SELF-SABOTAGE IN LOVE ✨ ALL VENUS SIGNS
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- čas přidán 20. 12. 2020
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Venus placements 💕
Aries ♈️ 3:45
Taurus ♉️ 5:20
Gemini ♊️ 6:41
Cancer ♋️ 8:18
Leo ♌️ 9:53
Virgo ♍️ 12:06
Libra ♎️ 13:35
Scorpio ♏️ 15:01
Sagittarius ♐️ 16:44
Capricorn ♑️ 18:51
Aquarius ♒️ 20:17
Pisces ♓️ 22:21
I’m supposed to be watching this. My Venus is in cancer. The time is 8:18 which is my birthday.
Venus in scorpio. I love hard. Plus I have to KNOW everything and that kills the mood. I’m a super top tier investigator and I need to learn to shut up about my findings. It pushes ppl away. Everything I see or find doesn’t have to be confronted. Use that gift and energy to my advantage, to move accordantly.
Same placement, Venus in Scorpio. I wouldn't say that I have to know everything, but I do like to figure people out. I could literally know so much about someone even before we start interacting, if I wanted to. But most of the time I don't stalk that much, just a little bit. I do become somewhat obsessed with crushes.... I mean I become really obsessed until something ticks me off & I'm like 'oh my gosh nooo I can't feel like this anymore'
@@isaiasnunez4238 it’s the hidden obsession for me.
Sigh - Same
Omg that is so me it’s so hard I really need to KNOW EVERYTHING
Aries.. we only appear to be rushing from someone else’s perspective. When I find a person I *actually like*, it excites me so much that it speeds everything up for me. One day can feel like a week’s worth of events. - Once the momentum gets going, slowing down feels like slamming on the brakes, and because of this, I feel so rejected that I just want to get out of the car. & that’s why it seems like an Aires Venus can’t commit.
Yep.. firecrackers.
Yessssss, this is how I feel. I also feel optimistic in love like I treat everyone like they’re here for the long haul until they prove otherwise. And Aries in associated with the god of war and who’s more committed than a solider? I’m saying …
Venus in Aquarius is accurate AF. & yess plz make a vid on how to give Venus what she needs.
I can really see your passion and your energy I appreciate you
She's a scorpio duh 😅💜
“are you just bored with yourself” Venus in Gemini lmaaooo, read me for filthhhhh😂
Right, I gasped lol
She was spot on with everything about Gemini
😂😂💕
I was like 😬
What if it’s in the 10th house
I'm a Venus in Aries and all you said was damn on point!!! The whole tea was literally facts.
Def been working on becoming self reliant in my relationship. I’m a Venus in Pisces and my previous ex’s’ did EVERYTHING for me. Now with my new relationship, I tell myself that I could get pass anything and my partner is just there to support me; not handle my situations for me.
When she said thatI know that you are listening to me while listening to music and maybe writing something on your notebook, I felt that! Because wow! Guilty as charged!
you came in early ive been doing researching about it!!!
Damn, my Venus is in Scorpio and you’re so accurate. I’ve been told I am intense and mysterious. I had to learn not to be too emotionally attached in relationships.
🥴 you really came for my aries venus. 😭
Venus in Leo and I'm like🤯🙄 thank you for the self awareness 🙏🏾
This was in my recommendation and it made me so happy because I watch u on the big screen, & you’re talking about astrology. So dope👌🏾
This is so dope I watch you on television I didn’t know you were into spirituality & astrology. I luv it ❤️✨🤞🏽
I love how you never hold back. Best teacher characteristic imo. Def relate, dated Venus in leo and showed all these aspects, I also was too comfortable at that doin too much Virgo Venus.
you deserve all the awards. straight the most on point person I’ve ever heard w this stuff. I’m Venus in Aquarius. Completely accurate. And I dated a Venus in gemini and Venus in scorpio sooo on point
I can't wait you make a venus series 😊
Venus in Pisces here. I would say I need the highest form of love and commitment. I was the one doing the saving. It would be nice to have someone put on the cape for me from time to time.
You hit the nail on the head! I’m a Venus in Sag dealing with a girl with Venus in Libra & it all makes sense now! Whoa! 😮
Your description for Leo is spot on 🙋🏾♀️ when someone is in their unlearned, inexperienced, lower “Shadow Side of Themselves” when one has evolved the dynamics is more mature and calculated differently but you are definitely the 💣.com
I have Venus in libra (scorpio degree). Lol I definitely flirt unconsciously but I cannot bring myself to cheat! That is death to a relationship and I am very much monogamous. We’re definitely indecisive in love lol I thinks it’s very important for libra placements to get to know themselves and what they want before entering any type of relationship.
I love Hard and I’m brutally honest. I think my Aquarius moon and Scorpio placements could be the culprit for this
I feel like a more appropriate title would have been "DRAGGING All Venus signs" bc chile- I was NOT ready and tbh im a lil triggered
Lmaooo
I felt all the way called out. Venus in libra at a sag degree in the 12th. You wasn't lying, thank you Novi
yesss pls do a "how Venus can get what she wants". love and kisses :) :*
Keep them coming Novi
Yes for the video about how Venus gets what she needs also one on self love 💕 would be great too!
I’m binge watching some of your videos and you dragged my Leo Venus placement 😂 & to top it off I have a Gemini sun& rising , Libra moon .
Venus in Taurus and baybayyyyyy ..you were spot on. I am BEYOND picky smh. I could be missing out ..Thank you Novi 💕
Much necessary video!!!
This was so real. I had to get out of my own way and realize I was chasing my boo away with my own issues and was thinking it was all him. Now this is the best relationship I’ve ever been in. Venus in Libra.
Sis is reading my Venus in Aries 😂 all facts !
Venus- Cancer do make me get attached quick & I do talk about the past more than I should but I dont cry in front of ppl; that'll embarrass my Moon In Capricorn. Rather cry by my lonesome. My own Mama said she dont remember seeing me cry or complain much as a baby.
"Venus in Virgo, its in detriment here meaning it does not like to be here. Venus does not like to serve NOBODY! OKAY!" 😂🤣
It's the drag for me 😭🤣
I would love to see you do a video on best & worst compatibility within Venus placements (maybe moon as well lol)
NOT ME WANTING TO FIGHT U @ “how can I prioritize you-I just met you!” 😂😂😂 I prioritize you too tho 😭
I'm a Venus in Scorpio, but I rarely get to feel the full intensity of relationships because I'll usually run away before they get that serious. I am a Sag Sun, Rising, & Mercury. I do OBSESS, though, when it comes to crushes. I will literally fall in love with anyone who I find slightly attractive & who makes eye contact with me twice. It can be intense, my crush. I'll usually be down a day or two after meeting my crush and won't be able to do much other than the essential things + thinking about them. It's even more intense when I don't know them at all and have so many questions.
😂😂 I can relate. It’s like falling in love with the imagination of the person more so than the actual individual 😭
Watching all your videos and wow I’m shooketh Aries Venus in the 8th house
Venus in Cancer, im the complete opposite of this. Must be all the air in my chart!
Venus in Pisces and I’m always taking care of other ppl 🙄 it’s annoying af. Idk if my Virgo rising takes over on that part. As an Aquarius sun and moon I’m independent. Always have been. God forbid I need help or assistance with something I can’t do for myself, and I ask for help, ppl wouldn’t even lift a finger for me 😒 but lately I’ve been trying to learn to ask for help without assuming that someone won’t help me. It’s a work in progress. My venus in Pisces subconsciously probably wants someone to help me every once in awhile 🤔 it would definitely be nice 😂
Girl, I felt like I could have wrote this myself. Same! As an Aqua Sun and Rising with heavy Cap placements I am VERY self reliant and very much a “doer” but when it comes to love as a Venus in Pisces I definitely don’t see the harm in wanting that partner to “take care of me” like why not? I do everything else for myself and others, it’s nice to have help and be saved every once in awhile.
Ughhh Aquarius sun virgo rising Pisces moon and Venus yesss we help everyone and attract the worst partners with the worst upbringing therefore love seems to never come without conditions I’m barely going to be 20 and I avoided most relationships growing up because it was already giving “tyrone” vibes…I always seem to attract niggas at the gas stations more than the ones with ups jobs 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@jadatay5094 noted sis, you are still really young though can easily change your environment / scene where it’s less Pooki and Rayray, and more Todd or Chad. LOL. Going away to school helps sometimes too or just getting a part time somewhere unique.
@@dreamcraftersanonymous lmaooo yea I’m about to start college next year, get a job I actually can sustain ( I was a fast food worker never again) and get my looks up so I can feel good about myself and attract better vibrations cuz a bitch not ugly nomo 👏🏾👏🏾
My Venus is in Aries and I feel like you’re speaking directly to me 🤦🏾♀️ I’m working on all these things tho lol
Venus libra and libra sun sign 😩😭 I’m such a airhead for love Novi, thanks for this !
idk you’re just mesmerizing
Venus in Capricorn but in my current relationship I learnt to transmute it🙌🏾 praise God. My partner is Venus in Aquarius & he definitely transmuted I think his cancer moon balances it out
Damn...Venus in gemini - you’re so right 🥺
All Facts!
Oml scorpio on point lmao. I'm working on it.
Venus in Cap in 12H. I reallly resonate w Cap & Pisces... the work Ive been doing in this area of my life has truly improved. I chose to leave the dating scene in the last 6 months. One of the greatest choices I’ve made.
I'm a Scorpio Venus and my current partner has his in Pisces, our relationship def has that overtly deep DEEP ocean-like spiritual vibe to it, and it def feels good that we can match each other's intensities. However, I'm personally trying to step back and just watch, find more fun in it and loosen up, just in general. Taking it much more slowly.
LMAO!!!!!!! 😂
Me Venus in Scorpio: “I got you now!” (*inserts evil laugh) 😂🤣🦂
I’ve definitely learned the hard way that I need to RELAX fr !!! 🤦🏾♀️🙄😂
Ugh Venus in libra and I’m a huge flirt! I don’t even realize what I’m doing. However my Scorpio sun won’t allow me to cheat. I love HARD.
I swear its so natural 😂
@@Chynaa_blak girl when i go out people ask me why are you flirting with everyone 😂
@@21kaylanicole i remember i guess i was being so nice at work oneday this man literally thought i liked him. I was like umm naw i apologize if u took it that way 😂😂🥺 i hate this placement cus i almost b in relationship without noticing 😩😂
I would love a video on how to give venus everything that she needs
Venus in Taurus....if I would've known I was gunna get dragged in this video I would've worn knee pads lmfao. (You right though😂😂💓)
no fr!
Okay!
Clicking because I’m in an impatient mood and I know I’m first ♈️lmao so on brand
Venus in Taurus, and the keyword is PICKY lol. Like I'll try to give men chances, and as soon as I see or notice something that bothers me (& it can be the smallest thing) I immediately get turned off and I'm like okay on to the next. & the thing about my taurus venus is I can be stubborn as hell too, to where it's like nothing they do can change my mind. My close friends tell me all the time, like give that man a break but I just don't like wasting my time because once I get turned off that's what I feel like I'm doing.
Venus in Capricorn in 4th house - All do is work I have never dated anyone because of my high standards
Venus in Taurus 😩🤣.....I just hate wasting my time!! But I did go on a date finally 😊👌🏾
Venus in gemini, i unfortunately get bored daily even if the person is ‘the one’ and i feel bad because i try but i cannot seem to care
dated a few Venus in Sagittarius and OMG IS SHE RIGHT!!
Venus in Aries. Gosh its so on point. Sometimes I can be as needy as a child and feel attacked over the minimal things.
Yooo I'ma Venus in Aries and commitment is probably my biggest issue but I'm working on it! 😭😭
phew this aries venus just got read to FILTH but thank you i’m working on it lmao
The only thing you got wrong was the no endurance in a relationship, I’m a Pisces ♓️ and I love HARD and very unconditional! I also invest a lot of time into my friendships and relationships. Other than that you were spot on!
-Venus in ♈️, Sun in ♓️
I like your nails💞
Venus in Gemini gets a bad rep lol. I have never wanted to date multiple people. Probably bc my sun and moon are in cancer. I do get bored easily, but I will try for a while before I give up.
Venus in Aqua Stellium ♒ in the 2nd House, Please do a "how Venus can get what she wants" 🥺
Venus in Leo is so on point it hurts
I have venus in libra. I know i love the idea of love. Dont even know how to love fr. When i say i keep all my honeys in my life 🙃 then when i actually like someone. I still have 2009-2020 baggage telling me they still love me. I LOVE ALL YALL TOO 😂😂
Why did I think of K. Michelle - Love them all?😂
@@marketrasmith i lovem all. Definitely a mini k 😜
I feel EXPOSED! (Venus in Libra)
Here here 😂😂😂 know ion just love one person. I love all my honeys and they love me 😂
@@Chynaa_blak 😂😂 It’s that i like to please thing! ✨
@@marined7638 on me. 😂😂 u aint lyin. Takes a toll on ya though but hell it’s fun n a sense 😂😂😂 im never hungry nor broke 😂
@@Chynaa_blak Glad you make a use of it 😂
@@Chynaa_blak 💀
I’m Aquarius in Venus and I’m the opposite I rather that one on one rather then spending time with friends...
Exactly🥴
“Venus don’t like to serve nobody!” Literally took my Venus Virgo self yeaaaaars to learn this!
Venus in Scorpio is spot on.
I need that intensity tho lmao
Venus in Gemini was soo on point 🤣 plus I'm an Aries soooo yea ....the boredom be real
Venus in Aquarius. What do you mean by we may tend to date our friends a lot? But yes, I do agree with the fact that I find myself bringing my friends into my relationship situations often. I mostly blame my libra moon for that bc it comes from needing validation on how I need to move with that person or if it sounds ok to do/say this & that instead of just doing it. Also bc of my libra moon, I tend to put the person I’m talking to first before my friends (like hanging out or making plans) so in a way that’s kinda self sabotaging my friends is it not? 🤔😕
Edit: you literally just confirmed that that’s self-sabotaging to do that🥴
Capricorn wasn’t really hittin for me. I’m very passionate and a giver, too much work and routine is really boring to me. I hate schedules, I go with the flow. I need spontaneity & fun and I’m always trying to do new things.
Love it! Where is your Venus? Aspects to it?
same! venus capricorn in my second house,i also go w the flow with love and would honestly never put work over a relationship 😭
Same with me but it’s because i have other placements that exalts some of my Cap Venus energy. Like i have Scorpio sun & aries moon & rising so this cap venus can be really exalted !
the way you went in on venus in cancer’s im shook for you to speak on venus in scorpio 😩😂
dis tew much 😭
yes a follow up video, PLS
What do u think about a venus in 0°04 aquarius? I kinda ralate to both cap and aqua 😓
venus in leo.....i do not require attention all the time!! LOL or stir up drama. the label part is rite!! LOL i am hopin the moon in aquarius helps chill me out. i like compliments when i color my hair, but its not needed every damn second of the day lmao
Venus in Sagittarius….. that is so me🙄🥺
I'm a Venus in Sagittarius (11th house) person, it's safe to say that I'm a hopeless romantic. 😩 🏹
Venus in Aquarius.
Didn’t want my 1st comment to be too long so here I am again. Novi, I need answers😩 A few of your sentences you started but didn’t finish them out & I’m dying to know where you were going with it lol. I can definitely agree that even after talking to someone, my mind is already in the future & how I desire “my” life to be (emphasis on ‘my’ bc I have a lot of Aries in my chart so it’s really all about personal growth for me). BUT, what were you getting at when you said we can be off-putting?? How? “Alienating & making ppl feel as if”...as if what?😩
DEDRA JENELLE as if we don’t matter for real! Or we are replaceable! That shit sucks! Leo is on the other side of Aquarius - people want to be seen for their individuality! Imma make longer videos too!
@@NaturallyLit whew🥴 okay thanks!
😧 You just read me to growth ♈️ geez
Damn Novi, why you have to read Venus in Pisces like that!!??😂😂🤣🤣 You were definitely right though because I thought I was finna have some Love & Basketball, Brown Sugar type of relationship growing up. Like I was going to fall in love with my damn neighbor or a close childhood friend or some shit like that😂😂🤣🤣
😂😂😂 look we want our fairytale okay
@@amomentwithmika4932 We really do I mean I know it ain't real but dang let a girl dream😂😂😂
@@queenjam1329 lol right 😂😂
Venus in Leo in the 1st house 🥰
❤️♐
Does this change if you have a venus in RX ? i have a venus in aries rx 😣 but weirdly enough I feel like i resonated with my sidereal venus pieces in this video
Yes totally! I have Venus Rx too.
Read me 😂 Pisces here 🙋🏾♀️ - Sun Mercury and Venus
yay
im a venus in aries with mars and pisces which is such a complicated combo! lol does your neighbours always play loud music
Yes apparently EVERYTIME I decide to film 🙃
Venus in Scorpio ♏️
💞💞💞💞💞💞💞 leo venus
Damn... lol... all i have to say as a venus in leo is damn
Says Venus In Scorpio Placement
Me: “Pussies”
😂 I Am Not For The Weak But I Have Learned To Allow People To Reveal Themselves On Their Own & Do The Same
Venus in Cancer lmao you read me
Interesting, I have venus in Gemini 12th house but Mercury, sun, moon and rising in cancer…
venus in libra😭 indecisive af
Venus in Libra
Libra sun virgo venus u expose me♎♍
Why is this accurate= gemini