A girl in her 4th grade finds it difficult to speak [Hello Counselor / 2017.01.02]
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Wow, I'm actually very happy that the mom decided to take her daughter to a therapist first before coming on the show. It's rare to see the people who come on the show do that.
I thought so too! Goes to show she really loves her kids
I can't believe a 2nd grader asked to be taken to a therapist... that's so sad
@@kruton93 and can be really frustrating for the kid
You just got *911* likes!!😂
Therapist don't solve anything, as you can clearly see. On the other hand, the way they treated her made her open up more and more. I'd take this show instead of a therapist any day of the week.
I just gotta say that it's really fortunate she has a brother like that. Many would be embaressed and just ignore her becuase she doesn't talk but he encourages her, carries her bag and even run for president just because she wanted him too. You can see that he truly loves his little sister and that`s just heartwarming to see. He cares and looks out for her, there aren't many brothers like that out there...
Ikr 😭
I wish either of my brothers had been like that....
It's difficult AF when you try to speak but something in your mind just stop you from talking. Usually it takes time to overcome that and there's always a reason behind it. I was like that too, I hate talking to people and the reasons was that I was scared of how others judge me. It took me years to overcome it.
Kwoobo same :( btw EYYYY CARAT!
Kyla Rosales ayeeee helloo
Kwoobo Yes same here, only now in 6th and 7th grade I overcame my fear, since the grades here in sweden are based if you talk or not. So it's very important to talk in class. I've also been afraid of doing a presentation in class but it went really well this year and I'm so happy^_^
I became the same way from 2nd to 7th grade. Only in high school did i speak up a bit more. Now in college im trying to voice my opinions more and find myself. Its hard to speak up if something traumatic happened
Kimyeol Samee..stil I'm improving!
Now thats funny, my school would not bother doing calls just to ask why I was not talking in school. The only time I get feedback that I am quiet in class is when teachers write some notes in our report book for our parents to see. I have never bothered speaking up in class even if it is a requirement to earn marks, I do try to force myself though. Yes I am introverted but I can talk a lot when I am with my friends just not answering or asking questions in the middle of lesson.
Koo Junhoe OMG I'm like the exact same 😂
me too
Koo Junhoe I'm the same
Koo Junhoe me too!! Im an introvert too!
OMG same
I understand her I'm talkative with friends and family but when I'm in class I'm focused or I'm day dreaming and people think I'm mute or I'm just shy
SAME~
Gosh! This is so me hahahaha
this goes beyond being focused or daydreaming...
Yeah me too around my friends and people I know am like a parrot but when you’re a stranger you’ll think am very quiet and shy
Isabella Gallardo that is like me in a sentence
i think her mom worried if she got bullied or something in school... and i think her teacher was so rude... and as her parents she should do something.
eh i probably didnt watch it properly, can u pls give me the second the teacher gave a rude remark??
+Fanimebunny 10:25 :)
dorothy sam ohhh i thought u meant her current teacher instead of her preschool teacher sorry~~ her old teacher really over reacted
nice usernameee lmaoo
screaming bc i want to be her friend and look after her aw T T
support and love taehyun same :(
me 2 T_T
Agust D same she's so cute and precious ♥️♥️
I get emotional when I saw her start wiping her tears.
It must be hard for her but I hope she will try to take up confidence and faith in herself slowly :) hipe that people around her and herself don't push her too much as that will only make her feel pressure, which might have effect her mentally and physicall(as in speaking). YERIN Fighting!♡
she doesn't seem too shy just a selective mute.... Yerin had no problem answering who the most handsome guy which is pretty unusual for shy girls. I remember when I was younger my dad asked me to say who was more good looking between his friend's sons and I ran off and hid lmao.
hundaebyun jonghaowon ME LMAO
Why would your dad even ask you that? How old were you at the time?
screaming in 3rd grade an popular boy told me he liked me and I threw him in a bush
Sumaya Deeq awwwwwwwww
Lmao
I really understand her... I've been like that since I was very young. Maybe not as severe as her cause I'd still answer questions quietly instead of saying nothing. But all my relatives and people around me at school would say "oh she can't talk at all. she doesn't know how to talk and blah blah" and whenever I'd try to say a word they would make a big deal out of it and I would become very intimidated by that. I'm 19 now and I'm going to university, and at university I'm known as this mysterious and quiet girl who never talks to anyone unless others initiate the conversation... even then I would answer with very short responses in a quiet voice cause I feel intimidated by all the negative attention and I keep thinking to myself about how they would feel about my response.. like I'm extra careful with what I say because of them. I feel like they would judge me hard no matter what I say. The only people I can talk to comfortably are my very close friends and my family, because they don't make a big deal out of me speaking normally to them and don't take everything I say too seriously, you know? People around you are really effective in these cases... pointing out the obvious would not help us at all and it would just make things worse. Those teachers and kids at her school are just making everything worse instead of helping her. If you keep on insisting that she's quiet, she would feel VERY intimidated by it and would not say anything obviously. I've been in her shoes and I'm still like that after 19 years.. for me it's so hard to change it >
same with me >
omg same
new9776 same :(
same I remember when I was in gradeschool , I raised my hand to answer a math question then all the people suddenly reacted like "oh she is alive?" and my teacher said mockingly "oh you are not asleep anymore?" :( I always answer them when they ask me and talk to them but they think of me as a mute -_- wtf maybe because I don't speak loud
new9776 I relate to you on a spiritual level >.< This probably sounds dumb but do you have any advice to help this??? Like im honestly not kidding i'm EXACTLY the same in all situations.
Wtf is wrong with her preschool teacher
Bts Trash ikr... & i'm so sorry this has nothing to do with anything but BTS TRASH FOR LIFEUUU JUNKOOKIE PF okay i'm sorry imma just leave now
dont forget to close the door
BTS IS NOT TRASH!!!!! That's your profile picture, very sorry.
Shampa Shamimara
no, theyre saying theyre bts trash, as in they love bts alot. lmao.
Jin Is Lifeu
J I N
The brother is really sweet! Such a precious kid
what i just realized is kim jeonghoon is the actor at princess hours 😂 so thats why his face so familiar
yolo kpop Omg it seriously didn't click until I read your comment! hahaha thanks 😂
been waiting for this comment. prince yul is back haha
I'm literally the same as the girl. The shitty part is when I actually say something no one listens. Its better to be silent than talk empty words.
Same people say me to talk and when i am talking they just ignore
She is a Selective Mute.....I had the same problem when i was going to Elementary School. A therapist came by and tried to talk to me but i was to shy. The environment was scary even though i went there everyday i was uncomfortable. Eventually i started to talk I was A Selective Mute but i grew out of it....Well actually No
.....When am in stores or a New Environment i tend to just not talk. Am 17 now and In High School everyone knows me that am very Talkative and A BIG CHATTER BOX! She will grow out of it. If she can TALK ON TV ...She will gain the confidence she needs to talk. 💪😊. I bet her going to school now will not be as hard NOW!
I like how all of the cast try to bright up the mood and cheer her up. I personally feel more at ease around adult than the kids at my age too. like elder always be kind and not judgmental
What she's going through is something that many people go through at her age, hers is just a bit more extreme. It will get better as she gets older and as she meet friends, she will eventually understand that it's okay to speak and stuff. Be strong~~
i had a friend in my elementary school who never talk until we graduated, i remember she tried to speak up but closed up again because my other friends were fascinated and made a scene.until 2nd grade i've always been her seatmate.
she's actually smart, she got great scores in every homework and exam.she just never active around P.E class and easily got sick ( she vomits multiple times for 6 years). my teachers were practically given up on her and let her do what she want.
i still remember the only way i could hear her voice was only through phone calls.
i was also like that when i was younger. it takes time for shy apprehensive people to open up so i feel like they shouldn't try to force her to talk. when she's ready she will open up to her mates herself. Jang Yerin fighting!
I have a similar problem. When I need to talk I don't say anything, my mind goes blank so even If I want I can't. Not only that but like a drama, my face goes totally red when I'm talking and people makes me feel shy, so I don't speak, I feel good comunicating with others via mail or whatsapp or computer but when comes to speak I can't.
are you doing better now?
I had to pause a lot because I kept tearing up. I'm 19 now, but I still feel like this. I've always been quiet in school for as long as I could remember. I just can't speak out because it doesn't come out. I just got my narrative reports back from my college professors, and all of their first sentences were "She was reluctant to speak during class." I've pushed myself to be someone who can freely just talk with anyone regardless of the environment, but I just can't do it... I'm a very positive person, so I try to not let it get to me. Whenever people would say "She can't speak", I would tell myself "You CAN speak. You just don't want to speak with asswholes like these." Because honestly, a lot of people that can speak freely are inconsiderate with their words. I think and struggle to find the right words to say when I feel a bit comfortable in an environment. But most people just say things while hurting others without any thought to what the other person might feel. I'm not gonna push to be someone I'm not, and instead look at this "flaw" as a strength.
She's such a sweet girl... I hope she's happier at school now and can speak well with her friends!
I had this. I grew over it. First talk to people you trust and then keep adding people to it. Worked like magic for me
ok but yeongja is a national fucking treasure😂💘
I'm pretty sure no one would care about my story but I was in the SAME EXACT situation as this girl in Elementary school. I came to America at age 7 so I didn't know English. So from 1st grade to 4th grade, i chose to be mute and not speak not because I was shy but because I was afraid...there's a difference. My 4th grade teacher told me personally that if our school has detention, I would be in detention every day for disrespecting her😂 but finally, in 5th grade, I decided to talk because it was the last year and everyone of my friends were so shocked I can talk. So since then, I talk 24/7. I noticed that in this world, I'm not alone and that even across the country, there is a person who is in the same situation as me, I'm happy 😊
CINDY Le I
I wasn't really in the same situation but I've went through such times. I used to hate going to school just because of few selective ppl. Now I either ignore them cuz I'm too lazy or just shoot off then and there whether it's something trivial or huge
Did anyone else realise that Taejoon is wearing the same sweater jacket thing that Eunwoo from Astro wore when he came in the show or us it just me?
Juhi Xian Babria GD also has that sweater
Fatma Zehra Katılmış no wonder GD is a trendsetter
It's selective mutism I'm pretty sure - they want to talk but they just can't in certain settings (eg:school) idk what the solution is but I did hear that some people grow out of it. She has a nice family I'm sure they'll support her :)
triple A yup, i had it diagnosed and everything but simply changing class to a lot smaller one (less than 10 students) made my life sooo much easier oh my god
that could be a solution for her too^
i have selective mutism too and it hurts because i want to do so much more yet its really really hard :( my parents won't take me to the therapist although ive been this way for the past 8 years of my life and my brother just mocks me for having no friends :/
I cried when i saw her struggling when introducing
Though I don't have a problem speaking in class, I'd rather not, but I get what Yerin is going through. Once you start acting a certain way and people always think you act that way, it's hard to break out of it. Sometimes I use different voices for different people I'm around, like my voice gets a lot lower and more laid-back when I'm with my friends, and higher and girly-like when I'm around family. It's very hard for me to switch between voices, like I speak differently to my uncle, its hard to speak to him like I do my friends. If they ask me to use my other voice, the words don't come out. My step-father and my friends sometimes tease me about it so now I can't stick with one. It's sad that her problem is not speaking at all, I wish the best for her.
She's has selective mutism, I believe. It's when a person has the ability to speak but they can't do so freely due to extreme anxiety. I use to work with a 6 years old boy before who refused to speak in front of people outside of this immediate family and through therapy he made a progress with the last year to the point where now he speaks to all his classmates and teachers, however, he still doesn't do it in front of strangers.
I can't also imagine going on television in front of all those people helps her much either. Beautiful girl.
hello i know this is really late, are you a clinical psychologist?
I cried when i see this. I cried really hard. My sister used to be like this. She won't even speak to my older brother.
and what the fuck was that teacher? Is she really a teacher? i might grab her nasty hair immediately if she dare to insult MY CHILD in front of her.
I’m so relieved her mom and brother are so supportive and are accepting of her issues ❤️ she will overcome it one day
I'm glad she has such a supportive family that are aware of mental health issues and actually took her to a professional!! A good parent on this show seems to be rare lol.
wow, i hope she is able to talk from now on. i hope other kids like her are encouraged by her and her want to get confidence
The girl is just amazing. Look how brave she is. She just needs to feel accepted by her parents (they need to tell her it's OK she's quiet in class. And the "I will do something for you if you speak up in class" is horrible) and gain more confidence. With more confidence she will not fear the attention after she speaks up. I've been there and I know how difficult it is. You feel terrible. And the kids in class who are poiting at her are NOT HER FRIENDS. You can do it Yerin! Fighting!
I'm quite impressed with the hosts in this episode. Though introducing herself was an obviously difficulty for Yerin, the hosts were very soft and tried to make the experience as welcoming and lighthearted as possible
I'm like her too until now, and I'm already in my late twenties
Ijustwannaeatwithoutgettingfat me too
shes so cute and will grow up to be a beautiful girl i really hope shes able to overcome this and become more independent, happy, and outspoken and comfortable with herself. Her brother is amazing for helping and supporting her
props to the mom for being so supportive & compassionate. she actually tried to communicate & even went as far as seeing a therapist for her. that's good parenting right there.
Her whole family is so suportive and loving it warms my heart
the mom looks like red velvet's wendy!! 어머님 웬디 닮으셨어요!
Emily L lmao she does!
E Lee oml thats what i thought
The daughter looks like blackpink's Jennie
El Lee LMAO I thought that
Woe... I cried as soon as Yerin tried to introduce herself. I've never seen someone so petrified before. That's heartbreaking.
I can relate to her, but it's a little bit different.. I don't talk to other students (Or strangers) unless I'm spoken to. Some students get angry at me for not answering or doing something they wanted me to do. There were 2 or 3 Girls that told me to scream or shout as loud as I can "Jennifer, scream as loud as you can!" Then.. "Hello?! SCREAM ALREADY!", I don't know why I'm like this, but I think I only follow orders when I 'want' to. Some try to bully me.. And it feels weird to be complimented, and it's also weird being encougared, and feeling loved by others.. Which is quite rare from my experience. I REALLY want to say something, but it feels like I have no energy to make one simple sound. Referring to the topic with the girls ordering me to scream/shout.. "Why won't you ever talk?!", "Just say something already!", "Are you afraid to talk to us, or what?" And it just makes me irritated, and sad at the same time.. I thought teenagers were more accepting with people that are different. Well, atleast some of them are!
im so proud of you girl..you try to speak and its already good enough for me..man i wish you were my lil sis,i would love to be by your side..
This little girl's family is so supportive and caring. I hope she gets to overcome those traumas and speak bravely too!
that little boy was sooo adorable ^^ omg
She's so adorable! hope she gains confidence & opens up to people 😊 Supportive family 💖
She pretty....... I want to give her a hug
I have a friend like her...she doesn't talk at all but I understand. Sarah hasn't said a single word to me in 3 years but I still hang around her because she a great person!
*long comment full of personal experiences ahead, you have been warned*
I hope she's able to overcome this because it might really affect her future later on. I sort of went through something similar so I think I can understand her...From first grade to fourth grade, I was really talkative. Then I suddenly changed schools in the middle of fourth grade. I never adapted well to changes so I became the quiet kid in class. Outside of class, like at home or with my cousins, I was crazy talkative. I could even talk to my classmates when I see them outside of class. But the moment I'm in school, the moment I'm in the classroom, I just can't bring myself to speak. tbh I don't know why I became like that; it's like whatever confidence I had in my old school just disappeared once I changed schools. I think my classmates started thinking I was handicap because of that because they were always surprised when I did well on our schoolwork (I was one of the top students before). Now I'm in college and I'm doing a little better after meeting some awesome and patient friends, but I still shake, stutter and have my heart beating fast when I have to face my classmates. It's a really strange feeling, and I sincerely hope that Yerin will gain the confidence she surely has and be able to speak loudly and proudly in class.
im so glad that things got better with your friends help. i hope things continue to get better. fighting,
Ilina G omg thank you~ That really means a lot. ♡ I watched part 2 of this video and she was able to talk with her classmates. I'm so happy for her. I hope I'll be able to talk more with my classmates too. XD
DAMMIT BIG HIT!!! Yess same, I have a small group of guy friends and outside of school im so talkative with them but inside of school I get so nervous and I cant joke around or anything.. I do lots of extracurricular activities and people in my clubs are so surprised when they hear me talk.. Whenever i talk to someone in school I always overthink my words and I end up not talking at all lmao. I really so hope she gains confidence too though💕
JustLisa I hope you gain confidence as well.
remember the song lyrics "say what you want to say. just let the words fall out. honestly I wanna see you be brave." (I seriously can't remember the name of the song😆). it might be hard to stop over thinking, but you can do it! fighting
her lips are SO *PRETTY*
I used to be something like this but then I wanted my elective to be broadcasting in middle school so I had to speak up. At the end, I became a bit better at talking to people, and now at highschool I've decided to take theatre, so I might as well get better.
It's good to see a very caring concern family. I'm glad the Mom is trying her best to help her daughter along with her family. It's also nice to see that they tried to get help and the girl is trying her best to be strong. Best luck to them
I hate it when a teacher force you to talk in front of class when they know how uncomfortable and full of anxiety certain students may have felt. If you are really a teacher, why don't you act like one and realize that students can still do well in lessons by listening and not throw your students in a loop of anxiety just because you want them to answer a damn question on the board in front of students!
Hello counselor my favorite show! Thanks for English subtitles! Love from USA.
I remember having the same problem as a kid. I went through it from pre-school until I reached my first year in high school. I never had friends, I also have good grades but I couldn't get into high ranks because I don't talk or recite in class. I had the same award of being "well behaved" everytime my school year ends (yep, they give awards to students who are well behaved in class). I once went to school with a high fever that I just cried because I feel really sick and that's the only time they knew I was sick. In high school, I had few friends and I started to talk a little but I had social anxiety that even reciting or doing class presentation makes me shake a lot and I would cry at stuff like being transferred from one seat to another. Till now I still struggle with communicating but I'm trying :) I hope she's doing better now.
예린이가 참 예쁘네^^ 니 목소리도. 이 언니가 예린이 응원할께~ 홧팅~^^♡
I was similar to the little girl when I was in school, I wasn't as quiet as her but for the most part I was shy. She's super cute and I wish her the best in communicating more!
It makes me really happy her mom cares for her so much.
The mom is supportive of her. How lucky
The mom is so pretty!
I understands how she feels because I’m also really shy but not as serious and had a speech problem when I was younger so it’s been hard for me to speak and I stammer. I hope she will grow to be confident. She’s really cute💕💕💕💕💕💕
*Social Anxiety Disorder*
I'm also like her in the past. After I change to a middle school, everything was new to me and i was very queitly. But later day by day i made a friend and all sort of thing, thing getting better. Actually you need to be brave enough but it is not easy for people like her. She need to walk through a hell to come to heaven.
I'm glad her family is understanding and supporting. I had a friend in high school who wouldn't speak in school but as soon as she went outside her real personality shined. I think the parents should talk to her teachers so they can tell the other students about this and stop pressuring her.
I can’t say I know what she’s going through but I have a friend and she’s extremely, introverted and has anxiety and is quiet in lesson and only converses with close friends. She’s really smart but never contributes to lessons and once one of our teachers started targeting her because he didn’t think she was as smart as others said. Once in an English lesson he made her read her work to the whole class but she nicely refused yet he said we wouldn’t be able to leave unless she read out her work. She even asked to read it himself to prove she did the work but he didn’t want to and she stood in the class crying, loads of people raised their hands to read their work but the insensitive teacher said she had to do it because she doesn’t contribute in lessons.
He brother is amazing. My sister won't even let me use her iPad for a split second, you are the best brother a sister could ask for
She so pretty
Her family is wonderful.
seeing that she has the willingness to try and speak (i.e. suggesting to go to a therapist, etc) already deserves applause. I hope she can overcome speaking in public and that she doesnt get bullied for it when she gets older. Kids can be insensitive at a young age and though they dont mean it, it can really take a toll on the person. Although its a miserable experience to go through, i hope she uses it as a life lesson to build confidence and look back at it positively. YERIN YOU CAN DO IT ^_^
Am I the only one who thinks that little girl is absolutely beautiful 😍😍 her lips are so cute
i relate to her so much. same exact thing happened to me when i moved from a small school to a bigger one. got the same reactions too, with people saying "you can't speak!" and making fun of me. it's gotten better the past couple of years, though! hope it'll get better for her too.
Her brother is so sweet to her sister especially when 7:33
this brings tears to my eyes its ok if she don't talk that well it must be hard for her but hopefully she gains confidence and faith in herself i know hawse feels when you talk and have something on your mind it feels like you can't talk and i was scared and cared on how people thought about me but has i grew up i got over it i could talk but i had to fix my speech but go yerin
나도 한 초등학교 3학년때까지 딱 이랬는데… 가족 앞에서는 시끄럽지만 밖에 나가면 친한 친구들 빼고 한마디도 안 하고… 그러다 학년 올라가면서 친구들이 먼저 다가와주길 기다리면 친구 사귀기 힘들다는걸 깨닫고 억지로 성격 바꾸려고 노력해서 지금도 소심한 편이지만 처음 보는 사람한테 말 잘 걸고 좋아짐
Seems like a very healthy & well-mannered mother, let alone family!
Chiyeol ^^
she’s gorgeous 😭💖
for everyone who’s wondering how to get a child to be confident at her age. kids at this age want to be recognized as someone special than the other kids her age so to put them in something that only them is doing than her other friends that would give a recognition. for example kids at this age would talk about their talent and how they are good at something. so it’s good to put them in some kind of sport or anything like that “sorry for my english 🙈”
How cute is she!
i totally understand and sympathise with this girl...i was like this all through school. my school reports always said i was a bright but very quiet child who needed to speak up more in class, and my parents were always like "but she never stops talking at home?" it's something that caused me a lot of stress and anxiety, it was like even though i wanted to speak i just couldn't. it's like i lost my voice. sometimes in certain situations i could force myself to speak, like if there was a noise in the room that would cover my voice so nobody else but the person i was speaking to could hear. because i didn't know what was wrong with me and people just thought i was shy i struggled with it until now in my twenties. the past couple of years i have had a job that forced me to speak and be social, gradual exposure has really helped and now though i am still shy and introverted i can talk to people. it feels liberating. i hope that yerin one day finds confidence in her voice and is able to speak no matter who is around or where she is. you can do this yerin!!!
I remember having a student who doesn't want to talk.. but when she's with her family she's really confident and even talks loud.. I guess it only a matter of time for her to open up and be comfortable with her surrounding ... i hope she'll get to overcome this.. fighting!
she's gonna grow up to be so pretty ❤️
Dude, how can some people not understand that there are people who aren't easy at adapting to a different environment? I'm the kind of person who keeps transferring to different schools because my family kept moving or the school I went to was too hard for me to learn with. Everytime I moved to ad different school, I was always shy in the beginning, and my classmates were always calling me the "shy one", but eventually I started to become my loud self as I got to know everybody. I always hated being shy, i wanted to be like the other kids who would easily talk to new people.😐 Once I started to talk the other kids would say "oh my gosh you can talk?", it was really annoying for me. 😒 I knew another kid who was like me, we had the same elective two years ago, she was so shy and quiet, she wouldn't talk to anybody. A year later I saw her talking to her friends and acted differently. So what I'm trying to say is...that it's not good to judge someone because of the way they act.
I had really bad anxiety when I was young. First days of school was the peek of my anxiety and not knowing anyone in class made it even harder. But the thing about me is that when I get use to my environment and everyone around me I would talk more. But when it comes to getting up in front of the class and speaking....I just couldn't. I even cried in the 8th grade because I didn't want to do my presentation. My teacher had to talk to me and she was really encouraging. Then came high school and drama class was on my schedule. I was terrified. But then it wasn't so bad. Drama class actually helped me be a bit more confident. And now as an adult..My job in retail has help me so so much. I'm constantly talking to people and that builds up my social skills.
Honestly, i used to be like that too before this and yeah, my teacher won't let me sit down until i talk but then, when i be friend with a talkative person, my way of speech is getting better.
i once was kinda like this too.... i didn't talk to anyone and i didn't know how to make friends. i wanted to have one so badly but just didn't know how to start to talk to someone. i hope she would be happier and even stronger as she grows up😊😊😊 she reminded me of when i was 12
what happens to this little girl is the same situation to what happens to little boy that I know,after his teacher told his parents about it,they decided to put or join him to acting class or somekind like drama class that make him speak more & expressing himself,now he act normal as same as other kids in his class,,it's sad to see her talk slow with teary eyes like that,it may hard but hopefully her parents can find the good ways & she can act normally like other kids in her age soon,cheer up! little girl u're so pretty tho,be confident & show the world who u really are 😊 eonnie pray for u from here
I was like her at her age... I could talk at all... I never talked at school... It was a serious issue I couldn't do anything...
She's such a sweet girl
I can relate to the girl so much. Ever since I started going to art school where they teach in a different language than my mother language, it’s been really hard for me to speak. I was already shy, and not very talkative to strangers before, but now it’s gotten worse. I’m so terrified that I’ll mess up, or that I’ll bother them if I try to start a conversation that my hands get all sweaty, they start to tremble and sometimes I even get a bit nauseous. The fact that I’m not even close to being fluent makes it harder as well, when they ask me something, I automatically say the parts I’m not sure about quitter, so they ask me to repeat it numerous times. And even when someone starts a conversation with me for some reason, I keep my answers short and clear, not to mess up, but the conversation ends up being awkward. Studying is also hard, and I go to school even when I’m sick because I know that if I’m not in school I have no one to ask for the homework. I’m unable to start a conversation, but I get all happy when someone remembers my name, and asks for a pen. Then I get depressed, over being happy about such a thing. Not to mention when the teacher says “now let’s work in pairs”.
Anyway, I’m happy she has such supportive people around her. I hope she gains the courage to speak more often.
her mum is very understanding sniff gud mother and daughter :')
it hurt my heart when she tried to talk but got choked up. i’ve been called antisocial so many times :(
Yeongja’s Shin Chan, loved that. Poor child, I just want this little girl to come out of her shell. So adorable.
I can relate to her alot. I only really talk to people im close with or know how I am.
Selective mutism, there’s a lot more research coming out about it. Both my mom and I had it like this as kids, very much based in anxiety in one form or another. She can definitely overcome this
That's why parents should always be extra cautious when transferring their child from 1 school to another let alone from a small school to a larger one. If they're not careful children would suffer from culture shock just by going from another place meeting diverse kids having to cope with a new system etc. Its good that they went to seek advice from child specialist to solve this. One thing that the school she transferred should be aware of her condition and the parents should also consult the school regarding their child's concern.
Lmaoooo the pooopy hands at the end had me rolling 😂😂😂
i used to be exactly like this in elementary, but i was happy cause my classmates always had my back and help me especially during lunch when we had to tell the school lady our name and the person behind me would help me and tell her my name.
It's completely fine they just need to be patient. I've gained confidence in speaking in class when I'm at 9th grade so she will learn too in time.
And idk why but i'm touched when she finally smiled at 12:14