6 Signs A Narcissist Is Trying To Break You

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  • čas přidán 10. 03. 2023
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Komentáře • 372

  • @lindseyshimer1048
    @lindseyshimer1048 Před rokem +207

    Don’t forget talking behind your back😊

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 10 měsíci +8

      I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

    • @KobieeBryant
      @KobieeBryant Před 8 měsíci +8

      That’s the worst one that smear campaign becomes of epic proportions

    • @AChippendale
      @AChippendale Před 8 měsíci +4

      I'm hoping that they will talk me down sooooo much that people will see her for who she is. She can't stop herself.

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Right?

    • @cynthianguyen711
      @cynthianguyen711 Před 7 měsíci

      Facts

  • @josephinesedilla7174
    @josephinesedilla7174 Před 9 měsíci +113

    My favorite is his silent treatment, being ignored is like having a breather from his verbal/emotional/financial/sexual abuses.

    • @AChippendale
      @AChippendale Před 8 měsíci +5

      Have you tried doing that same back? When he gives you the silent treatment and then comes back and you say 'yeah I liked it better when you said nothing'.... Then walk away.

    • @kimhumiston2686
      @kimhumiston2686 Před 7 měsíci +3

      I was the one that went silent to get away from the toxic black aura.

    • @jerickzane
      @jerickzane Před 7 měsíci +4

      they don't like the silent treatment given back to them. oh no.... they hate it

    • @Blanko.84
      @Blanko.84 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Many reasons why your man would not talk to you! ...
      -You could be toxic.
      -It could be pointless engaging with you.
      -You dont see eye to eye on anything!
      -His playstation is more controllable.
      -Tired of being called a narcissist every time he calls you out on your bullshit.

    • @AChippendale
      @AChippendale Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@Blanko.84 someone giving you the silent treatment is the problem. Normal adults discuss their problems. Narcissists and children sulk.

  • @TheShaqii
    @TheShaqii Před 7 měsíci +8

    I found out, the moment u treat them the way they treat u. They revert back to being submissive. Just for a while, just enough to soften your heart again. So they can take another bite before discarding you

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 5 měsíci +1

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  • @c.k.j1837
    @c.k.j1837 Před rokem +88

    True. Truly horrible when it happens. Otherworldly. Had no idea what was happening. For ten years.

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Před rokem +3

      You said it perfectly. 'Other wordly'. I would say 'Supernatural'. 'Demonic'.

    • @vive928
      @vive928 Před rokem +1

      U breakup with narcissist?

    • @c.k.j1837
      @c.k.j1837 Před rokem +4

      @@vive928 Narcissistic traits of a cruel borderline... divorcing now. After her final eruption I fled and was homeless for six months, living with friends, in my truck, and in hotels... absolutely demanded no contact. Attorneys facilitate all now. I feel for anyone who cannot escape completely and the hell remains attached as locked fang snarl.

    • @vive928
      @vive928 Před rokem

      @@c.k.j1837 :( do U have kids

  • @adrianamaclennan7832
    @adrianamaclennan7832 Před 9 měsíci +48

    I am starting to see this with my mom and it’s so disturbing because basically my entire life I have seen her as the greatest thing and now I am seeing the truth

    • @ivansantana-wu2hs
      @ivansantana-wu2hs Před 8 měsíci +1

      Facts

    • @PatienceWithAnimals-be6uc
      @PatienceWithAnimals-be6uc Před 8 měsíci +2

      I am so sorry. I recently learned this of my mom as well as my boyfriends mother!! The one thing I can say that helped me growing up with narc family members, is to try and compartmentalize if possible. Otherwise it will make us go crazy and self destruct. And then attract subconsciously people like our family members because we have been conditioned to believe that is love. See your family member as your family member. And the bond that goes with it. But also start to view them just as the person they are to the outside world, separate from us. I hope this makes sense. It is the only thing that started to wake me up personally. I started viewing my toxic relations for the individual people that they are, and then it started to make it easier on me to recognize what they did to me as well. I long for a day when there is a cure for narcissism, particularly covert narcs. :(

    • @AChippendale
      @AChippendale Před 8 měsíci

      Try to be gentle with yourself but find a way to protect yourself from the damage. She was damaged too, that's why she is as she she is. It's not an excuse, it's the reason.

