Receiving ashes of my wife after cremation

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • Ivory passed away 2nd of may and the cremation took place on the 9th of may. We received the ashes on the 13th of June. Also sharing some other things that will take place this week.
    For people who want to share their story of dealing with cancer or share a tribute of someone you love I have created another channel to give you a voice. If you are interested in sharing your story please send an email to sharingcancerstories@gmail.com or ivorysdiary@gmail.com . For people who would like to support those who are sharing their story please subscribe to this new channel: • Introduction to Sharin...
    #cancer #lungcancer #death #grieving

Komentáře • 94

  • @TakeTheRide
    @TakeTheRide Před rokem +51

    Put her heart necklace on 2 chains, so if one breaks she doesn't lose it. Happy anniversary. Love is eternal. Energy changes, it never dies. You'll see her again.

  • @suzieb415
    @suzieb415 Před rokem +2

    I just lost my husband 4 weeks ago to stage 4 cancer. He passed away while I was at work and feel horrible that he passed alone. I received his ashes last week at his service. I admire you for your strength and endurance. I came across your videos while Ivory was still here on earth and know exactly what you feel now. Ivory is so lucky to have you. She is still with you. I cant wait to see my husband again in heaven. ❤🙏

  • @yvonnepetty3400
    @yvonnepetty3400 Před rokem +2

    Bless you. Mother Brother & Sister. Can you imagine. Stay strong. We have just lost our only Son. 😢

  • @WHODAFAQISELI
    @WHODAFAQISELI Před rokem +23

    I lost my dad from lung cancer in 2006. Until now, we can't get through it. I miss him alot😢

    • @bw7839
      @bw7839 Před rokem +3

      We never get over losing a loved one. We just get through it best we can one day at a time. 😢

    • @Cissi2009
      @Cissi2009 Před rokem +3

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad to lung cancer in 2000. I don’t think we ever stop missing them.

    • @marciojjj
      @marciojjj Před 9 měsíci

      😢

  • @nancisailormoy9135
    @nancisailormoy9135 Před rokem +25

    The necklace is a great idea for Zuri. I know how hard it is getting ashes back but I am glad you have her back before your anniversary. Prayers of peace to you all. Jenny Apple has a very similar cancer to Ivory’s and she is in the hospital and suffering terribly any would like to ask for prayers for her.

  • @Cissi2009
    @Cissi2009 Před rokem +13

    The heart necklace is a great idea for Zuri. I have one with my moms ashes I wear it everyday ❤

  • @lnewbury1
    @lnewbury1 Před rokem +5

    Ivory’s urn is so beautiful….just like she was! I’m so grateful your daughter has her ashes in a necklace. I’m sure she will treasure it forever.

  • @katiadelrieu5621
    @katiadelrieu5621 Před rokem +4

    Ivory lives on in your beautiful children❤

  • @nrlefebvre
    @nrlefebvre Před rokem +7

    I cannot believe how positive you have been after such a crushing, and recent, loss. Kyle and Zuri are SO lucky to have you keeping the family unit together and I know they give you purpose. God bless!

  • @silondon9010
    @silondon9010 Před rokem +3

    Lovely to have her wonderful mothers ashes in a necklace

  • @annaclaire9927
    @annaclaire9927 Před rokem

    Bless you. Have a happy Father's Day with your children ❤❤❤❤ Ivory will always be in your hearts

  • @lydian5762
    @lydian5762 Před rokem +1

    Oh no, I actually came back to check on her. she is the only one I was watching giving me hope about the whole journey and I have been telling people around me that I found someone with succesful targeted therapy... I really hate this. I am sorry for your loss.

  • @heidiescobedo2870
    @heidiescobedo2870 Před rokem +2

    The heart necklace for Zuri with some of Ivory’s ashes is very thoughtful of you. I’m sure she will cherish it. You’ll have to think of something for your son as well. Maybe the same necklace. Keep it for him until he gets older. Perhaps one for yourself as well & it will be something you all have to cherish Ivory & to carry her with you always. You are a great dad & husband. Thinking of you as your anniversary draws near. Continued prayers for you all🙏🏻

  • @OfeliaTacderan-ob6xg
    @OfeliaTacderan-ob6xg Před rokem +10

    Nice to hear from you, take care and praying for everyone's good health

  • @cherrymetha3185
    @cherrymetha3185 Před rokem +2

    It’s so nice what Ivory said to the kids about being in their hearts. A heart necklace is a lovely gesture for Suri .
    It will be very tough to attend friend’s wife’s funeral . If you talk to your friend beforehand and say how upsetting it is for you to attend , I’m sure he will understand if you don’t attend . It’s after the funeral that’s very hard as everyone goes home and lives their own lives (which is understandable) . That’s when he’ll need the support the most and you can be there for him then . ❤️

  • @raymarriss2440
    @raymarriss2440 Před rokem +6

    You deserve to have a great Father's Day! God bless you!

