Why We Don't Have Kids
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- We have been avoiding your comments, but in this video, we finally address your big question: "Why don't you have kids?" We tried to be as open and honest as possible with our answer to hopefully bring some clarity and encourage others who are in a similar situation. Enjoy!
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Hey Guys, i admire how brave and transparent you are. Everything will happen in God's time. Stay blessed, posetive and strong❤❤❤
The main thing is you guys found each other, God has purpose for everything and everyone. Try to ignore the people and listen to your soul. Love and light your way 🙏
Beautiful couple! When You pray, God listens. When You listens, God talks. When You Believe, God works! God Will answer Your prayers . Amen 🙏🏽 Good Luck with everything ‼️❤️
Dear Tyler and Betty, I can feel you. I have been in the same situation as you two are now. I have felt my worst at the time. Please know that kids are a gift from God and everything else. I also have a friend and sister in law that had the same story. One of them adopted a boy from Ethiopia and there life changed for the best. The other one got pregnant after trying for 8 years, now she have 3 kids under the age of 4. What I am trying to say is, if it is God's plan for your life you will get there, God knows the best for us. It's hard to answer the questions whenever people ask us. Please don't feel anything bad about it. No one make a baby just because they want to. It's in the hands of the mighty God who created the heavens and the earth. I will be praying for you guys as you are going through this time. Love to you both. Your sister in Christ.
Amen Amen and Amen 🙏🏾 💕💕💕
You guys are still young and sometimes pregnancy does not happen for various reasons. A friend of mine went through the same situation for almost eight years and she eventually got pregnant. She now has two beautiful and healthy kids. You will finally get there, God willing😬
Remember Sara story from the Bible nothing is impossible to god on his time 100 percent it will be happen give the responsibility to him I’m convenience in him it will be happen god bless you it will happen thank you for sharing with us trust me god he can do it love you both
You guys are like therapy! Much love & respect.
Hey guys. First of all you are very beautiful couple and I admire your courage to be vulnerable in this topic. Let me tell you my testimony. My husband and I were married for 9 years before our first baby came on the 10th year. Our story is just the same as yours. We didn’t want to have a baby for the first 5 years, due to jobs, higher education and what not. I was also 23 when I got married. So you might ask all the tests and hospital trips etc...finally our precious boy came at his own time or rather say Gods perfect timing. So what made it for us was, we stood by each other no-matter what anyone else said about us, in some cases, family members too. Then we kept praying and believing God. The bible says children’s are the gift of God, so why should we worry when we know the giver is our father. So we kept trusting God and praying but carried on with life as normal as usual. Finally, the time the baby came couldn’t have been any better. Then you will say yes Gods timing is perfect! So carry on doing your novel Betty and you Tyler keep doing whatever you do and relax. Trust me baby will come because I know we have the same Heavenly Father. He just wants us to trust in him and stay faithful only! He is a good God and He will give you the desires of your heart when you delight in Him. God bless you!
Wow it's good testimony
Don't despair guys, you will get there, God willing. Just stay positive. I am a muslim and pray from the bottom of my heart that may the Almighty Allah bless you with beautiful babies.
God is good all the time. My husband and I were trying for 5 years. When we lost hope and thinking of trying IVF, unexpectedly we found out that we are pregnant and this is our 37 weeks. I understand what you guys are going through. You are way younger than us. God will bless you definitely in His right time.
Congratulations! 💕💕🤩🤩🤩
Aww how has the first year of bubbas life been? xx
ሰላም ሰላም ቤቲ እንዳጋጣሚ ነው ቪዲዮዋችሁን ያየሁት እና እኔም እና ባለቤቴ ካለፍንበት ሂወት ላካፍላችሁ ወደድኩ: ይሄውም ምንድን ነው እኔና ባለቤቴ ከተጋባንበት ቀን ጀምሮ ልጅ ለመውለድ በጣም እንፈልግ ነበረ እና እኛ ባሰብነው ግዜ ለማግኘት አልቻልንም:በመሆኑም በቤተክርስቲያን: በቤተሰቦቻችና በጉዋደኞቻችን ዘንድ ለምን አትወልዱም ጥያቄ እኔን ከጭንቀቴ ከማዘኔ የተነሳ ልክ አንቺ እንዳሰብሽው የኔ ችግር ነው ብዬ እራሴን ወቀስኩኝ: ከእግዚአብሔር ጋር ክርክር ውስጥ ገባሁኝ እንደገና ጌታንም ለምን ለኔ ከለከልከኝ ብዬ ጌታዬን አኮረፍኩት: ባለቤቴንም በጣም ስላስጨነኩት በቃ ልጅ አዶብት አድርገን እናሳድግ አለኝ: ነገር ግን እግዚአብሔር በራሱ ጊዜ እና በራሱ ሰአት በጣም የሚያምሩ መንታ ሴት ልጆችን ሰጠን:: እኔ ማለት የምፈልገው እግዚአብሔርን እየፀለያችሁ ጠብቁት በራሱ ጊዜ ይሰጣችሁዋል: እርሱ ታማኝ አምላክ ነው!!!
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Beautiful testimony! I absolutely agree
Thank you guys. I'm going to Addis Ababa this August to visit my wife we have been trying to consive a baby please pray for us.♥️
The one thing which I learned from you is transparency & bravery. That what God loves.
I have a friend they waited 9years to have their first baby girl . Guess what happens next they went to had brother for the girl. They got a twin boy & girl. Finally, to make it equal another try & they got a girl. Now they have four beautiful kids.
So , as you said God has a purpose why don't have kids right now. Once you finish God's purpose you will have.
God bless you
I clearly understand what you guys are passing through. My wife and I were there and EXPERIENCED all the shame and anger. We have waited 10 years to have our Son. God is good all the time and we are enjoying our miracle every minute now. The day will come and please pray! God be with you and stay strong!
when Tyler said you guys are our child😂 everything happen for reason. When everything is happen GODS time it’s beautiful. Pray hard miracle will happen. Stay blessed🙏
Love you guys! Think positive! Be positive! Take care of each other. Babies will come when you least expect it. Relax! Don't stress! It will happen! God bless You!!!!😇🥰🤗👍🏾🙏🦾
Thanks Regina for the suggestions and encouragement! We really appreciate the love and support ❤️ We will try our best to relax and take care of each other! God bless you too 🙏
Hi Betty & Tyler, if ya'll cant conceive - just adopt from Ethiopia. There are so many kids who NEED great parents like ya'll. Please change some little kids life for the better. ADOPT ya'll !!! You have so much LOVE to give a little kid. JUST DO IT guyz....and one more thing - NEVER stop loving and supporting each other. Betty I wanted to tell ya that you are so beautiful. Your husband is a lucky guy to marry a gal like ya
This is a gift to share something so personal. I definitely was the one thinking, “When are they going to have children?” I never asked because I’m fully aware there are people trying that just aren’t able to conceive. Obviously I do have children, but I can only imagine what you’re both feeling. The scriptures you shared are so good-being faithful with what you have. Omg I just love this! I will be sharing this and praying for you both. Love you both!
Guys, there is time for everything. It's unfortunate for some people struggle but lord willing. Don't give up I've been through that hell still in. If you love each other that's important. Million kids in the world need parents. (That is another option too). God bless.
Hi beautiful couple,
We're in the same situation and waiting for God to bless us with health children. Don't worry it will happen in God's time. Remember, if God says yes, no one can say no, he's the creator of everything, the provider of everything..... Alfa Omega.... the bible says if God is for us who can be against us!
just in case please check your hormones both of you. Betty try to track your ovulation and if you can try to supplement, like B vitamins, folic acid, zinc( very very important for ovulation and after) Coq10 for egg quality.....
You might be know the above info but just wanted to share. Above all children's are gifts from almighty God. 👨👦👦👨👦💕
Amen!
Tyler & Betty, you guys have kept me company during these quarantine days ☺️.I usually don't subscribe quickly to youtube channels until I really know what the content, motive and substance of the videos are. All this to say it didn't take me long to subscribe to yours! I love that you guys are bold enough to stand for your faith and that you are not apologetic about it.You guys are becoming salt and light to this confused and corrupted world using your platform. And I love that you are pouring into the next generation!! That's amazing! God bless you!!
Betty, you are so beautiful and so young! but above all you are saved and you have a personal relationship with the Lord! so as you said your identity and worth comes from knowing & belonging to Jesus Christ!! I know you have said that in the video but I just wanted to affirm that for you again! don't let the enemy distract you and steal your joy!! I want to give you the word you know already Jeremiah 29:11. like you both said there are so many blessings underlined that you were able to do with your free time.God is good and His timing is perfect!! God knows best Tyler & Betty!!! and so proud of you for writing a novel! I will be one of the first to purchase and read it ☺️. Just keep your head up and continue to have faith in the Lord! He will lead you and show you to the plans He has for you. There is always adoption too. Am not sure where you stand on that but there are hundreds of kids being aborted everyday from teen pregnancy! who knows if you can save one of them and give a home and love. The options are endless guys, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes God works in mysterious ways, and His plans are bigger and better.
Tyler, I love how you are kind and sweet towards your wife and us viewers also. How about, since you wants 5kids , 3 of your own and 2 adopted 🤗 lol . God Bless you! am cheering you on! and I want to end by blessing you the blessing on Numbers 6:24-26. 💚💛❤️
God bless you my sister. Jesus said ,we are light for the World. Your advice is so hambel.
Stumbled across your post tonight. Love you both and miss you. I’m reminded of my journey around a desire to be married and be a mom and God having different plans. Love you both and praying for you!
God is still in control and I pray that God will bless you with with children soon. Love from Canada!
Your vulnerability is incredible! I praise God for walking with y’all during these difficult and disappointing times. I can see how he’s given you grace, helped you have positive attitudes, and just become mature through it. I’m sure it’s not been the case from the beginning, like you mentioned but you know God walks through those moments of fear, disappointments, frustrations, failed plans, uncertainties, all of it... side by side with us. So I want you to know that I appreciate your bravery and just encourage you to keep trusting God. He will certainly reveal his beautiful and prosperous plans for your life 🤗 thanks again for sharing! I’m sure a lot of people can learn from you and feel inspired by your beautiful journey 😇
You are both beautiful and brave,
My wife and I have been trying for 16 years, just when we decided not to have children and start planning accordingly, a friend suggested some treatment for me and it worked. Thanks to almighty lord. Happy to share if you want the info.
Stay strong! You have many options.
Things happen for reason Just relax and keep shining enjoy ur time together. God will visit You soon. Be hopeful xxx
After 10 years I got pregnant and had a miscarriage. 4 years later pregnant again. This time I had a beautiful son now 40 years old and a total blessing. 2 years later pregnant again and another miscarriage. I know how you feel. My advice is to relax enjoy each other, open up to your friends children and family children. When noisy people ask why you don't have kids ask the why do you want to know. It is none of their business. I do hope that God will answer your prayers.
Thank you Illona.
You are so brave. Its a sensitive issue im so grateful you talked about it. Stay blessed 🙏🏾
If you trying to conceive the baby /chiled/, just free from the stress !!! That's the secret. You guys are still very very young you will achieve it .Sending Much Love and Blessing 🙏❤
እህት ደምሪኝ እኔም በታማኝነት እመልሳለሁ
My story is the same too. We are in mid 30’s. It’s ok, we are enjoying life, travel and love each other. It would happen if it’s meant to be. We will try a couple more years, if didn’t we will adapt:) either way we are happy and fine.
From someone who have went through fertility issues, I can say you are at the right place. Just be thankful for the things you have and don’t have.
Y'all so wholesome and cute. What you said about the 5 talents made me really think about some things I'm going through. I'm not going through fertility issues but I've been dealing with a bit of "grass is greener on the other side" or "if only I had this...id be doing better" and that kinda led me to neglect what I do have available to me family/health/a place to live and even talents and capabilities to achieve and do so much more than I have. My mom went to a Pentecostal school in Ethiopia and we attended church growing up here in America. Although I stopped attending and feel Im having difficulty fully connecting I've always leaned into what I do remember learning for comfort and reassurance. But I have to say when I see the type of confidence and assurance you and other strong believers seem to have in your faith, I get a little jealous. Like how do they do that? I guess my difficulty comes from not (I hate saying this out loud cuz I do have faith but to an extent) being able to fully mean it when it comes to my belief in the after life and that if I do x y z and live my life in a godly way it's means x y z in the after life. It's like on one hand I love the comfort and confidence it gives you Betty when you said you know that there will be no pain and crying in heaven and everything will be rectified. I know that allows people to be able to live life and not dwell. I want to apply that to myself but I don't know how to truly believe that way. Sorry for this rambling btw...its just some of the things you said made me think about my own relationship with faith. I'll definitely think about that 5 talents example next time I'm feeling defeated and hopeless. I have to nurture what I do have.
Guys, I really really admire about u been transparent about it.plse don't be ashamed about the things u can not control.I pray and I will pray for u all the time .just believe that God will bless u with the healthy babies and even bless u with the twins in Jesus name!
You will on God’s time. Prayers & Blessings💕🙏🏿🙏🏿
Me and my husband also don’t have kids, 4 years marriage. God feels me with rest in that topic, God is in control. I never expected that I will be peaceful if I could get kids, but I didn’t feel any sadness about it, I believe it is only from God . We are created to serve God not to serve our own desire.
God bless you
Amen. God bless you too! Stay strong!
እሱ በፈቀደ ጊዜ ይሆናል ዋናው አለመጨናነቅ ነው ጊዜ አላችሁ ልጆች ናችሁ እስከዛ ዘና ፈታ በሉ ቤቢ ከመጣ ብዙም ጊዜ አይኖርም መልካም እድል
Praying for you! God is faithful keep having faith in the Lord and don’t ever give up. You got an army of ppl behind for you.
Amen, he is faithful! Thank you for praying, it means the world!
you guys are amazing and thank u for sharing and God knows everything he listens to our prayer. i'm praying for you. love u guys
Why people are asking about personal questions 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Blessing you two for standing up for yourselves.
I don’t want kids either and I’m sooooo happy about it 🌺
God bless! With a delay comes a huge blessing! In bible: Issac, Joseph, John, Samuel.... conceived and born late by human calendar , but on time in God’s timing with a purpose.
EVERYTHING IS WONDERFUL IN GOD'S TIME....
I'M SINGLE AND HOPE TO MEET MR. RIGHT,
YES INVEST YOUR TIME TO MEANINGFUL THINGS LIKR YOU'RE DAING!👌👌👌
Hey guys! I’m new to your channel and just subscribed. Yay! Thanks for having the courage to share on this sensitive subject. God is always good and have His own time table to bless you with kids. Once he pulls kids cards, there is no going back. 😁 I have faith in him He is paving the road and preparing you guys to that. Please stay strong and committed. He will make it happen. It’s just a matter of time. Don’t let pressure coming from other people let you overwhelm. There’s always other options if need be. Until then, enjoy life to the fullest. Who knew year 2020 would be like this. Just worry about today. He will take care of tomorrow. As one of my favorites Bible teacher Lisa Harper said, “Hope is in our DNA”. May God bless you both.
Let go and let God have His way.
Just want to encourage you . We here been married long a go, have no child. We feel really we are happy and are enjoining our life and the Lord day for day .
God always has plan!! We have to trust in Gods wisdom! He always answers our prayers in the way that is best for us, even if we don’t understand how it is best for us at the moment! So be Patient! Maybe this isn’t the time, pray pray pray never Lose hope!!
We love you guys and your vulnerability. So cool how you are letting God work through you! We are praying for all five of your future children!
You guys are still young. You will make it. You will be in my prayers on this topic.
God has a reason for everything.. God bless you.. Beautiful couple 😍 I'll pray for you guys 🙏
Continuing to pray for you two and the babies you will have! They are going to be beautiful and so blessed to have such a wonderful mom and dad! Can’t wait to witness God’s perfect timing in your lives! 🙏❤️
EgziAbher Yeredachihu and GOD will give you child when the time comes,
Hi. Just pray about and let go and let God. I've found out that some times we want some thing, we don't get it when we want it. We get when the Lord is ready to give it to us. Just enjoy each other and life.
Some couples adopt. Once they adopt, BOOM! THEY ARE PREGNANT! 🤗
I am so glad I found Christian you tubers.
Thanks for encouraging us
I believe there is a reason for everything. I waited 5 years before I had mine.... so hang in there ! It WILL happen. Love you guys!!!
Everything will happen in God's perfect timing, God is never late, never early always on time! He has a reason and trust on him! May the almighty God and his holy mother bless you!!
You guys are lovely ❤. Everything goes as the will of God and it’s for best. So your baby will come on the right time❤❤God bless your heart.
Hi guys, I am so sorry to hear you're struggles! Me and my husband can relate! I know exactly how it feels to try every month and finding out you are not pregnant. It's such a let down and empty fealing. How come something that is supposed to be so simple can be difficult! Long story short we went through IVF and now we are 3 months pregnant... It is not an easy process but maybe it's something you guys might want to look into... I hope God bless you both with babies ❤️ 🙏
great advice. God bless you!
Wow, amen and thank you! Also, I praise God for the miracle of your pregnancy 🙌, and I hope it's going well. Praying for health and blessings over you, the baby, and your husband 🙏. All my love, Betty
May God be with you beautiful couple, I have been struggling to get pregnant but had only multiple miscarriages, I don't despair I know our time will come..
Don’t give up , God is able!!
Hi Taylor and Betty. There are many in this situation and I believe your discussion helps a lot. Thank you for sharing.
Enjoy your love. When the kid comes it comes and no much time for yourselves. So just pray and Keep your heart peace.
You will definitely have kids, my sister, just keeps praising God the provider. Love 💕 you, guy!!!
It is ok wait GOD can do it just pray 🙏🙏🙏
U r encouraging those who r passing thru it showing such strength in God for sure. Thanks for sharing
You guys are just amazing. I'm freaking sure your dream will come true one day. Just believe. From your lovely home country Ethiopia.
You guys are a match made in heaven, I'm proud of you Betty, and I'm glad to know ya here ❤️ love ya guys God bless u guys
Everything will be happen in God's time keep praying 🙏🙏🙏
And when you are intimate, don’t think about getting pregnant.... just enjoy the action 😍 old mothers always say that and you will get pregnant
It doesn't matter, it will happen. The most important point is , the parent and healthy environment when babies come. Every thing for good reasons.
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It will happen some day, don’t stress about it, take prenatal and healthy food, When you are not thinking about it, it will happen. Love you guys and stay blessed
Much love to you both! This is very helpful message for couples who are going through the same situation. Some of my closest friends went through the same experience and God blessed the with beautiful kids at the end. As you rightly put, being thankful for what we have now, praying and putting our trust in God helps. You will be in my prayer guys. God bless!
OMG this question was all over my mind since i've known u, but i was afraid to comment and force u to answer(TBH i was kinda thinking ''this couples are living like every teenagers dream having their time only.. they don't wanna be responsible or they afraid of postpartum and just chilling 😪.. .. )..... and i see what u've been through...i know such situations opens a door for loosing a faith but never give up your trust on God ,He made things to happen on his time and order so you should have to be more faithful .. u almost said everything just stay in your faith.. as always Much Love ❤️
Thank you Guys for your wonderful honesty and openness! it does help lots of us in so many ways. You made a connection with mine, to say the least. Been through the valley of bitterness, despair and name it. Well, you have served as a beacon of hope! I identify myself with you and pray that The Good Lord sustain you in Faith, Hope and Love unto the end.
Praying for you sweethearts. God is able!
Amen! Thank you!
IT took me a while to get my second one but l always said God will give me l don't let bad thoughts controlled me keep praying have a confidence in God 💕
God can do the Impossible, I’ll pray for you guys
it takes a character and depth to tell our vulnerability and challenges. The volume doubles up when you are in relationship thank you for showing us the up and down you have........we all have to learn something from our experience and a lot will learn from your experience in this thing called life. You both are very young and with lots of time ahead ...yesterday was history today is what is given and remember yes tomorrow is a promise!!!!!!!!!!!
First thanks for sharing your story.take it easy guys God has a plan & you still young.wishing you all the best
Thanks for being transparent about this subject guys. I'm praying for you both!
Live your lives, children come if they have to or may not come
Thank you both for sharing your journey. Sending you love and hope!
I am praying for y'all starting now. God's time table is always different than humans calendar. It will happen... He is the giver if life. He has given us eternal life, He can surly give another human life as well. I encourage you guys so much for everything y'all are doing at this time... You are both redeeming the time, just like the Word of God says to do so. What you do as you wait is very important. I have a heard a good teacher of faith say, "God takes time, when he wants to come BIG." He is coming Big in your household.
Just believe in God and forget everything you will find yourself being pregnant. That’s what happened to me. After trying hard for 5 years one day I got pregnant. On day .... that is it ...one day is enough. Now I have 4 years old boy. So believe me when it happens it is like miracle. Don’t worry yeni Konjo. You are brave to share your story. Just pray😍
Thank you so much for sharing your story, Betty and Tyler! You are so brave! May God bless you with children and all the desires of your hearts! Thank you!
God be with you guys. The baby will come in Gods timing. God bless you and your family.
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I'm so proud of you guys that you opened up about this topic. All that matters is that you are happy with eachother. I really love the verse you based your marriage on. Everything happens in Gods timing, you just keep on being strong in faith and will definitely be praying for you guys. God bless!
Why are people concern about you guys having kids I think that's personal that is your choice whether u have kids or not that shouldn't be no one concern
You guys are very young to worry about it because you will have kids. You have plenty of time. You both are not even 30 so just have fun enjoy life. Like you said, God has purpose so maybe now is not the time.
in my mid 40's without kids and happily single. When I was younger I wanted a family but not anymore. I discovered happiness without it. Unlike the majority of people I consider my self lucky. Less drama, less responsibility, more time to pursue lots of hobbies. The biological clock doesn't favor the ladies especially as you get older. May God bless you with a child. until then, you need a pet. I know the pressure is on Betty because habesha people ask that question a lot.
Amen! Thank you 😊.
I have the same exact cat 🐈:) such a beautiful cat.
God will give you kids❤️ 🙏
U will have kids I will pray for your guy's still young God has his own time for everything I will happen you are God loving ppl why not wait and see
💜 Thank you for you prayers 🙏🏾 Yes we will wait on God’s ⏱
Beautifull Tyler and Betty God is faithful and you guys have so much faith so Just be patient God has his own purpose and timing !!!! And tnx for sharing your faith with us 🧡🧡
Tyler & Betty i am a new subscriber and i just adore you guy's ❤. I know pregnancy topics are always hard but am sure one day God will bless you with the bundle of joy just stay together and support each other. I am 5 month pregnant now and as much as am happy i am But i am very sad and depressed for the luck of love and support from my partner. It's even harder going through all the pregnancy ups and downs by yourself .
love you guy's and i pray for you ❤
The time will come you will have children
This is one of realest youtube videos I have ever seen. You touched a topic that nobody speaks about. Thank you guys for sharing your story. Am sure it will help and encourage many of us. Betty, i sent you instagram DM. I would appreciate it to hear from you 💖
ያውቅበታል ውብ ማድረግን ሁሉን በጊዜው .... He knows what you need.
Love you both guys ❤️❤️❤️
Hi guys it’s okay don’t worry !! Just pray God is the answer ❤️✌️
When the Lord is ready for you to have children you will. That's how it happened for me and my husband.
When it is important to you both God will never take away from you he has his time wait for him.and think the time we are live in means it is uncertain. As older a lot than you are you can give or help so many kids don’t have home . You are young may be God want you to learn or to see. I is the hardest time to raise kids
YOU GUYS ARE SUPER BEAUTIFUL. I love the openness. Betty sweet God is waiting for you to finish what u suppose to finish before baby comes so take ur time at finishing your novel book. The book is going to be definitely change somany lives. So when the time is ready for the baby It is going to say Tik Tok. You are absolutely beautiful couple so God will definitely bless you with the desires of u heart. Love u guys
First time watching u guys. Everything happens for a reason. Keep praying 🙏God is good.
God is good Guys.... its good thing you have eachother