    • @amberbrooks8678
      @amberbrooks8678 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I know how you feel I'm 32 and to this day I still forget that I can't always go to her for support

    • @Poornishree1234
      @Poornishree1234 Před 7 měsíci

      Same here. Both my parents are narsist and im the only child.

  • @carlataitt3765
    @carlataitt3765 Před rokem +116

    Always pray against these ungodly entities.!🙏 They are evil.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. On a brighter note, we're hosting a grand launch event Sep 30th, Saturday, 9am Pacific time and you're cordially invited. It would be wonderful to meet you there! >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

    • @deezgex
      @deezgex Před 9 měsíci +4

      But what if yours is so called godly and plays that Part even uses it against you telling you you were suppose to wake up etc as a excuse to break up

    • @ivansantana-wu2hs
      @ivansantana-wu2hs Před 8 měsíci

      I ignore someone when they do me dirty or betrayed, is that normal?

    • @timelessperspective
      @timelessperspective Před 7 měsíci

      ​@ivansantana-wu2hs If you have to ask that question, then you are not. Narcissists cannot self-reflect, otherwise, they would not be a narcissist. This situation only applies if you did nothing to provoke the silent treatment.

  • @mongoose59
    @mongoose59 Před rokem +60

    Every time we meet. I try not to react. I think they see it as sport.

    • @Lena-so2lq
      @Lena-so2lq Před 10 měsíci +5

      They do
      .they play a different person with every person they rotate with....and thats a fact .

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @abhinandankanwar1445
    @abhinandankanwar1445 Před 8 měsíci +17

    They have a unique ability to pick something which is wrong, twist something which is right. And make it look like what they're saying is right. I lost my self-confidence when I had dealt with this for the first time. Pure evil! God saved me.

    • @gopalmalviya7
      @gopalmalviya7 Před měsícem

      He used to torcher me again n again by bringing out my past with my ex and he put me in a condition where I lacked me self confidence and I was abt to commit suicide

  • @beth2500
    @beth2500 Před rokem +44

    A passing swipe would be something. That's just thrown to the air as they walk past like "if you could lose twenty pounds you would look pretty good"

    • @AChippendale
      @AChippendale Před 8 měsíci

      When I was 8 months pregnant he said "do you think you will lose your chicken legs?"

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

      How are you doing now? Hope feeling well and getting your power back! Perhaps my upcoming webinar might help - slaythenarc.com

  • @Cjslvdr
    @Cjslvdr Před 8 měsíci +12

    Really broke me. I feel like everyone is gaslighting me now and I feel guilty if someone makes themselves a victim I feel like it’s always my fault

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 5 měsíci

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  • @lisacup6876
    @lisacup6876 Před 5 měsíci +4

    They hate it when they know you know the truth and avoid them. They think they can say whatever they want to you. Then, they expect you to go along with whatever they want or you're a " selfish, uncaring person." Done with this.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 5 měsíci

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  • @sh6460
    @sh6460 Před 10 měsíci +16

    let's not forget the flying monkeys and smear campaign

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci +1

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  • @AChippendale
    @AChippendale Před 10 měsíci +11

    It wasn't until years after I got out that I understood I was in the grip of a narc. I just knew that something was off.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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    • @punishedsnake6141
      @punishedsnake6141 Před 7 měsíci +1

      In the grip of a narc lol ok

  • @iamchannelll
    @iamchannelll Před 9 měsíci +13

    don’t forget trying to put you in prison for false allegations

    • @GreeneChakra
      @GreeneChakra Před 7 měsíci +1

      I did time for just that!