  • @Leannturrubiates
    @Leannturrubiates Před rokem +4

    Lots of love and air hugs from Corpus christi Texas sending tons of prays 🙏

  • @applejellypucci
    @applejellypucci Před 11 měsíci +1

    Most beautiful urn I've ever seen.

  • @claudinecocks
    @claudinecocks Před rokem +2

    He look so happy prayers are UP for you all whatching from France 🇨🇵🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💐💐💐💐

  • @kimtongo3533
    @kimtongo3533 Před rokem +7

    Thanks so so so much for updating us!!!!! I am so glad you all have Ivory’s ashes!!!!! Happy Happy Pre Father’s Day!!!!! You really are a wonderful Father!!!! Have a blessed rest of the week!!!!!!🙏✨🔆✨🙏🙏

  • @marcK599.
    @marcK599. Před rokem +6

    Glad you could enjoy a beautiful day outside❤

  • @TakeTheRide
    @TakeTheRide Před rokem +13

    My fiance died before our wedding, from surgery complications. I had my last name legally changed to his, in court, in honor of our wedding day. I do wear my ring still. I have occasionally put my ring on 2 chains for safety, around my neck. True Love last forever.

    • @user-ok3df7uy5t
      @user-ok3df7uy5t Před rokem

      Can you share your sad story on the Ivory channel?. Which her husband want to open? These will be good memories of your affections, of your love. But also sad memories, but it will be a memory of you and your fiancé, talk to his parents, can they agree? and you'll tell your sad story

  • @cainsmomma
    @cainsmomma Před rokem +5

    Loved the clip of him on his bike! He is so fast!! Maybe you and your friend who just lost his spouse can be there for each other. Happy Fathers Day! Happy anniversary!!
    I love the new channel idea! Ivory was such an inspiration!! I subbed to your new channel. I will share my moms story very soon!!!! Your family is a breath of fresh air air!! 🤍🤍🤍

  • @-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-...

    I just had the vid "EGFR Lung Cancer Stage 4: No treatment only Tagrisso w/ predicted weeks left to live" recommended to me and seeing this vid crushed me. I'm so sorry for your loss

  • @ellengo9510
    @ellengo9510 Před rokem +4

    Glad to see you every so often
    It is like still keeping in touch with some one you know and care about..so comforting

  • @jc-246
    @jc-246 Před rokem +2

    Welocme back. What a lovely place you guys live in. I hope his sickness is nothing serious 🙏
    What a lovely gesture the necklace will be. She is in the ❤heart. Love is eternal.

  • @jackiejoy1852
    @jackiejoy1852 Před rokem +1

    You are doing great for these two angels ivory would be so proud happy of this and she is always with you all your sweet Angel from heaven 💕💕🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻😊😊🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @CindyKinney
    @CindyKinney Před rokem +3

    Ivory's urn is absolutely stunning. I will keep you in my heart on Father's Day. Stay strong, breathe through the tough times, and take it one day at a time.

  • @susanterblanche1809
    @susanterblanche1809 Před rokem

    Thank you very much for sharing. Much love and light.❤❤❤

  • @Ceek2353
    @Ceek2353 Před rokem

    May Ivy Rest In Peace with the Lord!

  • @marthainsalaco9266
    @marthainsalaco9266 Před rokem +1

    The necklace is a beautiful idea for Zuri to wear close to her Heart ♥️ Many blessing to you and your family 🫶🙏Trust in God you will get through this 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @josephrapp
    @josephrapp Před rokem +1

    This touched me so deeply. Your love for Ivory shines. Good to hear children are managing as best as able;it is tough. I remember the day I got my baby cat's ashes.Overwhelmed with grief that day. In fact, I have not been able to open. I wish you peace and strength. I play "Home" which she chose to be played. It gives me,as it did Ivory,comfort. Thank you for your posts.

  • @janisdeitsch2985
    @janisdeitsch2985 Před rokem +4

    Sending the biggest hugs to you and the kids from the UK. I have been thinking of you all. X

  • @verashular3116
    @verashular3116 Před rokem +2

    So sorry for your family's loss.

  • @jayndough68
    @jayndough68 Před rokem +3

    Thanks so much for the update. Praying for all of you and love to hear what you and the kids are up to.
    I’m sure Ivory is smiling down on all of you. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @tonythetiger4015
    @tonythetiger4015 Před rokem +1

    Happy Anniversary Tom and our beloved Ivory... Thank you Tom for still sharing your journey of moving forward. Wishing you a smoother transition for yourself, the kids and all your daily routines that will be needing some extra strength to overcome everything. Also wishing you good health always so you would have quality time for your parents, siblings as well. Take care always... Bless your heart.

  • @amethyssimplelivinginphi

    Happy Anniversary 💐. Happy to know you, and the kids are coping well and starting a new leaf 🌱.
    God bless everyone out there 🙏🏽

  • @teresa3221
    @teresa3221 Před rokem +1

    So sad for you I had my husbands ashes put in a necklace so I’m sure your daughter will get comfort from it take care stay safe

  • @ugplayz7503
    @ugplayz7503 Před rokem +1

    I really feel for you and your children you are amazing dad keep strong

  • @zipporahakbar
    @zipporahakbar Před rokem

    The Spirit Lives🙏 Only the Flesh is gone. 🌹

  • @miriamm5330
    @miriamm5330 Před rokem

    Take care Sir and to your kiddos.Watching from Houston TX

  • @lilliearvizu9447
    @lilliearvizu9447 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for the update Tom. I wish you a nice Father’s Day with your daughter and son and happy and wonderful memories on your and Ivory’s first Wedding Anniversary. Many blessings to all. 🙏🏻💞💞💞💞

  • @lydiabarnhart5449
    @lydiabarnhart5449 Před rokem +1

    Sending ❤️🙏 continue to be strong for you and your children❤️ Thank you for loving her and keeping her memories alive ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏Ps. Check you 1st video after her passing I saw a "white silhouette passed by" I front of you, thinking "she's letting you know " that she was with you and your children always❤️ Just saying because, I saw it✌️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @chanteldaley5074
    @chanteldaley5074 Před rokem

    ❤Thank You so much for this channel. Please continue to make post's. It just seems there is no where for cancer victims to go for support.

  • @morganprecious51
    @morganprecious51 Před rokem +5

    Happy you guys are doing well.

  • @sylwiax793
    @sylwiax793 Před rokem

    thank you❤

  • @trixiteresa9887
    @trixiteresa9887 Před rokem

    Your doing ok sending ❤ to you all🇬🇧🌻💝

  • @carolcollins-sp2yf
    @carolcollins-sp2yf Před rokem +1

    Respect to you all

  • @karinasanchez3285
    @karinasanchez3285 Před rokem +3

    💛💛💛 lots of love to you and family … thank you for keeping us informed 🙏

  • @josianejojo2605
    @josianejojo2605 Před rokem

    God bless ur family

  • @dharobed3329
    @dharobed3329 Před rokem +1

    Happy you shared current thoughts 💟. It's very special Zuri will have a beautiful necklace to cherish of memories of her mother 💝! Over time Ciro will adjust, he is young and it's never easy loosing a Mother 💔 😢! Happy Anniversary ❤️‍🩹 🌹. Happy Father's day, Tom 💛! What ever the 3 of you do, have a wonderful time of togetherness 💜

  • @holliethomson6147
    @holliethomson6147 Před rokem

    Bless your hearts ❤ you are all doing amazing. Beautiful Ivory is still with you everywhere you are. True love is forever. Im sending you all much love and prayers always ❤️🙏xxx

  • @Tenny9525
    @Tenny9525 Před rokem +3

    Love you guys and always praying for you guys🙏

  • @melvinfinsterwald2989

    Sending my 💝 love to you and your kids.

  • @omarjenlopez4081
    @omarjenlopez4081 Před rokem +1

    Continued prayers for you and the family. Thank you for updating us even during this difficult time and grieving.

  • @stormfaith
    @stormfaith Před rokem +1

    So nice to see and hear your family’s progress. God bless!🙏🏽❤️

  • @blissbliss3531
    @blissbliss3531 Před rokem

    wow, I just discovered your page! how generous of you to offer such support! greetings from Florida...watching and offering you thumbs up, perhaps it helps!

