#74 Silverback AJ: Marriage, His Ideal Wife, Steroids, Q&A and more
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I'm Afghan and got married at 27, I always wanted to get married at a young age but Alhumdulilah I couldn't have asked for it any other way. We plan but Allah swt is the best of planners. May Allah swt grant you a righteous spouse ajmal.
I am Afghan as well but there is a big fitna within the Afghan and other Asian communities when it comes to marriage that it put you off, it is against Quran and sunnah but may Allah tala make it ease for all the brothers and sisters to get married in order to complete half their Deen. Ameen
I am gonna be 23 next month and female and unmarried I personally would like to get married and have made plenty of dua for a right spouse pls keep me in your dua’s so that it is easier for me thankyou
Unknown Identity I 100% agree with your statement literally the afghan weddings takeaway the blessings of the marriage away
Dont dwell to much on ripping ur body befor you get married, you're perfect the way you are, wifey may feel insucure about her body, if you over do yours and may feel she has to be up to your standards.
Yh why not. Too many unfit men and women in our ummah. Women dont need to go gym. She can do homeworkouts and eat healthy. Both have rights over each other.
@@abuyusuf354 men don't need to go gym, they can do homeworkouts and eat healthy too! How out dated are you?
@@user-se8so5hb9g
to grow muscles you should work out
10m a day can make a huge difference with a heathy diet (dividing the stomach by 3 like sunnah of the prophet sws)
A Adventures i just want to say that i hate the word “outdated”.
Peace :)
Then wifey needs to hit the gym as well, keep healthy yet also not neglecting her responsibilities from Deen. Ya feel? ;)
Marriage conversation starts at 15:43 😂😂😂😂😂
omg how did u know the only reason ive clicked this 😂😂😂😂
You the real MVP
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And you need to get brother khabib on what a brother Amazing role model for our brothers of today
Yeahhhhhh 💪💪
he got better things to discuss than what he finds attractive in a wife lmao
Did they talked about UFC 229? I just don't want watch the whole episode.
Masha’Allah brother Ajmal I’m happy that you mentioned the important criteria that you mentioned for your future wife is to pray Salah and also 5 pillars of Islam. Many brothers miss this out and straight away go to looks. Jazakallah khair
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First thing should be is the sister praying that's where everyone needs to start 😊
She won’t be praying all the time 😴
Mashallah hahahha, thats what I told my parents, praying 5 times daily is the first thing I look at. I mean I wanna pray fajr with my wife so hahah. mashallah may allah bless u sister. also search for the story of ahmad ibn hanbals marriage, subhanallah, deen over looks
Fantastic episode, for next episode please get a guest who can talk about Taqwa and Trust in Allah and avoiding sin. InshaAllah
that's beautiful :)
To be honest. The story he mentioned about men getting married and divorcing one year later is not the first ive heard. It's actually really common. I dont care how much pressure you have on you go get married, if you weren't attracted to her why did you marry her? How did you consummate the marriage and stay a whole year with her? Honestly these guys need to stop playing the victim role, they know exactly what they are doing. What about the womens life you have ruined? Women just become like clothes that they wear and take off when they want. Nothing will satiate their desires. Truly depraved individuals.
For women: stop admiring social media personalities, you don't know what goes on behind the scenes.
#stopmisstreatingmuslimwomen
dont forget deen inshallah. i asked my parents if they wanted me perhaps to marry a religious cousin or anyth, my dad was like nope. you will find someone some day out there xD. i think ill focus on praying 5 times, her character, look too
Actually, it is a two way street sister. Many muslim women are also to blame for the sky high divorce rates in our society.
Honestly, i don't find body builders attractive at all. I think men, whether short or tall, look good when they are a little sturdy and slim. Not skinny and not muscular.
Jasmine liketheflower i agree.
true but the bodybuilders seem to get the better looking women. Average women end up with how you described your ideal 'average' man with an average body. i think if you girls were in amazing shape your mentality would be a little different.
Subjective
@@shobby1455 what does that mean? bit too scientific for me fam.
@@paksallion You didn't understand what subjective mean? I apologize to be judgemental and sound rude but it looks like you may have the body but not the mind. Just like when girls want to be pretty but are brain dead (bimbo). So yee I agree with Shobby who said - Subjective. Google the word if you have to (nods head) -___-
Alot of comments are girls saying they wouldn't want a guy too muscular..where I agree I believe there are also girls that do like muscular. Really enjoyed this, some really good points were made and loved the honesty of Aj!
And now he’s married 😅🙌🏻
Seriously
@@peacefulworld7292 yes they both have yt channels
In my opinion lool I think some girls might get self conscience of themselves and feel they have to change themselves to look as good as their husband or to try and please their husband excessively. I personally don’t think u have to be that big, just my opinion lol.
Maybe they should be
It's a choice tbh like she wanted the dude she got it but I think it's a the guys choice make her feel nice
"5 hours deep sleep that's nice you know"....UMMMM O_o not me y'all, ugh why can guys do this. I cannot lololol need that full 7.5-8 hours
As requested, it sounds like too much! It sounds very cultural around the whole marriage day, wedding obsession. Turning up in flash cars and tight clothes mainly bothered about what people think.
I’d also say a lot of women only care about a mans performance... this means job wise, husband duties, personal life, protecting his wife - and excludes the gym. Guaranteed no woman will care if her husband hits the gym everyday but is a wimp on the street or chooses his mums honour over his wife.
I know people who had standards just the way you have and they have married the complete opposite to their taste. Alhamdulillah they are happy and content. So dont look too deep in what you like in a woman, Allah knows best and has the most suitable and perfect matches.