    • @Love_1_Charlie_3
      @Love_1_Charlie_3 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I thought I was alone. Wow.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @maddywendall2980
    @maddywendall2980 Před rokem +23

    THANK YOU Rebecca for giving us the tools to deal with these Sick Beings.😍

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 5 měsíci

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  • @TC-vq6yz
    @TC-vq6yz Před rokem +19

    I'm living through steps 5 & 6 right now. This is not the person I thought they were.

    • @marcirobins5144
      @marcirobins5144 Před 11 měsíci +1

      It isn’t you. They dropped their mask. Now you’re dealing with the real person. Never forget it.

    • @garrisonkelley7053
      @garrisonkelley7053 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@marcirobins5144tell yourself whatever you need to. Where did you get your degrees in psychology?

    • @AndrewDaniele87
      @AndrewDaniele87 Před 8 měsíci +2

      ​@garrisonkelley7053 do you know the person you replied to? If not, why comment that?

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @debbiehernandez5564
    @debbiehernandez5564 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Recognize these signs and remember
    these signs work both ways.
    If your stubborn like me these signs won't work or bother you.
    Just ignore them. Stay focused on the subject at hand to get things taken care of. Dont lose your temper or fall for tactics.
    30+ years of working retail has taught me to not let stupid tactics get in your way.
    Married for 25 years.
    I hope this helps.

  • @johnnyvo9313
    @johnnyvo9313 Před 9 měsíci +5

    For me it was the passing swipes that hurt the most. I think because they are so casual about the abuse, comments like that would just shatter me inside. She would do it with things that I was sensitive about and had told her thinking she was there to help and support me. Little did I know it was just ammunition to break me.

  • @ingwerminze
    @ingwerminze Před rokem +9

    My (soon to be) Ex husband cheated on me throughout our entire 7 year relationship. I found out about it while being married to him for just 1,5 years and I broke up with him. Now I am with another man and he tells me that I am exactly like him and even worse, because we are still married.

    • @ingwerminze
      @ingwerminze Před 8 měsíci

      @@Believeinyourself8 actually you know what? When I got the proof that he cheated on me with the girls I always suspected, the only thing I felt was relief. The feeling that the whole damn time (7 years) I was completely right and not paranoid, not childish, not „too sensitive“, not too fat, not dumb, not bad in bed… I had the sudden and relieving realization that I NEVER was the problem. I felt freedom. And I am very careful with that statement because I think that everyone has faults on their own. Over two or three months I cried my eyes out all the while caring for our baby boy, because I was so bitter that I didn’t listen to my gut feeling. After 5 months I went on Tinder because I needed an Ego Push. And I matched with one man. We wrote, we met, we fell in love and he is dear to me and my son. I healed „fast“, because I overthink every single thing and I talk A LOT to my friends and family. I always did. I constantly work on myself to be a decent human being and now most important a good mom. I considered going to therapy. But I am very aware of the path that let me here.

  • @dillonsullivan5063
    @dillonsullivan5063 Před rokem +8

    My sisters do all of.this and more. I'm done and will never go back. I didn't lose them. They lost me.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 5 měsíci

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  • @DrUFO___bytch
    @DrUFO___bytch Před 8 měsíci +1

    Eating demons for breakfast, smiling till their lies are breathless, I am passive but the drive is relentless, and this life for the next I will deal with them all repentless

  • @Elaine-br4lw
    @Elaine-br4lw Před 4 měsíci +1

    They patiently wait until you are down then they kick the &hit out of you.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

      By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> slaythenarc.com 🌟

  • @privateprivate8366
    @privateprivate8366 Před 10 dny

    Yep. I work for someone like this. They are actually willing to lie to their boss and get caught lying, to undermine me. Ridiculous to watch.

  • @Superempath101
    @Superempath101 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Yep that's my Bf Babymom always gotta have the last word and taking sarcastic jabs at him tearing and bringing him down, but not anymore and not if I can help it.

