Celebrating 1st year anniversary and Fathers day without Ivory

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • Ivory passed away on the 2nd of may 2023. Celebrating fathers day and our first year anniversary with the kids. Also had a funeral on Saturday. In this video i'm sharing the weekend and some pics and videos of us in the zoo.
    #fathersday #cancer #mourning #lungcancer #death #grieve #anniversary

Komentáře • 109

  • @dharobed3329
    @dharobed3329 Před rokem +1

    Tom, sure soulds like the children are very thoughtful, your Father's day gifts are from their heart! Both Zuri and Ciro are beautiful they resemble Ivory 😍. Wishing a happy belated Fathers day and Anniversary, heavenly Anniversary Ivory 🕊, you are missed ❤️‍🩹! Lovely family day at the Zoo 💟. Tom, go easy on yourself, Life is a new adjustment for the 3 of you. A couple more weeks then family togetherness for the 3 of you 💖 summer holiday. Take care and Thank you for continuing to share your thoughts & feelings 🙏🏽 ✝️

  • @cecilavi282
    @cecilavi282 Před rokem +6

    You deserve to be spoil because you are a great father like you where a great husband for Ivory
    ❤ From Belgium for the kids and you
    Thank you for the update

  • @twinklenow1
    @twinklenow1 Před rokem +3

    You and Ivory were good together. Your a good man. A big heart. A dad to be loved forever and appreciated by your son and daughter.

  • @cristinap7133
    @cristinap7133 Před rokem +3

    Cute gifts for fathers day 😊

  • @QueenPaulaBanks
    @QueenPaulaBanks Před rokem +4

    Happy belated Fathers Day. Without your pretty Ivory. May your days get better. As time goes on. God bless you and your family.❤

  • @luzziann1524
    @luzziann1524 Před rokem +3

    Dont worry not to be produktiv, you are, just doing different things on your own now.good to see you and the kids had a nice Daddy's day and your anniversery went better than you expected .Step by Step, Tom. A big hug from Germany

  • @cainsmomma
    @cainsmomma Před rokem +2

    Ivory would be so happy to see her family still living life!! It is good to stay busy and keep living your lives. Zuri is such a good big sister!!! 🥰 Keep living life and loving each other!!!

  • @kerimedina6103
    @kerimedina6103 Před rokem +1

    I'm so sorry. I know Ivory is watching you all from heaven with a smile. You are doing a great job taking care of the kids. Hope you have a good week, too.

  • @BelaScorpio08
    @BelaScorpio08 Před rokem +4

    Tom ik wens je veel kracht , je bent een geweldige vader voor jullie mooie kinderen. Geweldig hoe je het doet in deze verschrikkelijk moeilijke tijden. Tom, gozert je doet het juiste….. jou wens ik ontzettend veel kracht , fijne zomervakantie.

  • @taffycat93
    @taffycat93 Před rokem +1

    I'm so glad these posts are still up. I only happened upon them after Ivory had passed, but she continues to provide comfort and guidance for the rest of us. 💕

  • @Kittensinurface
    @Kittensinurface Před rokem +3

    My cousin is 44, and dying of stage 4 lung cancer. I pray her husband and two teen daughters will be as strong and loving as you. God bless

    • @hotmessexpress7056
      @hotmessexpress7056 Před rokem

      That's so young? Was she a long time smoker?

    • @Andrea-ue7gv
      @Andrea-ue7gv Před 9 měsíci

      @@hotmessexpress7056you know non smoking lung cancer exists, right? It caused by gene mutations