I see him the same way. i feel like he wants someone who is as knowledgeable about health and fitness as him, gym personality, on her deen and abaya wearing and understand or be a part of his culture. Thats what i think he's waiting for, he does seem very picky/a perfectionist. but i feel like hes going to end up marrying someone simple, pretty and agreeable; but he'll be happy.
I liked this episode, I found myself keen to continue listening because your guest went in depth beyond their own exterior and attractive optics. It's good do dig deeper into insecurities - I liked the real talk. (+.+)
Another good podcast...Get Anthony Joshua on seeing as you know healthy mindset!
That's the way that we should be as Muslims that the prophet Muhammad s.a.w said if we're going to do something ofcourse good not evil ofcourse we should do it fully all the way and correctly. AlhamduLILAH, ALLAHU AKBAR.
Best episode by far! Subhanallah, brother ajmal is really wise allahumma baarik. I kind of thought he was a ‘bimbo’ 🙈😭 (can’t think of a better word lol) so was really shocked when I listened to this episode.
14:10 he has a point. I for one, besides good Deen, want a husband who looks after himself physically, not only for his own preserverance and health but also to keep my eyes from straying elsewhere and to enjoy him. This is normal biology.
You a saucy lady
10:39
Faisal: What were we talking about? I was praising you.
AJ: Yeah..., lets not praise me anymore
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏻
Salam brothers, fist time I’ve come across your channel. You’re doing a good job.
Literally been waiting for Ajmal to be on your channel FOREVER!!
9:11 I feel uncomfortable feeling praised too tbh
Am I the only person who didn’t know who this guy is
tbf i still dont know who he is 😆
Same your not alone
its my first time watching this channel today, this is the second video of theirs I #amwatching now
Me too! Is he a celeb? Lol
Here i'm too...
Brilliant podcast but only thing I found slightly jarring was how long it took you to find the video and how invested you were in trying to find it, dk if it was necessary no disrespect
Really enjoyable watch BRO's!!! Love ittt
Alhumdulliah his nice 😊 pity his young 🤷♀️ but I pray you find what your looking for. Ameen
If your taking 5 minutes to eat a snickers bar your properly savouring the flavours
Square shaped😂😂
Lmfao like he’s going to admit if he’s taken any steroids most bodybuilders take them only a handful admit it Ino so many people that have kids on steroids you have to abuse it like shit loads of gear to have major sides even paracetamol has sides
So humble masha'Allah
ask him what does he think of rashid khan
😂😂
The question about his fears, is exactlyyyyyy the same with what I think.
I didn't know he was afghan omg
Is Nate Muslim now? He is alot more comfortable now I remember when he was first there and he was kind of awkward lol
Yes he is
Alhamdulillah
There's a video on Faisal's channel ...I think it was about him going to Umrah
Lets be honest most of us are kinda ugly so why not work on ourselves for health and looks .
Good talk mashallah
May Allah azze ve celle guide us all.
Why do akhis always talks about their ideal wife, roasting guys
This brother is extremely good looking!!!😍😍😍 And don't get me started with the body!!! 10/10
Brother keep the gym up mashallah
I want to get married to my crush which she is practicing inshallah In a few yrs
May Allah make it easy for you, and grant you both a marriage full of blessings!
What and where are they watching it from
Marriage is important but it's not everything. The most important is to attain God's forgiveness by believing in One God, the unseen, hereafter, scriptures such as the Quran, carrying out righteous deeds and forbid evil. quranix.org
In a marriage interview a sister asked me how big am I down below. Now beat that!
Seems like a red flag if she hasnt previously been married. Did she explain why she asked her question?
@Grizz no slept around its eaiser for women get laid then men
Wow. No girls asked me that even the ones I've went out with. AVOID.
This guy is kind
World champion of what?
how tall is aj?
He looks like a man let. 5 foot 6 or 7.
Man's 110kg @ 16 yrs old. Soon going gym after this virus goes in Sha Allah
+Affan
, damn bro, i only 50kg at 16. But then again i was agile AF. Now i weigh 71kg and there's things i cant do now that i could when i was in my 50's.
@@relentless5321 yh, it's hard. But Ramadan is helping too.
@@maffanb , how tall are you? I weighed that much at 5'8.
@@relentless5321 5ft 11
make sure you fill that needle up if you want his look
Alhamdulillah
A sick guy, masha Allah
Is it just me or the host has a tone of voice which puts you off from listening???!!!
Lol lol I say no to drugs, To funny typical Asian man not admitting taking anabolics, every bodybuilder is a drug dealer
Do one with @wajid101 !!!
Not a great host
when does he talk about his steroids?
Around 30mins in..
Juice head
What's his height ?
Ismail KhanOfficial I have seen him he is over 6
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First
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Boooooooyeeee
I will bowl you under the table
Has anyone noticed how uncomfortable this guy feels talking about marriage or anything to do with girls. He looks very sad, looking down a lot, voice gets a bit grubby, eyes looking a bit teary, sipping water etc. I’m not making assumptions here but if an individual is so close to Islam why would you make these reasons/excuses as to why you are not married yet? You can feel like this guy is hiding something he just wants to let out either with his sexuality or the fact he just does not want to get married.
you’re the only one who feels this way
U may be right
Mark why are you over analyzing his responses. He made some rationale points in that you have to find a compatible partner before you settle down. What are you a psychologist that you're ripping his every move and making a stupid conclusion.
Shyness is a part of imaan/faith not your perverted way of thinking
@@m159adrian3 lol good way of putting that brother.
What’s his height ?
5'9