  • @1stBorn538
    @1stBorn538 Před 9 měsíci +4

    With a strong emphasis on Trying....Tried.....Lost

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

      By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> slaythenarc.com 🌟

  • @petroglyph79
    @petroglyph79 Před 9 měsíci +3

    My mother its sickening

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 5 měsíci

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  • @lorrainethomas7601
    @lorrainethomas7601 Před rokem +6

    Thank you But it's not happening
    I'm gonna show them I'm strong I can move pass this and forward with my life
    Which I have already

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @vanessahollenbach85
    @vanessahollenbach85 Před 6 měsíci

    Oh yeah. This is where we're at. So happy to have woken up and see all these signs and patterns.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

      By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> slaythenarc.com 🌟

  • @PurpleDragonProsperity
    @PurpleDragonProsperity Před 9 měsíci +3

    I have been recovering from a severe gaslighting injury from my previous residency last year. I was renting a basement suite in a house. The owners were an elderly couple that didn't live on the property. The couple upstairs were about my age or younger not much. They were foreigners didn't speak English and gaslighting the owner and his wife. Running an illegal business on the property. The wife instantly became jealous of me after I moved in. She was delusional because she thought her husband was going to become interested in me and leave her. She ran a smear campaign on me for 3 years even though I haven't been there for a year. She is still gaslighting me. She is Evil. This is one of the most severe smear campaign campaigns I've ever experienced. If you don't think women can be this narcissistic and Evil.....guess again.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci +1

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    • @PurpleDragonProsperity
      @PurpleDragonProsperity Před 9 měsíci

      @@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you, I will check it out.

  • @katrinabee2883
    @katrinabee2883 Před 9 měsíci +1

    RUN

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @mikegump3766
    @mikegump3766 Před rokem +4

    Yes, very much so... Your always caring & sharing your knowledge with us...ThankYou...

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci +1

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  • @Mel-ou2jg
    @Mel-ou2jg Před 4 měsíci

    Today he told me, "I'm going to destroy you".😮😢😂, "Whatever". I went home.

  • @susiehutson2693
    @susiehutson2693 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I just found out my husband was a narcissist and thought it was bi polar , after 11 years thanks goodness it’s my second marriage and we have no kids .. I knew something was off I felt that he was using me and I didn’t. Feel any love and then oh he drank did some weed and he would tell me all these beautiful things ! It made me feel like he did love me and there went the yo yo! Omg I

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

      I'm truly sorry you had to go through that with a Narcissist. I'd love to have you join me on my FREE webinar >> ICANSLAY.COM

  • @ND-or5so
    @ND-or5so Před rokem +3

    No need, this has happened over and over again and for him to play me is absurd because I can't deal with him, don't want to let him in and he's done all of these things over and over again. That's hell on earth. Anyway, he isn’t going to get me to stay with him and he knows it. He wants to be a bad person to me then it just adds to all the rest. He's trying to be a good man right now but it's just a ploy. He is so beneath me and that's the way it is. One more sick trick and I can only get so angry or upset and that's that. He can think what he wants and I'm still going to hate him and the tactics just don't get very deep with me anymore. Yes if he starts any funny business while we are splitting up that's going to be his problem and I'm going to make sure I invite the courts into this. Enough is enough. He is trouble and this isn't the man for me and there's nothing more to discuss with him. He tries to get me vulnerable like I used to be but I mean business now.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem

      Ppl get Ptsd after Narcisstic abuse bcs it is so stressful, others even get Fatique and that's a total burn out, take your time to heal ‼️Narc Survivor, Quora Digest etc., has info about Narcissism, the person on this video is a lawyer and has been writing books about Narcissism and has many other videos ‼️🎯JazzyT.

    • @user-xg4ue5cc2v
      @user-xg4ue5cc2v Před 5 měsíci

      Good for you.

  • @liamiranda214
    @liamiranda214 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Go grey rock…silent treatment is narcissistic. Lots of mixed signals here and sometimes silence is synonymous with survival.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @lesliekupchanko5001
    @lesliekupchanko5001 Před rokem +12

    Passing Swipes
    One morning, he was drinking....
    I was sitting in the livingroom chair.
    As he walked past me from behind the chair, he sucker punched me.
    A side swipe that got me on the mouth.
    Yes, they physically take side swipes as well.

    • @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829
      @Strawberry.leeraymartinez5829 Před rokem

      Oh u don't say 🙄

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      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @eastcoastgirl3770
    @eastcoastgirl3770 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Everywhere I go to work....well my last 3 jobs in 10 years all my bosses end up being narcissists. .now I'm looking for a new job again

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  • @daisiepandeagua
    @daisiepandeagua Před 3 měsíci

    I answer my husband matter of factly, it’s also battle of the mind , i don’t just give up ,don’t give him a chance , and he knows how to back off

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @openworldgamer2156
    @openworldgamer2156 Před 5 měsíci

    I’m working on the healing process to become a super empath.
    My question is how to deal with a narcissist that you cannot completely go “no contact” and simply just remove from your life?
    Unfortunately, this is someone I will have to associate with at least a couple times a year (this is my sister in laws husband ). My wife really loves her sister and her sister is genuinely a good person, but had the bad luck of marrying a narcissistic jerk.
    This person has repeatedly shown a pattern of unacceptable narcissistic behavior not just to me but others.
    I have stood my ground a few times which led to fights, gas lighting, but dealing with this constantly is frustrating. What’s even more frustrating is I have never been able to talk to my in laws or sister in law openly about this. They don’t like taking about these things and neither does my wife. They realize how he is and just accept it and try to ignore it. But for me ignoring it is very difficult.
    I am regularly just thinking of all the things this person has said done and keep thinking what will happen the next time I have to see him. Keep think of scenarios and how I must respond to him. Keep thinking of things I should have said but didn’t because I bit my tongue. It’s very exhausting.
    Any advice?

  • @aralmanni
    @aralmanni Před rokem +3

    Great one, that's explain why I hear nothing from the kids now

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 10 měsíci

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  • @elizabethgropali2316
    @elizabethgropali2316 Před 5 měsíci

    Narcissistic abuser and silent treatment for my friend. Doubted me multiply times, she hid me things for one year, and lately although i had problems, never asked me what i get through, but only asked me if her postgraduate project is ready. A master student with no clue of research and projects. Now, she is using silent treatment because i didn't responded and not open her message. I am coming through a family health problem, and while she was usually call me (she has my number), she chose an empty-what - i- need message from messenger.
    I will have the last encounter with her those days, and in return I will use her medicine. After that, i don't want to be friends anymore. She is psychotic and abusive.

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      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 5 měsíci +1

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  • @ninjawarriorsword4798
    @ninjawarriorsword4798 Před 8 měsíci

    I've been through all those from him , it made me sick mentally. After he saw I figured him out he went silent 😂😂😂. Like as if I cared ...I outsilenced him by living life 😊,Run 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️💨💨💨💨💨

  • @latronyahollins5292
    @latronyahollins5292 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing this ❤

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  • @TheeyeOftruth-yx2np
    @TheeyeOftruth-yx2np Před 5 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for this Rebecca, I just said something to a friend and this came on, Beautiful synchronity You're absolutely beautiful, Peace, love, Respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the universe, The most high, God is great ☘🕊🦁🌹😍🤗🐶✌👽💙💛💜💚😃❤😊😘🐎🦄😇

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  • @sandyhatfield1801
    @sandyhatfield1801 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Heres just one of the twisted way they talk to you or dont want to give info. One day i simply ask, hey what did you clean the chrome with on the truck? Heres how he dances i call it,,, huh what truck? Me, what? Him: what chrome? Me: what are you saying? The chrome on your truck. Him; what about it? Me: what did you clean it with? Him, the cleaner you mean? Me; oh ok what was the name of the product you used to shine or clean or polish the chrome??!!!!! Him, oh just cleaner. Me: whats the name?!!!! Him of the cleaner??? Oh My God!!!!!!!!! Every time.

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  • @Andrew.L8
    @Andrew.L8 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I’m dealing with one who I’m getting divorce from and is alienating me from my daughters 🙄 she is such a loser 🤦🏽‍♂️

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  • @andyanderson6522
    @andyanderson6522 Před 16 dny

    He tried to break me but GOD saved me and had other plans❤

  • @doreenp4841
    @doreenp4841 Před rokem +1

    You got it! Was living with old covert narc for 6 months, I'm out, I still have my sanity! P.S. Admitted to being really smart. Only in manipulating and lying

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  • @missvegan1967
    @missvegan1967 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm remember feeling like something was off spiritually with my ex narc... Almost as if they got a sick gratification seeing my suffer.

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  • @user-fg4ji3qy5k
    @user-fg4ji3qy5k Před 5 měsíci

    My former girlfriend 💔💔💔, i wish so much that she was normal
    I left her I could not stand the narcissistic treatment

  • @yuzuke4573
    @yuzuke4573 Před 7 měsíci +1

    The one that tries to flame me was the one that gets caught on camera. I'm just sitting on my bench minding my own business.

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  • @fionaprice5363
    @fionaprice5363 Před rokem +5

    I was talking to my narc sister about some privileges I had when we were children. She had privileges but she didnt have all the same privileges because she was 4yrs older. There were advantages to being the youngest (She cant imagine I can remember my childhood) you have to understand narc to understand this one. She thinks if she cant remember or wasnt told it didnt happen or she tells you you are not remembering it the way it was

    • @WriteChords
      @WriteChords Před rokem

      Same like you Fiona - having a belligerent narc sister who is 4 years older. She was even today trying to use some of these 6 signs to get to "her side" against my mom. All along my childhood was gaslighted and shouted at. Growing up, I became a meek young man. Now at 48, feeling much better thanks to my wife

    • @fionaprice5363
      @fionaprice5363 Před rokem +1

      @@WriteChords True love conquers all. ❤💐💐

    • @wakeupluv
      @wakeupluv Před 9 měsíci

      🎯

    • @AChippendale
      @AChippendale Před 8 měsíci

      Gaslighting

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  • @CreatureLove-A189
    @CreatureLove-A189 Před 9 měsíci +1

    So.. would this situation be an example of my brother being narcissistic?
    The other day I came home after all day of running errands for our parents. I am a live in care giver to our disabled parents. My brother lives at home as well. I have RA and had cancer in the past.
    So. I come home completely exhausted and in agony. I get all the groceries put away and make sure our parents are alright and what not. I then get started making dinner, biscuits and gravy. Yes I cut corners in areas, tin biscuits and gravy packets. Did my parents care? No because they saw how tired and in pain I was. My brother on the other hand? I don't think so because he went on with how tired and in pain he is after doing nothing all day. He then went on to say, "Well if you came home with these ingredients I would have helped you make dinner." Like kept going and as he did I started feeling bad about the dinner I made.
    I am not sure.. my brother makes other jabs and what not like this. But I am not sure if it is me being too sensitive or him really being narcissistic. This is something that happened a couple days ago.

    • @molly2534
      @molly2534 Před 8 měsíci

      He's probably watching porn. Porn makes people feel entitled and behave cold and ruthless towards others. He needs Jesus.

  • @HectorLopez-ky1tf
    @HectorLopez-ky1tf Před 8 měsíci

    Not everyone is made for the other....

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 Před rokem +6

    A passing swipe 😂 Yes exactly, your list is Spot on! Thank you❤

    • @user-bt6qd8it1d
      @user-bt6qd8it1d Před 10 měsíci

      Psychopaths who are beyond help and repair and think their victims will wear it for them lol

  • @bkb2012
    @bkb2012 Před 3 měsíci

    This video is so funny! I said, "Uh .. right."

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  • @cmmontrose1469
    @cmmontrose1469 Před rokem

    Thank you! Love this format.

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      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 10 měsíci

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  • @Fartolucci
    @Fartolucci Před 3 měsíci

    Control is the one true measurement

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      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @Almighty_rage777
    @Almighty_rage777 Před 8 měsíci

    She most definitely broke me 😂😂 back on my feet now. Should’ve gaslighted a little harder 😂

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  • @Luckypeach237
    @Luckypeach237 Před rokem +4

    I'm not a native speaker so would you help me explain about what is passing swipe means

    • @aralmanni
      @aralmanni Před rokem +3

      Probably similar to projecting , whatever they do looks like coming from you 🤷

    • @ruthslater6364
      @ruthslater6364 Před rokem

      ​@@ginnyrigg9288 not all true some remarks are warranted. What that answer is. Passing remarks.

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      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @melo3405
    @melo3405 Před rokem +1

    Super power over narcissistic people 👍

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  • @jajean2705
    @jajean2705 Před 5 měsíci

    And also blaming you once you exposed them.

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  • @user-nz5wm4bg9s
    @user-nz5wm4bg9s Před 11 měsíci +1

    this shame manipulate my phones and my photos disappear 2016 and 2018 shame

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  • @bkb2012
    @bkb2012 Před 3 měsíci

    That's too funny. ; ) The music .. followed by the record rip.

  • @debbieb5400
    @debbieb5400 Před 9 měsíci

    WOW; you are spot on! I have lost who I am and my health has suffered.
    The "camel" took over.

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  • @belledavenport7158
    @belledavenport7158 Před rokem +1

    💮 NAILED IT! (As always) 🗝🖤🌹🌿

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  • @ayushidash6061
    @ayushidash6061 Před 2 měsíci

    They threaten after the silent treatments

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  • @mosescola4174
    @mosescola4174 Před 11 měsíci

    Bless you sister

  • @glendaroberts8463
    @glendaroberts8463 Před 9 měsíci

    I was in early age 60s when I saw a talk involving a therapist in reference to narcissist and I realized it was not me that was the issue after so many years wondering why my mom couldn't love me. I quit trying to win her over.

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  • @BlueCollarSlave
    @BlueCollarSlave Před 9 měsíci +1

    My ex in a nutshell

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  • @KimmieJ1920
    @KimmieJ1920 Před 8 měsíci

    I have someone who I thought was my friend do this more than once to me. This person is doing the silent treatment right now. I’ve spoke my piece and she still isn’t talking to me so I’ve pretty much wrote her off because I’m not doing this with her.

  • @joywilliams332
    @joywilliams332 Před rokem +1

    OMG!! My sister in law has been doing all of these things for years.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem

      Learn to Go Gray Rock from Dr Ramani video, so you don't react to a Narcissist bcs that's what they want, it's giving them Narcissistic supply, from good or bad reactions, learn to be as interesting as an grey rock ‼️🎯JazzyT.

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      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @user-fq5vp1iz8i
    @user-fq5vp1iz8i Před 8 měsíci

    Definite #BIGFACTS!

  • @pedrohoracioaguilardiaz3288

    If the video short lasted 2 more seconds, it would help understanding and memory. Good work. Thank you.

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  • @ThetruthYuhide
    @ThetruthYuhide Před 5 měsíci

    This is not how I would want my doctor or therapist to behave. Its worse than a 7th grade hand dance on tik tok

  • @babaraemmell828
    @babaraemmell828 Před 6 měsíci

    They can't break me because I have nothing to do with them. I have unblocked we haven't talked in years

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  • @Love_Mel
    @Love_Mel Před 8 měsíci

    Yep he checks all of the boxes ☑️

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  • @tallyhopesetaeuini5595
    @tallyhopesetaeuini5595 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks

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  • @jlovesj3335
    @jlovesj3335 Před 9 měsíci +1

    My mother used to call me diaper butt and i was insecure. I'm a woman now and unfortunately men find my butt very attractive 😅 confused pikachu face

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  • @Tns85
    @Tns85 Před rokem +3

    If narcissistic personality disorder is a clinical diagnosis the person for you think it's a narcissist should probably be diagnosed first before you start assuming that that's who these people are. There should be a disclosure on these videos that say that. Because now you have every woman thinking that their crappy boyfriend is a narcissist out to hurt them

    • @kayellis5575
      @kayellis5575 Před rokem +3

      The NPDs of the world all have the same moves, so diagnosis is not such a feat.

    • @Tns85
      @Tns85 Před rokem +1

      @@kayellis5575 but, we don't know for sure until they're clinically diagnosed.

    • @kayellis5575
      @kayellis5575 Před rokem

      @@Tns85 maybe you don't know for sure but l studied these freaks for almost 20 years. I can smell them by now.

    • @ingwerminze
      @ingwerminze Před rokem +5

      It’s really hard to diagnose a NPD. All the while that most of them won’t see a therapist because they think they are better than that.
      But people all have narcissistic traits. Some more, some less. This kinds of videos help to look through that. You don’t need a diagnosis to see through manipulation.

    • @Tns85
      @Tns85 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@ingwerminze true

  • @GreeneChakra
    @GreeneChakra Před 7 měsíci

    The Silent 🔕 Treatment- is “Emotional Abuse”.

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  • @Ultra_Ultraline_27
    @Ultra_Ultraline_27 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Sounds like my dad

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  • @evelynlopez3353
    @evelynlopez3353 Před 8 měsíci

    Is it just me? I had to watch the video five times to be able to read everything.

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  • @meenakshisingh2890
    @meenakshisingh2890 Před 7 měsíci

    Definitely true

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  • @oldhippie4206
    @oldhippie4206 Před 8 měsíci

    Yep!! Im ok at 51 KnoY!

  • @unicorntusk1185
    @unicorntusk1185 Před 8 měsíci

    I think he’s sleeping with my narc mom whom I’ve had no contact with for over a year now 😅. She’s been calling him at late hours asking for “favors” and he went to go help her out “gas in her car” when he was supposed to be on the way home and he confidently left part out his story until I pressed into why it took so long. He then revealed she calls him sometimes and that she wants to see my kids. She’s the type to try to do that to punish me for not talking to her 😂 wish I was lying. If he is I really could care less, I’ve completely detached emotionally

  • @flybyorb6858
    @flybyorb6858 Před 10 měsíci

    Spot On!

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  • @lionspirit360
    @lionspirit360 Před 6 měsíci

    THEY HOOOOVER

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  • @Ikigai747
    @Ikigai747 Před 8 měsíci

    U so cute, u remind me of my old friend..thanku for this❤

  • @savannahnall2921
    @savannahnall2921 Před 8 měsíci

    Yeap that’s my sister & dad & mom right there for sure

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  • @dianecolumbus477
    @dianecolumbus477 Před rokem +1

    Right on every count 🔨

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  • @13LesTadO13
    @13LesTadO13 Před 7 měsíci

    The fact they exist is a sign they are out to get you

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  • @dee-deeb.2844
    @dee-deeb.2844 Před 10 měsíci

    That twisted low self esteem having thing Chopped off my hair that I was growing back!😮

    • @dee-deeb.2844
      @dee-deeb.2844 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I pray 🙏🏼 I don’t hate this male .

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  • @idid138
    @idid138 Před 4 měsíci

    Sometimes all in one day! 🤷

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  • @notsoshadycharacter397
    @notsoshadycharacter397 Před 8 měsíci

    Usually women.

  • @meralguzey..ph.d538
    @meralguzey..ph.d538 Před rokem

    Thank you...👍😍

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  • @101morgy
    @101morgy Před 9 měsíci

    Ugh- so true, it hurts

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  • @xposa5137
    @xposa5137 Před 7 měsíci

    Also projecting. I heard- you're a narcissist (for wanting a minimal level attention), you don't fulfill my needs, you're the devil, you're passive aggressive...

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  • @susiehutson2693
    @susiehutson2693 Před 10 měsíci

    You are so Dammm right omg !

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  • @vive928
    @vive928 Před rokem

    How to breakup with a narcissist