  • @barbaraanderson8391
    @barbaraanderson8391 Před rokem +4

    Hi Tom! Thank you for your updates! Am glad the more difficult week or so is behind you, even though dreading ahead of time is also hard to deal with. You look good, only perhaps a little tired and why wouldn’t you be. I believe you are a strong person and will handle things better and better! Be patient and caring with yourself, don’t assume everything is fine. Pay attention, assess and reassess, take time to breathe and to enjoy life again! I am calling you, Suri, and Caio The Three Musketeers, “all for one and one for all”!! I’m happy none of you are alone and without love. A very nice Father’s Day! The zoo’s playground was very nicely designed with a water feature even! Who do you have for support for yourself, Tom? Family nearby? Good friends? Please don’t neglect yourself or become isolated while being busy all the time! Glad you are enjoying good weather which always makes days better. We do miss Ivory, her voice, her smile, her very presence but we feel joy that comes from knowing she feels no pain anymore and that there was enough time to make extra memories and to plan ahead for the goodbye. God’s mercy and blessing mixed with the sadness. Look forward to the plans you are making with and for the children and for yourself as well! And we will look forward to your next update! Till then, take good care! ❤🙏🏻😊

  • @michelles9897
    @michelles9897 Před rokem +6

    🤍🤍🤍 a good belated father's day to you Tom.
    ps I love the car drawing and what nice gifts from them both.
    thinking of ivory always and everyday to inspire my day.

  • @Legittoquit1
    @Legittoquit1 Před rokem +1

    Surrey is so lovey and patient . Your doing good adorable

  • @shanhiebner6476
    @shanhiebner6476 Před rokem +6

    Beautiful family!!!! Angel Mommy always with you guys, glad you had a Blessed Father's Day🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @marcK599.
    @marcK599. Před rokem +2

    Great to see the family enjoying themselves and happy Father’s Day ❤

  • @lisafiorilli155
    @lisafiorilli155 Před rokem +7

    Tom, I’m so glad to hear that you and the kids had a good day at the zoo .. especially because it was both your and Ivory’s first anniversary and Father’s Day .. I lost my husband six months ago to cancer also .. grieving is such a mixture of emotions but I do believe our loved ones are still with us and watching over us 🙏🏼❤️

  • @mariavalverdeboutilier7370

    Sending you hugs and Happy Father's Day.

    One day at a time.

  • @annerusso8835
    @annerusso8835 Před rokem +8

    Hi Tom, glad you had a good Father's Day. So glad the children had a good time at the zoo, they look happy too. Takes a little time to get used to the daily routine, but soon school will be out and then the summer routine begins. You'll get the hang of it before you know it. Enjoy your day and good seeing you.

  • @Paola11852
    @Paola11852 Před rokem +9

    Beautiful Children 🥰😀

  • @patriciamcclanahan3606
    @patriciamcclanahan3606 Před rokem +2

    Prayers for the peace of God the love of God will comfort you and your beautiful family thru Jesus Christ ❤

  • @connielahman5725
    @connielahman5725 Před rokem +1

    You are Awesome and such a comfort to those children. Happy Fathers Day

  • @mariasare4546
    @mariasare4546 Před rokem +1

    Thank you 🙏 so much.

  • @kimtongo3533
    @kimtongo3533 Před rokem +2

    Oh My Goodness, God bless you doing so much by yourself!!!! I am so happy you and the children are doing well!!! Happy Belated Father’s Day!!!! I know Ivory is in Heaven amazed that her channel has more than 10,000 subscribers!!!!!🙏✨🔆✨🙏🔆🔆🙏🙏

  • @Paola11852
    @Paola11852 Před rokem +3

    Hi Tom and children, lovely to see you , Was just thinking of you 👋🏻🫂❤️🙏🏻

  • @holliethomson6147
    @holliethomson6147 Před rokem +3

    Hi Tom, you are truly a wonderful father. I'm glad you were able to celebrate fathers day with your beautiful children. Their gifts to you were amazing ❤ you are all very strong and brave, Ivory would be so proud of you all every minute of everyday. I'm sending you all much love always xxx

