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  • Earn Your Blessings speech: Brendon Burchard recounts how a tragic heartbreak and a near-death experience led him to discover the 3 most important questions you can ask yourself.
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  • @goalcast
    @goalcast  Před 6 lety +250

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  • @bruhmoment1196
    @bruhmoment1196 Před 6 lety +2908

    He was looking at the moon and smiling while his friend is dying... 10/10

  • @oddvids6803
    @oddvids6803 Před 6 lety +5155

    Damn it man its 2 am and im trying to sleep and you pop up motivating me and stuff.

    • @thegoatpear4209
      @thegoatpear4209 Před 5 lety +13

      odd VIDS hahahahaha it’s 1 am rn

    • @veddi6674
      @veddi6674 Před 5 lety +6

      Right x) 00 : 59 here

    • @NBeaver-bx4yl
      @NBeaver-bx4yl Před 5 lety +8

      Haha fking same shit 😂😂😂😂

    • @bee37900
      @bee37900 Před 5 lety +14

      A one legged man wow you’re so cool ur such a night owl omg amazing wow oh yeah yeah

    • @kryptonics5667
      @kryptonics5667 Před 5 lety +2

      odd VIDS so when he got out of the car he just left his friend in the car screaming not a very good friend choosing a bright moon over a friends lige

  • @Ian-qh7le
    @Ian-qh7le Před 6 lety +2734

    A piece of my friend's head is gone, time to check out that moon.

  • @the_hanburger
    @the_hanburger Před 5 lety +730

    "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change"
    - Wayne Dyer

  • @balintivan5540
    @balintivan5540 Před 5 lety +1553

    Imagine that ur half head is ripped off, and your friend just achieved nirvana instead of calling the ambulance

  • @briantobias9212
    @briantobias9212 Před 6 lety +1576

    I love the emotion in Brendon's voice

  • @VikramSingh-qn9rl
    @VikramSingh-qn9rl Před 4 lety +870

    Friend : has head cut open and is bleeding in a car accident
    This guy : what a beautiful moon

  • @whendidyoutubeaddhandles
    @whendidyoutubeaddhandles Před 5 lety +462

    my dude was having an insightful moment while his friend was metres away, screaming with his head cracked open

  • @mayankjadhav
    @mayankjadhav Před 6 lety +364

    I like how all Goalcast videos start with the thumbnail. You get what you see, no bullshit. That's winning audience right there

  • @tatiyanalafaye
    @tatiyanalafaye Před 6 lety +1162

    “ I was a 19-year-old kid, and I was miserable” I clicked because I saw this because I am 19 and I am miserable. I feel like I'm doing everything I'm suppose to do but I'm lacking and I'm tired emotionally. I paused it in the qoute I hope this could give me an insight so here I go.

    • @zohashahid30984
      @zohashahid30984 Před 6 lety +9

      zealous I clicked too because of it

    • @tatiyanalafaye
      @tatiyanalafaye Před 6 lety +12

      Maheen Saleem words are so powerful. Some can bring this overwhelming feeling of happiness and others can show you your pain. So I'm glad I watched it because his words brought me pureness. It brought me knowledge I hope it helped you to.

    • @zohashahid30984
      @zohashahid30984 Před 6 lety +2

      zealous thanks

    • @briantobias9212
      @briantobias9212 Před 6 lety +34

      I learned that surrounding yourself with the right people is the solution to your problem!

    • @tatiyanalafaye
      @tatiyanalafaye Před 6 lety +2

      Brian Tobias that is also true if you have an eye for goodness. Lol but it's true

  • @Pewatito
    @Pewatito Před 4 lety +460

    I just turned 19 today, my FBI agent seems to care about me sometimes.

  • @HiddenShuriken
    @HiddenShuriken Před 6 lety +766

    Went from to sucidial teen to a motivated one full of hope.

    • @MZ-ez1nu
      @MZ-ez1nu Před 6 lety

      Hidden Shuriken exactly. You were a teen

    • @smarikamishra1769
      @smarikamishra1769 Před 5 lety

      Congo

    •  Před 5 lety +1

      Yeah right,yeah right

    • @tp5367
      @tp5367 Před 5 lety +1

      Same man...
      Books are a beautiful thing

    • @scatteredvideos1
      @scatteredvideos1 Před 5 lety +15

      Not suicidal, just depressed.

  • @imashthatsatotheshush5735
    @imashthatsatotheshush5735 Před 6 lety +4477

    Well... now even CZcams knows I'm 19 years old and I'm miserable
    *sed life*

    • @ee214verilogtutorial2
      @ee214verilogtutorial2 Před 6 lety +49

      I'm Ash , that's A to the Shush!
      I’m 19 too, college student. At that point of life you should study and plan for your future

    • @jimmoefoe1471
      @jimmoefoe1471 Před 6 lety +76

      Same man, I'm 19 too and a college dropout. I just can't figure out what do I do now!

    • @xacapone9463
      @xacapone9463 Před 6 lety +25

      i'm 19 too and i don't know what to do :)) whatever i sitll working and learning.

    • @InfiresTaekook
      @InfiresTaekook Před 6 lety +3

      Samee

    • @TheIJP123
      @TheIJP123 Před 6 lety +7

      Tru doe Army

  • @mr.peanutbutter5423
    @mr.peanutbutter5423 Před 4 lety +539

    Me: a miserable 19 year old kid
    him: i was a 19 year old kid, and i was miserable
    *im listening*

  • @biggbals4375
    @biggbals4375 Před 4 lety +624

    > His friend is dying
    > Gets distracted by how beautiful the moon is

  • @adnansaliq2696
    @adnansaliq2696 Před 6 lety +7305

    How many 19 yo are watching this?

  • @SaceedAbul
    @SaceedAbul Před 6 lety +2559

    Rule 1. Never put to much into others.

  • @imthrillz5255
    @imthrillz5255 Před 6 lety +902

    I am a 19yr old kid with the power of god and anime by my side

    • @erikkr.r.m7380
      @erikkr.r.m7380 Před 5 lety +8

      WTF

    • @janad996
      @janad996 Před 5 lety +4

      Vines haha

    • @TheSpiritedFendron
      @TheSpiritedFendron Před 5 lety +7

      @@moe7610 r/woooooosh

    • @somedude2492
      @somedude2492 Před 5 lety +3

      Does it feel good that you can do whatever you want because your family descendance will never continue?

    • @jorgomyrto
      @jorgomyrto Před 5 lety +1

      Im Thrillz if you are otaku and watch anime you gona lose your self bro
      find some friend and gf end work out and play some sport
      live the life dont focus only in anime
      i have experienc
      sorry for my english

  • @monkeyking3161
    @monkeyking3161 Před 4 lety +30

    I was 19 last year when I watched this ... it's been a year and all I can say is I'm doing better... MUCH better! Cheers 😊

  • @ontoniojones1527
    @ontoniojones1527 Před 6 lety +2889

    That girl is so SALTY rn for cheating on him cause he making millions 😂😂😂

    • @kappachan2129
      @kappachan2129 Před 6 lety +534

      VEc well that girl is the foundation of who he is today. He should be glad that she cheated on him. That brought him his wealth

    • @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335
      @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 Před 6 lety +40

      Kappa Chan she's a pos human.

    • @persimmonss
      @persimmonss Před 6 lety +35

      Maybe the dude is richer than this guy

    • @jimothyus
      @jimothyus Před 5 lety +150

      Kappa Chan hell no lol.she had nothing to do with him getting wealthy. lots of people have gfs that cheat on them and none of them get wealthy cuz of it.

    • @sanchiashwath5177
      @sanchiashwath5177 Před 5 lety +8

      Thank God she cheated on him huh?

  • @HG51_
    @HG51_ Před 6 lety +93

    This changed my life. It makes me realize that no matter how good or bad things are, life is worth living. The hard questions and uncomfortable topics and conversations like this here are what makes you live your life with joy, love and praise

    • @briantobias9212
      @briantobias9212 Před 6 lety

      Absolutely agree

    • @walaaya2223
      @walaaya2223 Před 6 lety +1

      It's been a week how has it changed your life?

    • @persimmonss
      @persimmonss Před 6 lety

      Nobody's life really matters

    • @jasontang9192
      @jasontang9192 Před 5 lety

      Life is matter only when you embrace them but it doesn't matter as life sometime can be so hard to go on

  • @husskaraouni8050
    @husskaraouni8050 Před 6 lety +567

    I feel like I'm drowning, I feel like my friends are not really my friends, I can't find happiness, Im drinking now and I've never drank before, I feel like people take me for granted. I feel like I can't find my purpose in life. I've never hurt anyone, and I feel like people hurt me. I feel like people enjoying watching me in pain!!

    • @zilyx5448
      @zilyx5448 Před 6 lety +74

      huss karaouni
      You excist for a reason, this life is short make every day count till you find it.
      There no soul like you, nobody. Ur unique

    • @MrBeachDoctor
      @MrBeachDoctor Před 6 lety +6

      Mgtow

    • @NxKSH
      @NxKSH Před 6 lety +150

      Hopefully this will help. Just like you, I'm in the same boat. I've been feeling depressed and broken for a while. It's hard. It's very difficult. Some days, I want to cry and scream bloody murder because I feel really down and I wish I was already saved. Through my battles and experience, I've learned one thing for sure and you already know this: "you can only save yourself". It'd be nice to have someone come along and save me, but I knew no one's gonna do that. Not even my family member because I have a distant relationship with them. Even more so in romantic sense because no one's gonna magically come into my life and save me. So, what I really needed was time. Time because time heals. Everyone around me, family or friends, told me that i need to love myself. Interestingly enough, no one told me "how". With time i realized that, i guess if you want to love yourself then you need to take time to learn things about yourself. Almost like having a relationship with another person, but with yourself. So what do you do? You treat yourself to something nice, spoil yourself within the means. Do things that you would do in a relationship but with yourself. Hang out with people that are good for you. If you have no friends then start getting to know someone. Do a volunteer work at a place and make connection. I'm gonna tell you, it's hard. It really is going to be hard, but you have to ask yourself, do I want better? When you asked yourself that question you'll know the answer and within that exact same answer you'll know how to get better. I can honestly say that positive mind brings better life. Life...isn't really all about happiness, at least so far from what I've learned. It's also about bad things. And bad things sucks but it's part of life and it may or may not teaches us something or gives us experience, depending on how you view it. Even with bad things in life, just live your life. Go out and experience. Just like Brendon said, you're still alive, you can still love and matter, clock is ticking. You always have a choice. Free will to do things and see things and experience things. Again, positive mind brings better life. But make sure to just embrace the negativity and better yourself from it. A purpose in life, I feel like, is something that you need to find yourself. To me, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. When I reach my purpose or goal, I'll find something else to live for. However, ultimately though I'm just here to live my life the way I see fit and experience things I want to experience. I hope you'll feel better.

    • @husskaraouni8050
      @husskaraouni8050 Před 6 lety +18

      Thank you so much for this!!! Thank you

    • @bruhmoment1196
      @bruhmoment1196 Před 6 lety +3

      huss karaouni I feel the same...

  • @neontime8507
    @neontime8507 Před 4 lety +194

    I was 19 and miserable...two weeks ago. Now I’m 20 and miserable.

  • @XRando78X
    @XRando78X Před 6 lety +20

    I just found this on Facebook and all everyone has to say in the comments are religious arguments over his one reference to God which was just a metaphor he used, like people totally miss the entire point of it all..
    Then I come over to YT and people are actually talking about his message and sharing their struggles. Gives me some hope. Regardless of what we all believe in we could all learn to ask ourselves these questions and improve our lives for the better. That's the whole point. Glad I found this channel!

  • @spartanbob6341
    @spartanbob6341 Před 5 lety +290

    Why save your friends or call an ambulance when you can have an existential crisis?

  • @hithereitsbloop3003
    @hithereitsbloop3003 Před 4 lety +11

    I’m currently 19. And this video just saved my life.

  • @justinchang9977
    @justinchang9977 Před 5 lety +98

    "To say I love you, one must first know how to say 'I'"

  • @atlantabaruah
    @atlantabaruah Před 6 lety +375

    It's easier said than done. It takes a lifetime to learn how to live. You don't realise what you have until it's gone. For most of us, it's only when we are near our deathbed will we truly realise what a glorious opportunity was given to us. It's unfortunate but that's just how we are. We are all going to die with regrets.

    • @markzucc3277
      @markzucc3277 Před 6 lety +28

      Atlanta Baruah wow that’s a happy thought!!

    • @basvandekreeke2605
      @basvandekreeke2605 Před 6 lety +1

      Atlanta Baruah thats beaiutifelly said

    • @benglennon7366
      @benglennon7366 Před 6 lety

      Atlanta Baruah preach the truth

    • @-BarathKumarS
      @-BarathKumarS Před 6 lety +1

      True but you can make some count by taking huge leaps accidently(in case of brendon) or willingly.You can't accomplish everything like a lovely family,great income and huge respect and love from your friends.But i will say taking risks is not bad either atleast you will be satisfied that you faced your challenges.

    • @jesseabrahamson3699
      @jesseabrahamson3699 Před 5 lety +6

      Speak for yourself, we all drive our own road.

  • @SpringHWhipple
    @SpringHWhipple Před 6 lety +505

    Brendon, he helped me make my "next Bold move", inspired me with the charge, motivation maefesto, and high performance habits... thank you for your continuous giving and leading others, Brendon! Thank you.

    • @Anna-ko2sc
      @Anna-ko2sc Před 6 lety

      Even he inspired me too restep into my life

    • @briantobias9212
      @briantobias9212 Před 6 lety

      Brendon is an amazing person

    • @Anna-ko2sc
      @Anna-ko2sc Před 6 lety

      I started working on my self and made some serious changes in me

    • @markanthoney93
      @markanthoney93 Před 6 lety

      Jenni Whipple good luck love with life

    • @SuperJajee
      @SuperJajee Před 6 lety

      Kudos to you

  • @waterlou5312
    @waterlou5312 Před 6 lety +1

    Brendon is an amazing speaker. His smile and charisma when he talks with all that confidence makes it impossible to not be captured by what he’s saying.

  • @conspiracychannel223
    @conspiracychannel223 Před 4 lety +17

    I’m 21 and a single mum trying to start a business , I really needed to see this today 🤘

  • @julian1756
    @julian1756 Před 6 lety +1194

    You lived in a dorm and had a girlfriend? Lucky.

  • @biswanathpadhi
    @biswanathpadhi Před 6 lety +4

    I got Goosebumps... His speech Reminds that the breathe we're taking at this very moment, has a purpose and value... Amazing

  • @aishi9930
    @aishi9930 Před 4 lety +16

    " did i even matter?
    did i love?
    did i live? "
    im having an existential crisis rn man please,

  • @dslayer418
    @dslayer418 Před 6 lety +424

    This video proves to me that I’m dead inside because I felt nothing watching it

    • @SamuelAlder
      @SamuelAlder Před 6 lety +49

      that's not necessarily the logical answer... maybe you feel nothing because you just know the information already, perhaps a pink unicorn would make your boat float again ;)

    • @Joseph-hc1nx
      @Joseph-hc1nx Před 6 lety +2

      Better work on that brother

    • @thomasthetankengine2653
      @thomasthetankengine2653 Před 5 lety +4

      Lmao me too I got my life figured out man

    • @halafaris3467
      @halafaris3467 Před 5 lety +2

      Nia Thompson we live on a sphere , I am dead inside which means I was alive before , call it an opportunity to see if reincarnation is real

    • @Blu3Jao
      @Blu3Jao Před 5 lety +19

      Nice tier one nihilism. If nothing matters, why not pursue what you want. Nothing matters, nothing stands in your way. Stop being edgy and read some Max Stirner. You obviously don't think nothing matters if you're bitching about it online. Cling to that. Make that mean something to you.

  • @enslavedmind
    @enslavedmind Před 6 lety +8

    Thanks Goalcast that really touched me . I got mortality motivation at 23 and power of intention at 26. Im glad that im working for my intentions

  • @kal-el3644
    @kal-el3644 Před 6 lety +4

    amazing, i'm actually nineteen years old right now and it got me thinking hard about my life and how much more should i appreciate the life that i was given

  • @danielito5813
    @danielito5813 Před 5 lety +1

    This changed my life... I week ago I would’ve not cared if I even woke up now I see this and just switch things around. Thanks for making your story open for all of us

  • @falgunraval4840
    @falgunraval4840 Před 5 lety +1

    I just recently had a rough patch in my life and this type of motivational videos kept me afloat from sinking into dark bottom of depression. Thank you Goalcast

  • @zerbxrt9883
    @zerbxrt9883 Před 5 lety +4

    I'm 19 and I was in a bad car crash (car rolled, cracked ribs) anyways I don't know if this is a bad or good thing but I was happy with my life and I accepted death in that moment. I've now realized that I will live my life like I always had when I was a kid, enjoying every moment and not giving a care in the world because I know I am alive. I just hope people take that from me, you are alive. That's all that matters so live your life and do what makes you happy no matter what. Don't take no for an answer. Don't do anything that you don't love or doesn't make you happy. Just be alive and live in the moment because time flies. Enjoy life. Thanks for reading if you did.

  • @coffeeknight6148
    @coffeeknight6148 Před 2 lety +3

    I was 19 and sat alone in my room with pills in front of me, wholly determined to overdose. I cannot remember all that I felt in that moment but the exhaustion is vivid. I was tired, so tired of everything. I was failing university, pigeonholed into a major I didn't want, I had no friends because the circle I hung with left me behind, my family lived in another country and I stayed with my aunt and her kids who hated me and piled on my misery.
    Bullied at school, online and at home, for years by then, I was just ready to go. Ready to die. A CZcams notification comes into my phone and I look at it, these pills in my hand and I would have ignored it, but the thumbnail with the words on it seemed to have been made for me; seemed to have been written by me even. It was who I was and what I was going through, and it was so uncanny I had a final moment of curiosity and amazement then as I stared at it and gave in. I watched this video for the first time that day, and every day afterwards for almost a year.
    It might sound stupid, it might sound weak and it might even be both those things, but in no small way for me at all, this video and this man speaking in it changed my life. Saved my life.
    I am 23 now and it's not been smooth sailing since then, but I have taken control of the things in my life, the people and the environment and what I see, think and achieve. I love to live, and I want to matter and I actively make the effort, time and time again, never letting myself fall back into that hole that I left on that day. It's not been great but it's a life on my terms now, a life I am actively involved in, affecting and improving. I come back to this every now again, not because I need it as much anymore but because I am grateful. I am so grateful and I do not know how to show my thanks except by watching the man and the video that saved me.
    I hope this video touches many lives in great and even more impactful ways than it did mine and I hope that someday everyone who's heard and heeded these words, despite what they have been through and where they came from, can think on those questions and answer them with pride. I hope that someday we will look back with a smile and teary-eyed fondness knowing that we have lived, loved and mattered.

  • @adriangabris413
    @adriangabris413 Před 5 lety

    This is probably one of the best motivational speeches I've ever heard

  • @eliakaiser1290
    @eliakaiser1290 Před 5 lety +1

    This speech is incredible. You can really feel the emotions. Great Speaker!

  • @pakuzzzpankuzz2464
    @pakuzzzpankuzz2464 Před 6 lety +7

    Its an nice one ..... Get ur blessing, after that ur life will be tides in sea, never gonna end up and chase ur DREAMS

  • @s.p9319
    @s.p9319 Před 6 lety +88

    Loved it.. I had d same. Turning point.. When i was hit by a gang of six junkies. The night before that i was so depressed (my breakup) that i was abt to finish myself.. But June 23 2007 was d day... D were hitting me with sluggers.. N one of them raised that slugger high up and aimed that on my head.. He was abt to hit my head. But, den I don't know how n why, I took that strike on my arm.. And, the junkies left me unconscious on d road. Next morning when I woke up, I was on the hospital bed... With a broken arm and multiple injuries.. . But I was alive.. Same thing happened to me.. Flashback... That Was d day... When I loved myself for d first time...

    • @safiyogeyre2091
      @safiyogeyre2091 Před 6 lety +7

      Binny Singh amazing glad to hear brother that you are alive and thankful to God

    • @briantobias9212
      @briantobias9212 Před 6 lety +1

      Amazing story

    • @tawkirmahmud8002
      @tawkirmahmud8002 Před 6 lety +2

      "when I loved myself for the first time" -- I'm 19 & I didn't loved myself even once.it just never came 💀💀💀

    • @kevinlee442
      @kevinlee442 Před 6 lety +2

      Tawkir Mahmud the day will come.. 100% bro, just trust yourself and trust the process.. Life is a game and the end will be good!

    • @jasontang9192
      @jasontang9192 Před 5 lety

      The world given you a chance to survive. If you didn't block with the hand the world just let you die and that's it. If you block it then the world let you go. It's a chances rather than delayed death

  • @vincentmichael499
    @vincentmichael499 Před 5 lety +2

    One of the best motivational speeches I've heard, coming from a real relatable place. Thank you

  • @moritza1409
    @moritza1409 Před 6 lety

    I´ve watched this video nearly 10 times and it motivates me more than other things. Everybody will reach his goals as long as you believe.

  • @hirnfutter6207
    @hirnfutter6207 Před 6 lety +436

    Did you helped your friend or did you went for your goals immediately

  • @khaledislive2162
    @khaledislive2162 Před 6 lety +8

    See I forgot but thanks to him Life is more of me now I’m a Big brother with 4 sisters I am important 🐐❤️ I protect them n love em

  • @2222raj
    @2222raj Před 6 lety

    Man this guy is such a great story teller I must say. Just his words and body language working and you can picture out every damn thing he says.
    Really inspiring.

  • @MrKurushi
    @MrKurushi Před 6 lety

    Just amazing. The way he told that story was just perfect.

  • @pankajshah22
    @pankajshah22 Před 6 lety +4

    Exactly my Life Story.

  • @sarrahmon6188
    @sarrahmon6188 Před 4 lety +99

    i am 19 y old
    i am grill live somalia
    Don't know much english
    i am feeling misrable ,depration,lonely,
    And i came here to get some corage.

    • @ThorstenLochmann
      @ThorstenLochmann Před 4 lety +12

      sarrah mon remember time heals all wounds. Keep working on yourself and I guarantee you there will be better times.

    • @ruweydagabeyre5937
      @ruweydagabeyre5937 Před 4 lety +5

      U can it buddy. We're here for u.

    • @meister5870
      @meister5870 Před 4 lety +3

      Your english is better than mine and I am at a university in europe

    • @aappen1299
      @aappen1299 Před 4 lety

      You can do it

  • @adarshkaran6611
    @adarshkaran6611 Před 6 lety

    one of the best motivational speeches that I've ever heard

  • @yasheshyadav278
    @yasheshyadav278 Před 4 lety +1

    That gives me goosebumps..

  • @darienconrad7941
    @darienconrad7941 Před 6 lety +58

    “did i live, did i love, did i matter?”

  • @singularity1130
    @singularity1130 Před 4 lety +17

    tldr: Have a near death experience to gain an appreciation for life...
    Can confirm it makes everything in your life surreal. But you'll also be isolated because very few will share that experience and understand your perpetual hyper realistic view on life while those that do won't see it the same way as you.
    Life is suffering with moments of bliss that make the pain contemptible and the only excitement moments of what could be and/or could've been.

  • @ashritijain
    @ashritijain Před 6 lety

    This is the best thing I have ever watched! Can’t appreciate him enough.

  • @alexisbotton3926
    @alexisbotton3926 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love his conviction.

  • @neverghost4507
    @neverghost4507 Před 6 lety +3

    No words 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @JP-uz2tw
    @JP-uz2tw Před 6 lety +3

    Vídeo muito inspirador!

  • @diosdehuecomundo
    @diosdehuecomundo Před 5 lety

    For me a glimmer of motivation for life has popped up when I started getting better from years of depression.
    I remembered driving my car over a hill on the way to my parents and I just see all those colors and all that all that light and all that beauty of nature that I felt like I'd never seen before.
    I started crying in the car because I was so overwhelmed by happiness and that feeling of being alive.
    It's been 2 years and that glimmer has been growing ever since.
    For me it wasn't about being reminded that life is going to end but realising that I don't want it to.

  • @ipsitaparida4471
    @ipsitaparida4471 Před 4 lety +1

    One truly mature gentleman you are !! You’ve taught me a lot thank you

  • @faizasaeed1000
    @faizasaeed1000 Před 6 lety +102

    You are here for a reason

  • @waduhbg
    @waduhbg Před 5 lety +35

    *Did I live ?*
    No I didn't.. I'm dead inside..
    *Did I love ?*
    No. I can't love others when I can't love myself
    *Did I matter ?*
    No answer

    • @dagi5820
      @dagi5820 Před 4 lety

      .

    • @gameplaysuffering1620
      @gameplaysuffering1620 Před 4 lety

      ..

    • @tylerrolfe4822
      @tylerrolfe4822 Před 4 lety

      ...

    • @igorthelight
      @igorthelight Před 4 lety +2

      There are humans much worse than you! You may love yourself just for being you. Help someone and feel yourself better. It will not be fake - you will see how your actions change their live (just a little bit).
      That sounds very dramatic but that may help. Who knows? :-)
      And no - I'm not some kind of faith zealot :-)

  • @AsdfghjkL-lv6kb
    @AsdfghjkL-lv6kb Před 4 lety +1

    Gonna be honest that’s the only motivational video I’ve ever seen that actually works

  • @TheBoon14
    @TheBoon14 Před 6 lety

    I'm 19 and just had my highschool sweetheart break my heart too. Nice to hear someone else can relate, but also that he's become so successful after so much pain as well.

    • @11246251
      @11246251 Před 6 lety

      TheBoon14 same here after 6 years since I was 17.

  • @Danjcastro
    @Danjcastro Před 6 lety +8

    I’m 18 years old. My dad has a business. It’s been a 6 figure business for the last 3 years. He wants me to take control of it. And every single day I woke up at 4:30 in the morning to start my shift at 5am in the morning. I drove a taxi for 12-14 hours a DAY 6 days a week. I thought to myself what am I doing. I’m not happy. I hate this. I want to build my own path. So I quit. As of yesterday I’m not longer employed. And was told I either find a job and pay 350$ to live at home, ( he took me off his insurance and as of now a quote for my car is around 250 at the lowest per month so getting around and finding a job to sustain my living will be hard ) As of now I don’t have a plan. Only thoughts. Thankfully my mother is supportive of me. But she doesn’t have a job. My girlfriend is also very supportive. But she is 17 and still in High school. As much as she would like to she can’t be there w me every step of the way. I love her more than words can explain. And my only plan now is to join the army. She doesn’t want this, my mother doesn’t want this. And to no surprise my dad doesn’t care what I do. ( he never has ). Any recommendation on what do to would be great. I truly feel like my back is turned against the wall. I want to study and better myself for the sake of myself and the relationship I have with my girlfriend. In the end however she does understand that if I have to join the armed forces that’s what it’s gonna take. Any recommendations will be read. Thank you for reading this story.

    • @joshgomez5686
      @joshgomez5686 Před 4 lety

      Current in a very similar situation hope your doing alright

    • @raq1205
      @raq1205 Před 4 lety

      pursue something that mass you happy in the long run, even if it’s hard right now, because eventually it’ll be worth it. if you go to the army, okay. and then what? you could do rotc through college so that after you graduate you’ll have a guaranteed job and at least you have a profession that can get you somewhere. if you want to go into the military as a career choice, then by all means start when you can, but if you simply want an affordable way to get out of this situation, look at scholarships and even the rotc program to make college more affordable for you so you have a long term solution

    • @daveforz
      @daveforz Před 4 lety

      I'm 21. I've worked odd jobs and saved up enough to get me an Associate's Degree in IT security. I'll graduate in 1 year. Entry level positions pay 60k-80k near me. With some experience I can get 100k. Now IT is not my passion, but through IT I will make enough money to fund my passions (which is travel/making videos). Then I will hopefully be able to save/invest over half my income and retire early while chasing my passions on the side which could blossom into something meaningful.
      If you don't know what you want to do try a bunch of new things. I know I don't want to work in a factory, or in retail, or at a hotel and as of right now I'm miserable and broke. I do know that I don't want to live in my current location. I do know that nothing makes me feel more alive than adventure and nothing fulfills me more than creating videos. IT will solve some of those problems.

    • @d4rkm4gicattack34
      @d4rkm4gicattack34 Před 4 lety

      I’m 19, will be 20 in Feb. Just got an offer at Australian Defence Force and honestly I’m gonna take it. I’m unsatisfied with my life and have little motivation. I don’t know where this will go or how it will affect me, but without drastic measures I will not move forward.

  • @tommyschoenith9636
    @tommyschoenith9636 Před 6 lety +11

    I fucking love this video. Really made me inspired on the goals I want to succeed in life. Your put on this life to do what you love and most people take that for granted and it’s the very few people that don’t take it for granted that really succeed in life. Guys I’m only 16 and Ik I’m going to be successful because its not what everyone says “once you see it you’ll believe it” but it’s” once you believe it you will then you will see it”. It is crazy how powerful mindset is and hard work is. Once you believe I promise you it will happen and you will be doing what you intend to do.

  • @sunilgharu4014
    @sunilgharu4014 Před 5 lety +2

    I heard this at 19 years old know I feel powerful.

  • @adamrogers6591
    @adamrogers6591 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm 18 and I absolutely love Brendon's work I've read his book High Performance Habits and quite frankly it's made me see a whole new perspective on life. It's motivated me to put my phone down and work hard for what I want because in 40 years from now I'm going to look back on life with only 3 questions I ask myself. Did I learn? Did I love? Did I matter?

  • @sjedsson4201
    @sjedsson4201 Před 6 lety +121

    why is this channel not having 10 million subs?

    • @god6less
      @god6less Před 6 lety +4

      Because not everybody buys his bullshit story of near death, explaining it with such detail and drama.

    • @sabrinab403
      @sabrinab403 Před 6 lety +2

      +zzz1111 Power on intention, earn -> all is said

  • @shivarajpatil8699
    @shivarajpatil8699 Před 4 lety +11

    His friend is alive he said it at around 4:05

  • @jasontang9192
    @jasontang9192 Před 5 lety

    His friend is so good!!! I think it's should be his best friend that shouldn't be forgotten

  • @dhruvzala5664
    @dhruvzala5664 Před 4 lety

    This guy is amazing
    I cried after a long time

  • @HOODIEDATHERO
    @HOODIEDATHERO Před 6 lety +4

    I have the Wayne Dr book. finished it. synchronization

  • @bishram2963
    @bishram2963 Před 6 lety +3

    Nice..

  • @madihaaldakshy2099
    @madihaaldakshy2099 Před 5 lety

    I respect that you tell us real stories

  • @hellobunny2209
    @hellobunny2209 Před 5 lety

    Meeting Brendon was probably the best experience Ive had.

  • @robertbarack1827
    @robertbarack1827 Před 4 lety +55

    As a 19yo, he lost me when he said highschool "sweetheart"

    • @rokrok27
      @rokrok27 Před 4 lety +5

      Barrack Robert he was DATING his high school sweetheart

  • @noobking1954
    @noobking1954 Před 6 lety +143

    I am 17 years old, and miserable.
    I’m a slow learner so of course I’m failing slow bc of that.
    These questions simply won’t do it.

    • @mkhan9789
      @mkhan9789 Před 6 lety

      Message me on Instagram at m.u.s.h.a.h.i.d

    • @noobking1954
      @noobking1954 Před 6 lety

      Mkhan Why?

    • @mkhan9789
      @mkhan9789 Před 6 lety +2

      Obviously because of what you typed. To talk. About it

    • @noobking1954
      @noobking1954 Před 6 lety

      1. You are making no sense.
      2. “Slow” was a simple typo that I missed.

    • @zebooker
      @zebooker Před 6 lety +6

      NotYourTypical NoobKing: I have a few unoriginal thoughts, which may be new to you.
      Princess Buttercup: You mock my pain.
      Man in Black: Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
      --- The Princess Bride (1987)
      I didn't create my favorite 3-question quiz. Here it is:
      - If I am not for myself, who, then, shall be for me?
      - If I am for myself only, what am I?
      -If not now, when?

  • @227Love
    @227Love Před 6 lety +2

    His aura tonality says it all a true positive force 👏🏻

  • @gp3218
    @gp3218 Před 5 lety

    Probably the best motivational video I have ever seen. UNREAL.

  • @sizzlinsj8135
    @sizzlinsj8135 Před 6 lety +175

    control is an illusion.

    • @sinbruh
      @sinbruh Před 6 lety +21

      eveything is an illusion

    • @jxel706
      @jxel706 Před 6 lety +23

      Control is an illusion that we can control

    • @jxel706
      @jxel706 Před 6 lety +2

      sinbruh the nothing is

    • @SharkFishSF
      @SharkFishSF Před 6 lety

      I'm not ready to accept it yet.

    • @GurdeepSinghDyal
      @GurdeepSinghDyal Před 6 lety +3

      Choose anyway. Because in case you are wrong you are choosing. If you are right (that control is illusion) then THAT is what is happening anyway. (Choosing happen) ;)

  • @lazybadger3323
    @lazybadger3323 Před 6 lety +83

    Auto generated text shows "Weeding helped me" 1:00

  • @schalazeal07
    @schalazeal07 Před 5 lety

    Almost cried.. thank you!

  • @martakowal4768
    @martakowal4768 Před 5 lety

    Made me cry. Loved this!

  • @Tomn8er
    @Tomn8er Před 4 lety +15

    Who ISN'T miserable when they're 19 lol

    • @balladin9200
      @balladin9200 Před 4 lety

      I am miserable when i’m 14

    • @emanalba6350
      @emanalba6350 Před 2 lety

      The ones who learn to take care of their relationships and health

  • @jjDub331
    @jjDub331 Před 6 lety +95

    The 3 questions were:
    Did I live?
    Did I love?
    Did I matter?
    In case you just want to know right away. :3

  • @PaulaGCurley
    @PaulaGCurley Před 3 lety +2

    “It is with the kiss of death that holds the antidote for life”. Amen🙏🙏

  • @olacole5315
    @olacole5315 Před 6 lety +2

    I love this speech like crazy!! 😁 I was just saying yes to all that he said.

  • @mikestewart9557
    @mikestewart9557 Před 5 lety +6

    After watching this I feel like I can run through a brick wall

  • @jhj-12.boomshankara.sclopi42

    unbelievable same thing happened with me in 2009 when i met my accident then my lord supported me like as he explained same as he explained. thats damn true only a victim of this shit can understand the whole scenario.

  • @seajay970
    @seajay970 Před 5 lety

    God bless spread his word!

  • @kaustubhishukla9945
    @kaustubhishukla9945 Před 5 lety

    I don't know why I have tears in my eyes but I'm crying my heart out right now..

  • @larobalibros
    @larobalibros Před 4 lety +3

    I'm 18, but I just feel lost because I want a job and I want to pay for my studies...

  • @brandonwiebe2647
    @brandonwiebe2647 Před 4 lety +18

    3:32 “I knew I was going to be okay.” Yeah and your friend is dying in front of you but I guess the moon is more important...

    • @keithhanley7796
      @keithhanley7796 Před 4 lety

      Obviously, he was disoriented and in shock from his own injuries.

  • @mfundodlamini8544
    @mfundodlamini8544 Před 4 lety

    havent finished reading HPH but i already feel the impact of the book by Brendon Burchard

  • @thekarlagiselle
    @thekarlagiselle Před 6 lety

    I just took a deep breath and feel good. So Blessed.