  • @marydejesus1912
    @marydejesus1912 Před rokem +3

    Hi Tom, Glad to hear from you prayers your lil guy Kyle gets better soon. Always in my prayers I know how hard it can be, it breaks my heart you & your children are going though this pain . Ivory will always be by their side I know from experience , Now it’s time to start beautiful memories I love to watch your older videos when your beautiful wife wasn’t looking sick , was happy & you all went away to her country . So I’m glad those precious videos are still there I know it’s hard so continue prayers for you & your family . Tell your Zuri & Kyle hello from us all ❤ Thank you for always thinking about us, especially families going though the horrible pain of having a sick family member or good friend. You’re a blessing 🙏🏼

  • @dianareveron4576
    @dianareveron4576 Před rokem

    Tom, Happy Fathers Day!!!! D.🇵🇷☕

  • @lindav3455
    @lindav3455 Před rokem

    Hi Tom, I'm glad you have her home with her family. I would also like to wish you a very happy Fathers Day in advance. 🙏🙏💙💙🤗🤗

  • @SP4RAPTURE
    @SP4RAPTURE Před rokem

    I pray that you all get through Father's Day with not much sadness.
    My mom passed in 2022 , so dad and I have sadness for every holiday now, it's not the same, we will see mom again though, I plant a flower, or rose bush every holiday for mom, and I'm wearing a silver heart on a chain, that my mom wore, we might go to mom's grave on Fathers' Day, not sure yet, but I think we might. God bless you all. ❤ love always.. xxxx

  • @CorgiMom007
    @CorgiMom007 Před rokem

    Happy Anniversary. I'm sure she's around in spirit. Remember to feel the emotions on your anniversary. I wish there was something I could say or do to help you and your family. Please know your in our prayers. 😊😊❤😂

  • @Ehuertas0725
    @Ehuertas0725 Před rokem +1

    Lots of prayer for you & kids❤️

  • @MrsATX
    @MrsATX Před rokem +2

    Heartfelt condolences to you and your friend. Hopefully the two of you can share in the journey of moving forward together- love and support. ❤

  • @superd96
    @superd96 Před rokem +1

    Lots of love to you and your family!

  • @teresa3221
    @teresa3221 Před rokem

    Perhaps you and your friend can comfort each other it’s going to be tough and I’m so sorry for your family Ivory was a beautiful lady who was taken too soon hugs to you Tom try to stay strong from UK

  • @Clara-wo1hg
    @Clara-wo1hg Před rokem

    Hello Tom I hope you know how well your doing I know how hard it is it's a rollercoaster one minute your okish the next your not. Ivory was a lovely human being and I can see why she chose you. Best wishes to you and the children 💝

  • @kathymohsin5867
    @kathymohsin5867 Před rokem +1

    Muchas oraciones para usted y los niños y que pases un bonito día del padre

  • @dianareveron4576
    @dianareveron4576 Před rokem

    Take care, keep the good work for your Kids!, praying for you. Diana from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷🙏🙏💕

  • @claudinecocks
    @claudinecocks Před rokem +1

    Sendding hugs i Lost my dad and nephew to Bone and blood cancer dad 2013nephew 2015 💔💔🙏

  • @elizabethmcdougall4282

    Praying for you and your family

  • @jackiejoy1852
    @jackiejoy1852 Před rokem

    Prayers to your friend also 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @cristinap7133
    @cristinap7133 Před rokem

    🙏

  • @ellencantos6931
    @ellencantos6931 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mwilson3076
    @mwilson3076 Před rokem

    So proud of y'all.. stay strong 💪

  • @rosejacobs8529
    @rosejacobs8529 Před rokem +1

    The boy needs a helmet while riding that bike.😊

  • @dorteandersen526
    @dorteandersen526 Před rokem

    Looks Forward to seeing your new channel 😊

  • @proudlakerfan
    @proudlakerfan Před rokem +1

    Please get a bike helmet for Kyle and make him wear it.

  • @jackiejoy1852
    @jackiejoy1852 Před rokem

    💕🙏🙏🙏🥰

  • @elsiechu7286
    @elsiechu7286 Před rokem

    You lived in Netherlands?

  • @henriettagoldsmith5056

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @hunter5369
    @hunter5369 Před rokem

    Did your wife have a brother named Zaldy?

  • @AuntDi2
    @AuntDi2 Před rokem

    I lost my aunt who was my best friend also. She passed away May 28, 2010. I was with her when she passed and when I came home, my house had been robbed. Worst day of my life. I am in the US and that weekend kicks off summer with Memorial Day. Now, it’s awful for me. I have literally cried a river over losing her. Bless you and the kids 💞❤️‍🩹💔💞❤️‍🩹💔 It is so incredibly difficult. She also had lung cancer. I actually was with her when she became extremely ill and ended up hospitalized that day. After many tests came the diagnosis.

  • @annaclaire9927
    @annaclaire9927 Před rokem

    Bless you. Have a happy Father's Day with your children ❤❤❤❤ Ivory will always be in your hearts

  • @chanteldaley5074
    @chanteldaley5074 Před rokem

    ❤Thank You so much for this channel. Please continue to make post's. It just seems there is no where for cancer victims to go for support.

  • @XXXSHARONOXXX
    @XXXSHARONOXXX Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