  • @lilliearvizu9447
    @lilliearvizu9447 Před rokem +5

    Hi Tom! Glad to hear from you. You have a good friend, the gentleman that lost his wife, to share stories and feelings about both Ivory and his wife. You also have all of us as well. Love the videos of the trip to the zoo. Looks like you all had fun. Also the nice and thoughtful gifts for Father’s Day. Hope you had a nice time.
    Please keep us all in touch. Blessings to all of you. 🙏🏻🥰🥰🥰

  • @saraquezada8394
    @saraquezada8394 Před rokem +4

    Hi Tom
    May God keep giving you the strength for the sake of those beautiful children and of course for your self too .
    Happy be late Father’s Day
    You are a great Dad 🎉

  • @Ann65.
    @Ann65. Před rokem +2

    I'm glad that your children have such a strong and loving father. Ivory is watching over you. ❤

  • @debbiewright-xp9el
    @debbiewright-xp9el Před rokem +2

    Beautiful family ❤

  • @miriamm5330
    @miriamm5330 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful family. Watching from Houston TX.

  • @ericelda4098
    @ericelda4098 Před rokem +1

    Glad you all are doing okay. Blessing for you and your family. Rip Ivory 🕊️

  • @deniseweavinghannah
    @deniseweavinghannah Před rokem +4

    Keep going poppa. You are being there and showing up and connecting and healing your hearts together.

  • @bethyoung3654
    @bethyoung3654 Před rokem +3

    Tom, your kids are so cute. Thank you for continuing to share your life with us. I'm so glad you're having happy moments.

  • @dawnbaker7861
    @dawnbaker7861 Před rokem +1

    Glad you had a good father's day. The first without your loved one is always the hardest. Hang in there.

  • @cynthiaholland13
    @cynthiaholland13 Před rokem

    Great memories for Father's Day!

  • @marydejesus1912
    @marydejesus1912 Před rokem +3

    I hope you had a good Father’s Day I know it must’ve hard , first year without your ivory . I’m so sorry I text you on ivory’s gmail wishing you a happy Father’s Day I hope you got it. My love to you & your lovely family. Blessings to you all ❤

  • @everythingjen1
    @everythingjen1 Před rokem +2

    I'm ao happy to hear things are getting better, I know Ivory is watching over you all & is so proud! 💕

  • @terrymoorefield5918
    @terrymoorefield5918 Před rokem +4

    Ivory would be so proud of you and the kids. Give yourself time, Tom. All of you seem to be coping well. Love and light from NC, USA

  • @elliemay-y4l
    @elliemay-y4l Před rokem +4

    It's wonderful to hear and see that y'all have had a good start to this summer and that you had a good father's day despite having to celebrate your anniversary without Ivory.

  • @robynholliday4794
    @robynholliday4794 Před rokem +1

    I enjoyed your video - your kids are beautiful.

  • @BelaScorpio08
    @BelaScorpio08 Před rokem +2

    Zuri, je bent een ontzettende mooie jonge dame! Geniet van je vakantie ! En ik wens je het allerbeste op school❤

  • @glenndonuzarraga8761
    @glenndonuzarraga8761 Před rokem +1

    Oh thats really good to her that younger bro called her ATE Zuri....

  • @dorteandersen526
    @dorteandersen526 Před rokem +2

    Hi Tom😊thanks for sharing your video ❤cocktail is a great drink 🥤 looking forward to following your you in the next video 😊

  • @pinfrench4358
    @pinfrench4358 Před rokem +1

    Happy Father's Day

  • @cherrymetha3185
    @cherrymetha3185 Před rokem +3

    What an amazing father you are ! 🥰Happy Belated Fathers Day 🎉✨💖✨💚✨

  • @litabuenaflor2282
    @litabuenaflor2282 Před rokem +1

    Brother loves Ate. Likewise Ate loves brother ❤

  • @diannaf.2919
    @diannaf.2919 Před rokem +1

    God bless you all. ❤

  • @Barbara-ch3qf
    @Barbara-ch3qf Před rokem +1

    Hope you and the children are doing well!

