WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾 | RELATIONSHIP EDITION - Ep 93

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  • čas přidán 6. 09. 2024
  • Back again with another episode of 'What Women Really Want' and this time, we are talking about relationships.👩🏽‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏾 We have not because we ask not. Have we settled for the idea that we simply can’t have what we REALLY want that’s we aren’t even asking ?It's time to make peace with the fact that no man can read your mind Susan...👀 so grab your boo and a notebook too📓, and let's get down to it!
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Komentáře • 335

  • @lucymaina598
    @lucymaina598 Před rokem +11

    Road to 100k yeeeeh well done ladies

  • @stacey4764
    @stacey4764 Před rokem +72

    Some men are PRESSED in the comments, trust me boo, what you think is too much some men will do in a heartbeat. But fear not you'll surely find a woman who'll accept your bare minimum.

    • @TopsyAbby
      @TopsyAbby Před rokem +2

      Spot on😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @heart_to_heart_
      @heart_to_heart_ Před rokem +8

      It’s the FEAR NOT for me…. Sprinkle sprinkle 😅

    • @stacey4764
      @stacey4764 Před rokem

      @@heart_to_heart_ lmaooo😂

    • @thoughtsofgertrude8163
      @thoughtsofgertrude8163 Před rokem +1

      😂😂😂😂 no beating around the bush.

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Před rokem +1

      I will forever do the bare minimum coz most of you are in relationship's just to finesse

  • @wangareeeee
    @wangareeeee Před rokem +88

    Wooow this episode called me out .
    I have a friend who get flowers delivered to her weekly by her boyfriend,She gets luxurious presents and as much as I'm happy for her I always tell myself aiii Kenya gani a man can do that ......now I'm realizing it's me projecting on her coz I've placed my standards so low that no man has ever gotten me a rose and seeing her get weekly flowers is a trigger coz she placed her standards super high this was a wake up call .And I'm realizing deep down I wish men treated me the same way they treat her .
    This was a wake up call Thank you TMI

    • @kazmorich
      @kazmorich Před rokem

      You needn't say more. Do not accept less. You are a baby gal, you risk your life to bring life to the world. You deserve more than you really think.

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Před rokem +1

      Men also don't want to settle for less. You should be a better woman to a man too

  • @mytinnylittleworld
    @mytinnylittleworld Před rokem +48

    I am a very blessed woman. Every time i watch such episodes, I realize I have the perfect man. He affirms me, he adooooores me, he cleans, cooks, loves on me, wants meeee, cares about my mental health,keeps me in check. I am the babiesttttt 30 year old when around him. As Murugi says, KUPENDWA RAHA. Love you girls.

  • @dopebita101
    @dopebita101 Před rokem +31

    Nay (HELL NOO) to the singing...😄 . The first intro was perfect. Maybe because that is how we met you guys.

  • @radebethando7799
    @radebethando7799 Před rokem +18

    What women really want: to be loved fully not just desired.

  • @roughpetals4061
    @roughpetals4061 Před rokem +15

    Great episode guys!! please invite Eli and Georgie ndirangu for the men's version of What Men Really Want... pretty please!!

    • @roughpetals4061
      @roughpetals4061 Před rokem +1

      I wrote this before finishing the episode, kumbe you guys had the same idea.. Yes please bring Georgie and Eli for that episode.

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  Před rokem +1

      We hope to have them here one day!

  • @makreesfamily.5769
    @makreesfamily.5769 Před rokem +23

    My take out for the episode on what women really want 1) for the world to acknowledge the value women are bringing to the table ,2) one requires family commitment to support from the spouse to family members,3)to be able to hold honest conversations in all aspects of life,4)to have monetary support yes yes yes and finally,5)all the appreciation love and affection there is to be given on earth every woman wants some.... episode on fire 🔥.

  • @iankiplangat4224
    @iankiplangat4224 Před rokem +6

    King betweeners 👑 here
    And yes to that parallel episode💪

  • @tfa4782
    @tfa4782 Před rokem +26

    No to the S.O.N.G !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
    Say its Definitely TMI with some sass 😊😊😊

    • @ruo.
      @ruo. Před rokem

      They're getting there. Baby steps🙂🙂

  • @suelizmungai8863
    @suelizmungai8863 Před rokem +34

    if they mentioned 20 things, my man is doing 17 and his scores are high!! . and the few that are not happening I can explain why, eg pesa bado hazijaingia but it's coming ❤ feeling so blessed 🎉.. I'd also like to add that men also want us to understand when they can't deliver what we really want.. give him grace. and 2 apart from doing so much /being busy bodies it's good to learn what he really wants too. There's magic in mutual understanding and recognizing each other's side of the story. So maybe the best thing you can do for your other half or relationship is understanding that they won't always deliver and being Ok with it

  • @everything_sheila
    @everything_sheila Před rokem +8

    It’s like these two live inside me!!!😳How everything they said on this episode resonates to a T👌👌!!!! Soul sisters for real!!!🥰🥰 I'm glad I speak to my partner about what I want without feeling the need to compromise to keep him because he wants me to feel loved and heard 🥰 Ladies, it doesn't matter how small your need is, make it known that it's important to you. 👌👌Also love yourself enough to receive love. How you allow people to treat you is a reflection of your self love 👏👌

  • @DignaK
    @DignaK Před rokem +13

    I thought I was the only who follows my husband without any money😂😂😂 every time we’re going together, I’m not worried about carrying my purse or a card. I just know he’ll pay. Isn’t that how it’s supposed to be?

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  Před rokem +2

      That’s how it should be!

    • @ericmathenge1047
      @ericmathenge1047 Před rokem +1

      That’s okay cause it’s your husband. If it’s a boyfriend or a man you fancy carry your purse.

  • @the.victorgeorge
    @the.victorgeorge Před rokem +2

    I get what Murugi is saying about bare minimums. I feel like the why is what we should not compromise on but the how we can. For example, Kabi buying Milly a range rover, the basis of that is Kabi appreciating Milly. So you should not compromise on wanting to be loved and appreciated but it can be in other forms that mean the most to both of you and that's fine. For example when Kabi and Milly first started their CZcams channel, they used to do videos of 10 things I love about my wife/husband and that was the form that the love and appreciation took at the time, now it's the gifts and that's also okay, because that's where they are in life right now. I'm saying that you should never accept the limitation on what you want but you can understand that how you want it may be limited because of kawaida life stuff - finances, family priorities, health complications etc. Sometimes we don't realize that different is not wrong or less than, it's just different. We hear at time men being told, Other men are buying houses and cars for their women, you what are you doing? And at times your way of showing appreciation is ignored because it is not as grand as men out here. And ofcourse this is not an excuse for men to do the least in a relationship but I believe the things you are talking about that women want will be excecuted differently depending on the people in the relationship - depending on how both of you give and receive love. Loved this episode and I'm definitely taking notes. Not only for a relationship but also things that other women in my life want.

  • @mutaicherobon6550
    @mutaicherobon6550 Před rokem +5

    This is my favourite episode.. Lydia's sense of humour while shouting facts at us is an art .. beautiful ladies❤

  • @STA2102.
    @STA2102. Před rokem +26

    I want a man that understands period cramps😢, no the ones that think women are pretending to be in pain whilst i am almost meeting my creator 😂😂

  • @irenekiambo
    @irenekiambo Před rokem +7

    "Is he doing too much or is your man doing nothing?"😂😂😂😂

  • @carowanyaga
    @carowanyaga Před rokem +10

    Nay to the song the statement gives so much sass 😂

  • @AbigaelTowett
    @AbigaelTowett Před rokem +11

    Absolutely loved this episode and agree entirely!❤ This is definitely what women REALLY want.💯 About the song, unfortunately, it's a nay for me as well. I used to really love how you guys would say its DEFINITELY TMI with like finality and sass. It used to give "Previously on..." when you're watching a new episode of a series - in such a powerful at the same time heart warming way.🥺 Keep doing what you do ladies; I absolutely enjoy your content and learn so much from you since I'm just 20.😇

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 Před rokem +13

    It's definitely TMIIII 🎶😄💃🏿 I love the song it is mood uplifter. I sing along to it. Celebrate you Queens #WCW❤️

  • @Tessy-Lisanza
    @Tessy-Lisanza Před rokem +31

    TMI changed my whole mood of Wednesday 💯. I mean Wednesday has a purpose ❤❤. Lots of love Lyd and Murugi.😊

  • @periswerimo8
    @periswerimo8 Před rokem +9

    I prefer the old intro
    Nay to the song

  • @gretelbexmulekye84
    @gretelbexmulekye84 Před 10 měsíci

    I have never been more grateful for being late. I discovered TMI like 2-3 months ago and now i have a whole years worth of episodes to catch up on. I have never been more grateful. Keep doing this.

  • @Spinkly
    @Spinkly Před rokem +10

    I love the singing... please keep singing cause I definitely be singing with yall!

  • @puritymwangi6530
    @puritymwangi6530 Před rokem +6

    I love the intro singing
    😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃 it gives vibes, excitement and furaha.

  • @beckyofficial4048
    @beckyofficial4048 Před rokem +5

    Nay to the song . Old intro 👍. Nice and relatable content ❤

  • @valentinengare3022
    @valentinengare3022 Před rokem +7

    Nayy yo the song. 😂❤❤love you ladies

  • @triple__em
    @triple__em Před rokem +9

    Not "president Ruto" 😂😂😂😂... Lydia you're hilarious 🙌

  • @vickyitenyo.
    @vickyitenyo. Před rokem +3

    I am giving both of you such tight hugs for speaking on my very own behalf!
    Everything on this episode is TRUE!

  • @susankibui3394
    @susankibui3394 Před rokem +12

    i dont understand why people dont like the TMI song..i loove it😫its a yeeeey

  • @brendamachira
    @brendamachira Před rokem +5

    Watching TMI has raised my standards for relationships fr!💕💕 So much I've never thought of, y'all really raising standards over here!😂😂😂

  • @lifewithteffie7007
    @lifewithteffie7007 Před rokem +9

    Just discovered your channel lately and I can't get enough of y'all 🥺💜🌸 really learning alot from both of you

    • @kezmaina-doktari
      @kezmaina-doktari Před rokem +1

      Aaww!! Welcome to the community, in betweener. You will love it here 😊

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  Před rokem

      Welcome to the Inbetweener Family!

  • @Magend_a
    @Magend_a Před rokem +3

    For a man who has found his dream girl, he'll be willing to provide for them unconditionally. If they have the finances. Now that we are having a relationship edition, what of myths society expects of a successful relationship.

  • @agnesodoyo854
    @agnesodoyo854 Před rokem +7

    Great conversation ❤. Just shared this with my brother, on how to up his game with his wife 😍😍.

  • @rubyabuor646
    @rubyabuor646 Před rokem +4

    Nay for the song
    Side note love the moody dark makeup on Murugi!

  • @carollex4559
    @carollex4559 Před rokem +8

    Nay to the song…Great content!💙

  • @stephaniesteph3068
    @stephaniesteph3068 Před rokem +7

    I'm actually updating my list of the qualities i want in a man,,, after watching this 😂❤❤❤❤❤

  • @suzzykarii2975
    @suzzykarii2975 Před rokem +3

    Giiiirls!!!!!
    Today's episode point after point got me saying yaaaaasss.......preeeaaach girl....WOOORD!!
    Gaad bless ya for being so loud !!❤

  • @miss__mercy
    @miss__mercy Před rokem +4

    I definitely love the song...be yourselves babes, I love that too!

  • @nasingoikoipiri4383
    @nasingoikoipiri4383 Před rokem +1

    Aaahhhhh whyyyy diiddd youuuu siittt anddd waaiiitttt😮‍💨😮‍💨wrong moveeeee..
    You should have come out anddd first of alll look at theeeemmmmm😂😂ahhhh Jooaann!!!!😂😂😂

  • @jeanetteuwizeye4687
    @jeanetteuwizeye4687 Před rokem +6

    In betweener from Kigali❤🎉i cant get enough of you queens and its so amazing how you relate to the Millys husbands 😅 sometimes i think i live in Kenya bcz of you queens😍

  • @TryingToBeFairHuman
    @TryingToBeFairHuman Před rokem +10

    In an ideal world, no man would want to work either. I think no one likes to work, man or woman. We do it as a means of survival. In my humble opinion, it feels presumptuous that men love to work, they just have been conditioned to do it and do not feel comfortable admitting they would prefer "a soft life" as well

  • @theclangwilimi1485
    @theclangwilimi1485 Před rokem +4

    Yay to song and Yay to bringing Georgie!!! Lovely episode ladies❤❤ 💋 xx

  • @maurccn_
    @maurccn_ Před rokem +2

    it's definitely nay to the song.
    really great episode, loved it : )

  • @andrewlemayian
    @andrewlemayian Před rokem +17

    I love how Lydia saves face on TMI tirelessly 😂😂😂 “And not to mention that…” “And this isn’t to say…” “And we don’t mean that..”😂😂😂

  • @joybusisa5151
    @joybusisa5151 Před rokem +7

    Nay to the song

  • @ekbalsaab3956
    @ekbalsaab3956 Před rokem +7

    Me I matched the energy,,weeeh I found I was the only one energetic 😂😂

    • @joanmuthoni7558
      @joanmuthoni7558 Před rokem +1

      😂 😂 That's when you realize you're the only one serious in the relationship

    • @ekbalsaab3956
      @ekbalsaab3956 Před rokem +1

      @@joanmuthoni7558 walaii nilitoka bila kuambiwa🤣🤣

  • @chichisjourney7308
    @chichisjourney7308 Před rokem +2

    I love you guys but Naay to the song😂. The statement was powerful!

  • @Irenewk
    @Irenewk Před rokem +18

    Waaaah! This convo is triggering for me!! I developed anxiety with my ex whenever we went out as in I always had to have money to pay for stuff even when I’ve been ‘taken out’ Now I run away from any hint of me paying for anything on a date😂

  • @paprika7930
    @paprika7930 Před rokem +4

    "Until the next triggering episode..." I'm HOLLERING! 😭

  • @tessnjokie4847
    @tessnjokie4847 Před rokem +10

    I've loved this episode! Please do a men's version and bring mantalk and Georgie.

  • @thoughtsofgertrude8163

    This episode has been eye opening.
    I can't believe that I used to think that men, who do over and beyond for their women are hiding something.🙈🙈

  • @brendamachira
    @brendamachira Před rokem +1

    "How is that your problem? She has another one" OMGGG LYDIAAA!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God gasped for that one!!!😭😭😭😭stoooppp🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @janetkaluki2008
    @janetkaluki2008 Před rokem

    what an episode! I enjoyed every minute of it, I suggest you invite Eli Mwenda and Georgie Ndirangu to enlighten us more on what men really want in a relationship.

  • @wairimundungu1066
    @wairimundungu1066 Před rokem +9

    Yay to the song. (You guys look happy when singing it so it should definitely stay) Everyone else will just have to get used to it.😅😅 It's only in the beginning guys.
    I am very tagged in this episode. The limiting beliefs I have...chiiiiiiiiiillllleeeeee.
    Now that I'm aware of them, I can start unlearning and practising an abundance mentality. Who said I can't have it all? Absolutely no one!
    Loved this episode.❤❤

  • @GambaWithJ
    @GambaWithJ Před rokem +4

    I love chivalrous men kabisa

  • @maggiematthew4779
    @maggiematthew4779 Před rokem +5

    Naay to the song,yes to TMI🎉

  • @carowanyaga
    @carowanyaga Před rokem +11

    Murugi your make up and outfit are giving yess!!

  • @christineooko2745
    @christineooko2745 Před rokem +58

    Yeeeey to the song . The statement is kinda boring...

  • @azengajael2941
    @azengajael2941 Před rokem +10

    We all need a Richard Bett in our lives (Moniques Husband)
    I said it😂
    Love this topic❤

  • @docfromkombe2000
    @docfromkombe2000 Před rokem +8

    Without the song, there's a nice attitude😂😂.. 😊

  • @joanmuthoni7558
    @joanmuthoni7558 Před rokem +4

    😂 If we match energies, it's over

  • @viviennedebra4919
    @viviennedebra4919 Před rokem +2

    Nay to the song in all honesty 😊

  • @hayaashraf3404
    @hayaashraf3404 Před 2 měsíci

    1- gentlemen
    2- rest
    Just sit down and look cute
    Match the energy and see where the relationship going
    Don't mother
    Say what you want a morning message

  • @didysteve8845
    @didysteve8845 Před rokem +2

    Nay to the song.Buh anyway i always look forward to wednesday .I`m 5 hours ahead but tmi has taught me patience.

  • @rodahwairimu984
    @rodahwairimu984 Před rokem +3

    I'll still watch whether you sing or not😊
    Powerful content❤

  • @angelahawa-og5pz
    @angelahawa-og5pz Před rokem

    now am single sasa.... Wueeeh yaani love is out there? Where did i go wrong
    loved the episode and love you beauties😅

  • @aunty.social
    @aunty.social Před rokem +17

    Don't y'all think Murugi's close friend will feel bad when you talk about her situation as you whisper and giggle?

  • @noelorraine
    @noelorraine Před rokem

    Song on No song I'm still going to watch till the end..Do what feels right for you guys❤

  • @SakeKasir
    @SakeKasir Před rokem

    All there are relatable to me. These are the things that I REALLY want. Great episode!

  • @faithmeg9701
    @faithmeg9701 Před rokem

    I'm so happy Lydia said it. Feminism is not a bad thing 💯

  • @janetjean1412
    @janetjean1412 Před rokem +2

    Aki i never liked my name until lyd started mentioning it so well❤❤jayne😜😜😜

  • @biscotti7140
    @biscotti7140 Před rokem +1

    Kingbetweeners 👑 Take notes 📖.

  • @gracemimi10
    @gracemimi10 Před rokem +2

    You had me at female friend or female bestie! Red flag! Red flag! I am supposed to be the only female you confide in!

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 Před rokem +4

    Not lyd attacking me directly when she talked about being emotionally mature also means talking directly about things that upset you ,, I'm just from ranting to my bestie😅😅this man will think that's petty... can I be petty in peace aaagh😅😅😅

  • @mirriej
    @mirriej Před rokem

    This episode has really enlightened me. Thank you guys, you both look amazing. I must add Murugi looks stunning in that hair and outfit.

  • @stacygitonga5758
    @stacygitonga5758 Před rokem +2

    Definitely YAY to the song

  • @bernicerogo9190
    @bernicerogo9190 Před rokem

    Wooow I'm soo intrigued by every ounce of this conversation-very insightful as well as entertaining.
    Good job ladies ❤

  • @serahkimani8562
    @serahkimani8562 Před rokem

    I wish y’all can do a girls trip to Mexico and discuss TMI . I would definitely go !

  • @sashawambui
    @sashawambui Před rokem +1

    This episode was so wholesomely triggering! 😂😩

  • @rispanjeri5751
    @rispanjeri5751 Před rokem +7

    Naay to the song😒 but Yees to the great content

  • @suelizmungai8863
    @suelizmungai8863 Před rokem +8

    unfortunately I'm team nay🙃 but I'm also team TMI so I'm ok with whatever

  • @Irenewk
    @Irenewk Před rokem +5

    Push presents!!! It’s a must, giving birth is a matter of life and death so yaaaas, give those presents!!💕

  • @Han-wt4vg
    @Han-wt4vg Před rokem +2

    Nay to the song!!!😂😂😂

  • @lifeofsheila4041
    @lifeofsheila4041 Před rokem +2

    Guys I love you but Nay to the song ladies😂 Otherwise I really really loved this episode 😍

  • @victoriachebet5544
    @victoriachebet5544 Před rokem

    I love love the song!!! Do NOT stop

  • @FaithHopeLoveCate
    @FaithHopeLoveCate Před rokem +2

    Naaayy to the song!

  • @santhy9963
    @santhy9963 Před rokem +2

    Naaaaaaaaah to the song plzzzz and I usually don’t comment 🤣

  • @chikhuambali3737
    @chikhuambali3737 Před rokem +3

    It’s definitely TMI🎶🎶😁😁

  • @faithnjoki1471
    @faithnjoki1471 Před rokem

    Tumechapwa na Man City. I'm here because I need healing. Arsenal will not kill me when you gorgeous babes are here.

  • @jacqkamush2103
    @jacqkamush2103 Před rokem +3

    Naay to the song,,but we loove yall

  • @rosenkatha1625
    @rosenkatha1625 Před rokem +4

    Those women talking about murugi weeh😂....murugi blink twice if you're trapped and need help 😅😅😅😅

  • @doctordeeM
    @doctordeeM Před rokem +5

    Noooooo singing 😢😂😂😂

  • @micheleombima1666
    @micheleombima1666 Před rokem +3

    Nay to the song.

  • @annenganga1265
    @annenganga1265 Před rokem +2

    Yeah to the song 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

  • @caroljerotich4864
    @caroljerotich4864 Před rokem +1

    Guys Lydia and Georgie as a couple🥹🥹just imagine

  • @lorraine.
    @lorraine. Před rokem +5

    Topic is dope . How about we get 2 men to tell us what men really want ? 🤔

  • @stephaniesteph3068
    @stephaniesteph3068 Před rokem +9

    Murugi actually called us giraffes 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @loicenyokwoyo3171
    @loicenyokwoyo3171 Před rokem +6

    Nay to the song.
    The old intro was great.

  • @debbyonami3850
    @debbyonami3850 Před rokem +3

    Standard raised.... period 😊