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Kobe was a legend on the court, but his personal life was full of ups and downs. The late NBA star had a rocky relationship with his parents. Had he managed to talk to his mom before his tragic death?
Bryant rarely talked about his parents and they even missed his retirement ceremony. Watch the full video to find out more details about their family story.
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How many people watched and listened to this and still do not get the big picture? It’s a damn shame people don’t comprehend this instead of just going off emotions
A man can have multiple woman, multiple children & multiple friends but you will only have one mother, honour thy mother.
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I hate to tell you this, but not everybody's MOTHER is a "GOOD MOTHER" !!!
Kobe learned the hard way
Exactly his parents did all that cause Kobe married Vanessa they didn't come to Kobe's championships games they was all about the money instead of they son's happiness @@anythinggoesvideospart-2242
yes as a parent you have to come into a bad situation somewhat clean.
If you believe in GOD he will cover you.
Money changes everything 💔
Money the root of all evil
1 Timothy 6:10 “The love of Money”
im tellin u
@@sj_snoww After they busted Kobe on that escort situation he tightened up and wasn't hanging out or anything. He used his free time to practice and was about his family. He wasn't partying or going on trips with his team mates.
This man, kobe bean bryant was one of one. Thank you, Mamba.
God bless us all
It’s insane how much Gianna looks like her grandmother. Rip
Visit the nearest 🤓ophthalmologist 🙄as soon as possible, you really need it🤨
Kobe's mom is so beautiful ❤️
Yes, she is! ❤️
Indeed.
on the outside
His daughters actually look like her, just seeing it
Kobe's mom is beautiful but this is not about who beautiful or ugly. That why son's marry women's like mother.vanessa Pamela are like twin strong women's
He died a very TRAGIC death..HE LEFT THIS WORLD
HE LEFT EVERYTHING
HE DIDN'T TAKE NONE OF IT ...he should've done right by his parents..GOD LOVES THAT..and you live longer..THATS THE WORD!! It's in the BIBLE
Matthew 16:19
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The bible is rubbish full of hate speech from thousands of years agi
True kobe should have made peace w. His parent's why is everybody blaming vanessa why is it that everybody blame women if man did wrong
Exodus 20:12. I don't care what his mother did, that's material things, the other sin committed was he out the trophy before God, thou shalt not put another God before me, God's words, at the end of the day God allowed him to have all that praise & glory and he forgot to thank main one GOD, then his parents, not one time has anybody bought God in this equation, I'm speaking of the media ppl who are giving honors to him, he was a great player not taking away for that, but God designed him that & God laid him to rest.
His parents made a public statement apologizing to Kobe for selling his memorabilia without permission, they admitted that Kobe was Financially supporting them until they did all that shady shit. Imagine your accomplishments In trophies, Championship rings etc. you giving them to your parents as representing a “Thank you for getting me here.” For them to turn around instead and sell it all in an auction for $450,000+.
That’s a slap in the damn face tellin your child none of it mattered to them but they would rather have had the money. So those who are saying he should have respected his parents and still had listened and done for them what they did for him. When is it ever ok for your parents to disrespect you? Never! He did what he felt in his heart he needed to do because of their own ungratefulness.
And they reconciled after his retirement, so he did what he needed to do in order for them to understand as his parents your kids should always be respected even in their choices.
That's the wrong thing to do, however, parents are parents regardless and are senior in a relationship.
Its nice to know they reconciled.
If Vanessa parents had sold Kobe's memorabilia and trophies I bet he would not have disowned them but forgiven them.
Well Said..
@@kledmohd4230 well we know you would be a shitty parent. You would do your kids all kinds of dirty talking about "I'm grown, I'm your dad/mom I can do no wrong I raised you." But then want to act surprised and hurt when they put you in a nursing home, probably a shitty one and just leave you there.
@@whowhatwhere3808 that's the difference they would have never sold it despite of not being blood related....it was his own parents who sold his biggest accomplishment as it was nothing. Kobe cared more about his career than anything in this world you can see why was he pissed
He should respect his mom and dad
he admired his parents deeply watch his interviews. this was before he met that heifer Vanessa
@J Dolo There were good parent's if there was not good parents he would not have been who he was repect going out to his parents
@J Dolo
The answer is Vanessa.
How is her relationship with her own family?
He had to sneak and visit them because vanessa hated them that much for not except her
Guys are dumb! You don't even know the whole story.
His mother was in the right.
how so
@@cooltkll Kobe met his wife when she was only 17, his mother didn’t want him to get in trouble, and it’s obvious she only wanted him for his money and fame.
@@rahatahmed6188 How is it "obvious that Vanessa wanted him for money and fame"? Vanessa stays out of the limelight, she could have divorced Kobe in 2011 and taken half then if she wanted. Incidentally Kobe's mom was the one who attempted to sell his memorabillia because he wouldn't buy her a house.
@@fridayvan-defoe6987 firstly, Vanessa was clearly looking for a rich man, she didn’t care which one. She had previously been in a relationship with a famous rapper before Kobe. Secondly, she didn’t divorce Kobe because he bought her a million dollar ring and she probably didn’t want her children to have to suffer. Thirdly, Kobes mother sold the memorabilia because Kobe bought his mother in law a 3 million dollar home and only gave his mother 250k for a house. His mother obviously felt betrayed.
@@rahatahmed6188period!!!
Correction! Kobe’s relationship with his parents changed when he started dating Vanessa. They thought he was to young and didn’t like her because she wasn’t black
Not liking your sons wife because they aren’t black is such a petty and stupid reason to destroy you and your child’s relationship
@@NB1GD2yiu forgot to mention she was a 17 year old high school student
@@NB1GD2 sometimes the mother can see through you and that could be the main reason that you’re no good for her son and most of the time mom is always right and boy was she right?
@@tammyharper20 how was she "right" about Vanessa? She stuck by Kobe through all of his mess, (the colorado situation) and his extra marital affairs. She could have taken half and left a long time ago if she was only interested in Kobe's money.
@@tammyharper20she wasn’t right. Kobe has even mentioned how his parents always wanted $$$$ from him. This video isn’t the only info available out there. This isn’t even the beginning of their strain.
Rest in Peace Kobe.
Family matters can be touchy, sensitive, and complex.
I think it was a matter of respect which is priceless. For respect is a matter of the heart.
Unfortunately , there were no winners in this situation. We can only hope that behind the opinions that their relationship
was restored in private.
Your mother love 💖 is the best
I believe Kobe and Vanessa are not as innocent as people think. And for her to not mention his parents at his memorial speaks volume of the person she is !!
So, how are we to know that the parents just didn’t want to talk at the memorial?
I would of said something about his parents even if I hated them if I was vanessa
Agree
Maybe parents of kobe should has been nice kind loving to vanessa.Dont blame her blame parents.
@@noradiaz7752 she has a dark spirit I would not have exsept her as well specially after meeting her greedy mom I'm sure pam bryant met her and her mother kobe should of listen to his parents he would still be alive his head got swelled up and he made bad choice and vanessa was a bad choice
Died having close to a $400M estate and had a family fall out over $400k and some sports Memorabilia
Exactly it makes no sense... I think BOTH sides made mistakes.
@@johnstarks32 money hungry vanessa?
Because of his gold digging greedy wife who didn't want his parents to have anything 😘💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛
@@evonza4858 and kobe being a simp lacking the backbone to stand up to his wife, who may or may not have been cheating with that guy in Oakland
He went alone leaving everything behind!
That's wisdom, all he was fighting his parents over, he still left all behind.
@@kay6257 Facts
To his wife am children's
@Saed Mohamud so true
As we will be required to do.
Just by looking at pictures of Kobe’s mom you can tell that she is an intense woman. Kobe even mentioned how she was super competitive. Obviously I don’t know her so I can’t state any of these things as facts. But there’s no doubt that mothers sometimes can be a daughter in laws worst nightmare.
Your parents should be cordial to your partner, especially if your partner has not done anything wrong.
Yes I'm going thru the same thing with my mother in law she never liked me from the start she judged a book by its cover I just hate it when your parents think they can decide who u end up with
@@heidyguzman13 hang in there sis, if your man defends you in a proper mature way that’s a major plus. Moms and dads will learn to have to be mature as well.
looks like a 70s rnb singer she was probably bad back in the day lol
But GOD knows and judge right and her son do her bad and he never ever get son in his life he got 4 daughters and he left his hard earning money with out enjoy it and we don’t know if Vanessa married in future the money Kobe left going be enjoy by stranger now that women you judge by looking at her photo GOD see and heard her tears
Cant treat your family wrong..they made you. That's what Kobe forgot
I don't think he forgot.They did him wrong.Not accepting who he chose to marry.Selling his things when gave them money over the year's.
@@seanjohnson8943 nonsense the are reason why kobe exist Kobe should’ve let that go money has no value over your parents Kobe I’ve listened to his mother now he’s dead and left the money behind
@@Rio-GE-V left it to his wife and kids not the parents
@@seanjohnson8943 she’s very lucky and very disrespectful towards Kobe parents
My honest opinion, I wish he would have thanked his parents more and wish they could have reconciled there relationship. His parents wanted Kobe to get a prenuptial agreement when he got married which he didn’t get, his parents was not supportive of him & Vanessa getting married because they were too young and because she was not African American. There’s nothing wrong with interracial marriage. You always honor & respect your parents. Kobe had his own family and you stand by the woman who stood by him even through the ups and downs.
When you do not honor your parents you desperate God.
God said honor your Father and Mother or your day will be shortened.
Do not put material things forward God or your PARENTS Amen.
FORGIVE and Love one another as God is you. AMAN
That is true
Absolutely!
i dont believe in that mythical bullshit
Genesis 2;24
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife and they shall become one flesh. KJV.
Kobe's parents should have swallowed their pride and accepted the choice their adult son made. How many people in the states allow their parents to make the decision on who to marry? We don't live in a country where we are forced into arranged marriages.
@@extremeking425 go sit down 😂
Honor your mother and father.
A Very subjective bible verse.
Esphesian 6:4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.
@@haroldtorres7350 That's what they did dummy 🖕🏾
@@haroldtorres7350 people love to ignore this
Respect your mom's and dad so you can live a long life.
The bible also says parents should not anger their children. Christians nowadays pick and choose quotes from the bible to fit their point and agenda just stop it.
@bruh You don't get it, Nobody will love Kobe more than his mother. Your wife is your wife until she says so. Your mother will be your mother forever because she gave birth to you and will pain her to the deepest of heart if something happens to you. Keep believing in fairy tales..
@@Lifesituations8000 So you tryna tell me what God said is fairy tales that disrepectful you just mad cause is the truth of what the bible says "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord." look it up Mr. Fairy Tales
@Harold Torres You will never understand because there will always be a but this but that. I bet you, your mother, will give her life up for you sooner than your wife or husband. That is the purest form of love. Why will I get mad at my mother for wanting a bigger home, but males fall in love with their wives and the wives' family more than his own family that really care for their well being. In the end, a wife can say F this and find somebody else, and a mother will never replace you with another child. When kobe was growing up, his mother and father invested in him not because kobe was a business but because they loved him. I bet you if kobe was poor, his wife may not be with him, but I bet you his mother and father would be there for him. So Mrs Bible keeps reading it.
@@Lifesituations8000 Is still God words tho even he said it so you could stick with Honor thy Father and Thy mother which i agree bruh but at the same time God has many way from where he could say the opposite way as well from i just quoted from previous comment that i made about "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" but i guess you have your way on seeing things different from what i think and i respect that but at the end of the day Kobe live his life the way he wanted so is nothing that you and i can do about it we just still have to live on and see everything was going in the world.
Why is this google so important now Kobe is gone what ever happen cant change and no one will ever know. Not speaking to your parents is something i wouldnt of wanted to take to my grave. What is a Legend your acomplishment but who is truley the legend GOD. and the parents who truley was there and raised you.
Children obey your parents.period
And parents don't provoke your children to wrath
As “Pink Book Lessons” pointed out.
There’s a lot left out surrounding the subject of his parents selling his memorabilia.
Kobe’s mom asked him if he wanted the stuff and Kobe told his mom,
“No, it’s yours mom...”
According to Kobe, he had been taking care of them for most of his NBA career and them selling his stuff, highlighted their unappreciative attitude towards him.
I don’t agree with him on that.
They sacrificed their entire adult lives so that u can become one of the greatest athletes in the entire world.
He bought his mother in law a house,
Which is why I don’t understand why his parents had to sell his memorabilia to purchase a home.
He probably bought them a house a longtime ago, I don’t know.
His father was NBA player and played in Italy too, but that doesn’t mean his parents made sound decisions when concerning their finances.
There’s a lot to unpack here without knowing all the details but my opinion is
Vanessa should have insisted, his parents take front seat along with her at his memorial,
just for the eyes of the world can witness, even if she didn’t want to do it.
It wasn’t a good look.
It’s perceived that his parents had very little to do with his success, which is hardly the case.
Leo Tha Last Very good points you have made. Arrogant & rude sad, spoiled, by his addiction to the game of "basketball," in a very negative receiving manner. But not like witchcraft, he didn't need it, he practiced enough to the point of perfection. Basketball was everything for him, money is everything for Vanessa, at the end it ended him. I don't yet understand "why" the 8 others, be careful what we wish for.
You bring up some sound wisdom and I do agree with something you pointed out about his parents and him, he was in his feelings when his wife was rejected by his parents, I get that & I understand that, his wife which ppl don't won't to dress that elephant 🐘 in the room, should have called a truce with his parents and made peace with them had a conversation with them on them making amends, so they all could grow & Bea real family, we don't know what kind of seeds she was planting in his mind she was his wife. She probably said something to him about his mother selling his things, my opinion on that if he gave it to her it shouldn't have been a problem. Last time I checked Kobe cared about winning championship, not MVP status, trophies, none of that mattered, just seizing the moment and winning ballards.
If you really really love your son, why not attend his wedding?
Even if his parents didnt approve of his choice in a wife, thats his choice.
Tit for tat.
If I love my son I would go to his wedding and love my daughter in law, not shun her and my son by insulting them and no showing at the wedding.
Look at both Kobe and Vanessa.
Victims of their heritage.
Their own parents.
Kobes parents groomed him for fame and fortune why?
Vanessas Mom took her to video shoots, her under age daughter.
Why?
This is so sad being used as a meal ticket by your own flesh and blood.
Your parents.
The scriptures go both ways.
Honor Your Father and Mother we all know, and
Ephesians 6:4
4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.
In all fairness to Kobe, he wasnt brought up to be a minister of Jesus.
His parents groomed him for fame and fortune.
Are they ultimately responsible for his untimely death?
Wasnt Kobe just doing for Gianna what his parents did to him?
@@ariloves10
That's only true if Vanessa's mother wasn't trying to pressure Kobe because Vanessa was a minor at the time.
Let me get this right you are saying a woman who just lost her husband and her daughter (a young daughter) and had a toddler should have insisted on what ???
She shouldn’t be thinking about that , if they were decent enough to have a relationship with their VERY REASONABLE SON … they would have been the ones holding her down whilst she was mourning … smh
They lost a son whom they had the chance to see grow up but passed on part of his life because of their petty concerns … She lost a husband and a daughter (whom she didn’t get to see grown up and she didn’t CHOOSE to not be part of her life ) like they did with their son .
What is wrong with you people
I'm Latina my mom always said when the son gets married usually forget their moms and get closed to their wives family .
In Islam mother comes first second and third . Paradise is under our mothers feet . He forgot his mom, and he lost everything . Who carried him for 9 months , who gave him birth and feed him and took care for him ? His wife didn't raised him or feed him . Of course Vanessa was his love , but his mother knew him first .
Now Vanessa is getting trouble with her mom . very sad
Yes, it is very sad. 😞
Young black men should learn from this
But some moms are psychopaths, I would not blame Kobe, but his mom
@@Illyrian_Warrior u sound like one he's mom was a good mother an took care of her son wtf u talking about
@@diamondcarrier2309 How do you know his mom was a good mother? Have you done a research on her? Why would she sell his personal things behind his back? She could rather asked for money. I was raised by a psychopath, I know one when I see one.
Honor your mother and father your days will be longer
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.”
what about when your parents are physically and verbally abusive?
@@haroldtorres7350 They brought him up with discipline and instruction, which is why he was so successful. Kobe loved his parents and often spoke about how close he was with them prior to marrying Vanessa, so this doesn't apply. The honor your parents verse does though. He seemed to take on a wordly way of thinking where this wasn't necessary and that they were no longer important. I think he needed them more than he realized. The money he wanted to withhold from them is still here but he isn't. You can gain the world but lose your soul.
@@mrm09100 I have a uncle that had resentment in his heart toward his Dad check this out his Dad which is my grandfather lived for 98 year old and he died and my uncle is still living you got every right to believe from your belief in religion but my point of view is i believe we going to have our days i don't think it doesn't have nothing to do of honoring your parents i believe it just an accident that could happen to all, sadly it happen to him and his daughter who had her life ahead for a bright future.
Kobe secretly visited his parents a lot before he died thank God all the shaming was just for show
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Shut up. You sound dumb. Nobody sane secretly visits their parents. Dummy
I agree because that's the kind of dude My dude was😘👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛
I'm sorry if Kobe and his parents didn't get to fix what ever went wrong in the past that caused a break down in their loving family relationship because the way he talked about them he had a loving relationship with them especially his mother never let anything or anyone come between you and your parents because you never know when your last day will be and may not be able to forgive and be forgiven I think Kobe parents have a heavy load on their hearts knowing they lost their only son way to soon and they didn't get to make things get back to the way they had been all his life may God heal and bless ❤ 🙏 your hearts and as for Kobe wife I pray 🙏 the same for you and your daughters but as a wife and mother you should have been the bridge that help close that gap his family became your family when you married but I can see what you learned from your mother she seems to not have motherly OR FAMILY LOVE THE WAY SHE'S BEEN TREATING YOU SINCE HER GRAND DAUGHTER AND SON AND LAW PASSED AWAY SHE SHOULD HAVE LEARNED FROM THAT WE NEVER KNOW WHEN WE MAY NEVER GET THAT LAST CHANCE TO SAY I'M SORRY AND I LOVE YOU 💘 YOU AND YOUR MOTHER NEED TO THINK ABOUT IT
Families have disputes and it's not unusual hope they patched things up life is short 🙏
What we have to look at is Kobe’s parents are the typical old school parents who wanted him to marry his race and they felt he wasn’t ready for that kind of commitment. Kobe’s father saw what Vanessa and especially her mother is about. Kobe cut off his parents and siblings yet bought Vanessa’s mother a million dollar home in their neighborhood, paid off all of her and her ex husband’s debts, bought her a new car every year. Why do you think she’s suing Vanessa saying Kobe promised take care of her financially for the rest of her life. As articulate as Kobe appeared to be, he left a mess. Keep believing that ESPN narrative that he fell out of the sky at 18 as an NBA Superstar and Vanessa made him what he was. Kudos to Shaq for showing love to the parents.
And it’s nothing wrong with that!!! Most races want their kids to be with someone like them. Especially since Vanessa needed citizenship. She should’ve gotten that first then have a loving relationship with him. She was out for money & citizenship
@@Sweetheart0189 lol wtf Vanessa was a US citizen before she met Kobe. Shut up now.
Vanessa killed her husband and daughter over money
It’s pretty disgusting how ungrateful Kobe was to the people who raised. What a disloyal bastard and he left his parents with NOTHING
@@Sweetheart0189Vanessa was born and raised in California, she didn’t need citizenship. I truly wonder how you would take it if the roles were reversed and it was her parents saying we don’t accept your husband because he is black. You’d have your panties in a bunch right about now. 🤦🏻♀️
It's in the Bible. Obey your parents
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I hope no one sacrifice him either
@@mrscarrier4924 I believe LeBron James did
@@rosedavis7591 I believe his wife
@@rosedavis7591 her spirit dont sit well with me
He spoiled Vanessa giving her so much power that in the end she didn't put his parents in his memorial service. That was very disrespectful now her mom is taking her to court for 5 million. Vanessa so damn evil she can give that 5 million to her mom it's not going to break her 600 million. Kobe parents haven't said a word. I think Kobe shortened his days acting that way towards his parents and his soul isn't at rest. I think Kobe is in hell looking up and he regrets NOT doing the right things periodt!
u spoke good
My soul is not at rest and they not even my parents but I hurt for them on a daily because I remember how close they was before vanessa come along I just hope vanessa was not feeding kobe her period blood on the low
@@chantaywilkes2569 Hmmmmm!!!!, He certainly was fixed somewhere, trust mi!!!
It was as if he was her dad because she didn't have one and he spoiled her rotten to were she felt he was beholding to her and that is why she didn't follow through with the devorce and esept his cheating
@@chantaywilkes2569 she probably was u can't trust no one
Kobe bought a better, more expensive house for his in-laws. That's why his mom was pissed.
Was that fair?
Right her mom lived in a damm mansion.
Your mom comes first. I wish he set her up in ways she could make money like through rental income from real estate so that she could get that financial freedom. Instead of always going back to Kobe for money. An allowance will not cut it cause you’ll always feel limited.
@Nola Rolla Sorry to speak of a deceased person but Kobe at times came off as insensitive and vindictive. I think he had a toxic relationship with his mother.
@@geezer74 bro. I get that your parents should always comes, first but what good will something such as buying a house do whenst that person you're planning on giving that house already has a damn mansion?not only that, but why would i give a house for someone that literally stole some of my biggest accomplishments then sell them to buy a house behind my back? No wonder why he prioritized his in-laws than her own parents. To think that they would be pissed just because of the fact that he bought his in-laws a more expensive house than theirs when they already had so many
Whether or not I had a bad relationship with my mom. I wouldn't leave her brokes, If I had money.
Honor thy father and mother for long days! This may have been part of his demise
And being tired of Vanessa and her mother's gold digging ways😘💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛
the dumbest comment ive ever seen
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So what did he took to the grave? Nothing he left his parent unhappy ☹️ and upset with him
Matthew 16:19 damn ppl really don’t read the bible
And a few other relatives in pa
True blame kobe not vanessa he should has made peace w. Boths parent's
@@noradiaz7752 it’s both of them.
It is hard to make peace when you become manipulated by a beautiful woman. Samson didn't listen why would kobe lol😮. If my parents give me everything to get to where I need to get they will live like king and queen that is end of story. If my wife doesn't like it she can take a hike.
Kobe was petty.
All of them valued the wrong things in life. Materialism can really break down families!
Isn't it ironic how vanessa get the rid of her mother when kobe died, and vanessa mother was living a lavish life when kobe was alive but now claiming she is broke. Kobe loved his mother in law better than his own mother and father. He was too proud to just call them.
U making me think why did she kick her mom out once he died something anit right bout her I feel for he's parents
Karma
@@diamondcarrier2309 because that’s how she raised her.
Kobe didn't really love his mother in law she threatened to ruin his life from day one😘 Vanessa gave her mother that but her mother got too greedy😘💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛ps his mother will always love him regardless 😘
Shut up! His parents are good foundation not his talents his up bringing and he forgot to honor that. PARENTS
Ephesians 6:4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.
So wrong cutting your parent because of selling your memorabilia. You went alone leaving everything behind
So true, didn't want them and wasn't paying the rent either
fuck them, they shouldnt have sold his shit
@@extremeking425 so he was she going to pay that $90,000.00 rent for storage that he wasn't paying!!!..
So true I will never do that to my parents because they sold my stuffs because I know when I died im not taking them with me
Parents has no right doing that to kobe .sad but true
All parents are not the same. Those of you that have been blessed with good and wise parents need to stop judging how some children have had to deal with their parents that lacked wisdom and honor.
Your days are cut short when you dishonor your parents.
U honor parents bye not sinning
how did he "dishonor" his parents?
@@fridayvan-defoe6987 he probly didn't
@@fridayvan-defoe6987 he dishonored them by not speaking to them or even acknowledging them! They may have made some mistakes but honor is a command not a suggestion. Ephesians 6:1-3
Respect the Office even if the person is crooked. For example, Judas walked with Jesus 3.5 years and Jesus never checked him knowing the whole time he was going to betray him. Why? Because Judas held the office of an Apostle which was from God
Feelings mean nothing when it come to honor
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Why this much grudge against parents.
You have millions and can't take care of your parents?
As much as people respect Kobe and his mamba mentality, I wonder how many of us can deal with this type of person if he was your friend, family , coworker or your boss.
Regardless of his trophies he was rude to everyone.
Damn y’all acting like y’all knew kobe and his family personally and saying the most fucked up shit. Smfh
Deep down I think kobe was heart broken over his parents betrayal and never came to terms off working things out for the best, money is the root of evil, you can't take it with you when you're gone, like Jada Pinkett said never give relatives money nor buy them things they can't afford, especially if there trying to profit off of you
How was it betrayed when he said his parents could have the items a he wanted to buy them a cheap houses in a ghetto area what is that
@@chantaywilkes2569 Thanks so much , I'm glad someone knew the story. Certainly didn't want them after 15 years while his mother incurred a total of $15,000.00 in rent. People tend to forget that they belonged to his mother. Also, before selling 6 items ahead asked him and Vanessa what to do with them!!!!, He then told her they are yours do what you want...It was such a disgrace that was brought into his parents. Their reputation has since being tarnished...sad indeed!!!
@@chantaywilkes2569 thank you but take care of her mom like wtf these people on here are stupid mr. &Mrs. Bryant raised that man they should have got a lot for that an that was he's blood I get he didn't do right that shit hurts he needed a real women to tell him that
@@scorpiowong6965 💯 he was with the wrong one I know we supposed to follow our husbands but we can also make share they doing right in life
@@diamondcarrier2309 I concur with you 💯👍, but his ego got the best of him. There was a point I time when his wife wanted to reconnect with his wife and he said No. All around, he was a very egotistical, self centered person
I honestly wish everyone would see an interview with Kobe, talking and being grateful to his parents. In the interview he expressed how much they had done for him and his sisters. How he was raised in a stable loving home. Thanking both parents, (his words) "Especially my mom she worked very hard to give us a good upbringing." My mom is like me, competitive and will accept a challenge. I believe that when he realized he was going to die, he asked, "His parents for forgiveness." I would like to know if he has come to them in their dreams? I believe he is able to see things clearly, money has no value to him. I seriously don't believe he will leave his parents with a heavy burden of feeling guilty. Knowing now that he was wrong. If his parents or sisters ever decide to write a book about "The Great Kobe Bryant." I will definitely buy it, Kobe, had several positive attributes I will study and determine why the feud went on for yrs. What or who fanned the fire to keep it going?
I believe the devil an he's workers don't trust people u lay down with or that's close to you only for one thing I said it
With all he said being stubborn not speaking to your parents is not right.
@@sj_snoww Thank you for your comment, I basically blended Kobe's own words, Google the Bryant Family on their history together, formed a paragraph. From Vanessa's, own words Kobe, wanted his parents present at his induction in the Hall of Fame. As a parent himself, teaching Gigi, to pass the ball as a team was an eye opener. Did you see the interview on Jerry West, saying, "Kobe asked for advise on how to teach Gigi?" Almost comical bc Kobe, didn't pass the ball himself. Even Shaq, said, "Guys get the rebounds bc he's not going to pass." Do you think if he was still alive, he wouldn't have told his parents, "Mom, Dad, I wouldn't be receiving this honor if it weren't for you." Why did he make it clear that he wanted them there? He died on 1/26/20, he was talking on a couple of months, on last yr., it was canceled due to the pandemic.
Forgiveness for what ?? What was he wrong about ?? Choosing a wife that gave him 4 children and with whom he spent damn near 20 years till death did them part ?? A wife on who he cheated but she didn’t leave and take his money as she could have ??
Was he the one who didn’t attend their wedding or is it them ??
Was he the one prejudiced against a young girl he didn’t know or was it them ??
Was he the one who sold his memorabilia or was it them ? (Why didn’t Jordan or Brady’s parent sell their stuff ??)
Black people we really need to rethink how we view things 🤦🏾♂️ .
Right is right , wrong is wrong it doesn’t matter who you are !
@@grichkatayou7558 and that's why the ancestors frown upon that type of behavior towards your parents
Poor his mom n dad there gonna have to live with the guilt of not making peace with koby family that is so sad n now his gone 😩😩😩😩
Kobe is going to have to live with that guilt his parents try plenty of time to get him to come around and he refuses he did not honor his mother and father like the bible said he talk bad about them in interviews all the time like he was better then them and he was cheating on his wife there whole marriage and in rape charges he should of forgave his parents like vanessa forgive him and moved on
@J Dolo why do you think vanessa filed for divorce in 2011 dummy and there are plenty of pictures of him with women he cheated with over the years vanessa herself even said he cheated with over 100 women she only stayed with him for status and a title because he did not respect her and she did not respect him
@@sadewilkes3350 Thank you sir, that is my point but people don't see it. She is like a hungry pitbull she will bite hard onto that money.
I don't thing that's reason to stop talking to your parents, specially parents that always stood there for you. mine wasn't there for me, my aunt took care of me until i become a teenager, but i forgive them, and i have a good relationship with my mom specially. yes i know it's upseting and dissapointing, but it's not something critical, where as much as you want, you cannot forgive? and look when this happened, 2013 three years before his retirement, when he was already a millonaire. today he's no longer with us and has two women fighting over his money.
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Why did the Simpson predict his death 💀
Just know we the people are awake to all the evil stuff going on this toxic toxic world
This world is evil an can't trust no one not even ur spouse
An that wife up to no good either
Some parents murder their own children too.
Honor your parents from a distance to stay alive if you have to.
Kobe never stood a chance.
He was used for his skills his entire life.
Thank God for Vanessa giving him 4 beautiful children so he got to experience Fatherhood and a loving family he created for himself.
Rest in peace Kobe and Gianna.
You made it to heaven 1st and surely you will greet Vanessa and the girls when its their time to go up 🙏
@J Dolo like watt gtfoh with that bs be gone
@J Dolo be gone she used him an ain't no good
Sounds like he let Evil dictate his life. Nobody and I mean nobody would come between my me and my mom. She sold his things because he wasn't doing anything for them at the time. Remember when, his parents left Los Angels. They had issues then. He married Vanessa when, they were dead set against it. It was more going on than we know.
This is karma the love story between Kobe and Vanessa is like Samson and Delilah………..
@@baee6489 The question is why both parents against it, I could see a case for the mother but both?
@@Lifesituations8000 Vanessa and Rob pelinka planned the helicopter crash over money they killed murdered them people
Kobe’s poor mother…the things you love don’t love you back. Kobe was a horrible son and Even WORSE FATHER
@baee6489 I wouldn't go as far as planned 😆. Let's not be outrageous here, but it is just strange that both your mother and your father do not have a good relationship with your wife and yourself. I could see one parent, but both. It's just not the typical pattern. But I did notice vanessa loves money by requesting the public to donate for the families of the helicopter crash. Could make more sense to donate for charity but for their friends? 😆 strange too
Kobe did have anything growing up the parents paid for everything he have you abandon his parents because of money
I think Kobe was not a man to put everything in each place this is pretty bad for his image I don’t respect him for that and Vanessa didn’t learned how his husband passed and to move on
True he did wrong but parent's should have never sold his stuff
We do not know that, we are on the outside looking in, we should not be talking as if we knew them personally, just let it go, I’m sure it’s some things we need to figure out in our own lives and family.
Just like he made a mistake his parents did too but i dont think they never stop loving him. To hold on to this till he died there was never peace and CLOSURE. Make peace with yiur love ones and people God is real. He forgave us by sending his only begotten son to die for all of our sins. Jesus said forgive them for thou they do not know. Dont hold bad feeling that comes back to you family have closure. Children become adult and they think they have to prove things to there parents and others. It never works out his parents sacrifice alot for him and he forgot all that. People dont have to like or agree with your but the facts are Respect..
God, the Husband or Wife, then the parents.
Honor your mother and your father And he did not do that
And The Private Investigator as well. He told his parents a whole lot....
He marry vanessa because he love her nobody forced him just jealous make thing up that are not true
@@noradiaz7752 yea she was a minor when they were dating whatever
Wow he was 3 years older how do you know her mother made him marry her.where you there?who care 20years together girl that get pregnant 13
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RIP Kobe if you see this comment fix it with your mom or dad if it wasn’t for them you wouldn’t be here people don’t understand it’s been friction before his mom sold the items his mom loved him
His parents were Wrong... they put money above Kobe. They will never be able to make it right ""greed and pride"" That's got to eat at their hearts everyday. Kobe died knowing that what ever he did no matter how much he gave his parent's were never satisfied. That broke is heart 😢😢😢
His parents sacrificed a lot so he could be a great basketball player. You don’t take.care of in-laws and not your parents! Kobe lost his way and he paid the price . Karmas a bitch and now it’s at Vanessa door . Wish the best to the Bryant family. Do your research before you do a piece
His mom saw him as an ATM. Case closed. 🤷🏻♂️
This is so so true
We are the minority here speaking truth.
No she didn’t lmao. Stay out of black folk business.
@@symonemoni7377 I’ve been following Kobe my whole life and have known about their relationship with each other long before this video. This ain’t about “bLacK fOlK biDnezz”. This is about Kobe Bryant himself stating it in a letter that he wrote to his younger self. But I bet you didn’t know about that letter right? Don’t ever get at me like that I’m a day one fan. I didn’t just start researching after he died like you and the creator of this video did. Foh
So did vanessa mom and she got way more then his mother did and she the reason Kobe fell out with his mom can't wait till that lil five mil she got run out all she like to do is spend that's why Kobe had to keep taking care of vanessa low life mom
its not a secret, throughout the years Kobe has been known to be the team mate from hell, even talked down on Shaq, THAT TELLS US EVERYTHING we need to know about Kobe relations with his family. Clearly they sold his memorabilia because they didnt have money, meaning HE DIDNT TAKE CARE OF THEM. There should be a documentary about Kobe wife, thats all i gotta say.
Really sad stuff.
HE WAS SO DISRESPECTFUL AND MEAN TO HIS PARENTS
THAT WOMAN HATED HIS PARENTS!!
Selling his things...things that they helped him achieve? If there is anyone who can have anything that i own, it is my mother. " i was going to buy them a nice home".... why didnt they already have one given the money he had. Whatever story the media wants to put out there is a joke. We as Black people know the truth, and its not pretty. But go ahead
No you don’t
Of course we know what it is
True
He had already paid for a home for them.
Mom wanted an upgrade.
May as well take care of MOM.
HE made hundreds of millions 450 is nothing to him.
Something else going on
@spirit13the1st6 so it's okay for wifey to want nice things but not mom? Do you you think that she would've given Kobe a minute of her time had he not been rich and famous?? I'm sure that mama would've been there ..just something to think about while trying to determine what his mother should've gotten from him
He was mad at his mom for not going in and out of court with him but vanessa was not also she didn't fully support him in that he should of had the same energy for her
Wow vanessa didn't support kobe watt kinda wife is that
@@diamondcarrier2309 were you been
Rest babby boy job well done. Your and the arm's of the lord. Rest Kobe.
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Gianna looks just like her grandma. I Pray 🙏🏽 for their family. He was such a good dad & husband
GiGi looks just like black grandmama 😍😘🥰 and you can clearly see GiGi's face in Pam's looks too
Vanessa and her MOM is the cause of the fight now Vanessas mom is paying good
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I always believed that
Where talking about kobe not making peace w. His mother why bring of vanessa am her mother
This is not about.vanessa am mother.this is about kobes parent's how did him wrong stuff sold from him.get story right
@@noradiaz7752 his parents did not do him wrong his mom ask him and his trash wife if they wanted the items them both said no she ask him a lot of times over the years to get them he was being petty and refuse that was his fault when you mistreat a person they belongings dont hold value anymore
I hope he didn't sell his soul for money. A lot of the NBA have.
We hope so too
@Romeo J the love of money will make you kill your own brother remember that SONG ? It is so true.I THE SCRIPTURES SAYS WE ALL.SHOULD HAVE GENUINE LOVE AMONG EACH OTHER.HAPPY NEW YEARS 2 YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
They don't just sell they soul they sell they culture as well
The bible says, honor thy mother and thy father in the Lord, and your days shall be long in the earth. Case closed. Don't hang out or marry someone that does not honor their mother and father.
The Bible also justified slavery. I pass on that!
Exactly
Father and mother
Ephesians 6:4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.
Something about the whole story is not right. Where i believe vanessa is money hungry is when she encourage the public to donate money to the family of the other victims that died in the crash. Donate money to their friends, I believe she should have done that out of her own money as an act of friendship. But that is my opinion.
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Yes he did👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾she NEVER stopped loving him and he NEVER stopped loving her🥰💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜💛💜 Vannessa's gold digger mom was the problem,she had her mind on Kobe's fortune since day one, she threatened Kobe to marry Vanessa when they were young,she said if he didn't marry her she the mom would say it was stachatory rape🤨the mother-in-law was a real "B" but real love last forever and Kobe and his mom have real love😘💛💜
Money ain’t 💩 He should’ve gave his parents ANYTHING THEY ASK OR WANTED💯
I sure they made SACRIFICES FOR HIM. God said honor your mother and father or your days my be long💯
Kobe is gone, you can’t take money 💴 with you.
Can’t enjoy the fruit of his labor.
Just sad
GARY COLEMAN from (Different Strokes) also disowned his Parents
So terrible there really reaping what they did I'm not judging I'm praying hard for Kobes family in freinds also all his Loved one's praying for comfort in strength for all his Loved one's God Bless you ALL praying always🕊➕➕➕👏💔🏀📿
I know his spirit is crying i know when he die his spirit went and visit mom and dad brayant kobe i know your spirit is alive only the body gorne
WOWW. SAD. ALL. THE WAY AROUND. THEY STILL. HIS PARENTS. NO MATTER WHAT. ITS HARD TO BELIEVE. THAT HE TOLD THEM. HE WOULD BUY THEM A HOUSE. BUT THEY STILL. SOLD HIS STUFF. TO BUY A. HOUSE. IT'S NOT. MAKING. SENSE. THAT WOULD HAVE MADE THEM. KEEP THE STUFF. FOR AWHILE. UNTILL THEY WERE. NEEDY AGAIN. THIS IS JUST SO SAD. I WISH. THEY COULD HAVE. MADE UP. THEY. JUST. BEING DRAGGED. ALL THE WAY AROUND. AND IT'S. JUST. NOT RIGHT.
THANKS. MEOWW.
That is sad
No matter what your mom and dad first.its sad he did not spend time with them.when you die what ever you have you can not take it with you.the other sad part kobe work hard but he did not enjoy his fruit of labor 😢
What ever you have goes to your kids
you have your children and your own family.
& Y’all gonna tell me his wife got none to do w this)
How do you know. Did you live in his house?
I don't blame him at all they shouldn't get a damn thing
He left his money to his wife who will marry another Men in few years and will foregot him, but didnt Apreciate his family who made him who he was ..
God give him time and more success to think about his Parents and reunite with them or if he wasnt Interested to be in good Term with his family if i have half of Billon? I wu'd buy my Parents a 5M House where they can live the Rest of thier life and said thankyou herw u have a House but i am not Intersted to be close to you Again🤷♀️. But he was so Selfish that God toook him so early in this World ..
Naima de la feunte Technically he didn't it's by law, he wasn't planning on dying young, could be he felt powerful & invincible flying high & fast. Some of these NBA players give, offer a million $$ like they're handing out hot pancakes. He gave Vanessa, 4 millions $$ to do an interview with him on the separation, visitation rights for Natalia & Gigi, but not to answer any questions on the allege rape charges. When she did he stated, " You are going to ftai? After I gave you 4 million not to." Ending the interview leaving her sitting with the reporters awkwardly. Also said, "I am fine seeing the girls on weekends, you all know what I am going to be doing the rest of the week. And she didn't look nothing like she looks now with all the procedures. So yes Kobe, wanted more time in life but not only to spend time with his girls, he was working with his dad to reconcile with his family. Why the rush & show to add Capri, to his trust? According to Jerry West, Kobe's, family was deeply traumatized, distracted, pained by his untimely death.
Deep
Fu you. How dare you say that dumb shit as if you even knew him. You don't own your parents shit as they chose to have you, you didnt chose them. You will never worry about being rich as a loser like yourself spends most of his time judging strangers on the internet.
@@MIAfinestt you sound dumb
Didn't kobe sleep w.ovwr 100 women's now it's her turn to go out w.who ever she want to
A parents reward for their hard work whilst raising children is with God, never should parents expect children to pay them back for the sacrifices they made. It's unbiblical. This concept keeps destroying families & relationships..it needs to stop.
That's a lie. Individuals are to take care of their parents if needed after they are adults. Would you let your parents be homeless and/or starve and tell them that their reward is in heaven while you go on your merrily way after they raised and took care of you?! No. You are to honor your parents so that your days aren't short on the earth. This command is given because it's understood what goes into raising a child to adulthood and it should always be respected and honored.
I wonder his parents regret what they did.in other hand not talking his mom was not great idea we all do mistakes as humans. This hurt so bad.😢
The twin killers of success are impatience and greed. Maybe that's why Kobe's parents are where they are.
Parents believe kobe was a dam atm machine 🤐
True you don't do that to your kids so so true.
Yup and 1978 year of earth horse.
Used his entire life.
Even the world only loved him because he won games.
Now finally at peace in heaven with Gianna waiting for the rest of the family to come up .
Kobe was a victim here on earth.
Kobe was very good to his parents and they should of been thankful that they raised such a great man. A man that not only gave to them but to so many others and he never wanted it known because he gave from the heart. His parents have to live with themselves now without him. I miss you Kobe Bryant and so should your parents although for them...IT IS TOO LATE!!!!
It back fired you did your parents dirty bye
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Pam Bryant, (mommy), selling HIS memorabilia, for $450,000 behind Kobe’s back?!?!?! #SICK & #TWISTED!!!!!!! Now you see WHY his parents STRIVED to make him a success?!?!?! Because they, (especially SHE), wanted that almighty dollar!!! It’s all about “The MONEY!!!” Sad excuse for parents. No matter what they did for him, they did it for ALL the wrong reasons. 🙌. I’m glad he found the LOVE of his LIFE, that loved HIM for HIM, & not for the MONEY!!! (RIP, sweet Kobe & Gianna. Vanessa and the kids are A-Ok since YOU are their Angel watching over them. YOU are and will always be our hero. And a BEACON of LIGHT, to this ugly & cruel world.) #BlackMamba&Mambacita4ever
Well i hope he did because that the woman gave life to you not Vanessa,Vanessa mom either do Vanessa take the kids to see Kobe parent if she does not that is cruel.
Why should she take kids blame his parent's never like her that not her mother.i go visit.my gradkids kobe mom could do same
Yeh she could but you never really know behind the whole situation here they all need to let by gone be gone and try to get along for the sake of the kuds.
Kobe mother has legs his mother did wrong by not being nice to vanessa why should she take her kids to grad parent's
Why Nora Daiz because to end this bring peace and forgiveness on each part those girls deserve to see their father parents their grandparents do you have a heart
That true need grandparent's but kobe parent's need to do their n part to.
It's my understanding that at the time of his death, his relationship with both parents remained strained ....Some say it's b/c his parents never approved of him marrying outside his race (He grew up in Italy where black chicks are minimal, Kobe, like Tiger, preferred vanilla..... The parents are adamant that it had nothing to do with race, he married young, lost his virginity to Vanessa and his parents felt he needed to date and sexually experience more B4 settling down (little did they know Koby had no intentions of allowing marriage to stop him from sowing his Oates.. either way, they did not attend his wedding. The bottom line is, his will divided his estate equally among his wife and kids, NOTHING to his parents!!
Their relationship fall apart cause they are too much alike
So it’s better to be with some who is 100% different from you?
@@TheCelebritist I'm talking abt the mom and kobe were too much alike, that's why trouble occured,but kobe went to far
In relationships ship wise yes
@@edmondgeorge3 I disagree with you the bottom line is that's his mother, and you don't let material ass things come in between family especially your mother she gave birth to him, had it not been for his mom & father creating him there would be no Kobe Bryant. That's why his days were numbered, he stopped honoring his mother and father. Exodus 20:12
[12]Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee. I don't know what your belief is, but this is a fact, at the end of the day it was God's will to laid him to rest.
The most accurate statement on the entire post!
I know this is late but reading the comments yall crazy. Yes the Bible says honor thu mother and father but just because you meet them where they are doesn't mean you're being disrespectful. Yes we all know it's 3 sides to every story, but it seems as tho the PARENTS took the first shot by not attending their sons wedding because they didn't approve of WHO he was marrying...ummmm that's wrong! At the end of the day, you live life for YOU not your parents. As parents we have to some times step aside and respect our children's decisions, even tho we may not agree with them. From the looks of it Kobe pursued her and not the other way around. So what did she do wrong to his parents? Was she suppose to say no to marrying him because his parents didn't approve? People talking about you honor your mother and father, but let's not forget what else the good Book says. Once they said "I DO" Vanessa became first in his life, even before Mom and Dad🤷🏾♀️ And if I was Vanessa I would probably feel the same way she did/does. What do she owe them? She got judged, tried and executed way before his parents could get to know her all because of her nationality. How is that right or fair. So I don't blame her. Esp now that Kobe is gone, she don't owe them nothing but a healthy relationship with their grandkids🤷🏾♀️ IJS and I'm saying this as a Black woman and also as a wife who's dealt with a mother in law that didn't like me because I was 1 dark skin and 2 felt I was taking her son away(which still doesn't make sense to me til this day). Man if yall knew some of the stuff that was said your mouth would hit the floor!
Lost respect for Kobe when I found out how he treated his parents. And ill tell you this... Vanessa isn't the innocent victim they paint her to be.. look at her mom. The apple dont fall to far from the tree.
So let me get this straight you will let your mother selling your items after you just bought a her house and she told you you ain't good enough how would you feel then
@kobe you don't know that let me tell you some Kobe Bryant is dead he's gone he's never going to come back besides that we don't know what goes on between him and his folks only thing they need to do right now is be there for his children all that other stuff there that is going on they need to leave that bullshit alone
@@demaification I'd feel bad understandably and argue with them and try to stop them at all cost, but never forget that they gave me life and inspiration due to whom I even have those trophies. I'd never forget and I'd honor, respect and be grateful to them forever, its just common sense, nothing complex here.
They actually did reconcile after his retirement
@@kledmohd4230 so let your parents treat you like crap? What does Ephesian 6:4 say?
You missing something important which is why she would need to sell his stuff to afford a house
Everybody in here blaming Kobe as if it’s his fault for the relationship goin so sour and bringing up bible quotes😂 the Bible also says don’t provoke your children
Yes it does but Honoring your parents is a commandment of God with a promise so that you will live a long life. You don't sue your parents for selling your stuff. Tyler Perrys father did worse than Kobes parents and he blesses him like you wouldn't believe. Kobe took nothing with him to his eternity, Without mother or Father there wouldn't be a Kobe. Sad how people today dishonor their parents and misuse Gods word to defend Kobe behavior. Quite interesting
@@DT-fh9ft Kobe parents weren’t at his wedding nor there for his children once born they weren’t there when he won his second championship in Philly or there for him during that Colorado situation they forgot to love their son and instead saw him as a $ kid they could control
@@landohudson5864 sad but true otherwise why sell the GIFT your son gave you?
@@ariloves10 exactly
@@landohudson5864 they weren’t & still aren’t allowed to see those girls.. lmao Natalia will turn on Vanessa... wait & see.
So sad he married a gold digger that all she care about is the lawsuit 😂😅.
She wants even more money😂
Fr smh😂