  • @Butterflies-are-free
    @Butterflies-are-free Před rokem +1

    💕 I’m so so sorry for your great loss 💕

  • @kathymohsin5867
    @kathymohsin5867 Před rokem +2

    Ton que me comtenta que ayan pasado un día agradable los niños se en contentos y usted también .uchas bendiciones

  • @AuntDi2
    @AuntDi2 Před rokem +1

    Happy Father’s Day Tom!

  • @rowenacruz5279
    @rowenacruz5279 Před rokem +1

    Take it one day at the time and be strong 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @MOMMYchel103
    @MOMMYchel103 Před rokem +1

    Im glad that you three is doing better after ivory left in this world 🌎 may rest in peace ivory i sure do miss hearing your voice

  • @UPDT8243
    @UPDT8243 Před rokem +2

    Tom, I am glad that you all spend time together as a family.
    Take a day at a time, your kids are beautiful!!
    A big hug to you from Texas!

  • @tessk7950
    @tessk7950 Před rokem +1

    God bless you guys!!!

  • @lynneormond2223
    @lynneormond2223 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for update looks like you had fun on father's day take care

  • @marthainsalaco9266
    @marthainsalaco9266 Před rokem +2

    Hello Tom ,I’m so glad that you had a good Fathers Day 👍It is hard at first losing someone,But over time it will get a little easier for you and your family ❤ Your children are beautiful ⭐️💕Stay well and stay focus

  • @Ceek2353
    @Ceek2353 Před rokem

    Good recovery. Nice to see you are slowly getting back in the groove. The kids are adjusting well we can see. We wish you more better days as you travel through your own journey without Ivy.
    I lost both my first wife and just recently my fiancee, to this scourge, cancer. I pray they finally find a cure.

  • @yumyum7080
    @yumyum7080 Před rokem +1

    I hope you and the kids are doing well❤

  • @devina1100
    @devina1100 Před rokem +2

    Sounds like things are somewhat up in the air yet but they will settle down.
    All of this is completely normal and you're doing amazing.
    Your children are so sweet and the love and care you share is a beautiful thing.
    I'm sure Ivory is smiling on you guys and would be so proud.
    God speed and God bless 💞

  • @raquelochoa5468
    @raquelochoa5468 Před rokem +1

    Happy late father's day

  • @elisabetta742
    @elisabetta742 Před rokem +1

    Hi Tom, give us some updates. Hugs from Italy. ❤

  • @citacustodio549
    @citacustodio549 Před rokem +1

    Hello Tom happy Father's day and more blessed years to come. It's beautiful seeing you all getting better from your lost ❤️. It takes time to heal the wounds but eventually it will. God has the purpose of everything ❤️🙏. God bless you and your kids as well. From: Dan Diego, California USA

  • @CELESTINA_23
    @CELESTINA_23 Před rokem +2

    💙 nice to see you had a good Father's Day 💙

  • @caroldocherty5665
    @caroldocherty5665 Před rokem +1

    Hi, just to let you know I'm thinking about you all, what a beautiful family you are. Sending love to you all xxx 🌞

  • @titcris2512
    @titcris2512 Před rokem +1

    Happy father's day

  • @oscheayates6086
    @oscheayates6086 Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @raymarriss2440
    @raymarriss2440 Před rokem +1

    Hope your ok Tom and kids...❤

  • @mwilson3076
    @mwilson3076 Před rokem +2

    I'm so proud of you all. Mrs. Ivory would be so proud of you all

  • @susanterblanche1809
    @susanterblanche1809 Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @twinklenow1
    @twinklenow1 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing your feelings with us.

