brendamyc3057
    @brendamyc3057 Před 2 lety +5

    Perfect Love ❤️

  • @mapaz555
    @mapaz555 Před 2 lety +3

    The most beautiful about us is God in us. How can we not see the beauty ? It’s everywhere. Magnificent. There’s nothing that can separate us from him. My Love, May I never be separated from You. May my senses find you in me, in everyone I meet, in everything I see and experience. Always You My Love. Amen

  • @doreenvandermerwe2027
    @doreenvandermerwe2027 Před 2 lety +2

    A great worship moment is the "Heartcry of David collective"Jews and Gentiles worshipping Jesus by singing the Song of Songs to Him "Dance with me/Glory come down"

  • @GKvartic
    @GKvartic Před 2 lety +5

    Oh my, this hit me way more than I anticipated.. thank you.

  • @elitisthavoc3949
    @elitisthavoc3949 Před 2 lety +1

    It’s hard not to hate yourself. Help me Lord Jesus Christ.

  • @judah6153
    @judah6153 Před 2 lety +5

    I needed this so bad... Ty so very much for explaining this key verse and book to me.. I love you so much Lord Christ Jesus ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MargoB
    @MargoB Před 2 lety +6

    ❤️. Thank you both for your vulnerability and this discussion...for reiterating the truth of God's love for us in such a powerful way. This was so good to hear!!

  • @smartismarti4049
    @smartismarti4049 Před 2 měsíci

    This is such a beautiful discussion. In my LDS highschool religion class, I was actually told to skip Song of Solomon because it was for married adults. It was portrayed as inappropriate and unnecessary. I obeyed because that's what I did those days (and also because it shortened my reading assignment), but I did always wonder why God would put something that inappropriate in the bible. Now I think it's just that the teacher didn't know what to do with it. When you don't see Christ as the bridegroom, it seems more bizarre to include this. But if it's in the bible there must be good reason, dismissing it is an odd approach for "the full restoration of Christianity". I look forward to praying with it.

  • @dickturpin435
    @dickturpin435 Před rokem

    God is everywhere. No one can hide from Him.

  • @sibergirl
    @sibergirl Před 2 lety +1

    I almost started crying. I am a practicing Catholic (convert from Presbyterianism back in 2003). I am in spiritual direction with a great priest, and a PWA patron. So, I’m fairly well dialed in to theology. But this brief video showed me why I still feel so blocked. I’m hiding from God. I *think* I’ve been letting Him in, but I haven’t been. It’s so scary, but it’s critical I practice turning toward God’s gaze. Wow! Thanks guys.

  • @padraigdoyle9262
    @padraigdoyle9262 Před 2 lety +3

    This video cane at the perfect time i always struggle with the topic of God's love as there are so many Christian denominations out there that have different opinions on it. Thank you Matt and Fr John for this conversation

  • @brendamyc3057
    @brendamyc3057 Před 2 lety +4

    Matt that’s some good sh.... uh stuff.

  • @takundamaruza707
    @takundamaruza707 Před 2 lety +7

    Wow!

  • @oceanblue3803
    @oceanblue3803 Před 2 lety

    Oh my goodness. I was just talking with God about this.

  • @joannefisher9877
    @joannefisher9877 Před 2 lety +1

    This was fantastic and needs to be done many ti as. At 83 you can be pretty low and know yourself well.

  • @annowens7123
    @annowens7123 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this discussion. I have begun to read The Song of Songs two or three times over my past fifty to fifty-five years (I’m 71). I haven’t completed the second chapter because reading it has made me feel very uncomfortable. I could not listen to Jesus talk to me like that. I’ve been ashamed because, as you said, I know what I am, and it’s not something I want to look at, let alone, let someone else see. I have, with the help of the Holy Spirit, come to look at myself more honestly and still know Jesus died for me to save me, because he loves me. I will attempt to read that particular book again, perhaps more easily if I see the beloved as The Church of Christ, and not me as an individual. God bless you both.

  • @kathleenfrancis1872
    @kathleenfrancis1872 Před 2 lety +1

    True Beauty is in the heart ❣️❤️

  • @Littlemermaid17
    @Littlemermaid17 Před 2 lety +1

    Beautiful comments from both 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @proxycontin7153
    @proxycontin7153 Před rokem

    Great talk

  • @rc3088
    @rc3088 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @jothompson1903
    @jothompson1903 Před 2 lety

    A wonderful commentary. Thank you both and bless you. Fiat!

  • @brentchristensen3546
    @brentchristensen3546 Před 2 lety

    Perhaps he is able to love us because of our imperfections. Beautifully crafted gentlemen!

  • @rebeccaboyenge7980
    @rebeccaboyenge7980 Před 2 lety +1

    beautiful

  • @SD-kg8hu
    @SD-kg8hu Před 2 lety

    This is my favorite video

  • @Joh-jf5kc
    @Joh-jf5kc Před 2 lety

    Perfect love is unconditionall acceptance. It which becomes manifest in giving.
    "God is love." 1. Joh 4,16

  • @brianhurley2194
    @brianhurley2194 Před 2 lety

    Sometimes when we read the Exodus story we may feel more akin to Egypt rather than Israel, but we have to remember that when it was Israel who rejected the infant Jesus, it was Egypt that the Holy Family fled to and nursed the infant Lord. God sanctified Egypt and gave Egypt a place in the Divine Plan despite her former persecution of Israel.
    We are never left alone.

  • @emmadumais2337
    @emmadumais2337 Před 2 lety +2

    Sooo beautiful! Why wouldn't anyone want to be Catholic?

    • @marybeth1747
      @marybeth1747 Před 2 lety +1

      I wonder that often!! I think it’s lots of reasons but chiefly they have no idea how great it is to receive Communion & Confession all.the.time.

    • @emmadumais2337
      @emmadumais2337 Před 2 lety +1

      @@marybeth1747 Absolutely! God is so good to us.

  • @Patrick-yl6op
    @Patrick-yl6op Před 2 lety

    Jesus I trust in you.

  • @diplomaticexorcist6130

    That's me in a nutshell. Not joyfully I say that.

  • @letriciabrowder2942
    @letriciabrowder2942 Před 2 lety +2

    I can't wait to be a nun

  • @jimisoulman6021
    @jimisoulman6021 Před 2 lety

    Erm... I always saw the Song of Solomon less of a love poem from God but from Solomon to one of his mistresses?!

  • @doreenvandermerwe2027
    @doreenvandermerwe2027 Před 2 lety +3

    Rabbis say that the Song of Song is the most Spiritual book in the Tanach

  • @josephpio159
    @josephpio159 Před 2 lety

    I think I’m starting to hear Matts accent turning American

  • @ritajackman5197
    @ritajackman5197 Před 2 lety

    Imagine Dragons “Demons”

  • @aronblackenberry4533
    @aronblackenberry4533 Před 2 lety

    I wish the like button could record more likes than one.

  • @alanwong9280
    @alanwong9280 Před 2 lety +1

    So I guess u don’t hold to the Tabula rasa. We are not blank. That we are not taught that we are bad by the 100’s of “No’s” we are told/day that impacts our self perspective? God’s infinite love towards us cannot overcome the fragility of the human condition of the self reflection of even a baby?
    The

    • @alanwong9280
      @alanwong9280 Před 2 lety +1

      I would prefer to think about the Master Craftsman Artist who weaves a perfect rug and then purposefully builds a flaw into it: the nature “otherness” from Him/Herself. What is “other” than the Infinite and perfection, in this case? It is the finite and the imperfect. That is nothing to be ashamed of. We are beautiful, awesome, and wonderfully made. We are as Thomas would say, “perfect” as ALL THINGS are perfect in so far as they exist.
      It is only others-like Lucifer, who criticize God’s creation and complain that it is NOT perfect, point out the flaws, devalues, and want to throw it on the ash heap of failures of what they strive to be, but failed to achieve: perfection-Divinity itself.

  • @spencergee6948
    @spencergee6948 Před 2 lety

    It's not difficult to hide from something that doesn't exist. Try hiding from fairies; it's quite easy.

  • @keanuf1
    @keanuf1 Před 2 lety +1

    If ya'll want some truth go watch a few Sam Harris videos

  • @darrent.atherton8493
    @darrent.atherton8493 Před 2 lety

    Oof.

  • @leoncaruthers
    @leoncaruthers Před 2 lety +2

    But God does judge us, and absolutely will reject us if we are anything less than perfect in our love for Him, and directly tells us so. He warns us repeatedly of the certainty of Hell if we fail Him in even the smallest measure.

    • @bensanders8443
      @bensanders8443 Před 2 lety +5

      Sounds like a different God to me. Never is that biblical that God say’s if you fail me in the smallest measure you will go to hell. Tell me what is the cross for do you even know?

    • @leoncaruthers
      @leoncaruthers Před 2 lety +2

      @@bensanders8443 Jesus directly tells the apostles to be perfect. The gate is narrow. Many will cry out "Lord! Lord!" but He will say to them that He never knew them.

    • @hopechandler
      @hopechandler Před 2 lety +5

      “And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world.”
      ‭‭1 John‬ ‭4:17‬ ‭NLT‬‬

    • @EEEasdfasdc
      @EEEasdfasdc Před 2 lety +7

      The Lord is just. He takes into account our weakness. That's why purgatory exists. But we do need to strive to do our best, do good works and help our neighbor, take the sacrament of confession, go to church on Sunday etc.
      ""If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
      1 John 1:9

    • @leoncaruthers
      @leoncaruthers Před 2 lety

      @@hopechandler tried that, didn't work. Begged for strength to better obey, and my weaknesses were multiplied. No reason for confidence after that.

  • @mrjeffjob
    @mrjeffjob Před 21 dnem

    I just don’t buy this. Yes God loves us. But like the sun shines on nuclear waste dumps. Because it’s the nature of God to love. It’s the nature of the sun to shine.
    This makes it sound like a sappy 15 year old who’s infatuated with the other who’s infatuated with him.
    I’m with that great philosopher Pink Floyd. All in all you’re just another brick in the wall.