  • @teresa3221
    @teresa3221 Před rokem +1

    Stay strong Tom glad you had a lovely Fathers Day with your beautiful children it will be hard but it will get easier as you learn a routine great weather here in UK too

  • @Trish-np6gn
    @Trish-np6gn Před rokem

    Been thinking about you and the kids. Hoping you’re doing well. Thanks for posting an update. Happy Father’s Day

  • @Clara-wo1hg
    @Clara-wo1hg Před rokem +2

    How lovely the children have got each other and you. Your grieving and still having to contend with day life it's not easy but trust me your doing so so well. I'm thinking of you all ❤️

    • @dcher3868
      @dcher3868 Před rokem +2

      You’re = you are

    • @denise0223
      @denise0223 Před rokem

      @@dcher3868Very disappointing and unnecessary comment! 😔

    • @dcher3868
      @dcher3868 Před rokem

      @@denise0223 not for those of us who are literate. It’s really not a difficult concept.

  • @nellyzen1096
    @nellyzen1096 Před rokem +2

    So glad you guys had a good day! Sending you all virtual hugs. I love seeing updates from your family.

  • @brendainny
    @brendainny Před rokem +1

    Happy Father’s day

  • @jrman413
    @jrman413 Před rokem +1

    I'm sorry for your loss, I lost my dad to cancer ❤️

  • @lifeonwheels5756
    @lifeonwheels5756 Před rokem

    Tom I’m so glad to see you holding up..

  • @nancisailormoy9135
    @nancisailormoy9135 Před rokem +1

    I’m glad you are all doing better and it sounds like the kids went all out for you for Father’s Day. Blessings and I hope that you will all have a wonderful summer

  • @elizabethharris8158
    @elizabethharris8158 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for the update. Glad to see all of you guys coping, and smiling again.
    God bless

  • @ShopableKenya
    @ShopableKenya Před rokem +1

    It's great to see you all having a good time, baby steps and praying for strength for your family. He (God) gives power to the weak and those who have no strength he increases. All the best!

  • @arleneparra5834
    @arleneparra5834 Před rokem +2

    Happy Father's day 💙

  • @kasssss1
    @kasssss1 Před rokem +1

    Love and prayers to you all.

  • @ogdocvato
    @ogdocvato Před rokem +2

    ❤️🙏

  • @moulahrouge8025
    @moulahrouge8025 Před rokem +1

    I hope you are all doing well❤

  • @Ehuertas0725
    @Ehuertas0725 Před rokem +1

    Hey come visit the US we can go to the zoo out here I love too go-zoo myself 🙏

  • @raymarriss2440
    @raymarriss2440 Před rokem +1

    Hi Tom hope all is going well....

  • @jackiejoy1852
    @jackiejoy1852 Před rokem

    ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @barbaracasta5579
    @barbaracasta5579 Před rokem +1

    That first funeral after your loved one’s is really tough.

  • @shirishnigam6528
    @shirishnigam6528 Před rokem +2

    Is it possible to miss someone badly you have never met......yes

  • @jackiejoy1852
    @jackiejoy1852 Před rokem

    The zoo is very pretty

  • @kandastrike
    @kandastrike Před rokem +1

    Hey man, sorry if this is off topic, but what do you think about the Dutch farmers’ plight right now in your country? As a Canadian, I’m curious to know, because my government has set in place plans to similarly reduce nitrogen in Canada’s agricultural production in a year or so - and if your own farmers’ experience is any lesson, I am worried for my country. Thank you and may you find peace in your life.

  • @Ehuertas0725
    @Ehuertas0725 Před rokem

    The POG FAMILY are going thru it right now maybe you can share your inputs..

  • @bonifaciobonifacia8679
    @bonifaciobonifacia8679 Před rokem +1

    You look not so good, grieving, I know, but have to look for yourself. Still enough time to start anew.

  • @betseyterry844
    @betseyterry844 Před rokem +3

    Your wife has passed. Stop using her channel to continue to make money.

  • @becibabe7364
    @becibabe7364 Před rokem

    She was a selfish waste of space Ivory

  • @kalkiahmad2230
    @kalkiahmad2230 Před rokem

    Can I have yr email address. I want to send yu a description of a successful treatmentt

  • @XXXSHARONOXXX
    @XXXSHARONOXXX Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤❤